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I 'm Tired of Being Rejected

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    I'm So Sick Of Trying

    I'm tired~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``Of people!!!!!!!REJECTING ME!!!LEAVE ME THE **** ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!IF YOU'RE GOING TO SAY HI TO ME AND THEN REJECT ME DO NOT START WITH A HELLO!I HATE FALSE HOPE!I'M TIRED OF TRYING.To be acceptedto be lovedand getting constantly rejectedyou don't...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    Rejection In My Marriage

    Before I got married I thought that what I was entering into was a safe and comfortable union. I thought that even though there would be rough times being married meant I would have a place I would always feel accepted and wanted. I sure was wrong about that. I have never felt...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    This Has Been My Story For 15 Years

    Ever since I was twelve years old, I've been getting rejected by the opposite sex. I still remember my very first crush, and working up enough nerve to let him know how I felt. He ended up rejected me, and telling me to my face that I was too ugly for him. I went home crying and...
    Ashley868 Ashley868 26-30, F 18 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    Frequency Meltdown

    Yes I am tired of being rejected from working as a hooters girl waitress, I think I would make a sexy waitress. Also I'm tired of being rejected from going into a women's only bar, as I said before I'm a woman trapped in a man's body wanting to date other women, if that makes any...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Mar 5, 2013

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    Rejection IS Personal, Whether People Want To Admit It Or Not.

    When you get rejected, a person is rejecting you. Your looks, your mannerisms, your uniqueness. You. Think about it this way. If it's not personal, why do people make up stupid excuses for why they shot you down? If it wasn't personal, there'd be total honesty all across the...
    poopyloop poopyloop 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    Im not desperate for a relationship,

    but what bugs me is no one seems to give me a chance. Im decent looking, well educated, great self-control and extremely welcoming and nice... I dont understand how people dont try to be around me? I dont like the "warm up" periods when getting to know someone. You wanna be...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    What Am I Doing Wrong

    men have always turned away woman have always been hurtful and sinker as I walk by I am always smiling even though im dying inside I stay positive I have no idea what im doing wrong a smile on my face and a sweet hello. why I get turned down ?
    Yungbug Yungbug 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    im tired of being rejected i dont know what to

    do,can any girl love me please.I'm 26 years old and still i dont have a girlfriend,im fed up i want he made me a brown skin.When he knows that a white skin girl will never fall in love with a brown skin guy like me,i want to marry a white skin girl.The girl wich i was in love at...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Does this experience sound pathetic?

    Never mind, you can say yes. Come on, no one likes being rejected. This happened to me like so many times. The truth is, I’m afraid to fall in love again. Every time I did, I would fall too deep then it hurts. Not because I did not get what I wanted, but because I was always...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Can you imagine never being heard

    and be rejected by this society because of appearance? You hate to go out in public because you are scared of dirty looks and people saying mean things. Your family wishes they could change things, but they are not God. You think only if I had the money to have the best...
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    It Hurts, But It Won't Define Me.

    I am most definitely not everyone's cup of tea. I am stubborn, moody, morbid, bipolar, sometimes suicidal, sometimes homicidal, and generally screwed up. While I can be the best friend one can ever have, I can also be the ***** from hell when I am crossed. I am very much a...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I Can't Seem To Keep A 'friend.'

    It seems I just can't seem to keep a friend no matter how hard I try.  It seems like something always happens to make the person I'm friends with REJECT ME!  I'm a very outspoken person and say what I think and I know lots of times this is what gets me into trouble.  But I'm...
    francesmary3224 francesmary3224 70+ 2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    In Fact, I Just Got Rejected Today! Lol

    I went to KFC and asked the girl at the counter if she was single after she handed me my order.  She was cute.  She reminded me of Christina Ricci.  (One of my on-screen hotties.  Check out my story under, "I heart my on-screen hotties".)  She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 4, 2010

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    I Don't Understand Why

    Someone who had removed me from their circle said -  don't take it personally.  The only way it would not be personal is if everyone had been removed.  I know I'm nice and kind, so I never understand why I'm so easily discarded.
    wordsforliving wordsforliving 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2010

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    I'm tired of being left in tired of everyone

    being my friend then leave me. My life is really complicated and no one understands that When I think to much I write it all down and I turn it into a poem my friend read it but I said I copied it but really it is all my thoughts. I've tried everything and sometimes I feel like...
    Dekaosman Dekaosman 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Its Not As Bad As You Think

    OK, I have my share of rejection stories. I am 57 and have learned a lot and matured through the years. What I think happens is we put too much importance on what people think of us. If you are suffereing from insecurity, you often want people to validate you. When they reject...
    Midwestyankee Midwestyankee 56-60, M Oct 11, 2013

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    Been Rejected By All Of My Family...

    Been rejected by all my family members and i have no idea why ?
    mhariartist mhariartist 51-55, T 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Tired Of Been Rejected By My Domestic Partner!!!!

    I have been with the same guy for the past 14 years. We have a child together but he has lost all interest in me. I have tried everything in the book to spice up our relationship but he keeps on pushing me away. I'm tired of been turned down every time I want to have sex with him...
    Periwinkle88 Periwinkle88 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    So Depressed

    I'm not sure if all this is in my head. I have been depressed for the past five years I could really say that I don't know the reason but I will be lying. I am so discontent with whom I am. We'll I am disgusted with who I became. I had dreams, hopes and goals I never got to. I...
    Periwinkle88 Periwinkle88 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Story Of My Life

    Rejection is the story of my life. I have spent all of my life being rejected by one person or another. Started with my own mother and everyone who has came since has rejected me for what ever reason. I am not a horrible person. Im honest, kind, caring, always willing to help...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    I'm Tired Of Hearing "Sorry, I think of you as a friend."

