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I 'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

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    This group is clearly about people wanting to

    find pity in others. I mean come on! If people are judging you, then why in the hell are you giving them so much of your free time to explain that they don't know you or your story??? You know who you are and it's all that matters don't waste your time with crazy/stubborn...
    indiebabe46 indiebabe46 18-21, F Jul 16

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    * Most general statements are false,

    including this one. * Love is a matter of chemistry * There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love. * The chance of the bread falling with the buttered side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet.
    be2u be2u 36-40, M Jul 29

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    That's Right....

    As the saying goes 'Don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my shoes' Actually, on second thought, never mind that.....I don't want your fat feet stretching out my shoes......
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I think Iv figured it out.

    When I'm happy I'm too cocky. Too sarcastic. Karma swoops in to balance it out.
    Issima Issima 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    niamh333 niamh333 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 22

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    Ok before you start judging me,

    I want you to take a walk in my shoes. Most of you have no idea how much s**t I've been through, so don't go judging me because of my scars, or because of what I post. If you were to take a walk in my shoes, you wouldn't be judging me.
    LurkingShadow LurkingShadow 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    Why should u point fingers at me.

    ..U don't know my walks in life or what I've been thru or how I cry at nite but Smiles u see on the outside... Get to know me for who I am Before u Judge Me
    yvettemae48 yvettemae48 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm saying don't judge me at all please

    and I will do the same for you. We are all human beings from planet earth with feelings and have all been through stuff in life, some worse than others. I try not to judge people because it is hurtful and just plain wrong,
    DoveinMourning DoveinMourning 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    I'm disabled and people get mad

    when I say I feel left out sometimes because of my disability cuz they say I want them to feel bad for me... It's like...uh....no I just want to be with my "friends"
    silverxrose silverxrose 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 17

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    I wouldn't want to judge anyone even

    after walking in their shoes. Life is hard enough to navigate without trying to correct others. I know I am a mess at times. I certainly have made mistakes. The question I have for anyone out there, Would ypu have done it differently, knowing one little change could...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 25

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    Don't judge me for my Imperfections Don't

    judge me for my Flaws Don't judge me for my mistakes Don't judge me for my Appearance Don't judge me for my way of living Don't judge me for my insecurities Don't judge me 👎🏻
    AnnaSamanthaJohnson AnnaSamanthaJohnson 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    It will happen anyway.

    Let me just remind you, you don't know me, you don't know my background nor my situation. You don't know my person nor my values. You don't know my thoughts nor support to others. You don't know my feelings nor my sensitivity. Very few know me. I don't ask you to like me nor...
    IBelongToAlison IBelongToAlison 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 20

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    It amazes me how many supposedly "open minded"

    people who claim not to judge....completely change their story when it comes to methods of parenting...All of a sudden these beacons of acceptance and understanding become judge, jury and executioner
    NHMom NHMom 31-35, F 8 Responses May 28

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    . Nobody listens until you say something wrong

    . "Left to themselves, things tend to go from bad to worse." ."Every solution breeds new problems." . "To succeed in politics, it is often necessary to rise above your principles."
    be2u be2u 36-40, M Jul 28

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    That's all I ask. If you want to judge me

    after getting to know me, go ahead. But don't just start right off the bat without even knowing me. I'll always take the time to get to know someone first without judging right off the bat.
    DanDeCaro DanDeCaro 18-21, M 1 Response May 18

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    Unless you have been in

    or waked in my shoes please don't judge me. I tend to go off on others who judge me when they have never been in my position ever. It is not easy being a single mom with five kids. My wonderful husband and father of our five great kids died a few years ago from being hit head...
    singlemomwith5kids singlemomwith5kids 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate when people think they understand my

    situation or try to downplay my feelings as if they have the fcking right. THAT ****** me off, you don't KNOW me unless I let you in and I rarely let anyone in. So don't judge me at all or else you'll get your feelings fcking hurt. 😐
    xBlackyChan xBlackyChan 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 4

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    well I picked this one ironically

    because I went through a terrible time after my car accident in2003..it's funny how life works cuz I was a popular kid,teenager plAyed three sports Ll the way through school.I was a three lettered sports star in high school was popular with the girls and stuff. but then I had my...
    damonandrew damonandrew 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    went 2 school today and this ***** taylor was

    talking about me. I hate her but i just said,"next time try not to make it obvious that your talking about me"Her face got red and she automatically shut up... ahh the look on her face was priceless
    cece14779 cece14779 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    soshi80 soshi80 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm a stay at home mom of 2 little amazing

    cuties 4 and 1. I've been married for 4 years but I feel so hopeless, lonely, empty, just miserable in this marriage. Earlier my husband and I fought today. We had the same argument we always have every time we have a family day. Especially on certain days like Mother's day and...
    TwilightIvyStar TwilightIvyStar 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 17

