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I 'm Tired of Being Rejected

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    Trust no matter how many wrongs you've done.

    JESUS CHRIST doesn't reject you.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2014

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    So I asked that guy out ,

    but he has a girlfriend
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I know every human has the feeling "I am not

    good enough", but sometimes I feel like that's what the world is telling me all the time. Everyone says accept yourself the way you are, but they pick you apart you look better this way. you should do your hair this way. You should wear make up more you look better, you look...
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Why is it so difficult

    for us to all get along and be friends? Everything I do for them is always taken for granted; but every mistake I make is exaggerated, as if nobody else makes mistakes. I've pretty much tried everything. I've tried telling jokes, doing favours. I've done everything I've ever...
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda 13-15 Jul 30, 2014

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    I'm a porcelain doll

    and men are sledge hammers. Each one hits harder than the last and breaks me into more pieces.
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I need a job-it doesn't have to be a fancy job,

    as long as I can take care of my family and improve my standard of living. is that too much to ask?
    Nikirika Nikirika 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    Rejection IS Personal, Whether People Want To Admit It Or Not.

    When you get rejected, a person is rejecting you. Your looks, your mannerisms, your uniqueness. You. Think about it this way. If it's not personal, why do people make up stupid excuses for why they shot you down? If it wasn't personal, there'd be total honesty all across the...
    poopyloop poopyloop 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    col156 col156 13-15, M 12 Responses Feb 9

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    Can you imagine never being heard

    and be rejected by this society because of appearance? You hate to go out in public because you are scared of dirty looks and people saying mean things. Your family wishes they could change things, but they are not God. You think only if I had the money to have the best...
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I hate rejection. I just got rejected earlier!

    ! It feels so painful :( **** love
    Firdvxs Firdvxs 22-25, M Sep 5, 2014

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    I'm tired of people rejecting me

    because of my disabilities. I personally don't let my disabilities stop me from doing all the things that I need to do and want to do. I unlike most disabled people have managed to get not only a Bachelor's degree in Science of Computer Systems' Engineering, I have also managed...
    fallenandcantgetup fallenandcantgetup 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Story Of My Life

    Rejection is the story of my life. I have spent all of my life being rejected by one person or another. Started with my own mother and everyone who has came since has rejected me for what ever reason. I am not a horrible person. Im honest, kind, caring, always willing to help...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    I want to crawl in a hole a die of hopeless.

    Rejected by a person who I thought I had a great opportunity with today. Another rejection to the long list. I've never been accepted and at this point I know I will die alone. I'm done trying. Tired of seeing and hearing of "sexy" or "cute" guys all the time when people don't...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 23

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    30 times or something,

    I think i lost count. Not that it really helps counting. There have been all sorts of rejections, and I dont think ive experienced them all yet. I Dont think any of them are good. There is little that helps. Ofcourse tho, there are difference in how it plays out. There are a...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Feb 24

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    I've given up on going

    after someone I find interesting because I'm always rejected.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 17

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    I Don't Understand Why

    Someone who had removed me from their circle said -  don't take it personally.  The only way it would not be personal is if everyone had been removed.  I know I'm nice and kind, so I never understand why I'm so easily discarded.
    wordsforliving wordsforliving 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2010

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    “You go to work the next day pretending

    nothing happened. Your co-workers ask if everything's okay and you tell them you're just tired. And you're trying to smile. And they're trying to smile.” - Richard Siken
    livingfortoday livingfortoday 26-30, M Jun 14, 2014

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    I am so tired of being rejected.

    Sometimes I used all the rides in my metro card or I lose my metro or I don't have money and I told the woman that work in the train station how I really needed to get home and it's late. I gave her a speech and everything like I was running for president and She plainly said no...
    dashuria dashuria 16-17, F Oct 9, 2014

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    Almost by everyone...

    ...for invitations, parties, online girls......Most of the time I aint even noticed....
    isaha24 isaha24 18-21, M Oct 12, 2014

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    I really wish if there is any thread online

    for rejected people who give up on love. So we can all disguss our life without love for the future. Im sure such people exist its not just me. We could share expiriences on how we have been rejected and how much anger we feel. That would help me so much.
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 2 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    To date I have tried to make contact with 988

    people here on EP that supposedly share some of the same experiences as me. 19 have actually replied and 3 have had ongoing conversations with me. To the 3, I say thank you for giving me a chance. To the 19 I say thank you for being courteous enough to reply. And to the rest i...
    myzterieboy myzterieboy 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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    I met a guy online. We talked

    and texted for a while. We met for a date. It went really well. It felt natural; like we've known each other for more than a few weeks. Then... Slow communication turns to no communication. But wait-I offer sex and bam-he's back. (Where's my self respect?) Again though, another...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    This Happens To Me In Relationships...

    I don't have any trouble attracting them , it's keeping them i have a problem with....i somehow push them away and end up chasing them , only to be rejected again....sick of it. !!!!
    mhariartist mhariartist 51-55, T 2 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    I Feel Like Giving Up.

