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I 'm Lonely Most of the Time

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    Sometimes I Don't Mind

    Its just me and my mom, single mom and she works tons so I'm alone so much. I take music lessons and softball but I'm gay and tell no one which makes me feel really lonely and wish people cared or understood. Only people that do are online
    PBnJam77 PBnJam77 13-15, M 8 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    I'm a sexual deviant

    when I let my guard down thinking it's love or caring. Over this past year I have left myself turn into a hermit emotionally and physically. I don't think I'll ever be cared for. There are too many idiots in the world.
    thelost87 thelost87 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am always lonely even in a room full of

    people. Books are my best company but even then the wait for the movies are agonizing. I am always lonely which is dangerous cause that gives the flashbacks more reason to come plague me from the past abuse. I miss my ex girlfriend so much all the time and I'm still in love with...
    SkitLaberge SkitLaberge 18-21, F Mar 19

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    13robert13 13robert13 13-15, M Apr 5

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    im lonely most of the time

    even when i go out i prefer to stay alone i dont know if this is good or not but i dont like to make much friends.Even when im at home i dont talk to much and stay alone in my room even when i was small i never use to go out and play with my brothers my dad use to scold me but i...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Feb 4

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    I'm not a mean person.

    I love everyone, no matter their gender, color, size, or social status. I'm a good friend, I let my friends borrow my stuff, give them adivce, even harm myself helping them, yetI find myself alone. My friends somewhere without me. I feel so bad. My friends call me weird when I...
    PompousBrat PompousBrat 13-15, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Will I ever find a women

    for me that will like me for me not just for what I have? Is it even possible? Don't mean to be crude but I really do wonder.
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M Mar 18

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    I am lonely but I always feel like it's my

    fault. I never really have found a person that I really truly enjoy spending time with. Like I just don't relate well, don't get me wrong I am very friendly but I just push people away and end up getting bored with a friendship or relationship and just end it. But I enjoy alone...
    Girlinthefloweredskirt Girlinthefloweredskirt 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    My three girls are amazing

    and they keep me grounded. Without them I would be lost, just give up completely. Every time I start feeling the absence of family in my life, they remind me that they are my family now. I don't have to search for someone to love me. They already do. I don't have to be...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F Feb 16

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    Mr. Lonely

    I am lonely most of the time. I like it. Being lonely doesn't hurt me. Its like being me and staying true to myself. Well i got to know myself much better by staying lonely. Being lonely and doing nothing is just wastage of time. Instead if you are lonely then start discovering...
    AJT5142 AJT5142 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I came to terms with the fact

    that there is no one out there who loves . pretending to be happy is the saddest lie
    brokenglass299 brokenglass299 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I wish I was more confident

    and more of a conversationalist. I talk to girls online on websites such as this or online dating but I get bored of just talking. In real life I have only a couple of friends and they're not always around I wish I could have a girlfriend but I'm incapable of getting one as I'm...
    lawrencepa lawrencepa 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just want someone to make me laugh

    and not make me feel like the piece of **** that I am. :/
    tolii tolii 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I know my friends are there

    for me but it feels like when I need them the most, they are no where to be found.
    tolii tolii 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Same Old Same Old

    I am 35 i have family but still very lonely. I have no one to moan at as i have sisters and that but everyone seems to just judge me so i keep myself to myself most of the time and if i have any troubles i normally just bottle them up until i burst arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Maybe one...
    mamdo2 mamdo2 36-40, F 14 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    Thenobody1000 Thenobody1000 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Im Always Alone

    it happens in skool alot with nobody else to talk & either my friends are not here in skool or hanged out with their other friends.but i get the hang of it & it aint much fun being alone then rather hanging with friends....
    RodrigoGalindo730 RodrigoGalindo730 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I don't feel like people understand me.

    I feel like my friends don't really enjoy spending time with me. I don't know how to be anymore around them. I feel like crawling under a rock and just hiding from how much this makes me feel needy and depressed like no one cares. I really don't think anyone does care.
    constantRevelation constantRevelation 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Blah

    I need to shake this feeling. It's been with me since april 2012.
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    No matter where I am.

    No matter who I am with. Also my brain always says no one likes you people would enjoy themselves more if you left so I normally just get up and go sit somewhere by myself because that's what I'm used to. And I've been told I am unwanted before so that doesn't make my anxiety...
    Hachimalachi Hachimalachi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    So alone in my bedAlone listening to nightly

    whispersAlone in my thoughtsAlone standing in courtAlone I stand and fightAlone I pray for rainbow lightsAlone in the morning I awakeAlone I celebrate my joysAlone I cry out my sadnessAlone I voice out my fearsAlone in strenghtAlone in wealthAlone in good healthAlone I try to...
    Nikky13 Nikky13 16-17, F Jan 15

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    Loneliness

    I too know loneliness. After all, " I can be in a room full of people, and still feel totally alone". People just don't get me, or maybe I just don't get them!
    Emmy37 Emmy37 41-45 Nov 23, 2013

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    A World All By Yourself

    Any body that deal's with depression know's what it is to be lonely. We spend most of our time by ourselve's. I have some really great friend's here on EP but it would really be nice to have a real person to talk to now and then.
    Robert1256 Robert1256 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    Picking Partners.

