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I 'm Still a Virgin, But Dont Want to Be

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 217 People

    Unsure About What I Want...

    As a kid, I was raised to believe that virginity is a sacred thing. The only problem: the people doing the 'raising' were complete hypocrites. My older sister worked as an underage ********, and had her first kid at the age of 14. My mom lost her virginity...
    OblitusAuri OblitusAuri
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 19, 2010

    I'm 22 And Still A Virgin In Every Way As In Never Been On A Date, Kissed Or Had Sex

    I am 22 and i don't think I am a bad looking girl and I have still never been on a date, kissed or had sex because of this I feel totally wierd. Most people my age have done this stuff. Another thing is I don't want to just kiss or have sex with just anybody just to say I did...
    Neverbeenkissed Neverbeenkissed
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Oct 17, 2010

    Well Kinda...

    I'm 27 and up until last night i was a virgin. I kinda still am though. the reason i'm a virgin is because of my fetish. I have a hard time getting aroused otherwise. last night I was having some fun with a girl i just met and she ended up giving me head for a while. while i...
    TenaKev TenaKev
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 8, 2011

    at 22 its a bit mad, people actually think i'm

    gay and all that now because i haven't. Its just i haven't had the chance lol, its not that i'm gay. However I wouldn't want to rush into it either i'd still like ti to be with someone that i care for not just with everyone.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 7, 2013

    Not Sure It Is Worth It

    I have been saving myself for marriage. I get my share of dates, but guys don't understand the "virginity thing." I would like my wedding night to be something special. For that reason, I have chosen not to give up my virginity. I want something that I could give to my...
    walkingslowly walkingslowly
    26-30, F
    17 Responses Feb 23, 2010

    Hate It..

    So here's the thing, I'm a 20 yr old dude with zero sexual experience. zero as in zero, I've never even held a girl's hand before. Almost all my friend are guys, and those ******* have been having sex for years. They keep telling me its bout time I get a girlfriend or pick up...
    markraytan markraytan
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2012

    I Don't Know What To Do.....

    I'm 20 and a virgin. But its not through want of trying. Its such a massive deal for me. Everyone tells me to relax but I can't. I've never been able to. How does anyone relax for their first time?! Everyone keeps telling me its not a big deal, I regret my first time. Sex isn...
    AgeonAngel AgeonAngel
    1 Response Jul 16, 2010

    You Will Story Gone Wrong

    So i was pretty (pathetic) desperate looking for some person to help me with losing my virginity.  So basically i got a account on cragslist and waited not only was that a really desperate act and yet pathetic one it was a waste of time, damn it seems it'll never end.  ...
    Reduikum Reduikum
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2010

    28 And Still A Virgin

    It sucks, what else can I say? Honestly i'm kind of afraid of people. All through my school days I had very few friends and little to no interaction with females. As I got a bit older I have had women who were attracted to me but they were either women I wasn't attracted to or...
    Jvanb00c Jvanb00c
    26-30, M
    Dec 25, 2011

    Still One And I Think I Always Will Be.

    I posted this story: EP Link four years ago on this experience. I was complaining about being almost 23 and still one. Well, now I am 27 years old and I am still a virgin and I am completely ashamed of it. I am so ugly, and no man wants me. The truth is, I actually came so damn...
    Ashley868 Ashley868
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Sep 17, 2013


    I've never had a **** in my *****.. But I've done quite a bit with girls and a little with guys
    melodygrace melodygrace
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2013


    I know people like to talk about how much responsibility it is to have sex, and I can assure you, I'm ready for the physical responsibility. I know all about being careful and such. Being that I'm 21, I also assume that I can handle the emotional responsibility of having sex. I...
    hillknight hillknight
    18-21, M
    Oct 24, 2010

    28 and Never Been Kissed!

    I'm 28, female, and still a virgin, who's never kissed anyone. I am not a religious person (at all). I'm just a loner. I feel like a freak sometimes, especially because of this world we live in, we're all being told we're monsters if we haven't been with someone by the time we...
    FadedLB FadedLB
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2009

    To Those Who Want to Lose Their Virginity, Please Read

    I posted this story in another experience group here, and I thought I'd share it in this group.  I hope it's appreciated. To begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with...
    boingofan boingofan
    26-30, M
    11 Responses Aug 8, 2008

    Still A Virgin

    Im 20 years old and still havent gotten laid.  Ive come close a couple of times but have never been able to seal the deal.  I live in a dormitory, and im always  reminded that im one of the few in my age group that hasnt had sex.  As im writing this ive...
    jackpenntrash jackpenntrash
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

    Seventeen, Heartbroken.

