Post

I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 152 People

    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Wish There Was But Dont Seem That Way

    i am in kind of relationship now and im not totally sure how it is going to work out . its quite annoying as a person i think alot about her but i cant bring myself to say she is definitely the one i want to spend rest of my life with . i wish i had that certainty where i seen a...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 9 Responses Jun 8, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F Nov 29, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am not sure I believe in them

    because I should have found him by now. Either he is late...or he does not exist.
    Samwolfie Samwolfie 36-40, F 3 Responses May 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Hi, I wanted to share this exciting episode of finding my soul mate. I am not sure if this makes any sense, rhyme or reason. I am 42, married for the past 8 years and father to a...
    ajithcok ajithcok 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dont believe in fairy tales or soul mates. Soul mates, eh, maybe. With that I feel that there are more than one person that you meet in your lifetime that "just gets it". There...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I used to not believe this with seven billon people in the world. People get married and stay married all the time. I knew I could be compatible with many, it is a skill I have...
    kwarner kwarner 31-35, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe so it is just a matter of time now..
    blackstr8cuckold blackstr8cuckold 41-45, M Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't believe in it in romantic terms. I think it's someone who is meant to be in your life. Briefly? Forever? Ah, who knows...A soulmate (or soul mate) is a person with whom one...
    NeelraDorianGray NeelraDorianGray 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i believe that we all do have a soulmate. I just haven't found mine yet
    angelkinzz angelkinzz 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't quite understand how the world works now, it's like we flow in a current pushing us the right way but we go against it, so confused and distort that we seriously don't...
    Sdm2987 Sdm2987 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe the only true form of love is the one a parent has for their offspring. I don't believe in love platonically as in friends, and I sure as **** don't believe in it...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not 100% sure if I do believe in the statement. However, I feel I'm definitely open to the aspects of a relationship solely held over the Internet. I used to believe it was the...
    iNomaD iNomaD 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am learning a lot at the moment so here it goes again. This one is short though. "You must trust and believe in people or life becomes impossible." - Anton Chekhov I have trust...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30 4 Responses Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe in true love, but don't believe I'll find it for myself. I'm not sure why, but people seem to freak out whenever I say that.
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe in God. I have seen him, I have dreamed of him. He appears to me as a figure much like a form of energy, but not scary, just love comes from it. And calmness. I dreamed...
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe in god. I don't believe in any of these religions written by man. My Mother wants my sisters and I to become muslim and I don't want to be muslim. I'm not sure what to do...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    its was Halloween day my favorite time of the year:) i was in class whit a best friend. we didn't anything to do so we when on omegle! we talk, skipped , and got skipped. till we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Eight Signs You're in a Relationship Worth Keeping A friend of mine posted a link on Facebook to this article today. I think the author's eight points are valid, even if I don't...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I cannot understand people who say to me that the bible is the truth and nothing but the truth. Nothing in this world of sin can be 100% truth, humans make a pigs dinner out of...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30 6 Responses Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    or do I? I cannot reconcile god and all the injustice and the suffering I see around me. Sure, I've been told to be grateful to god for anything good in my life. I've also been...
    10ky 10ky 26-30, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe in ghosts.. Even though these things might be a bit unbelievable. Ever since I turned 7, weird things have happened. It's always scary, I'll probably never get used to it...
    ginawexler ginawexler 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Photo of Richmond Park by E Joseph 2014Under the Influence of Love"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." ~~ 1 Corinthians 13: 13...
    vector8 vector8 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok this was a long time in the waiting this is part 2 to my ghost story if you don't know part one I suggest you read it... anyway I go out the door and I see no one there and the...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was introduced to the world of angels a few years ago, but it was not till I saw them that my connection grew strong. On the night of my fathers cremation, I went to sleep in his...
    jamieontherun jamieontherun 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really do believe actions speak Louder than words, so I've learned to read people threw their actions with me in every aspect of my life, especially romances and friendships: so...
    SmartnDangerous SmartnDangerous 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not sure if this experience was like a parallel universe but my mother claims it was. Usually I like listening to people talk on YouTube, and honestly most of the time I'm...
    Kimverly Kimverly 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My mom passed away on 7/16/14 how do I kno if she still around me or not how do I kno if she is ok I miss her so bad she died alone in her home and I had to identify her body and...
    sonia3035 sonia3035 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've never personally had an encounter with a ghost (for sure), but my mom always told me that her dad's house was haunted. She and her sister had bedrooms in the basement, and...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I write these once in a while because I really do believe in love. I have experienced those feelings. It can be the greatest feeling of your life and at the same time the most...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Good guys finish last? Nope, don't think so. There's a misconception that "good guys" are generally idiots, just because we're kind doesn't mean were idiots. I hate it when people...
    TheTrueStory TheTrueStory 70+ 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can say a lot of people have come and gone into and out of my life... i hope the same thing cant be said for her.. I didn't mean to meet her.. i didn't think it would happen like...
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I DO BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN FIND A SOULMATE, SOMEWHERE. bUT IF YOU FIND ONE MAKE SURE YOU KEEP THEM ALWAYS.
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is a repost of my featured story/i want to say thx u experience. The friend i an talking about is fallenindarkness~ :3 best person and the best friend a person can ever have...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wasn't sure if I believed in God but when I saw oh yes he's real y'all he's real. I can't wait to see my Jesus someday.
    anonymouss2014 anonymouss2014 18-21, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a believer and don't consider myself a snob. I respect your right to believe as you want. I choose to believe. I have been a scientist, of sorts, all my adult life. I believe...
    hancockian hancockian 66-70, M Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I still believe in fairy tales I still believe in picking flowers I still believe in getting lost in someone’s eyes And talking for hours I still believe in shooting stars I...
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Life has knocked me down a few time, it showed me things i never wanted to see. i experienced sadness and failures, but one thing for sure i always get up!!!
    maco50 maco50 51-55, M 8 Responses Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What's your view on this? I'm not sure myself
    LFCno1 LFCno1 22-25, M 8 Responses Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hell naw! I know for sure if I have a roommate that ***** better be clean. Bags checked every damn thing check! Ain't no demons comin up into my house. If she doesn't pass, sorry...
    countrygirlISTaylor countrygirlISTaylor 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20