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I M a Virgin, But I Don't Want to Be

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 246 People

    It'S Going To Happen

    My best guy friend is coming over tomorrow while my mom is at work and we are going to have sex. I'm excited but nervous at the same time. Any tips for before, during or after sex?
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    I really want o lose it

    so I can find out what it feels like. But to the right person. Plus I'm 18 and tired of being a virgin
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2014

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    Novemberman Novemberman 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2014

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    Embarrassed2

    I get embarrassed that I am still a virgin because my friends will come up to me asking me advice for boys and I have had quite a few boyfriends but never had sex. I'm 17 and that may sound too young for sex but I really don't care. I've made out with a guy but that's about it...
    DyingWhileIntoxicated DyingWhileIntoxicated 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    I'm Still A Virgin

    I'm a 21 year old virgin, and it's not by choice. I've just never been good at talking to women. I think it come from me being home schooled. I never was able to pick up th art of flirting or anything like that. And I'm horrible at being able to tell if a girl is attracted to me...
    theox theox 22-25, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    iamasingleteenager iamasingleteenager 13-15, M Nov 13, 2014

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    Im In A Sexless Relationship

    i met a girl my freshman year of college, we were both virgins. we started hooking up, we tryed to have sex and realized neither of us were ready, so we waited. we started dating seriously, attempted to have sex several other times but it was very painful for her, and it wasnt...
    animal52 animal52 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I'M Bored

    I'm almost 20. and I've had like only one proper girlfriend. (and by proper I mean lasting more than a month), but she lived far away, so we never got intimate with each other, except on Skype. and it sucks because I've never been able to get that sort of connection again or...
    drazzof drazzof 18-21, M Oct 19, 2013

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    You Don't Want To Be A Virgin?

    Okay, I'm not a virgin, I'm married.I found this group and I decided to write in it. Title: I'm a virgin, but I don't want to be.What's wrong being a virgin.  You know, all the one who complains about this...do you know you possess something special?  Don't just give it away...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    21-year old red blooded lad,

    and so deeply ashamed to still be a virgin! I want a wife, I want to make bairns with me special lass, but im still just a lonely virgin, I'd give everything I own to have a nice wife and make bairns with her, and strengthening the special bond with sex, im so depressed and...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M May 11, 2014

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    Just Hasnt Happened

    Where do I begin, well I'm 19, and I'm a virgin!!!! Never had anything to do with lack of opportunity or anything like that, and I really don't have any legitimate excuse for why I am. Buy I do think it might have a lot to do with the fact that I've never really had a real...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Hate Being A Virgin

    Im 17 and live in st.louis,missouri. Im a virgin and i hate it. alot of people say its a good thing but theyve already had sex so they dont understand how it feels. everyday i wake up said and lonely knowing that im a virgin and will always be :'( i try to be the nicest and...
    sagemike sagemike 16-17, M 12 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Im Blessed To Be A Virgin.

    IM A VIGIN AND I WANT TO STAY A VIRGIN UNTIL I FIND THAT SPEACIAL PERSON, AND GET MARRIED, BECAUSE I WANT THE GIFT OF MAKING LOVE, NOT JUST HAVING SEX.
    leeesh21 leeesh21 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    Ok tonight I hooked up with a girl

    that was willing to take my virginity but things got acward and it didn't happen I need some advice please help me
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 29, 2014

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    Lost chance

    Had a weekend away with the fam and finally had a chance to fool around with one of my male friends when he tells me that he is out of state and would not be back to Monday, a little blah he tells me to call him Monday and he would make things happy, so bad for him i have school...
    LadyE21 LadyE21 18-21 Apr 28, 2011

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    It's extremely tough with the pressure of the

    modern society to be a virgin teenage boy and proud. The feelings and emotions I have are difficult to deal with and I want to have an intimate moment with someone very badly
    JacobHerst JacobHerst 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    Simply...

    I'm not holding on for religious reasons or waiting for some magical moment thing or any other; simply just don't connect well with a lot of people and I'm not willing to have sex with just anyone. Wait, scratch that... I would in certain conditions, but in general, I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7, 2010

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    Frustration Love

    I am 21, sophomore in college, and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I have always enjoyed the idea of sex since I was younger, but I never had a chance to indulge myself. My Mother got pregnant when she was 17 with me, and she basically scared me of it. But now...
    pregnantF pregnantF 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    I can't wait to lose my virginity by my husband

    when we r married and I can't wait to give him his first ******* and to taste his liquid for the first time
    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    I desire to know how it feels to be with a

    woman. I am a kissless virgin even at this age (see my age group) because of my shyness, clumsiness, mistakes, personality and due to the place I was born and the way I was raised. I have been waiting patiently to see if I find someone that can have a connection with me, but I...
    PeterPalmer PeterPalmer 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    I Just Wanna Do It

    I believe in Sex after marriage, but boy do i want to do it. It sounds so wonderful. bloody hell...
    mugglemax mugglemax 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Turning 30

    On June 21st I'll be a 30 year old virgin.
    hornyvirgin83 hornyvirgin83 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Joshreese Joshreese 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    My mom was telling me about the story of

    when she found out she was pregnant with me, she was my age I am now and a newlywed. The story should have made me happy but it actually made me incredibly sad. And I will admit, jealous. Jealous of my mom. At my current age, she was married and expecting a baby. Somebody loved...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm A Virgin Does It Suck? Nah.....