    I'm almost 20 years old and now in my second semester of college. To this day I haven't had a single relationship, even though I had been searching since I was somewhere around 15. I know I'm not that old, but you'd think after consistently failing and being let down (and...
    Xeeder Xeeder 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    I'm not the prettiest girl.

    But I want the feeling to be lived by others.
    greyybear greyybear 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    I Can't Seem To Keep A 'friend.'

    It seems I just can't seem to keep a friend no matter how hard I try.  It seems like something always happens to make the person I'm friends with REJECT ME!  I'm a very outspoken person and say what I think and I know lots of times this is what gets me into trouble.  But I'm...
    francesmary3224 francesmary3224 66-70 2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    Everything i once had ive lost.

    All that ive gained has been taken away from me. Its overwhelming. Its driving me nuts. Its too much for me to handle. When im with people. When im alone. Im a different person.
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    I Must Be Repulsive & Unlikable No Matter What I Do

    This happens ALL the time.  I will be the only one in a group that people will not accept.  It doesn't matter that I'm nice, understanding, empathetic or a good listener, apparently I'm completely repulsive.  This is why I can't make friends.  And the more it happens, the...
    wordsforliving wordsforliving 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I'M So Tired Of My Life, I Need Someone.

    I feel so sad, it seems like my life is not moving anymore, it seems like my life is stuck in a coma and I don't even know how to be alive again. I'm tired of being so good with people I like, whenever I show them how much I care, they always choose to hurt or leave me, all of...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    This Has Been My Story For 15 Years

    Ever since I was twelve years old, I've been getting rejected by the opposite sex. I still remember my very first crush, and working up enough nerve to let him know how I felt. He ended up rejected me, and telling me to my face that I was too ugly for him. I went home crying and...
    Ashley868 Ashley868 26-30, F 20 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    It's not just being rejected,

    but never being someone's first choice.
    GirlEnigma GirlEnigma 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I've been trying out this online dating thing

    since I'm having trouble meeting nice guys anywhere else and it seems that every time I'm interested in a guy, we will go in a date and they act like they're really interested in me, even afterwards while talking, they tell me they had a good time and would like to see me again...
    Angelsonthemoon Angelsonthemoon 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I just feel like there's no real point to life

    anymore. If I'm going to continue to be lonely, depressed, and rejected by the world then what am I even here for? I don't know how to become pain free or even to feel like anyone truly cares about me
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 13

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    Getting rejected enough times definitely messes

    with the confidence and self esteem. I'm now a work in progress to built that back up again.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2014

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    its so frustrating. every time a get my hopes up

    and think "maybe the time will be differnt" i end up falling flat on my face. they are into me until it's time to have the talk. the i have herpes talk. Than all of a sudden I'm the ugliest creature alive. the worst part about all of this is i know i will have this disease till...
    livingpositively livingpositively 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Saw a girl at the ice rink today.

    I was like "Damn, just wow." She was perfect. Got her number, found out she's actually 2 years younger than me. I was so stressed out, it wasn't even funny. Checked out her number. Fake. How's that for an ice cold "**** you"!?
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    I always get rejected by guys.

    They always just want to be "friends with benefits" but I'm like "hell no". I just met this one guy yesterday that my sisters tried to set me up with and as soon as I looked into his eyes I just got this feeling like I've never had before. I guess I kind of screwed up but my...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F Feb 8

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    I wonder sometimes if there is a reason to keep

    pursuing. I have spent most of my life trying to love people. Not saying that I've been perfect, but, I do genuinely love. I am a very committed, passionate, and romantic person. I have so much to give from my heart. I work hard, I'm very honest, I am always thinking of others...
    justavessel justavessel 56-60, M 2 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    Crushed so quickly, by fear of love

    or lack of transparency of real relationship that lasts. EP seems to have those who do not care about the heart of those they claim they would win.
    brknheart2 brknheart2 61-65, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    Another one bites the dust.

    What about me makes it so easy to leave?
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F Sep 11, 2014

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    For being disabled for the shape of my body

    and how I look in this wheelchair, its not what I am on the inside or what I want to be.
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    Tired Of Been Rejected By My Domestic Partner!!!!

    I have been with the same guy for the past 14 years. We have a child together but he has lost all interest in me. I have tried everything in the book to spice up our relationship but he keeps on pushing me away. I'm tired of been turned down every time I want to have sex with him...
    Periwinkle88 Periwinkle88 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    It Hurts, But It Won't Define Me.

    I am most definitely not everyone's cup of tea. I am stubborn, moody, morbid, bipolar, sometimes suicidal, sometimes homicidal, and generally screwed up. While I can be the best friend one can ever have, I can also be the ***** from hell when I am crossed. I am very much a...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    im tired of being rejected i dont know what to

    do,can any girl love me please.I'm 26 years old and still i dont have a girlfriend,im fed up i want he made me a brown skin.When he knows that a white skin girl will never fall in love with a brown skin guy like me,i want to marry a white skin girl.The girl wich i was in love at...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    I feel sorry for those

    who rejected me. I would give them so much care which they will never get from noone in their lives. Cos im so giving and caring that they will miss out. And later with their cold hearted partners they will be bored, left alone and sad. But i will be gone, they lost me.
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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