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I 'm Wondering How Other People See Me

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    I wonder how people on this site see me. This is setting myself up for opinions but, if you like, leave your opinion here.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I don't see myself as bad

    but I don't see myself as good either. I have problems and issues but I hope I come off as someone nice
    amrosi amrosi 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Im not cold, though you could call me hot...

    EP is a godsend! What would i do without EP? This is one of the few places where you can talk about literally anything and everything and people on here actually take the trouble to read every line.which is nice...:P I dont know how many people read my stuff , but EP gave me a...
    WhisperinAngel WhisperinAngel 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I have no idea about that

    but I sometimes wonder what people think about me but again I don't very much care about it as long as they don't bother me I am cool with it.
    Abwehr Abwehr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    And I care way too much about it.

    .. Oh well, better behave then ^^
    SlaveInTraining21 SlaveInTraining21 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Did I mention I'd be shirtless in those jeans

    you like 90% of the time at home if you ever choose me as your boyfriend? I'll even wear the cowboy hat for ya.Look, I'll always give you a ton of room and stay WAY over here in email world and you know my goal is to keep you very safe and happy. I would NEVER want to burn any...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    The ones who love you will Never leave you.

    even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.
    genvive genvive 31-35, F Mar 31

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    Sometimes I'm surprised

    when others on EP seem to take what I wrote opposite from what I intended...like when I agree or offer support only to be attacked. I am Feministman, consistently so, and no matter what I say, a few think I am trolling! I need one of those T-shirts that says "This is what a...
    feministman feministman 51-55, M 2 Responses May 31

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    On the inside She is made up of words

    that not anyone can understand; Her mind is a dictionary of sadness and heartache, And her heart is a poetry book for the hopeless. She is the prettiest song, The perfect sonnet, The most meaningful haiku, And the longest novel. It takes a while to read her Seconds to love her...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    I know what I see, but I've always wondered how

    others perceive me. Do I look like the same person, that I see in the mirror, to them? Am I as funny as I think I am? What I would give to be someone else for a day, just so I can see myself for the first time.
    Haleypalooza Haleypalooza 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    Ha! What a concept. I love it.

    I used to be really afraid of what people thought of me. Then I realized two important things. The first- it's not as important what others think of me as what I think of myself- so I'd better take responsibility for myself and be who I want to be! The second- I am not...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M Dec 12, 2013

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    I Sometimes Do

    because people say the oddest things to me, and make the weirdest faces. I am not sure if it's jealousy or hating that I'm there or what or gas? either way I guess I am leaving an impression :Pe
    Lisabv2012 Lisabv2012 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I have this kind of image of me in my head - a

    bit mad and random but basically a nice girl who gets on with people. But I have no idea if that's how I come over to people I meet. They might think I'm weird or stupid or anything. Yeah best not go down that road, lol.
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    ive always been curious

    as to how people display hatred towards me so easily. i like myself, i suppose you could too if you werent so ignorant.
    izzieebee izzieebee 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    I have never thought about this

    until now, somehow one side of me is scared to want to know how people see me and the other side is curious
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I have always wondered this cause what I'm

    always told is I'm very out going and stuff and nice but I don't see my self as that
    KaylaDem33 KaylaDem33 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 30

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    I mean, I'd imagine that people see me with

    their own two eyes, but I do wonder what they think of me.
    Bluewry Bluewry 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Human Condition

    I think that it is pretty normal to wonder how others see you... I think the only time it really becomes a problem is when you are obsessed with how you appear to others. I have been a total outcast my whole life and I get stared at where ever I go. My brother told me that it was...
    AppealofSurreal AppealofSurreal 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    I am wondering what people say

    when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    CSG1997 CSG1997 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    I DO wonder about this.

    How do people see me here and in real life.... Here i try to be polite and considerate just as i do in real life but here i have only words to convey my feelings while in real life people can see and hear me, they can see my reactions and hear the tone of my voice and the way...
    onestarrynight onestarrynight 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    Yes I have my issues.

    Please don't hold against me for a misunderstanding. My mind doesn't think or take as most. I'm more sensitive
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I Wonder

    Sometimes I wonder what other people think about me but then there are time when I don't care. They don't pay any of my bills so F 'em!
    Optimistic813 Optimistic813 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    i got lots of internet friends,

    we do texting lots of time. they see me as the nice girl they've ever met. i wonder how they see me in real life XD
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's more to me than the pole dancer.

