Post

I 'm Afraid That I'll Be Single Forever

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,063 People

    This is my biggest fear.

    I cant shake this feeling that sadly this is true. All I want is a nice, sweet girl who likes me for me, and shares at least one common interest. But it seems like I'll never find her.
    stormofarrows stormofarrows 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm nerdy at school, wimpy at karate,

    antisocial at home, I'm chubby and can't lose the weight, I'm good at computers and I'm gay. I don't know anyone else that is gay (that I have physically seen, not online) and I like younger boys (<15). This is why I think I will be single forever. I really couldn't care less...
    minimuscle minimuscle 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm afraid that i'll not find the right person

    for me! I'm too ugly and i have so many flaws to find someone who can love me !
    mael95 mael95 18-21, F 41 Responses Jun 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lol. Lmao. Yep.

    True. Too oversexed. Too bisexual. Too ethical. Too intense. And allergic to cities. How to cope. Lmao.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If another woman ever comes into my life,

    I hope I will be open with my feelings, I hope to take chances, I hope I do get another chance. Apparently there are plenty of fish in the sea, except I feel like I am in the middle of a ginormus desert with a few mirages that just disappear when I get close. Even online dating...
    ninerzoon ninerzoon 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's really depressing

    for me. I remember I always wanted to be a guy when I was younger. I like guys a lot, and would love a guy friend, but no one is interested. Plus, even if someone was interested in being more than just friends, I'm forbidden from dating. I understand my parents reasoning behind...
    TorissaNikole TorissaNikole 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i guess am habituated to be single feel love

    isn't made for me yet i feel i need some one special and when i dont get some one special am afraid that i will be single forever
    meninwomen meninwomen 22-25, M 3 Responses May 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Every few years or so, I wind up randomly meeting a guy that I really like. I get hopeful that they're interested in me too. But it always turns out that they aren't. It's heartbreaking every time. Is it possible for a guy I really like to feel the same about me, or do I have...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm damaged goods, I know

    that sounds weird, I'm only 18, but I'm damaged goods. Today I grabbed my mum's arm, quite hard... I didn't mean to but she touched my leg, I wasn't expecting it so I reacted. I was with a girl in a club a couple of weeks ago, and we were having a good time, but she stroked my...
    LadySweetz LadySweetz 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well I couldn't pick the right experience thing

    so whatever. Anyways, I'm looking for a female bisexual friend that's 13 or maybe 14 just to talk to:) and I'm a girl also!
    houseofwolves13 houseofwolves13 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To be honest... Single forever.

    .. Yes I shall be. All my family does is pester me about getting a boyfriend, but to be honest no one likes me... Well likes me enough to want me to be there girlfriend, I'll be the first to admit that I'm shy... I know it, but over the past 2 years or so I am more confidant... I...
    hannahisawesome hannahisawesome 16-17, F Feb 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've been single for

    as long as I've lived. Everytime I meet a new girl I keep thinking that she could be the one. I end up in disappointment all the time. I would never have the courage to approach a girl to ask her out or get her number as I'm pretty shy. I'm currently working and the females in...
    jullunety jullunety 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes I am afraid

    that I will never find that person. Sometimes I fear my requirements are to high.
    fireyes fireyes 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its not that i cant find a guy.

    Its just that im extremely picky! And to make it worse, i'm actually in love with someone, so im basically off limits lol. But this guy does not want a relationship! -_-
    kyradani kyradani 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was thinking about this today

    while I was at work today. I'm sure that it will happen again, eventually, but I have no prospects and I have such a low self esteem that it could be a while. That sucks.
    purposebuilt purposebuilt 22-25, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My friends always joke

    that I have really high standards, and I believe them to an extent. Although, I'd rather have high standards and find someone perfect for me than to settle for an unhappy relationship. If you never try you'll never know.
    Liamm194 Liamm194 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just seen my ex...ugh

    so many memories..);
    halfofmex halfofmex 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And My Friends Tease Me About It

    Often they say they can't picture me with someone. Or that I am not the type to be flirty or emotionally attached. Or that maybe I am a lesbian (which I am not). Now I think they're the ones who makes me feel afraid
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm afraid it won't work.

    I'm in love with this one girl. I truly love her. She's everything. But, she wants to be a vet. I'd be okay with it except how she wants to become one. I'm in the army. I leave for basic this monday. So already i can't meet her in person for 4 years. She's still has 2 years of...
    white701 white701 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    im afraid that i will be single forever

    because i dont have a girlfriend i dont know why girls hate me so much,no girl looks at me i want to know why,few girls say that they dont care even if there boyfriend is ugly then why dont they love me why dont they choose me as there boyfriend,i know they wont because im ugly...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Guys don't like girls

    who are ugly or fat or awkward or shy or geeky or constantly anxious or depressed, and they definitely dislike the ones who always read or write or obsess over fandoms. Also I've been told scars are not attractive. All in all, I'm pretty hopeless.
    ALittleLess15 ALittleLess15 16-17, F 6 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't have fear. I have urgency.

    I am open to any age, so long as you're legal. I hate being single.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My great grandmas single.

    My grandmas single. My moms single. I'm doomed to repeat history. I think I'm going to get "forever alone" tatted across my forehead so everyone can know.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    yes im alone n lonley i guess it will always be

    that way till some one from my area comes and finds me n wants me stil at least i have my video games n movies n weed
    keeleysupremeawesumness keeleysupremeawesumness 26-30, M Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Afraid Of Never Being Alone.

