sometimes there are situations where you have to go against the grain. all the ideals and aspirations you have does not comply with reality...decisions should be made for others not for yourself. sad but true
I am a mind, in my reflection there is a body. We are not the same! I may not be the exact opposite of my reflection but for what it's worth I am not what is being presenting before me.
Not as if I object to what I see, but I will be what I will be and so will it.