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I Married a Compulsive Liar

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    I Married a Compulsive Liar - When we got married my husband and I had been together for almost 4 years and had a two year old son.  Ten months after the wedding we had our...
    dollywolly dollywolly 31-35, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Doc Series Looking To Hear Personal Stories About Compulsive Lying - Storonoway Productions is currently producing a four part documentary exploring the science of human behaviours...
    DocCasting DocCasting 26-30, M Nov 17, 2010

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    Falling For Your Character - "The difficultly with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but we must live with a character." - Peter Devries Falling For Your...
    KnightMaster KnightMaster 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Not Married Yet... - i met my fiance when i was fifteen. since then he has told me all kinds of lies that make absolutely no sense. he told me about businesses he owned. things he...
    avagwen420 avagwen420 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Anita - I am recently separated from a compulsive liar.He is still lying....and it seems easier for him to do than be thruthful, even over small things.I am struggling so much...
    AnitaMariek AnitaMariek 56-60 1 Response Apr 5, 2012

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    Can't Stop Lying...poor Things - ALL cheaters/psychopaths/sociopaths/narcissists are pathological liars. Lying is part of their personality disorder. They lie without thought...
    KnightMaster KnightMaster 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    I love my husband and can't imagine my life without him. Not only he gives me the stability I need, he also feels the same if not more for me as well. He has severe OCD and is...
    kymikal kymikal 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    In Love With A Compulsive Liar: Doubts And Fears. - I met John (not his real name) on December 28, 2011, and he seemed-although a little pushy-perfect. He was cool, attractive, and...
    UnluckyStar04 UnluckyStar04 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I Married A Compulsive Lier! - my husband has been lying to e for 12 years, and not just little ones. He has lied about house buying to the point that we went bankrupt, no wait he...
    xxkategeexx xxkategeexx 31-35, F May 20, 2010

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    I Married A Male Cougar Gold Digger! - If I tend to jump around on my topic; forgive me in advance. A lot has happened to me; and my memory isn't all in order; not sure if that...
    IDreamInMiniature IDreamInMiniature 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    I have been married to a compulsive liar for 45 years and you would think I would either get use to it or leave. Well it still breaks my heart each time he lies, I've tried so many...
    lucasrukus lucasrukus 61-65, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Freedom From Liars :) My Story Update...... - i thought i should update my experience as a lot of time has gone by since i last told my story. i finally left my compulsive liar of...
    xxkategeexx xxkategeexx 31-35, F 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Why Do We Believe The Lies? - I have known for a long time now that he has been lying about everything, but I just stuffed it inside and continued on with life.  One day, nine...
    bbjjccdd bbjjccdd 36-40 5 Responses Oct 4, 2011

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    My Husband Is A Compulsive Liar And A Cheat And I Stay Because Of The Children. - I have been in a defacto relationship for 12 years and I have 2 young children who adore their...
    newsoulau newsoulau 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    What Was I Thinking?! - My third marriage turned out to be a nightmare. How could an independant business woman who had spent the time to "work on loving herself" fall for a...
    Fenshui Fenshui 46-50 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Need To Talk To Someone, Desperately. - My name is Elicia Johnson and ive been living with my boyfriend, John Johnson, for about two years now. we both love eachother very much but...
    SweetEJ SweetEJ 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Don't Know Why My Wife Changes The Facts So Much - I'm new to this group. My wife has a problem with the facts, well we all do sometimes, but she takes it to the extreme. Usually...
    kirkb kirkb 56-60 1 Response Aug 7, 2011

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    My Perfect Glass Castle Shattered Last October... - So I thought I was a married to my soul-mate, I found the one, the only... my forever over 7 years ago.  Boy was I wrong! I got...
    endenturedwife endenturedwife 26-30 8 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    It Never Ends, Does It? - My husband and I have been married for over 12 years. We met through the internet and married when we were pretty young. It was the biggest mistake I ever...
    ChitownGrl ChitownGrl 31-35 2 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    Married A Liar - I did not realize that my husband was a liar until after I married him. I believed everything that he told me and had no reason not to at the time. A week after...
    Confusion24 Confusion24 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2010