    Oh yes -charles bukowski there are worse things than being alone but it often takes decades to realize this and most often when you do it's too late and there's nothing worse than too late. a poem that sums up what I am feeling right now.
    feistypepper feistypepper 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The only guys Ive been meeting lately are the

    ones who just want sex, I wish this would stop happening.
    kaco00389 kaco00389 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I get attached to easily

    and I think this is what might secure the fact that I'll be single forever. It's almost like whenever I become friends with a girl that I find attractive I try to make them out to be morally perfect and problem free. I get upset internally when she isn't morally perfect and...
    Dez31 Dez31 18-21, M 6 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have real trouble finding anyone to

    even date, never mind relationship. And I'm socially inept which doesn't help.
    Abilohman Abilohman 26-30 1 Response Jan 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's not you it's me ?

    Well it is I can't seem to open up emotionally and of the few relationships I had they always seem the most hurt. Also I respect that it's not always easy for men to approach a girl but I don't bite either. I'm skeptical is what my relationship status should say :/
    MSCris MSCris 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sadness,loneliness,disappointment.

    That's what I feel right now regarding this so called "love"..romantic one at least..I guess I'm,hate saying this but yes,a moron when it comes to love..I go for people that are unavailable,not in the sense that their in a relationship with someone,because I never go for someone...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So... I have been thinking about asking a

    friend help, i want him to help me to get a date... I find it a little (a lot) embarrassing but i will birth 17 in one month, the next year i'll go to college. I really need that experience and go from there. But i don't know how to ask for his help ._. What would be a nice and...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Me find a relationship,

    I can't even find a friend that I actually meet in person. So I have no chance of a relationship unless you class my interaction with PC as one :)
    SAandME SAandME 46-50, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I mean, on the one hand,

    there is a sense of freedom that comes from being single, and I do it enjoy. Yet on the other hand, I also want to meet that special someone, take her out to dinner and a movie, experience that first kiss, and tell her I love her and hear her say she loves me too. I've never...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This pretty much is my greatest fear.

    .haha! The truth is I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe because when I was a kid, most of our neighbors were boys and so I was a bit of a tomboy back then. When I hit puberty, I became shy and a little withdrawn. The only friends I had were from school and I wasn't allowed to go...
    versusapathy versusapathy 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When im on school, im always alone.

    .. nobody wanna talk with me and the thing who hurts me is that no girls like me... nobody understand that im really a kind guy, really nice and cool... but depsite that everyone ignores me and girls too... I think ill die single :(
    mariostyle mariostyle 18-21, M 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Already put on a bet with my mum

    that I won't get married, bet £500 pound and I'm pretty sure I'll win. Literally starting to think until I loose ALL of my weight and have nice hair and all this crap that no guy will even look at me.. God I feel ugly. Only boyfriend I've had has been online and we dated for 7...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You know the movie notebook?

    The vow? The ugly truth? Etc I'm sure you do I don't know why but those movies just make me feel so alone like why can't I find a man like that? Is he out there? Does he even exist?! I'm a hopeless romantic and wear my heart on my sleeve and would do everything for anyone I love...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ive been single for what feels like forever

    and I just want a girl who will love me no mater what. But Im worried that Ill never find her and Ill be single forever.
    stormofarrows stormofarrows 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    About Me

    I dont write about this or tell people but just felt like it tonight.. i was engaged and in what i thought was the most meaningful and real relationship of my life. I was in deep with it. Gave her everything my inner thoughts and secrets, the little things i love about the world...
    max2012 max2012 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So I'm sitting in my bed browsing experience

    project and listening to one of my favorite songs "Lonely hearts club" by Marina and the diamonds, and the more I listen to it the more I think about how lonely I am and how I feel like I'm going to be alone and single forever. What's worse is I have the song on repeat and I don...
    LoveIsInTheBlood LoveIsInTheBlood 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Been single for the past 5 1/2 years and i've come to the conclusion that i'll be single forever.
    evas1228 evas1228 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    single steve... thats my nickname. **** all of you :l
    xColdxWorldx xColdxWorldx 22-25, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've made a lot of great strides this past two to two and a half years or so, but I'm still super single. I still have yet to meet someone that I can talk to and click with and can...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had two failed marriages and now I can't get close to anyone. Can't trust, can't love. Inside I feel so sad and alone
    watjusthappened watjusthappened 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyday I wonder if I will ever find a girl that will like me I have been set up with 3 different girls by close friends and friend zoned by all of them after the last one I guess...
    bambam45 bambam45 22-25, M Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting experience for young men nowadays. It can also get quite intimidating if you are not fully prepared for whatever it is that lies ahead...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 46-50, F Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyone wants to be with the love of their life right. But unfortunately, they are very hard to find. :(
    kiminion14 kiminion14 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Going to sleep alone and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If That's What It Takes"You're the bravest of hearts, you're the strongest of soulsYou're my light in the dark, you're the place I call homeYou can say it's all right, but I know...
    heavensmissinanangel heavensmissinanangel 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    cuz i don't have feelings!! i can't feel love and i can't even cry but i cry when i'm extremely hurt by someone!! i'm just afraid that i'll always be single... even if i would...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm alone and bored. I can never be with a guy and that's life. I feel empty and hopeless. When I see couples fight then I realize I'm better off single. I had a horrible marriage...
    Tikhreed Tikhreed 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel