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    Sick Of Being Told What To Do

    Doctors tell me what to do and what not to do! Nurses too  Society rules tooThe bible too!   I'm sick of it!  So I now just choose to do what I want to do.Occasionally I'll let my oldest sister tell me what to do  eventhough I'm sick of being told what to do.   I however...
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 23, 2012

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    "I Do It Because I Love You"

    My brothers are always telling me what to do and when to do it! It makes me crazy!! On Friday they did it again! It was picture day that morning and I got up really early to get ready. I was wearing a short dress that came a little above my knee. It took me really long to do my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 23, 2013

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    my mum always tells me what to do

    and im am sick of it. problem is if I speak out she will kick me out
    noahfaith noahfaith 16-17, M Jan 17

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    I'M My Own Individual!!

    I'm so sick of: 1 day I'm told: "You're special, we're so proud of you!" then over the next Month it seems, all I get is: "You're Lazy, you're selfish, you need to grow up!" If u want me to "Grow Up" u ha e to let me do my own thing, and Help me get where I can do it Alone, don...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    Your Way Never Works

    So far in my life everything I do, I do wrong. I don't feel right, I don't act right, I don't socialize enough, I don't act "normal." .. Everyone says to do something some way. I try it, they say I don't. My parents tell me I don't listen. I listen in my way. My way changes all...
    LifelessSource LifelessSource 18-21, F Jul 26, 2011

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    No Advice

    Im fed up of people who keep telling me what to do what is good for me please i dont need your advice now im a grown up guy i know what is wrong and what is rite so please stop giving me advice i hate people who keep giving advice's for no reason please first make yourself...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M May 8, 2013

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    I'm So Sick Of It

         I'm tired of being told what to do. It gets so annoying all of the time. My parents tell me what to do all of the time. I wish that they would just trust me with what I do. I know all that I have to do. They still like to tell me what to do. Ihate it so...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2010

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    So Sick of It.

    I'm so sick of it. I really am. People always telling me what, in their opinion, I should be doing. How I should be feeling. What I should say. What I should think. Do this. Do that. Something they did worked for them, and there-fore, it will work for me also. If it dosn't, it's...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    I'm Sick of Being Told What to Do....

    it seems that everything I do seems to be wrong in everyone else's eyes... right I'll start at the beginning... I'm pretty bright so I know where I'm coming from... ish :p...  but anyway because I've always been quite quick I like to think for myself and feel strangled...
    MysteriousEnigma MysteriousEnigma 16-18, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    I'm Short-Tempered

    I have a bad temper (getting angry and sad at stupid and when I say stupid I mean REALLY STUPID) and I hate it when people tell me what to do I just hate it but as always I have no choice but to OBEY. Ugh. For once in my life I want to do things myself do anything at whatever...
    RedFireBlaze RedFireBlaze 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Everywhere i go, work,

    home, out and about i am constantly told what to and what not to do, where i can and can't go and they even try telling me who i can and can;t talk to. Not that i listen but still, gets really freaking annoying having it in your ear 24/7
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Oct 11

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    I'm stubborn. I don't like conforming all the

    time and molding myself to fit others' standards. Sometimes i want to set my own standards for myself.
    daddyslittlegirl08 daddyslittlegirl08 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Free Spirit

    Now i always pride myself on being rather black and white and saying it like it is, so the following may offend for whatever reasons you conjure up in your own head, but reading on you'll then learn that i dont really care, and neither should you. I've never liked being told...
    supermyke supermyke 19-21, M 2 Responses Jan 7, 2008

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    Let Me Figure It Out!

    Even if I don't know what the right thing is, even if I know I'm doing the wrong thing, I need to figure it out for my self. How can I learn from my mistakes if no one is willing to let me make them?
    EmptyInside EmptyInside 19-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    It's More Than Just Perception

    Whenever I try to talk to people about being depressed and things being hard I get told that I just need to see life differently. Like "Don't just wake up and tell yourself today will suck, say today will be a good day" I'm so sick of stuff like that. I wake up and I feel wrong...
    ingenuinesmiles ingenuinesmiles 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Who Do They Think I Am?

