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I 'm Tired Of Trying But I Hate Being Alone

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    Always The 5th Wheel

    I don't necessarily care about being single anymore, but I'm tired of being excluded, or feeling awkward or out of place. I'm in my late 30s and just about all my friends are dating, in relationships or otherwise coupled. I understand that I don't belong at couples events, so...
    MyPinkAlbatross MyPinkAlbatross 36-40, M Nov 6, 2013

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    Tired Of Being The Friend No One Seems To Want...Smh???

    I'm just at the point where I cut off friendships that I had with ppl that I thought deeply cared about me & reason being its cuz I was tired of always seeking them & constantly initiating getting together with them. Each x-friends' situation varies in the reason behind why I...
    smartino81 smartino81 31-35, F Oct 24, 2013

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    I hate being alone. But its even worse whe youre surrounded by people and you still feel alone and empty. Im trying really hard to be happy but its so hard.
    patric5678 patric5678 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    the thing is im lonely when im not alone. when im on my own, i shed the several walls i have up at any time and let my guard down. When im alone, i can wear shorts and a tank top...
    FreeJazz FreeJazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I hate spending time by myself.. Don't get me wrong there are times when I need alone time,but I only want this time to happen by my own doing not by people being too busy to...
    1eyeliner1 1eyeliner1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Y am I always alone I just want an answer
    lilybird18ee lilybird18ee 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Well...I'm all alone now :/
    pop482999 pop482999 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    It's a little scary but I'm not really sure why...I guess it reminds me of my past.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I make people uncomfortable effortlessly just by being present...
    betequeue betequeue 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    The Fourth of July carnival was on for 3 days and nobody wanted to come with me and everyone's asking me why i don't want to go and its so ******* hard not to cry in front of them
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Jul 4

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    There is nothing to do :-(
    elrenira elrenira 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    why no one is there with me?
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I guess it was too much to ask for anyone, even my family, to spend my birthday with me. All I really wanted was for someone to be here.
    yepitsjustme yepitsjustme 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    It's not really about being alone but more about being the only one trying to maintain my relationships. I find myself being the first to text anyone. They never go out of their...
    savannah764253 savannah764253 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Hate being this tired and can't sleep when it's too warm arghhhhhh 😕😕😕
    Sweetgal40 Sweetgal40 36-40, F Jul 16

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    I hate feeling as if I have to explain who I am to people. I hate feeling uncomfortable in my skin. I'm sick of feeling like I'm never good enough. I'm tired that I let things get...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm a 19 year old college football player. I'm 6 foot 7, 230 pounds. My whole life I've grown up being told how much potential I have in athletics and other areas of life simply...
    dabah2014 dabah2014 18-21, M Jul 20

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    No poem this time just broken hearted lonlyness. I hate living without being in a loving relationship. I feel lonley to the point of not even caring for the only 2 people I resist...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I really hate being sick. I have been sick since Thursday night. The other night I was rushed to ER they gave a shot and some antibiotics. To yesterday afternoon I was on EP...
    SummerLove16 SummerLove16 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I hate being lied too I'm sure everyone does so why it go on? It's the golden rule treat others the way you'd like to be treated so I expect you to not lie to me and I won't lie to...
    chickensoup17 chickensoup17 18-21, M Jul 22

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    I fking hate being misunderstood. It makes my blood boil, and makes me want to cry. I'm a good person, I take the time to figure out what someone is trying to say. I hear them out...
    dat1kiid dat1kiid 16-17 Jul 24

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    I hate being ignored because wen im trying to talk with someone , and they dont say say nothing . I feel like im a ghost or something , like today i try to tell my mom something...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Someone told me that when you love someone, it's not about how you feel, it's choosing to feel that way. You chose to love that person even how good, bad or different he/she. You...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    It didn't use to be this bad. I just felt like being a guy was better, but now it's at a whole other level. I look into a mirror and I see breasts, I see a vagina, and I hate...
    WhiteSparrow127 WhiteSparrow127 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm fourteen years old and a freshman in highschool. I strongly dislike being black. I wish I was born white. I constantly try to mimick white people with fake hair and dying my...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 9 Responses Jul 5

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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
    Unleashedmind Unleashedmind 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    I like being alone. I just don't like being left alone with my thoughts. Especially if I'm feeling down.
    sara2016 sara2016 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I'm gay there is no way around it. I know for sure I'm gay. I'm attracted to the male body and its disgusting. When I look at other boys it turns me on and I really hate that. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I left school in May after finishing my GCSE's meaning i am currently had/having all of May,June,July and August off for a summer. My sister still goes to school all day and both...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Everytime I'm alone with my mind I start overthinking and once I start overthinking I think about self harming and suicide and just being alone I can't deal, whenever I'm left...
    imamascaradeball imamascaradeball 13-15, F Jul 24

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    No matter how nature built us, making us needing company, we are also made to discover ourselves and ponder on certain things that many times, they cannot be shared with anyone but...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I live with my boyfriend but still have my flat. I often wonder, do I stay with him because I'm scared of being alone? Why can't I just go back to my own flat? Do I need to? Should...
    Bluesrain Bluesrain 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Nothing beats being alone. You can do whatever you want without anyone having a say at it's nice.
    kieshi kieshi 13-15, F Jul 8

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    There's nothing I can do about it. Getting over it won't make me not hate it. I hate being questioned about my gender. I hate mirrors. I just. Ugh. I can't even type with how upset...
    MissBlackrose MissBlackrose 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Half of me despises being alone, because eventually the loneliness goes away and Im left with this apathetic view towards life that makes it hard to give a damn about anything...
    seabassep seabassep 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Being alone is my biggest fear.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Jul 18

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    I hate being lied to especially If i'm honest with you 24/7. If I lied to you like you lie to me, you would hate me, think about how it would feel before you constantly lie and...
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Hate Being Restrained and I hate restraints
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    i really, really ******* hate being an introvert. maybe "introvert" isn't really the right word though, i think that something along the lines of a person who suffers from social...
    BlaRiix BlaRiix 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate being ignored 😑 😕 all I want is to talk to you the least you can do is listen 😑 being ignored is hell to me
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Ive always hated being touched by anyone, family included. It makes me feel like peeling my skin off, or washing myself raw. I dont even know why Im like this since Ive never had...
    tikani tikani 16-17, F Jul 4

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    I hate being the oldest because I always have to do everything my parents are always saying that there tried because they have to deal with my sister they really don't have anymore...
    magolly magolly 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    i hate being rejected , makes me feel worthless , thats why i turn into a complete ******* when it happens , it somehow makes me feel better
    isaagrinz isaagrinz 18-21, M Jul 9

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    boyfriend emotionally/verbally abusive. cheated again tonight. just want to be happy again but afraid of being alone
    Stoller Stoller 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I hate being bored all the time. No matter how hard I try I still end up bored.
    eliam14 eliam14 18-21, M Jul 18

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    I only hate being in schools because I have a school shooting fear. It's sad that people including myself can't even feel safe at a place that was safer then your own homes at one...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I hate being broke; its summertime and i'm stuck in the city. 😿
    unicornina unicornina 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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