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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

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    Not everyone is going to have

    or win the one thing we all need. Love.
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    If you really think about it,

    the idea of soulmates is rather insulting, as well as destructive. Sure people talk about it as if it's some grand romantic concept, but seriously think about it and what it suggests: It suggests that we are incomplete people and we will not be complete until we find that ONE...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M Apr 3

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    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    I know that I don't believe in them.

    No one has proved me wrong yet and I'm guessing they won't lol
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 16-17, F Nov 29, 2011

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