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I 'm Not Sure I Believe In Soulmates

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    The existence of soulmates,

    is a debatable topic. Many would say that their soulmate exists. Some who have been rejected countless times, don't believe in it. I guess there is no truth after all. Truth is based on what we wish to believe in, therefore, if everyone believes in different things, there is no...
    BlakeUndefined BlakeUndefined 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Is There Realy A Such Thing As Soulmates

    is there realy a such thing as a soul mate i've seenpeople call other people their soul matews but later in the week or year sometimes even months the relationship ends alot of guys on another website not facebook another one had asked me to be their girl friend but only cuse...
    fax4ever fax4ever 16-17, F Nov 29, 2011

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    I've never believed in the idea

    that there is a "soulmate" out there for everyone, and I never will. People often speculate that the reason I think this way is because, I've never found anyone. And to some degree they're right. When your 24, and your love life is basically non existent, it becomes harder to...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    If you really think about it,

    the idea of soulmates is rather insulting, as well as destructive. Sure people talk about it as if it's some grand romantic concept, but seriously think about it and what it suggests: It suggests that we are incomplete people and we will not be complete until we find that ONE...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M Apr 3

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    Not everyone is going to have

    or win the one thing we all need. Love.
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    It's Always Different

    I'm more along the train of thought that believes a soulmate is not found, but rather it is the results of two "mated" souls that have bonded over a lifetime. Also, if for whatever reason the two souls separate, neither is the same and will need a different soul, one that is not...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    It Is a Bad Philosophy

    This idea of a soulmate holds people back from working at a marriage and creating your soulmate.  I am happily married but I think I could have married a host of different women and been just as happy.  Just be a good person, marry a good person, love that person and...
    DesertTruth DesertTruth 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    More Power To Them

    I have stopped believing in them, myself.It's a big setup to be disappointed again and again.It is.For me, anyways.I spent years finding him.and he never came.I even tried stopping and one came---but he was not my soulmate.the most recent thing I said to someone who told me, "H...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    You Have A Soul Mate? Maybe Soul Mates.

    I... don't believe in soul mates... Oh no this is not the usual scenario where I condemn ever loving because one guy broke my heart and left me devastated and hopeless. Because let's face it, I'm just 16 going on 17, I know nothing about love. But why do I not believe at the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 19, 2013

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    So... I might have found my mate.

    But when you find your mate you are suppose to want them, you're suppose to claim them, never let them go... well. I don't know what I want. 1/2 of me wants him forever and always, the other 1/2 keeps telling me I don't want him, the commitment, the stress, the pressure or the...
    MisunderstoodLuna MisunderstoodLuna 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    Do I Have One?

    The whole soulmates thing is probably just a myth for most people. Although I'm sure a few people out there are lucky enough to find their matches. Do I believe that a woman is out there with identical opinions, beliefs, and interests to me? Absolutely not. I am truly an anomaly...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 10 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I know that I don't believe in them.

    No one has proved me wrong yet and I'm guessing they won't lol
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    But I Think I Found Another One Of Mine Recently ;)

    Ok, I've got to write this down because change is brewing around here. I met this guy a month ago. And he is yummy. Yum. With a capital Y. Everyday my crush on him is growing. If this is the peak of the mountain, I want a moment to savor the delicious lust, infatuation, you know...
    dragonflypoet dragonflypoet 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    i think platonic soulmates and the possibility of multiple soulmates is not only plausible but extremely appealing....my fiancee is my soulmate but wouldnt it be amazing to have...
    kinkystapler kinkystapler 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I believe in Soulmates but I also believe that sometimes your lives don't match up the way they are supposed to when you meet. Sometimes you are better off apart. Maybe next...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    I believe in soulmates but not rushing into things so soon til you truly know their the one.
    iamrudy iamrudy 18-21, M May 7

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    I believe that Jake and me are soulmates. We have known each other our entire lives our parents shared an apartment in college. We lived just 2 houses away from each other our...
    sassygirl15 sassygirl15 13-15, F 1 Response May 9

