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I 'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

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    Judgemental .. narrow minded .

    . this is not what EP should be. If you are one of those, don't find happiness in destroying people. It's weak. It's cowardly. It's shameful. I live a life of c.rap .. my mom slaps my face when she feels like it, not only when we are arguing .. Mom does not let me out of the...
    Maslisa Maslisa 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    (I wrote this for a school thing once.

    . it still makes sence to me, even though it's not a good poem, its a true one) My shoes are heavy! My heart is heavy I have a lot to carry Things I wouldn't merry I don't judge your heavy shoes It's not like it was something you got to choose...
    Coreyboy01 Coreyboy01 13-15, M 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    how do you deal with finding out

    such traumatic stuff? how do we cope? 1. your daughter is raped 2. your son is a rapist why do people ask stupid questions like 'did you know' or make comments like 'my son wouldn't have done that'....walk in my shoes!! ??
    Minxie76 Minxie76 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    You'll Never Know...

    If you don't know me in person then don't talk **** here. Even if you have met me in person don't talk **** here. If you have met me then you got caught up in your own bullshit if you're talking **** here You can judge anybody unless you know them and their entire story. In...
    champ4life777 champ4life777 56-60, M 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I used to despite those

    who were christians just for the name. but I didn't understood why untill I became the same. likewise I used to despite smokers when I was a kid. but until I became one I didn't know stuff leads to that. I've told broken hearted people to let it go because now it's over. but I...
    ru661 ru661 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    It's funny how we go through life with

    preconceived notions of what we will do, who we will be, where we will end up and what we feel is acceptable, and what is not. .... and then life happens ... in full force.... lines blur ... everything becomes relative. You find that over time, things you never conceived that...
    Chrye Chrye 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 6

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    Unless you have been in

    or waked in my shoes please don't judge me. I tend to go off on others who judge me when they have never been in my position ever. It is not easy being a single mom with five kids. My wonderful husband and father of our five great kids died a few years ago from being hit head...
    singlemomwith5kids singlemomwith5kids 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Which you couldn't/can't,

    so stop with the judging already. I feel what I feel, do what I do, say what I say... Cuz I'M ME. I'm ME, okay? Not You. And I Won't Do Things the way You Do... I just won't/can't/don't even wanna!! I have my reasons, my rhythm, my method, my madness... It's all mine...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    People can judge me if they want,

    but until they've gone through at least half of the stuff I've been through they won't understand.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    do not even go there with me.

    ..... people have passed their pathetic judgement on me...until you have walked in my shoes, know and feel what I have felt, and feeling....do not pass your judgement so quickly..... No one should do this to anyone, there are reasons for things, and until you know what is...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    * Most general statements are false,

    including this one. * Love is a matter of chemistry * There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love. * The chance of the bread falling with the buttered side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet.
    be2u be2u 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I wouldn't want to judge anyone even

    after walking in their shoes. Life is hard enough to navigate without trying to correct others. I know I am a mess at times. I certainly have made mistakes. The question I have for anyone out there, Would ypu have done it differently, knowing one little change could...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 25

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    SpontaneousRecoveryLovely SpontaneousRecoveryLovely 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm 19, I was raised to respect

    and obey my parents as long as I lived under their roof, so that's what I am doing. Being forced to go to church (Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses) is a requirement for living at home. This requirement has caused me depression, for the people who claim to be loving...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 10 Responses May 20

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    1girl2find 1girl2find 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    madisontuohey12 madisontuohey12 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    lm in love with my mother's ex-boyfriend

    and oh yes he makes me happy.
    filele filele 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    For my age my shoes are

    rather large. I've survived 6 years of aggressive emotional, physical and sexual abuse starting at the age of 4. I attempted suicide 3 times and survived one at age 8, 10 and 13. I was raped and beaten by a man who I thought was my friend. I have had 2 arm surgeries and 1 major...
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 13

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    That's Right....

    As the saying goes 'Don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my shoes' Actually, on second thought, never mind that.....I don't want your fat feet stretching out my shoes......
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Why should u point fingers at me.

    ..U don't know my walks in life or what I've been thru or how I cry at nite but Smiles u see on the outside... Get to know me for who I am Before u Judge Me
    yvettemae48 yvettemae48 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    screw taking a walk in my shoes,

    talk a walk in my mind. that'll give you something to think about. *evil grin*
    wolfsparadise wolfsparadise 13-15, M 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Don't judge me for my Imperfections Don't

    judge me for my Flaws Don't judge me for my mistakes Don't judge me for my Appearance Don't judge me for my way of living Don't judge me for my insecurities Don't judge me 👎🏻
    AnnaSamanthaJohnson AnnaSamanthaJohnson 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    i am in love with someone

    who is not my husband
    bianca74 bianca74 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm saying don't judge me at all please

    and I will do the same for you. We are all human beings from planet earth with feelings and have all been through stuff in life, some worse than others. I try not to judge people because it is hurtful and just plain wrong,
    DoveinMourning DoveinMourning 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    It amazes me how many supposedly "open minded"

    people who claim not to judge....completely change their story when it comes to methods of parenting...All of a sudden these beacons of acceptance and understanding become judge, jury and executioner
    NHMom NHMom 31-35, F 8 Responses May 28

