I 'm Hurting

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    Does the hurt ever truly stop?

    At times it is not as intense but when the sound of silence creeps up at night the pain ignites. Why me? Why now? Is this the plan? How many tears can one cry? How many days of just being here? Will I ever be alive or am I on a downhill dive? Is this some sick dream? Is...
    kaigeshadowwalker kaigeshadowwalker
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2014

    Cought her with lies an i thought i could trust

    her i put 100% into her an all i get was lies no truth :/ sucks
    ejizzle808 ejizzle808
    18-21, M
    Dec 10, 2015

    I won't cry. I've never felt

    so pushed out in my life. All of my family. On my mothers side. They have got together and told themselves lies about me. There is no way to stick up for myself because my mother is a narcissistic and she will do whatever it takes to taint my image. I have my aunt on Facebook...
    Unknownimus Unknownimus
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2014

    "Dear Pillow, Sorry

    for all the tears."
    AmityLove AmityLove
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 14

    Have you ever laid in your bed at night

    and cried because you just feel like your not good enough? Counted all your flaws and felt worse about your self?
    jaylawr jaylawr
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 6, 2014

    im kinda confused here i recently broke up wid

    my boyfriend and decided i shud just stay single for sometime cuz relationships hurt ALOT then, this guy i liked, comes to me and asks me out... i said i needed more time cuz i recently ended a relationship right? he said okay and went away. Im so goddamned confused. shud i go...
    14fever 14fever
    13-15, F
    Dec 25, 2015

    You can actually feel it.

    You can actually tell and feel when you’re starting to fade away from someone. The conversations get shorter, they get less meaningful, less exciting. You can feel the wall that’s coming up between you two. And then in the end, you’re back to being strangers.
    jazzME jazzME
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2014

    I wonder if there will ever be anyone

    who can see past my flaws; who will find and love the real me ... hidden behind the huge barriers I have put around myself.  When I'm hurting, I hide and withdraw.  Today I feel so alone.Photo credit to "When Snow White Drifted"
    SolitaireDiamond SolitaireDiamond
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    The guy I liked, didn't like me

    as much as I liked him. It wasn't what I wanted so I broke it off. But it leaves me wondering what if I made a mistake. What if... I don't know. I just know I can't cry over it, over him. But for now, I'm hurting.
    QuietViolets QuietViolets
    16-17, F
    10 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    I thought I was over him

    but I guess I'm not. Jerk won't text me back. Plays me like a freaking fiddle. I guess I'm good enough for drunk text and that's it. He's a jerk face!!!
    Dorkfish711 Dorkfish711
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    It's been 31/2 weeks

    since Ella,my dog died. I'm still so lost! When will this heartbreak and loneliness subside just a little bit,so that I can get out of my apartment and distract myself at least? I am never going to see her again . Ever.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    I m sharing an experience with you plzzz give

    me your opinion..... I was in long distance relationship with a girl who is from France...we have been together from last 2 months.....yesterday I told her to tell her muma about us...she said OK she will......and next day when I wokedup I saw a message that she don't want me to...
    RishabhRick RishabhRick
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 17

    I just wanna hide under the cover

    and make it all go away
    leadmenot leadmenot
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2015
    TimePrincess TimePrincess
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    Well to cut it short,

    it was an amazing short experience I have been through but for bad luck it ended so soon and I could do nothing to stop that from happening. I met an amazing woman online, we are both expats living in the same city. We exchanged emails till we decided to meet up few weeks later...
    sony2009 sony2009
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    late at night couldnt sleep feeling

    so lonely sad lost and wrong.not again
    whitenut whitenut
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    Why do my parents and most of my family,

    who haven't met her immediately think she's like some witch...when in actuality she is a sweetheart? Parents please i need some advice
    Zachary95 Zachary95
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 1

    "If this is love, I do not want it.

    Take it from me please. Why does it hurt so much?" "Because it was Real..." ~Tauriel
    AmityLove AmityLove
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 15

    If all my pain showed up on my body.

    . I would seriously draw attention. I feel so weak,broken, confused and sad. It's as having bruises from head to toe... Yet they remain in my heart and brain.
    yasminesaleh00 yasminesaleh00
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 30

    I just saw my ex at school (of course

    when I was looking gross) and now I'm really sad how can I feel better?
    katiebuggg katiebuggg
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19
    BeauteFloue BeauteFloue
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 3, 2015

    My father sent me a pic of his radiation

    machine It's finally becoming real My sadness is overwhelming Can U tell me about tomorrow Will there still be one
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses May 20, 2015

    If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't like you.

