I M a Virgin, But I Don't Want to Be

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 281 People

    Firedancer12345 Firedancer12345
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    Frustration Love

    I am 21, sophomore in college, and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I have always enjoyed the idea of sex since I was younger, but I never had a chance to indulge myself. My Mother got pregnant when she was 17 with me, and she basically scared me of it. But now...
    pregnantF pregnantF
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    Im In A Sexless Relationship

    i met a girl my freshman year of college, we were both virgins. we started hooking up, we tryed to have sex and realized neither of us were ready, so we waited. we started dating seriously, attempted to have sex several other times but it was very painful for her, and it wasnt...
    animal52 animal52
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

    Embarrassed2

    I get embarrassed that I am still a virgin because my friends will come up to me asking me advice for boys and I have had quite a few boyfriends but never had sex. I'm 17 and that may sound too young for sex but I really don't care. I've made out with a guy but that's about it...
    DyingWhileIntoxicated DyingWhileIntoxicated
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 16, 2013

    Hate Being A Virgin

    Im 17 and live in st.louis,missouri. Im a virgin and i hate it. alot of people say its a good thing but theyve already had sex so they dont understand how it feels. everyday i wake up said and lonely knowing that im a virgin and will always be :'( i try to be the nicest and...
    sagemike sagemike
    16-17, M
    12 Responses Jul 25, 2011

    I really want o lose it

    so I can find out what it feels like. But to the right person. Plus I'm 18 and tired of being a virgin
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 24, 2014

    I'm A Virgin Does It Suck? Nah.....

    Well i have been reading some of these stories and they suck, in perspective that is. I'm 25 and a a virgin. For different reasons over the years. Started out religious reasons, then moral, now....none lol. So why don't just have sex? Well i want to but as I have read from some...
    captivesoul captivesoul
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Aug 28, 2010

    Lost chance

    Had a weekend away with the fam and finally had a chance to fool around with one of my male friends when he tells me that he is out of state and would not be back to Monday, a little blah he tells me to call him Monday and he would make things happy, so bad for him i have school...
    LadyE21 LadyE21
    26-30
    Apr 28, 2011

    I've done things with guys,

    but I've never crossed that line. It's getting to the point I'm willing to just let a guy take it. I'm so frustrated with this.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    "...Turning someone down

    because they're a virgin is like turning away job applicants who have no experience..." -Anonymous
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea
    22-25, M
    Aug 4, 2014

    You Don't Want To Be A Virgin?

    Okay, I'm not a virgin, I'm married.I found this group and I decided to write in it. Title: I'm a virgin, but I don't want to be.What's wrong being a virgin.  You know, all the one who complains about this...do you know you possess something special?  Don't just give it away...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    17 Responses Mar 29, 2011

    Ok tonight I hooked up with a girl

    that was willing to take my virginity but things got acward and it didn't happen I need some advice please help me
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0
    18-21, M
    2 Responses May 29, 2014

    Intimacy is What I want most from this

    world But what I most fear.
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 6, 2014

    Simply...

    I'm not holding on for religious reasons or waiting for some magical moment thing or any other; simply just don't connect well with a lot of people and I'm not willing to have sex with just anyone. Wait, scratch that... I would in certain conditions, but in general, I want to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 7, 2010
    Novemberman Novemberman
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    Miss Never Been Touched

    I'm 17 almost 18 and I'm still a virgin. None of my friends have their virginity anymore. I want to have sex, but I'm nervous and I don't know what to do. I don't even **********. I know this probably sounds weird but I just don't know what to do. Like when it comes to sexual...
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    I desire to know how it feels to be with a

    woman. I am a kissless virgin even at this age (see my age group) because of my shyness, clumsiness, mistakes, personality and due to the place I was born and the way I was raised. I have been waiting patiently to see if I find someone that can have a connection with me, but I...
    PeterPalmer PeterPalmer
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

    Turning 30

    On June 21st I'll be a 30 year old virgin.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

    It'S Going To Happen

    My best guy friend is coming over tomorrow while my mom is at work and we are going to have sex. I'm excited but nervous at the same time. Any tips for before, during or after sex?
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 10, 2013
    Joshreese Joshreese
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    21-year old red blooded lad,

    and so deeply ashamed to still be a virgin! I want a wife, I want to make bairns with me special lass, but im still just a lonely virgin, I'd give everything I own to have a nice wife and make bairns with her, and strengthening the special bond with sex, im so depressed and...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101
    22-25, M
    May 11, 2014

    I hate it, it's not that I'm ugly

    and nobody wants to. My deep fear a rejection gets in the way all the time. Any tips?
    1to5in 1to5in
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    I can't wait to lose my virginity by my husband

    when we r married and I can't wait to give him his first ******* and to taste his liquid for the first time
    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992
    22-25, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    I'M Bored

    I'm almost 20. and I've had like only one proper girlfriend. (and by proper I mean lasting more than a month), but she lived far away, so we never got intimate with each other, except on Skype. and it sucks because I've never been able to get that sort of connection again or...
    drazzof drazzof
    22-25, M
    Oct 19, 2013

    It's extremely tough with the pressure of the

    modern society to be a virgin teenage boy and proud. The feelings and emotions I have are difficult to deal with and I want to have an intimate moment with someone very badly
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    Not An Invitation... Just Venting.

    Wella wella well-- Being a vigin with a nympho mentality is not exactly ideal. I guess that must sound rather rediculous, how would I know if I've never had sex that I am going to be a nympho? Trust me, I KNOW. Not exactly going to go into detail here, but take my word for it, ok...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Jan 31, 2010

    Let me help you :) i would love to take a nice

    big virgin **** and show you what I can do to you.
    chocolatelpstk chocolatelpstk
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Dec 5, 2013

    Ugh this speaks for it's self.

    I want to be loved by a guy! Hate being a virgin :/
    sipsmoretea sipsmoretea
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

    I Just Wanna Do It

    I believe in Sex after marriage, but boy do i want to do it. It sounds so wonderful. bloody hell...
    mugglemax mugglemax
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 7, 2013
    iamasingleteenager iamasingleteenager
    16-17, M
    Nov 13, 2014

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    strangesexcasting strangesexcasting
    36-40
    Jul 6, 2011

    I'm Still A Virgin

    I'm a 21 year old virgin, and it's not by choice. I've just never been good at talking to women. I think it come from me being home schooled. I never was able to pick up th art of flirting or anything like that. And I'm horrible at being able to tell if a girl is attracted to me...
    theox theox
    22-25, M
    8 Responses Mar 6, 2010

    Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

    So, I'm 27.....and still a virgin. I never thought I'd be in the position I am now. I've been fairly successful in all other aspects of my life. I graduated college (with honors), served my country in the Army, found a job I love.....but never found a love that I "love" enough to...
    Dil77 Dil77
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

    I Know Still In Highschool, But Still..

    I am in High School, yes. But all of my friends arn't virgins. Why am I? When I am having a bad day or something all they say is. "Jeez you need to get laid." Sometimes I feel like I should just become a *****.. I'll admit that. But I tell my self, I'm waiting for the "right" guy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    Im embarrassed to say I'm just turned 33

    and still a virgin. I get nervous when talking to the fairer sex. Does anyone have any advice on how i can be more confident talking to females and losing my virginity.
    pcatch1 pcatch1
    31-35, M
    Sep 18, 2015

    Just Hasnt Happened

    Where do I begin, well I'm 19, and I'm a virgin!!!! Never had anything to do with lack of opportunity or anything like that, and I really don't have any legitimate excuse for why I am. Buy I do think it might have a lot to do with the fact that I've never really had a real...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jan 28, 2013
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