I 'm Too Nice

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    I don't know why I allow myself to be taken

    advantage off. I tend to be helpfull but when the people I help don't seem to try and improve their situation ( i.e money) I sympathize more than I should.
    WinterSunShine WinterSunShine
    18-21, M
    Feb 15, 2015

    This can be a problem.

    I'll happily do anything for anybody. Just because there are a lot of people out there who find it really difficult to do simple things. But you can also do things for people who will abuse your good nature.
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 26, 2014

    Really is that possible,

    I think another person needs to decide for sure.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    I think I'm too nice sometimes

    because I friend people I shouldn't. I never think it's fair to judge. I don't give up trying to be a friend usually they ignore me, try to use me, or do something super rude before I give up. I guess I just expect people to be better than what they are.
    brit1219 brit1219
    22-25, F
    Aug 7, 2015

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    Amody Amody
    22-25, M
    Feb 10

    I have always been a nice

    and kindhearted person, that goes out of there way to help others in need. I have been taken advantage of in my life for my generosity no doubt, but that does not deter me from being who I truly am and will continue to do random acts of kindness until I pass away :)
    HAMSOLO HAMSOLO
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    Honestly, I think I will never attempt to

    commit a crime because I'd probably feel to guilty afterwards and turn myself in...
    AndyL567 AndyL567
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

    And I think thats a problem!

    As I'm sure people take it for granted, use you, take advantage, walk all over you and you just get hurt... Anyhow im not gonna let the world change me or my niceness! As well I think people need it so I'm gonna be really nice to give it! Just the lesson here is to be careful...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2015

    I Can't Believe I Did That. XD

    A couple days ago I waited patiently for a half an hour while one of my professors made small talk with a student. I had a single sentence of class-related information to mention to the professor. But I just waited for a half an hour in that room because I didn't want to...
    RandomErr RandomErr
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    I am starting to stand up

    for myself and tell people off when need be, so that is some progress.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Nov 1, 2015

    being too nice, seems to mostly get me into

    trouble. and ive got no one to blame,but myself.
    VoloNoscere VoloNoscere
    26-30, M
    Mar 22

    I say a WWII movie...

    .the kamikaze pilots wore helmets.....?
    lcbill313 lcbill313
    16-17, M
    Nov 20, 2015

    Need to learn to set boundaries

    I don't mind helping people. In fact, I enjoy it. The problem is when I put other peoples needs ahead of my own. Or when I don't set boundaries. It's O.K. to help others but I need to take care of myself. I have to really work at being assertive and not letting people take...
    lagatta lagatta
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 29, 2010

    I get taken advantage of often.

    It's because I have a good heart. But can say that I've gotten a lot wiser and starting to say sorry can't help you. JS
    jimbo30240 jimbo30240
    46-50, M
    Mar 14

    Too Damn Nice

    Now. I'm have an invisible  vault wall around me now. 
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2011

    I find it really hard to say no!

    Sometimes I think it's a good thing, it has however made it easy for people to use me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    I get that a lot. I'm just way to nice

    and I can't help it. Because in my mind you treat people the way you want to be treat it. But the thing is people take advantage of me because of it and I can't stand for myself cause then I feel guilty. I’m careful with words and actions and spend a lot of time thinking...
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2015

    when I do something very kind to someone,

    who don't deserve that act of kindness because they're hurt me and act mean to me on purpose, I should feel happy about myself because I'm being the better person, instead I feel very very stupid and silly and naive,I mean I don't know if it's a sign of weakness or nativeness to...
    sweeeeeeeeeeetheart sweeeeeeeeeeetheart
    18-21, F
    Feb 3

    This has been an issue in the past.

    When you're nice and you're in high school, more often than not, people say screw being nice back and use you for money or whatever.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 13, 2015

    Really I am too nice.

    .. This occurred to me earlier when I realised that my colleague had again dropped the ball and did not follow up on something which was due today. I called him asking if he'd done it and he's said "he forgot." I told him to get it done, even though he'd already left the...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 15

    I've never understood

    why some nice people get loads of friends and some just get shut out for the funnier, better-looking, more outgoing friends. Which elixir are these guys drinking from?
    emiveritas emiveritas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2014

    I'm very sweet and kind to everyone

    and I hate being mean to others, even if they did bad to me. My dad said I need to quit being so nice all the time and I need to be more assertive, especially to perverts that take advantage of women like me. True but I hate cussing and being rude. I like joking but some people...
    missnicegirl missnicegirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    Polite

    Ok. So I've stood my ground. Been firm but fair about neighbours playing loud music. They have shown no courtesy or consideration since moving in a couple of months ago. We keep our television down and I do not play music out loud opting for using iPod touch. I would be...
    liguidgold liguidgold
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2011

    It is definitely my weak point.

