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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

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    I hope it doesn't, because

    if it does means I lost mine and am fated to loneliness.
    StraightShemale StraightShemale 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    Not everyone is going to have

    or win the one thing we all need. Love.
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    I know that I don't believe in them.

    No one has proved me wrong yet and I'm guessing they won't lol
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F Nov 29, 2011

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    science has unravveled a lot but their still remain a lot which hass been unexplained to the human world ..i believe some facets will remain so for a long time..i do sure believe...
    romell romell 41-45, M Mar 4

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    do you? but as to whether soulmates end up together, that i'm not so sure of.
    MrRadicals MrRadicals 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    For my love. My wife. Forever. If I ever were to lose you I'd surely lose myself Everything I have found dear I've not found by myself Try and sometimes you'll succeed To...
    futuredays futuredays 36-40, M Mar 6

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    My Father above has turned Murderers, liars, Cheaters, Idolaters, Rich, Poor, teachers, students, leaders, servants, Kings, Queens, Limp, blind, mute, deaf, dysfunctional, happy...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny 16-17, M 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Diary of a Sad Man Day One “Please let me be your friend. I promise to be a good one.” And she was. The best. Ever. We’re a continent away, but from the very beginning, there...
    Bfinally Bfinally 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    "I believe we are a species with amnesia, I think we have forgotten our roots and our origins. I think we are quite lost in many ways. And we live in a society that invests huge...
    inthyvibe inthyvibe 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    my mother died in childbirth with me it caused me to be in a wheelchair. I will leave she watches over me. the reason I think this can't believe this just because in my life but...
    me0883 me0883 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    You made a believer out of me...so thankful for you, babe.
    HalfOfMeIsYou HalfOfMeIsYou 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I believe that two people can be destined to be together. What do you think?
    Amnesia59 Amnesia59 16-17, M 11 Responses Mar 10

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    He was thinking what I was thinking, the other day. I know that we are soul mates. When I talk, he understands me better than anybody. I certainly believe in soulmate a.
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    It get's harder & harder to still believe........... sigh..
    BarbaraJo78 BarbaraJo78 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I believe I found my soul mate; we have a past in romance but things didn't work out quite so well for us, yet we maintain good contact every day and understand each other pretty...
    Blanka97 Blanka97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    This will probably sound weird- I believe in soul mates as friends more than partners because I've experienced this. My best friend is mine.
    doc15 doc15 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I believe In Love at first message
    Deepess Deepess 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    My Teacher Made Me Think... So, I'm not sure if this is the right experience to write this on, but I feel like it may be the more relevant to what I want to talk about. (This...
    megamjfan megamjfan 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Is God water? Is water God? Before I get in to this, I am not saying this is what I believe! This is something I've been thinking about for awhile. Im just looking for your...
    JSUNJ JSUNJ 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I believe it has much truth but it's often misinterpreted and since god itself didn't write it's inspired then it isn't flawless Though I Will admit it's my amateur opinion and...
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I not only believe in it, I'm definitely in one with a women who I never ever believed could exist. She keeps telling me she is normal, ordinary. If she is normal and ordinary I've...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    The fact that people think atheists are smarter is bullshit. Sure, some who are believers may be dumb, but not all. Even my teacher, who's also a physicist, believes in God. It all...
    DarkLoser DarkLoser 13-15, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    sure, in a perfect world, I'm very forgiving. it's just that my heart and my head have a hard time with the forgetting part. sure i forgive but the chances that you'll ever be...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    IV always found it strange why Christians pray for healing ? Surely Pain suffering and death are all part of life but for some strange reason some Christians believe they should be...
    ardentizzy ardentizzy 61-65, M 33 Responses Mar 3

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    When you wait so long, then he appears, the experience seems like a dream, as I knew it would. Actually, I turned my head back & laughed to the heavens like a banshee. Good thing I...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I'm falling for him, slowly but surely. We fell asleep wrapped up in his bed last night because the comforter was drying. He likes for me to partially lay on his back, with my arm...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I believe in God but not so sure bout other things
    CherylYo CherylYo 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    Whatever has happened to me, I don't want to remember. Whatever I remember, I make sure it won’t happen to me again. I'm no one for anyone to remember me as who I am today. I've...
    MyLady9 MyLady9 46-50, F Mar 10

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing 
through newsgroups just like you...
    MrJoyHappy MrJoyHappy 18-21, M Mar 14

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    I feel like an idiot, but I watched an old episode of Star Trek TNG, and I can't get this actress out of my head. She is now a therapist in Los Angeles, and I'm so tempted to take...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response Mar 15

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    Why do they want you to think that's how the real world is and has got to be, because They want us to accept how screwed up the world is. They either want you to remain dumb...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 15

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    Not sure what the reason is sometimes but I am sure there is a reason.
    BeachAngelTami BeachAngelTami 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I don't understand them but I do understand that they don't understand science. Instead of believing in something that's consistent and has so much evidence to back it up...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    On March 23rd, 2015 we made love for the first time. It was everything I thought it would be & much more. I dreamt of you many moons ago and there you were entering me, your...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 6 Responses 5 days ago