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I 'm Afraid That I'll Be Single Forever

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    Well I couldn't pick the right experience thing

    so whatever. Anyways, I'm looking for a female bisexual friend that's 13 or maybe 14 just to talk to:) and I'm a girl also!
    houseofwolves13 houseofwolves13 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I just seen my ex...ugh

    so many memories..);
    halfofmex halfofmex 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    And My Friends Tease Me About It

    Often they say they can't picture me with someone. Or that I am not the type to be flirty or emotionally attached. Or that maybe I am a lesbian (which I am not). Now I think they're the ones who makes me feel afraid
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    This is my biggest fear.

    I cant shake this feeling that sadly this is true. All I want is a nice, sweet girl who likes me for me, and shares at least one common interest. But it seems like I'll never find her.
    stormofarrows stormofarrows 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Not me I will be single

    for ever less b s and pain that way
    KINGofclowns KINGofclowns 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    Maybe not forever but I have no urge to commit.

    ..at all. That kinda worries me. :-|
    PricelessLegacy PricelessLegacy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    well i guess this will be me to all the good

    ones are taken or are so beat down by past jerks they want no part of a good heart =(
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm not afraid anymore.

    I have just accepted it and now I'm moving on and focusing on my fishing. Caught that Saturday.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    I know I'm only 13 but I can't help

    but worry that no one will ever love me that way. I'm just not special enough
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 18

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    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 3

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    Sadness,loneliness,disappointment.

    That's what I feel right now regarding this so called "love"..romantic one at least..I guess I'm,hate saying this but yes,a moron when it comes to love..I go for people that are unavailable,not in the sense that their in a relationship with someone,because I never go for someone...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    It's not you it's me ?

    Well it is I can't seem to open up emotionally and of the few relationships I had they always seem the most hurt. Also I respect that it's not always easy for men to approach a girl but I don't bite either. I'm skeptical is what my relationship status should say :/
    MSCris MSCris 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I mean, on the one hand,

    there is a sense of freedom that comes from being single, and I do it enjoy. Yet on the other hand, I also want to meet that special someone, take her out to dinner and a movie, experience that first kiss, and tell her I love her and hear her say she loves me too. I've never...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Feb 14

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    I am young, but I still feel like I lack the

    intrigue and individuality for a girl (or even a guy) to ever like me. Everyone has either rejected me or lost touch. The future just seems lonely. Hell, I've always been lonely.
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate break-ups.....

    he hurt me.
    telullabelle telullabelle 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I get attached to easily

    and I think this is what might secure the fact that I'll be single forever. It's almost like whenever I become friends with a girl that I find attractive I try to make them out to be morally perfect and problem free. I get upset internally when she isn't morally perfect and...
    Dez31 Dez31 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

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    It's really depressing

    for me. I remember I always wanted to be a guy when I was younger. I like guys a lot, and would love a guy friend, but no one is interested. Plus, even if someone was interested in being more than just friends, I'm forbidden from dating. I understand my parents reasoning behind...
    TorissaNikole TorissaNikole 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    So... I have been thinking about asking a

    friend help, i want him to help me to get a date... I find it a little (a lot) embarrassing but i will birth 17 in one month, the next year i'll go to college. I really need that experience and go from there. But i don't know how to ask for his help ._. What would be a nice and...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    So I'm sitting in my bed browsing experience

    project and listening to one of my favorite songs "Lonely hearts club" by Marina and the diamonds, and the more I listen to it the more I think about how lonely I am and how I feel like I'm going to be alone and single forever. What's worse is I have the song on repeat and I don...
    LoveIsInTheBlood LoveIsInTheBlood 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I guess I carry baggage from being

    so decidedly abused by my church and my parents during the last nineteen years. It continues, in how they control my life. At times I really do feel worthless.
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    My friends always joke

    that I have really high standards, and I believe them to an extent. Although, I'd rather have high standards and find someone perfect for me than to settle for an unhappy relationship. If you never try you'll never know.
    Liamm194 Liamm194 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    Me find a relationship,

    I can't even find a friend that I actually meet in person. So I have no chance of a relationship unless you class my interaction with PC as one :)
    SAandME SAandME 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm damaged goods, I know

    that sounds weird, I'm only 18, but I'm damaged goods. Today I grabbed my mum's arm, quite hard... I didn't mean to but she touched my leg, I wasn't expecting it so I reacted. I was with a girl in a club a couple of weeks ago, and we were having a good time, but she stroked my...
    LadySweetz LadySweetz 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    I'm Afraid Of Never Being Alone.