    Hello Everyone, I am wondering if there is any students in this group. I am one of those mature students who constantly hates it when the teacher asks us to find a partner ourselves. I mean, what if there is a odd number of people? In my class there cannot be a group of...
    midnightstarr midnightstarr 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Please don't get Me wrong,

    Im not harsh/rude in any way. I feel that the truth good or bad helps us to understand things in our lives so we can correct what may need correcting....... Who?...What?...Where?...why?...When?...How? Do you ask yourself the questions above on a Daily basis? I can give You...
    PsychicLisa PsychicLisa 26-30, F Apr 3

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    It seems that everything good in my life never

    stays long..in the end I'm always alone. I just want someone who'll never leave...
    tolii tolii 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Makes Sense

    I don't have very many actually friends, I spend all my time alone usually at home or at the park. I fill up free time with drawing and listening to music most people have never heard of before. I'm nice don't get me wrong its just where I live I can't understand anyone here for...
    TrevorNotSalander TrevorNotSalander 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I'm Lonely pretty much all the time.

    I live in a world so different from who I am. I have a wonderful partner and kids. But other than that I have no one. I want that friendship thing humans crave so much. I seem to get it but I don't know how to grow it nurture it and make it last. I hate being different I hate...
    MagickalFae MagickalFae 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    i dont have friends..

    i am quiet most of the time.. im awkward around people.. no social life.. i tried to change and be like other girls but i dont like it.. it takes sooo much energy..
    caddisfly26 caddisfly26 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Lonely Widower

    father of two kids aged one and five security guard but in final semester of open university media studies degree programme.want friends who are female below 35 years from africa or europe.must have  kids or be single as well as being lonely.l love journalism,soccer...
    muface muface 36-40, M Apr 12, 2010

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    Monster

    Everyone always leaves me, but I can't blame them.
    amandameow amandameow 18-21, F Nov 6, 2013

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    Forever alone. Oh well,

    better enjoy it while I can.
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    I'm one of those people

    who can basically sit in a room full of people and still feel utterly alone. It's not that I don't have friends, or anyone to talk to. I do. I don't want more "friends". I want someone who understands. Someone I can count on. Someone I don't have to be afraid to tell I'm upset...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    -dead-

    I sit in the doctors cabin..he asks me am i going through any emotional crisis.. Inside me a voice cries out loud..another shouts in pain...a part is wailing helplessly pleading for someone to hear it He keeps on insisting..and the roar.. the cry grows louder within me..its...
    kiaradesai14 kiaradesai14 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I'm not sure if it bothers me to be alone most

    of the time. I mean if all I'll get is ****** friends then I will stick to my 2 true friends and keep these fakes ones at bay.
    tolii tolii 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Sad Love Poem

    Girl, please for once stop texting me and listen I can't be with you anymore This is not that easy to say But you broke my heart so many times Why should I let you back in my life when all you did was hurt me constantly and **** with my feelings? Why are you doing this to me? Don...
    anthemn91 anthemn91 18-21, M Oct 29, 2013

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    Lonely Widower

    father of two kids aged one and five security guard but in final semester of open university media studies degree programme.want friends who are female below 35 years from africa or europe.must have  kids or be single as well as being lonely.l love journalism,soccer...
    muface muface 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    “Nobody Says You Must Laugh, But a Sense of Humor Can Help You Overlook the Unattractive, Tolerate the Unpleasant, Cope With the Unexpected, and Smile Through the Day”

    I don't get it. I could be in a room with tons of people, and I still feel lonely. I have a boyfriend and a few good close friends, but I still feel lonely. I just want someone to get it. To get me! Know me... and be here. I have a lot of good friends, but not one of them...
    LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou LeaveAndTakeMeWithYou 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    I feel lonely often .

    This year has been full of surprises for me I wish I had someone to share them with but at the same time I like my loneliness nobody bothers me here and I'm safe . Every guy I've been with has been physically and verbally abusive I figure it's my fault so maybe il stay in my...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I'm a single young boy.

    Most of the time I used to stay at my apartment, no phone calls, no friends, no lovers. Just eating, watching TV , watching movies, reading books, facebooking, exercising etc. So when I go out I feel so pathetic about my self, but I never blame things which I don't have, but...
    BRG8 BRG8 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    It is what it is, no matter how I look at it am

    a very sociable person and I enjoy the company of people, but for some reason I can't seem to make any good real life friends especially that am not interested in anything beyond decent honest friendship, I respect and love all of my true friends I've met so far here on EP, but...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    And being single doesn't help much.

    .I want a guy to understand me and be there for me 24/7.
    tolii tolii 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    To think I could consider someone a friend over the internet. I knew it once again I was being delusional. Such relationship would never happen to me, I can hardly make friends in...
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    All the lesbians I meet on here only want sex from me. I did not come here for that. I want to talk to another female I can relate to. I live in a very small town and I don't know...
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