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I 'm Not Here For Sex Or An X Rated Experience

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,306 People

    Spelling This Out

    I am not sure what it is about my profile that seems to draw propositions, but I've been getting them.  And I am a bit irked by it.  So I am going to spell it out in verrrrrrrrrry small words.I am not on EP for any kind of sexual activity.Can I make it any more clear than that...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2011


    I've only been on here for like two weeks and there are these men who won't let it go.. I do NOT, NOT I tell you, want anything to do with you sexually. I don't want to skype. I don't want to send you nudes, I am on here for other reasons.. Not that!! If you are.. whatever. I don...
    Beautifulimperfections Beautifulimperfections
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 5, 2012

    Not what I am here for,

    nor what I want. If you do message me with sexual based messages u will get basically told once nope not gonna happen after that i will tell you off and block you cause i don't play those games, I am here only for friends, and to meet people that have been through some of the...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    Yeah, I am here for the fun of it.

    Okay, okay, I know some of my posts and experiences are XXX rated, but, I have a thing for Superheroes. So what?
    deleted deleted
    Aug 15, 2015


    Even if my username propose something, its purely informative. If I wanted sex or something like that I would get out and get it. The end :P
    PokePhile PokePhile
    22-25, M
    May 20, 2013

    It My Be Fun For Some But.....

    If I can't hold it in my hot little hand, feel it next to me, smell or taste it then it's almost a waste of time and is nothing more than frustrating.
    deleted deleted
    Sep 27, 2008


    I know I write about a lot of things and I do have a lot on my mind. EP has become a form of therapy for me to put all the things running around in my head into words. Get them out and then I can think more on them. Just because I write about something doesn't mean I want a call...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

    It's so funny when someone sends me an email

    that sounds like a personal ad. "I'm 28, love long walks on the beach, animals, and donating to charity. Blah blah blah. And you?" My first reply is "I'm happily married with a child...." And then of course I'll go into the things I like too... And I say nice to meet ya...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2014

    I'm not. It is not why I joined the site.

    ...but, if the offer is too good to pass up what would you have me do.It would have to be an interesting offer.Intriguing.From a woman who knows how to make an offer like that.Fascinating.A woman who can be so distracting I would forget where I am.Think only what I am.What she is...
    Factorial Factorial
    51-55, M
    Jan 4, 2014

    Not Really Interested

    I am a young teenager so sex is pretty normal of a topic for me and I will answer questions or talk about it freely that doesn't bother me. It just doesn't seem that big of a deal but I am happy with how it is right now and I'm not interested in trying to get some on here or...
    sexysmeagol sexysmeagol
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2013

    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2
    26-30, M
    Jul 22, 2014

    my whole life is an x-rated experience

    so I am not looking for one online. I am her to meet some lovely new people...yes I am talking to you, yes you who is reading this, that includes you. If you like what you see or even if you dont...just send me a message, I promise I dont bite!
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker
    31-35, M
    Oct 9, 2014

    Some People Are Just Creepy :|

    I would understand if someone wants to share their experiences in the sexual realm, but when that's all you're on EP for, and then the person wants to add you D: it's just creepy. Lol that's all.
    AuroraSpectrum AuroraSpectrum
    18-21, M
    Sep 7, 2013

    Not Me

    people drive me crazy with these nasty icon pictures then they want to friend you then i click on thier profile and theres some nut with tight pants on with a peee stain. oh good lord i know some people have fedishesh and are kinnkie and do some really strange things but I am a...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 20, 2011

    No Thanks

    I have a husband whom I love and adore.We are NOT into sharing or swapping.Unless you want me to embarrass you (post your lame attempt publicly), chop up your little bits and serve them with a side of fava beans, I suggest you remain respectful and move on to someone else's...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 15, 2012

    Count Me Not Interested

    The title says it all. Normal adult conversations, no **** or diviant behaviors. Just keep it clean and we can chat....otherwise I will block you. I appreciate your rights now you respect mine. mini
    minimeowz minimeowz
    61-65, F
    1 Response May 18, 2013

    Hmmm, Just Maybe .... Just Kidding Lol!

