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I 'm Wondering How Other People See Me

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    I am wondering, but not sure

    if I actually would like to know the truth. I like to see myself as a honest, friendly and helpful man and if anyone has a different opinion I would spend a lot of time trying to convince them otherwise... something I`m not totally convinced would actually work, but maybe make...
    acherontic1 acherontic1 36-40, M 2 Responses May 16

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    . I'm currently experiencing fear,

    feel like running away,, I also learning to be ok with it... I think I'm like 65% through not sure will make it successfully... Feel so lonely......
    Outlookingtheworld Outlookingtheworld 26-30, M May 27

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    My sister and I were talking the other day

    and i asked if she thought I was a rude person, she said that the way I word things comes off that way. I told this to my boyfriend who with out a pause to think just said "you kind of are" so I guess when he said that these people who I thought were mutual friends said that...
    DisneyDreamer DisneyDreamer 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    What do people think of you?

    I often wonder this, and I know I shouldn't care....but I can't help but wonder how I am perceived. To strangers on the streets, to people I just meet. Sometimes I can be my own worse critic so I wish I knew how I really come off. What impression do I make? If only I could know...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Did I mention I'd be shirtless in those jeans

    you like 90% of the time at home if you ever choose me as your boyfriend? I'll even wear the cowboy hat for ya.Look, I'll always give you a ton of room and stay WAY over here in email world and you know my goal is to keep you very safe and happy. I would NEVER want to burn any...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Be Honest

    I wonder how people on this site see me. This is setting myself up for opinions but, if you like, leave your opinion here.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 10 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Now That's Interesting

    So I typed I wonder in the search box and this group showed up. It's really interesting to know how people see me “Personality Wise".  When I talk/chat with someone, what is it that crosses their minds?  Do they believe I am dull or annoying?  How do they think about me...
    meme30 meme30 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    What Do You Call It?

    OK, so what do you call this?  I want to know because it happens to me all the time.I was at the beer store and I asked if they had any doppelbocks.  This clueless guy who is probably 17 and works in the wine section pointed to this big open door that said "employees only...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 13 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Sometimes I def. do wonder how people see me.

    When I think back to my life 6 years ago vs. now... I SEE A HUGE differences. I wonder do people think I am being "real" or if this is just another part of my life. Then I stop and say... "who cares" I don't live my life or anyone opinion. I do however life to please my Lord and...
    MysticBeauty MysticBeauty 26-30, F Jun 17

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    Yeah. How do people see me?

    There is a computer screen in the way! What is this, x-ray eyes? Anyway, sarcasm finished. How do people see me? I think I'm seen in two completely different ways online and offline. Probably because of my appearance, which people online don't know. Ugh, ugliness. Oh well. At...
    InternationalDarkness InternationalDarkness 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yup, i wonder how other people see me - do they

    like me, do they think i'm funny, smart, kind - I hope so, but you know what - acutally as much as i wonder how others see me, I think that it is far more important that I 'see' me and that i 'Like' what I see, and you know what - apart from a few 'off' days, like everyone, I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses May 16

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    I'm sure everyone at some point

    or another wonders about this. It's human nature!
    missylawl missylawl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Does anyone have skype?

    If you do! Heres my username :christoff.stylinson201
    christoff201 christoff201 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 30

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    Ha! What a concept. I love it.

    I used to be really afraid of what people thought of me. Then I realized two important things. The first- it's not as important what others think of me as what I think of myself- so I'd better take responsibility for myself and be who I want to be! The second- I am not...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M Dec 12, 2013

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    I often wonder how other people view me.

