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I 'm Lonely Most of the Time

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    Mr. Lonely

    I am lonely most of the time. I like it. Being lonely doesn't hurt me. Its like being me and staying true to myself. Well i got to know myself much better by staying lonely. Being lonely and doing nothing is just wastage of time. Instead if you are lonely then start discovering...
    AJT5142 AJT5142 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I used to have a pretty active social life.

    I was never home- always out, either partying at a club, eating a casual dinner at a bar/grill with friends, or hanging out at someone else's house. If I did stay home, someone would usually pop in and I'd cook dinner for everyone. I hated being alone. It scared me, because I...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Most of the time I just want to be noticed.

    Sometimes though I really do want to be alone.
    marchz13 marchz13 16-17, F Oct 14, 2014

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    “Nobody Says You Must Laugh, But a Sense of Humor Can Help You Overlook the Unattractive, Tolerate the Unpleasant, Cope With the Unexpected, and Smile Through the Day”

    I don't get it. I could be in a room with tons of people, and I still feel lonely. I have a boyfriend and a few good close friends, but I still feel lonely. I just want someone to get it. To get me! Know me... and be here. I have a lot of good friends, but not one of them...
    LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    Yesterday was a bad day; felt hopelessly stuck

    in my sadness. And I know it was a wasted day in my life, that I cannot get back. I wish I could wake up from this.
    Raahmona Raahmona 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    I am lonely almost all the time.

    ....I do almost everything ALONE .....I found a friend on here and fell in love with her... Thaught my broken heart could mend and we could betogether after some time but i guess she didnt feel it the same as me and she gave up.... Broken hearted again... I dont know if i will...
    moparman51 moparman51 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Even though I'm lonely most of the time I have

    learned that happiness is a state of being!
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F Mar 9

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    Blah

    I need to shake this feeling. It's been with me since april 2012.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Particularly based on being single

    for the last few years. And wouldn't you know it, Valentine's Day is really soon. If only my life was a movie and I could meet someone and click with them just in time.
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Feb 13

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    Alone at home, alone at school.

    i've been alone all along. some days i never speak. It feels bad but i can't think about any other way. I don't know what i want.
    Yalniz Yalniz 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Blissfullkim Blissfullkim 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    if i could have one thing right now,

    it would be to have friends that. people i can talk to and trust. A little drama now and then wouldn't be so bad. I mean who doesn't like a little chaos?
    kelvink kelvink 16-17, M Nov 17, 2014

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    i dont have friends..

    i am quiet most of the time.. im awkward around people.. no social life.. i tried to change and be like other girls but i dont like it.. it takes sooo much energy..
    caddisfly26 caddisfly26 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Sometimes I Don't Mind

    Its just me and my mom, single mom and she works tons so I'm alone so much. I take music lessons and softball but I'm gay and tell no one which makes me feel really lonely and wish people cared or understood. Only people that do are online
    PBnJam77 PBnJam77 16-17, M 9 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    Yes I do feel lonely most of the time,

    I spend almost every afternoon by myself. This past weekend I went hiking ask everyone in the house to go as usual I ended going by myself.
    001goodguy65 001goodguy65 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I am more alone than lonely,

    but being old and living on my own I could go for a week without talking to anyone but I make myself go out and meet people.
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M Sep 27, 2014

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    Spitbak Spitbak 41-45, M Mar 7

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    I came to terms with the fact

    that there is no one out there who loves . pretending to be happy is the saddest lie
    brokenglass299 brokenglass299 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    Lost appetite again. It's a wonder

    that I don't just vanish.
    Raahmona Raahmona 51-55, F Jul 17, 2014

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    I have lot of friends

    and lot of works to do but still find myself to be alone often
    Tawseef Tawseef 26-30, M Oct 10, 2014

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    Re-post had lots of mistakes I really want

    a relationship. I've had one boyfriend and our relationship only lasted for almost a year. He was insane I'm so glad that its over. Before I dated him I never had a boyfriend or had s*x either. It has now been a year that I've been single and haven't had s*x. I would really like...
    MareViCiOUS MareViCiOUS 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    I never realised when I built walls around

    myself. Last year I broke friendship with a girl cuz she said hell of shiit about my mom who's the dearest to me. And she had been a part of this drama with all my other "friends" who were just trying to isolate me. Anyway this and other stuff had been piling up. Now after a...
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Same Old Same Old

    I am 35 i have family but still very lonely. I have no one to moan at as i have sisters and that but everyone seems to just judge me so i keep myself to myself most of the time and if i have any troubles i normally just bottle them up until i burst arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Maybe one...
    mamdo2 mamdo2 36-40, F 13 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    I feel lonely often .

