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I M Going To Be An Independent Woman Soon

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    RebornStar RebornStar 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    So, how to start? I got married 2 years ago last weekend to a nice boy, a good Christian boy, or so I thought, so he led me to believe. Turns out he was lying. About all of it...
    geolbt geolbt 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I'm getting ready to go on Vacation down to North Carolina, outer banks. I haven't been on vacation in the past 8 years.
    moviemania14 moviemania14 22-25, M Aug 28

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    This entire week has made a basket case of me. We haven't been akone together in 8 days. We're both unusually busy at work. On Sunday we had band practice where we did our usual...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 3 Responses 46 mins ago

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    Here is my story i know some will be tempted to judge or to say "why would you put yourself through that" but i have come to learn its easy to know what the right decision is when...
    Nellieee Nellieee 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Positive msgs off him yesterday. Then it came to night time and my head goes into overdrive. Is he seeing her tonight? Why is she even still around? What possible need does he have...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So updates: I've been trying to talk to the MM I broke up with. I thought maybe we could be how we were before...but he is more cold now that before. Perhaps because I ended it...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Is it bad that I keep having to read his obituary to remind myself he's really gone? That in a few days I wint get some random text saying get your sexy a** up here now, i miss you...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I deleting and scared sometimes. I have a phobia for needles and doctors, but I could really really use a firm no nonsense "you're going but I promise to comfort you if you cry...
    cheekyhannah cheekyhannah 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    D-DAY. Knew something was up last night. Turns out she saw a pic of me&him posing for silly pics in bed on his phone. She questioned it, he came clean. How much he told her tho I...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 45 mins ago

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    Throughout my life I'm so glad to get through my struggles and try help my problems and throughout the years I'm glad to become strong and independent girl who focus on her life...
    vivienhuang13 vivienhuang13 13-15, F Aug 31

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    So my story is a little different. It's a long one but please stay with me. He is married but I'm also engaged. I've been with my fiancé for 6 years now and I met my MM a little...
    AriLenni14 AriLenni14 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I AM NOT THE OTHER WOMAN. There are many labels I could have. But "the other woman" is not one I use. That is NOT how I define myself or this relationship! It annoys me that we...
    SafetyNotGuaranteed SafetyNotGuaranteed 46-50, F 19 Responses 5 days ago

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    That is a good sign of individualism to me. I think I respect more of this just a tad more than I do intellect. I think intellect derives from such as a matter of fact. A true...
    phenom0086 phenom0086 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    What pushed me away from my wife is because of things she "had to do". It feels like the same thing will happen with her. I think women in general feel a lot more obligation to...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well, we didn't have a serious relationship but I thought he would ask me out soon... I then found out I was the other woman... :P Me and this guy, let's call him Jake have been...
    RubyAnaBelle RubyAnaBelle 18-21, F Aug 28

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    Please let me go. Stop trying to keep me with tiny little subtle things like calling me my pet name. Because when I blatantly tell you I miss you and want you I get ignored. Why do...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    This is what I found, posted one year ago. Things have changed, but I believed we would be the ones to work out. "The One The Works Out Sometimes it works out. I'm a work in...
    chasinglesun chasinglesun 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Ladies, I think I have finally scored!!! I have met someone single who is really interested in me. We have been seeing each other for about a month now. In this last month, we have...
    PretendingImOk PretendingImOk 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 23

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    I need to tell my story, just even for the sake of getting it off my chest and out in the open. I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 38--we met at work 7 years ago and quickly became very...
    SweetHeresy SweetHeresy 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I am going to get revenge on someone in my life, full blown life altering revenge, on just one person, I have been planning it since I was 15. They have no idea that I am going to...
    Xoxogossipgirlx Xoxogossipgirlx 18-21 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I was born independent and will always be independent. 😉😉
    Alyzza123 Alyzza123 13-15, F Aug 24

