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I M In Love With A Guy Who Doesn't Want It

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    Pow Goes My Heart

     I haven't heard from ex in 5 days. No text messages. No comments on facebook. We tried to do the friend thing but that didn't work. So with his lack of communication I thought we were quitting cold turkey. Just now I get a text from him asking me if my dad needs some help...
    delightfuldutch delightfuldutch 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I met Kevin twenty years ago when we were in high school together. We had some classes together and became friends. I was really shy then and didn't ask him out and he was shy and didn't ask anyone out in school. Twenty years later we become a lot more than friends. We dated for...
    karaokequeen35 karaokequeen35 36-40, F Aug 23, 2012

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    Rollercoaster

     I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I'm still hurting. I can't get him off my mind. Everything reminds me of him. I just want to forget him so I can move on.  He was my first love which makes it so darn difficult. He broke my heart. I'm...
    delightfuldutch delightfuldutch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    ... To End!!!

    yep, that's right... I found a man that wants to have forever with plain little old me!!!!  It is amazing.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Nightingale73 Nightingale73 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Harsh reality. She doesn't feel the same way. And tells you, " I tried, but just don't like you". Um, thanks for trying I guess. Thanks for the effort? Coulda been a bit less blunt...
    topsearch92 topsearch92 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ugh. Falling in love with your best friend sucks 😔
    djjd123 djjd123 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Karmacomagirl Karmacomagirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    starstuff79 starstuff79 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I write this to you, because you will never read it. I write this because those feelings are not going to disappear unless I reveal them to you. I write this to you because I know...
    Julize Julize 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    *sigh* It seems like it always happens this way. I don't think I'm in LOVE with her, per se (I don't know if I am mature enough to feel romantic love for anyone)... but I do know...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    schizofriendly schizofriendly 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    FaFiPe FaFiPe 18-21 Jul 31

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    I have a huge crush on a guy for over a year, who is of the same club as mine. He is the club's president while i'm an active member. I started to have feelings for him since the...
    missimperfecttt missimperfecttt 18-21, F Aug 2

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I go out with this guy and I really do like him but I have so much little confidence in myslef. I can't seem to think why anyone would like me? I'm fat and ugly (not a cry for...
    sydneywitherby sydneywitherby 13-15, F Jul 27

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