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I 'm Tired of Being Rejected

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    Can you imagine never being heard

    and be rejected by this society because of appearance? You hate to go out in public because you are scared of dirty looks and people saying mean things. Your family wishes they could change things, but they are not God. You think only if I had the money to have the best...
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    does being nice backfire,

    i feel that being nice is the way of life to treat others
    jitsheng jitsheng 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    How many times must I heard the overused line

    "You're a nice guy, but...." from a woman I would like to have a relationship with?
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M Jun 16

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    I am so tired of being rejected.

    Sometimes I used all the rides in my metro card or I lose my metro or I don't have money and I told the woman that work in the train station how I really needed to get home and it's late. I gave her a speech and everything like I was running for president and She plainly said no...
    dashuria dashuria 16-17, F Oct 9, 2014

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    Everywhere I go, I get rejected.

    What have I done to that people? Now I'm scared to talk to someone.
    elsasaunt elsasaunt 16-17, F 3 Responses May 30

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    I'm always asking my husband

    for us to go out without our son, to the movies or whatever but he always rejects me coming up with an excuse or just plain ignore me yet when his family(siblings parents) want to do something with him he jumps to do it. even when his friends invite him.
    gemini61289 gemini61289 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm really sick of rejection it makes me feel

    like everything is wrong with me.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 9

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    what i really want is

    for somebody to come up to ME and ask "hi, would you like to sit with us at lunch?" or "hi, wanna hangout after school?" im always the one to ask those questions to anybody who is feeling lonely and they always say "nah, im good" like what the heck.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 27

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    Plainkyle Plainkyle 22-25, M Jul 26

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    I truly know pain. I understand being let down,

    and having a goal and a mission and not achieving it, but. You can't let that stop you. It's a lesson, it's to teach you that you can't let it get to you. You must keep going, and use it as motivation. I'm blessed.
    debonaireash debonaireash 18-21, M May 29

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    I relapsed again but this time it was due to my

    boyfriend he made me feel so low he's just in a bad mood hopefully 😬
    hmg21699 hmg21699 18-21 2 Responses Apr 22

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    Story Of My Life

    Rejection is the story of my life. I have spent all of my life being rejected by one person or another. Started with my own mother and everyone who has came since has rejected me for what ever reason. I am not a horrible person. Im honest, kind, caring, always willing to help...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    my patients is very thin atm,

    if you like me then tell me ........ don't fuc me me !! Makes u look like an ***
    jontony jontony 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    It Hurts, But It Won't Define Me.

    I am most definitely not everyone's cup of tea. I am stubborn, moody, morbid, bipolar, sometimes suicidal, sometimes homicidal, and generally screwed up. While I can be the best friend one can ever have, I can also be the ***** from hell when I am crossed. I am very much a...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I just feel like there's no real point to life

    anymore. If I'm going to continue to be lonely, depressed, and rejected by the world then what am I even here for? I don't know how to become pain free or even to feel like anyone truly cares about me
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 13

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    I'm tired of people rejecting me

    because of my disabilities. I personally don't let my disabilities stop me from doing all the things that I need to do and want to do. I unlike most disabled people have managed to get not only a Bachelor's degree in Science of Computer Systems' Engineering, I have also managed...
    fallenandcantgetup fallenandcantgetup 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Everything i once had ive lost.

    All that ive gained has been taken away from me. Its overwhelming. Its driving me nuts. Its too much for me to handle. When im with people. When im alone. Im a different person.
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    I'm such a reject. My family pretty much

    rejects me. Women and girls reject me. Even people I've known for years refuse to accept my Facebook and Instagram requests. I haven't don't anything wrong to people - I'm just not very memorable. It just hurts when it's hard to make new friends and you kind of want to fall back...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 8

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    I Can't Seem To Keep A 'friend.'

    It seems I just can't seem to keep a friend no matter how hard I try.  It seems like something always happens to make the person I'm friends with REJECT ME!  I'm a very outspoken person and say what I think and I know lots of times this is what gets me into trouble.  But I'm...
    francesmary3224 francesmary3224 66-70 2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    This Has Been My Story For 15 Years

    Ever since I was twelve years old, I've been getting rejected by the opposite sex. I still remember my very first crush, and working up enough nerve to let him know how I felt. He ended up rejected me, and telling me to my face that I was too ugly for him. I went home crying and...
    Ashley868 Ashley868 26-30, F 18 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    For being disabled for the shape of my body

    and how I look in this wheelchair, its not what I am on the inside or what I want to be.
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I Must Be Repulsive & Unlikable No Matter What I Do

    This happens ALL the time.  I will be the only one in a group that people will not accept.  It doesn't matter that I'm nice, understanding, empathetic or a good listener, apparently I'm completely repulsive.  This is why I can't make friends.  And the more it happens, the...
    wordsforliving wordsforliving 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    I'm done. There's no way I'll love again.

