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I Married a Man I Don't Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    I Married A Man I Was Never In Love With Twice!

    I have married been married three times. I am embarrassed by this. Especially because I never loved them. My first husband is also my third husband. I knew him as a child. I never liked him. Actually I couldn't't stand him. He is older than me and liked my sister. I come from a...
    macwinda macwinda 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Lost Love

    I married a man i dont love, i miss the man i did. I wish i never left him because of our differences but its crazy. Ill never forget him. I miss him. I feel bad i dont love my husband. Sometimes i cry about it. Im a Christian and cant divorce. Im now pregnant and it just sucks...
    ashlielashae ashlielashae 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    The Man I Married...

    I'm in my second marrage. I met him at work. I was lonely and had two kid's. I didn't want to be alone the rest of my life. I thought I finally met the right man. He love's me and tries to treat me like a queen. After we were married I found out on our honey moon that he was...
    lisagirl1992 lisagirl1992 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2012

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    I Was a ******** Who Married Her Client

    I married a man I don't think i love. It has only been 3 months since our beautiful wedding. The day was perfect. At the time any way.... we had been together for 5 years and engaged for 3. The relationship has always been a lot of hard work. He doesn't have much of a sense of...
    Doonaunit Doonaunit 26-30, F 31 Responses Oct 30, 2007

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    I Still Can't Let Go Of The Father Of My Son

    I am now 21 years old running 22 from Philippines and got a son, when I was only 17 years old I have a long time boyfriend, he's not my first boyfriend but I m so sure he's my first and only love until now, we have been through happy, sad and though times, until I got pregnant...
    i16ishb17 i16ishb17 22-25, F Jan 16, 2012

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    I Married Because Of The Church

    When I met my husband, we were friends. I was going through some hard times and he gave me stability. When he wanted more than friendship, I didn´t have the courage to reject him. So we lived together for a while. This didn´t go over well with my Christian background and...
    Jaypanther Jaypanther 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I Married Him... And Left Him

    I met him in 2007. He was nice enough to me, and I was lonely, so we dated. I moved in with him a year later. That year was marked by disappointment. He never wanted to have sex with me. When I brought it up, he got so angry that he threw things. Still, I married him in 201...
    auntysocial auntysocial 31-35, F Aug 19, 2013

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    It Gets Worst Each Day

    At the time I thought it was the best thing I could do for my son and I. Now I know that what I've done is'nt right whichever way I look at it. I love him as a person, but i find myself being easily annoyed with him for most everything. I am not a mean or nasty person by nature...
    bammy bammy 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    in this world life is short. so short that wasting it on someone you don't love , or care about is just a waste of time. but it is long enough to find the right person that one...
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    I am 41 years old and my mother has come to see my 8 month old daughter and I have realized fully that I don't like my mother and am just tolerating her. I don't even know if I...
    Marigold408 Marigold408 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    We haven't really acted like we were together for over a year. He is more my best friend than boyfriend but I have stayed with him in hope that it would change but it didn't. I...
    VanillaCupcakes VanillaCupcakes 16-17, F Oct 30

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    Damn straight. Been there, done that, got the ******* t-shirt. Won't be visiting again. Ever.
    GoddessThemis GoddessThemis 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Absolutely, take my stepfather for instance. He constantly harasses me and makes my life miserable.
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 27

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    Totally agreeable statement I'm sure evened must feels this way.
    Joshuadd07 Joshuadd07 13-15, M Nov 4

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    Pretty self explanatory, what else could I say?
    PieBombs PieBombs 13-15, F Nov 5

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    Otherwise what's the point?
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 5

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    Why do I need to get married? I'm happy with my partner and we are not married. I don't need a ring to show my commitment. Plus it saves money. Who says we won't move on later in...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    Some people think this is stupid, because I'm young, and it wasn't that long. What did I expect right? .... I loved this boy. Well I don't love him at first. But I came to love...
    LittlemsA LittlemsA 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    I don't find my smoking attractive or cool in any shape or form. I do smoke though. When I first started it wasn't just because I thought it was cool. Everyone on my moms side of...
    XxDorkyBoyxX XxDorkyBoyxX 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    Don't tell me you love me. You don't know me you can't love something you don't know anything about. So please don't think you love me because you don't love me but you love what...
    mymindsalivingnightmare mymindsalivingnightmare 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    I lost the love of my life over a year ago, i suffered adjustment disorder and i still have trouble today. My best friend who is now my boyfriend helped me with everything but he...
    cnguyen1997 cnguyen1997 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now but we've been distant... It's like we don't love each other anymore. It seemed like it happened overnight but I'm sure we...
    estellerosen estellerosen 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 6

