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I M In Love With A Guy Who Doesn't Want It

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I met Kevin twenty years ago when we were in high school together. We had some classes together and became friends. I was really shy then and didn't ask him out and he was shy and didn't ask anyone out in school. Twenty years later we become a lot more than friends. We dated for...
    karaokequeen35 karaokequeen35 36-40, F Aug 23, 2012

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    Pow Goes My Heart

     I haven't heard from ex in 5 days. No text messages. No comments on facebook. We tried to do the friend thing but that didn't work. So with his lack of communication I thought we were quitting cold turkey. Just now I get a text from him asking me if my dad needs some help...
    delightfuldutch delightfuldutch 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Rollercoaster

     I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I'm still hurting. I can't get him off my mind. Everything reminds me of him. I just want to forget him so I can move on.  He was my first love which makes it so darn difficult. He broke my heart. I'm...
    delightfuldutch delightfuldutch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    ... To End!!!

    yep, that's right... I found a man that wants to have forever with plain little old me!!!!  It is amazing.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 7, 2010

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    We met on facebook don't judge me just yet and i noticed he commented on my status that i had wrote bout my other ex saying he hates me he doesn't understand me. Then i realized...
    chavelliex3 chavelliex3 22-25 1 Response Dec 1

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    I don't have the strength. If they don't want to be helped, then there's really not much more I can do. Except to pray and ask God to help them. I can only tolerate so much from...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    My boyfriend broke up with me four weeks ago. We were together for four years and we were so happy as far as I knew and we were best friends, soul mates. He told me I was he's one...
    Rachelfrecklesmarie Rachelfrecklesmarie 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 20

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    I don't want to be strangers again.
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I just realized I am in love with a guy who doesn't love me. We have been talking for months and just recently he has been talking to me less and I am realizing how much it is...
    thirdsense thirdsense 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    She takes it slowly at first but learns that this is the person for her and that she has no need to be hesitant as she will never find out unless she takes a leap of faith...
    darnit05 darnit05 31-35, F Nov 23

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm not really sure what love is, so I'll just say I've liked a guy for almost 4 years. And obviously, he doesn't know me. It wasn't love at first sight. We were in the same...
    rachelenid rachelenid 18-21, F Nov 20

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    Well I'm right back to square one AGAIN!! I was in a position very much the same as I am now before and I seem to b on a merry-go-round of the same relationships that last years...
    Squeekarose Squeekarose 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    My issue is that I feel in love with this awesome guy but I did not realize until he got a girlfriend. We are still close friends and it hurt because I still have feelings for him...
    kikithegreat kikithegreat 18-21, F Nov 19

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12 26-30, F Dec 3

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F Nov 26

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    I have always been really close with this guy (lets name him S) who is my best friends brother (sucks). When I was about 8 years old my mom moved to a different country and i had...
    ilovecookiesalways ilovecookiesalways 13-15, F Nov 23

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    I feel like my heart says, "When is he going to ask us out?" and then my brain is arguing, "Why are you getting your hopes up? Logic says he doesn't like you back." And then my...
    ghostwolf343 ghostwolf343 13-15 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Being sixteen and in love is inconvenient. Add in the factors that I am gay and she is not. She is 18 and leaving school and I am not, and finally the fact that we aren't close (so...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I guess I was jealous because she was his first love, a redhead (his favorite) and he had her initials tattooed on his body (CMBF - the "F" for "forever"). She moved on and got...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F Nov 27

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    We all want that fairytale romance....even when we realize it doesn't exist!! There is no Prince Charming...there is no perfect man....only the one we create in our heads.
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 28

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    He had the same feelings for me… Then he moved away… It's like he doesn't even care about me anymore. As much as I'm upset, distance is helping me get over him.
    AutumnLeeWindstar AutumnLeeWindstar 16-17, F Dec 6

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    Hello EP readers. I don’t know what I hope to gain from sharing all this, but I feel compelled to do so. You will probably think I’ve lost my mind by the time that you get to...
    ThePolarPanda ThePolarPanda 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    I'm still piecing this together because it didn't happen very long ago. Basically I met this girl about a year and a half ago at a chill party I was invited to and she opened the...
    alexfrombarnies alexfrombarnies 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    we work together and have for years and somewhere along the way I fell madly in love with her. We she started working with me she was just out of college and now 8 years later...
    jwt3333 jwt3333 22-25 1 Response Nov 20

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    Let me start with I have a problem. I'm only 19 and I have always been drawn to older women that have a strong personality. I went to job corps and Miss Maria was my 3rd shift...
    patriotslover21 patriotslover21 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    I'm just tired of it. Whether it's some family or friends, I'm done. From now on, my focus is just on the few people who've actually been there for me. I'm tired of letting my...
    ClaireH19 ClaireH19 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    The pain of the constant heart ache i go through because i cant me with you. Am so depressed, i cry my self to sleep every night. And during the day i cant drag my self out of bed...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am in love with a girl. and i just cant stop thinking about her. i have lots of feelings for her and i am so attached to her. i dont know if i can live if i ever lose her...
    AngelLuvsBabyBlue AngelLuvsBabyBlue 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    So, I have said in previous experiences that I am a regular at this coffee shop in my area, and there is this guy there who is the most amazing person I have ever met....but he has...
    daintyduck daintyduck 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    Yup, it's crazy. I fell for him the first time I saw him 4 years back. And since then I haven't really liked anyone! He has no idea of my existence.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F Nov 21

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    I have really liked this one guy for over a year, but can't have him because he's already in a relationship.
    rapidreader101 rapidreader101 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Even my heart is poking it's fingers through my rib cage to try pick that eyelash from your cheek. I want to kiss you through the small microphone in my phone. I want you to know...
    LegitimateRabbit LegitimateRabbit 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I met a guy recently..words can't explain how I feel when i am receiving a text from him .. Those freaking butterflies in my stomach... The feeling of my heart going to blow off...
    tommy21v tommy21v 18-21, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I am calling. Can you here me? Are you out there somewhere? Are you happy? I whisper and sing a soft melody like a siren waiting on her lost love at sea. My chest constricts...
    InspireMeZilly InspireMeZilly 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    What will you do if your ex boyfriend whom you still loves wanted to see you again but he has a girlfriend already?
    sunshinemae sunshinemae 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Alright, I guess this is part 4. Part 4 of me and Jessica. So after the night me and Jessica had danced together while on the phone miles apart, I really felt a connection. I...
    ReplacedAxe ReplacedAxe 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    Why does it hurt so much? I feel like I'm unable to function completely. I'm tired of crying. I just want to move on and carry on with life without you.
    sillyliz777 sillyliz777 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    This morning as the sun rose from the east I spend this time with my parents at their final resting place on earth in Wesson Ms. after driving all night just to be close to the...
    gamma87 gamma87 46-50, M Dec 8

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    I met her for the fist time in 1998. I know a long time ago but that was when it started. We road the same bus to and from High school. She was the first lady to refuse my advances...
    Thanval Thanval 31-35, M Nov 23

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    I really love him so much. He's 25 years older and devoted to his wife. His wife is a lovely person. He's resisted me for years. We've grown closer over the last few months...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I feel like I'm being torn apart from the inside out. I love her so much but she just got back together with her ex and I'm just done. She was the one that helped me discover who I...
    adeechloe adeechloe 13-15, F Nov 25

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    ..distance will never separate me from loving the same man i can't have...i refused to let go and move on..i still want him to be part of my life and in everything i do..a wish of...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    The strange thing about this is that it's requited. It's sentimental rather than sexual and I missed the feeling of being close to someone without having a constant urge to have...
    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago