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I 'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

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    DONT JUDGE ME.. I DONT JUDGE YOU.

    . I have problems .. Like all of you have problems.. And we come on here with hopes.. In finding a person.. or someone who has experienced what we have to help us through it.. We ALL want to find answers to our problems A solution for the the issue at hand life throws our...
    SPiderWebbz SPiderWebbz 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I have issues with expressing myself I feel

    like I go through so much but nobody im close to knows because I don't know how to say it. Sometimes I just end up crying and really don't know the exact reason I'm crying
    jae1013 jae1013 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 17

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    well...since the holidays are around the corner

    I sorta wish I was cheerful but I'm not. Being that my parents went through a divorce and my mother and brother don't speak to me cause I decided to live with my dad. Turns out, my dad is super negative and gets butt hurt whemr things don't go his way. I'm a 23 year old living...
    RightMeoww RightMeoww 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    That's Right....

    As the saying goes 'Don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my shoes' Actually, on second thought, never mind that.....I don't want your fat feet stretching out my shoes......
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    everybodys lived things,

    everybodys suffered, everybodys cried, everybodys smiled. don't judge unless you know my whole story
    UnusualAngel UnusualAngel 18-21, F Jan 12

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    An I'm a size 6 so it's not very comfortable

    for someone with small feet
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    A lot of people look at me

    and think so many different things. 1. Why does she have short hair? 2. How does she even have a boyfriend? 3. Why are there cuts on her wrists and thighs? 4. Why is she so quiet? So many questions like this are said or thought. It can be overwhelming sometimes about how much a...
    lovedownunder lovedownunder 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    (I wrote this for a school thing once.

    . it still makes sence to me, even though it's not a good poem, its a true one) My shoes are heavy! My heart is heavy I have a lot to carry Things I wouldn't merry I don't judge your heavy shoes It's not like it was something you got to choose...
    Coreyboy01 Coreyboy01 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...I wear 8.5, how about you?

    Love,,, Alyxander😆
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 31

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    Everyone can't cope with issues in their lives

    properly. I dislike it when someone judges someone by something they did that was led by emotions. We are all different. We get angry, and we do things that others may call insane but the lesson is to don't judge me until you have experienced what I have. Its only fair.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 2

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    And Yes, I Do Wear Shoes.

    it seems that a lot of people have strong negative opinions about some things i do. im not the "long white beard, straw hat, whistling into an empty moonshine jug, while barefoot,kind of hillbilly" that some of u seem to be picturing. but im not all that far from it. i will hunt...
    bunnyhound bunnyhound 31-35, M 9 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    They say before insulting a man,

    you should walk a mile in his shoes. That way when you insult him, you'll be a mile away and you have his shoes.
    adhane05 adhane05 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am constantly on the run,

    only the people around me making my life more difficult. All I know is I'm better than that, it's time to take a step. I have a loving boyfriend who is going to help me, I have an intelligent brain and hard working goals. So it's time for ME to make a difference in my life and...
    Michela6730 Michela6730 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Somebody once said "How easy it is to judge

    rightly after one sees what evil comes from judging wrongly".
    TrebuchetFlagship TrebuchetFlagship 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I have had one of the most outrageous weekends

    ever. I am very tired and anxious. Until you have been in my position and had to deal with what I did, then you can talk, but until then keep your mouth shut.
    alicefloe alicefloe 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26

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    You can't really judge no one cause God said

    don't judge unless you will be judge some people have it harder then others but everyone have something thats not right in there and if they say they don't well at lest we you are a lier
    marvel901jones marvel901jones 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Funny how people judge you

    when they have no idea how much you are actually judging yourself. If they knew, they might back off a little. Furthermore...let he who has not sinned cast the first stone ...
    goodnightangel goodnightangel 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Since I am in a sexless marriage

    for years now and have complained about it she finally said just do what you must and don't tell me. So. I am looking for a woman who may or may not be in a similar situation. I would like to find a NSA FWB. I feel confident I will find what I'm looking for all though it may...
    sasmus1577 sasmus1577 56-60, M Nov 17

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    Like I just got in from work

    and getting lunch with my parents to have my dad yell at me about what I wanted to eat because I was tired and couldn't choose quick enough ,,like I feel so broken :'(
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    It is so true. "Never judge a man (or woman)

    until you've walked a mile in there shoes." After that you can judge all you want...afterall, they will be a mile away, and you've got their shoes.
    87William3 87William3 70+, M 4 Responses Dec 14

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    Married But Lonely Don't Judge

    I've written a lot of stories about this subject and my experiences in my marriage and I sometimes get a lot of judgmental comments. I also noticed that most of these comments came from people who are single and have never even been married. So how are they qualified to give me...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    Well it is the scariest thing imaginable.

    I fell asleep one night, and something occurred that i have never seen or felt before. My body was still in the air as i was unable to move my body, my face was faced down, but floating in the air. I was terrified, as my body began to be slowly pulled around the corners of my...
    90lol2 90lol2 22-25, M Nov 29

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    Simple...

