I Manipulate People

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    I don't mean too. Sometimes.

    I just learn the way people think, what they sympathize for. I use that and gain that feeling of power.
    ReannaLee ReannaLee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2015

    I manipulate everyone in my life.

    I don't have a set personality, or a moral compass, just an inner indecisiveness. I use this identity crisis as a way to manipulate every person in my life for my own personal gain. I lie to be someone else for each different person I meet, and I seem to see through everyone...
    maloriemeow maloriemeow
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2016

    I don't do it on purpose.

    ...I'm really sorry for it too. I won't even realize that I'm doing it.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 20, 2015

    How Do I Deal With Emotional Sadist

    I have a close family member who is an Emotional Sadist. She is very manipulative and passive aggressive with her words, FB posts, and actions, etc. She does not limit her hatefulness to a specific person or group, she is hateful to anyone she is not using to her advantage at the...
    Chevyluv Chevyluv
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2013

    Manipulation Is Bad

    I think we all have manipulated people, the problem with doing so is we never form the honest deeper connections with people. When you are an island no matter what you have life sucks.
    solmelrichards solmelrichards
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 9, 2013

    I don't mean to, my brain just works to my own

    advantage, and I always do things that benefit me in the long-run. I'm selfish and I know It, but at the same time I just don't care
    deleted deleted
    Jul 19, 2015

    Say what you want, There are two types of

    people in this world. Those who play the game and those who submit to it. Everyone acts like i do it to them and they don't know. They know, very well what i am. & Why i'm here. They always come back for more
    Adaptationn Adaptationn
    18-21, F
    Feb 21, 2014
    EmotionalDead EmotionalDead
    Sep 24, 2015

    Not Ashamed

    It is too late to try to pretend otherwise. I never claimed to be a saint and at least I can admit that I manipulate people. Manipulation is an art and I happen to be good at it. Even more so, I enjoy it. Should I really be so ashamed? I refuse to feel guilty because I play my...
    Lullacus Lullacus
    22-25, F
    May 8, 2013

    I Admit

    that I have manipulated people in the past to get what I want. I was always a pretty girl and very good at flirting.  I got alot of help with somethings I really needed help with.  Then I realized how my actions were being used against me by the one person I never thought...
    missamberlawrence missamberlawrence
    31-35, F
    Sep 26, 2012

    I manipulate people to get what I want,

    just like everybody else.
    deleted deleted
    May 25, 2015

    It's one of those skills

    that you aren't proud of or might be but don't show it. Manipulation comes natural to me and I've gotten much better at it through constant use. My grandiose plans always work my way and I get people to do what I want. I don't know how or why, but I know I have this skill and...
    StrikerXVE StrikerXVE
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    Everyone Does to Some Extent

    manipulation has a harsh reputation, but on some level, we are manipulating each other all the time. thats what human beings do with their environments. if we want to attract a mate, we dress and groom ourselves to attract the other. we try to accentuate our strengths. if we want...
    kittten kittten
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2008

    What's your best manipulation story

    when dealing with anyone at work?
    cujo0807 cujo0807
    Aug 4, 2015

    "We're All Puppets. I'm Just a Puppet That Can See the Strings."

    I often wonder why people can't see the strings that control them.  I don't wake up in the morning and think of how I can manipulate people so that my life is what I want it to be.  I do tend to get what I want.  I am in the process of trying to figure out why...
    Krypton Krypton
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2008

    I Don't Manipulate Out of Malice

    I don't usually consciously manipulate people. I tend to leave kind of depressing status messages (like "kill me please") in the hopes that someone will talk to me. Sure, I could always just start a conversation with someone on my list...but when I do that, the...
    tqoftu tqoftu
    22-25, F
    Jan 10, 2008

    Only To Help My Self, Never To Harm Their Self.

    I manipulate other people, influencing their opinions and choices on a very regular basis. It's become part of my life by now; a habit as iron cast as eating or smoking. I never do this to further any evil motive though. Only to achieve positive a outcome. this talent is just a...
    SocialFuckingParasite SocialFuckingParasite
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2013

    I Never Intend For It to Turn Out This Way...

    But on some level, I know what I'm doing.  I have denied for years that I was manipulative, but today alone showed me just *how* manipulative I can really be.  Choosing which facts to display and when, which arguments to bring up and when to show my weaknesses...
    emptywindows emptywindows
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2009

    A New Bestseller-book!!!

