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I 'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

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    do not even go there with me.

    ..... people have passed their pathetic judgement on me...until you have walked in my shoes, know and feel what I have felt, and feeling....do not pass your judgement so quickly..... No one should do this to anyone, there are reasons for things, and until you know what is...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok before you start judging me,

    I want you to take a walk in my shoes. Most of you have no idea how much s**t I've been through, so don't go judging me because of my scars, or because of what I post. If you were to take a walk in my shoes, you wouldn't be judging me.
    BrokenCorpse BrokenCorpse 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    If you see someone with

    piercings/tattoos-colored hair or a different way of dressing, dont you dare judge them because it can ruin their life
    kristahh kristahh 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    And Yes, I Do Wear Shoes.

    it seems that a lot of people have strong negative opinions about some things i do. im not the "long white beard, straw hat, whistling into an empty moonshine jug, while barefoot,kind of hillbilly" that some of u seem to be picturing. but im not all that far from it. i will hunt...
    bunnyhound bunnyhound 31-35, M 9 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    So many people judged me ,

    but they dont even know my story , so heres to everyone who says im ugly , a loser , for those who tell me to "kill myself" , when i was 8 i never understood why people would kill themselves until i thought of suicide , i thought yes please make me die , nobody even cares , as...
    iwanttodiesobad1212 iwanttodiesobad1212 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have issues with expressing myself I feel

    like I go through so much but nobody im close to knows because I don't know how to say it. Sometimes I just end up crying and really don't know the exact reason I'm crying
    jae1013 jae1013 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    you can judge me all you want.

    ..but the witnesses will always know the truth.
    NotGonnaBeInYourTalentShow NotGonnaBeInYourTalentShow 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    All the things that I chase after,

    all the things that I've done in the past..just by thinking that it could bring me happiness even for a short moment..even if it will damage me in the end..even if it will only cause me to suffer even more..I didn't regret any of it and I don't mind chasing after it as long as I...
    shioshishio shioshishio 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    I wouldn't want to judge anyone even

    after walking in their shoes. Life is hard enough to navigate without trying to correct others. I know I am a mess at times. I certainly have made mistakes. The question I have for anyone out there, Would ypu have done it differently, knowing one little change could...
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    ...I wear 8.5, how about you?

    Love,,, Alyxander😆
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I kid asked when I last cried.

    Last week, depression got the best of me I replied. Another kid looked at me and said really that's your excuse. I was pissed cuz the dumbass doesn't know what it's like. Don't judge unless you have been there. (Kids at school are morons.)
    smittyjenson smittyjenson 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    I don't understand why people say they

    understand when clearly they have no idea. not on all aspects of your issue regardless of what it may be. I appreciate people for trying n for being to listen to the venting. no matter how much I want to I can't completely unload myself to anyone for several reasons no matter...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I want to die. I don't want to actually kill

    myself I'm just ready to go be withGod. Yes I am seekin professional help however it doesn't change my mind. I'm not a coward I'm not looking for pity or sympathy Just want to keep it real and say how I really truly feel. I wish My time was up I have no one I have nothing I...
    revenge4me revenge4me 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    poisedjaber poisedjaber 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A good friend of mine suggested

    that I do this to make my feelings known and clear. I am a bisexual woman. I currently have a long term boyfriend but I am currently looking for a girlfriend. I'd like to say everyone knows, but the truth is only the men I've been with know. I haven't come out to my kids or...
    PRCgirl73 PRCgirl73 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 18

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    We are who we are because of our experiences,

    they have shaped us into the people we are. Until you know what the other has been through, do not judge
    orchidangel orchidangel 41-45, F 31 Responses Feb 18

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    Don't, if you judge me,

    I will unleash my wrath upon you. You don't know me, you don't what I went through.
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    i don't believe in judging other people

    for this very reason. you can never really know a person. and it can be hard to understand why people do some of the things they do. i'm not saying i'm not opinionated because i know i sure as hell am. i just don't feel like i need to label anyone for doing something i don't...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    We play around on here

    and open up to each other untill we get to know each other. so sorry don't you dare judge me untill you are in my shoe and will that iam dam totally different to way iam talking babe. hehe.thumbs up ##.
    Babejuks Babejuks 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    ppl judge me all the time I wish they cld wlk

    in my shoes go thru the **** I been thru maybe theyd realize that myself n others like me are some pretty blunt ppl becuz we been thru a lil too much for us to take in at once maybe the world would be a better place if everyone could look at **** from different points of views.
    xxcpxx72 xxcpxx72 13-15, F Feb 16

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    (I wrote this for a school thing once.

