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I M a Virgin, But I Don't Want to Be

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 291 People

    I want my first time to be with someone special,

    on the other hand I get h0rny and just want to have sex with whoever. It's hard.
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Frustration Love

    I am 21, sophomore in college, and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I have always enjoyed the idea of sex since I was younger, but I never had a chance to indulge myself. My Mother got pregnant when she was 17 with me, and she basically scared me of it. But now...
    pregnantF pregnantF 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Turning 30

    On June 21st I'll be a 30 year old virgin.
    PeterParker1983 PeterParker1983 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    I can't wait to lose my virginity by my husband

    when we r married and I can't wait to give him his first ******* and to taste his liquid for the first time
    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992 22-25, F Dec 7, 2014

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    Novemberman Novemberman 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2014

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    I hate it, it's not that I'm ugly

    and nobody wants to. My deep fear a rejection gets in the way all the time. Any tips?
    1to5in 1to5in 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    I Know Still In Highschool, But Still..

    I am in High School, yes. But all of my friends arn't virgins. Why am I? When I am having a bad day or something all they say is. "Jeez you need to get laid." Sometimes I feel like I should just become a *****.. I'll admit that. But I tell my self, I'm waiting for the "right" guy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    "...Turning someone down

    because they're a virgin is like turning away job applicants who have no experience..." -Anonymous
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea 22-25, M Aug 4, 2014

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    I really want o lose it

    so I can find out what it feels like. But to the right person. Plus I'm 18 and tired of being a virgin
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2014

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    Miss Never Been Touched

    I'm 17 almost 18 and I'm still a virgin. None of my friends have their virginity anymore. I want to have sex, but I'm nervous and I don't know what to do. I don't even **********. I know this probably sounds weird but I just don't know what to do. Like when it comes to sexual...
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

    So, I'm 27.....and still a virgin. I never thought I'd be in the position I am now. I've been fairly successful in all other aspects of my life. I graduated college (with honors), served my country in the Army, found a job I love.....but never found a love that I "love" enough to...
    Dil77 Dil77 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Let me help you :) i would love to take a nice

    big virgin **** and show you what I can do to you.
    chocolatelpstk chocolatelpstk 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I Just Wanna Do It

    I believe in Sex after marriage, but boy do i want to do it. It sounds so wonderful. bloody hell...
    mugglemax mugglemax 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    I'm Still A Virgin

    I'm a 21 year old virgin, and it's not by choice. I've just never been good at talking to women. I think it come from me being home schooled. I never was able to pick up th art of flirting or anything like that. And I'm horrible at being able to tell if a girl is attracted to me...
    theox theox 22-25, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Ok tonight I hooked up with a girl

    that was willing to take my virginity but things got acward and it didn't happen I need some advice please help me
    Farmboy0 Farmboy0 18-21, M 2 Responses May 29, 2014

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    Im embarrassed to say I'm just turned 33

    and still a virgin. I get nervous when talking to the fairer sex. Does anyone have any advice on how i can be more confident talking to females and losing my virginity.
    pcatch1 pcatch1 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2015

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    Simply...

    I'm not holding on for religious reasons or waiting for some magical moment thing or any other; simply just don't connect well with a lot of people and I'm not willing to have sex with just anyone. Wait, scratch that... I would in certain conditions, but in general, I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7, 2010

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    Joshreese Joshreese 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

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    Intimacy is What I want most from this

    world But what I most fear.
    MichaelBayArea MichaelBayArea 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2014

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    You Don't Want To Be A Virgin?

    Okay, I'm not a virgin, I'm married.I found this group and I decided to write in it. Title: I'm a virgin, but I don't want to be.What's wrong being a virgin.  You know, all the one who complains about this...do you know you possess something special?  Don't just give it away...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    iamasingleteenager iamasingleteenager 16-17, M Nov 13, 2014

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    I've done things with guys,

    but I've never crossed that line. It's getting to the point I'm willing to just let a guy take it. I'm so frustrated with this.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

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    Ugh this speaks for it's self.

