I 'm Ready For Change

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    Intotheunknown Intotheunknown
    46-50, F
    Aug 4, 2015

    I was ready for a change.

    But all the things that "changed" were not that satisfying. So I decided to take up zumba and I feel so great now! It was a small change, but as it turns out, It was all I needed.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 30, 2015

    I was forced to change my life a year ago

    now that the dust has settled, I want to now initiate MY OWN change in my life; I just don't know where to start! Any suggestion? Every area of my life needs a little change or two.
    kmdickerson5 kmdickerson5
    26-30, F
    Jul 2, 2014

    My Ideal Month. Today,

    I am starting a 4 week challenge to finally break some of my negative habits and change myself for the better. Recently, someone asked me, "What would your ideal morning consist of?". As I listed the pieces of it to them, I realized just how far away my standard routine is from...
    Poker4Life Poker4Life
    22-25, M
    Oct 8, 2015

    When trying to make a change,

    we usually tend to feel uncomfortable or unsure if we are heading the right track. But well, it's normal! Ikr. :) theearthchild.co.za/15-uncomfortable-feelings-that-indicate-you-are-on-the-right-track/
    yayepisoverimsad yayepisoverimsad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 2

    Change is rule of life.

    .. If u don't accept changes, you would fall behind
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 5, 2015

    I want so much more out of life,

    but when it comes to taking the right steps I become overwhelmed/unmotivated... I hope this is temporary.
    jinjew jinjew
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2014
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2015

    Living with parents who yell all day

    and night when they're not at work. My dad hates me, calls me REALLY bad names often. Trying to get a job at the DMV. Minimum wage won't support my daughter and I to live on our own. If you a person who prays, please pray that I get hired at the DMV soon. My daughter and I...
    cjkenton cjkenton
    36-40
    Nov 20, 2015

    I think it's time for another change.

    Some things like great on the outside but on the inside it's just not meant to be..
    shefreckles shefreckles
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2015

    So ready to begin freshman year of college

    and start the next chapter of my life :)
    MissFrosty MissFrosty
    18-21, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    I am coming to terms

    that I truly have no friends or people to share my life and thoughts with. All I aim to find is someone to talk to. My aspirations must be voiced.
    shortstubz shortstubz
    22-25
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    Just throw me out of this life.

    ..need fresh life to see whole new world :)
    ilovebeach99 ilovebeach99
    22-25, M
    Nov 24, 2015

    I am finally ready, not just to welcome change

    but to take steps toward that change. I think allot of people want change but end up frozen from the fear that comes with change, change can be unknown allot of the times, so naturally we fear the unknown. Fear is healthy in doses but not to the point where it stops you dead in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 12, 2014

    My last post got a bit emotional.

    I still have a great desire to get my own place, but I was extremely stressed out when I wrote it, everything seemed completely dark to me at the time and it affected my writing. Anyway. I want to learn how to regulate my stress levels so that I can get out there in the real...
    FittingUsername FittingUsername
    22-25, M
    Jan 4

    I have people in my life,

    family and friends, who keep telling me I deserve better, that if I want him to change, I need to give him a choice. To choose his family, over his partying, or to leave. I never expected that we wouldn't be his choice.. And I guess that's what hurts the most. If you start to...
    AylaB AylaB
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    Getting real tired of the place I'm in now.

    This just isn't cutting it, and I'm starting to loose my mind I swear. So instead of playing the poor me why me game I'm gonna get up, and brush myself off. Made a promise to myself that from now on things are gonna be different.
    PoisonousWolf PoisonousWolf
    22-25, F
    Mar 21, 2014

    The White Male: I'M Intrigued.

    So lately... I would say, since I've been working at the casino, I have developed this massive, uncontrollable attraction to white men. Something about them.. Maybe it's the innocent approach they give when they come to my window to cash their chips. Maybe it's the way they look...
    ShesJustHer ShesJustHer
    22-25, F
    Oct 7, 2013

    I'm looking forward to 2016,

    I know it will be a fresh start 2015 wasn't good for me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    I have recently graduated

    and going to officially start a career. I have been single most of my life and want a serious relationship. I have been scared most of my life and know it's up to me to do something about it or it will never change.
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    Jun 14, 2015

    I am ready to become an adult.

    I believe that this 'babying', me living with my parents when I should be at a college campus making new friends and new experiences. I don't need, nor want my parents to show me how to be an adult, paying bills and making appointments. I want to go out and experience it for...
    Bean2015 Bean2015
    18-21, M
    Sep 4, 2015

    I am going out and getting a haircut,

    a shave (leaving some facial hair) not because I'm lazy but because I've been told a little on me look's good. Then I'm going off solo to the movies. What I'll see is not important. I just need to treat myself and stop this being stuck!!!
    Encontrados Encontrados
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    Another day come and gone.

