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I 'm Not Here to Debate You In Groups I've Joined

don't mind hearing an openion but don't want a debate started. Create a debate group for that. 439 People

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    If someone attacks me, I can and WILL fight back. I can be just as nasty as the other person, except I prefer to handle it with class. I am capable of being as mouthy and just as hurtful as you, but I will do it my way and not sink to your level. Two people attacked me on EP a...
    angelofthenight angelofthenight 21-25, F Dec 17, 2010

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    Controversy

    I have strong opinions on various subjects, experiences I have lived through that will not convince me otherwise. I am stubborn, but I am also relatively open-minded as well. It all depends on what we are discussing. There are groups on EP which I can never understand, or...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F May 24, 2013

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    If You're Gonna Do It...

    I'm not here to debate, even though I'm GOOD at it. But, it's not fun, it drives up my blood pressure, it leaves a dry taste in my mouth. So even though I'm good at it, I rather not do it. It's okay for people to have opposing ideas to mine, I don't mind that at all. I don't...
    Stardusty Stardusty 31-35, F Jul 25, 2012

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    It's My Life

    I'm not here to debate you in the groups I've joined. And if you got a problem than please respect me by letting me be myself. ~Thank You~
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jan 26, 2013

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    Debate? It's Not My Style!

    I'm here to join groups and share with you what I 'personally experience'. The groups, as I 'personally believe' are not and should be places where you come and argue and delude yourself into thinking 'my opinion is better than his' or 'That's rubbish, he doesn't know what he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    Amen

    That's all I have to say....Amen...the point of these groups is self expression and to find those who are LIKE souls...those who don't agree with the group should be continuing on to the ones they DO agree with...way to go, grits4ever. YOU ROCK.
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2009

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    I Agree

      When i share my experiences or state my opinions..it's nice if you reply and agree with me or state a few of your opinions. But to get on here and just about TELL ME how things are..or email me and try to threaten or bully me with your ideas..that's when the line gets...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Just What the Description Says

    I don't mind hearing an opinion but don't want a debate started. I am merely saying what I believe. I am a well educated young woman and am aware of all sides of an argument before deciding where I fit. When I write a story saying what I think on a subject, I don't mind you...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    The Group Title Says It All.

    The world is made up of billions of different people. What's right and works for you... or for me... is not what is right for everyone else. I know I am a screwed up mess... who still has a lot to learn. But I know enough now to stand on my own ideas... which yes can shift and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2011

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    I'M NOT GOING TO DEBATE ABOUT THE GROUPS I'M

    IN I'M GOING TO LEAVE THE POLITICS TO DO THIS.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Mar 14

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    Not

    *giggles* don't remember joining this group but I do remember several times when people questioned groups I was in. There are times when I click too fast and OOPS I've joined I have a penis or something. In those cases I'll gladly drop the group but I try to find groups...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Jan 6, 2009

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    SOME Folks Just Like to Argue

    I ONLY LEAVE CONSTRUCTIVE COMMENTS. I DON'T FEEL COMPELLED TO CONVERT EVERY PERSON I COME INTO CONTACT WITH THAT DOESN'T SHARE THE SAME VIEW POINT AS I DO. SOME PEOPLE JUST LOVE TO ARGUE. THEY INCITE CONFLICT. THEY ARE NARROW MINDED KNOW IT ALL BUSY BODIES WHO LIKE TO CONTROL...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Jan 7, 2009

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    Are You Giving An Openion Or Wanting to Debate

    iI enjoy hearing the other side of things and have no problem with someone having a difference of opinion. My issue comes with the way some people choose to deliver their opinions. If some are going to leave opinions then don't belittle, be sarcastic, use angey tones, or be...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I'm not here to debate,

    argue, pontificate, or get on any soap box when it comes to my views..I know what I believe in, I know my principles, values, ethics..and I'll gladly state them...but that's it! Too many mentally pathological people want to start a fight in an empty room...
    Davido57 Davido57 56-60, M May 28

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    I'm Not Here To Debate You In Groups I've Joined

    The Groups I've joined are groups that have things in common with me!I see no reason for debating it!   There's not much to say here other thanI'm not here to debate you in Groups I've Joined.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 23, 2012

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    Bass Ackwards

    Debate who's right and who's wrong.  Whats the problem with the debating, and why does it seem like there's so much hatred around.  Now, more than ever, there's more violence and more shootings, people getting killed, more road rage. I don't know where this world...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    Nice Idea But...

    If you post the story you are inviting comment and with it debate If you don't want the potential for debate then don't post Counter arguments are not evil because someone doesn't like them It's like they say if you can't take it don't dish it
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Not Happening, Buddy.

    Expectations are a marvellous thing, as I've discovered whenever you hung out with a new crowd and somebody expected you to defend why you did, debating for ages in a do or die attempt to make a point. The thing is for some of us well we do what we do cos we enjoy enjoy it or...
    CuriosityKTC CuriosityKTC 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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    Don't Lose Patience and Leave a Question Half-answered ...