    I'm a heterosexual guy so with that said , I might chat a little just for entertainment sake ( usually with the ladies) but beyond that ... nahhh. ;)
    nooneleft nooneleft
    56-60, M
    Sep 11, 2013

    The only x rated experiences

    that I like are those in which I actually touch and see and smell and hold and talk. Don't quite understand an online keyboard sexual experience.
    pinemutter pinemutter
    51-55, M
    Nov 26, 2014

    im not here for sex or

    for any sexual graftification
    voyagetoheaven voyagetoheaven
    22-25, M
    Jan 31, 2015

    Wth Is Fungirl Talking About?

    It may surprise you that I joined this group because I write so much erotica. Erotica is the most challenging genre to me because it is hard to write about sex and make a reader feel what I feel in the moment without turning it into a pornographic post.  It is a challenge...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2010

    I'm really not interested in it,

    and it seems like many, many people are. That's great for them, but it's difficult to sift through all the ridiculous stuff on this site..
    ThejaMT ThejaMT
    26-30, M
    Mar 6, 2014

    Keep Steppin

    I have a guy, I am happy with my life, I ain't looking for hook ups or sex talk or any BS like that, if that is what you are here looking for that's your prerogative but keep steppin and don't hollar at me. If you do you'll get blocked or cussed cause I ain't THAT kinda girl...
    mzjen mzjen
    31-35, F
    Oct 10, 2013

    There are many websites

    for that, EP is not one of them. I am here at EP to share and read experiences with others not sexual relations so do not contact me if that is your intention. Otherwise, I will block you. Make EP comfortable for the people here okay?
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    I will repeat something

    that was somewhat similar to what I said to this dude who messaged me asking if I was looking for a sugar daddy (not quite verbatim): "If you have to troll online to pick up women, you obviously don't have any game in real life." Seriously, how desperate can one get?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 19, 2014

    I'm Not Here For Sex, Roleplaying, Or Dirty Chat

    If you are someone who is interested in sex, romantic relationships, roleplaying, or dirty chat, please do not message me or add me to your circle. I will NOT respond to you. There are tons of people who are into "hooking up" online with strangers but I am NOT one of them. So...
    1alwaysdreaming 1alwaysdreaming
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    I am on here for Support

    and to meet new people I am the kind of person that believes in NO physical relationships outside of marriage ( this is a personal religious belief I'm not telling you how to live your lives ) PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop messaging me asking if I want to hook up for sex or anything...
    KJVgirl92 KJVgirl92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I swear to god, the next person

    that messages me and tells me they're horny, I will hunt down and ruin. I am so sick of it, if I want sex or to speak about it I will do it myself, I don't need the likes of a thousand creepy men speaking about such a bland topic. It's fun and beautiful with the right person or...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 7, 2014

    I am happily married

    and I am not going to entertain any sex or X rated experience at EP. If you guys need to get off sexually, then get the hell off your computer and off this website permanently, take care of business, take you mental medications and see your mental health professional, and then...
    momsunbathing momsunbathing
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    Had my first night here just last night

    and the very first person who spoke to me right off the bat asked me if I like oral sex. For serious? And this guy..I'm sorry, this pig, my mistake. This pig, after I seen his profile activity was getting pissed because I guess he kept being turned down. Just in case you come...
    AtomicJosei AtomicJosei
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 21, 2014

    Yet again, I'm reminding anyone

    who has any interest in me as a friend or lover or whatever, I am here only to make friends or to meet people who suffer from anxiety and depression as I do. I am absolutely not interested in kinky stuff or dating. Thanks to anyone who bothered to read this!
    BlueJinx BlueJinx
    26-30, F
    Mar 7, 2016

    I am happily married

    and have been for 17 years so I am NOT on this site for any perverted jerk-offs who enjoy making women feel like sex objects. We are beautiful women who deserve respect and (look at my face when I'm talking to you!) OMG I hate it when men stare at your chest when talking to you...
    sandybeaches4me sandybeaches4me
    46-50, F
    Jul 29, 2014

    At least not ALL of the time.

