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I M Going To Be An Independent Woman Soon

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    RebornStar RebornStar 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Long long conversation about how this relationship is hurtful to me bc I did everything to be his and he hasn't left yet. His concern is his kids. Says sometimes W scolds them so...
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    August 20. Honesty in Relationships. We can be honest and direct about our boundaries in relationships and about the parameters of a particular relationship. Perhaps no area of...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    Ok do I'm new to all this and I'm not sure what all the abbreviations stand for....I know OW is other woman....but please tell me what all the others stand for and what they are...
    Cagirlie Cagirlie 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My mind keeps telling me that I've done the right thing by letting him go, but my heart is not so sure. I sit here thinking how he'd make me feel when he'd say hi or even smile at...
    iheartnono iheartnono 31-35 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    A different perspective. (This will be long...sorry) I'm going to change names and certain details purely because this is not my own experience, but observations I've made about a...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I have recently been struggling to come to terms with a situation I couldn't have envisage one bit. So here's my story from the very beginning and viewed from my side of the fence...
    ACC77 ACC77 36-40, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Sooo it's nearly d-day and he's going on holiday with his family, sun beach....it's 3 days away. I thought I was mentally prepared for this but I'm not. I'm really really beginning...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I got to spend all day with him today. Had a nice lunch and got to talk some things out. He said that he realized that there is never going to be a right time to leave so he is...
    sadtosayimow sadtosayimow 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I really like sundance and IFC films. I just have trouble finding people that like going to see them. It's sometimes a little more expensive to see an independent film in theater...
    odetosleep odetosleep 18-21, F Aug 5

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    – Religious products and services are provided in our Group, and transportation may be available to citizens to anywhere of worship they opt for. We are going to introduce...
    William162d6ol9 William162d6ol9 31-35, M Aug 9

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    Today, i will cover up a tattoo that he liked on my body... today i will color my hair a different color than what he prefers... i will ditch the red nails, and maybe even get a...
    Grace7277 Grace7277 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Enormous undercover alfresco areas, vacation resort type master suites, Hollywood type home theatre rooms, a single big residing place are all tendencies that encompass the way in...
    Tyree1187pq Tyree1187pq 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Too excited for tomorrow!!! Ok I know I saw him last weekend but this was the actual date set in stone as our first time to see each other since we 'split'. Shall just enjoy the...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F Aug 8

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    Sometimes I wonder why we women have to suffer so much for these guys ... :( Why :( They don't seem like they suffer as much as we do ... I hate this. We need to be stronger...
    iloveuox iloveuox 26-30, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    Please let me go. Stop trying to keep me with tiny little subtle things like calling me my pet name. Because when I blatantly tell you I miss you and want you I get ignored. Why do...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Had a brief but somewhat interesting convo with the single guy...granted it started off with his usual "muah" messages back and forth and was driving me nuts! Anyway...he asked...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    Beatiful white overbust satin corset with bow tie and feather element. This corset has steel busk entrance closure and plastic boning.Obtain the sultry glamorous look of the...
    Joshua603a4yn8 Joshua603a4yn8 31-35, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    After a very in depth talk on Monday, I have seen a huge change in my MM. He is making more of an effort to do little things that shows he cares. It feels amazing!!! He texts good...
    Dreamingofhim0514 Dreamingofhim0514 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I love someone I can't have. What he wants and what he can have are two different things. I don't know what to believe. I think my time with him was just an experiment or a way for...
    geminigirlnextdoor geminigirlnextdoor 41-45, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    It's been soooo hard not to ask him what happened at their counseling session last night that necessitates an emergency one tonight. But, I learned long ago that hearing about what...
    greeneyes2232 greeneyes2232 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    It's been 2 weeks now since my mm walked away and things are still falling apart for me. He still hasn't called or nothing. Me and my mm became business partners, I trusted him...
    rosylovecheeks rosylovecheeks 26-30 4 Responses Jul 31

