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I Married a Man I Don't Love

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    I married a man i dont love, i miss the man i did. I wish i never left him because of our differences but its crazy. Ill never forget him. I miss him. I feel bad i dont love my husband. Sometimes i cry about it. Im a Christian and cant divorce. Im now pregnant and it just sucks...
    ashlielashae ashlielashae 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    I Married A Man I Was Never In Love With Twice!

    I have married been married three times. I am embarrassed by this. Especially because I never loved them. My first husband is also my third husband. I knew him as a child. I never liked him. Actually I couldn't't stand him. He is older than me and liked my sister. I come from a...
    macwinda macwinda 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I Married Because Of The Church

    When I met my husband, we were friends. I was going through some hard times and he gave me stability. When he wanted more than friendship, I didn´t have the courage to reject him. So we lived together for a while. This didn´t go over well with my Christian background and...
    Jaypanther Jaypanther 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I Married Him... And Left Him

    I met him in 2007. He was nice enough to me, and I was lonely, so we dated. I moved in with him a year later. That year was marked by disappointment. He never wanted to have sex with me. When I brought it up, he got so angry that he threw things. Still, I married him in 201...
    auntysocial auntysocial 31-35, F Aug 19, 2013

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    I Was a ******** Who Married Her Client

    I married a man I don't think i love. It has only been 3 months since our beautiful wedding. The day was perfect. At the time any way.... we had been together for 5 years and engaged for 3. The relationship has always been a lot of hard work. He doesn't have much of a sense of...
    Doonaunit Doonaunit 26-30, F 32 Responses Oct 30, 2007

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    It Gets Worst Each Day

    At the time I thought it was the best thing I could do for my son and I. Now I know that what I've done is'nt right whichever way I look at it. I love him as a person, but i find myself being easily annoyed with him for most everything. I am not a mean or nasty person by nature...
    bammy bammy 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Still Can't Let Go Of The Father Of My Son

    I am now 21 years old running 22 from Philippines and got a son, when I was only 17 years old I have a long time boyfriend, he's not my first boyfriend but I m so sure he's my first and only love until now, we have been through happy, sad and though times, until I got pregnant...
    i16ishb17 i16ishb17 22-25, F Jan 16, 2012

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    I know this must sound fake

    but I married a man 49 years ago that I never really loved. I have never told anyone this. I kept making excuses that he was a good husband a good father etc. But I never was in love with him. Back than we married very young. It was what was expected of you. He always depended...
    blufftongal546 blufftongal546 66-70, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    That was the dumbest thing I've ever done.

    We hated each other from the first day. Had three unplanned pregnancies then still married him knowing I couldn't stand him. I tried to call it off the day I got married. This is why I will never get married again.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Nov 28, 2014

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    I married two. I did get married

    because it was the right thing to do.
    miracle3054 miracle3054 31-35, F Nov 27, 2014

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    The Man I Married...

    I'm in my second marrage. I met him at work. I was lonely and had two kid's. I didn't want to be alone the rest of my life. I thought I finally met the right man. He love's me and tries to treat me like a queen. After we were married I found out on our honey moon that he was...
    lisagirl1992 lisagirl1992 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2012

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    My mother is a borderline mother and I just figured this is a psychological thing. I was trying to "discuss" an option with her but it was no option! With my mother, you have to...
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    Well, I suppose it really just depends on how you see it. Yesterday, I told my boyfriend I loved him--I told him, but I had a feeling he wouldn't say it back, and I was right...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    If i don't feel a deep connection with you then odds are we're not going to last very long. Too many things in life are normal and ordinary, love should not be one of them.
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I know I'm still young and everything but I've already had people, my parents included, bring something up in a conversation and them saying, "Oh well once you're married and have...
    blackheartlover blackheartlover 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm so tired hearing about kids my age and even much younger having boyfriends, thinking they really grown. I don't care if you're a teenager. Just because you're a teenager doesn...
    JesusismySaviour JesusismySaviour 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    It's a weird feeling. To not love someone any more. I used to have strong feelings for someone from highschool. We fell out a few years ago, and the wounds are even worse now than...
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    justlovedhim justlovedhim 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It is true love and I'll never let it go. It's hard to live by loving someone who broke your heart and don't love you as much as you love him. But my heart says not to let it go...
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    I have been in a merry go round relationship with the father my children for over 7 years now. we break up and he goes back to his ex and then once they are not in a good place he...
    Hilltrini Hilltrini 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    When you don't feel happy, I'll love you LOL! When you feel lonely and sad, you can think about the new place you want to go, the country you want to travel to and the good things...
    HappyOrUnhappy HappyOrUnhappy 13-15, M a week ago

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    Quinnj504 Quinnj504 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Well my affair took a strange twist . I used to be inlove with him , now I'm not sure If I'm . I want to end it soon and I did tell him that, but he has fallen in love with me and...
    liveforever1 liveforever1 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    me too.. .no obligations to a married man
    amymayoral01 amymayoral01 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I DID IT!! I ended the affair with the married man who asked to move in with me. It was only ever an emotional affair never sexual. I told him I didn't want a relationship and that...
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    i think people have rejected me before i give them a chance. sometimes i think God doesn't like me. my husband is a major cause of my insecurities, as well as my emphasis on what i...
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    I never planned to fall for him. It was a whirlwind of amazingly expressive emails, texts, and messages before we met. He was the epitome of everything I ever wanted; educated...
    jedimindtrixie jedimindtrixie 31-35, F Jul 19

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    Evilbutcool Evilbutcool 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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