    No one has it all figured out, especially not the people who are acting like they do and judging others because of it. Pretending to be something you aren't because you're trying to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites is not the way to be happy. If what other people thought...
    kittysoftpaws kittysoftpaws 36-40, F Jan 30, 2013

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    I've had a really hard life,

    as many has had, I'm not asking for forgiveness for my actions I have taken at that time, as I've been trying to make good on many. But now knowing I'm dealing with ptsd and bipolar as well as a couple of others, I now know where my actions have come from, and am still working...
    Mystic74 Mystic74 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Don't, if you judge me,

    I will unleash my wrath upon you. You don't know me, you don't what I went through.
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 29

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    ROLE AND ROLE MODELS: my role in my society is

    as a christian and my model is Christ..I say this because in as much as there are many pple in Christ,I may like Joel Osteen message but what ministers to me may be different from what ministers to him,as we face different challenges but I may pick certain attributes..say his...
    simsym simsym 22-25 2 Responses Dec 13

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    "Yeah, before you abuse,

    criticize and accuse, walk a mile in my shoes."
    uhhke uhhke 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 1

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    I don't mind people judging me.

    It has never bothered me. I judge people all the for better or for worse. I consider judging a prediction more than a label.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I hate when people judge me.

    I'm not one to be judged and I don't like it. Someone judges me, I tell them to go away or else I do tell someone about it. I've gotten police involved with people at my school in the past, and I've even used some self defence before. And all because people judged me
    ThatGirlSara ThatGirlSara 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Judgemental .. narrow minded .

    . this is not what EP should be. If you are one of those, don't find happiness in destroying people. It's weak. It's cowardly. It's shameful. I live a life of c.rap .. my mom slaps my face when she feels like it, not only when we are arguing .. Mom does not let me out of the...
    Maslisa Maslisa 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 16

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    I'm stuck in a place I don't want to be.

    I have no job, money, or transportation. I am looking for a job that comes with a company truck. I've made 100's of calls and sent emails. I don't seem to be able to get a job at all. I don't have any idea what I'm going to do. All seems hopeless. I'm tired of this life. I just...
    hopefullz1 hopefullz1 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 19

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    Many will relate to my story I am sure.

    But this is the first time I have told anyone so here goes....... 2 years ago I started work back at my old place of work after a year out. I have been married for 4 years and have a two year old son. I left due to lack of time in my role but after being pushed by my wife, as I...
    SillyGuy1 SillyGuy1 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 13

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    If there's anything on this earth

    that annoys me, it's people who judge before they know someone. You have NO IDEA what a person has been through, NO IDEA what has led them to the point in their life that they're at when you meet them; chances are high that there's a solid reason for the way they act, look...
    headversusheart headversusheart 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 5 Responses Apr 16

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    It's hard sometimes because ppl try to tell you

    how to do things and they have never been in your shoes
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    i was born a boy but raised

    as a girl until it was time to go to school. i went to school as a boy and became a girl as soom as i got home. in high school i dressed as a girl for holloween and no one knew it was me untill i got my wig cought and it came off, then everyone new it was me. 3 girls took me...
    closet36 closet36 61-65, T 2 Responses Oct 26

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    You'll Never Know...

    If you don't know me in person then don't talk **** here. Even if you have met me in person don't talk **** here. If you have met me then you got caught up in your own bullshit if you're talking **** here You can judge anybody unless you know them and their entire story. In...
    champ4life champ4life 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    So angry I keep it in hide

    who I really am cuase then they would put me away like I was nothing just forget about me the real me I can not show becuase of who I really am
    Wolf267 Wolf267 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 26

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    To all those older people telling me

    that I don't have "real" problems because I'm a teenager... Please, walk in my shoes first and see what I'm going through.
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25

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    You have no idea what i've been through,

    what i'm going through, or how I feel.
    NaNaJene NaNaJene 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    None of you know the hell I'm living through.

    I am living with annoying brother, an impatient and nagging mother, an abusive stepfather and a bratty sister. There is no such thing as peace from where I am living.
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M 6 Responses Dec 16

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    It’s 1976 I’m thirteen

    and starting High School The beginning of year seven, we are the first students at school, it’s our first day, we get a tour of the school and an introduction to how things work here, rules and regulations and also what the teacher’s and what the education...
    Create63 Create63 51-55, M Oct 25

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    Don't Judge Me... there is a group of people

    here who are judging me... Judging me for the stories I've written. Before you judge me...know that while you see one side of the individual... I saw a completely different side. At first he was fun...but that all changed. He became this whiny ...woe is me...pain in the...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    ?? "why are you so happy?

    " "why'd you dye your hair blue." "you're weird." "oh, you don't seem sad." "ew you're emo." "why would you starve yourself?" "Oh my gosh! Clara you're turning goth." "shut up. you're family's not even that bad." "well at least your mom doesn't take your phone." ?? People...
    xHugsxArexHappinessx xHugsxArexHappinessx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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