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I 'm Lonely Most of the Time

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    I'm not a mean person.

    I love everyone, no matter their gender, color, size, or social status. I'm a good friend, I let my friends borrow my stuff, give them adivce, even harm myself helping them, yetI find myself alone. My friends somewhere without me. I feel so bad. My friends call me weird when I...
    1ANGRYtitan 1ANGRYtitan 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    For a little while I thought my loneliness was

    gone forever, needless to say I was a bit too optimistic. After being in a relationship for almost five years now I have come to realize that I am almost just as lonely as I once was single. I moved to a new city and state in which I know no one, and my boyfriend is not only a...
    4four2twenty0 4four2twenty0 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over phone and skype. He visited me last week and we met for the first time, it was an amazing few days we really bonded. He lives thousands...
    sarahc11 sarahc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    I usually feel lonely,

    I don't feel like someone really does trust me.. No one would share everything with me, I wish I had, just one.. Bestie. Who would share anything with me no matter what...
    BunnyCoral BunnyCoral 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    Same Old Same Old

    I am 35 i have family but still very lonely. I have no one to moan at as i have sisters and that but everyone seems to just judge me so i keep myself to myself most of the time and if i have any troubles i normally just bottle them up until i burst arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Maybe one...
    mamdo2 mamdo2 36-40, F 13 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    how do you break out of your shell?

    how do you beat shyness cuz it's become a big problem for me?
    kelvink kelvink 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    Lost appetite again. It's a wonder

    that I don't just vanish.
    Raahmona Raahmona 51-55, F Jul 17

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    I feel lonely often .

    This year has been full of surprises for me I wish I had someone to share them with but at the same time I like my loneliness nobody bothers me here and I'm safe . Every guy I've been with has been physically and verbally abusive I figure it's my fault so maybe il stay in my...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I came to terms with the fact

    that there is no one out there who loves . pretending to be happy is the saddest lie
    brokenglass299 brokenglass299 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I've gotten to the point were I don't really

    care,it's stupid why waste ur time when u can talk to the best,that is yourself of course (lol this sound so depressing,I don't talk to my self out loud).I started school yesterday,I've already been teased a bunch of times,and where have my "friends" been,no were to be seen ya...
    crazcat97 crazcat97 13-15, F Aug 12

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    Re-post had lots of mistakes I really want

    a relationship. I've had one boyfriend and our relationship only lasted for almost a year. He was insane I'm so glad that its over. Before I dated him I never had a boyfriend or had s*x either. It has now been a year that I've been single and haven't had s*x. I would really like...
    MareViCiOUS MareViCiOUS 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Yesterday was a bad day; felt hopelessly stuck

    in my sadness. And I know it was a wasted day in my life, that I cannot get back. I wish I could wake up from this.
    Raahmona Raahmona 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I am lonely most every day.

    I have been all my life. I have a hole in my soul and nothing fills it. I think I will be lonely when I die.
    noitulover noitulover 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I have lot of friends

    and lot of works to do but still find myself to be alone often
    Tawseef Tawseef 26-30, M Oct 10

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    This applies to friendships

    as well as relationships... I just have trouble making a connection. I always feel like everyone thinks I'm weird or boring, or they secretly hate me. I spent a lot of my life without any friends, and the ones I have had something always goes wrong. It feels like I can't confide...
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    I should expect this.

    Even after communicating with many people throughout the day. I still feel so alone. Last weekend was a blast because I had my friends with me. This weekend it's been nothing but work, work and more work. Then, on my off time I find myself doing nothing so I end up running...
    Devilscar Devilscar 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 20

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    A World All By Yourself

    Any body that deal's with depression know's what it is to be lonely. We spend most of our time by ourselve's. I have some really great friend's here on EP but it would really be nice to have a real person to talk to now and then.
    Robert1256 Robert1256 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    When you are kind and forgiving,

    you are considered weak. When you deceptive, you are considered strong.
    Raahmona Raahmona 51-55, F Jul 22

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    I don't feel like people understand me.

    I feel like my friends don't really enjoy spending time with me. I don't know how to be anymore around them. I feel like crawling under a rock and just hiding from how much this makes me feel needy and depressed like no one cares. I really don't think anyone does care.
    constantRevelation constantRevelation 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I'm a single young boy.

    Most of the time I used to stay at my apartment, no phone calls, no friends, no lovers. Just eating, watching TV , watching movies, reading books, facebooking, exercising etc. So when I go out I feel so pathetic about my self, but I never blame things which I don't have, but...
    BRG8 BRG8 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    “Nobody Says You Must Laugh, But a Sense of Humor Can Help You Overlook the Unattractive, Tolerate the Unpleasant, Cope With the Unexpected, and Smile Through the Day”

    I don't get it. I could be in a room with tons of people, and I still feel lonely. I have a boyfriend and a few good close friends, but I still feel lonely. I just want someone to get it. To get me! Know me... and be here. I have a lot of good friends, but not one of them...
    LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    jaeeem jaeeem 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    I live in a rented house.