    Well i have been reading some of these stories and they suck, in perspective that is. I'm 25 and a a virgin. For different reasons over the years. Started out religious reasons, then moral, now....none lol. So why don't just have sex? Well i want to but as I have read from some...
    captivesoul captivesoul 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    Ugh this speaks for it's self.

    I want to be loved by a guy! Hate being a virgin :/
    sipsmoretea sipsmoretea 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    "...Turning someone down

    because they're a virgin is like turning away job applicants who have no experience..." -Anonymous
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea 22-25, M Aug 4, 2014

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    Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

    So, I'm 27.....and still a virgin. I never thought I'd be in the position I am now. I've been fairly successful in all other aspects of my life. I graduated college (with honors), served my country in the Army, found a job I love.....but never found a love that I "love" enough to...
    Dil77 Dil77 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    For the longest time,

    I've wanted to wait until I was in love or in a relationship to have sex. But I went on a date last week, and now I may have changed my mind. I never thought I would be saying this, but I might want sex first and love later. The date was just okay, and at the end he kissed me...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Miss Never Been Touched

    I'm 17 almost 18 and I'm still a virgin. None of my friends have their virginity anymore. I want to have sex, but I'm nervous and I don't know what to do. I don't even **********. I know this probably sounds weird but I just don't know what to do. Like when it comes to sexual...
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Intimacy is What I want most from this

    world But what I most fear.
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2014

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    Not An Invitation... Just Venting.

    Wella wella well-- Being a vigin with a nympho mentality is not exactly ideal. I guess that must sound rather rediculous, how would I know if I've never had sex that I am going to be a nympho? Trust me, I KNOW. Not exactly going to go into detail here, but take my word for it, ok...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    I dont know what to do.

    I doubt there is anyone out there for me. I feel like i`m missing out on that experience. I feel lonily because of it.
    adamz58 adamz58 31-35, M Nov 25, 2014

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    Let me help you :) i would love to take a nice

    big virgin **** and show you what I can do to you.
    chocolatelpstk chocolatelpstk 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I Know Still In Highschool, But Still..

    I am in High School, yes. But all of my friends arn't virgins. Why am I? When I am having a bad day or something all they say is. "Jeez you need to get laid." Sometimes I feel like I should just become a *****.. I'll admit that. But I tell my self, I'm waiting for the "right" guy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I hate it, it's not that I'm ugly

    and nobody wants to. My deep fear a rejection gets in the way all the time. Any tips?
    1to5in 1to5in 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Jan 14

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    I'm a virgin but I don't really want to use em when I have my 1st time :P
    Eli7563 Eli7563 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Is it bad that I like really want to have a lot of sex but I'm a virgin 😔
    nattielover nattielover 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I honestly want to lose my virginity so badly. I'm ready
    adamlarose adamlarose 16-17, M Jan 12

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    I dont feel like you actually lose something when you have sex.
    jojoisawsome jojoisawsome 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I'm a virgin but don't want to be
    jamesb22 jamesb22 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Don't Want to Be One ...Initially I was planning on waiting until marriage to have sex, but around early to mid-2014 I decided I could no longer wait that long. I turned 23 this...
    MissLynn91 MissLynn91 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 3

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    I'm waiting till marriage. That is a door I don't want to open before marriage. It comes with waaaaaaaaay too many issues, demons and problems. -Not waiting on God to send you...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a virgin but I don't want to be a virgin anymore
    Paul998 Paul998 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I'm still a virgin now, but I think it will not be like that until marriage though, my parents are basically making me stay a virgin until marriage. I don't want that at all...
    ItWasTheLastWeek ItWasTheLastWeek 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    Well I'm 16 and still a virgin. Never even kissed a guy. There are times when I wonder if I'm honestly so ugly that guys don't want to get near me. But I'm still happy that I didn...
    WrittingLetters WrittingLetters 16-17, F 22 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a virgin and I wanna experience my first time but everyone tells me it's gunna only be a **** and duck I don't want that I wanna make live all night and be held and loved and...
    bdsmlover009 bdsmlover009 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate when guys lie to me and tell me that they're a virgin just because I told them I am one. That really doesn't impress me either way. I'm indifferent to the situation. But...
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9