    I know some people only see me as red hair, others only see me as a toy. I wonder how the people who really know me see me, what they really think of me. I ask but don't think I ever get a straight answer.
    fireyes fireyes 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 17

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    It's so werid i always wonder what's going on

    in someone's head when I first meet them or what someone thinks when they look at me it's so weird but if you think about it you've never really seen yourself in person just pictures and reflections of yourself i always wonder if when someone first talks to me if they're like...
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I am wondering what people say

    when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    CharlieSGisenburg CharlieSGisenburg 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Guy's when you turn 50 the younger ladies stop

    looking your way... but when I go to the retirement community I am still eye candy to those sr ladies. lol >:p
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Dg135 Dg135 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I Sometimes Do

    because people say the oddest things to me, and make the weirdest faces. I am not sure if it's jealousy or hating that I'm there or what or gas? either way I guess I am leaving an impression :Pe
    Lisabv2012 Lisabv2012 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I guess that's always been my biggest obsession.

    I always want to know what other people think about me. I don't go out of my way to fit in, I just wish people would be honest. Do you like me or don't you? Am I too prude or too odd? Am I too sarcastic or too closed off? I wish I knew what everyone was thinking.
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    Just Be You

    Idont bother to much what most people think of me , im easy going im decent and kind to people ,so if that is not good enough for some people so be it ,we get one shot at life so be ourselves and enjoy life to much made of how we look as well whats inside is that what counts
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    Are they think I am annoying?

    They think I am fake? I wanted to know what they think of me. Wish I could read their mind when they see me..
    TulipsLover TulipsLover 18-21, F 23 Responses Jan 29

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    I love clouds that sleep behind mountains

    and making up sad stories for people in beautiful houses, I love long hair curling around fingers, I love sitting on the sand feet in water, swimming through obstacles for pink ribbons, I love walking on decks with loud shoes and in rooms that echo, I love remembering dreams...
    Arriety Arriety 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Wouldn't it just be so awesome

    if we could see what we really are? Like, I wonder who I really am, what I really look like, what I act like, what people think of me. Because omg, I have tried to see what I really look like, but I look different on everything?! I look like a different person on camera, in the...
    TotesForReals TotesForReals 13-15, F Jun 27

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    I just don't know how I'm perceived.

    How I come off. It concerns, even terrifies me.
    HumanKnownAsVictor HumanKnownAsVictor 18-21, M May 15

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    Human Condition

    I think that it is pretty normal to wonder how others see you... I think the only time it really becomes a problem is when you are obsessed with how you appear to others. I have been a total outcast my whole life and I get stared at where ever I go. My brother told me that it was...
    AppealofSurreal AppealofSurreal 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    I know what I see, but I've always wondered how

    others perceive me. Do I look like the same person, that I see in the mirror, to them? Am I as funny as I think I am? What I would give to be someone else for a day, just so I can see myself for the first time.
    Haleypalooza Haleypalooza 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 11

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    I'm always worried about how people see me.

    :( I'm so weird and its hard for me to fit in with the "normal" people. I always feel like everyone thinks I don't belong, I'm such a paranoid person. Oh well...
    NerdyCurls NerdyCurls 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    I have always wondered how other people view

    and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very interesting, I wish I could see me from someone els's perspective :)
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    I Don't Really Care

    I don't much give a click how most people see me. I know who I am (mostly...I'm still working on it...but that's part of life). My friends, my real, true, best friends, are probably the ones who know me the best because I share how I feel and who I am. Even more so these days...
    PrettyPixie PrettyPixie 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    Every day, every second someone looks at me.

    This intrigues me. I sometimes ask questions in my head like why are you looking so much at me, why do you try to hide your stare, what are those guys talking and laughing when I'm near. I'm always wondering how I'm perceived by others.
    ClaudiaSUN ClaudiaSUN 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I Worry Too Much About What Others Think

    I am trying to not worry so much about how others see me. It takes away from my natural spontaneity and I know I have missed out on a lot of things because i have been afraid of what people might think. Lately, with a lot of help from some friends on EP I am breaking this bad...
    martytice martytice 22-25, F 15 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    akirayuuki akirayuuki 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I Wonder

    Sometimes I wonder what other people think about me but then there are time when I don't care. They don't pay any of my bills so F 'em!
    Optimistic813 Optimistic813 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    If Only I Could Read Minds...