    Was I born to be a slave? Was I born to follow everyone's orders who ask me to? I have a perfectly good body. Not crippled, healthy weight, healthy organs and over all healthy body. How am I suppose to say no to someone who doesn't have what I have?
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F Nov 28, 2013

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    I Use to Always Be Told What to Do

    I always rely on people telling me what to do and Im sick of it. Its my life i make my own choices. Ive gotten to the point where i always ask people what they think or what i should do and i dont know how to stop. I want to stop. I need to stop. I want to listen and trust myself...
    theylaughtheyyell theylaughtheyyell 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    If I'm asked, alright, I'll probably do it or at least consider what the person is asking of me. When someone tells me we're going to hang out or to go somewhere or do something...
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    I had a dad. I don't need your opinion on what you feel is right or wrong. I've been making my own decisions for decades now.
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    I hate when people I don't think you can handle this job. Before I can even do the job People think worst about me. I hate it. They don't know what I can handle or not
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 12

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    It's just really annoying, the way people tell you to do this and that it's as if my Mum just wants me to do chores all the time. I don't really like a CLEAN room if you know what...
    RedFireBlaze RedFireBlaze 13-15, F Nov 17

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    And yet i am not a leader ! Boy i am messed up lol kind a woman who wants snow in June lol ;)
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Even when I know I actually can't do something, I still hate hearing someone tell me I can't. For once I want someone to actually believe in me, not just some empty words, but...
    catvoid catvoid 16-17, F Nov 11

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    Actually I do enjoy it. It give me a reason to question and judge someone's self proclaimed authority. That and to prove them wrong through my abilities.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Nov 12

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    Its just so annoying. I will do it when i want not when you tell me too.
    yadirarubi22 yadirarubi22 18-21, F Nov 18

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    I control much of my life. People depend on me to be in control and to make decisions. That is why I enjoy being told what to do, step by step, when it comes to playing. I...
    Hard2Beat Hard2Beat 36-40, M Nov 17

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    I seriously hate being told no that's by I make my younger brother ask for me so my parents would say no to him not me.
    KyraAnia KyraAnia 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    ONLY if it's for work. Like if I volunteer at the YMCA, I would want to be told what to do instead of just standing around. I got LOTS of energy lol if I volunteer at the Y all I...
    Matthews14 Matthews14 70+, M 1 Response a week ago

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    You Know something isn't right when you finish talking to someone and you leave feeling sad or hurt. For my it's anger. Even though the convo was ok I feel that everytime I talk...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    I hate when I am genuine and real and honest, and ask questions or call out a situation and ask someone if they are lying, being dishonest or manipulating a situation and they sAy...
    Hellokittybbgrl Hellokittybbgrl 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    For me it's ultimately about being able to give up control and just look at someone to decide what I eat or when I can skip class or just stuff like that. it's not just sexual...
    cayelynnnn cayelynnnn 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I also like consequences for doing what I have been told not to do z
    Mojoco1 Mojoco1 41-45, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Any one got the time and inclination to tell me how to run my day today? Or at least tell me what to do with myself? Lol
    Hard2Beat Hard2Beat 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    I love it when my boyfriend just tells me what to do to him like he's in charge of me, it gets me hotter :D
    Silverfeather9321 Silverfeather9321 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 18

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    Not aggressively, but like for doing tasks and what to do sometimes. I am good at following orders and like pleasing other people. On that note: do not message me telling me what...
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F a week ago

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    the internet created by adults for adults - keep it that way!
    queerinthehead queerinthehead 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    When I was younger, age 27 to age about 45, I was a hell raiser. I got into fights both verbally and sometimes physically with mostly counter people at stores, everywhere I went...
    loveaguilarg loveaguilarg 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    Say it and mean it.dont say it to trick
    livinglife1 livinglife1 18-21, F Nov 17

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    Why are people using my rant over thing? IT'S COPYRIGHTED!
    XXburnttoastXX XXburnttoastXX 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    It just helps . Imean I can do everything myself with no direction but I make not so great decisions . (i.e: I decided not to wear a coat today in 23degree weather)
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Looking to be a slave. Pm me if interested
    Lynzee1998 Lynzee1998 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Friend calls: " hey wanna come over??" Me: "oh **** mom quick tell me to do something! MAAAAAMMMMM QUIIICKKKK!!!!!" MAAAAAMMMMM: "Ummmmmmm.... CLEAN THE FRIDGE! >:D" me: "THANKS...
    AlwaysAnonnymous AlwaysAnonnymous 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    This is just how I am. People say I'm indecisive but I think otherwise
    KarinaLin KarinaLin 18-21, F a week ago

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    I wanna be a slave to a beautiful women message me girls
    sexypissinpantsgirl sexypissinpantsgirl 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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