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I M In Love With A Guy Who Doesn't Want It

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    Pow Goes My Heart

     I haven't heard from ex in 5 days. No text messages. No comments on facebook. We tried to do the friend thing but that didn't work. So with his lack of communication I thought we were quitting cold turkey. Just now I get a text from him asking me if my dad needs some help...
    delightfuldutch delightfuldutch 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Rollercoaster

     I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I'm still hurting. I can't get him off my mind. Everything reminds me of him. I just want to forget him so I can move on.  He was my first love which makes it so darn difficult. He broke my heart. I'm...
    delightfuldutch delightfuldutch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I met Kevin twenty years ago when we were in high school together. We had some classes together and became friends. I was really shy then and didn't ask him out and he was shy and didn't ask anyone out in school. Twenty years later we become a lot more than friends. We dated for...
    karaokequeen35 karaokequeen35 36-40, F Aug 23, 2012

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    ... To End!!!

    yep, that's right... I found a man that wants to have forever with plain little old me!!!!  It is amazing.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 7, 2010

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    tdguy tdguy 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I go to a high school in the suburbs where 50% of people are athletic and/or involved in sports. I suck at almost every sport man has created XD
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    I miss him so much. I thought that I would be okay because I'm the one that ended it but I'm not. It's not fair that he can be so happy after everything he did to me and I'm left...
    scar7136 scar7136 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I think I'm falling in love with my best guy friend. We tell each other everything. We hangout a lot and go fun places together. We occasionally hookup, like 1/3 times we hangout...
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    Love is about giving, theres no win and there no loose. But it's nothing more painful than loving someone who doesn't love you back. It felt like theres a huge rock that tied in...
    Ph24689 Ph24689 16-17, M Mar 20

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    Runnergirl4000 Runnergirl4000 26-30, F Mar 25

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    So I am in love with this girl from Florida, I want to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her, she doesn't know the extent of my feelings. She has a boyfriend who broke...
    SkitLaberge SkitLaberge 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I was about to send this to a girl, who I'm madly in love with, and who is also my best friend. But I couldn't bring myself to hit send... "I've known you for about 6 years now...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    -.-t I have this thing for a guy who won't give me a straight answer/. this feeling hurts much bruh.
    Ange666 Ange666 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    It hurts when see someone say i love you and never act it ever. I want to feel loved as hell why i am always the one who say i love you and even mention the name of the one i am in...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 1

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    larybobjinkin larybobjinkin 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    David, Sometimes I wonder what is is I’m supposed to do… what it is that would dull the pain I feel just being alive. It’s hard, going day to day without having the one...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I can't describe my feeling about her I can only think of it and think of it. This feeling is so frustrating and yet so calming. When you show someone what you feel and she is only...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    ok. So basicly i datedd this guy a while back. He showed so much interest in me always cheering me up telling me he likes me and only me etc. We spoke for months before i actually...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ok really need advice. I've known this guy for a while and have liked him for about the same amount of time. He is super sweat and funny, and he's nerdy but the cute kind of nerdy...
    Frankie908 Frankie908 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I met a guy on New Year's Eve, long story short we hit it off and started talking everyday and seeing each at the weekends. We have a lot in common and it's one of the most...
    recw74 recw74 31-35 1 Response Mar 19

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    She doesn't love me because I remind her too much of my father. I haven't spoken a word to here within the last six months besides a merry Christmas text. I didn't get a "Happy...
    Jessica0906 Jessica0906 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Ananananan12 Ananananan12 22-25 Apr 4

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    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    yes.. i really love him. but he's doesn't. even if he didn't say it but I'm pretty sure he does not. and now, i just can seeing him with another girl happily. what should i...
    klooey klooey 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back? Have you ever tried so hard to make him notice you, and he didnt? Sucks doesnt it? Well, you can't make anyone love you. I've...
    caramelcuteness caramelcuteness 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    BrickTheWolf BrickTheWolf 13-15, F Apr 1

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    I have been attracted to this boy for perhaps a year now, and recently the attraction has blossomed into a crush. Ok, perhaps not recently, it's been a few months now. However, as...
    neongoggles neongoggles 18-21, T Apr 5

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    2 days later - I saw her standing outside when I had to go inside the building. I could choose between 2 doors and I walked to the door were she was. When I was close to her we...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I always end up with feelings for the guys I can't have . Then there's tons of guys I can have but I don't like.. It's so annoying and I just wish for once I could like someone I...
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I love someone so much But he doesn't love me I don't think he even want me to be a part of he's life because of he's awareness of my feelings for him I guess the natural thing to...
    nsmble nsmble 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm in love with this boy I know. He's cute funny and we're really good friends. The only problem is that he's straight and he doesn't know in gay. Every time I see him I can't...
    zakkoboi14 zakkoboi14 13-15, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm a girl in love with one of my friends and she is straight.I've never been in love with a girl before though.After 6 months of holding it inside of me I decided it is better to...
    vivi9298 vivi9298 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I fell in love with my perfect spanking partner. Unfortunately she's living with a guy and I'm in a loveless marriage. My timing really sucks. :(
    BaredBottomBill BaredBottomBill 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    DotB DotB 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    It's just heartbreaking how can we lose ourself by being in love with someone else, especially if they don't want us and don't love us anymore;-(
    Nikita2103 Nikita2103 31-35, F Mar 31

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    I think it is junk!!! If he isnt fallen out of love he sure has a funky way of showing it these days. I think it's unfair that I still allow sparks to fly when he wants them to and...
    IUsed2BJustAWendy IUsed2BJustAWendy 31-35, F Mar 31

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    I don't want to get close with my male bestfriend coz I fell for him and he will be leaving soon. I don't wanna get hurt
    ChicPetal ChicPetal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    This is going to sound weird but i need some advice. I am in love with my aunty's step-son. Yeah! He knows and he told me that we can be together because of the family situation...
    Adridee Adridee 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm not really in love with that person but I like the person sooo much but I know it's never gonna work out
    Jantzdavid Jantzdavid 16-17, M Mar 23

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    I am still in love with my first proper boyfriend, we got engaged and then my cousin interfered and split us up. Its been 7 years since we split and i still think about him...
    3271amy 3271amy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    This is going to sound really screwed up by I am in love with my sisters boyfriend and secretly I hope they break up so I can make a move and the worst part is I don't feel guilty...
    jinxxypoo134 jinxxypoo134 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm in love with a sort of coworker of mine. He's married, they are in an "open" "poly" relationship. Before I was moved within the company we talked most everyday, we were always...
    butthumbs butthumbs 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    No one can ever be all for ones spouse. That is silly and childish to expect. My wife Needs God, he meets her spiritual Needs. She Needs friends and so do I. My wife Needs the love...
    Dreammmer Dreammmer 46-50, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I hate that I get attached easily, why can't I just find a kindhearted guy that feels the same about me as I do him.
    Thatbrokengirl1 Thatbrokengirl1 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    Forgetting someone that you've loved whom never love you back can be reasonable. But it's hardd!
    Ph24689 Ph24689 16-17, M Mar 29