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I M Going To Be An Independent Woman Soon

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    RebornStar RebornStar 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    I've been totally excited about going back to Galveston for New Years with my ex, but lately I've been wishing that I had planned my vacation alone. I wouldn't dare change our...
    PricelessJourney PricelessJourney 31-35, F Oct 30

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    today I went in for info about going back to college and instead I took the plunge I start jan 20th. im gonna major in psychology. I know with a screenname like mine thats kinda...
    SadisticPsychopathicBitch69 SadisticPsychopathicBitch69 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    I have never really given any thought to traveling internationally. But now I want to more than ever. I'm not saying where but the freezing cold of a Midwest winter will be long...
    Leeza1964 Leeza1964 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 7

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    Yes you want to believe it...I am proud and independent...A woman of many talents and yes I can be very haughty when I want to be...I don't like to be pushed, nor do I like to be...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 30

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    I love strong independent women. I have always had serious relationships with brilliant women. Many have or gone onto having powerful careers and fulfilling lives. There is...
    kwarner kwarner 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    Quite tired of people judging and talking about stuff they don't understand or know anything about. Yes I am seeing a married man. Does it affect you or your life? I'm pretty sure...
    Changeallaround Changeallaround 22-25 9 Responses Nov 6

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    Frustrated today...frustrated that I wish he would message me...frustrated I still want him in my life...frustrated I'm so torn about it all. I am a beautiful, strong, successful...
    EEgirl EEgirl 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 6

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    I am me. I have my off days when I'd sooner curl up under the duvet never to be seen again! But otherwise. I'm independent of anybody can come and go as I like. And confident...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    I have spent years building my self esteem and my ex (daughters father) tore that to shreds I was barely half the woman I had been before I met him... After our demise I felt...
    jupsta jupsta 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 13

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    I am stronger now than ever before. I have always had a fear of being alone. Now, I am strong enough to get out of a bad relationship with my husband of 15 years and be able to...
    sweetandspicy1 sweetandspicy1 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I am a strong independent black woman! Who does WHATEVAR she wants!' "Random girl" YEA YOU GO SHEQUANA!
    WeSeeWeJudge WeSeeWeJudge 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I'm so broken... I can't stop crying... It hurts so much... We've broken up and I have to work with her everyday, have to see her pretty face, and know that I'll never get to hold...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 8

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    I'm so mentally drained!!! My H is trying to understand when and why I stopped being attracted to him. He cornered me the other night. I felt like saying yes you're right I'm...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 9

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    I haven't posted in a while however I wanted to get something out. I seem to attract women that are amazing and beautiful and smart. Also some how have borderline personality...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I guess I'm finally free. It doesn't feel so great right now. He told me that he was going to make things work with her for the sake of their son. That it's too hard for him to be...
    Lavender25 Lavender25 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 24

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    I don't know how to bring up the situation again.. We've been doing this for a little over a month now and the dynamics have only been discussed one time. We had just spent the...
    bigmickey23 bigmickey23 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The smartest thing a woman could ever learn is to never need a man!
    Snnowflake Snnowflake 26-30, F 28 Responses Nov 5

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    So, today I was suppose to spend the night with him, haven't seem him since maybe last wed, even though we text everyday and talk on the phone is not the same thing as actually...
    SweetDiz SweetDiz 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I've been for many years. I don't feel bad at all I'm honest. They had problems way before I got involved so I'm not to blame. No regrets I'm the total opposite of his ex wife. I'm...
    got2bme44 got2bme44 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    We were supposed to meet up today for lunch but she showed up at my place last night after she had an argument with him. She didn't want to talk about him or the argument so we sat...
    AnnieJF AnnieJF 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    It happened, we had our time together for the first time! *You can skip to paragraph 3 for the good stuff, lol.* This is LONG, btw... As most of you know, we had been talking...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 29

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    What would you do? 7 days since he told me out of the blue he is going to end things with her. 3 separate occasions I have asked him since, are you still in the same mindset, have...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 31