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    I believe in soulmates, but still finding mine.
    meliena meliena 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I also believe women are superior to men they more stable and intelligent and make sure the important things taken care of. I go to work make good money my wife(mommy) gets the...
    mommysbiggestboy mommysbiggestboy 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I got asked out on Prom night, my new boyfriend has been amazing. Everything he does he is a gentleman about. When I fall he smiles and picks me up. When Ive had panic attacks...
    MysticThornwolf MysticThornwolf 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Moon in Scorpio. Most of the traits fit me well. I am emotionally intense, I either feel the greatest joy or the greatest despair. There are no shades of gray in between. I forgive...
    bentorejects bentorejects 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    How do i tell my ex girlfriend that she is not worthless. I've told her so many time and she doesn't believe me. im trying to stop her from harming herself. i already lost her once...
    DontKnow2013 DontKnow2013 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I believe I found my soulmate, the person who is the other half to my soul, but I am not with that person. Instead I am with someone who makes my soul come alive and feel whole...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I don't believe in soul mates anymore. I feel like this new age spiritual stuff and religion is like a trick to manipulate human logic to keep us in bondage. I feel like what it...
    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F May 6

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    I believe that somewhere there is one person who is made just for you, That all the trials and tribulations that we undergo today is preparing us for a better future, So that we...
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 22 Responses May 14

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    I don't know why. It's not like I ever felt that connection with someone. Or even know anyone who has felt that connection with someone. All I know is that I want it to be true. So...
    LolaRosa LolaRosa 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've known this girl for 16 years, were pretty much the same age and have always considered each other best friends but we both know it's more than that. We never fight, we listen...
    malloryjp malloryjp 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    For our souls have a mate, And our hearts have beats. If thou is ever so lucky to find thou a soulmate, I give ye the greatest gift of all, LOVE. For I believe I may have found thy...
    Eryck899 Eryck899 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Even though I really am suffering, no one would ever believe me. People spite me instead of even trying to believe me. If you looked at my photo, you could never guess that I...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    Knowing you can live without someone but not wanting to is the ultimate dilemma. Do you stay still due to a sense of safety, real or imagined? Do you leave, closing the door to a...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 21 Responses 9 hrs ago

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      Evil Catholic Priest testifies to Royal Commission. 'Another priest' present when Gerald Ridsdale abused a child in his bedroom...
    Cootamundra Cootamundra 70+, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Be sure babe because after I kiss you...thereĀ“s no going back...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Just feel like Writing today. I understand people are not so much open to the idea of being taken by Et's astrally, well I consider them ID's since it's in Another dimension. I...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 4 Responses May 17

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    I believe all my imaginary friends are my guardian angels. They are always there for me, and even if I feel like it is in my imagination, why should that mean it's "not real"? I...
    ImaginaryBFF ImaginaryBFF 16-17, F 13 hrs ago

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    Like hell! I don't believe in true love or whatever you call it. If it's not the type where one love died and the other's still alive or both died young. Romeo & Juliet The Fault...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I believed that people used to enact the scenes from behind the screen. in the theatres xD
    aaditjain aaditjain 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Can such a thing as what we call a natural disaster we just that, do believers in Christianity refrain from contributing to God even the likelihood that God is in fact judging the...
    churinga churinga 70+, M 1 hr ago

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    Why [...] do some highly educated people believe religious claims? First, smart persons are good at defending ideas that they originally believed for non-smart reasons. They want...
    FryyM FryyM 22-25, M 3 Responses May 2

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    Im not sure whats going on right now. I'm very confused. my world has turned upside down for no reason. i feel like i did something really wrong to someone. that's if you believe...
    miakajones2001 miakajones2001 36-40, F May 12

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    I always try to follow what my heart says, but sometimes my head steps in and confuses me. My heart sometimes says one thing, while my head says something else. Sometimes I feel...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I am really thinking about this a lot. I've written about it Before but it's just... so mind wondering for me, it's Always as if, when you Think you know something, something else...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F May 17

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    This will be focused on Astral and oobe's. I consider oobe's when I remember either getting out or in to my physical body. Astral is when I am in the higher realms and don't...