    If You really want to know how to manipulate others the way that they will even thank you for that, check out this bestseller-book that even BBC was talking about. Go to www.hypnosisproff.com   I red this book and it`s amazing!!!
    secure0107 secure0107
    36-40, F
    Oct 15, 2009

    can someone give me manipulation tips to

    attract older men? apparently, he's married and he "liked" me. well i turned him down because of my conscience but now im crazy for him.. help, i want him
    ironwoman45 ironwoman45
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2016

    Work on your charisma.

    Charismatic people have a tendency to get what they want. How to do this: Smile constantly, have approachable body language. Make people feel special. Make eye contact and ask about their interests. Act super confident. Everyone in the room should know you are confident. And...
    Lilyfire1 Lilyfire1
    16-17, F
    Jul 30, 2015


    i have at liste 40 friends and 4 of theme or realy freand's.
    MasterOfPuppet MasterOfPuppet
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2010

    My castle moved to the sand.

    I've been "manipulating" people for decades. I see what I believe to be the best possible outcome, and I push all of the person's buttons that I can see until they go towards it. Then I let them set sail. Some could say that's like a preacher or priest giving advice. Some...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife
    31-35, M
    Aug 20, 2014

    Big Deal...i Spose

    Well crap there goes the element of suprise. You all know now that I manipulate. Then again I could just be ******* in your ear (on your screen?) and be lying to get your attention. After all, we manipulate to get attention ;) ...well, except that one time. But that was his...
    Nonest Nonest
    Jan 1, 2010

    I Can. Maybe I Will.

    I want you to talk about that, or to do that, to feel that or think that. I won't blackmail you, but I will send the right hints and do the right thing, and next thing you know you're doing what I want. I do it on purpose. What can I say, I like to be in control... I don't know...
    whatsername whatsername
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2008

    Friendly Manipulation

    My hobby is manipulating people for good, not evil.  People who are too stupid, ignorant or scared to do what is right for themselves.  Those that, wonderful, intelligent people they may be, are just too indecisive or irrational to listen to fact, reason or common...
    nesscoroxdaworld nesscoroxdaworld
    18-21, F
    Mar 18, 2010

    Because I was controlled by a woman,

    I like to manipulate or at least feel I am manipulating them! Preferably Short, Small, Athletic and Sexy ladies. That depicts the ladies that man handled me LOL!
    Hardboy48 Hardboy48
    26-30, M
    Nov 17, 2015

    I Still Finding Myself Doing This Sometimes.

         I try not to but sometimes i slip and i manipulate people to get them to see my point of view or for the general good of a situation i guess its more of a persuasion skill but ill never use it to hurt anybody or to benefit in anyway im just not like that...
    DirkyBear DirkyBear
    26-30, M
    Jan 8, 2008

    Its Awful......

    I get bored too often...and when people offer a answer fix..i tend to manipulate them for my pleasure..and thus this leads me into my dark side...i was told that manipulating ppl is a form of witchcraft and is evil....it started when i found the internet and some of the people...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2010

    I Do It With My Teachers

    I make "friends" with my teachers just so I can manipulate them. I make it look like I'm actually friends with them, but I'm not. It's purely academic. The advantages: 1) They like me and will sometimes give me higher grades than I deserve because of it. (My english teacher gave...
    chococat159 chococat159
    3 Responses May 10, 2011

    Oh Yes

    This is how I got my TV with a HUGE screen. Also how I got my portable computer, my fridge and my couch! It's easy because a lot of men desired me and got blinded by love. Since I'm really poor, this help more than anything. Like free diner and supper because I ''forgot...
    Selvaria Selvaria
    18-21, F
    36 Responses Apr 23, 2010

    When I look at other people i see don't see them

    as actual people or equal or anything close. They are objects or being of a lesser species which I only keep for my own amusement. I make and break relationships because it's amusing. I've convinced people to do things they've said they never would because it was a challenge...
    DrunkGhost DrunkGhost
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2014

    My Friends Are Just For That

    Really, they have not use for me if I can't make them do all I want. That's so funny, like having puppies in collar. Same about my parents. Same about those disgusting old men who think they can have my phone number for free.
    dnbbaby dnbbaby
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2012

    I enjoy manipulating woman

    as long as she enjoys being manipulated and is a willing participant. It can be a fun way of playing. I think their should be a kink that's called "Consensual Manipulation."
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015
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