    I wish I had the power to read minds. So I can know how people really feel about me when they meet me for the first time. Or if their impressions change after meeting me. I could ask them but I don't want the sugar-coated version, I want the raw sushi (lol, okay bad metaphor...
    spreadyourwings spreadyourwings 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    I'm my own worst enemy.

    I'll be the first one to put myself down. I get so nervous around other people. I always tend to walk with my head down because I don't want anybody looking at me. I'm always afraid that they're judging me and picking me apart. I'm a very insecure person. Sometimes I wish I knew...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I've always worried about this.

    It's a constant thing for me to wonder what another person thinks how I look, how I carry myself, or how intelligent they think I am. I shouldn't be that way. I know it's ridiculous.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 9 Responses Feb 2

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    Tell Me What You See............when You Look At Me

    I don't really know what I see when I look in the mirror. I wish I could put myself in other people's shoes and look at myself from their perspective. What do they see???? Do they think I'm High maintenance??? Do they think I'm ugly?? Can they tell I'm happy...
    GrueneRose GrueneRose 22-25 7 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    I wonder how people see me in real life?

    You photograph pretty good, everyone likes your photos you post on Facebook. You get frustrated when you know you look better in pictures because you know pictures are not real. How look in person is real and in person people don't like how you look. When out with friends you...
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 16

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    Wish I could watch myself

    and what I am like 😆
    takemetoparis takemetoparis 13-15, F May 10

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    Just because I drive a 911,

    and wear a Rolex doesn't mean I'm a pompous *******....I'm 100% the opposite!! I enjoy nice things (and love to share) I came from almost nothing, and busted my *** for what I have! Finally enjoying life at 40!!
    marcpsp marcpsp 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I always wonder how people see me.

    Do they see ugly? Do they see fat? Do they see beautiful? Do they see strength and confidence? I try to dress as well as possible and I have been told that I come across as sociable and confident. When you have been told you are not good enough for enough years for it to be...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 9

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    On the inside She is made up of words

    that not anyone can understand; Her mind is a dictionary of sadness and heartache, And her heart is a poetry book for the hopeless. She is the prettiest song, The perfect sonnet, The most meaningful haiku, And the longest novel. It takes a while to read her Seconds to love her...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    Im not cold, though you could call me hot...

    EP is a godsend! What would i do without EP? This is one of the few places where you can talk about anything or everything and people actually take the trouble to go through it. I dont know how successful i was at that , but EP gave me a reason to have an opinion. A reason to...
    ShybutSweetGirl ShybutSweetGirl 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Just by looking at my profile photo what's the

    first thought that comes to your mind, give me a word you think I am, or a few words.
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    i wonder how people think about me,

    how they perceive me,my image as i usually try to hide myself, my emotions,ep is special for me as i have open myself here to check out how i am from the inner core of mine...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    Whenever I'm around other people I wonder how

    they look at me as a person like if they see something about me I don't see about myself
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M May 31

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    I have no idea about that

    but I sometimes wonder what people think about me but again I don't very much care about it as long as they don't bother me I am cool with it.
    Abwehr Abwehr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    SammiKitten SammiKitten 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I know I've done this before,

    but how do people see me? :3
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 7

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    its not that i would care what they thought

    personally. im just curious as to what peoples impressions are of me. its an interesting though for sure.
    kiryuin kiryuin 13-15, F 3 Responses May 27

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    I'm a tomboy girl, I'm almost 17th,

    my parents always complaining about my look, my outfit, etc. They're so annoying . Some people judge me with the way how I look n dressed. But it's okay, I'm not straight, I'm a bisex, n for me sometimes girls are more attractive than boys. N I like sports, such as a dangerous...
    ChrisNath ChrisNath 16-17 4 Responses May 11

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