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    People can judge me if they want,

    but until they've gone through at least half of the stuff I've been through they won't understand.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    the shirt I have had on

    for two days has been on backwards #winningatlife
    penguinobsessed82 penguinobsessed82 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I'm really not interested in judging you,

    but I am interested in walking a mile or two in a woman's shoes. I don't have a rational reason for thinking I'd like it, although I do have some pretty strong feelings. But I've never walked those steps, so maybe I'm wrong. Of course, whether I'm wrong or right, I'd love to...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm 19, I was raised to respect

    and obey my parents as long as I lived under their roof, so that's what I am doing. Being forced to go to church (Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses) is a requirement for living at home. This requirement has caused me depression, for the people who claim to be loving...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 10 Responses May 20

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    hope1092 hope1092 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    For my age my shoes are

    rather large. I've survived 6 years of aggressive emotional, physical and sexual abuse starting at the age of 4. I attempted suicide 3 times and survived one at age 8, 10 and 13. I was raped and beaten by a man who I thought was my friend. I have had 2 arm surgeries and 1 major...
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 13

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    Judgemental .. narrow minded .

    . this is not what EP should be. If you are one of those, don't find happiness in destroying people. It's weak. It's cowardly. It's shameful. I live a life of c.rap .. my mom slaps my face when she feels like it, not only when we are arguing .. Mom does not let me out of the...
    Maslisa Maslisa 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    lets judge not judge others at all.

    unless you are willing to carry a poster around everyday with all your faults on it, inviting others to also add to your list
    marinerob marinerob 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 28

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    * Most general statements are false,

    including this one. * Love is a matter of chemistry * There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love. * The chance of the bread falling with the buttered side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet.
    be2u be2u 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Who Am I? Hi, I’m Thomas McDonald… well,

    I used to be. A few weeks ago my mom called me into her bedroom, she had something to tell me. When I walked in, I saw two things; a brown envelope with a very professional looking piece of paper sitting on top of it and my mom’s facial expression… she looked happy. It wasn...
    L1TTL3MY5T3RY L1TTL3MY5T3RY 18-21, M 10 Responses May 23

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    madisontuohey12 madisontuohey12 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    You do not have the right to judge me

    until you've walked in my steps and I garentee you'd fall the first step
    emily224 emily224 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    When you have, judge me

    as you please. But I hope you never do walk a mile in my shoes, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    i am in love with someone

    who is not my husband
    bianca74 bianca74 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    So easy to judge others

    but you can never really know all the circumstances.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 15

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    (I wrote this for a school thing once.

    . it still makes sence to me, even though it's not a good poem, its a true one) My shoes are heavy! My heart is heavy I have a lot to carry Things I wouldn't merry I don't judge your heavy shoes It's not like it was something you got to choose...
    Coreyboy01 Coreyboy01 13-15, M 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    It's funny how we go through life with

    preconceived notions of what we will do, who we will be, where we will end up and what we feel is acceptable, and what is not. .... and then life happens ... in full force.... lines blur ... everything becomes relative. You find that over time, things you never conceived that...
    Chrye Chrye 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 6

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    i don't believe in judging other people

    for this very reason. you can never really know a person. and it can be hard to understand why people do some of the things they do. i'm not saying i'm not opinionated because i know i sure as hell am. i just don't feel like i need to label anyone for doing something i don't...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 1

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    I hate when people say oh your too young to feel

    that way or why can't you just move on, you don't know what I have gone through, you don't know what I had to do to survive, you don't know how I feel.
    IwillBePretty4U IwillBePretty4U 13-15, F 11 Responses Jul 9

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    its not about being through the same things.

    you can live my exact life, but you still have no idea how i feel.
    butterflykisses11 butterflykisses11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    do not even go there with me.

    ..... people have passed their pathetic judgement on me...until you have walked in my shoes, know and feel what I have felt, and feeling....do not pass your judgement so quickly..... No one should do this to anyone, there are reasons for things, and until you know what is...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    A lot of people say I have an easy life .

    Number one nobody has an easy life number two the people don't know me for example they don't know my parents are divorced they don't know my problems . My favorite picture is the bottom side of a pair or shoes with " don't judge till you walk in my shoes" written on them
    LillyO3 LillyO3 18-21, F 5 Responses May 31

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    i am not a single mom,

    but it feels like it.. and i would like to end the 4 year realtionship ive been in with my childs father.. we do not live together, our child lives with me and i take care..the dad pays child support but its only $50 a month he see's his child always i do not keep them from...
    luvlybombchell luvlybombchell 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Don't judge my path,

    if you haven't walked my journey.
    aj32792 aj32792 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 24

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    To all those older people telling me

    that I don't have "real" problems because I'm a teenager... Please, walk in my shoes first and see what I'm going through.
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