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    My MM failed with his first love when he was 22. She left him for someone else but they already had a boy together. His boy was pretty bad (almost became a drug addict etc.) and he...
    iloveuox iloveuox 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    He met me at my most vulnerable. I was recently divorced, my only child was off at college and I was feeling like I didn't matter anymore. I was minding my on business, sitting...
    Breeze62 Breeze62 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    In his eyes, I'm kind of a "too-good-to-be-true" to him. In the beginning he thought i just wanted to have fun and i dont really love him. I have done everything I can to show him...
    iloveuox iloveuox 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I know the headline may seem like a silly dilemma. But I am really emotionally distressed about going on a date soon without telling my ex. I dated this woman off and on for the...
    WriterOnTheWall WriterOnTheWall 36-40, M Jul 27

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    Hello and thank you so much for allowing me to tell you my story, as I feel I can relate so much just from reading yours... I am a 38 year old mother of one daughter, who just...
    ROBINANN1 ROBINANN1 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 30

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    I have been in the escort industry for x months. I am expecting several responses to this as I am well aware of the stigmatization of sex work. Many tend to believe that this type...
    lilysworld lilysworld 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    For all of you beautiful ladies… Maybe it’s my mood today. Maybe it’s because it’s summer, maybe it’s because I’m feel lonely, and maybe it’s because I’m angry...
    lyrics101 lyrics101 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    Today is day one of the break. I find myself picking up the phone to email him some random thought and then going....oh yeah....We'll see how this goes. He's in a 6 hour mountain...
    greeneyes2232 greeneyes2232 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 9

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    OMG...this isn't related to being the OW but I like this group! Long story short...I had mentioned before that after I disappeared on my MM knowing he wasn't into me anymore, I...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    He's out of town and away from the office until Monday.......I'm happy. I just need time to figure this out and get a handle on what's going on.......I think I'm still in shock...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Seeing him today...waiting...for...his...call.... He said he would call as soon as he is done with his appointment, then he is free for the day. That appointment has been going on...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 30

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    Maybe too independent. I don't ask anyone for anything unless I have to nor do I chase people.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My birthday is in 2 days, and I have hit an all time low. All I wanted for my birthday was to spend time with my MM, go away for the weekend, make love under the moonlight but...
    4everhislady 4everhislady 36-40, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    A weird couple of days with limited contact. Purposeful by myself mostly I would say.easing myself in gently to the point where I can let us go and retain a normal friendship maybe...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    The shortage of real woman. They betray each other so fast. They go for a guy who is taken. Guys lose respect form females like this and have names for them. The way they talk...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 13 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So after only 4 months I've decided being the OW is not for me. It takes a special kinda woman to live this lifestyle. I applaud you ladies that have been doing it for years...
    Sidechic79 Sidechic79 31-35 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I really want to live as woman full time that would be my dream come true.i love dressing in womens clothes and painting my nails and all but it goes further than that in my mind i...
    sofie35 sofie35 31-35, T 2 Responses 55 mins ago

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    Been kinda quiet the past few days and I'm suppose it's because it's been a huge roller coaster. We had a good come to jesus/heart to heart talk wed at lunch and we've been...
    ap05 ap05 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    So the mm is still off work- 6 weeks after his bike accident! Fractured his spine, broke quite a few bones and seeing him lying in icu was one of the worst times of my life! We...
    mizzallycat mizzallycat 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Finally. And end. Yesterday, which ironically was out 13th wedding anniversary, we finally sat down and hammered out company buy out, spousal support and child support. So very...
    Tico72 Tico72 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    More trouble I had two weeks off work and was dreading going back, not because I hate it but because of the chaos that might have ensued while I was gone; who knows what awful...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 Jul 26

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    Sometimes in my mind I mourn us. Even though it's not going to happen anytime soon, I feel like eventually it will. And I'm SO GLAD that I found you and have you for our limited...
    neverendingmadness neverendingmadness 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    Please if you are not having this experience or have not had it in the past keep your advice. I already know evey mean hateful words and thoughts you may have. Well; here it is, I...
    Summerayn Summerayn 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I haven't spoken to him in almost two months. He's like a drug. I'm addicted to him. It's so hard to just quit. I'm having withdrawals. Every single day I think about emailing him...
    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5