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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

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    I know that I don't believe in them.

    No one has proved me wrong yet and I'm guessing they won't lol
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 16-17, F Nov 29, 2011

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    Not everyone is going to have

    or win the one thing we all need. Love.
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    If you really think about it,

    the idea of soulmates is rather insulting, as well as destructive. Sure people talk about it as if it's some grand romantic concept, but seriously think about it and what it suggests: It suggests that we are incomplete people and we will not be complete until we find that ONE...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M Apr 3

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    I believe every woman should pursue their dreams, but once she is married to her man, then she belongs to him and she needs to take care of his needs
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    I believe in Love. Yes, it's the feeling I get when I go to Olive Garden, or when I cuddle my dog, but that's not the love I'm talking about. I'm talking about Jesus. Where I find...
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    I believe that soulmates aren't always relationship oriented. My best friend is my soulmate, she is the person who makes up what I lacks and who truly understands. She truly does...
    lunatalks lunatalks 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    People that say they do are just lying. Is it okay for an adult to date a toddler or young child? You can't say no and still say you believe age is just a number. Age is so far...
    YukiSohma YukiSohma 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    Yes I Do.... I believe there are still a LOT of Loving and caring people here on EP. After all, if there wasn't, not a Lot of us, would keep staying here! Sure there are LOTS of...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've always tried to be kind, empathetic and understanding, offering support in every way to anyone who needed it, showing love and compassion. Not only to those who were good to...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    To others also blocked by 'Misreedy', It seems as though Missreedy has had her cage rattled. A deep insecurity, especially if she has blocked vociferous non-believers like me...
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I do believe that! I could tell you my favorite band and there would be tons of people like "me too!" I could tell you my favorite color and same thing. But if I tell you about my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    ugh my boyfriend of two months is atheist and I just found out yesterday and I'm not sure what to do is it against God to spend so much time with a non believer? I go to church...
    katherinejmorris katherinejmorris 13-15, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    “The question of whether there exists a Creator and Ruler of the Universe has been answered in the affirmative by some of the highest intellects that have ever existed...
    azaun azaun 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    yes i believe disable peoples deserve more love and respect than normal ones, so try to care for them in anyway you can, everyone of you try to do , you will surely feel happy...
    boobilicious4you boobilicious4you 22-25, M a week ago

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    It was an unusually busy day for the hospital staff on the sixth floor. Ten new patients were admitted and Nurse Susan spent the morning and afternoon checking them in. Her friend...
    aliveisawesome aliveisawesome 18-21, F a week ago

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    Friends, family. ..they want to see singles happy and bring hope because they believe in it and because they feel value for that person, but when I look around and views all sorts...
    SeekingLovetrust SeekingLovetrust 36-40, F a week ago

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    I believe in supernatural beings I am sure I am part supernatural myself.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I need to take control of my life again. I need to take action. It's who I am, what I know. I know what I want, and I'll focus on one area for now. Maybe the others will fall into...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 26

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    What are we to do with unbelievers? I'm pretty sure we are not to argue with them, call them names, etc. If they hit you on the right cheek instead of hitting them back, turn the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 40 Responses Jun 25

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    This was written by a friend. Thank you Indigo Sigh. As always you nailed it. By Indigo Sigh 1) Why don’t you tell me about it? I dislike this because he does it in such a...
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm currently 22 and I thought they I would make friendships that would last a lifetime. I thought I had found a sort of 'best friend' when I met this girl. She was sweet, charming...
    tnj9308 tnj9308 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I believe there is someone out there who is our other half and has the ability to make us feel complete but I don't believe everyone finds that one person and that makes me sad...
    arkaybee arkaybee 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I believe that everyone has that soulmate out there... I think you only get one chance in your lifetime to meet them, only you may never know it. Because I think that is how fate...
    ctgrendel1968 ctgrendel1968 41-45, M 8 Responses Jun 23

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    I am a victim and have been gang stalked and exploited by a group of shady undercovers for 15 years now. Last year they brought along with them a false prophet/sorceress to spread...
    Jesusfoundme Jesusfoundme 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 20

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    This sounds crazy and I'm not sure what to think of it, but I have been told I'm literally part angel myself. On this website I got talking with a kind lady who after a while said...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    Maturity? What defines it? Some believe age and experiences are needed.Age? Hmm. What does age provide us? Years lived. Sure. Thereby automatically also years of experiences felt...
    IBelongToAlison IBelongToAlison 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 20

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    Ode to My Zippo You are my treasured companion, and light the flame that affords me joy. Oh, sure, I've flirted with a Bic, Cricket, or even a match to achieve the climax, but...
    jtsather jtsather 46-50, M Jun 20

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    I do believe in soulmates and I believe I've found mine. My girlfriend Jennifer and I have been together for 7 wonderful years. She gets me, she understands how I feel without me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19

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