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I 'm Wondering How Other People See Me

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    I have no idea about that

    but I sometimes wonder what people think about me but again I don't very much care about it as long as they don't bother me I am cool with it.
    Abwehr Abwehr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    I have always wondered how other people view

    and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very interesting, I wish I could see me from someone els's perspective :)
    PandaLovee PandaLovee 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Quite frankly, idc. I am

    who I am, a weirdo. There is nobody who can change that.
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I do not think a person has to be insecure to

    wonder this. The only reason I can think of why this matters to me (I am not having to go to a job interview of anything, thankfully), is very simple indeed: do they see the person I strive to be....if I could only know that what is said they see is really truth and completely...
    expressingme expressingme 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    Yes I have my issues.

    Please don't hold against me for a misunderstanding. My mind doesn't think or take as most. I'm more sensitive
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I am French. I am Italian

    and Irish too! I feel normal, but yes I have some issues, doesn't everybody...
    Rovigatti Rovigatti 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 18

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    What do my words, my persona,

    my beauty, my gestures say to you? Do I thine with your eyes or do I distract your ears? What is it that can define me in one word of yours , if I am worthy of that?
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    Whenever I am bored I always wonder how people

    see me. Do I seem like a friendly and open individual? Reserved? Do I look pleasant to the eyes? I am not a self-conscious girl, oh no. I really like who I am but the question of how I am viewed to others still makes me curious.
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I am wondering what people say

    when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    CSG1997 CSG1997 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    On the inside She is made up of words

    that not anyone can understand; Her mind is a dictionary of sadness and heartache, And her heart is a poetry book for the hopeless. She is the prettiest song, The perfect sonnet, The most meaningful haiku, And the longest novel. It takes a while to read her Seconds to love her...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Yes I'm curious. I've opened up alot here.

    Though vague on alot. But simple honest ole me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I have this kind of image of me in my head - a

    bit mad and random but basically a nice girl who gets on with people. But I have no idea if that's how I come over to people I meet. They might think I'm weird or stupid or anything. Yeah best not go down that road, lol.
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Human Condition

    I think that it is pretty normal to wonder how others see you... I think the only time it really becomes a problem is when you are obsessed with how you appear to others. I have been a total outcast my whole life and I get stared at where ever I go. My brother told me that it was...
    AppealofSurreal AppealofSurreal 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    I often catch myself wondering from time to

    time what people see when they look at me. What the first impression was that they got upon seeing me, and if that ever changed at any point depending on our interactions. Most of the time I feel like a ghost. Like I linger for a second in the corner of someone's field of...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I do this all the time

    and it bugs me EVERYTIME I walk in a store or somn I think hmm what are these people thinking bout this dude who just walked in
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M Jan 19

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    I often wonder, I crave acceptance from people,

    maybe it's part of what drives my submissive nature, maybe it's because I'm insecure or maybe it's because I just care what people think. In day to day life, I'm fairly quiet until I know people, when I feel confident, I become the life and soul of the party although there are...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 12

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    I've never belonged to any specific clique in

    school. I'm not one of those people that has friends in every clique either. In some classes in super quiet and shy but if I know someone in a different class I open up and am very talkative. I literally everyday I change my style being country style one day, gothic the next...
    Alesnow Alesnow 18-21, F 2 Responses May 29

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    What Do You Call It?

    OK, so what do you call this?  I want to know because it happens to me all the time.I was at the beer store and I asked if they had any doppelbocks.  This clueless guy who is probably 17 and works in the wine section pointed to this big open door that said "employees only...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    I know what I see, but I've always wondered how

    others perceive me. Do I look like the same person, that I see in the mirror, to them? Am I as funny as I think I am? What I would give to be someone else for a day, just so I can see myself for the first time.
    Haleypalooza Haleypalooza 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    Have you ever just watched someone from a

    distant? Not in a creepy or stalker way just see them and think she's pretty, or she has a cute butt, I like the way she smiles, or even oh my she has a huge nose. Maybe you think I'd like to befriend that person and be a part of her world. Possibly she looks conceited and your...
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 13

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    Invisible75 Invisible75 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I'm a tomboy girl, I'm almost 17th,

    my parents always complaining about my look, my outfit, etc. They're so annoying . Some people judge me with the way how I look n dressed. But it's okay, I'm not straight, I'm a bisex, n for me sometimes girls are more attractive than boys. N I like sports, such as a dangerous...
    ChrisNath ChrisNath 16-17 4 Responses May 11, 2014

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    I've always wondered this .