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    My lieing just recently cost me many relationships. Looking back over the years, I have always lied here and there about things small enough to not get caught. It seems the...
    GirlOnFire123 GirlOnFire123 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I lie too much. I just can't help it, it's becoming out of my hand. Well at least I'm being honest in confessing I'm a dishonest person.
    LilithAbney LilithAbney 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    It's both a blessing and a curse. I only use my lying skills for good though.. Most of the time
    lunamars lunamars 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I lie about everything all the time. I think it's because my mom always kept me so sheltered as a kid when I went to highschool I got a little bit of freedom and started lying so...
    Danielle1995195 Danielle1995195 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    It's getting out of hand. EP is the only place where I don;t lie and manipulate people. It's all to do with drugs.
    TheSchemingPuppeteer TheSchemingPuppeteer 18-21, M Mar 31

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    Well I guess I can leave this group soon as I will no longer be married. The hurt is still unbelievable. She now said, "I can no longer love you like a wife should love her...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M Mar 23

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    I have been married for 5 years, together almost 10. I am 29 and met my husband the second day of college. I broke up with him several times before we got married but always went...
    zkjk1112 zkjk1112 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I am, a bad liar. First because on important things, out of "I'm fine", to people you don't even know, or people you don't want to be worried, or, independence, and above all, self...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Since when I since little I been hate liars and once I been friend with a liar to get into my life we been good friends when I didn't knew him as a liar until he told all my...
    Linh222 Linh222 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Do I look stupid? I'm never not not getting married (triple negative- I'm badasser than the badas- Wait what? How is that even related to the topic?) OMG- now I'm talking to myself...
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    Our relationship was mostly online through the game second life. We would talk on the phone, web cam, and text as well.... For the first 3 1 2 years, we would talk online 2 times a...
    caddriss caddriss 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    She told me she wanted to marry me. She told me we were going to be together!!! They were all lies i caught her on facebook shes married happily married!!! well lesson learned...
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Ok, so I'm currently obsessed with figuring out who the head A is. Yeah, I'm a loser, lol. So, I'm going to try to piece it all together before season 5 starts June 10th. I'm going...
    cherryxblossom cherryxblossom 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    TTC Supplies- Wow, so I've been researching things that typically are needed for TTCing (Trying To Conceive), and let me tell you... This stuff costs almost as much as having the...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 16-17, F Apr 6

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    TTC Supplies- Wow, so I've been researching things that typically are needed for TTCing (Trying To Conceive), and let me tell you... This stuff costs almost as much as having the...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 16-17, F Apr 6

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    It's girls. It's happened with about 5 of them out of the couple dozen I've been involved with. It's at the stage after I get the sense they are interested and before I am...
    rougheredges rougheredges 22-25, M Mar 18

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    I found out recently that I cannot spot a liar. I believed every word he said to me. It's amazing how stupid a good liar can make you feel. You learn to trust them & share parts...
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F Apr 4

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    Someone I knew and was with for five years turned out to the biggest lying, manipulative cheating bastard I have ever met. The extent and levels to which he lied is just beyond my...
    90jansan 90jansan 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    its so disheartening to log on to ep and see all the MARRIED people on here just looking for some one to sneak around with ,, and yes it is sneaking if you wouldn't give your...
    lyanna84 lyanna84 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    30 years later to many affairs to count realizing my husband is a narcissist been pure he'll blame me for everything thinks he's GOD always right he's self absorbed self centered...
    wasted30 wasted30 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I love love love Pretty Little Liars!! I can't wait until June to watch the new season! :D
    Ipromiseyou Ipromiseyou 18-21, F Mar 24

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    Ohh!! You have no idea how much I ******* hate liars!! I can understand little lies and you sometimes have to lie when you need to, but this is ******* ridiculous!! If you're going...
    Cigarettegirl91 Cigarettegirl91 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    aatchoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SORRY ma allergic to bullshit,drama queens,mind games,liars and 2 faced people!!!!!!!!!
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F Mar 30

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    my mom keeps on telling me that she wants a grandchild so she told me to get married.. my best friends who's married and have kids also keep on telling me to have my own family...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F Mar 31

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I married a man 24 years my senior. When we got married it was great at first. I was 20 and he was 44 years old. I felt very excited married to an older man. He treated me like his...
    Sexyshysweetie Sexyshysweetie 41-45, F 17 Responses Apr 5

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    I am frustrated that I have to write this. I feel that if I do not get these words down on something that they will burst out at the wrong time. I am thankful for the anonymity...
    ShootTheButterfly ShootTheButterfly 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    Even though i have a boyfriend for 2 years, i know that someday we might break up, you never know what can happen, and that i will never get married. He is the only guy i've ever...
    brunette993 brunette993 18-21 Mar 17

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19