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    Ladies, tell me how I should be acting or feeling here. A couple weeks ago MM told me that he would be going away in a couple weeks (aka this weekend), and asked if I could meet...
    autumnsx autumnsx 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    I broke down and contacted him this morning to see how things were going at home. He said better/more manageable. I said, I miss you. He said, who you talking to? As if to say, I...
    forbidden67 forbidden67 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    I've given it alot of thought, and as much as it hurts, I think some space is just what I need too. I need to step back and focus on myself and my emotional/mental well being, that...
    SweetHeresy SweetHeresy 22-25, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    So... most of my life I have been closed off, too shy to have a serious relationship other than the typical 'holding hands' puppy dog love. That sort of changed when I turned 16...
    GallowsCalibratorx GallowsCalibratorx 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    November 12. Timing. Wait until the time is right. It is self-defeating to postpone or procrastinate; it is also self-defeating to act too soon, before the time is right...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Nov 12

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    I want to be a woman so bad right now and end my pain and finally be free. It has been consuming all my thoughts for a very long time. I want to be free of all my pain and...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 4 Responses Nov 12

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    Active or Passive what’s For You? What do active investors do? Active investors believe that markets are “inefficient”. They believe that at any point in time, there are...
    gerlambert23 gerlambert23 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Seeing Spots. The weather turned from sunshine to cold an hour before the parade was to commence. The wee village has two parades. The Memorial Day Parade and The High-School...
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 6 Responses Oct 22

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    I am a little confused here today maybe some of you have know someone that has been suffering with bi-polar.My MM told me yesterday he thinks that he's going to lose her soon ?I...
    peachy115 peachy115 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 24

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    Made it thru another day of NC. I knew he was at work yesterday and could have called but I kept myself extremely busy so the day would go by quickly and didn't obsess over not...
    forbidden67 forbidden67 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    How to screw everything up in one hour. Was it me or him tho? I know his communication habits inside out. Its been a 3 year relationship of sorts. Tonight was a case of reading my...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    Every time I hear that they fight, that he slept on the couch, or that they discussed divorce I experience a twinge of intense fear and dread that he might really leave her. I went...
    xXmissXx xXmissXx 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Almost as soon as I make s decision to step back he comes on stronger. We spoke for hours yesterday and it's very clear we both feel the same about one another but our kids are...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today I went back and read a few stories from 2008. I noticed how excitable these women were about their relationships, how hopeful. How intelligent and how insightful. And then...
    thalimar thalimar 26-30, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been with my MM for a year now- we've known each other for twice that. I grew up adamantly opposed to this type of situation. I fought it for a few months *because* of those...
    Yudeiah Yudeiah 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 22

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    I am a 57 year old woman who has finally met the man of her dreams. My story is extraordinary and unique. My husband took me to England to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary...
    chowitt chowitt 56-60, F 6 Responses Oct 24

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    #7 [not the other woman] Ah my heart miss him dearly. I wish we can still be friends and sometimes I wonder if I am making it difficult or I am making it right! AHHHHHHHHHHH...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 28

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    #11 [not the other woman] Anger and guilt has wear me off but I believe it is final and due to end soon. What a hurricane! My mom seems to need few things to be done in the house...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    Two years ago, I became best friends with a married woman I would babysit/nanny for. Mid thirties, in great shape; she was like a big sister to me. We would go shopping and she...
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 9

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    How did I get here? You've come such a long way I say to myself in the mirror It beckons me to look deeper Deeper than the soft tissue upon my face deeper than the breasts upon...
    jupsta jupsta 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Ughhhhhh I'm feeling frustrated.... Was hoping to get some advice or kind words Just spoke to my MM over text for two hours without a break of even 30 seconds. Texting is just...
    AvaLennon AvaLennon 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I am not the other woman. I am his wife (common law wife anyway). But for several months earlier this year, I was not his one and only. I didn't even know that we were having...
    rochanlon rochanlon 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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