    All the work I have done for myself is working but at the same time is being masked behind scruffiness. All I need is a good shave and a good hair cut and I'm ready to go. What brought this on was me brushing my teeth this morning and I didn't even recognize the guy in the...
    Encontrados Encontrados
    41-45, M
    Aug 2, 2014

    It feels like the walls are closing in

    and everyday is another nail in my coffin. Can't breath.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    New job on the horizon,

    2 trips coming up, and I get to go through everything coming up with the 1 thing in life I would NEVER change; my amazing husband! So excited!
    DTF7 DTF7
    31-35, F
    Dec 4, 2014
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    I am ready to make my life simple.

    I am ready to look outside and enjoy the sunshine and watch my children play. I am ready to stop striving for much and hand myself over to God and his plans for me. I am ready to stop fighting and start loving. I'm ready to pray and let Gods peace control me. I'm ready to stop...
    cadenceblue cadenceblue
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2015

    New life! So ready for things to fall into

    place. 2015 and 2014 were not the best years, but as with 2015, 2016 I am going in with a positive attitude. So ready for a change, ready for a new life a better one for me and the kids.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2015
    AlanGeorge21 AlanGeorge21
    26-30, M
    Sep 10, 2015

    You have to learn how to adjust to your

    expectations when they don't come to reality.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I need to stop lowering my standards.

    I need to start having more self respect. I am a funny, caring, kind, and beautiful girl. I don't need to settle for anything less than what I want/what is good for me. I'm not saying I'm going to be stuck up about my boyfriends in the future but I need to stop dating all these...
    xsarah23x xsarah23x
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    After what has been the shittiest year of my

    life I'm more than ready. Here's to hoping 2016 will be the exact opposite of 2015.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    I am thinking about accepting a new career

    opportunity. Something more in line with how I wish to finish out my working life.
    in2mec in2mec
    56-60, M
    Jun 5, 2015

    Am I umm can't curse

    so poop if my nips are showing through my shirt because of not wearing a bra and not wanting to tape down my breasts? (Social experiment please comment)
    SecludedSeaTurtle SecludedSeaTurtle
    18-21, F
    Sep 4, 2015

    A Fresh Start

    I need a really serious change in my life. I need to start fresh. Maybe with the new year I will have the fresh start I need.
    PicturesOfABetterLife PicturesOfABetterLife
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Dec 24, 2012

    I Don't Think It'll Ever Change.

    My mother told me the other day, after one of her drunken episodes, that my siblings will always think me as a child. It did bother me because I know that it's true, and no matter what I do, or try to do, they won't ever see me as a grown adult. Sure, they'll look at my age, and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 30, 2013

    I am so ready for change.

    This unemployed life sucks. Not much to do. Job hunting in the AM. At the bar by 2pm. Weekends always at the Bar.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 23, 2015

    When someone tells you they want a relationship

    to work but put no effort in. Well you're making it easier to let you go. Seeing what my worth is to you is eye opening.
    shefreckles shefreckles
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 12

    possibility is the dreamers end~game the

    in~between is the awakening  (make something of it)
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    26-30, F
    Sep 6, 2015

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    cwelechi02 cwelechi02
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jan 30

    I'm ready to embrace the single life.

    I'm done crying. He may have left me but in truth I was alone for at least the last three years of our marriage. I didn't have to mourn the "death" of my marriage as I did that throughout the ten years we were together. What I mourned was the death of my hopes and dreams...
    Andromeday Andromeday
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    I've always sacrificed my happiness

    for the well being of my family and now that I'm older I need to get out and make a life for myself. I do not want to be a repeat of my parents life.
    Lanajamba Lanajamba
    18-21, F
    Sep 5, 2015

    I am tired of hurting all the time.

    ..so I am gonna smile and fight for what I love:) no one is gonna tell me different. I deserve to be happy not sad, not depressed, but happy
    LerisaEllis LerisaEllis
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2015

    I am going to change my life.

    I'm tired of being the way I am. I am going to get up 30 minutes early and walk; gradually working myself to a run over a few weeks time. I am going to have my cup of coffee in the morning and then water for the day. I am going to switch my chips for something, anything better...
    britteller britteller
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    I think I've hit an all time low in my life at

    this moment. Things need to change for the better and change fast.
    gentlepanic gentlepanic
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2014

    I am so ready for a change,

    ive decided that once Christmas is out of the way that is it. I am going to make some major life changes, a good friend keeps telling me life is too short to take anything for granted, as she knows how unhappy i am at the minute. and seeing how much her life has changed for the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

    Because my future will not be like my past.

    I cannot let it be like today has been, how the next days will unfortunately also be like. Because I just want to be happy. I don't want to feel like I'm in a cage. I don't want to feel like at any moment, negative events may crush my soul. I just want to be free. And while...
    unknownfamiliar unknownfamiliar
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    If you are not prepared to change then how'd

    you expect to grow? I understand that ppl fear losing their security, but do you really feel you're secure? Everyone can imagine nirvana but ppl don't understand imagination. If you can imagine something then you can create it, law of attraction if you will. But it does require...
    Kyleinfj Kyleinfj
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015
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