    I have a full time job, but I have a difficult timetable. I work as a music school teacher, which means I don't start working until kids are finished at school. So I start late, and finish late. Add to that my social anxiety, and I am basically alone all the time. A small town...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Makes Sense

    I don't have very many actually friends, I spend all my time alone usually at home or at the park. I fill up free time with drawing and listening to music most people have never heard of before. I'm nice don't get me wrong its just where I live I can't understand anyone here for...
    TrevorNotSalander TrevorNotSalander 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I get lonely. I live in an overpopulated are.

    People here have nothing in common with me, and if they do, they are either single guys that drink ALL the time. Or they are already taken, sometimes with kids. I feel like I'm never going to find my Prince Charming. I feel like I need to move out of this city. Guys I tend to...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    whrisit whrisit 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    if i could have one thing right now,

    it would be to have friends that. people i can talk to and trust. A little drama now and then wouldn't be so bad. I mean who doesn't like a little chaos?
    kelvink kelvink 16-17, M Nov 17

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    I am alone because I have to work all the time

    and then only got a little time for my family. Then I get lonely again.
    T055 T055 16-17, F Dec 4

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    Sometimes I Don't Mind

    Its just me and my mom, single mom and she works tons so I'm alone so much. I take music lessons and softball but I'm gay and tell no one which makes me feel really lonely and wish people cared or understood. Only people that do are online
    PBnJam77 PBnJam77 13-15, M 8 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    i dont have friends..

    i am quiet most of the time.. im awkward around people.. no social life.. i tried to change and be like other girls but i dont like it.. it takes sooo much energy..
    caddisfly26 caddisfly26 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 19

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    I don't know what to say.

    I talk to this woman for months, then she basically dumps me Saturday, telling me that she is "unsure", "confused". Then texts me, to see how I am doing. ...what am I missing??? Why do I even bother.
    Raahmona Raahmona 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I am lonely almost all the time.

    ....I do almost everything ALONE .....I found a friend on here and fell in love with her... Thaught my broken heart could mend and we could betogether after some time but i guess she didnt feel it the same as me and she gave up.... Broken hearted again... I dont know if i will...
    moparman51 moparman51 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 21

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    I have little friends

    and family around me but I feel so lonely most of the time. It's like no one I know gets me at all and I sit to myself all the time. I'm not very good at meeting new people. I don't make friends that easily. I also don't have any hobbies! I sit on my phone all day and just look...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Thequietone1000 Thequietone1000 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Blah

    I need to shake this feeling. It's been with me since april 2012.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    I'm Lonely pretty much all the time.

    I live in a world so different from who I am. I have a wonderful partner and kids. But other than that I have no one. I want that friendship thing humans crave so much. I seem to get it but I don't know how to grow it nurture it and make it last. I hate being different I hate...
    MagickalFae MagickalFae 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Mr. Lonely

    I am lonely most of the time. I like it. Being lonely doesn't hurt me. Its like being me and staying true to myself. Well i got to know myself much better by staying lonely. Being lonely and doing nothing is just wastage of time. Instead if you are lonely then start discovering...
    AJT5142 AJT5142 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Dessolation Sickness

    I feel so alone it makes my stomach feel sick. Waking up in the morning with that feeling already there is so horrible day after year after year. How can one go thru life in this world with so many other people around me in society. So many experience life like this. Its a...
    lafsnack lafsnack 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    I'm a sexual deviant

    when I let my guard down thinking it's love or caring. Over this past year I have left myself turn into a hermit emotionally and physically. I don't think I'll ever be cared for. There are too many idiots in the world.
    thelost87 thelost87 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    I know my friends are there

    for me but it feels like when I need them the most, they are no where to be found.
    tolii tolii 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I wouldn't say that I am a shy person,

    because I am not. However, I cannot seem to find any 'friends' that know what the term friends mean. I want a person who is constantly going to be there. I want a person that will appreciate my interest rather than shun them away.It really hard being alone.. Maybe because of my...
    NameSteve NameSteve 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 31

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    Sometimes all we can do is hold on.

    I am grateful for the friends that have reached out to me today. Tomorrow is another day!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 22

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    I am more alone than lonely,

    but being old and living on my own I could go for a week without talking to anyone but I make myself go out and meet people.
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M Sep 27

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    Yes I do feel lonely most of the time,

    I spend almost every afternoon by myself. This past weekend I went hiking ask everyone in the house to go as usual I ended going by myself.
    001goodguy65 001goodguy65 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 22

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    benginm benginm 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    My boyfriend is always on his phone talking to

    other people on Facebook or on xbox live playing cod. Im sick of that. I swear its like he'd rather talk to anyone else in the whole world but me. Lord forbid he had to spend s whole day with me, no phone no anything. I think he'd kill himself. I have no friends, just him. Im...
    sadsadduck sadsadduck 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Is there any of you feel like you really just

    want to be friends with everyone but you feel uncomfortable around them and you feel comfortable when you are alone but lonely at the same time ?? I feel that way everyday :)(
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I never realised when I built walls around

    myself. Last year I broke friendship with a girl cuz she said hell of shiit about my mom who's the dearest to me. And she had been a part of this drama with all my other "friends" who were just trying to isolate me. Anyway this and other stuff had been piling up. Now after a...
    prisonbreaktempt prisonbreaktempt 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 30

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    Most of the time I just want to be noticed.

    Sometimes though I really do want to be alone.
    marchz13 marchz13 16-17, F Oct 14

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