    If i stay this nice i'll have a hard time in life.
    Offing Offing
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014

    I am nice to everyone I meet,

    ever since I could remember. My friends can take advantage of me, as well as people I first meet. I do anything for anyone and I don't know why. I am a complete pleaser. I truly like to make people smile and happy- but some people shut me out. I never understand why, I just tell...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2014

    Everyone always tells me I'm too nice its a good

    and bad thing but I'm okay with it
    brenda4696 brenda4696
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    It gets me no where. I guess the more

    appropriate word I'm looking for is friendly. People act like friendliness is such a far fetched gesture.
    niko031 niko031
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    Being too nice has caused me to get hurt time

    after time, but it's a big part of who I am, I wouldn't be me if I tried to change it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 1, 2014

    I feel like I'm too nice,

    like.. I can't stand up for myself because I'm scared I'll hurt someone's feelings,
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    I'm just..., done with people now,

    you literally can't trust anyone.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2014
    FotTroxiliar FotTroxiliar
    16-17, M
    Nov 1, 2015

    Toxicity

    I'm passive aggressive and completely awkward which means everytime I go threw some BS I sort of brush it off without confrontation. This is manifesting into a toxic anger inside me, I feel like my heart is full of hate and anger. I've been getting tons of headaches..troubles...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2013

    I'm too nice to people

    if they need money I'll give you because you say it's important but then I see pics of them having fun at like a bar lol. I feel like I get taking advantage way to much and this is not the first time . How do I stop being to nice and enjoy my life lol
    sioma17 sioma17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    I need to stop being

    so nice all the time. People are starting to use my kindness and im tired. Im a human being too i have feelings im not a robot to do whatever you say. I hate that im too nice. Now im stuck in a situation i don't want to be in. (My life sucks sometimes :-(
    Chocolategirly09 Chocolategirly09
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    On Friday, my Home Economics teacher got really

    upset at about half of our class because they didn't clear up their mess and they didn't wash their dishes properly, so she said that the whole class wasn't allowed to cook at all anymore. I wasn't even one of the people who upset her but I customised and sent her an apology...
    laurabaillie16 laurabaillie16
    13-15, F
    Mar 14, 2015

    People say I'm too nice

    for my own good but its just in my nature. I consider myself a very ugly and selfish person and THAT'S WHY I HIDE IT BY BEING NICE. I forgave my stepfathers cruel action, I let him get away with it and leave town, whenever I was bullied in school I always brought snacks to...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2015
    ophelia379 ophelia379
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    So I once opened this door open

    for a girl I liked and she looked disgusted!!! She glared at me and told me that I was "too nice" and shouldn't revert to old sexist gestures. Really?? "Too nice"?? I don't care what she says, I'm going to continue to be "too nice" and be chivalrous because women deserve to be...
    jonbz17 jonbz17
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    It's Too True

    I can't help it! I think it's because I really can't stand it when people dislike me for whatever reason. If someone were to be mean to me, I would just be even nicer to them to make them like me :( I know that's not the best thing to do, but I really can't seem to help it, I...
    PassionIsLove PassionIsLove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2010

    I realized about 2 months ago

    that no one cares about what I have to say. And that's alright. Sometimes I'll be talking on the phone and they're like let me call you back, while I'm in mid sentence. And for that reason I decided to cut down on my speaking. It's funny that no one even noticed that I don't...
    asdfghjkljacque asdfghjkljacque
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2014

    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense
    31-35, M
    Nov 28, 2014

    I think I often get taken advantage of.

    But then, I'd rather get taken advantage of than to not help out (within reason). If someone takes advantage of me, it's on them not me. I have learned to stand up for myself though. When someone has wronged me, I will tell them... nicely, but I will take care of myself now...
    LookingForSoMuchMore LookingForSoMuchMore
    51-55, M
    2 Responses May 20, 2014

    Why Am I Too Nice?

    I have a tendancy to be too nice. I always feel the need to try and help everyone. I dont know why. I have helped many of friends and family with money and just about everything. I have been asking myself why lately. Is it a need of acceptance or what? Wish I knew why I always...
    dprince8302 dprince8302
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2012

    Even when i know they are bad

    for me, i always do what's best for them anyway. Why do i always let myself stand in this position? It's like i allow to be taken advantage of, regret it, and then do it over again.
    ChlaraX ChlaraX
    18-21, F
    Feb 16, 2015

    I feel like I have this image of "nice person"

    to live up to sometimes. Sometimes I'm genuinely being nice, but sometimes it's just because I'm a firm believer of the phrase "you catch more flies with honey, than with vinegar." (Random pondering: why would you want to catch flies though?) However, being nice can be a trap...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 6

    No. Seriously. I am way too nice.

    I'm nice to every single person I meet. I'm even nice to the people who have wronged me, and they don't even deserve an ounce of niceness. I've gotten better at that though. Maybe I should just be rude to people now since that seems like the only way to get them to understand...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014

    I am way too nice. When people borrow money

    💵 from me and don't pay back I don't care. Why you ask because I am too nice.
    Gayprince1234 Gayprince1234
    13-15, M
    Jan 14

    im so nice i always get taken advantage of.

    I need to tell people to **** off more often.
    MoragaroM MoragaroM
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2014

    I can't stay mad at people.

    Today my friend totally pissed me off saying that I have alway said no to her and put her down. Which is totally untrue. I have never said no in my life and I never put people down. Anyway she started being a little actress and started to cry and my heart literally broke I...
    sixpackbookworm sixpackbookworm
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2014
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