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I 'm Too Nice

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    Hmmm - Yeah I can be too nice sometimes. So some people take advantage of that. That is why I don't really trust  real people. They want to be your friend because...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    Tooo Nice - im a nice guy and you all know that bcoz i dont get involved in any kind of fight and few days back few of them started calling me a racist for no reason and i never...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Sep 22, 2013

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    Toxicity - I'm passive aggressive and completely awkward which means everytime I go threw some BS I sort of brush it off without confrontation. This is manifesting into a toxic...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    Do Not Be Fooled - By my humble personality, my soft voice and my tender ways. I can be the nicest girl you've ever met. I will go out of my way to show you I'm loyal. I will be...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2013

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    I Think I've Gone Too Far With My Kindness. - I help anyone and everyone so much and I ask for nothing in return. I've spent thousands of hours online just helping complete...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    I'm Too Nice - I'm too nice,Sure I am,At times,Too forgiving,Sometimes,I wonder why,Perhaps,It's the way I am.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 12, 2012

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    I'm Getting Sick Of It... - So recently I've started trying to "push back" a bit on people. I think "too nice" is too positive a term for it. It's really letting people walk all...
    aislersan aislersan 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20, 2010

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    Helping - I always help people who've wronged me when they ask even if they don't deserve it I just can' say no >.<
    Jason255 Jason255 13-15, M Nov 28, 2013

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    Why Am I Too Nice? - I have a tendancy to be too nice. I always feel the need to try and help everyone. I dont know why. I have helped many of friends and family with money and...
    dprince8302 dprince8302 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    Sometimes way too nice for my own good, that I regret it sometimes, not that i do it for others or because I expect anything in return it's just not always well appreciated or...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    Im Trying To Become The Opposite - I remember back in high school. I made a friend, lets call her Bridget. Im a nice guy, so anything she asked of me I would say yes if it wouldnt...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    I'm Tired Of It! - I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F Nov 27, 2010

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    People are always telling me I'm "Too Nice." I don't understand how that's possible. I don't think there is such a thing as too nice. We are all human beings. And to me, if there...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Way To Nice - I am to frekin nice !! Seriously !! I'm even nice to people who have hurt me and stuff... I help people with their problems...i mean i don't mind at all... I'm just...
    itsbiersack itsbiersack 13-15 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I like this person I've meet but her family and extended family are a mess. Should I expect the same of them if we started a relationship?
    danielstar danielstar 36-40, M Apr 6

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    So I once opened this door open for a girl I liked and she looked disgusted!!! She glared at me and told me that I was "too nice" and shouldn't revert to old sexist gestures...
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    I reach for the phone with tears in my eyes he still hasn't called I cry My friend just sighs and sais oh your way too nice and so naive. I stop to think for a second is that so...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Im Too Nice!! - i really am too nice, and I'm not going to make any apologies for being this way!! and anyway, what's wrong with being nice, even if I'm too nice?? i mean,this is...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 20, 2010

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    I am nice to everyone I meet, ever since I could remember. My friends can take advantage of me, as well as people I first meet. I do anything for anyone and I don't know why. I am...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    It's Too True - I can't help it! I think it's because I really can't stand it when people dislike me for whatever reason. If someone were to be mean to me, I would just be even...
    PassionIsLove PassionIsLove 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

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    I'm just the type of person that would and has given the shirt of my back if I thought I could help someone else. I am not rich by any means. the last time I help some out. the...
    chat68chat chat68chat 31-35, M Jan 7

