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I 'm Wondering How Other People See Me

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    lukeymrules lukeymrules 22-25, M Sep 23

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    I Wonder

    Sometimes I wonder what other people think about me but then there are time when I don't care. They don't pay any of my bills so F 'em!
    Optimistic813 Optimistic813 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    madritista madritista 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 14

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    I Sometimes Do

    because people say the oddest things to me, and make the weirdest faces. I am not sure if it's jealousy or hating that I'm there or what or gas? either way I guess I am leaving an impression :Pe
    Lisabv2012 Lisabv2012 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I would really love for somebody to tell me!

    Get into the details, tell me absolutely all they see. I am such an egoïste!
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I have a major secret

    which sometime I am paranoid over.I am a male who acts girly when ever I am alone. The thing is "I wonder how other people view me"? When I am in my male state or so that I think I am sometimes I feel that my feminism comes out a bit and other notice. Also I have this same...
    Miche1e Miche1e 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 14

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    Human Condition

    I think that it is pretty normal to wonder how others see you... I think the only time it really becomes a problem is when you are obsessed with how you appear to others. I have been a total outcast my whole life and I get stared at where ever I go. My brother told me that it was...
    AppealofSurreal AppealofSurreal 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    When I'm with a group of friends,

    talking about other friends.. I wonder, do they talk about me too? And what do they say about me?
    princessBE princessBE 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I am wondering what people say

    when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    CSG1997 CSG1997 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I have had my fair share of fake

    and toxic people in my life who were sweet to me in person and I later learn that I'm a wicked *****. Really? I can't honestly think of anything vindictive I have ever done to these individuals. Of course, upon learning this information I've eventually removed them from my life...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F Aug 12

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    Ok, so my job involves Parcel deliveries around

    East Yorkshire, England and yes there is that that moment every time that when i pass people, mainly students at local university and i think `what are you thinking` lol because I admit I'm no model or sexy super guy, but I am who i am. its like a sixth sense in a way especially...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 8

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    Just Be You

    Idont bother to much what most people think of me , im easy going im decent and kind to people ,so if that is not good enough for some people so be it ,we get one shot at life so be ourselves and enjoy life to much made of how we look as well whats inside is that what counts
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28

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    I've always worried about this.

    It's a constant thing for me to wonder what another person thinks how I look, how I carry myself, or how intelligent they think I am. I shouldn't be that way. I know it's ridiculous.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 2

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    Last week I had to go to my local home

    improvement store. I usually go in the middle of the day to avoid any semblance of a crowd. Thus I had the place mostly to myself - except a few hardy contractors. I went to the sole clerk, who had no line. I avoid those automatic check outs because I invariably mess up and need...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Did I mention I'd be shirtless in those jeans

    you like 90% of the time at home if you ever choose me as your boyfriend? I'll even wear the cowboy hat for ya.Look, I'll always give you a ton of room and stay WAY over here in email world and you know my goal is to keep you very safe and happy. I would NEVER want to burn any...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Sometimes I really want to know how other

    people see me but I'm scared that the way they see me, I won't like...
    Vagabond01 Vagabond01 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Thinking ! I maybe wrong with writing this,

    for today right now that all that matters. I may not be the brightest crayon in this big box. Sure I have made some stupid choices along my journey of life, really who hasn't I mean it can be as simple as a joke. The one thing that I have not done is, turn my back on American...
    Keith4k Keith4k 46-50, M Oct 7

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    What Do You Call It?

    OK, so what do you call this?  I want to know because it happens to me all the time.I was at the beer store and I asked if they had any doppelbocks.  This clueless guy who is probably 17 and works in the wine section pointed to this big open door that said "employees only...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 13 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    I mean I really don't care about what people

    think about me to a point but I definitely wonder what some people think about me.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    I Worry Too Much About What Others Think

    I am trying to not worry so much about how others see me. It takes away from my natural spontaneity and I know I have missed out on a lot of things because i have been afraid of what people might think. Lately, with a lot of help from some friends on EP I am breaking this bad...
    martytice martytice 22-25, F 15 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    “Life is 10 percent what happens to you

    and 90 percent how you respond to it.” -Charles Swindoll 
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 25

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    I tried hypnosis. For emotional trauma.

    It certainly didn't solve my problems. But it did something when i was there. During the session and listening to the hypnosis. I forgot i was there. I mean i heard her, but pictured what she was describing in my mind. It was weird. When she told me my legs felt lighter...
    Johnnyrotten1 Johnnyrotten1 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Tell Me What You See............when You Look At Me

    I don't really know what I see when I look in the mirror. I wish I could put myself in other people's shoes and look at myself from their perspective. What do they see???? Do they think I'm High maintenance??? Do they think I'm ugly?? Can they tell I'm happy...
    GrueneRose GrueneRose 22-25 7 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    I to am wondering but at the same time I don't

    really want to know cause I am afraid of what they might say
    jon200547 jon200547 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    Till a while ago I didn't have a profile picture

    and I hardly thought I'd make genuine friends who's want to speak to me and interact. But I did. And it feels/ felt wonderful. Today I changed my profile picture and put up my own pic. I wonder how people would perceive me now..The face. The person. Or both?
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 19

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    If Only I Could Read Minds...

