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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

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    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    Not everyone is going to have

    or win the one thing we all need. Love.
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    I hope it doesn't, because

    if it does means I lost mine and am fated to loneliness.
    StraightShemale StraightShemale 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 16

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    Wish There Was But Dont Seem That Way

    i am in kind of relationship now and im not totally sure how it is going to work out . its quite annoying as a person i think alot about her but i cant bring myself to say she is definitely the one i want to spend rest of my life with . i wish i had that certainty where i seen a...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 9 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    I know that I don't believe in them.

    No one has proved me wrong yet and I'm guessing they won't lol
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F Nov 29, 2011

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    I do believe and I'm still waitng for mine.
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    If you were about to take a final exam, would you have more hope or more fear if you didn’t understand any of the questions and you had not prepared for the test at all? I think...
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    nelloyamongstelpope nelloyamongstelpope 26-30, F Nov 25

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    Sotanax Sotanax 13-15, F Dec 12

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    "You Be The Anchor That Keeps My Feet On The Ground, I'll Be The Wings That Keep Your Heart In The Clouds" And honestly I have been begging for answers That you and only you can...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 25

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    Life Is Awesome If you Do it Right 0. Respect Respect and honor yourself and others ( if they do the same to you , if not , then you do the same to them or try to completely...
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    While I believe in ghosts, with little things I've seen and heard of, I'm nowhere near as tuned into the supernatural as my ex-missus. There have been times when lights in her...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 5

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    How can you fall in love with someone you just met? You can have a crush, for sure, but those tend to simmer down fast after you realize that the ideal you fell in love with is not...
    Featherwings Featherwings 18-21, F Dec 10

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    I believe that most of us have a purpose in life but are without a clue about what it is?! After a lot of soul searching...I have found a personal truths which are; Getting out...
    Shewolfie69 Shewolfie69 36-40 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Our love is still young, almost 2 yrs old. But it has the strength of a lifetime. I have always been a closed mouth lady when things are not as I wish or if I am hurting. I never...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 10 Responses Dec 1

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    Hi all, Destiny : "The events that will necessarily happen to a particular person or thing in the future." (ref : google ) The above statement is what i got when i tried searching...
    ProjectXPune ProjectXPune 18-21, M Dec 2

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    I can't believe that after being in a abusive relationship for 14 yrs... I go and get myself into another one and it's been 14 yrs that I've been in the second abusive relationship...
    neydi1972 neydi1972 41-45, F Dec 2

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    Saramore10 Saramore10 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    First off I am a Christian. I do not believe we evolved from apes or monkeys. As for the Big Bang theory sure there might of been a bang when the world was made but I don't like...
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F Dec 9

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    Dear God, Since I'm not sure where else to put this, I'm going to write it here in hopes you'll see it and/or someone will do a prayer for me to have to recognition. Let me start...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 14 Responses Dec 13

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    I believe in equal relationships, a couple should be totally equal. I have no idea how to create an equal relationship, and I sure as hell don't have one. Equality has nothing to...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30, M Dec 16

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    I sure do believe this! I have those red flags coming up right now with a guy I'm talking to. I like him, but he's not in a place within himself to have me and I know this. He...
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Thy foremost duty of my life is to act and that too in a noble way. Am sure that when I do good the result of that action is gonna be good and on the other hand If I do bad .. Can...
    mithzzz mithzzz 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 10

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    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 14

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    I was around 10 at the time. I did something something foolish and got myself into a situation where I was sure I was going to die. There was a man who watched through binoculars...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 15

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