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I 'm Afraid That I'll Be Single Forever

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    This pretty much is my greatest fear..haha! The truth is I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe because when I was a kid, most of our neighbors were boys and so I was a bit of a tomboy...
    versusapathy versusapathy 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 24

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    Hurt From The Pain With In - my soul is lost along the road i travel i know where iam going i know what i have to do but she crushed my heart she tore my apart she left those...
    PhazonMario PhazonMario 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I have real trouble finding anyone to even date, never mind relationship. And I'm socially inept which doesn't help.
    Abilohman Abilohman 26-30 1 Response Jan 29

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    gtg5 gtg5 16-17, F Sep 17, 2013

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    About Me - I dont write about this or tell people but just felt like it tonight.. i was engaged and in what i thought was the most meaningful and real relationship of my life. I...
    max2012 max2012 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    If another woman ever comes into my life, I hope I will be open with my feelings, I hope to take chances, I hope I do get another chance. Apparently there are plenty of fish in the...
    ninerzoon ninerzoon 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    I mean, on the one hand, there is a sense of freedom that comes from being single, and I do it enjoy. Yet on the other hand, I also want to meet that special someone, take her out...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I get attached to easily and I think this is what might secure the fact that I'll be single forever. It's almost like whenever I become friends with a girl that I find attractive I...
    Dez31 Dez31 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

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    im afraid that i will be single forever because i dont have a girlfriend i dont know why girls hate me so much,no girl looks at me i want to know why,few girls say that they dont...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Must Be Something Wrong With Me. - Oh man! I'm about to have a birthday and as I think about my friends and family, I can't think of one that is single - not at my age (36). I don...
    polymathuk polymathuk 36-40 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    So I'm sitting in my bed browsing experience project and listening to one of my favorite songs "Lonely hearts club" by Marina and the diamonds, and the more I listen to it the more...
    LoveIsInTheBlood LoveIsInTheBlood 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    A Broken And Still Aching Heart - Im posting this here cause I dont know where else to turn. Two years ago I met a wonderful girl, we had so much in common we would always just sit...
    Shadefang Shadefang 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    To be honest... Single forever... Yes I shall be. All my family does is pester me about getting a boyfriend, but to be honest no one likes me... Well likes me enough to want me to...
    hannahisawesome hannahisawesome 16-17, F Feb 23

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    Everytime - Every time I play online with my cousin he always asks bout my relationship status or whatever. I tell him no. But inside, when I say no, I die a little.
    TylerIsDragonborn TylerIsDragonborn 13-15, M Nov 14, 2013

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    I'm Afraid Of Never Being Alone. - Oh yes -charles bukowski there are worse things than being alone but it often takes decades to realize this and most often when you do it's too...
    feistypepper feistypepper 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    Sadness,loneliness,disappointment.That's what I feel right now regarding this so called "love"..romantic one at least..I guess I'm,hate saying this but yes,a moron when it comes to...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I'm damaged goods, I know that sounds weird, I'm only 18, but I'm damaged goods. Today I grabbed my mum's arm, quite hard... I didn't mean to but she touched my leg, I wasn't...
    LadySweetz LadySweetz 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    I don't want to be but because I fear dating or getting into situations where I have to mingle with new people such as parties etc I don't think I'll find someone how can I calm...
    lawrencepa lawrencepa 22-25, M Feb 23

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    My great grandmas single. My grandmas single. My moms single. I'm doomed to repeat history. I think I'm going to get "forever alone" tatted across my forehead so everyone can know...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Unloveable - I had a few dates but they always end the same. Them telling me I'm not their type or they just don't wanna be with me. I had two girlfriends in all my eighteen years...
    KellyBellyJelly KellyBellyJelly 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Getting To That Point Where I Just Want Someone For Me... - I'm single and I've always been single. Now that's totally not out of choice as such although I am shy and the only...
    ladybirdspots ladybirdspots 26-30, F Oct 3, 2013

