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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 187 People

    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    I know that I don't believe in them.

    No one has proved me wrong yet and I'm guessing they won't lol
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    Wish There Was But Dont Seem That Way

    i am in kind of relationship now and im not totally sure how it is going to work out . its quite annoying as a person i think alot about her but i cant bring myself to say she is definitely the one i want to spend rest of my life with . i wish i had that certainty where i seen a...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 9 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Not everyone is going to have

    or win the one thing we all need. Love.
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F Nov 29, 2011

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    I hope it doesn't, because

    if it does means I lost mine and am fated to loneliness.
    StraightShemale StraightShemale 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    inkadinkadoo inkadinkadoo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I dreamed of this man, this man that made me so happy, then I met mike he was the man in my dreams, he left me for a while a year later he came back and we got together. We live...
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    I believe there is someone out there who is perfect for you. I believe that they're hard to find and sometimes people never find them, but I still believe they really do exist.
    Leofflaed Leofflaed 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I just love setting up countdown timers...! The idea of seconds, minutes, hours, days that collectively represent the flowing of time, each second a single sandgrain trickling...
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    I do think you can have a very deep connection with someone but I do not believe we are missing our other half. Whoever said you need another person to complete you was wrong. I...
    bexk bexk 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I will never settle. I believe that there is someone perfect for each and every single one of us. Everyday, people settle for less than they deserve and it's a shame. I am certain...
    killlian killlian 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    A close friend once asked me if I was ever going to be together, with the man who I truly love. I told her that we already are together, forever.. Maybe not in the same "space" but...
    Oso41412 Oso41412 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I believe that there's someone for everyone . There a person that's made just for you and shít I hope I meet mine soon (:
    kylehc6 kylehc6 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    I recently found this really cool article about reincarnation that could help a lot of you out: http://www.iisis.net/index.php?page=semkiw-reincarnation-past-lives-principles I...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I think that it would crazy to believe otherwise considering the fact that our universe is infinite. I think a lot of people can't believe it because we believe that everything...
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    Can Christians drink wine? The following is posted by Jim Blackburn in Catholic Answers and is called, "Got Wine?" Some time ago a young single friend confided in me that she was...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    "nice guys finish last" is just the idea that being kind to someone will put you in the friend zone. Being nice is not what keeps one in the "friend zone". What keeps someone in...
    mic112 mic112 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    I believe In Jesus Christ he came to see me one day a few yrs. back at work . I turned around and he was standing there looking at me then he was gone . I have been a true believer...
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    The Rapture.. Carol Brooks “Today’s church wants to be raptured from responsibility.” [Leonard Ravenhill] ON THIS PAGE Introduction Does It Matter? Beliefs...
    Cootamundra Cootamundra 70+, M Jan 10

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    Many people enter our lives and we are forever changed in some ways.Sometimes they are small changes. At other times they are life altering. 2 people from different parts of the...
    Destined4Mischeif Destined4Mischeif 56-60, M 13 hrs ago

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    learn to trust and believe in one another.
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I hope there are atheists in this group. You don't have to be Christian to believe in loving everyone.
    jackk225 jackk225 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I believed that all parents loved their children.
    sugarfooties sugarfooties 66-70 8 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Atlast I have found out.... There is no god, no magic, no supernatural powers... How do people believe something illogical and nonsense.... My friend, She is living in a fantasy...
    shikoko shikoko 16-17, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Do yourself a favour. Don't be afraid to stand for what you believe in,even if that means standing alone
    Kandeh Kandeh 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    Yes I do believe that Internet friends are real because they are cool and they make you feel loved. But the people you are around everyday don't care. This is a special shout to my...
    elna3573 elna3573 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I used to believe in fairies, magic, etc. I also used to think that there was a ghost in my house.
    maddie91101 maddie91101 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I believe God has a plan for us all , we just have to just take the good with the bad .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Loving Your Neighbour Earlier today, I noticed a black cat climbing over the fence of the back garden, but the cat didn't see me. I admired it from a distance. I then went out...
    vector8 vector8 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    And I Believe That Believing it SHOULD ought to Have consequences like social ostracization.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I am a true believer of prayer God has answered many of my prayers and kept me safe through the years . Amen
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 30 mins ago

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    Don't think far ahead of reality, but feel as reality is in sight of your life. Don't assume you know, just assume enough as if the world is your own. As time propels, so is the...
    WarzJack WarzJack 22-25, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I'm so glad that I found a place that I can share ideas and get criticism or have people build upon others ideas. I wanna share an idea I've been forming since I was a child. I've...
    teewrecks1 teewrecks1 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Question. I don't really support the idea that women should never wear pants, but I like to think that I'm at least somewhat open-minded. So here's my question to the people who do...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 4

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    Life is a complicated thing. No one can prepare you for all the things you’re going to go through, sometimes you just have to learn as you muddle along. You can hope to live a...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I am honest about not completely understand the concept of "God", but I do believe he/she exists. Here are a couple of things I have come to believe to be true. Religion is meant...
    SavannahAnsley SavannahAnsley 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    What Does The Bible Say About Itself? Is the Word of God just an old history book that has been changed through the years? Has God preserved his Word? For what reason did God put...
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    Timeline part 2. All of my metaphysical training and all my observations of the human experience, around the world and in my own life, tell me that there are no coincidences. There...
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