    I want to be loved by a guy! Hate being a virgin :/
    sipsmoretea sipsmoretea 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    My mom was telling me about the story of

    when she found out she was pregnant with me, she was my age I am now and a newlywed. The story should have made me happy but it actually made me incredibly sad. And I will admit, jealous. Jealous of my mom. At my current age, she was married and expecting a baby. Somebody loved...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25, 2015

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    Hate Being A Virgin

    Im 17 and live in st.louis,missouri. Im a virgin and i hate it. alot of people say its a good thing but theyve already had sex so they dont understand how it feels. everyday i wake up said and lonely knowing that im a virgin and will always be :'( i try to be the nicest and...
    sagemike sagemike 16-17, M 12 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I desire to know how it feels to be with a

    woman. I am a kissless virgin even at this age (see my age group) because of my shyness, clumsiness, mistakes, personality and due to the place I was born and the way I was raised. I have been waiting patiently to see if I find someone that can have a connection with me, but I...
    PeterPalmer PeterPalmer 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    I'm A Virgin Does It Suck? Nah.....

    Well i have been reading some of these stories and they suck, in perspective that is. I'm 25 and a a virgin. For different reasons over the years. Started out religious reasons, then moral, now....none lol. So why don't just have sex? Well i want to but as I have read from some...
    captivesoul captivesoul 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    Embarrassed2

    I get embarrassed that I am still a virgin because my friends will come up to me asking me advice for boys and I have had quite a few boyfriends but never had sex. I'm 17 and that may sound too young for sex but I really don't care. I've made out with a guy but that's about it...
    DyingWhileIntoxicated DyingWhileIntoxicated 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    It's extremely tough with the pressure of the

    modern society to be a virgin teenage boy and proud. The feelings and emotions I have are difficult to deal with and I want to have an intimate moment with someone very badly
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    For the longest time,

    I've wanted to wait until I was in love or in a relationship to have sex. But I went on a date last week, and now I may have changed my mind. I never thought I would be saying this, but I might want sex first and love later. The date was just okay, and at the end he kissed me...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2015

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    It'S Going To Happen

    My best guy friend is coming over tomorrow while my mom is at work and we are going to have sex. I'm excited but nervous at the same time. Any tips for before, during or after sex?
    browneyedshadow browneyedshadow 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Not An Invitation... Just Venting.

    Wella wella well-- Being a vigin with a nympho mentality is not exactly ideal. I guess that must sound rather rediculous, how would I know if I've never had sex that I am going to be a nympho? Trust me, I KNOW. Not exactly going to go into detail here, but take my word for it, ok...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Just Hasnt Happened

    Where do I begin, well I'm 19, and I'm a virgin!!!! Never had anything to do with lack of opportunity or anything like that, and I really don't have any legitimate excuse for why I am. Buy I do think it might have a lot to do with the fact that I've never really had a real...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    21-year old red blooded lad,

    and so deeply ashamed to still be a virgin! I want a wife, I want to make bairns with me special lass, but im still just a lonely virgin, I'd give everything I own to have a nice wife and make bairns with her, and strengthening the special bond with sex, im so depressed and...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 22-25, M 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    Firedancer12345 Firedancer12345 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    I'M Bored

    I'm almost 20. and I've had like only one proper girlfriend. (and by proper I mean lasting more than a month), but she lived far away, so we never got intimate with each other, except on Skype. and it sucks because I've never been able to get that sort of connection again or...
    drazzof drazzof 22-25, M Oct 19, 2013

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    I'm a virgin so of course I don't have a sexually transmitted disease
    LonelyGuy450 LonelyGuy450 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I used to be bullied for my quietness, the way I looked, my weight, and my hair. I've been picked on for being an "oreo", for being a virgin, for not having as much stuff as others...
    itsonlynatural99 itsonlynatural99 16-17, F 14 hrs ago

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    Seven counts of Rape charges and the accused was acquitted. The defense was able to prove that it was consensual. The only reason why the complainant filed the cases is because...
    mareliberum mareliberum 26-30 19 hrs ago

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    I was raped last Friday night it all started when me and my twin sister wanted to go to the beach that is like 3 blocks away and was dark out and we were begging my mom because the...
    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies 13-15, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    well...basically i have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 months ish and a couple weeks ago we said i love you for the first time . know one has ever said that to me so I've never...
    leopard25080303 leopard25080303 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I really am.32 years old,leeching of my 56 year old mom and my 25 year old brother.I don't actually spend my either,I don't go out,I don't smoke/drink,I don't own a car...Never...
    GenuineLoser GenuineLoser 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    Why is it such a bad thing to not be a virgin when you're a bit younger? As long as it's done for reasons you and your partner (for both straight and lgbt/whatever-all-the-letters...
    Fyredrak3 Fyredrak3 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I'm just kind of curious about something. let's say I had sex when I was 8 and besides for that one time, never had sex again. Don't remember to much, don't even know what...
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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