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I Married a Compulsive Liar

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    I Married a Compulsive Liar

    When we got married my husband and I had been together for almost 4 years and had a two year old son.  Ten months after the wedding we had our second son.  So far so good.  Or not.  Our entire relationship was based on lies.  Mainly the lie that he loved...
    dollywolly dollywolly 31-35, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    My Husband Is A Compulsive Liar And A Cheat And I Stay Because Of The Children.

    I have been in a defacto relationship for 12 years and I have 2 young children who adore their father. I have been suspecting that he was lying to me all the time throughout the years, i.e, making up excuses for being late, staying late at night with friends. He was doing...
    newsoulau newsoulau 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    My Perfect Glass Castle Shattered Last October...

    So I thought I was a married to my soul-mate, I found the one, the only... my forever over 7 years ago.  Boy was I wrong! I got married young.  I definitely did not plan on it, but that's the way life goes.  I met who i thought was my soul mate.  We worked together and were...
    endenturedwife endenturedwife 26-30 8 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    I Married A Compulsive Lier!

    my husband has been lying to e for 12 years, and not just little ones. He has lied about house buying to the point that we went bankrupt, no wait he lied about that too! having children from past relationships, dream jobs, secret money and the worst yet, testicular cancer. he...
    xxkategeexx xxkategeexx 31-35, F May 20, 2010

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    Falling For Your Character

    "The difficultly with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but we must live with a character." - Peter Devries Falling For Your Character We can only appreciate the profundity of this statement if we understand what is meant by CHARACTER. "Personality" is easy...
    KnightMaster KnightMaster 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Married A Liar

    I did not realize that my husband was a liar until after I married him. I believed everything that he told me and had no reason not to at the time. A week after we got married he went to have knee surgery and he told me that it was from an injury that he suffered from since he...
    Confusion24 Confusion24 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2010

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    I have been married to a compulsive liar

    for 45 years and you would think I would either get use to it or leave. Well it still breaks my heart each time he lies, I've tried so many different tactics and none work. I would love to leave but like a lot of women my age, and my health problems, I feel stuck. Years ago I...
    lucasrukus lucasrukus 61-65, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    Why Do We Believe The Lies?

    I have known for a long time now that he has been lying about everything, but I just stuffed it inside and continued on with life.  One day, nine years later, I just can't pretend anymore that he's not being controlling am manipulative.  This isn't love and my children and I...
    bbjjccdd bbjjccdd 36-40 5 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    What Was I Thinking?!

    My third marriage turned out to be a nightmare. How could an independant business woman who had spent the time to "work on loving herself" fall for a sociopathic liar? Well as it turns out, if you don't figure out what caused all your previous failed relationships, you can't find...
    Fenshui Fenshui 46-50 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Freedom From Liars :) My Story Update......

    i thought i should update my experience as a lot of time has gone by since i last told my story. i finally left my compulsive liar of a husband 18 months ago. it all came to a head when we were finally evicted from our bungalow. we were sent to a grotty bed and breakfast along...
    xxkategeexx xxkategeexx 31-35, F 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    In Love With A Compulsive Liar: Doubts And Fears.

    I met John (not his real name) on December 28, 2011, and he seemed-although a little pushy-perfect. He was cool, attractive, and all around just seemed like a great guy who had everything together. When I introduced my 7 year old son to him he absolutely fell in love. He cried...
    UnluckyStar04 UnluckyStar04 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Married to a man for 17years

    who I trusted. Found out he also married a chinese lady. Forged divorce papers. Stole all my jewellery. Dead mothers wedding and engagement ring. Fathers war medal and 92 year old picture i had of my dad he stole everything including my life.
    meme7756 meme7756 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    It Never Ends, Does It?