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    I support a person no matter what they are- homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, anything. People can't control their sexualities, and people should be able...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    How can I feel alone when I sleep next to you every night. How can a love I have for you seems so distance sometimes. When I think of you why do I feel that I lost you and, your...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 52 mins ago

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    "The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at anytime." - Mark Twain I don't fear death because you can't do much about it. Sure...
    makenap makenap 16-17, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I don't really know how to socialize or understand why people do the things they do. I was outside having a cig talking to an acquaintance about smoking. He mentioned loving a cig...
    socialdis socialdis 41-45, M 9 hrs ago

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    And I don't think anyone else does either. So many people have such strong opinions on their beliefs but there is so much divergence in them that it is hard to believe that any...
    tastyfrzz tastyfrzz 46-50 13 hrs ago

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    So I reached out to an old friend, things ended on a sour note between us, through no fault of my own. I have since moved on in life and I'm extremely happy 😊 I guess I just...
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    It's been a long time since I've posted. A lot has happened and so much to say. The divorce finalised over two years ago we lived with each other for the past 2 years, I got to...
    popsydoodle popsydoodle 18-21, F Nov 2

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    I have known my husband for 20 years and married for 17. He was different from the other guys I dated, he had a job, career, and stable life. After a year of dating we got...
    Asheera123 Asheera123 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    I am 38 yrs old and two months ago a new guy started working for our company. He's 44. He liked me from the first day he saw me. Then he started flirting with me and I went for it...
    Pretty38woman Pretty38woman 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    Tonight my husband told me since I'm not going to get a job & provide for myself he's leaving. He said it's not his responsibility to keep me in my habits we've been married for 23...
    Poohbear1974 Poohbear1974 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Let me clarify that it FEELS like I don't fit in anywhere, esp. right now in my life, but I know I fit in somewhere and have fit-in society in the past. I live in America, the most...
    relating2u79 relating2u79 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 31

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    I don't understand why people cheat. :/ Why even get married if you're going to cheat on your spouse? You're supposed to love and be with that person only. Seeing how many...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    Where to start...So after 20 years of being married I now find my self separated, it was an amicable split and we remain friends. Truth being our marriage was dead in the water...
    katielouise75 katielouise75 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 14

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    I have fallen madly deeply in love with a man who has portrayed to be who he is to me, I have since found out he is married 25yrs and he doesn't know I know. I am so in love and I...
    simplicityatbest simplicityatbest 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    People don't quite understand no matter how much I tell them. If I pick up a book I'm dropping my phone. If I nap, I'm not going to message you for hours, if i don't feel like it...
    Wislinefrancois Wislinefrancois 16-17, F 11 hrs ago

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    Well, I am in love with a married man. We are currently online only, but have been for 8 months. He wants to meet in person but I'm so hesitant. We have an amazing time talking...
    mrscalabash59 mrscalabash59 56-60, F 5 Responses Oct 29

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    I'm fat. That's just the way it is. I'm not some person who weight 110 lbs & think they're huge. I'm actually big. I love food. Have always loved food. I have been overweight...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I think that even if I hit rock bottom and my self esteem is too low, I will not flirt or get involved with a married man. I find it extremely weird and to be honest I am a bit too...
    deepaforeverangel deepaforeverangel 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    Its really hard when you've lived with a parent who is so against people who are gay and you are completely for it. You don't want to cause problems so you don't disagree with them...
    Lai96 Lai96 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Well hi I'm not sure how many people will read this but jut thought I would share. If you are in a relationship with a married man its probably a bad idea. It's taboo and against...
    shayhenager shayhenager 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 29

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    My husband and I got married because I was pregnant with our daughter, which was fine, but neither of us really wanted to get married. Our families pressured us into it (both are...
    katinbell katinbell 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I've been married for 13 years. My wife has put on weight since our last child (he is 11). Because of her weight and fitness we can not make love successfully. It's been probably...
    crossvilledavis crossvilledavis 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I was dating a married man. At first, we met at a cafe. He got interested with what I read and ended sat with me and talked about many books. I admired him, he was late 30 when we...
    cassxandra cassxandra 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 13

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    I am feeling so torn I was talking to someone and think I've gotten too attached He knows how I feel about him but he won't tell me if he feels anything for me. I have stopped...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 4 days ago

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