    I hate being rejected in general, but this particular excuse really ****** me off. I swear every freaking time I ask a girl out, that's the response I get. And I'm well aware this is her way of trying to "let me down easy", but I'd like an actual reason instead of some stupid...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    Getting This Off My Chest

    I have to do this now or I am going to explode There is a 23 year old guy at my job that I have been digging on for about 6 months now I have flirted with him got his number texted him a few times he even asked me what i was doing new years eve he has rejected me I see him...
    foreversingle30 foreversingle30 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    So Effin Tired

    I'm so done, being a good person, attempting to make the person I'm with happy AND IS NEVER ENOUGH. Its either "OMG you're so needy, I can't give you any more time than what I'm already giving you" or my favorite of all times "You are such a great woman, I'm sure you'll make a...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    I'm tired of people rejecting me

    because of my disabilities. I personally don't let my disabilities stop me from doing all the things that I need to do and want to do. I unlike most disabled people have managed to get not only a Bachelor's degree in Science of Computer Systems' Engineering, I have also managed...
    fallenandcantgetup fallenandcantgetup 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    No Matter What I Do

    I get rejected.  What is up with that?
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    I Must Be Repulsive & Unlikable No Matter What I Do

    This happens ALL the time.  I will be the only one in a group that people will not accept.  It doesn't matter that I'm nice, understanding, empathetic or a good listener, apparently I'm completely repulsive.  This is why I can't make friends.  And the more it happens, the...
    wordsforliving wordsforliving 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    This Happens To Me In Relationships...

    I don't have any trouble attracting them , it's keeping them i have a problem with....i somehow push them away and end up chasing them , only to be rejected again....sick of it. !!!!
    mhariartist mhariartist 51-55, T 2 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    Instagram Prom Date.....

    So I'm a girl and I asked this girl I'm friends with to be my instagram prom date in a jokish cute way and she rejected me. ON A PHOTO! Anyone can look...... I'm really embarrassed. Not at the fact I was rejected, but that everyone can see it 😢 Any one to relate? Do any of you...
    IHasThatBadsFeels IHasThatBadsFeels 13-15 May 20, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 6

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    I was rejected 4 times in my life,

    where my crushes meant much to me. The other times online, i was rejected, but it didnt hurt that much as in real life. Now after being hurt so much, i realize that i just dont want it anymore. I give up on love. It is so hard for me to find somebody, and the 4 precious crushes...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses May 27

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    judgemenot44 judgemenot44 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    “You go to work the next day pretending

    nothing happened. Your co-workers ask if everything's okay and you tell them you're just tired. And you're trying to smile. And they're trying to smile.” - Richard Siken
    livingfortoday livingfortoday 26-30, M Jun 14

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    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 26-30, M Apr 20

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    Probably In The Wrong Group

    This is just me venting about my relationship troubles. I'm probably in the wrong section, surrounded by those with far more painful stories of rejection. Thusly, I understand that I'm likely disgusting many-a EPer by posting here. Frankly, though, I couldn't really give less of...
    LostLuggage LostLuggage 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2012

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    I Feel Like Giving Up.

    I'm almost 20 years old and now in my second semester of college. To this day I haven't had a single relationship, even though I had been searching since I was somewhere around 15. I know I'm not that old, but you'd think after consistently failing and being let down (and...
    Xeeder Xeeder 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    I'M So Tired Of My Life, I Need Someone.

    I feel so sad, it seems like my life is not moving anymore, it seems like my life is stuck in a coma and I don't even know how to be alive again. I'm tired of being so good with people I like, whenever I show them how much I care, they always choose to hurt or leave me, all of...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 18-21 4 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    It Never Worked For Me

    Over the course of years, I've seen all friends got out with someone or they will flirt pretty dam well. But when I try to do it, its been like 6+ times in a row, I get rejected. I'm not a bad guy or anything, but personally, I dont go for looks. Why do I seem to fail though? Im...
    Question7 Question7 13-15 3 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    I am so tired of being rejected.

    It seems like they reject me or I reject them before they can. I do not understand why this keeps happening. My whole entire life has been this way ever since I was a child. And it could be the main reason I have no close friends, because I am so afraid they will abandon me so I...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    i hate being rejected , makes me feel worthless , thats why i turn into a complete ******* when it happens , it somehow makes me feel better
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    I don't know if I can keep loving people, every time I think I have a connection with someone I always end up getting hurt - it's too much sometimes. And here I think I've found...
    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have a friend, she switches from friend to friend constantly. Whenever she loses friendship with this one girl, she begins being friends with me. And then again. The one girl she...
    BloodProjectile1 BloodProjectile1 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I was unsure if she did like me or not but I was told multiple times she did ,plus she showed all the basic signs of attraction. So i decided to message her and just said hey...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm Tired of not being able to trust my mother. I'm Tired of failing at school. I'm Tired of feeling left out by my mother and her husband. I'm Tired of crying over the guy that...
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    He just does not reply my friend request on facebook & I saw him online commenting on his friend post. He always greets & smile at me whenever we met ??? Just a small detail but...
    KiwiStrawberry11 KiwiStrawberry11 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I get rejected by my family for being who I am. They believe that I have a **** personality but, that's because they can't stand to see me or other family members be theirselves...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Almost a year ago, I was interested in that guy because I thought he was kind, smart and funny. I asked him first and he rejected me quite coldly. I'm so embarrassed even to this...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really want to change my way, I'm tired of being what people expect just so I can keep up with their standards. I'm tired of being a total ***** to people that don't deserve it...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F Jul 10

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    I am really tired of everyone , tired of working , tired of thinking I will have goo future one day , tired of waiting of good days , tired of being alone , tired of people who are...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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