    I mean don't get me wrong I think I'm attractive but it's interesting to see how others see you . It's like your so used to how to look you don't even realize how beautiful you are . And it's not even just about the beauty on the outside . I'm talking about inner beauty
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 18 Responses May 11

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    I have always wondered this cause what I'm

    always told is I'm very out going and stuff and nice but I don't see my self as that
    KaylaDem33 KaylaDem33 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 30

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    Just because I drive a 911,

    and wear a Rolex doesn't mean I'm a pompous *******....I'm 100% the opposite!! I enjoy nice things (and love to share) I came from almost nothing, and busted my *** for what I have! Finally enjoying life at 40!!
    marcpsp marcpsp 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2014

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    I DO wonder about this.

    How do people see me here and in real life.... Here i try to be polite and considerate just as i do in real life but here i have only words to convey my feelings while in real life people can see and hear me, they can see my reactions and hear the tone of my voice and the way...
    onestarrynight onestarrynight 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    I Wonder

    Sometimes I wonder what other people think about me but then there are time when I don't care. They don't pay any of my bills so F 'em!
    Optimistic813 Optimistic813 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    There's more to me than the pole dancer.

    ... Who is often naked among men... Taking their money, willingly!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    The ones who love you will Never leave you.

    even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.
    genvive genvive 31-35, F Mar 31

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    I'm always thinking others see me

    as some really ugly idiot who is just different from everyone. But I don't how they really see me. Maybe they see me as some really nice guy, but maybe they see me in the same way I'm thinking they see me (the ugly idiot)...
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 25

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    To me i'm a strange person

    who listens and has a great sense of humor and annoying hiccups that i get way to regularly. To be honest i don't see myself as such a great person and see myself as a burden a lot of the time so i've always wondered what others actually think of me.
    Rainbowberrycat Rainbowberrycat 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Are they think I am annoying?

    They think I am fake? I wanted to know what they think of me. Wish I could read their mind when they see me..
    TulipsLover TulipsLover 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 29, 2014

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    I'm Sephardi. Jewish.

    There are images you will have of me. But I'm French and I believe in Liberty, equality and fraternity. I like being human. I am spiritual. I'm carnal. I tread quietly in the shadows and run happy in the sunlight.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 25

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    It's not that I have low self esteem

    or anything but it surprises me when someone calls me beautiful. I wish I could see myself thru their mind so I can see what's so beautiful
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    ashleeyj5 ashleeyj5 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    if only i could read those people's mind whom i

    deal with everyday, LIFE would be so much less-painful .....
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 11

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    Today a lady came to talk to me.

    I was nice wid her and then I asked her a question "how did you find me?? usually girls dont text me here... so I wonder how u texted me" .... these were my exact words... The very next thing I knew ws that she blocked me... I jus asked her that to know how she found my id and...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ha! What a concept. I love it.

    I used to be really afraid of what people thought of me. Then I realized two important things. The first- it's not as important what others think of me as what I think of myself- so I'd better take responsibility for myself and be who I want to be! The second- I am not...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M Dec 12, 2013

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    Did I mention I'd be shirtless in those jeans

    you like 90% of the time at home if you ever choose me as your boyfriend? I'll even wear the cowboy hat for ya.Look, I'll always give you a ton of room and stay WAY over here in email world and you know my goal is to keep you very safe and happy. I would NEVER want to burn any...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    I Don't Really Care

    I don't much give a click how most people see me. I know who I am (mostly...I'm still working on it...but that's part of life). My friends, my real, true, best friends, are probably the ones who know me the best because I share how I feel and who I am. Even more so these days...
    PrettyPixie PrettyPixie 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    I mean, I'd imagine that people see me with

    their own two eyes, but I do wonder what they think of me.
    Bluewry Bluewry 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I wonder....would i still be incredible

    if i didn't give you everything you want? Would you love me if i didn't say id want to love you? Would you think Im beautiful if you saw the real me? If it wasn't just the parts i knew you wanted to see? if you saw every ugly, dirty piece of who i am? Would i still be special to...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    edyo23 edyo23 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    based on the other day,

    I discovered two options about how people see me. Either they see me as someone to lie to about other peoples' opinions so they can call me things to my face, or they remember a guy who graduated their high school a few years ago as those things. Either way, people need to get...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Feb 13

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    Am I a fool? a genius?

    an artist? an idiot? a gentleman? a thug? a protector? a friend? a Nemesis? a brother a pupil? an uncle? a teacher? a son? an activist? a bigot? a writer? an imposter? a manipulator? a composer? a poser? a lover? a liar? a hater? a somebody? a nobody? Am I...
    rejectedhighly rejectedhighly 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 12

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