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I M Learning Not to Be a Victim Anymore

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    Oh Yes

    Too many years I walked around head down shoulders slumped blaming everything on my abusive childhood. But then it was like at what point did the crossover happen and when did I become responsible for not wallowing in my own misery like a pig in the cool mud on a hot day anymore...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Victimhood And Depression

    I have struggled with depression on and off my entire life. I've noticed that when I'm feeling depressed many times I can trace it back to feeling like a victim. Or better said, I can trace it back to allowing myself to believe and live out the lie that I am a victim. I believe I...
    ConstantBattle ConstantBattle 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    Responsibility For My Self

    Ive finally quit  trying to blame everyone else for my own downfalls and unhappiness ...Like my  husband ... Granted he didnt support my wellness ..  but i could have left any time i wanted but i just wasnt strong enough  yet ...  but ive since learned so...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2007

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    Time to Take Control

    Most of my life I have been victimized, mostly by men and I have let it happen. Of course I have also bben a victim of life too so to speak because I always thought things just happened to me. Well I am standing up and taking charge more of my life now. I am...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    So Trying

    I have an awsome coach who's guiding the way. If all works out I should be able to win the fight very soon.... or at least put a good dent in it. Too bad they just don't sell "X B Gone" spray.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    Phoenix

    I could tell a sob story here, but I won't.  Enough to say I lived through an insanely abusive child-and-young-adulthood that left me with a crippled right hand and a massive case of PTSD. That's okay.  I'm away from my father; he's never gonna be able to touch me again.  I...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I don't know How to deal With how I am feeling Not in a healthy way Not in a way that I can Explain to people and not make me sound so ****** up :/
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm learning it online and I'm doing weekly sessions hopfully I learn and remember something
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    Honestly it's a GOOD thing to not trust anyone. This day and age no one is trustworthy. (Well barely anyone but there are still some rare gems) Everyone is out for themselves and...
    FightingForHappiness FightingForHappiness 31-35, F 50 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hello my name is safiya but i just put my name cinderella31. I am a muslim a female ( girl ). Learning About ramadan is very important if you are a muslim if you speak Arabic,Uzbek...
    cinderella31 cinderella31 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This divorce is taking far too long. It's ridiculous. Every time there seems to be some glimmer of hope, it's fake. Court dates get postponed multiple times. There's a new law for...
    newchick11 newchick11 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't want to feel pain anymore. I don't want to feel numb anymore. Need to make it stop.
    BrokenBabygirlx BrokenBabygirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Every day is just the same broken record. Get up, see my mum off to work, and spend the day at home alone. I try to keep myself busy by gardening, getting some decorating done or...
    blvckhvart blvckhvart 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi ok so I have been a victim of emotional and mental nd a little bit of physical abuse in the past. I have been in about 4 relationships that were like that not all were physical...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I can't find it anywhere, the answer to my problem. I simply cannot understand what normal people do anymore, and i feel like i am done trying because nothing's getting any better...
    Bradly123 Bradly123 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I fell deeply in love with a guy and for a while we seemed imperfectly perfect. He did everything for me and I did everything for him. Honestly I'm still love with him I will...
    Issaaa Issaaa 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Im learning that food is a gift. A provision. Some people would die for a burger or a potato or a piece of cheese and we are being stingy with food. Of course make as many wise...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F a week ago

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    When i was younger i had already seen myself the way i wanted to become. If i wanted to be brave id become braver. If i wanted to be athletic id excercise more. If wanted to learn...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F a week ago

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    Nodus Tollens: The realization that the plot of your life doesn’t make sense to you anymore.
    StringedAlong StringedAlong 18-21, F Jun 24

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    Soooooo,Hmm(clearing throat) I met a woman in college in 2009 after a breakup with another woman that just up and left me with these words ''Later on in life you'll see that it...
    SchizoEffective6 SchizoEffective6 36-40, M Jun 23

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    Just got into a fight with my Fake Mother over an article of clothing she bought me and Thursday's event that I didn't want to go to, telling me what to wear. It's funny how...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Marriage shouldn't exist anymore. Everyone don't follow the rules. Everyone fuckkk everyone else but they're husband or wife. Why get married? You know you can't control your...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I couldn't post the entire thing (I wrote too much)this is part two! ...All the other girls came forward too, I still don't know who they are. After a year it was decided he would...
    EmilyAlice97 EmilyAlice97 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I don't like the word victim. It makes me feel weak. I have been raped a few times by different people. The first time was upsetting and I sunk into a depression and I still...
    EmilyAlice97 EmilyAlice97 18-21, F Jun 22

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    I have always had a want to learn new things. I believe their is always room for more knowledge and skills. But I never had a chance to until recently. About 5 years ago I started...
    orchidangel orchidangel 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I make a point of learning at least one new word every day.
    TheSundanceGal TheSundanceGal 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    Making Learning More Interesting I am sure there is a lot of scope, out there, for German speakers to make learning packages more fun for students. If I am amused or otherwise...
    borrioboola borrioboola 51-55, M Jun 20

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    My parents just don't think I should have a party anymore... It disappoints me.. All they do is give me money and spend a little time at the mall... I wish it wasn't like that. I...
    HaleyKun HaleyKun 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I want to improve my english skills (learning english since 11 years, polish since 8 years [but I'm bad in polish]). Please text me :)
    MutedVoice MutedVoice 18-21, F Jun 20

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    My broken little family, that I clean up for when I can. My little broken birds' nest that I fly back with branches for. The place I fell out of and can't explain. But I let you in...
    Itekimasu Itekimasu 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I am learning Korean please feel free to message me if you want to help(btw I'm a beginner)
    Aby0805 Aby0805 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I'm learning Japanese and German
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 19

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    Learning Korean via self study atm. However I'll probably take classes in the fall. Anyone want to be language partners hmu ??
    MsIdiosyncrasy0 MsIdiosyncrasy0 22-25, F Jun 19

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    I'm learning French and Spanish... French is so much easier
    Spfxartist13 Spfxartist13 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Dont know anything anymore it seems. Who I am what I want. All I know is that Ive still got a good heart and that Im a decently good person and thats in the end all that matters to...
    mkp86 mkp86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    At first I was pumped and had just a hint of doubt since this the language I am learning is from a country I might not ever get to visit, I'm trying to convince myself that it will...
    Aby0805 Aby0805 18-21, F Jun 18

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    Now that I'm in my 30s, I am finally realizing that people can't bully me anymore in any way, shape, or form. The reason this world is so full of anger is because of idiots who...
    dude2278 dude2278 31-35, M Jun 18

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    i believe that one dies still learning. there is not enough time in this world to learn everything, wich is why its so great to be captivating and excited about knowing different...
    kawasakiN kawasakiN 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 18

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    This mad emotional instability inside me, is honestly too much to handle. I cannot live with it anymore, and to say I'm slowly dying on the inside or that I'm chocking doesn't seem...
    Soligem Soligem 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Ive been picked on all of my life aswell, as i read the stories of users in this group. This is something that ruined my self esteem and my life pretty much. With my old EP account...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 17

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    Until i find the victim willing to bite.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Jun 16