    If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will. - Anonymous
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 12, 2015

    On Christmas my ex wife was home with me to

    have Christmas with our boys it was nice. That afternoon one of her /our friends were back so she took our oldest to play with there son. Well she decided to have another one of her/our friends show up and have a little party which is great. Later that afternoon she called and...
    adamveve adamveve
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    Today marks the day I lost my best friend,

    I'm here on this mountain tonight where we raced our bikes down the steep twisty road as kids, the same road where we tested our driving endurance, the same road we conquered our fear of driving fast, and the last time i felt your life slowly taken away...... The night that...
    Arizv11 Arizv11
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 17, 2014

    My husband has always been a very sexual person.

    He slept with dozens of women before we met, and I knew he was interested in 3-ways, as well as a one-way open relationship...he believes that women are made to be with one man, and one man was made to be with many women, (alpha male/pack mentality). I really wanted a new phone...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 17

    It's that one feeling

    that hurts the most. The feeling of emptiness, the feeling that if you walked out the room, no one would notice you even left. The feeling that what you have to say and what you think has no impact. The feeling that you have to hide your tears because you know he doesn't think...
    AmieBeth AmieBeth
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2015

    Dating an older guy. Tempered

    when he's mad. Fun as hell when he's cocky. Sex is amazing. And how can I love this guy so much and have him be so mad at me wherein he doesn't want anything to do with me no more and is giving me the silent treatment. What did I do? ... Good question. How the hell do I know...
    callme77 callme77
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    I'm not hurting physically;

    which I'm grateful for, although I feel like hurt inside the whole time. I've liked a guy for like a year, he is smart and I'm attracted to him mentally more than to any other person. The thing is; we used to talk.. and then school began and I stated to him clearly that I...
    Anon0070 Anon0070
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 21

    I'm not really writing this

    for a response.. I think sometimes writing down how you feel and maybe having someone acknowledge or say something that helps is comforting.. My story is the same as a lot of people but obviously it's my own experience.. I have recently again been hurt in a relationship and I...
    emu emu
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    Pen to paper but I have no mind to bleed ink

    onto a page nor do I have rhythmic value to my words. My thoughts are dulled my the friction between academic progression and sheets of unimaginable madness I keep in a mason jars to preserve insanity. I have no words to write about the sickness I behold of my self destruction...
    Iamvindicated Iamvindicated
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2014

    I met a man 2 years ago

    and we were getting to know each other. I became pregnant with twins 2 months after meeting him. When I told him the news he said he would be there for me and we would get through it but soon after he left to care for the 3 children he already had with another woman. He started...
    AGirlonherJourney AGirlonherJourney
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    He says he loves me,

    yet he shows naked pics of himself to random women and they reciprocate. He says nothing will happen with them, but I just can't believe that. It is just another addiction, he does things for attention, and it hurts that I will never be enough for him. I have decided that we can...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    It my birthday but im really sad cuz the girl i

    thought was down for me was just all lies an pain :/
    ejizzle808 ejizzle808
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    My boyfriend looks/likes

    and comments on half naked girls pictures I am an insecure person, I'm a chubby girl and only average looks. Now all these girls are stick thin and beautiful and he knows them so can interact at anytime with them. Iam aware of my part in the fact I already have insercurities...
    Emmax1988 Emmax1988
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 5

    The past 2 months I've been hiding behind a

    fake smile I play it sooo well everyone failed too see how I am truly feeling I'm at the point in my like where I feel deeply hurt inside I'm the kind off person who will give advice act like everything will get better I pick people up went there down But why can't I do it...
    XDHyperGirlXD1 XDHyperGirlXD1
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2015

    Don't say one thing and do another.

    Spare me your bullshit!
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2014

    https://youtu.be/lL2ZwXj1tXM It has been a very

    hard 42 years, bouncing from one abusive situation to another, abused by others, but worse abused by myself, by locking up my heart and soul from those that would love me. I allowed the voices of the past to keep me caged and afraid. In the past three years I have been on a road...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    Sometimes I just sit

    and think...."when was I happy"???"Was I ever happy...was I ever Ok"???Then I realized... I've only been truly happy once in my life. Sometimes I'm speechless. I don't even know where to begin on...myself.Just a life of being talked about...being teased...being treated terribly...
    leadmenot leadmenot
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    Ok, so at the end of last year I met someone.