    This year has been full of surprises for me I wish I had someone to share them with but at the same time I like my loneliness nobody bothers me here and I'm safe . Every guy I've been with has been physically and verbally abusive I figure it's my fault so maybe il stay in my...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I wouldn't say that I am a shy person,

    because I am not. However, I cannot seem to find any 'friends' that know what the term friends mean. I want a person who is constantly going to be there. I want a person that will appreciate my interest rather than shun them away.It really hard being alone.. Maybe because of my...
    NameSteve NameSteve 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I get lonely. I live in an overpopulated are.

    People here have nothing in common with me, and if they do, they are either single guys that drink ALL the time. Or they are already taken, sometimes with kids. I feel like I'm never going to find my Prince Charming. I feel like I need to move out of this city. Guys I tend to...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I'm a sexual deviant

    when I let my guard down thinking it's love or caring. Over this past year I have left myself turn into a hermit emotionally and physically. I don't think I'll ever be cared for. There are too many idiots in the world.
    thelost87 thelost87 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2014

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    even has a married woman I still find time

    when I feel lonely. I think it began shortly after I had lost my job. I felt I did not have a purpose of a reason to get up every morning and go to a regular job. My job only lasted for 6 months when my boss decided to let me go. He told me that I need to go back to school and...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I am alone because I have to work all the time

    and then only got a little time for my family. Then I get lonely again.
    T055 T055 16-17, F Dec 4, 2014

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    Anxiety isn't something you simply ignore

    or overcome. It isn't the same as being nervous. It changes how you think. No matter how rational of a person you are, anxiety can make you believe insane lies. I have a hard time even leaving my house sometimes. It seems to get worse no matter how much better I get at handling...
    Snicknedge Snicknedge 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Makes Sense

    I don't have very many actually friends, I spend all my time alone usually at home or at the park. I fill up free time with drawing and listening to music most people have never heard of before. I'm nice don't get me wrong its just where I live I can't understand anyone here for...
    TrevorNotSalander TrevorNotSalander 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I'm not a mean person.

    I love everyone, no matter their gender, color, size, or social status. I'm a good friend, I let my friends borrow my stuff, give them adivce, even harm myself helping them, yetI find myself alone. My friends somewhere without me. I feel so bad. My friends call me weird when I...
    1ANGRYtitan 1ANGRYtitan 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    abhijj25 abhijj25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    how do you break out of your shell?

    how do you beat shyness cuz it's become a big problem for me?
    kelvink kelvink 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    jaeeem jaeeem 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I'm lonely and I hate loneliness,

    but it loves me more .. I try very hard in hopes of finding someone who cares for me, but everyone is busy and no one has time for me ..
    Manishworld Manishworld 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    She moved out in November,

    stopped making love with me in January, and now gives me an occasional deep hug and long, tongueless kiss. If I try to check in with her, see where she is at with 'us', her shoulders slump and she sighs and without words let's me know I am a pain in her *** for asking. So for...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 2 Responses May 12

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    For a little while I thought my loneliness was

    gone forever, needless to say I was a bit too optimistic. After being in a relationship for almost five years now I have come to realize that I am almost just as lonely as I once was single. I moved to a new city and state in which I know no one, and my boyfriend is not only a...
    4four2twenty0 4four2twenty0 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2014

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    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2014

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    I should expect this.

    Even after communicating with many people throughout the day. I still feel so alone. Last weekend was a blast because I had my friends with me. This weekend it's been nothing but work, work and more work. Then, on my off time I find myself doing nothing so I end up running...
    Devilscar Devilscar 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    I don't feel like people understand me.

    I feel like my friends don't really enjoy spending time with me. I don't know how to be anymore around them. I feel like crawling under a rock and just hiding from how much this makes me feel needy and depressed like no one cares. I really don't think anyone does care.
    constantRevelation constantRevelation 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    Is there any of you feel like you really just

    want to be friends with everyone but you feel uncomfortable around them and you feel comfortable when you are alone but lonely at the same time ?? I feel that way everyday :)(
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    As of this morning I am single

    and grateful! I believe my loneliness will shift. I think my nature is to be lonely... To feel kind of on the sidelines and watching the game of love being played by others. I welcome being lonely and SINGLE... Instead of the gut wrenching lonely I have felt the past year...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M May 14

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    I'm a single young boy.

    Most of the time I used to stay at my apartment, no phone calls, no friends, no lovers. Just eating, watching TV , watching movies, reading books, facebooking, exercising etc. So when I go out I feel so pathetic about my self, but I never blame things which I don't have, but...
    BRG8 BRG8 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 17, 2014

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    I usually feel lonely,

    I don't feel like someone really does trust me.. No one would share everything with me, I wish I had, just one.. Bestie. Who would share anything with me no matter what...
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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