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    I'm not afraid, but I know that once I die of either natural or unnatural causes that I'll be at peace with it lol.
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    Which I shouldn't be. I've been told I am fairly attractive. With that said, I don't look like a model. I live in a very shallow city. If you aren't supermodel in shape, and...
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    Im afraid that i will never attract 'the one'
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    I'm 20 years old and have never been in a relationship. I've "talked" to one guy before and it didn't go as I would have hoped. As I get older I'm afraid that something is wrong...
    PenandMind PenandMind 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My wife and I met on this site (www.blackwhitepeople.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M Apr 10

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    I've never had a girlfriend before, I've never kissed a girl, I've never even been out on a date. I feel like no attractive girl will ever want to date me.
    Akakios1 Akakios1 13-15, M 19 Responses Apr 4

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    I am nineteen, I have never had sex or even been fingered. I just want a boyfriend but no one wants me. I lie to everyone telling them all these made up people that I've had sex...
    Beautybeu123 Beautybeu123 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Stuck in my own private hell. I wish someone that probably doesn't even exist was mine. Someone sent from above. All I got is love. I lock myself in my castle away from the pain...
    Nessy7787 Nessy7787 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I am afraid that I'll end up alone. I have loved and been loved. But sometimes love just isn't enough. Not when you push that person away... When you push them away so much that...
    maraselene maraselene 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm afraid I'll be alone because I mess up any opportunities I've managed to get. Being shy and not very attractive didn't help me in school. I never had a date until I was 21 and...
    itssmee itssmee 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    I am somewhat afraid I will end up alone because I know that when I get bored in relationships I get bored and there is usually no going back...until I've alone for a few months...
    windynight54321 windynight54321 31-35, M Apr 4

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    To those of you who have a significant other,someone to share your life with and to come home to...you are so blessed. For those who wish they were single, let me give you a short...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I've been pushing away. I do like some guys, but when they actually take on the urge to ask me out. I get scared, afraid. So i reject them on the spot regardless if i hurt them or...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I don't fit in anywhere, but here I felt accepted. In real life I'm the type that judges myself a lot and all because I can't accept the person I am. So as a result I crave for...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I am afraid that I'll end up alone. That I will be one of those people, that are eventually living alone, and I disappear, and than weeks later they find my dead body rotting away...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I think it's probably a silly, pointless fear, but I still fear it. I think I'm more afraid that I'll find someone to really love me and then they'll stop loving me.
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I'm no longer afraid. I'm sad. Because I now know that I will end up alone. I push people away. I don't let them in. I'm scared to get hurt so push them away and I alienate those...
    Munchycaterpillar Munchycaterpillar 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I am an attractive person and honestly guys do like me but the kind of guys I want don't seem to stick around. I'm afraid I will have to settle for a guy that really loves and...
    mimileelee mimileelee 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    So yet again this point in time has come... I went into it all open minded .i took things slow. tried to know my own mind before I made any irreversible decisions, ,and yet still I...
    Jadelicious Jadelicious 26-30, F Apr 1

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    My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half now and i love him more than anything. we have been talking about our future a lot lately. I am very excited for...
    mshibby mshibby 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'll bored again at 5 in the morning :D so ask me some questions please. (Any kind)
    JoL24 JoL24 13-15, M Mar 20

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    Ask me anything, however im not saying i'll answer everything.
    Jon2Bon Jon2Bon 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Ask me stuff, I'll answer anything :)
    omgitzbre77 omgitzbre77 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Ask me stuff and I'll answer truthfully!!
    discoveringisabel discoveringisabel 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm very bored. I'll answer any questions
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'll answer anything, i'm bored so message me!
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So my ex wants to get together,cuz she says luvs me wants to be together,were talking abt the moved she did & on on she goes abt all about she wants,all I said I need some of my...
    torres54 torres54 51-55, F Mar 22

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    I think you won't get this... but I miss your smile. Even though I've never seen it in person, I'll miss it. I think you won't hear this... but I miss your voice. Every time I...