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I 'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

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    If you don't know me in person then don't talk **** here. Even if you have met me in person don't talk **** here. If you have met me then you got caught up in your own bullshit if you're talking **** here You can judge anybody unless you know them and their entire story. In...
    champ4life777 champ4life777 56-60, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Often times i speak about things to others

    and eventually they start jugdeing well here is something for you: Don't assume you understand what my experiences have taught me and don't assume you understand what i have learned. If you can respect that we will get along if you don't we won't get along.
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 3 Responses May 26

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    That's Right....

    As the saying goes 'Don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my shoes' Actually, on second thought, never mind that.....I don't want your fat feet stretching out my shoes......
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    A lot of people say I have an easy life .

    Number one nobody has an easy life number two the people don't know me for example they don't know my parents are divorced they don't know my problems . My favorite picture is the bottom side of a pair or shoes with " don't judge till you walk in my shoes" written on them
    LillyO3 LillyO3 18-21, F 6 Responses May 31

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    I'm saying don't judge me at all please

    and I will do the same for you. We are all human beings from planet earth with feelings and have all been through stuff in life, some worse than others. I try not to judge people because it is hurtful and just plain wrong,
    DoveinMourning DoveinMourning 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    To all those older people telling me

    that I don't have "real" problems because I'm a teenager... Please, walk in my shoes first and see what I'm going through.
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    poisedjaber poisedjaber 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    For my age my shoes are

    rather large. I've survived 6 years of aggressive emotional, physical and sexual abuse starting at the age of 4. I attempted suicide 3 times and survived one at age 8, 10 and 13. I was raped and beaten by a man who I thought was my friend. I have had 2 arm surgeries and 1 major...
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 13

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    i have a question for any one

    that reads this.. me and one of my best friends (female) keep getting accused of dating.. she is bi and im straight.. a lot of her friends think that we are going out.. we see each other nearly every day, have heaps of inside jokes and have two songs that reminds us of how...
    misterygurl04 misterygurl04 18-21, F 11 Responses Jun 20

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    I can be that meek innocent rosy-cheeked girl

    cycling past with a puppy in her bicycle basket. I can also be the demon from hell when I've had a bad day. You would be wrong if you judged me from either of these two observations. I'm just normal, but catch me at the wrong time and you'll get the wrong idea. Walk in my shoes...
    LadySylvia LadySylvia 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Judgemental .. narrow minded .

    . this is not what EP should be. If you are one of those, don't find happiness in destroying people. It's weak. It's cowardly. It's shameful. I live a life of c.rap .. my mom slaps my face when she feels like it, not only when we are arguing .. Mom does not let me out of the...
    Maslisa Maslisa 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I have an endless amount of stories of being

    judged without the person even walking an hr in my shoes. please, stop the press. This is the shh that blows me the very most.
    almonjoiii almonjoiii 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    If you see someone with

    piercings/tattoos-colored hair or a different way of dressing, dont you dare judge them because it can ruin their life
    kristahh kristahh 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I hate when people think they understand my

    situation or try to downplay my feelings as if they have the fcking right. THAT ****** me off, you don't KNOW me unless I let you in and I rarely let anyone in. So don't judge me at all or else you'll get your feelings fcking hurt. 😐
    xBlackyChan xBlackyChan 22-25, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm in love with two men.

    . well I'm really only in love with one... but one is good for me.. but I can't make myself fall in love with him.. The other has hurt me.. and is a narcissist but I just can't help being addicted to him.. do risk it all.. and I mean everything... I always thought I was so...
    alienmom82 alienmom82 31-35, F 4 Responses May 23

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    Who Am I? Hi, I’m Thomas McDonald… well,

    I used to be. A few weeks ago my mom called me into her bedroom, she had something to tell me. When I walked in, I saw two things; a brown envelope with a very professional looking piece of paper sitting on top of it and my mom’s facial expression… she looked happy. It wasn...
    L1TTL3MY5T3RY L1TTL3MY5T3RY 18-21, M 10 Responses May 23

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    Ok before you start judging me,

    I want you to take a walk in my shoes. Most of you have no idea how much s**t I've been through, so don't go judging me because of my scars, or because of what I post. If you were to take a walk in my shoes, you wouldn't be judging me.
    LurkingShadow LurkingShadow 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I wouldn't want to judge anyone even

    after walking in their shoes. Life is hard enough to navigate without trying to correct others. I know I am a mess at times. I certainly have made mistakes. The question I have for anyone out there, Would ypu have done it differently, knowing one little change could...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 25

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    That's all I ask. If you want to judge me

    after getting to know me, go ahead. But don't just start right off the bat without even knowing me. I'll always take the time to get to know someone first without judging right off the bat.
    DanDeCaro DanDeCaro 18-21, M 1 Response May 18

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    how do you deal with finding out

    such traumatic stuff? how do we cope? 1. your daughter is raped 2. your son is a rapist why do people ask stupid questions like 'did you know' or make comments like 'my son wouldn't have done that'....walk in my shoes!! ??
    Minxie76 Minxie76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    went 2 school today and this ***** taylor was

    talking about me. I hate her but i just said,"next time try not to make it obvious that your talking about me"Her face got red and she automatically shut up... ahh the look on her face was priceless
    cece14779 cece14779 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    We are who we are because of our experiences,

    they have shaped us into the people we are. Until you know what the other has been through, do not judge
    orchidangel orchidangel 41-45, F 25 Responses Feb 18

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    When i turned eighteen my step Dad had the

    nerve to ask me to show him my breast. (read my first post itll make sense) I knew he hadnt changed. you tell me you're a Christian. that everythings different. as soon as i was able to work you hired me as your employee and i took the job only to save money up and get the hell...
    mar0436 mar0436 22-25, F 4 Responses May 25

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    People think they know everything about me,

    but if they really knew..they'd think differently
    VickyLvsAnime VickyLvsAnime 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 22

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    (I wrote this for a school thing once.

