I 'm Wondering How Other People See Me

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    I Don't Really Care

    I don't much give a click how most people see me. I know who I am (mostly...I'm still working on it...but that's part of life). My friends, my real, true, best friends, are probably the ones who know me the best because I share how I feel and who I am. Even more so these days...
    PrettyPixie PrettyPixie
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    Today a lady came to talk to me.

    I was nice wid her and then I asked her a question "how did you find me?? usually girls dont text me here... so I wonder how u texted me" .... these were my exact words... The very next thing I knew ws that she blocked me... I jus asked her that to know how she found my id and...
    nixf1 nixf1
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    Are they think I am annoying?

    They think I am fake? I wanted to know what they think of me. Wish I could read their mind when they see me..
    TulipsLover TulipsLover
    18-21, F
    26 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    A lot of people always think I'm some useless

    hooligan. I have multiple tattoos in so called "tacky" places. I sag my dickies, I like my clothes loose. I get really excited when people see more then all that, and treat me like a normal person. I think those are some of the most beautiful people that walk the earth. I feel...
    BadAppleBadSeed BadAppleBadSeed
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    a lot if people say I'm beautiful I got the

    perfect hourglass shape but what r they really seeing cuz others call me ugly but do they see the same thing they just have different opinions or do they see diffrently
    perla2346000 perla2346000
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015

    I do not think a person has to be insecure to

    wonder this. The only reason I can think of why this matters to me (I am not having to go to a job interview of anything, thankfully), is very simple indeed: do they see the person I strive to be....if I could only know that what is said they see is really truth and completely...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    Im not cold, though you could call me hot...

    EP is a godsend! What would i do without EP? This is one of the few places where you can talk about literally anything and everything and people on here actually take the trouble to read every line.which is nice...:P I dont know how many people read my stuff , but EP gave me a...
    WhisperinAngel WhisperinAngel
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 24, 2013

    seriously. because I'm having trouble

    reconciling what I see and what everyone else does. I used to be extremely heavy, I still see that lass.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 15, 2015

    I'm a tomboy girl, I'm almost 17th,

    my parents always complaining about my look, my outfit, etc. They're so annoying . Some people judge me with the way how I look n dressed. But it's okay, I'm not straight, I'm a bisex, n for me sometimes girls are more attractive than boys. N I like sports, such as a dangerous...
    ChrisNath ChrisNath
    18-21
    4 Responses May 11, 2014

    I'm so insecure, afraid,

    paranoid, and suffer from terrible anxiety but I'm wondering if everyone else sees me as some scared puppy too. I'm also very shy and quiet so do people see me as selfish and stuck up? :/
    Ozthewhiterabbit Ozthewhiterabbit
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    I've always worried about this.

    It's a constant thing for me to wonder what another person thinks how I look, how I carry myself, or how intelligent they think I am. I shouldn't be that way. I know it's ridiculous.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    A male user sent me an unsolicited message

    asking, 'So are you also interested in men?' Hmmm, last time I checked, yes. Oh well, iCurious rhymes with ____.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    It's not that I have low self esteem

    or anything but it surprises me when someone calls me beautiful. I wish I could see myself thru their mind so I can see what's so beautiful
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    Ha! What a concept. I love it.

    I used to be really afraid of what people thought of me. Then I realized two important things. The first- it's not as important what others think of me as what I think of myself- so I'd better take responsibility for myself and be who I want to be! The second- I am not...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108
    46-50, M
    Dec 12, 2013

    There's more to me than the pole dancer.

    ... Who is often naked among men... Taking their money, willingly!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 10, 2014

    ive always been curious

    as to how people display hatred towards me so easily. i like myself, i suppose you could too if you werent so ignorant.
    izzieebee izzieebee
    16-17, F
    Jun 10, 2015
    GaiaMD GaiaMD
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    And I care way too much about it.

    .. Oh well, better behave then ^^
    SlaveInTraining21 SlaveInTraining21
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I am French. I am Italian

    and Irish too! I feel normal, but yes I have some issues, doesn't everybody...
    Rovigatti Rovigatti
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    I'm always thinking others see me

    as some really ugly idiot who is just different from everyone. But I don't how they really see me. Maybe they see me as some really nice guy, but maybe they see me in the same way I'm thinking they see me (the ugly idiot)...
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    Quite frankly, idc. I am

    who I am, a weirdo. There is nobody who can change that.
    Profweird Profweird
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    I have been on a family trip,

    spending time with family over seas I haven't seen in 7-10 years. I have been quite.. They are so happy, july people, having laughs and sharing life, while i've been sitting there not sure and wondering why? Why do they do what they do, isn't a waste of time? What does it mean...
    MultiVoss MultiVoss
    26-30, M
    Dec 15, 2015

    I've never belonged to any specific clique in

    school. I'm not one of those people that has friends in every clique either. In some classes in super quiet and shy but if I know someone in a different class I open up and am very talkative. I literally everyday I change my style being country style one day, gothic the next...
    Alesnow Alesnow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2015

    I am usually my worst critic.

    There are times when I really don't like who I am. Once in a while, I encounter individuals who tell me how special I am... I believe them for a while but then when I'm left to my own thoughts, I start deconstructing what they say - that voice in my head, insisting on telling...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    Human Condition

    I think that it is pretty normal to wonder how others see you... I think the only time it really becomes a problem is when you are obsessed with how you appear to others. I have been a total outcast my whole life and I get stared at where ever I go. My brother told me that it was...
    AppealofSurreal AppealofSurreal
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Aug 23, 2011

    Just because I drive a 911,

    and wear a Rolex doesn't mean I'm a pompous *******....I'm 100% the opposite!! I enjoy nice things (and love to share) I came from almost nothing, and busted my *** for what I have! Finally enjoying life at 40!!
    marcpsp marcpsp
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    I have no idea about that

    but I sometimes wonder what people think about me but again I don't very much care about it as long as they don't bother me I am cool with it.
    Abwehr Abwehr
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 16, 2014
    Antivist0 Antivist0
    18-21, F
    Sep 6, 2015

    I've always wondered this .

