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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

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    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    I am not sure I believe in them

    because I should have found him by now. Either he is late...or he does not exist.
    Samwolfie Samwolfie 36-40, F 3 Responses May 18

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Wish There Was But Dont Seem That Way

    i am in kind of relationship now and im not totally sure how it is going to work out . its quite annoying as a person i think alot about her but i cant bring myself to say she is definitely the one i want to spend rest of my life with . i wish i had that certainty where i seen a...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 9 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 13-15, F Nov 29, 2011

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    Nowadays i am kind of on the fence about soulmates. The one and only, true love. I have met my kindred spirit in an ex. We get along unbelievably well.. And even though we are...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I have never shared any type of "love story" with anyone, not even people I am close with. This is mostly because I was embarrassed by sharing my feelings to people and maybe even...
    HappyCrayons HappyCrayons 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    (This was actually a reply to someone else's belief in soulmates that prompted me to expound in a poetic and ever romantic sense!) One day you'll just meet someone and your eyes...
    TtotheD TtotheD 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Below my foot is my sole. In a triangular chasm within my abdomen the Japanese believe is my hara. Mates are what Australians call their friends and acquaintances. So...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I sometimes wonder if he does exist, that guy who has the same personality as mine, who has parents that can hardly understand him, and nobody listens to them except maybe few...
    ForeverSahour ForeverSahour 26-30, F Aug 10

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    I believe so it is just a matter of time now..
    blackstr8cuckold blackstr8cuckold 41-45, M a week ago

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    A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I love my self to believe in Islam, sadly a lot of extremist saying that they are a Muslim which they are not, I feel bad for those people who killed because of the extremist like...
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    PLEASE PLEASE READ THIS TOO!!!Because of the number of people who have read and responded to my previous post, I've decided to add an addendum to my initial story. I am quoting...
    medicalimpossibility medicalimpossibility 36-40 Aug 1

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    I believe the only true form of love is the one a parent has for their offspring. I don't believe in love platonically as in friends, and I sure as **** don't believe in it...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    JK I completely believe in love, I just think all of you who "don't" are just hurt and really need some love! So I'm here to say that I love you! As a person you are beautiful and...
    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I am not a religious believer, but I sometimes believe god exists I believe in the devil and ghosts, so surely that must mean god exists, weird way to look at it I know but I...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I am twelve and I have believed in god since about two years ago. Then I started to question things. I also took adv biology last year and we learned sines tuff about how the earth...
    Dev4444 Dev4444 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 3

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    Divy Amin is a widely popular personal fitness trainer, who believes in helping others to reach complete fitness. He serves those people, who feel the urge to find their true...
    divy11 divy11 26-30, M Aug 6

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    I don't believe in it. However in some ways I do. I don't believe you can automatically be in love with someone just by looking at them, you don't even know the person. Sure, you...
    BoLostTheSheep BoLostTheSheep 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Man of God There is a man who talks about God and a particular religion in India. This man’s name starts with P and has a surname which starts with D. Every morning he appears...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F Jul 30

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    I was raised a Roman Catholic, with all it's mysteries, and rituals. I have Jewish and Arab blood. I am not sure just what I believe anymore, but I do believe in a God. Who he...
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 31

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    I had a tumultuous childhood and probably should have not even survived several times except by some sort of miracle, or paranormal influence. Every home I went to, there always...
    dannygirl89 dannygirl89 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I believe in true love, but don't believe I'll find it for myself. I'm not sure why, but people seem to freak out whenever I say that.
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I believe in God. I have seen him, I have dreamed of him. He appears to me as a figure much like a form of energy, but not scary, just love comes from it. And calmness. I dreamed...
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I believe in god. I don't believe in any of these religions written by man. My Mother wants my sisters and I to become muslim and I don't want to be muslim. I'm not sure what to do...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    its was Halloween day my favorite time of the year:) i was in class whit a best friend. we didn't anything to do so we when on omegle! we talk, skipped , and got skipped. till we...
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    An easy solution to the lawlessness that is currently going on in this country. (Yes, I realize there's no chance it's ever going to happen.) Ok so the Republican party...
    doomsdaysmores doomsdaysmores 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    You don't have to believe me but on my grandmas side we have a blood line of witches (not the type that have green skin and stuff lol) and we can *sense* things most people cannot...
    XxKattanaxX XxKattanaxX 16-17, F 18 Responses Aug 3

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    I would like some input on this. I think I may have found my soul mate, the only reason I don't know that they are for sure is because we haven't met in person. No we are not...
    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Someone who understands you inside and out. I'd love to believe there is a soul mate out there for me someone who understands me completely someone I can give my life to and in...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Confessions of a broken heart.... Imagine this.. You're madly deeply in love with the man you married last year, your best friend, and partner in crime. You have a strong and fun...
    jcav03 jcav03 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I believe in ghosts.. Even though these things might be a bit unbelievable. Ever since I turned 7, weird things have happened. It's always scary, I'll probably never get used to it...
    ginawexler ginawexler 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    Photo of Richmond Park by E Joseph 2014Under the Influence of Love"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." ~~ 1 Corinthians 13: 13...
    vector8 vector8 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Ok this was a long time in the waiting this is part 2 to my ghost story if you don't know part one I suggest you read it... anyway I go out the door and I see no one there and the...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I was introduced to the world of angels a few years ago, but it was not till I saw them that my connection grew strong. On the night of my fathers cremation, I went to sleep in his...
    jamieontherun jamieontherun 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a believer and don't consider myself a snob. I respect your right to believe as you want. I choose to believe. I have been a scientist, of sorts, all my adult life. I believe...
    hancockian hancockian 66-70, M 4 days ago

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    I believe in God. That one is a given and a freebie. Here's ten others... 1.) Forgiveness. Forgive yourself and others. To not forgive someone is like drinking poison and...
    SimplyHearts SimplyHearts 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    It's sad and terrifying that the word feminism is related to man-hating. The extremists within this group are the ones who get all the attention when I'm more than sure that the...
    ChloeMaay ChloeMaay 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Just because you are 18-21 doesn't mean you are mature, mentally. There are very immature people that age, I'm sure. A 13-15 year old could know better then a 18-21 year can. I...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 16 Responses Jul 31

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    say a little prayer In every moment in our life we experience different situations, it maybe easy to handle or it can be hard. Each one of us has it’s own path and for that we...
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