    . it still makes sence to me, even though it's not a good poem, its a true one) My shoes are heavy! My heart is heavy I have a lot to carry Things I wouldn't merry I don't judge your heavy shoes It's not like it was something you got to choose...
    Coreyboy01 Coreyboy01 13-15, M 7 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I can't ask people not to judge me

    because we all judge everyone it's human nature to try and seek out the people we are most compatible with, and avoid people who could cause us harm. I'm asking you not to act on this judgement and share your opinions on me to everyone else. Ask me my story, find out the truth...
    rbambro rbambro 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 2 Responses May 16

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    I have made many mistakes in my life.

    but the past year has been the worst year of my life. im an addict and a mother. i used drugs and then got clean after i had my 1st child. i remained clean for 3 years and relapsed. within 2 days of my relapse my boyfriend/kids father was making hash oil and it blew up our house...
    completlyalone2387 completlyalone2387 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    It will happen anyway.

    Let me just remind you, you don't know me, you don't know my background nor my situation. You don't know my person nor my values. You don't know my thoughts nor support to others. You don't know my feelings nor my sensitivity. Very few know me. I don't ask you to like me nor...
    IBelongToAlison IBelongToAlison 41-45, F 11 Responses Jun 20

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    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I'm in love with my best friend.

    We've been together for 4 years. We agree on almost everything. We have the same sense of humor. She makes it obvious to everyone we meet that she loves me, and I do the same. In all honesty, I can't imagine myself with anyone else. Sounds perfect right? On the surface it does...
    otherorigin otherorigin 36-40, M 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Thank you for this group.

    This is a awesome statement.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    And Yes, I Do Wear Shoes.

    it seems that a lot of people have strong negative opinions about some things i do. im not the "long white beard, straw hat, whistling into an empty moonshine jug, while barefoot,kind of hillbilly" that some of u seem to be picturing. but im not all that far from it. i will hunt...
    bunnyhound bunnyhound 31-35, M 9 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    i don't believe in judging other people

    for this very reason. you can never really know a person. and it can be hard to understand why people do some of the things they do. i'm not saying i'm not opinionated because i know i sure as hell am. i just don't feel like i need to label anyone for doing something i don't...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 1

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    It's funny how we go through life with

    preconceived notions of what we will do, who we will be, where we will end up and what we feel is acceptable, and what is not. .... and then life happens ... in full force.... lines blur ... everything becomes relative. You find that over time, things you never conceived that...
    Chrye Chrye 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 6

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    I'm 19, I was raised to respect

    and obey my parents as long as I lived under their roof, so that's what I am doing. Being forced to go to church (Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses) is a requirement for living at home. This requirement has caused me depression, for the people who claim to be loving...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 11 Responses May 20

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    I used to despite those

    who were christians just for the name. but I didn't understood why untill I became the same. likewise I used to despite smokers when I was a kid. but until I became one I didn't know stuff leads to that. I've told broken hearted people to let it go because now it's over. but I...
    ru661 ru661 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    do not even go there with me.

    ..... people have passed their pathetic judgement on me...until you have walked in my shoes, know and feel what I have felt, and feeling....do not pass your judgement so quickly..... No one should do this to anyone, there are reasons for things, and until you know what is...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Everyone can't cope with issues in their lives

    properly. I dislike it when someone judges someone by something they did that was led by emotions. We are all different. We get angry, and we do things that others may call insane but the lesson is to don't judge me until you have experienced what I have. Its only fair.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    You may have seen this

    before on my other account (Which is broken) but i'm using this one now and so I'm putting my stories on here. Who Am I? Hi, I’m Thomas McDonald… well, I used to be. A few weeks ago my mom called me into her bedroom, she had something to tell me. When I walked in, I saw...
    GrimMindControl GrimMindControl 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 9

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    eally don't know how to express this

    but I've actually feel comfortable enough to even post this! My life right now is not as pleasant as it should or could be! I'm a 28 yr old young woman with a person on person felony with a deadly weapon! That there describes my life itself! well no not really but like my mom...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 25

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    screw taking a walk in my shoes,

    talk a walk in my mind. that'll give you something to think about. *evil grin*
    wolfsparadise wolfsparadise 13-15, M 5 Responses Jun 24

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    schbilly schbilly 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 9

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    I am not the judge and I hope no other human

    judges me. Hey, we all have flaws, hopefully we all can recognize them and then not be quick in making judgments.
    KindFriend71 KindFriend71 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    People shouldn't judge each other

    until they understood what they went through that made them who they are. Usually there's an explanation for why people act the way they do, some people just don't understand the concept in general.
    lmmsdva lmmsdva 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    It amazes me how many supposedly "open minded"

    people who claim not to judge....completely change their story when it comes to methods of parenting...All of a sudden these beacons of acceptance and understanding become judge, jury and executioner
    NHMom NHMom 31-35, F 8 Responses May 28

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