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I M a Virgin, But I Don't Want to Be

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 216 People

    Not An Invitation... Just Venting.

    Wella wella well-- Being a vigin with a nympho mentality is not exactly ideal. I guess that must sound rather rediculous, how would I know if I've never had sex that I am going to be a nympho? Trust me, I KNOW. Not exactly going to go into detail here, but take my word for it, ok...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    I really want o lose it

    so I can find out what it feels like. But to the right person. Plus I'm 18 and tired of being a virgin
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Let me help you :) i would love to take a nice

    big virgin **** and show you what I can do to you.
    chocolatelpstk chocolatelpstk 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I Know Still In Highschool, But Still..

    I am in High School, yes. But all of my friends arn't virgins. Why am I? When I am having a bad day or something all they say is. "Jeez you need to get laid." Sometimes I feel like I should just become a *****.. I'll admit that. But I tell my self, I'm waiting for the "right" guy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Ok tonight I hooked up with a girl

    that was willing to take my virginity but things got acward and it didn't happen I need some advice please help me
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0 18-21, M 1 Response May 29

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    I desire to know how it feels to be with a

    woman. I am a kissless virgin even at this age (see my age group) because of my shyness, clumsiness, mistakes, personality and due to the place I was born and the way I was raised. I have been waiting patiently to see if I find someone that can have a connection with me, but I...
    PeterPalmer PeterPalmer 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Frustration Love

    I am 21, sophomore in college, and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I have always enjoyed the idea of sex since I was younger, but I never had a chance to indulge myself. My Mother got pregnant when she was 17 with me, and she basically scared me of it. But now...
    pregnantF pregnantF 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    "...Turning someone down

    because they're a virgin is like turning away job applicants who have no experience..." -Anonymous
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea 22-25, M Aug 4

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    Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

    So, I'm 27.....and still a virgin. I never thought I'd be in the position I am now. I've been fairly successful in all other aspects of my life. I graduated college (with honors), served my country in the Army, found a job I love.....but never found a love that I "love" enough to...
    Dil77 Dil77 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Saving Myself

    I am still a virgin and will only lose my virginity to the girl who will be with me for the rest of my life.
    scifinut86 scifinut86 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2011

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    Im In A Sexless Relationship

    i met a girl my freshman year of college, we were both virgins. we started hooking up, we tryed to have sex and realized neither of us were ready, so we waited. we started dating seriously, attempted to have sex several other times but it was very painful for her, and it wasnt...
    animal52 animal52 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    Turning 30

    On June 21st I'll be a 30 year old virgin.
    hornyvirgin83 hornyvirgin83 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Hate Being A Virgin

    Im 17 and live in st.louis,missouri. Im a virgin and i hate it. alot of people say its a good thing but theyve already had sex so they dont understand how it feels. everyday i wake up said and lonely knowing that im a virgin and will always be :'( i try to be the nicest and...
    sagemike sagemike 16-17, M 12 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I Just Wanna Do It

    I believe in Sex after marriage, but boy do i want to do it. It sounds so wonderful. bloody hell...
    mugglemax mugglemax 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Simply...

    I'm not holding on for religious reasons or waiting for some magical moment thing or any other; simply just don't connect well with a lot of people and I'm not willing to have sex with just anyone. Wait, scratch that... I would in certain conditions, but in general, I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7, 2010

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    Just Hasnt Happened

    Where do I begin, well I'm 19, and I'm a virgin!!!! Never had anything to do with lack of opportunity or anything like that, and I really don't have any legitimate excuse for why I am. Buy I do think it might have a lot to do with the fact that I've never really had a real...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I'm A Virgin Does It Suck? Nah.....

    Well i have been reading some of these stories and they suck, in perspective that is. I'm 25 and a a virgin. For different reasons over the years. Started out religious reasons, then moral, now....none lol. So why don't just have sex? Well i want to but as I have read from some...
    captivesoul captivesoul 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    Novemberman Novemberman 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    It Sucks Big Time

    I don't want to be one any longer. Women just don't like me.
    coriquam coriquam 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2010

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    I hate it, it's not that I'm ugly

    and nobody wants to. My deep fear a rejection gets in the way all the time. Any tips?
    1to5in 1to5in 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Lost chance

    Had a weekend away with the fam and finally had a chance to fool around with one of my male friends when he tells me that he is out of state and would not be back to Monday, a little blah he tells me to call him Monday and he would make things happy, so bad for him i have school...
    LadyE21 LadyE21 18-21 Apr 28, 2011

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    Im Blessed To Be A Virgin.