    My husband and I have been married for over 12 years. We met through the internet and married when we were pretty young. It was the biggest mistake I ever made, but by the time I figured that out, he had us in serious debt and I was unemployed. He lies about everything from money...
    ChitownGrl ChitownGrl 31-35 2 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    Doc Series Looking To Hear Personal Stories About Compulsive Lying

    Storonoway Productions is currently producing a four part documentary exploring the science of human behaviours. Working with research scientists from North America's top universities, this series will attempt to understand what factors - biological, evolutionary, environmental...
    DocCasting DocCasting 26-30, M Nov 17, 2010

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    Need To Talk To Someone, Desperately.

    My name is Elicia Johnson and ive been living with my boyfriend, John Johnson, for about two years now. we both love eachother very much but he has a compulsive lying disorder.  yes, it makes it sooo hard to hold a relationship. i can barely trust him  most of the...
    SweetEJ SweetEJ 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    I love my husband and can't imagine my life

    without him. Not only he gives me the stability I need, he also feels the same if not more for me as well. He has severe OCD and is constantly trying to conceal it. He embraces his so-called, "disability" and doesn't mind it as much as others with OCD. Therefore he conceals it...
    kymikal kymikal 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I Married A Male Cougar Gold Digger!

    If I tend to jump around on my topic; forgive me in advance. A lot has happened to me; and my memory isn't all in order; not sure if that makes sense. I mean; in order such as the order that this event happened.... I am not sure what one calls a man who is a gold digger...
    IDreamInMiniature IDreamInMiniature 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Anita

    I am recently separated from a compulsive liar.He is still lying....and it seems easier for him to do than be thruthful, even over small things.I am struggling so much because other than the lying he is a real good man.But...I must be true to myself .anyone out there can maybe...
    AnitaMariek AnitaMariek 56-60 1 Response Apr 5, 2012

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    Can't Stop Lying...poor Things

    ALL cheaters/psychopaths/sociopaths/narcissists are pathological liars. Lying is part of their personality disorder. They lie without thought, without conscience, and without regret. They lie consciously and with malicious intent. They lie to gain control and manipulate. They can...
    KnightMaster KnightMaster 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    Not Married Yet...

    i met my fiance when i was fifteen. since then he has told me all kinds of lies that make absolutely no sense. he told me about businesses he owned. things he had. and even the most trivial things he lies about. i do not know what to do. if it was not for his lying he would be...
    avagwen420 avagwen420 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Don't Know Why My Wife Changes The Facts So Much

    I'm new to this group. My wife has a problem with the facts, well we all do sometimes, but she takes it to the extreme. Usually the story changes to make others look bad, sometimes me. She is a big complainer, criticizes almost everything and just does not admit to mistakes. She...
    kirkb kirkb 56-60 1 Response Aug 7, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I might be one but I'm not sure. I do lie but it's never a complete lie. It's more of stretching the truth but I suppose that's still a lie. I only want people to find me...
    WearyBeautyLeah WearyBeautyLeah 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 17

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    Yes I am.. I lie almost everyday..wether it is to my boss about coming late or to my boyfriend about coming late because I was with another man, instead I tell him I was at Denny...
    alexamia alexamia 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    I can't stop lying to my friends and family. I lie about me family to my friends and then I lie about my friends to my family. I say I can do things which I can't and I'm scared...
    cizj cizj 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    My husband and I got married because I was pregnant with our daughter, which was fine, but neither of us really wanted to get married. Our families pressured us into it (both are...
    katinbell katinbell 22-25, F 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I met my wife when she was 18 and I was 26. She was this petite, gorgeous redhead with beautiful hazel, almond-shaped eyes. She literally struck me dumb! We were both working for a...
    Tterbow Tterbow 41-45, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    :( that's all I want in life it's my dream to get married and have kids I can't we it happening but I have pland what I would really like the wedding to be like but the girl gets a...
    Rossthayer Rossthayer 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    If theres one thing i hate is a damn *** liar especially when its a man who's playing games. On top of that they want to act like they did nothing wrong smh i hate liars and man.
    RoughLife88 RoughLife88 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    I ******* hate liars, pretending to be someone they are not, just **** off, play with someone else just leave me alone. And if you read this, pls go **** yourself, dont even know...
    SmoothSuicide SmoothSuicide 22-25, M Oct 2

