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I M Learning Not to Be a Victim Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 91 People

    So Trying

    I have an awsome coach who's guiding the way. If all works out I should be able to win the fight very soon.... or at least put a good dent in it. Too bad they just don't sell "X B Gone" spray.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    Phoenix

    I could tell a sob story here, but I won't.  Enough to say I lived through an insanely abusive child-and-young-adulthood that left me with a crippled right hand and a massive case of PTSD. That's okay.  I'm away from my father; he's never gonna be able to touch me again.  I...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Responsibility For My Self

    Ive finally quit  trying to blame everyone else for my own downfalls and unhappiness ...Like my  husband ... Granted he didnt support my wellness ..  but i could have left any time i wanted but i just wasnt strong enough  yet ...  but ive since learned so...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2007

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    Victimhood And Depression

    I have struggled with depression on and off my entire life. I've noticed that when I'm feeling depressed many times I can trace it back to feeling like a victim. Or better said, I can trace it back to allowing myself to believe and live out the lie that I am a victim. I believe I...
    ConstantBattle ConstantBattle 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    Oh Yes

    Too many years I walked around head down shoulders slumped blaming everything on my abusive childhood. But then it was like at what point did the crossover happen and when did I become responsible for not wallowing in my own misery like a pig in the cool mud on a hot day anymore...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Time to Take Control

    Most of my life I have been victimized, mostly by men and I have let it happen. Of course I have also bben a victim of life too so to speak because I always thought things just happened to me. Well I am standing up and taking charge more of my life now. I am...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    dldamon dldamon 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    The statement alone says it all.....I can't take it any more...any part of my life.....I for the past seven years spent my life married to someone....our marriage is so toxic and...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    so I'm lost on my own bubble.... I don't no what to do anymore where to turn to only way out seems like death but I have a son he is 3 yrs.... I feel like I'm better of having...
    Ineedoutofthishellhole Ineedoutofthishellhole 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a part of my family, if I choose to refer to them as that, who are tied up into some kind of occult and practice witchcraft and sorcery. when me and my brother were really...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 2 days ago

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    I like to this k of myself as a survivor and not a victim. the power of positivity : )
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 3 days ago

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    My little sister is a victim
    mrrua mrrua 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Being single for as long as I have been can really weigh on a person. I mean, it has its perks, but, often times, I find myself wondering when my status will change....I'm learning...
    xKhole xKhole 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm learning French, have already learnt for two months in class and am going to learn it on my own. Hope I could write a french song soon.
    Suthysloth Suthysloth 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    This is not about me but this is my experience that does bother me. So my husband's business partner just broke up with his girlfriend. I used to go out with her sometimes but I...
    VogueChloe VogueChloe 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I am writing this to shed light on domestic violence and what happened to me. At first it was only on my Facebook and was set to "Friends Only" but I am now making it public and...
    Taylor62298 Taylor62298 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I want to drop out of university and break off my study because I'm not happy with it. I'm always under pressure and there are days when I just can't handle it anymore and feel so...
    imadreamer77 imadreamer77 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I really want to kill myself. My life is going on horribly. My mother has psychotic depression, she has been on an affair for 9 years & has just recently stopped after being...
    mangoseed mangoseed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I remember writing a story under the topic of "I miss you" recently. I remember saying how I would love to talk to that person however... I really hope they don't try to talk to me...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 16-17, F Aug 22

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    I feel so lost and empty.. Sometimes I wish I was dead but then I think don't be so stupid why should I sacrifice my own life because I was treated badly? I don't even know who I...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    It's gotten so bad that when I look in the mirror I see a stranger. Not myself. I just don't even know who I am anymore. But I do know one thing. Pain changes people. Guess that's...
    awsome11900 awsome11900 13-15, F Aug 21

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    i really dont know who i am anymore... for the past while ive list myself... and i cant find myself again, ive lost everything and everyone i loved, and now im here just wishing i...
    GabrielBois95 GabrielBois95 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I just need this off my chest, its just really bugging me, please no hate. I was hoping this year would be easier, but no I have been bed ridden almost all year, crippling...
    HauntedShadows HauntedShadows 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    i am still learning how to speak korean and spanish. i thinks it is a good thing to learn other languages other than english lol :) but it is not that easy but i have to try at...
    empress4 empress4 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I am a victim who was fortunate to survivor and thrive after abuse. Unfortunately, my close friend is now in a similar situation and I can't get through to her. She knows my story...
    JennSadai JennSadai 36-40 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I Love learning about how to develop psyic abilities. And reading books on Astral Projection & Meditation. I really would love 2 be able to unlock more of my minds potential. The...
    BLAiiRBEAR BLAiiRBEAR 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm currently reading "Strange Matters: undiscovered ideas at the frontiers of space and time". I love reading non-fiction, learning as much as possible. Fun Fact; magnetism is...
    Psychadelicious Psychadelicious 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    They cut off our water. I'm behind on rent. I hate this. This is the worst, and I refuse to deal with this anymore.
    jaydwilson jaydwilson 22-25, T 1 Response Aug 18

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    Yesterday was one of the worst days since I started therapy. I couldn't stop crying, I couldn't keep my food down, I haven't slept. And today is the same. Every time something...
    BrokenBabygirlx BrokenBabygirlx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Yea I was raped .....I don't think I can tell the story but I can tell you fellow rape victims I feel for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 17

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    so earlier today I kinda took a overdose and ended up in the hospital I just want to do I've given up on life I can't cope anymore no one wants me here I will never stop trying to...
    Pedro1202 Pedro1202 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I can't trust someone easily since I was betrayed by my ex-best friend in high school. Since then, trusting people hasn't been easy for me. Trusting someone just seems so hard...
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 1 Response Aug 16

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    Right now, I am thinking about my life and wish I was dead. People tell me I have potential and stuff but honestly, I don't see it. I lost myself when I was in a crappy...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    let me just die I can't cope anymore there is this girl on here I've got so close to and she wants to end it and it hurts me I just want it all to end LET ME DIE!!!!!!! :'(
    Pedro1202 Pedro1202 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm learning to play piano.
    TrySN TrySN 26-30, M Aug 15

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    Emotional, mental, verbal. And I still miss him and love him. I can't sleep. It's been two days now since his dad called. 8 months since I saw him, touched him, smelled him. My...
    auroraunicorn auroraunicorn 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I don't really know what I'd say about now accept I feel no motivation whatsoever. I feel that my life has become something I can't relate to anymore. It's like it's a life, but I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 14

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    It's more of a distrust towards life itself and everything that involves it. I'm finding it really hard to trust all information and people 100% of the time anymore. Why? Here's a...
    AuroraSpectrum AuroraSpectrum 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    i find it really hard to trust people anymore. ive been through so much with people. only had a handful of friends in my life and when they turn on you for some reason or just push...
    loveknowsnobounds loveknowsnobounds 31-35 1 Response Aug 14

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    i just cant take anymore pain in my life i just cant
    misscutiepie123 misscutiepie123 13-15, F Aug 13

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    Well, a Little about me: I'm a timid person, very shy, as in I don't like being around too many people. (I wish I could, but I can't). I've always been like this all my life so...
    Lonewolf1988 Lonewolf1988 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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