    I am seventeen years old. I am stil a virgin, but i dont know if i want to stay that way or not. I have always told myself that I was going to wait for my wedding night but I dont know if it is the right idea.
    vfoy vfoy
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Nov 12, 2008

    Late Bloomer.

    Does being a 'Born Again' Virgin Count?  It has been over 2 years this time, and before that it had been almost 5 years.  I was a late bloomer when I initially lost it.
    IamLikeNoOthers IamLikeNoOthers
    18-21, F
    May 6, 2010

    23 M Virgin

    I have kissed girls before and the last time I did it was in 4th or 5th grade. There have been girls always hitting on me. Some are obvisous than others, and many gave me wood; however, some reason I never could let myself go to the yerning and in turn I pushed them away when I...
    RomeoDeltor RomeoDeltor
    22-25, M
    Jul 9, 2010

    It's a Crossroad

    Hmmm 20 years young and I haven't played the v-card. During the latter part of my teen years, I was engrossed in religion and the whole saving yourself for marriage ideal; problem is, I want to 'try' before I buy and I'm impatient. There's also the generic excuses...STIs...
    KVTgrrl KVTgrrl
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Jul 11, 2009

    It'S Not That I Dont Want To Be ...

    its that the opportunity to make that decision has never come up. I'm 30 years old I have never been out on a date I have never even kissed a girl. both things I am desperate to do and yet I can't find a girl even remotely interested in even that. being a virgin for me is not a...
    alexasororitypet alexasororitypet
    31-35, M
    Jun 27, 2013

    I Am Over A Half Century Old (51 Years Old) And I'm Still A Virgin!!!

    I never had sex with a woman, ever since I arrived on this huge rock hurling through space. Most of my life, I have been sexually inactive, except for mutual ************. I could not score with getting women to bed with me. It figures that my horoscope is Virgo, which derives...
    Cuteguyfun Cuteguyfun
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 10, 2011

    I'm a 52 Yr.old Male Virgin...

    Hi,I guess what I am is very unusual and at this point I'm not sure if I'll ever have the chance to change it.Most women find my viginity somewhat strange when I tell them so I tend to hide it.I've often thought it could be solved with a nice hooker but it would make it too...
    mro2356 mro2356
    12 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    20 Still A Virgin... When Will It End?

    So I'm still a virgin at the age of 20.  I know theirs a lot of people out there that say its not wrong to be a virgin, but how many virgins are out there anymore compared to 50 years ago.  It seems like everyone of my friends that are guys aren't virgins and so are the...
    Reduikum Reduikum
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Aug 18, 2010

    Conservative Society

    "I 'm Still a Virgin, But Dont Want to Be" I am a 26yr old girl living with parents and still a virgin. It is really frustrating not having this wonderful experience. I am so jealous of my friends who have boyfriends and most of them are already married. I come from a...
    pooja2009 pooja2009
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2009

    It's Who I Am, Loud And Proud

    Hi everyone im James 28, and yep still a virgin. I have known a lot of guys who boast about how many girls they have had etc (i hate guys like that). I've even had a bully who said "your gonna be the 40yr old virgin!" but you know something i am an old school romantic, if my...
    wjames85 wjames85
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 5, 2013

    Wasted Time

    When I was younger I wanted to wait to find someone who valued me as a person, rather than just a one night stand or rebound buddy. I waited and never found someone as time kept ticking away. Now, I'm 30 and find myself in this strange situation and find it awkward to discuss it...
    credere credere
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2009

    53 And Still A Virgin

    I'm not sure l'm in the right place for this really. I think my problem is that l have no confidence so l never even try talking to a women with a view to taking things further. I've never even had a proper girlfriend. Luckily l can hide this by not thinking about it. Can't see...
    showit showit
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2010

    Not Even A Kiss

    Well, it's true. I've never even kissed anyone...I'm 16...and I'm not like rushing to loose my virginity, but I'd at least like to have done SOMETHING whether it's kissing or just getting a realy bf/gf. The only reason I'm assuming that I haven't had any boyfriends or...
    X6rose6red6X X6rose6red6X
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 20, 2010

    I'm A Miserable Virgin

    I ********** at least once a week. I really would like to find a bf in 2010 but seriously I say this to myself every year. I hide the fact that I'm a virgin and has never been kissed or slept with a man people who know.  from almost everyone. My close family are the only...
    littyleigh littyleigh
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2010

    I'm Going to Be 23 This Year....