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    "You pretty much became my best friend" 7 simple words that mean the world to me. 7 simple words that are so true, because he became my best friend, too. I hate how complicated...
    lifeisajourney14 lifeisajourney14 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    After lurking for the last week, I thought I'd post my own story. Many years ago, I met this guy online on a MMRPG. He was married with 2 small kids so even though I liked him...
    sturner1 sturner1 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I spoke to my MM early Saturday Morning (3am). I had just finished a Skype session with a friend and he signed in. It wasn't anything prearranged. He just happened to sign in...
    Guilty1982 Guilty1982 31-35, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Our place was big, cleanse and comfortable and was carefully cleaned all over our keep. The food for the restaurant we were allotted to was amazing also. There have been loads of...
    Tonetteqc Tonetteqc 31-35, M Aug 26

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    I'm having a premonition (maybe that's not the right word.. Maybe it's more like a FEELING) that D day is coming soon for us. I feel like his w is going to find out or he's going...
    MarieVon MarieVon 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm surprised he allows me my jealous questions and stuff. He was at a party with her last night and I so much as told him to please not go home with her as it would hurt me. We...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    It's days like today that I make me appreciate my mm so much more. I got a call for a job interview, it's not a great job but at least I can start making my own money and become...
    RedSheep2 RedSheep2 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Poetess: My father once told me when I was young, "Don't live your life relying on anybody...." I took his advice to heart. I learned how to do things on my own from working on a...
    PaintedPoemCpl PaintedPoemCpl 36-40 Sep 3

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    This has been going on for almost 2 years, his wife is aware but doesn't seem to do anything about it... I mean she tries to figure out my every move, at times it's fun to **** her...
    doesitmatter2u doesitmatter2u 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Last night was an eye opener! Pretty much perfect! Bear in mind he is not one for big gestures, emotion, feelings and PD of A. Got to his and didn't hug straight away. We actually...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Our experiences are often the same. So to see a movie in French or Icelandic or Sri Lankan telling similar tales is good. One of my eternal favourites is Night on Earth. The story...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    It had been around eight months since I last saw him. We broke up in February but we remained in contact. Yesterday, he texted me saying that his girlfriend was going out of town...
    SamyLo SamyLo 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Maybe too independent. I don't ask anyone for anything unless I have to nor do I chase people.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Today was one of the best days of my life! I know I sound like a teenager, but SWOON. He took me to a little private beach, brought my favorite beer, and we spent the entire 8...
    lostanddistraught lostanddistraught 22-25, F Aug 19

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    So my man is married but we stay together and have been going on 3 years almost. I finally asked him bluntly if he was planning on being my husband soon and he said "yea". I didn't...
    arbosslady arbosslady 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    My MM just sent me this song and I am feeling so much rage at myself for being so stupid and ever wasting any time on him. I was supposed to see him on Monday to return something...
    inaraserra inaraserra 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    MiniMovers Truck, large or modest, comes along with 2 Qualified Movers. If you want to speed up loading and unloading, you're welcome to incorporate as lots of added mover as you...
    Khadijah062yu Khadijah062yu 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Day 0 of NC It took a month, but today MM and I are officially over and nc. I wrote to him yesterday saying that I couldn't do this with him anymore. A month ago I ended the...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    I am going to be married to my love.But this is not happening grandly as I always wised for as we both belong to different caste(Its still a big issue in India) . Still I owe my...
    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I'm flying back home today and he and his soon to be ex are going to tell the kids today. Sooooo any advice as to what happens next or what to do? Yes he is moving out this week...
    ap05 ap05 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    Ok lovelies, I've read a lot of your tales & how you got to where you are now, my turn now I'd say. My ex & I were together for 26 yrs. Truth be told we would still be together if...
    JediWitch JediWitch 51-55, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well, she had him cremated, so that's that. I always knew he was going to die from the cancer, just not this soon, not without getting to say good bye. I will miss him greatly I...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mother yells at me for being anti-social but it's really that I just prefer to be alone and I don't need to rely on someone who's just going to break my heart or slow me down. I...
    dreaming1942 dreaming1942 16-17, F Aug 24