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    Do you have nice girl syndrome?
    ophelia379 ophelia379 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I Get Used All the Time.. Enough Is Enough - I find that the re-occurring pattern throughout my life has been that I am too nice, too helpful, and people know that and take...
    bripeace bripeace 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    Anyone else ever get tiered of be the only nice person? I am tiered of livening in a world were competition drives all things making us unpleasant, non cooperative, and un nice.
    serhaw serhaw 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Thumbs Down For Being Nice - I was always nice i mean MOST of my life the least to say and ive had a lot of people like me for tht and i liked tht in me too except for the...
    HeartLove HeartLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    People tell me this all the time & that is probably why people take advantage of me because I allow it. I will continue to be nice.
    toots01 toots01 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Polite - Ok. So I've stood my ground. Been firm but fair about neighbours playing loud music. They have shown no courtesy or consideration since moving in a couple of months ago...
    liguidgold liguidgold 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    Enough to Be Critcized For It - I get told all the time that I seem like a nice person and that i am a nice person. But I've also gotten criticized for it because I've helped...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 17 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    And People Take Advantage of Me. -  it is my nature to be nice.i guess i have a childs way when it comes to that.i tend to belive people even though they have lied to me.my...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I Have A Problem Saying No - I'm way too nice.  I'm always there for anyone.  I can never say No.  I thought that was a good thing but now i'm realizing that i'm...
    lostinlove63 lostinlove63 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    I find it really hard to say no! Sometimes I think it's a good thing, it has however made it easy for people to use me
    frances91 frances91 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    A Walk Over It Seems - I have been told that at times I'm 'too nice' and I don't feel that's a compliment. Its important to be nice but I feel as if people see me as a walk over. I...
    Lilacpearl Lilacpearl 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Need to learn to set boundaries - I don't mind helping people. In fact, I enjoy it. The problem is when I put other peoples needs ahead of my own. Or when I don't set boundaries...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    "TOO NICE ?"' You’re much “too nice” That’s what I hear “Just like a brother” “You’re such a dear” You’re just “too nice” An adjective I hear a lot Now...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    I can't say no. I always say yes whenever my friends want me to do something, and I feel like I need to learn to say no more.
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Feb 12

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    Too Damn Nice - Now. I'm have an invisible  vault wall around me now. 
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    I'm always told that I am too damn nice. When things bother me about other people I tend to just let it be with the thought that things will get better in time. I must stop letting...
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    Slight rant, This is an incredible long topic that I'll try to sum up in a mater of paraphrases but I may miss a few sub things that **** me off. Firstly, the whole definition...
    ballorromeo1 ballorromeo1 16-17, M Mar 31

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    It was a realy nice evenin with the sun out an im stayin at keirans house atm cause mums in hospital so keirans dad Rob said we should have a BBQ which was a nice supprise! ((: so...
    hannahbb1999 hannahbb1999 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    And I believe you too :) Just imagine, you are travelling to a new place and all you want to search for is experience. So instead of causing people some trouble, I chose...
    Jarlie96 Jarlie96 18-21, F Apr 3

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    People seem to feel the need to tell me just how nice my voice is, not just the way i speak but also the tone it's amazing how many people i have spoken to go on about maybe i...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    There are too many things happening in my life right now and i cant seem to handle it. Im trying but i really getting tired. Of crying of thinking or just whatever i do. I thought...
    peishi peishi 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Tribute to The Red Hot Chilli Peppers. I still keep some close friends from my school days. 2 boys where always really nice to me and they are very talented too. Musically...
    RedPeppers RedPeppers 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    It seems like such a hard thing to find... just a nice guy who treats a girl right. The problem is when I do find it they have some of the following problems : A nice guy who is...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Mrs Franks... My teacher. Last Friday I came to her class. She said "I put you way in the back away from everyone" I thought... Well that's nice. But I dont really like you.. At...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F Mar 31

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    There is no point to them , they make me cringe their happiness and kindness towards others ; They're too soft , irresponsible, annoying . I just want to see their pretty blood , I...
    joshmcmullen joshmcmullen 16-17 1 Response Mar 17

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    The term "Nice guys finish last" seems to be true in terms of relationships or trying to start one. I see many girls who say they want a "Nice guy" but in the end, I always see...
    TylerBlake94 TylerBlake94 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    okay I'm just gonna rant about this right here because I need to like get this off my chest or something and I feel like my friends don't want to hear it so I haven't really said...
    gabbyds gabbyds 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Yeah maybe not lol . More like steel wool ; abrasive . Can be highly moody . I am capable of love but it takes hell & high water for me to admit it to somebody . I have never been...
    LavenderTeal23 LavenderTeal23 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Flirting is done in multiple ways. It can be displayed in a number of instance, by admiration, or by blunt verbal statements. I think my thing is when I try to be nice to women...
    babyboy1245 babyboy1245 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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