I 'm Terrified of Revealing My Desire to Dress Like a Woman

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    Do It

    you only got one life if you what to crossdress do it and you may find a whole new world out there
    ravennite44 ravennite44
    46-50, T
    1 Response Oct 10, 2009

    I feel like I would be a target

    for violence since I live a rough neighborhood but that's why I'm pursuing a career change that will allow me to move to a better area. Plus I don't think my girlfriend would understand even though she has accepted the fact that I wear high heels. My family would disown me.
    carsheelsandwomen carsheelsandwomen
    4 Responses Nov 11, 2014

    I did lose a really exceptional girl

    while struggling with my desire. I'm pretty certain it had nothing to do with who I really was inside but more with the secrecy and being caught in lies about it. I just couldn't admit it to her and myself. In her eyes she saw this as a form of "cheating" on her because it was...
    Brianhi26 Brianhi26
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2015
    Loveislove12 Loveislove12
    18-21, T
    9 Responses Feb 26, 2015

    I was once terrified.

    Now with experience behind me out in public dressed as a woman I can say I am having a wonderful time and the friends I have made and the things I have done was once only dreams, dreams that seemed so far away.I have gone shopping dressed as a woman many times. I have tried on...
    RobynTheBeautiful RobynTheBeautiful
    16 Responses Jan 27, 2014


    I would love to admit to my wife my desire but I know she wouldnt react very well.  I once admitted to wanting to wear panties and after an initial period of giving me some, she told me I would have to stop because it was freaking her out.  Now, I am all alone in my...
    arrby1234 arrby1234
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2010

    Hi everyone! I just wanted to give an update.

    With the help of a very dear friend on here (you know who you are) ;) I came out to my mother about being a transgender woman. This is something that I have been contemplating about for a little while now. I guess I just needed some extra motivation. So last night I did it. I...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337
    31-35, T
    14 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    Yes, But One Day

    I admit it, I am scared of reveling my desire, really my need to be a woman. Some people think very poorly of persons like me, transgended. Some have even been know to commit acts of violence on persons like me. It has happened in my area too, guess no place is exempt totally...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    8 Responses Oct 11, 2008

    Ok as you might be able to tell by my profile

    pic I have a very feminine face for a guy. This is part of the reason I want to dress like a girl. I've always thought I'd look so cute in a girls outfit the only thing I don't want to wear is heels. But I wish I had girls shirts and sweatshirts. I love the way the sleeves go...
    epicmonk3ydude epicmonk3ydude
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2014

    My family is pretty accepting of people,

    but I am still scared to tell them my secrets. The thing I am most scared about is probably how I get the clothes. I guess I can say I want to try it, but not say I actually have tried it before. But I don't really know how I would tell them.
    LanelJaento LanelJaento
    16-17, T
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015

    as my whole family is Baptist church goers they

    would not be able to handle my dressing well as for friends I don't have a lot as I am on the road a lot so yes it terrifies me to tell any one but my friends here on ep
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    I love dressing in women's clothing.

    I wear women's clothes everyday. It is a topic of discussion my wife and I came to grips with. Thru all the discussions 1) I am not gay; 2) I am not leaving her, 3) my wife is stuck with me. Our marriage has gotten stronger. My wife knows that if we go out somewhere I will...
    serinalynn serinalynn
    66-70, M
    6 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    I Dated A Man That Liked To Dress As A Woman.

    Hello. I just wanted to come here and show my support and tell my story of the man I dated that liked to dress as a woman. When I first met this guy he was a huge muscled, Harley riding tough guy! He was tall, big and looked (and was) a very very dangerous man. He was basically...
    HiddenFeline HiddenFeline
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Sep 23, 2013

    This is my greatest desire to ever reveal,

    because I know it would cost me 100% of my family and friends support/relationships.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 10

    Oh, How I Wish!

    I once admitted to my wife that I would like to wear panties and she let me wear one pair of hers for a few hours.  Since then I cant mention it.  I think it really freaked her out.  How I wish she would have enjoyed it or at least been OK enough with it to...
    Missundrstood Missundrstood
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    I've Told Others

    Of course after dressing as a woman and going out it's now rather obvious. Revealing very private things about yourself to others, especially those who are close, can be very scary. As others have shared in their stories, it can be exciting as well. After many, many years...
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2013

    Oh how I wish I was strong enough to tell the

    ones close to me I cross dress. When I was young I always wanted my mother to catch me stealing her clothes. I would have dreams of her allowing me to be a girl. My dad would never understand. He's a homophobe and just to hear him talk about cross dressers has kept me from...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337
    31-35, T
    13 Responses Dec 25, 2013

    Not Sure

    This is the most frightening thing for all gurls like me. I have been cross dressing since way before puberty, so it was never just a sexual thing for me to be wearing feminine clothing. I know that it is somthing that will always be part of my life, and now that I can finally...
    femininityforme femininityforme
    46-50, T
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2010

    I have kept it a secret

    for a long time. Dressing only behind closed doors. The problem is that I wanted to step out into real world and be the girl I was hiding. Where I loved the feeling of being out, ( as Rhonda my feminine personality ), there is always a fear that someone, ( like family members...
    rlt171720 rlt171720
    61-65, T
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    I am very afraid of revealing my desire to dress

    as a woman because I am from a very small town that is very prejudicial towards non normal behavior. Going somewhere strange is also scary because you don't know how other people will take or accept you as a man dressed in womans clothing. I shouldn't really care about what...
    Jessica1967 Jessica1967
    41-45, T
    10 Responses Jun 9, 2014

    I wish I was able to tell my wife

    and family that I loved to wear women's clothes. I would be less stressed if I knew they were OK with that. Also I think it would be cool to go shopping with my wife.
    TeriDarcy TeriDarcy
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2014

    To All Who Are Afried

    you got only one life go and do it if you what to crossdress do ,you may find a whole new world out there
    ravennite44 ravennite44
    46-50, T
    1 Response Oct 10, 2009

    Do I Really Want To Pay The Price?....

    Here's the deal from one "out of the closet" crossdresser to another. Don't want to talk down too, or scare anyone from "coming out". But let's put it this way, i've been a crossdresser for 49 out of 54 years. During this time i've wrecked two marriages, one seious relationship...
    leachera leachera
    51-55, T
    8 Responses Nov 3, 2010

    I Used To Be... Now I Think I Want To.

    Lately, I've found myself wanting to be found out, so that I can share my secret with someone. I keep hoping that someone will openly question my pierced ears, long hair, or painted toenails; and I can let them in in my secret. As of yet, no one has, and in a moment of confusion...
    tpoh tpoh
    46-50, T
    1 Response Jul 3, 2013
    needingspanking999 needingspanking999
    51-55, T
    4 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    Does any one likes to wear tight womn pnts

    or dresses to pee and poop on them??
    TeenTransGirl TeenTransGirl
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 14, 2013
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