    IM A VIGIN AND I WANT TO STAY A VIRGIN UNTIL I FIND THAT SPEACIAL PERSON, AND GET MARRIED, BECAUSE I WANT THE GIFT OF MAKING LOVE, NOT JUST HAVING SEX.
    leeesh21 leeesh21 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    I'M Bored

    I'm almost 20. and I've had like only one proper girlfriend. (and by proper I mean lasting more than a month), but she lived far away, so we never got intimate with each other, except on Skype. and it sucks because I've never been able to get that sort of connection again or...
    drazzof drazzof 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    I'm Still A Virgin

    I'm a 21 year old virgin, and it's not by choice. I've just never been good at talking to women. I think it come from me being home schooled. I never was able to pick up th art of flirting or anything like that. And I'm horrible at being able to tell if a girl is attracted to me...
    theox theox 22-25, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Embarrassed2

    I get embarrassed that I am still a virgin because my friends will come up to me asking me advice for boys and I have had quite a few boyfriends but never had sex. I'm 17 and that may sound too young for sex but I really don't care. I've made out with a guy but that's about it...
    DyingWhileIntoxicated DyingWhileIntoxicated 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    Intimacy is What I want most from this

    world But what I most fear.
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    You Don't Want To Be A Virgin?

    Okay, I'm not a virgin, I'm married.I found this group and I decided to write in it. Title: I'm a virgin, but I don't want to be.What's wrong being a virgin.  You know, all the one who complains about this...do you know you possess something special?  Don't just give it away...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I Am Virgin

    Hello, I am a 20 year old virgin, just 20 more years and I get my own movie! YAY! But yeah onto some serious business, I had some chances to lose it but I chickened out like I am. I am also not looking for some EASY girl, I am looking for some girl to make some passionate love my...
    nervousaroundgirls nervousaroundgirls 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 11, 2011

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    21-year old red blooded lad,

    and so deeply ashamed to still be a virgin! I want a wife, I want to make bairns with me special lass, but im still just a lonely virgin, I'd give everything I own to have a nice wife and make bairns with her, and strengthening the special bond with sex, im so depressed and...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M May 11

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    Sure I might just be a horny teen

    but what age did you guys loose it?
    madlibb madlibb 16-17, F 6 Responses May 3

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    It'S Going To Happen

    My best guy friend is coming over tomorrow while my mom is at work and we are going to have sex. I'm excited but nervous at the same time. Any tips for before, during or after sex?
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    The Learning Channel Is Looking For A Virgin Over 30 To Share Their Story

    My name is Lindsey and I am outreaching for a series on The Learning Channel that explores love, sex, and intimacy. We are currently looking for a person (or couple) over the age of 30, who is still a virgin and willing to share their story as part of the show. We would love to...
    sirens1 sirens1 26-30, F Jan 25, 2011

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    Miss Never Been Touched

    I'm 17 almost 18 and I'm still a virgin. None of my friends have their virginity anymore. I want to have sex, but I'm nervous and I don't know what to do. I don't even **********. I know this probably sounds weird but I just don't know what to do. Like when it comes to sexual...
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Like the experience states, I live that "straight edge life". I've made out with my boyfriend but things have never gotten further than that. Today at work some coworker girls...
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    I'm 19 and have never done drugs or drank. I don't care about this sort of thing. I'm also a virgin (but from the way I think, some people would assume otherwise, lol), and proud...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 4

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    I've been going on a few dates with this one guy. When I think about kissing him or having sex with him I feel really shy and kind of scared and uncomfortable..... I guess I have...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F Sep 2

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    "I always thought something was wrong with me because it never happened, but now I know it's because I was waiting for you." -Steve Carrell, The 40 Year Old Virgin I hope I get...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    You barely hear me speak and if you try to talk to me, you would make out a small 'Hello..' If you tried hard enough. I really am the opposite online though, text me a 'Hi' and I...
    baconOtaku baconOtaku 13-15, F Sep 17

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    I need to find a girl to take my virginity that lives around me. Any takers?
    GRANTTHEGREAT GRANTTHEGREAT 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I don't think people are educated enough about sex. that causes people to get curious making them experiment and want sex more. there are some people who know a good amount and...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I want to stay one until I get married. First off is I think it's totally cute, and to be honest, I also don't think I can emotionally handle premarital sex, especially if the guy...
    cardigandragon cardigandragon 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm a Virgin, but when im ready , I want to lose it to a guy who knows what he's doing . But I don't want to lose it to just any random guy who can give it to me , I want to lose...
    Haii6130 Haii6130 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 10

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    I am 23 and will be 24 in February. I can't say that I don't want to have sex but I am just not as interested in it as I am finding someone who I connect with to be my first. I...
    jwolf09 jwolf09 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm going to try for all positive things. 1. I enjoy running very much. 2. I ride horses and have 3 very handsome geldings. 3. Writing poetry makes me feel at ease with myself. 4...
    blossomingMe blossomingMe 18-21, F Sep 23

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    I'm not a virgin because I'm waiting. I'm a virgin because I really don't care about sex that much, it's not a big deal...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Jewelgzr Jewelgzr 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I am 19 and a virgin. I don't see a real big deal in losing my virginity, and I just choose not to have sex. I may have had a few female encounters but I really haven't ever done...
    AriosaRuby AriosaRuby 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    I don't know what's up with my generation but losing your virginity , to me atleast, isn't really anything to flaunt. I turn 17 soon and I really don't give a **** that I'm a...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 9

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