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    hahaha! beware of me you LIARS and CHEATERS.. i can now also play your game.. ^________^
    emily036 emily036 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    Why do people think it is funny to lie to me?? Why hurt me like that?? I hate liars! Especially when they lie to ME. Please...if you are prone to lie to get people to like you...
    Sierra1993 Sierra1993 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    Why would you enter into a relationship and lie and cheat on the one you profess to love? If you lie and cheat...you don't love them...period! You don't love them and you don't...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 18

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    Anyway you slice you are an illegal you are in no postion to call anyone a liar... get it?
    LetsGetHer LetsGetHer 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    These are the few things I hate the most in life. Maybe we all do but those who do it. Shame on you! Last night I logged on my boyfriend email and found an email from Facebook that...
    MileyyV MileyyV 18-21, F Oct 19

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    I love watching Pretty Little Liars it's one of my favorite shows 😃 my fav character is Emily (EMISON IS ENDGAME 😃😍) who's your favorite character? And what do you of...
    Shyparadise Shyparadise 16-17, F Oct 19

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    I love watching Pretty Little Liars it's one of my favorite shows 😃 my fav character is Emily (EMISON IS ENDGAME 😃😍) who's your favorite character? And what do you of...
    Shyparadise Shyparadise 16-17, F Oct 19

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    If you see a guy named dragonsoul2875, call him a liar. He said he wouldn't change his privacy an he did. Tell him he can go bang hisself
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M a week ago

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    Not only do i hate liars but hate people who think youre stupid enough to believe their far fetched tales. I wish such people would refrain from messaging me ever!
    Dotty73 Dotty73 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Liar candy bullcrsp is a computer hacker thanks Attatch
    sexwasgreat567 sexwasgreat567 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is to all the women having affairs with married men right now. I want to share my story of my experience with having a relationship with a married man, in hopes that you...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 5

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    sorry this will be long, just wanted you to have as much background as possible. and I all came spilling out. any thoughts on this subject ? hi I am new to being a WOW...
    mydarlin mydarlin 46-50, F Oct 22

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    First off, this is completely new to me. I don't even no where to begin. So, here goes and it will be long, cause I want to put everything out there. This is my 2nd marriage and...
    Mountainsandnaturestorms Mountainsandnaturestorms 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 22

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    I THINK UNSOLICITED HONEY-DO LISTS SUCK!WARNING!!! What I am about to discuss below is controversial. It might offend some sensibilities. So if you read it brace yourself. WARNING...
    LadyMarredMind LadyMarredMind 36-40, F 13 Responses Oct 16

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    I never wanted to get married growing up. I talked about it with a couple of friends because that's what girls are "supposed" to do, but I truly wasn't interested. Now that I'm...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F a week ago

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    Where to begin... I myself am married and I am currently at the beginning of an affair with a married man. This affair began primarily so that I could get over a man whom I have...
    SoSocioYaKnow SoSocioYaKnow 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    I have been married for 16 years..2 kids...13 and 15 year old. My problems stremed back over 10 years ago. My husband is not the most romantic, rarely communicates with me, never...
    nursekaye nursekaye 41-45, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have read so many of your experiences it's like a mirror to my own life. Who knew 21 years ago when I married my husband I would suffer like this daily! I didn't know my husband...
    Niff73 Niff73 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I meet him in 2002 at a national rainbow gathering...we married the next year...In a simple little ceremony out side in a circle on my sisters place...the preacher his name was...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    It was very hard to get married so young. I graduated on May 25th, 2014 and by July 19th, 2014 I was a married woman. I had to take on a lot of resonsibility, especially being that...
    xwewereinfinite xwewereinfinite 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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