    I mean don't get me wrong I think I'm attractive but it's interesting to see how others see you . It's like your so used to how to look you don't even realize how beautiful you are . And it's not even just about the beauty on the outside . I'm talking about inner beauty
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul
    18-21, F
    12 Responses May 11, 2015

    if only i could read those people's mind whom i

    deal with everyday, LIFE would be so much less-painful .....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    What do my words, my persona,

    my beauty, my gestures say to you? Do I thine with your eyes or do I distract your ears? What is it that can define me in one word of yours , if I am worthy of that?
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 11, 2015

    Am I a fool? a genius?

    an artist? an idiot? a gentleman? a thug? a protector? a friend? a Nemesis? a brother a pupil? an uncle? a teacher? a son? an activist? a bigot? a writer? an imposter? a manipulator? a composer? a poser? a lover? a liar? a hater? a somebody? a nobody? Am I...
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    me and gf took videos of us in action .

    . i always like to show it on Skype by shearing screen .. i guess it is fun
    samnude samnude
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 17

    Be Honest

    I wonder how people on this site see me. This is setting myself up for opinions but, if you like, leave your opinion here.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom
    46-50, M
    9 Responses Jun 4, 2013
    Vswagger Vswagger
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    Did I mention I'd be shirtless in those jeans

    you like 90% of the time at home if you ever choose me as your boyfriend? I'll even wear the cowboy hat for ya.Look, I'll always give you a ton of room and stay WAY over here in email world and you know my goal is to keep you very safe and happy. I would NEVER want to burn any...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    I have always wondered this cause what I'm

    always told is I'm very out going and stuff and nice but I don't see my self as that
    KaylaDem33 KaylaDem33
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 30, 2015

    I wonder....would i still be incredible

    if i didn't give you everything you want? Would you love me if i didn't say id want to love you? Would you think Im beautiful if you saw the real me? If it wasn't just the parts i knew you wanted to see? if you saw every ugly, dirty piece of who i am? Would i still be special to...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    It makes me wonder.. For

    as long as I can remember, I’ve always been an outsider. Almost all the girls and most of the guys everywhere I’ve been, have always hated me for some unknown reason - but that has suddenly changed. The thing is, that I don’t know how or why. Because if I have to be...
    Anon8615 Anon8615
    26-30, M
    Aug 28, 2015

    I have been called many things,

    good and bad, such as; stupid, fat, ugly, smart, skinny, and pretty. Well I want to know how do people actually see me, I want to know because I care about what everyone thinks, even if I say I don't.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 30, 2015

    I Wonder

    Sometimes I wonder what other people think about me but then there are time when I don't care. They don't pay any of my bills so F 'em!
    Optimistic813 Optimistic813
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

    I'm Sephardi. Jewish.

    There are images you will have of me. But I'm French and I believe in Liberty, equality and fraternity. I like being human. I am spiritual. I'm carnal. I tread quietly in the shadows and run happy in the sunlight.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    I do wonder, sometimes.

    Not because I worry what they think of me, but because I show different people different facets of myself. Do I appear as simple as I portray myself to be? I hide the full force of my personality... Because people here don't seem to know how to handle me. Only a select few...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 7

    Sometimes I'm surprised

    when others on EP seem to take what I wrote opposite from what I intended...like when I agree or offer support only to be attacked. I am Feministman, consistently so, and no matter what I say, a few think I am trolling! I need one of those T-shirts that says "This is what a...
    feministman feministman
    51-55, M
    2 Responses May 31, 2015

    I know what I see, but I've always wondered how

    others perceive me. Do I look like the same person, that I see in the mirror, to them? Am I as funny as I think I am? What I would give to be someone else for a day, just so I can see myself for the first time.
    Haleypalooza Haleypalooza
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    I have never thought about this

    until now, somehow one side of me is scared to want to know how people see me and the other side is curious
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    I often wonder, I crave acceptance from people,

    maybe it's part of what drives my submissive nature, maybe it's because I'm insecure or maybe it's because I just care what people think. In day to day life, I'm fairly quiet until I know people, when I feel confident, I become the life and soul of the party although there are...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    I am wondering what people say

    when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    CSG1997 CSG1997
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    On the inside She is made up of words

    that not anyone can understand; Her mind is a dictionary of sadness and heartache, And her heart is a poetry book for the hopeless. She is the prettiest song, The perfect sonnet, The most meaningful haiku, And the longest novel. It takes a while to read her Seconds to love her...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 10, 2014

    Have you ever just watched someone from a

    distant? Not in a creepy or stalker way just see them and think she's pretty, or she has a cute butt, I like the way she smiles, or even oh my she has a huge nose. Maybe you think I'd like to befriend that person and be a part of her world. Possibly she looks conceited and your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2015

    If anyone could clue me in by sending me your

    first impressions? That would be great.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    I wonder how do people see me?

    my mind: as a worthless piece of crap who doesn't belong to society. Me: Yeah your right.
    ilovetturtles ilovetturtles
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 20

    I Sometimes Do

    because people say the oddest things to me, and make the weirdest faces. I am not sure if it's jealousy or hating that I'm there or what or gas? either way I guess I am leaving an impression :Pe
    Lisabv2012 Lisabv2012
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    I have always wondered how other people view

    and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very interesting, I wish I could see me from someone els's perspective :)
    PandaLovee PandaLovee
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 9, 2014
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