    Oh yes -charles bukowski there are worse things than being alone but it often takes decades to realize this and most often when you do it's too late and there's nothing worse than too late. a poem that sums up what I am feeling right now.
    feistypepper feistypepper 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    The only guys Ive been meeting lately are the

    ones who just want sex, I wish this would stop happening.
    kaco00389 kaco00389 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I'm nerdy at school, wimpy at karate,

    antisocial at home, I'm chubby and can't lose the weight, I'm good at computers and I'm gay. I don't know anyone else that is gay (that I have physically seen, not online) and I like younger boys (<15). This is why I think I will be single forever. I really couldn't care less...
    minimuscle minimuscle 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    This pretty much is my greatest fear.

    .haha! The truth is I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe because when I was a kid, most of our neighbors were boys and so I was a bit of a tomboy back then. When I hit puberty, I became shy and a little withdrawn. The only friends I had were from school and I wasn't allowed to go...
    versusapathy versusapathy 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 24

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    Not that I'm a naive enough to believe nobody

    would like or want me.. I know to some people I have attractive qualities. But I don't think anybody would want to be a part of my life if that makes sense.. I mean I do humanitarian work in other countries and am always moving and changing. I feel like most girls wouldn't want...
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    You know the movie notebook?

    The vow? The ugly truth? Etc I'm sure you do I don't know why but those movies just make me feel so alone like why can't I find a man like that? Is he out there? Does he even exist?! I'm a hopeless romantic and wear my heart on my sleeve and would do everything for anyone I love...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I do So I well just play with my lps

    and make lps videos when I'm older
    forders forders 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I've never had a good experience

    when it comes to dating guys. I know I'm only 20, but honestly, if guys really are like the ones I have dated, then I really should just stay alone for the rest of my life. I hate how I start dating a guy and it seems great. Then they'll start being mean to me like just...
    PaintYouWings PaintYouWings 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 11

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    I date, a lot . But I always fall

    for the "bad boys ". Every time I date a "nice guy " I cannot connect with them and am not attracted. . I will be single forever because I can't seem to find a healthy balance . Bad boys are to bad and mean, and nice boys are turn offs
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I've been single for

    as long as I've lived. Everytime I meet a new girl I keep thinking that she could be the one. I end up in disappointment all the time. I would never have the courage to approach a girl to ask her out or get her number as I'm pretty shy. I'm currently working and the females in...
    jullunety jullunety 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Lol. Lmao. Yep.

    True. Too oversexed. Too bisexual. Too ethical. Too intense. And allergic to cities. How to cope. Lmao.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Every few years or so, I wind up randomly meeting a guy that I really like. I get hopeful that they're interested in me too. But it always turns out that they aren't. It's heartbreaking every time. Is it possible for a guy I really like to feel the same about me, or do I have...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 23

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    Guys don't like girls

    who are ugly or fat or awkward or shy or geeky or constantly anxious or depressed, and they definitely dislike the ones who always read or write or obsess over fandoms. Also I've been told scars are not attractive. All in all, I'm pretty hopeless.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Its not that i cant find a guy.

    Its just that im extremely picky! And to make it worse, i'm actually in love with someone, so im basically off limits lol. But this guy does not want a relationship! -_-
    kyradani kyradani 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I was thinking about this today

    while I was at work today. I'm sure that it will happen again, eventually, but I have no prospects and I have such a low self esteem that it could be a while. That sucks.
    purposebuilt purposebuilt 22-25, M Jul 16

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    I'm afraid it won't work.

    I'm in love with this one girl. I truly love her. She's everything. But, she wants to be a vet. I'd be okay with it except how she wants to become one. I'm in the army. I leave for basic this monday. So already i can't meet her in person for 4 years. She's still has 2 years of...
    white701 white701 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    When im on school, im always alone.

    .. nobody wanna talk with me and the thing who hurts me is that no girls like me... nobody understand that im really a kind guy, really nice and cool... but depsite that everyone ignores me and girls too... I think ill die single :(
    mariostyle mariostyle 18-21, M Jul 20

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    I'm afraid that i'll not find the right person

    for me! I'm too ugly and i have so many flaws to find someone who can love me !
    mael95 mael95 18-21, F 42 Responses Jun 4

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