    Not after he broke me down and shattered my heart. I'll be single forever, I don't care. He destroyed every loving emotion in me. I'm filled with hate and resentment and maybe one day I'll be the way I was before him but not for a very long time.
    soulfulmuse soulfulmuse 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I've found a ancient female acquaintance I knew

    on a dating website, it was cool, I have some hope. But after she said she go take a nap, some hours after, I see she is blocked and deleted me. I'm tired of being rejected...
    AloneSoulAloneHeart AloneSoulAloneHeart 26-30, M 3 Responses May 15

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    I met someone who lives in another state

    thought internet dating. We talked everyday for only two months. He always have the right thing to say and my feelings for him grew very strong. We talked about how we both want the same thing, a stable relationship. Short after he decided that due to the distance we can no...
    justme1206 justme1206 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    To date I have tried to make contact with 988

    people here on EP that supposedly share some of the same experiences as me. 19 have actually replied and 3 have had ongoing conversations with me. To the 3, I say thank you for giving me a chance. To the 19 I say thank you for being courteous enough to reply. And to the rest i...
    myzterieboy myzterieboy 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    alihausmann alihausmann 16-17, F Aug 6

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    You know, I should be used to this sort of

    treatment. No woman is going to see me as a potential mate and provider because they can only see a cripple. No woman is going to see me as an erotic fantasy because they only see a hideous, repulsive and worthless piece of ****.
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M Jun 20

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    Rejection IS Personal, Whether People Want To Admit It Or Not.

    When you get rejected, a person is rejecting you. Your looks, your mannerisms, your uniqueness. You. Think about it this way. If it's not personal, why do people make up stupid excuses for why they shot you down? If it wasn't personal, there'd be total honesty all across the...
    poopyloop poopyloop 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    I'm growing emotionally weaker

    and weaker everyday. I'm starting to give up on life and contemplating on suicide right now, I'm on the edge. Through all my years of high school and now through my first year of college, I have been constantly rejected by women. People said college would be different but it's...
    emlugo1996 emlugo1996 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'M So Tired Of My Life, I Need Someone.

    I feel so sad, it seems like my life is not moving anymore, it seems like my life is stuck in a coma and I don't even know how to be alive again. I'm tired of being so good with people I like, whenever I show them how much I care, they always choose to hurt or leave me, all of...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    On 2 separate occasions I've been rejected by a

    girl I wasn't even trying to ask out. Seriously, am I really that bad?
    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 29

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    I'm not the prettiest girl.

    But I want the feeling to be lived by others.
    greyybear greyybear 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I've given up on going

    after someone I find interesting because I'm always rejected.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 17

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    seems most of my life I've been rejected by

    those who are suppose love me. As an infant I was hospitalized for failure to thrive my mother has never loved me and even now. My father forgot about me being in foster care they left me. There's just so many more it's painful feeling like there's no where or no one I belong...
    missy5414 missy5414 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    “You go to work the next day pretending

    nothing happened. Your co-workers ask if everything's okay and you tell them you're just tired. And you're trying to smile. And they're trying to smile.” - Richard Siken
    livingfortoday livingfortoday 26-30, M Jun 14, 2014

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    I do not know why I even bother with social

    media. Every woman are going to look at my photo, and say, "He's a nice guy, but he's not my type" or something just as ridiculous. Others are going to tell me I look like a freak of nature. Guess what? I already know I am hideous, repulsive and worthless so there is no need to...
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M Jun 22

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    I'm tired of being rejected by my husband.

    In my weakest moments he leaves me hanging, struggling to get my own footing. In our romantic life he denies me physical connection, as well as emotional. There is no shoulder to cry on or loving hand to hold for support. My heart aches. I wish he would hold me, or tell me I'm...
    holesinmyheart holesinmyheart 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Why is it so difficult

    for us to all get along and be friends? Everything I do for them is always taken for granted; but every mistake I make is exaggerated, as if nobody else makes mistakes. I've pretty much tried everything. I've tried telling jokes, doing favours. I've done everything I've ever...
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda 13-15 Jul 30, 2014

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    col156 col156 13-15, M 11 Responses Feb 9

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    It's not just being rejected,

    but never being someone's first choice.
    GirlEnigma GirlEnigma 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I want to crawl in a hole a die of hopeless.

    Rejected by a person who I thought I had a great opportunity with today. Another rejection to the long list. I've never been accepted and at this point I know I will die alone. I'm done trying. Tired of seeing and hearing of "sexy" or "cute" guys all the time when people don't...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 23

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    Getting rejected enough times definitely messes

    with the confidence and self esteem. I'm now a work in progress to built that back up again.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Nov 30, 2014

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    I have been rejected

    so many times by members of the female gender I have decided I am a hideous and repulsive piece of garbage no woman wants to be seen with.
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M 1 Response May 30