I 'm Not Here to Debate You In Groups I've Joined

don't mind hearing an openion but don't want a debate started. Create a debate group for that. 631 People

    Nice Idea But...

    If you post the story you are inviting comment and with it debate If you don't want the potential for debate then don't post Counter arguments are not evil because someone doesn't like them It's like they say if you can't take it don't dish it
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Aug 19, 2008

    Amen

    That's all I have to say....Amen...the point of these groups is self expression and to find those who are LIKE souls...those who don't agree with the group should be continuing on to the ones they DO agree with...way to go, grits4ever. YOU ROCK.
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2009

    Bass Ackwards

    Debate who's right and who's wrong.  Whats the problem with the debating, and why does it seem like there's so much hatred around.  Now, more than ever, there's more violence and more shootings, people getting killed, more road rage. I don't know where this world...
    Neveah Neveah
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Nov 3, 2009

    Talk to me all day long

    if i'm in the right mood or space. But please don't let it turn into debate or spite because I really don't want to get into arguments.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 9, 2015

    "I ain't looking' to compete with youBeat

    or cheat or mistreat youSimplify you, classify youDeny, defy or crucify youAll I really want to doIs, baby, be friends with you..."- from Bob Dylan's (aka Elston Gunn) song -'All I Really Want To Do'https://youtu.be/ji1_LHKUJ6Y 
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015

    But......

    If someone attacks me, I can and WILL fight back. I can be just as nasty as the other person, except I prefer to handle it with class. I am capable of being as mouthy and just as hurtful as you, but I will do it my way and not sink to your level. Two people attacked me on EP a...
    angelofthenight angelofthenight
    22-25, F
    Dec 17, 2010

    Debate? It's Not My Style!

    I'm here to join groups and share with you what I 'personally experience'. The groups, as I 'personally believe' are not and should be places where you come and argue and delude yourself into thinking 'my opinion is better than his' or 'That's rubbish, he doesn't know what he's...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    They are just my opinions,

    you don't need to agree with me. I join the groups I like and don't care what people may think.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Nov 19, 2015

    If i wish to debate a person it'll be respectful

    or i won't be having it with you, and it will not be inside groups i join for support and acceptance or story telling that's for sure so please don't try you'll be deleted, ignored or depending on the attitude maybe even blocked. There is a place and a time for everything but...
    CosmicEvan CosmicEvan
    22-25, T
    Oct 10, 2015

    Yep. I'm here to share my thoughts,

    opinions, dreams and aspiration. If it doesn't fit your standards, it's your problem, I don't want to have an argument with ANYBODY. nor my obligation to explain. I don't come here to be famous, to be most starred, to gather comments, to have my stories recognize or prove...
    witheredleaf witheredleaf
    26-30
    May 15, 2015

    If You're Gonna Do It...

    I'm not here to debate, even though I'm GOOD at it. But, it's not fun, it drives up my blood pressure, it leaves a dry taste in my mouth. So even though I'm good at it, I rather not do it. It's okay for people to have opposing ideas to mine, I don't mind that at all. I don't...
    Stardusty Stardusty
    31-35, F
    Jul 25, 2012

    Not Happening, Buddy.

    Expectations are a marvellous thing, as I've discovered whenever you hung out with a new crowd and somebody expected you to defend why you did, debating for ages in a do or die attempt to make a point. The thing is for some of us well we do what we do cos we enjoy enjoy it or...
    CuriosityKTC CuriosityKTC
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2012

    Your thoughts belifes are yous such

    as mine. But love discussion.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I'm Not Here To Debate You In Groups I've Joined

    The Groups I've joined are groups that have things in common with me!I see no reason for debating it!   There's not much to say here other thanI'm not here to debate you in Groups I've Joined.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    Dec 23, 2012

    people join what they join

    for a reason. no one has to give you an explanation why.
    cherche cherche
    18-21
    Aug 21, 2014

    I Agree

      When i share my experiences or state my opinions..it's nice if you reply and agree with me or state a few of your opinions. But to get on here and just about TELL ME how things are..or email me and try to threaten or bully me with your ideas..that's when the line gets...
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 1, 2009

    Just What the Description Says

    I don't mind hearing an opinion but don't want a debate started. I am merely saying what I believe. I am a well educated young woman and am aware of all sides of an argument before deciding where I fit. When I write a story saying what I think on a subject, I don't mind you...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 27, 2008

    that is right I want to post here what I am

    thinking or about what I feel and I do not want you to say not one single thing about it, most people only say negative mean things no one ever really understand they are not me so how could they we all have to walk are own road regardless how many cushions we try to use. I do...
    Amber237 Amber237
    51-55, F
    Nov 20, 2015

    The Group Title Says It All.

    The world is made up of billions of different people. What's right and works for you... or for me... is not what is right for everyone else. I know I am a screwed up mess... who still has a lot to learn. But I know enough now to stand on my own ideas... which yes can shift and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 15, 2011

    Are You Giving An Openion Or Wanting to Debate

    iI enjoy hearing the other side of things and have no problem with someone having a difference of opinion. My issue comes with the way some people choose to deliver their opinions. If some are going to leave opinions then don't belittle, be sarcastic, use angey tones, or be...
    Grits4life Grits4life
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 18, 2008

    Not

    *giggles* don't remember joining this group but I do remember several times when people questioned groups I was in. There are times when I click too fast and OOPS I've joined I have a penis or something. In those cases I'll gladly drop the group but I try to find groups...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    Jan 6, 2009

    God finally! A group

    where I can say whites are the supreme race, o'bama is the best president of all time, and Jessica Alba is ugly...and no one will debate me! Haha
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 7, 2015

    I go join groups to discuss things with like

    minded people. Not people who don't truly give a **** or just wanna argue. And some people have the nerve to complain about content while going into a group that clearly says it has that content. That's like eating a burger from mcdonalds then complaining about not getting a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    Don't Lose Patience and Leave a Question Half-answered ...

    The path of least resistance follows from understanding every considered opinion has merit, and it shouldn't be a problem to let all aspects be discussed without conflict ...  you may not agree with someone, so they have the same option ... by putting a lot of varying...
    gottaBhappy gottaBhappy
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Mar 14, 2009
    MathewIsOk MathewIsOk
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jun 9, 2015

    I apply this rule: if someone is being a

    stubborn oaf about their opinions, I take two shots, then let them have the last word. If the conversation is interesting, I will let it run its natural course. Not wasting time with a fool doesn't mean that they have won, only that they have alienated another.
    emperornorton47 emperornorton47
    56-60, M
    Aug 1, 2015

    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2
    22-25, M
    Jul 22, 2014

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