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    To all those older people telling me

    that I don't have "real" problems because I'm a teenager... Please, walk in my shoes first and see what I'm going through.
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Who Am I? Hi, I’m Thomas McDonald… well,

    I used to be. A few weeks ago my mom called me into her bedroom, she had something to tell me. When I walked in, I saw two things; a brown envelope with a very professional looking piece of paper sitting on top of it and my mom’s facial expression… she looked happy. It wasn...
    L1TTL3MY5T3RY L1TTL3MY5T3RY 18-21, M 10 Responses May 23

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    i don't believe in judging other people

    for this very reason. you can never really know a person. and it can be hard to understand why people do some of the things they do. i'm not saying i'm not opinionated because i know i sure as hell am. i just don't feel like i need to label anyone for doing something i don't...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 1

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    soshi80 soshi80 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    People shouldn't judge each other

    until they understood what they went through that made them who they are. Usually there's an explanation for why people act the way they do, some people just don't understand the concept in general.
    lmmsdva lmmsdva 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    Ok before you start judging me,

    I want you to take a walk in my shoes. Most of you have no idea how much s**t I've been through, so don't go judging me because of my scars, or because of what I post. If you were to take a walk in my shoes, you wouldn't be judging me.
    LurkingShadow LurkingShadow 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I hate when people say oh your too young to feel

    that way or why can't you just move on, you don't know what I have gone through, you don't know what I had to do to survive, you don't know how I feel.
    IwillBePretty4U IwillBePretty4U 13-15, F 12 Responses Jul 9

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    I can't ask people not to judge me

    because we all judge everyone it's human nature to try and seek out the people we are most compatible with, and avoid people who could cause us harm. I'm asking you not to act on this judgement and share your opinions on me to everyone else. Ask me my story, find out the truth...
    rbambro rbambro 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    It will happen anyway.

    Let me just remind you, you don't know me, you don't know my background nor my situation. You don't know my person nor my values. You don't know my thoughts nor support to others. You don't know my feelings nor my sensitivity. Very few know me. I don't ask you to like me nor...
    IBelongToAlison IBelongToAlison 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 20

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    A lot of people say I have an easy life .

    Number one nobody has an easy life number two the people don't know me for example they don't know my parents are divorced they don't know my problems . My favorite picture is the bottom side of a pair or shoes with " don't judge till you walk in my shoes" written on them
    LillyO3 LillyO3 18-21, F 5 Responses May 31

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    I think Iv figured it out.

    When I'm happy I'm too cocky. Too sarcastic. Karma swoops in to balance it out.
    Issima Issima 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    When you have, judge me

    as you please. But I hope you never do walk a mile in my shoes, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    This group is clearly about people wanting to

    find pity in others. I mean come on! If people are judging you, then why in the hell are you giving them so much of your free time to explain that they don't know you or your story??? You know who you are and it's all that matters don't waste your time with crazy/stubborn...
    indiebabe46 indiebabe46 18-21, F Jul 16

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    went 2 school today and this ***** taylor was

    talking about me. I hate her but i just said,"next time try not to make it obvious that your talking about me"Her face got red and she automatically shut up... ahh the look on her face was priceless
    cece14779 cece14779 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    its not about being through the same things.

    you can live my exact life, but you still have no idea how i feel.
    butterflykisses11 butterflykisses11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    You do not have the right to judge me

    until you've walked in my steps and I garentee you'd fall the first step
    emily224 emily224 22-25, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I'm in love with my best friend.

    We've been together for 4 years. We agree on almost everything. We have the same sense of humor. She makes it obvious to everyone we meet that she loves me, and I do the same. In all honesty, I can't imagine myself with anyone else. Sounds perfect right? On the surface it does...
    otherorigin otherorigin 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 6

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    . Nobody listens until you say something wrong

    . "Left to themselves, things tend to go from bad to worse." ."Every solution breeds new problems." . "To succeed in politics, it is often necessary to rise above your principles."
    be2u be2u 36-40, M a week ago

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    I hate when people think they understand my

    situation or try to downplay my feelings as if they have the fcking right. THAT ****** me off, you don't KNOW me unless I let you in and I rarely let anyone in. So don't judge me at all or else you'll get your feelings fcking hurt. 😐
    xBlackyChan xBlackyChan 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 4

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    We are who we are because of our experiences,

    they have shaped us into the people we are. Until you know what the other has been through, do not judge
    orchidangel orchidangel 41-45, F 22 Responses Feb 18

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