    (Or rather became infatuated by someone) Someone that lives across the world. He had the most beautiful qualities and was generally my ideal match - the only problem was the distance..... And the fact that he wouldn´t add me on facebook. Now hold on there, I´m not saying that...
    Hailey2thequeen Hailey2thequeen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 15

    As an adult you grow

    and learn so much sadness. How I wish I could be a child again with no worries. Hearing bad news just rolled off your back. You would just go enjoy recess and playing with friends. I'm 33 and never really lost anyone in my immediate family... Sadly that will soon be a reality...
    Beanbella Beanbella
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    I can't express myself on internet.

    I fear that people here would judge me or make fun of me because honestly speaking I don't have huge problems ... I'm insecure and I lack self confidence. I might have some family issues but it's not lagging me behind much though it never fails at making me depressed. I can't...
    ReemLucis ReemLucis
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Mar 16, 2015

    I think I'm stupid when it comes to

    relationships. I mean I'm a nice girl. 😩 I think I should change. Like don't chat to anyone and be lonely all my life. Or maybe even be selfish and cruel and mean. HELP!
    AliChan25 AliChan25
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 13

    Last night my boyfriend was arrested.

    He had a drug problem but swore he stopped doing illegal things to get drugs. Got a call from the police last night that they found a bunch of blank checks and old debit cards in his ex-girl friends car. He not only tried to steal from me but he was hanging out with his ex. He...
    skatinem13 skatinem13
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 2

    It is very hard being rejected by your own

    mother and have her refuse to acknowledge your feelings. And to be repeatedly told how horrible you are. I just wish someone Ioved me unconditionally.
    jigglykangeroo jigglykangeroo
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Aug 25, 2014

    Have you ever been in a relationship

    where you emotionally hurt the other person and they do the same back over and over again? I have deep feelings for the other person but because of my past with being hurt by others I seem to find myself trying to get the other person to prove themselves to me and they hurt me...
    kissandmakeup22 kissandmakeup22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 21

    I had the most vivid dream last night of having

    another chance with my first love. Now I am depressed because it can never happen and I am stuck with these stirred up old feelings.
    RJWanderer RJWanderer
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 30

    I just started back at work

    after being out for surgery. I've cried everyday since I've gone back. I'm depressed and hate waking up to this hell. I just can't seem to fight through it.
    Dorkfish711 Dorkfish711
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 11
    TimePrincess TimePrincess
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    The ones closest to me always betray

    or hurt me....I give up
    TimePrincess TimePrincess
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2015
    chenkey9392 chenkey9392
    22-25, M
    Dec 13, 2015

    I just swear that there's some guy in the clouds

    that looks down on me every day and goes hmmm. What can I do to to Make Her Day ****.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 17
    TimePrincess TimePrincess
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    i hate going through experiences like these

    because i feel so sh.tty but then i read posts about people having cancer and close family members dying and i just feel so small. bc my problems do not add up to having cancer or my mom/dad dying. i feel stupid for being sad. does that make sense.. like i should just be happy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I'm a girl with standards

    and it ****** me off wen a guy with no manners comes in my way and then I start catching up feelings, why would you lead me on so later I could find out u have a girlfriend I'm guessing he was tht desperate for another girl then . Why do some guys gotta act like this. And...
    Jo951 Jo951
    16-17, F
    4 Responses May 24, 2014

    I Forgive You, Daddy.

    Four years old with my back to the door All I could hear was the family war Your selfish hands always expecting more Am I your child or just a charity ward You have a hollowed out heart But it's heavy in your chest I try so hard to fight it But it's hopeless Hopeless You're...
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose
    16-17, F
    6 Responses May 4, 2012

    I feel so ******* bad.

    I talked to a friend of mine who I've talked frequently about depression and anxiety, she has both of them too but she has more anxiety than I do and I have more severe depression than she has. And when she noticed that I shut people out I started casually telling her that I...
    PoppingBones PoppingBones
    13-15, T
    1 Response Mar 31

    My best friend and i wanted to go to med school.

    Unfortunately, she didn't get in. At first, i felt really sorry for her because i knew how much she worked for it, how many days spent studying. I felt guilty. After we found out the results, she and i went on a trip and everything seemed fine. When we came back, she never spoke...
    mysteryousgirl mysteryousgirl
    18-21, F
    Feb 16
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