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I 'm Not Here to Debate You In Groups I've Joined

don't mind hearing an openion but don't want a debate started. Create a debate group for that. 462 People

    Don't Lose Patience and Leave a Question Half-answered ...

    The path of least resistance follows from understanding every considered opinion has merit, and it shouldn't be a problem to let all aspects be discussed without conflict ...  you may not agree with someone, so they have the same option ... by putting a lot of varying...
    gottaBhappy gottaBhappy 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    Debate? It's Not My Style!

    I'm here to join groups and share with you what I 'personally experience'. The groups, as I 'personally believe' are not and should be places where you come and argue and delude yourself into thinking 'my opinion is better than his' or 'That's rubbish, he doesn't know what he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I Agree

      When i share my experiences or state my opinions..it's nice if you reply and agree with me or state a few of your opinions. But to get on here and just about TELL ME how things are..or email me and try to threaten or bully me with your ideas..that's when the line gets...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    The Group Title Says It All.

    The world is made up of billions of different people. What's right and works for you... or for me... is not what is right for everyone else. I know I am a screwed up mess... who still has a lot to learn. But I know enough now to stand on my own ideas... which yes can shift and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2011

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    If You're Gonna Do It...

    I'm not here to debate, even though I'm GOOD at it. But, it's not fun, it drives up my blood pressure, it leaves a dry taste in my mouth. So even though I'm good at it, I rather not do it. It's okay for people to have opposing ideas to mine, I don't mind that at all. I don't...
    Stardusty Stardusty 31-35, F Jul 25, 2012

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    Not Happening, Buddy.

    Expectations are a marvellous thing, as I've discovered whenever you hung out with a new crowd and somebody expected you to defend why you did, debating for ages in a do or die attempt to make a point. The thing is for some of us well we do what we do cos we enjoy enjoy it or...
    CuriosityKTC CuriosityKTC 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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    Are You Giving An Openion Or Wanting to Debate

    iI enjoy hearing the other side of things and have no problem with someone having a difference of opinion. My issue comes with the way some people choose to deliver their opinions. If some are going to leave opinions then don't belittle, be sarcastic, use angey tones, or be...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    But......

    If someone attacks me, I can and WILL fight back. I can be just as nasty as the other person, except I prefer to handle it with class. I am capable of being as mouthy and just as hurtful as you, but I will do it my way and not sink to your level. Two people attacked me on EP a...
    angelofthenight angelofthenight 21-25, F Dec 17, 2010

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    Controversy

    I have strong opinions on various subjects, experiences I have lived through that will not convince me otherwise. I am stubborn, but I am also relatively open-minded as well. It all depends on what we are discussing. There are groups on EP which I can never understand, or...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F May 24, 2013

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    It's My Life

    I'm not here to debate you in the groups I've joined. And if you got a problem than please respect me by letting me be myself. ~Thank You~
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jan 26, 2013

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    Not

    *giggles* don't remember joining this group but I do remember several times when people questioned groups I was in. There are times when I click too fast and OOPS I've joined I have a penis or something. In those cases I'll gladly drop the group but I try to find groups...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Jan 6, 2009

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    people join what they join

    for a reason. no one has to give you an explanation why.
    fillia fillia 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Nice Idea But...

    If you post the story you are inviting comment and with it debate If you don't want the potential for debate then don't post Counter arguments are not evil because someone doesn't like them It's like they say if you can't take it don't dish it
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    I'M NOT GOING TO DEBATE ABOUT THE GROUPS I'M

    IN I'M GOING TO LEAVE THE POLITICS TO DO THIS.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Mar 14

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    Bass Ackwards

    Debate who's right and who's wrong.  Whats the problem with the debating, and why does it seem like there's so much hatred around.  Now, more than ever, there's more violence and more shootings, people getting killed, more road rage. I don't know where this world...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    SOME Folks Just Like to Argue

    I ONLY LEAVE CONSTRUCTIVE COMMENTS. I DON'T FEEL COMPELLED TO CONVERT EVERY PERSON I COME INTO CONTACT WITH THAT DOESN'T SHARE THE SAME VIEW POINT AS I DO. SOME PEOPLE JUST LOVE TO ARGUE. THEY INCITE CONFLICT. THEY ARE NARROW MINDED KNOW IT ALL BUSY BODIES WHO LIKE TO CONTROL...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Jan 7, 2009

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    Just What the Description Says

    I don't mind hearing an opinion but don't want a debate started. I am merely saying what I believe. I am a well educated young woman and am aware of all sides of an argument before deciding where I fit. When I write a story saying what I think on a subject, I don't mind you...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Amen

    That's all I have to say....Amen...the point of these groups is self expression and to find those who are LIKE souls...those who don't agree with the group should be continuing on to the ones they DO agree with...way to go, grits4ever. YOU ROCK.
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2009

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    I'm Not Here To Debate You In Groups I've Joined

    The Groups I've joined are groups that have things in common with me!I see no reason for debating it!   There's not much to say here other thanI'm not here to debate you in Groups I've Joined.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 23, 2012

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