    I really don't want to be a virgin anymore. I am almost 23, no one in my generation is still one at this age.
    Ashley868 Ashley868
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jun 6, 2009

    Virgin? 26? Me Too!

    So i am a 26 year old guy who is very attracted to virgins, i am not to terribly experienced for my age but i make it a sensual night that the women have really enjoyed. If you are thinking about losing your virginity and need someone to talk to about this feel free to...
    jlbob jlbob
    26-30, M
    May 20, 2010

    18 And Still A Virgin.

    I guess it bothers me mostly because all my friends lost their virginities at age 12.(I am exaggerating) and yes I realize it is pretty immature but I don't really believe in love so I've never really been into that whole, "I want my first time to be with someone special" thing...
    William271 William271
    22-25, M
    Aug 15, 2010

    44yo Virgin

    I'm a 44-year-old man, and I've never had my penis in a vagina. I'm shy, so I don't meet very many women to date. When I do, I always seem to wait for them to make the first move. They don't, and I guess they get tired of waiting for me because my relationships don't last long...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 10, 2009

    I'm A 59-year-old Woman Who Is Still A Virgin And I Don't Want To Be

    I was not born very pretty and I am very short (only 5 ft.) so I was never in a position to lose my virginity. Two men were attracted to me but they were very gross to me and I didn't want them. Whenever there was the slightest spark of attraction on my part for a man, nothing...
    Tindomerel Tindomerel
    1 Response Sep 27, 2012

    So Close, Yet Soo Far

    Right last night i was so close to losing my virginity but i managed to mess it up, big i will give you a little background about me so you will understand. i am 23 year old guy who is still a virgin. The reason why i am still a virgin is not because of religion (since...
    dazzainscot dazzainscot
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 26, 2012

    What the Hell?!?

    Long story short:  I'm 31, a STRAIGHT male (I don't want anything to do with guys), still a virgin, and horny.  (No, I am not considering getting castrated.)  Never had sex of any kind bcuz I haven't found the right girl.  I don't want to wait till...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Sep 9, 2009

    Too Insecure To Have Sex

    I've had plenty experiences and times where I could've lost my virginity. I feel I am of age to already lose my virginity. If it wasn't so insecure about my body and about being rejected, I would've lost my virginity by now to a boyfriend I loved and cared about. We didn't break...
    ImThatAnon ImThatAnon
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2013

    Everyone Wants Sex

    I've had opportunities to have sex but I can't do it. I just can't I want it to mean so much more. Truth is I'm getting tired of waiting for the "right guy" I just kind of want to do it and get it over with. I want to lose my virginity to another virgin. I used to think I wanted...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Sep 19, 2010

    I Am A Confused 43 Year Old Virgin

    Please help me I'm sinking with confusion my head is a mess, my head temples hurt, my memory Is really bad I'm so frustrated sexually and mentally I am a 43 year old british guy who is technically still a virgin. I have suffered From depression for the last 10 years. I take anti...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    Nov 26, 2013

    Til Marriage

    I am a virgin because at a very young age I decided that I was going to wait for the right guy. Well as high school came and gone, I wondered what I was waiting for. Then college came and went and I am still waiting. I was always waiting for the right guy but then when I was...
    Donnavan23 Donnavan23
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Nov 19, 2007

    31 Year Old Man - How Did This Happen?

    I'm a 31 year old man and still a virgin. I'm kind, smart, good looking .. somehow though something got screwed up in me and I've avoided sex all my life. I guess it's called "sexual aversion disorder". I have been in therapy for over a year trying to work it out ... I really...
    scriabin scriabin
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2011


    I'm 20 and still a virgin...pretty sad, I don't really have the confidence yet, or met a nice enough guy...
    penguingirl penguingirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2009
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