    . it still makes sence to me, even though it's not a good poem, its a true one) My shoes are heavy! My heart is heavy I have a lot to carry Things I wouldn't merry I don't judge your heavy shoes It's not like it was something you got to choose...
    Coreyboy01 Coreyboy01 13-15, M 7 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I've been with my husband

    for 4 years. Recently I cheated on him "a kiss" but we're still together. Anyway that's not the point. I feel like ever since I cheated on him, I constantly worry that he's with other girls or is having an affair. Any advise guys?
    BossladySam BossladySam 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Funny how people judge you

    when they have no idea how much you are actually judging yourself. If they knew, they might back off a little. Furthermore...let he who has not sinned cast the first stone ...
    goodnightangel goodnightangel 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    goodnites1011 goodnites1011 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's funny how we go through life with

    preconceived notions of what we will do, who we will be, where we will end up and what we feel is acceptable, and what is not. .... and then life happens ... in full force.... lines blur ... everything becomes relative. You find that over time, things you never conceived that...
    Chrye Chrye 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 6

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    definitely don't judge the way I believe

    or the way my parents raised me unless you understand the beliefs yourselves. I get some ppl that accept how I believe on here and others that don't. Some say does it make me happy and when I say yes they say ok. Some say when I explain how my relationship with my bf began...
    sassygirl15 sassygirl15 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Stop saying, "...you know what you should do.

    .", when you have never been through what I have. You have no clue the pain ive endured, and you will never know what to do unless you have been through it yourself. I only need someone to talk to, some to be there and someone to listen. You dont have to solve me problems...
    amadio1 amadio1 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    My new shoes .......

    ...................
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm full of nasty thoughts.

    And sometimes I share what I want to do. What i want to enjoy. That's why I came here in the first one place. I'm OK with you it liking me, not liking my experiences, my desires. Just don't create a stereotype for me.
    LoganManish LoganManish 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 25

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    'What is your problem?

    ' 'Why are you like this?' 'what do you need?' 'dont be like this then no one will like you' many would have come across the above questions right? especially people from this group including me who feel life has drifted its course for a rough path. I dont blame the people or...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Prejudge mentality is not a good way to judge a

    person, until you through yourself to their situation before you can open you mouth!
    WalkerJoe WalkerJoe 26-30, M Feb 1

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    You'll Never Know...

    If you don't know me in person then don't talk **** here. Even if you have met me in person don't talk **** here. If you have met me then you got caught up in your own bullshit if you're talking **** here You can judge anybody unless you know them and their entire story. In...
    champ4life champ4life 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    An I'm a size 6 so it's not very comfortable

    for someone with small feet
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    Everyone can't cope with issues in their lives

    properly. I dislike it when someone judges someone by something they did that was led by emotions. We are all different. We get angry, and we do things that others may call insane but the lesson is to don't judge me until you have experienced what I have. Its only fair.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm only twenty, but there has been much to

    experience. Here in Marseille a Jewess often meets anti-Semitic vitriol usually from Arabs. There are many destructive vibes in the streets on my way to school.
    Corzomec Corzomec 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    Do you know the feeling of wanting to see

    someone suffer??? Wanting to see them laying there with a knife in their heart begging for mercy, begging for you to spare their life, to let them live. Then you have that one last thought " they ruined my life so why let them continue theirs" as you take the knife out of their...
    OmeLiv OmeLiv 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 13

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    Judgemental .. narrow minded .

    . this is not what EP should be. If you are one of those, don't find happiness in destroying people. It's weak. It's cowardly. It's shameful. I live a life of c.rap .. my mom slaps my face when she feels like it, not only when we are arguing .. Mom does not let me out of the...
    Maslisa Maslisa 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    To all those older people telling me

    that I don't have "real" problems because I'm a teenager... Please, walk in my shoes first and see what I'm going through.
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I've had a really hard life,

    as many has had, I'm not asking for forgiveness for my actions I have taken at that time, as I've been trying to make good on many. But now knowing I'm dealing with ptsd and bipolar as well as a couple of others, I now know where my actions have come from, and am still working...
    Mystic74 Mystic74 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    That's Right....

    As the saying goes 'Don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my shoes' Actually, on second thought, never mind that.....I don't want your fat feet stretching out my shoes......
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    People who already know me don't judge me

    but strangers see me and don't see a 14 year old boy. They see a 10 year old. I get treated like a little kid by strangers and many times if they speak to me they won't look at me. I'll have to say something like " excuse me sir, I'm right here." I'll be gesturing to myself...
    pardax pardax 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 18

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    ?? "why are you so happy?

    " "why'd you dye your hair blue." "you're weird." "oh, you don't seem sad." "ew you're emo." "why would you starve yourself?" "Oh my gosh! Clara you're turning goth." "shut up. you're family's not even that bad." "well at least your mom doesn't take your phone." ?? People...
    xHugsxArexHappinessx xHugsxArexHappinessx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    If there's anything on this earth

    that annoys me, it's people who judge before they know someone. You have NO IDEA what a person has been through, NO IDEA what has led them to the point in their life that they're at when you meet them; chances are high that there's a solid reason for the way they act, look...
    headversusheart headversusheart 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    I am a new member and have a dilemma.

    I'm having and affair with a married man for the last 4 years, we work together. I love him totally and the thought of been with anyone makes me feel sick however I know it's not good and I am often lonely, sometimes angry, and want to end it however I can't imagine him not In...