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I Married a Man I Don't Love

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    I Was a ******** Who Married Her Client

    I married a man I don't think i love. It has only been 3 months since our beautiful wedding. The day was perfect. At the time any way.... we had been together for 5 years and engaged for 3. The relationship has always been a lot of hard work. He doesn't have much of a sense of...
    Doonaunit Doonaunit 26-30, F 32 Responses Oct 30, 2007

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    I Married A Man I Was Never In Love With Twice!

    I have married been married three times. I am embarrassed by this. Especially because I never loved them. My first husband is also my third husband. I knew him as a child. I never liked him. Actually I couldn't't stand him. He is older than me and liked my sister. I come from a...
    macwinda macwinda 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I Married Because Of The Church

    When I met my husband, we were friends. I was going through some hard times and he gave me stability. When he wanted more than friendship, I didn´t have the courage to reject him. So we lived together for a while. This didn´t go over well with my Christian background and...
    Jaypanther Jaypanther 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I Still Can't Let Go Of The Father Of My Son

    I am now 21 years old running 22 from Philippines and got a son, when I was only 17 years old I have a long time boyfriend, he's not my first boyfriend but I m so sure he's my first and only love until now, we have been through happy, sad and though times, until I got pregnant...
    i16ishb17 i16ishb17 22-25, F Jan 16, 2012

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    I know this must sound fake

    but I married a man 49 years ago that I never really loved. I have never told anyone this. I kept making excuses that he was a good husband a good father etc. But I never was in love with him. Back than we married very young. It was what was expected of you. He always depended...
    blufftongal546 blufftongal546 66-70, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Lost Love

    I married a man i dont love, i miss the man i did. I wish i never left him because of our differences but its crazy. Ill never forget him. I miss him. I feel bad i dont love my husband. Sometimes i cry about it. Im a Christian and cant divorce. Im now pregnant and it just sucks...
    ashlielashae ashlielashae 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    I married two. I did get married

    because it was the right thing to do.
    miracle3054 miracle3054 31-35, F Nov 27, 2014

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    That was the dumbest thing I've ever done.

    We hated each other from the first day. Had three unplanned pregnancies then still married him knowing I couldn't stand him. I tried to call it off the day I got married. This is why I will never get married again.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Nov 28, 2014

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    The Man I Married...

    I'm in my second marrage. I met him at work. I was lonely and had two kid's. I didn't want to be alone the rest of my life. I thought I finally met the right man. He love's me and tries to treat me like a queen. After we were married I found out on our honey moon that he was...
    lisagirl1992 lisagirl1992 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2012

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    It Gets Worst Each Day

    At the time I thought it was the best thing I could do for my son and I. Now I know that what I've done is'nt right whichever way I look at it. I love him as a person, but i find myself being easily annoyed with him for most everything. I am not a mean or nasty person by nature...
    bammy bammy 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Married Him... And Left Him

    I met him in 2007. He was nice enough to me, and I was lonely, so we dated. I moved in with him a year later. That year was marked by disappointment. He never wanted to have sex with me. When I brought it up, he got so angry that he threw things. Still, I married him in 201...
    auntysocial auntysocial 31-35, F Aug 19, 2013

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    I met this boy in school. We did basically everything together. it frankly got my nerves but I still loved him then one day after gym class, I saw him kissing someone else, he saw...
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    I can't believe I allowed this person to mislead me.... lies , and lies is all they told..... why I don't know..... for a moment I thought it was real but it was all a joke...
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    We can live in this world harmoniously and I wouldn’t care less if you don’t like me. We have different views, opinions, upbringing and beliefs, but we can be civil and respect...
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    The word love is just thrown around way too much these days. I tend to think it stems largely from the younger generation being way too eager to get into 'serious' relationships at...
    Kakakarotcake Kakakarotcake 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I seem happy and carefree but that's what everyone sees, but on the inside I'm crying I don't feel like I'm important to my man.
    SMARIE37 SMARIE37 36-40, F 11 hrs ago

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    Seriously, can't talk to ANYONE about it. It's so much to explain. I moved last year, lost most of my communication with friends. My family loves him. I love him, so I don't...
    amflynn amflynn 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    It really really hurts me as to why i need to fall in love with a married man. He was very vocal with his feelings at first and i was dragged unknowingly. I really dont know what...
    lyrene lyrene 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been with my wife for 8 years, married for 5 years and we have a two year old little boy. We are so different from each other, she's not a good communicator & I love long...
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    Homosexuality is not a choice. So how can someone "not give in to sin" if that person was naturally born that way? I have none many homosexuals and they have all told me that, they...
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    Have you ever loved someone you know is not a match to you,.. I do.. I love my wife very much but she dislikes everything that I like, and vice versa. It seems like we can never...
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    I'm in a relationship with a married man who is been in a divorce process for 5years. I don't love him anymore, I'm pretending and tired of pretending. So much has happened, and I...
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    Soooooo,Hmm(clearing throat) I met a woman in college in 2009 after a breakup with another woman that just up and left me with these words ''Later on in life you'll see that it...
    SchizoEffective6 SchizoEffective6 36-40, M Jun 23

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    Yes, that's it, to judge the character of a person I don't use looks but what a person believe, the way that person behaves and the responsability they have for their own actions...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Jun 23

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