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I 'm Going To Be Me Unapologetically

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    only way I know to be

    but usually it puts people off. no I'm not pushy & obnoxious, just honest. so you chat online & figure most guys want to hear you say you are a sex goddess and so forth. I have lots of brief exchanges because I tell the truth. I've only had one affair because I'm NOT a sex...
    Stormie01 Stormie01 46-50, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Assertive :

    i am one of those people who can't say "no" especially to those i love. I like to please and make people smile..Lately i have had a time to reflect and i am thinking that i should be more firm with people and those i love...I should learn to put myself first. In the past i...
    destines destines 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    And If You Have A Problem...

    ...with that, gain cokk'n in da hoisen.
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F Mar 25, 2012

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    Me Is All I Can Be

    I don't want to act like others, dress like others, speak like others do, I just want to be me with my own thoughts, attitudes, insights, sense of fashion (or lack thereof, lol!!) I am going to be me, cause she's all I know how to be. Don't like it? Go somewhere else.
    Pebbles1982 Pebbles1982 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    I don't apologise for being me!

    I am a nineteen years old French born young woman with Irish roots. I am also a Goth.
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I Am Not Sorry For Being Me

    This is me. I love being me, dont try to change me or you will be met with fierce resistance. Believe it
    LoneAlpha LoneAlpha 26-30, M 1 Response May 2, 2013

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    I'm descendent of samurai,

    and of sheep farmers, I'm descendent of goatsherds, and of soldiers....I'm interested in most things, and demand nothing, but I'm still always going yo be complex little me!
    Shintaro95 Shintaro95 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I Am Me And That Is All I Know.

    I have come across others that have a problem with me and I understand where they are coming from but I won't apologize for being me. I have a lot of things I need to work on but at the same time others need to work on tolerance. I won't tell them what they need to work on but...
    RJ43 RJ43 41-45, T 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    This Is Me

    This is who I am, the way you found me. All my flaws and scars, what I have to give, what I need. This person was created by my life and the people in it. Not nessasarily for them. As long as I hit all my many marks and give all the folks what they want, people are content with...
    littlecreekgirl littlecreekgirl 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Pretzeled Out

    Once upon a time, in a little city not too far away, I pretzeled myself day in and day out trying like hell to please him. I played Betty Crocker, and rewrote my character over and over, I even had a couple terrific children just to try to make him happy. Guess what? It did not...
    jenvice jenvice 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Quoting A Song...and then some

    I don't need to be anything other than a prison guard's son I don't need to be anything other than a specialist's son I don't have to be anyone other than a birth of two souls in one Part of where I'm going is knowing where I'm coming from I don't want to be anything other than...
    ChristineJones ChristineJones 31-35, F Jun 17, 2010

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    Take it or leave it. I am me

    and nothing will change that.
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Don't Know How To Be Anyone Else

    Good or bad, for better or worse I have no idea how to be anyone else but myself. I may not be popular, cool, exciting or whatever but I am just me and don't know how to be anything or anyone else. I know I have flaws and if they cause me to hurt people around me I am sorry for...
    PicturesOfABetterLife PicturesOfABetterLife 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    This is also an "I'm afraid to let people get

    close to me" I've spent too much time and effort to get to know myself to let someone **** it up for me. If I let you in my life, I will let you know I will not compromise myself. And if you try that **** anyway, I will drop kick you back out. I will literally pick you up and...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    A Man Who Marches To His Own Drummer

    For years ,because i didn't really know exactly who and what i really wanted to be , i did what other people around me did. For example ,many guys at my school were jocks who were totally into sports,which meant that it was the thing to do ,even if i was not truly into it. I...
    dragonfang dragonfang 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    To some, I'm a kind, thoughtful,

    sweetheart. To others, I'm a delusional ******* with crazy and socially unacceptable ideas. It matters not what's thought about me. I will continue to be simply - what else - me! :)
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Aug 11

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    A Short Intro...more To Follow!

    I want to share one of the most amazing pieces of advice never given directly to me by a fictional character (great way of explaining what's coming up, isn't it???  ;-)  I just think it happens to fit very well in this place! In the old U.S. TV series, Buffy: The...
    MisterC MisterC 46-50, M 3 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Blood.. Mmmmmm

      Well they encourage your complete cooperation Send you roses when they think you need to smile I can't control myself because I don't know how And they love me for it honestly I'll be here for a while So give them blood, blood Gallons of the stuff Give them all that...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F May 19, 2010

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    Sorry..

    Oh no that's right I'm not going to be me Unapologetically!   I am me for me.. That is all that I can be.. You be for you.. and I'll be me for me..   If you don't like, too bad :)
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F May 13, 2010

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    Dr. Seuss Once Said:

    "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
    SavedByHim SavedByHim 18-21, F May 10, 2012

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    I'm A Superhero!!

    Can't you see that I'm addicted to it? That i crave it even in my sleep? What you have is great but the world needs me. One at a time, two, heck even three, on my special friend and I do they depend. We keep going until the end. It is my duty to please and tease, to pull and...
    Ta3Ta3 Ta3Ta3 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2013

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    It Wasn't Always So.

    I've never had a problem with being me. Ever. Unapologetically? While I wish I could say this is true....it isn't.    There was a time that I was sorry that who I am isn't who my loved ones wanted me to be. I felt like a bit of a disappointment. They never said it...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    Another Story Actually More Of A Question

    Ok ladies I have seen allot of very beautiful women and thier pictures. the one thing they all have in common is that at least 1/2 of them are taken in the Bathroom. Now why is that? is it the light or perhaps you are sneaking the picture. I would think of so may better places to...
    subtrainer subtrainer 51-55, M 12 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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