    But I admit it, there are times when I AM here for X-Rated fun with other women.
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    Not Interested At All!!!

    I have no interest whatsoever in sex or an x-rated experience.  My  interest in sex and sex drive are at the same levels as my T levels ZERO.Don't bore me having to blocking you.
    Becnme Becnme
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

    No Thanks

    I'm not here for sex or an x-rated experience.Today, I sent welcome emails to new members.  I had man reply back that he was looking for cam sex.Really.  Rolls eyes.Sorry, I'm not interested and don't care for those that are into that.EP is a place to share experiences and if...
    iwritebiographies iwritebiographies
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2012

    No...I Am Not Contradicting Myself Here..

    Simply put....I did not come here for sex, ****, or some kind of X-rated experience.  I am not here to try "cyber-sex", "sex-chat", or find a no strings attached sex partner.   I am not opposed to talking about sexual matters with trusted friends, but I am not here for the...
    deleted deleted
    May 25, 2011

    Your Blocked

    Im here to ask and answer questions, write stories and join groups im interested inIf you message me wanting to talk sex or skype or talk dirty at least have the brains first to check my profile and see if i have adult content WHICH I DON'Ti am truly amazed at the fools whos...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    I'M Not Here For That, But I Know We Are All 'Real' People Here.. So I'll Still Be Your 'Friend' (With Conditions)...

    I'm not here for that, but I know we are all 'real' people here.. so I'll still be your 'friend' (With conditions)... My views are simple regarding sex and sexuality... I am a very sexual person. I love passion and intimacy. I love that kind of closeness when I am in a...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine
    31-35, F
    16 Responses Feb 1, 2013

    I Am Not On This Site For Sex

    There are way too Manny sex sites i joined to make some friends to share with the good the bad times some times i just like to chat a little! My first contact on this site seamed normal but after chating for about 15 minits she became a man! and wonted to know if i could picture...
    david1957 david1957
    51-55, M
    2 Responses May 30, 2013

    Get It Right!

    Okay, I just wanna say that, just because I'm into bondage, kink, whatever you wanna call it, or because alot of my stories are "erotic", doesn't mean I'm here for a hookup, cybersex, sexting, or any other thing related to "sex". I am a happy wife, with a wonderful Master...
    candyi candyi
    36-40, F
    Dec 1, 2013

    Please pass me by if that's your desire.

    I prefer mental stimulation.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 1, 2015

    Think Before You Act.

    To each their own, and if that's what you're looking for by being on here, well, that's your prerogative, NOT Mine. Now, that does not mean that I suffer from outdated puritanical delusions. Which I don't, as I've already mentioned in another post, I am no stranger to the...
    TheDevilsAdvocate TheDevilsAdvocate
    41-45, F
    Aug 11, 2011

    No I'm Not But...

    No I'm not here for sex but that doesn't mean that I won't enjoy that aspect of this site.I found this site by by random chance while doing a search on Google. As I've learned about the contents of this site and some of the many people on here. I've come to realize that EP...
    verydeepthinking verydeepthinking
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2013

    I am defiantly not here

    for any sexual Internet relationship or any x rated sexual experiences regardless of age or gender. I am a very happily married woman so be decent and respectful when responding to my stories and your personal messages to me.
    britishfemaleinusa britishfemaleinusa
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015

    I'm Not A Prude But.... me, women are like a bottle of Courvoisier cognac. I'm more interested in what's inside than the appearance of the bottle. 
    towhead2 towhead2
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Jan 12, 2011

    Thank You

    I was starting to feel like something was wrong with me until I read some of the stories in this group. I was feeling like I was the only one that felt this way but now I see that I'm not and feel much better. I hope to make friends with some of you. Thank you
    Queenie50 Queenie50
    36-40, F
    Mar 1, 2013
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