    ... Who is often naked among men... Taking their money, willingly!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    if only i could read those people's mind whom i

    deal with everyday, LIFE would be so much less-painful .....
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 11

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    Quite frankly, idc. I am

    who I am, a weirdo. There is nobody who can change that.
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I do not think a person has to be insecure to

    wonder this. The only reason I can think of why this matters to me (I am not having to go to a job interview of anything, thankfully), is very simple indeed: do they see the person I strive to be....if I could only know that what is said they see is really truth and completely...
    expressingme expressingme 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 12

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    What do my words, my persona,

    my beauty, my gestures say to you? Do I thine with your eyes or do I distract your ears? What is it that can define me in one word of yours , if I am worthy of that?
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    To me i'm a strange person

    who listens and has a great sense of humor and annoying hiccups that i get way to regularly. To be honest i don't see myself as such a great person and see myself as a burden a lot of the time so i've always wondered what others actually think of me.
    Rainbowberrycat Rainbowberrycat 16-17, F Apr 5

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    I have always wondered how other people view

    and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very interesting, I wish I could see me from someone els's perspective :)
    PandaLovee PandaLovee 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Yes I'm curious. I've opened up alot here.

    Though vague on alot. But simple honest ole me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I'm a tomboy girl, I'm almost 17th,

    my parents always complaining about my look, my outfit, etc. They're so annoying . Some people judge me with the way how I look n dressed. But it's okay, I'm not straight, I'm a bisex, n for me sometimes girls are more attractive than boys. N I like sports, such as a dangerous...
    ChrisNath ChrisNath 16-17 4 Responses May 11, 2014

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    I often wonder, I crave acceptance from people,

    maybe it's part of what drives my submissive nature, maybe it's because I'm insecure or maybe it's because I just care what people think. In day to day life, I'm fairly quiet until I know people, when I feel confident, I become the life and soul of the party although there are...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 12

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    based on the other day,

    I discovered two options about how people see me. Either they see me as someone to lie to about other peoples' opinions so they can call me things to my face, or they remember a guy who graduated their high school a few years ago as those things. Either way, people need to get...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Feb 13

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    I've always wondered this .

    I mean don't get me wrong I think I'm attractive but it's interesting to see how others see you . It's like your so used to how to look you don't even realize how beautiful you are . And it's not even just about the beauty on the outside . I'm talking about inner beauty
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 17 Responses May 11

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    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I Don't Really Care

    I don't much give a click how most people see me. I know who I am (mostly...I'm still working on it...but that's part of life). My friends, my real, true, best friends, are probably the ones who know me the best because I share how I feel and who I am. Even more so these days...
    PrettyPixie PrettyPixie 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    I've never belonged to any specific clique in

    school. I'm not one of those people that has friends in every clique either. In some classes in super quiet and shy but if I know someone in a different class I open up and am very talkative. I literally everyday I change my style being country style one day, gothic the next...
    Alesnow Alesnow 18-21, F 2 Responses May 29

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    I'm Sephardi. Jewish.

    There are images you will have of me. But I'm French and I believe in Liberty, equality and fraternity. I like being human. I am spiritual. I'm carnal. I tread quietly in the shadows and run happy in the sunlight.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 25

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    I'm so insecure, afraid,

    paranoid, and suffer from terrible anxiety but I'm wondering if everyone else sees me as some scared puppy too. I'm also very shy and quiet so do people see me as selfish and stuck up? :/
    Ozthewhiterabbit Ozthewhiterabbit 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Today a lady came to talk to me.

    I was nice wid her and then I asked her a question "how did you find me?? usually girls dont text me here... so I wonder how u texted me" .... these were my exact words... The very next thing I knew ws that she blocked me... I jus asked her that to know how she found my id and...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I often catch myself wondering from time to

    time what people see when they look at me. What the first impression was that they got upon seeing me, and if that ever changed at any point depending on our interactions. Most of the time I feel like a ghost. Like I linger for a second in the corner of someone's field of...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 3 Responses Apr 4

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    A male user sent me an unsolicited message

    asking, 'So are you also interested in men?' Hmmm, last time I checked, yes. Oh well, iCurious rhymes with ____.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    Just because I drive a 911,

    and wear a Rolex doesn't mean I'm a pompous *******....I'm 100% the opposite!! I enjoy nice things (and love to share) I came from almost nothing, and busted my *** for what I have! Finally enjoying life at 40!!
    marcpsp marcpsp 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2014

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    Have you ever just watched someone from a

    distant? Not in a creepy or stalker way just see them and think she's pretty, or she has a cute butt, I like the way she smiles, or even oh my she has a huge nose. Maybe you think I'd like to befriend that person and be a part of her world. Possibly she looks conceited and your...
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 13

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    It's not that I have low self esteem

    or anything but it surprises me when someone calls me beautiful. I wish I could see myself thru their mind so I can see what's so beautiful
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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