    The path of least resistance follows from understanding every considered opinion has merit, and it shouldn't be a problem to let all aspects be discussed without conflict ...  you may not agree with someone, so they have the same option ... by putting a lot of varying...
    gottaBhappy gottaBhappy 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I've added so many groups that I've lost track! I found two on my profile that said, "I am mother" and "I want a boyfriend". Neither are true.
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Only been on here 2 days and due to an internet **** up , I feel like I've let people down............. and theres nothing I can do..... Waiting for the new phone and net...
    thataussie thataussie 36-40, M Jul 10

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    Truly Imhereforyou18 is here for u. If I'm messaged I will be a great friend to u n try to get to know u better as the person u r. I will message u for as long as u need or want me...
    imhereforyou18 imhereforyou18 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I've been dumped. And I need an ego boost. So here's a shameful attention seeking post. Thank you
    artygurl77 artygurl77 26-30, F 14 Responses Jul 1

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    If I was to write every single detail, I'd probably be typing all night. Plus I am too lazy :P But well me name is Emily, I'm 17 years old. I was raped when I was 12 by a...
    Emily97x Emily97x 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Despite what people may think or how they may feel about me. Despite what they see or how I act with them. Despite how I seem to be fine or how involved I seem with my work...
    immobilise immobilise 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I've been through a lot I went to prison for two years to protect my wife And she repaid me by divorcing me for another man
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 5

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    I've never met a man so full of empty plans and promises. When his mouth moves I don't even listen anymore. It just breaks my heart otherwise :(
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Totally agree to this. I feel like our experiences in life will make us better people. And hopefully someone will listen to me and take my advice for what I've been through. I'm...
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F Jun 29

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    I'm not a strong person, at least I don't think I am. I've been through my share of difficulties and trials and somehow or another I've managed to squeeze my way through them. It's...
    CloakedStranger CloakedStranger 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Held practically hostage in a foreign country?Check! 13 years married to a abusive psycho? Check! Fleeing for my and my children's lives? Check! Arriving back in America broke with...
    IStillGotIt IStillGotIt 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    I am thankful for everything I've learned throughout my life, and that the **** I've had to deal with hasn't hardened my heart. But I would really love a break, I'm exhausted.
    planetcaravan planetcaravan 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Never did, never do and never will! I don't smoke! When I was younger my older sister made me promise to never ever smoke and so I've never broke that promise and always keep my...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm damaged... I can admit that. I've been hurt and I've cried yes. I have never lied when I told someone I loved them.... Even though I've been lied to before....
    margar879 margar879 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    People of my past that told me they loved me, they didn't truly mean it. If anyone truly means it, they would still be with you right now. What I've learned over time is that you...
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My wife told our marriage counselor that she feels jipped because she's been married to me. Thanks honey.... she's had 4 affairs that I know of and she's the one that feels...
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    I've overcome many adversities in my life but I feel like I am getting stronger every day and learning more about myself
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Growing up, my parents were abusive alcoholics but I still loved them because in my heart I still had hope that someday they would change and be the people I knew they were capable...
    chadwiak01 chadwiak01 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I am strong-I think i am strong because of the kind of pain i feel now whenever someone orders me to do something.I used to feel guilty,that it's all my fault...but now i don't...
    samy666 samy666 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    We all have personal demons & insecurities prisoner's of our thoughts & mine's is never feeling good enough. I suppose it started from childhood I've come to realize my father to...
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    "Does a weak person become strong because they have to? Or do they become strong because they want to?" I've never been the kind of guy that an hide my emotions well, I end up...
    CatchingDarkness CatchingDarkness 16-17, M 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I may only be fourteen but I've been through a lot. I went through, a hard stage of depression and cutting, I tried suicide once. I had to come out of the closet to my parents...
    LizzyQ7788 LizzyQ7788 13-15, F Jul 5

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    and I've never said it till date.
    waterflame waterflame 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I am stronger because of all I've been through... I was 16 when everything happened. It all seemed to snowball honestly. I had been home sick with the flu. I was staying at my...
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    We had a big argument over her boyfriend and how he's more important and that friends come and go but he wont blah blah. So we argued and I was like why do I bother then if I'm...
    lela201465 lela201465 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I've been told I had the cute "girl next door" look but I don't feel really confident... I know there are girls way prettier than me but what do you think? Please be honest.
    sophiaxxx sophiaxxx 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't agree with pharmaceutical drugs either! Pharmaceutical drugs doesn't cure the problem just masked/ hide the pain for a little while which is all well and good but we get...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was sexually abused by my stepfather when I was 9 years old. I am now 18 soon to be 19 and I can clearly remember how it all started. I lasted my head on his lap because my head...
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