    I wish I had the power to read minds. So I can know how people really feel about me when they meet me for the first time. Or if their impressions change after meeting me. I could ask them but I don't want the sugar-coated version, I want the raw sushi (lol, okay bad metaphor...
    spreadyourwings spreadyourwings 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Are they think I am annoying?

    They think I am fake? I wanted to know what they think of me. Wish I could read their mind when they see me..
    TulipsLover TulipsLover 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 29

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    On the inside She is made up of words

    that not anyone can understand; Her mind is a dictionary of sadness and heartache, And her heart is a poetry book for the hopeless. She is the prettiest song, The perfect sonnet, The most meaningful haiku, And the longest novel. It takes a while to read her Seconds to love her...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm a tomboy girl, I'm almost 17th,

    my parents always complaining about my look, my outfit, etc. They're so annoying . Some people judge me with the way how I look n dressed. But it's okay, I'm not straight, I'm a bisex, n for me sometimes girls are more attractive than boys. N I like sports, such as a dangerous...
    ChrisNath ChrisNath 16-17 4 Responses May 11

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    lovabledoll lovabledoll 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 1

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    Not many friends here

    so far. Do people think me weird because I am a little crazy?
    Gaspard91 Gaspard91 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 2

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    I DO wonder about this.

    How do people see me here and in real life.... Here i try to be polite and considerate just as i do in real life but here i have only words to convey my feelings while in real life people can see and hear me, they can see my reactions and hear the tone of my voice and the way...
    onestarrynight onestarrynight 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Frankly, it shouldn't matter,

    but somehow, how others see me is such a constant, gnawing concern for me that at times, I find myself altering my very being just to give them what they want. Or what I think they want. It's ******* ridiculous and cowardly and unnatural, and I don't think I can stop.
    learnforever learnforever 22-25, M Nov 8

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    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    How do u guys see me?

    ? I'm just curious, won't really affect me tho
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    I love clouds that sleep behind mountains

    and making up sad stories for people in beautiful houses, I love long hair curling around fingers, I love sitting on the sand feet in water, swimming through obstacles for pink ribbons, I love walking on decks with loud shoes and in rooms that echo, I love remembering dreams...
    Arriety Arriety 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    i sometimes think some see me

    as unapproachable i think im friendly i just dont like invading others space .
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 2

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    I wonder....would i still be incredible

    if i didn't give you everything you want? Would you love me if i didn't say id want to love you? Would you think Im beautiful if you saw the real me? If it wasn't just the parts i knew you wanted to see? if you saw every ugly, dirty piece of who i am? Would i still be special to...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 8

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    ladeputy ladeputy 22-25, F Nov 8

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    I have no idea about that

    but I sometimes wonder what people think about me but again I don't very much care about it as long as they don't bother me I am cool with it.
    Abwehr Abwehr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    Now That's Interesting

    So I typed I wonder in the search box and this group showed up. It's really interesting to know how people see me “Personality Wise".  When I talk/chat with someone, what is it that crosses their minds?  Do they believe I am dull or annoying?  How do they think about me...
    meme30 meme30 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    ClockworkTimesUp ClockworkTimesUp 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I have always wondered how other people view

    and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very interesting, I wish I could see me from someone els's perspective :)
    PandaLovee PandaLovee 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Just because I drive a 911,

    and wear a Rolex doesn't mean I'm a pompous *******....I'm 100% the opposite!! I enjoy nice things (and love to share) I came from almost nothing, and busted my *** for what I have! Finally enjoying life at 40!!
    marcpsp marcpsp 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I've been wondering this

    for awhile. I've had slit if different answers from you looked like a *****(I get a lot), your gorgeous, I love your hair. I wanna see myself from someone else's view not just physically.
    NellieNike NellieNike 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    Im not cold, though you could call me hot...

    EP is a godsend! What would i do without EP? This is one of the few places where you can talk about anything or everything and people actually take the trouble to go through it. I dont know how successful i was at that , but EP gave me a reason to have an opinion. A reason to...
    WhisperinAngel WhisperinAngel 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I Don't Really Care

    I don't much give a click how most people see me. I know who I am (mostly...I'm still working on it...but that's part of life). My friends, my real, true, best friends, are probably the ones who know me the best because I share how I feel and who I am. Even more so these days...
    PrettyPixie PrettyPixie 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    Quite frankly, idc. I am

    who I am, a weirdo. There is nobody who can change that.
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    There's more to me than the pole dancer.

    ... Who is often naked among men... Taking their money, willingly!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 10

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    Be Honest

    I wonder how people on this site see me. This is setting myself up for opinions but, if you like, leave your opinion here.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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