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I Married a Man I Don't Love

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    The Man I Married...

    I'm in my second marrage. I met him at work. I was lonely and had two kid's. I didn't want to be alone the rest of my life. I thought I finally met the right man. He love's me and tries to treat me like a queen. After we were married I found out on our honey moon that he was...
    lisagirl1992 lisagirl1992 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2012

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    I Was a ******** Who Married Her Client

    I married a man I don't think i love. It has only been 3 months since our beautiful wedding. The day was perfect. At the time any way.... we had been together for 5 years and engaged for 3. The relationship has always been a lot of hard work. He doesn't have much of a sense of...
    Doonaunit Doonaunit 26-30, F 31 Responses Oct 30, 2007

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    I Married Him... And Left Him

    I met him in 2007. He was nice enough to me, and I was lonely, so we dated. I moved in with him a year later. That year was marked by disappointment. He never wanted to have sex with me. When I brought it up, he got so angry that he threw things. Still, I married him in 201...
    auntysocial auntysocial 31-35, F Aug 19, 2013

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    I Still Can't Let Go Of The Father Of My Son

    I am now 21 years old running 22 from Philippines and got a son, when I was only 17 years old I have a long time boyfriend, he's not my first boyfriend but I m so sure he's my first and only love until now, we have been through happy, sad and though times, until I got pregnant...
    i16ishb17 i16ishb17 22-25, F Jan 16, 2012

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    Lost Love

    I married a man i dont love, i miss the man i did. I wish i never left him because of our differences but its crazy. Ill never forget him. I miss him. I feel bad i dont love my husband. Sometimes i cry about it. Im a Christian and cant divorce. Im now pregnant and it just sucks...
    ashlielashae ashlielashae 22-25, F Aug 18, 2013

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    It Gets Worst Each Day

    At the time I thought it was the best thing I could do for my son and I. Now I know that what I've done is'nt right whichever way I look at it. I love him as a person, but i find myself being easily annoyed with him for most everything. I am not a mean or nasty person by nature...
    bammy bammy 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Married Because Of The Church

    When I met my husband, we were friends. I was going through some hard times and he gave me stability. When he wanted more than friendship, I didn´t have the courage to reject him. So we lived together for a while. This didn´t go over well with my Christian background and...
    Jaypanther Jaypanther 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I Married A Man I Was Never In Love With Twice!

    I have married been married three times. I am embarrassed by this. Especially because I never loved them. My first husband is also my third husband. I knew him as a child. I never liked him. Actually I couldn't't stand him. He is older than me and liked my sister. I come from a...
    macwinda macwinda 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I know I'm too young to say something like this but, yeah, I would rather be alone than with someone I don't love. The reason I'm saying this is for the past eight or so months, I...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Married almost 20 years with teens. We were not a match when we married but I thought I was just being fussy and went ahead with it. Intimacy became sparse and them non-existent...
    elizabeth111 elizabeth111 46-50, F Aug 13

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    i just dont like to smile it makes me feel stupid.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    It's better to be unhappy alone, than unhappy with someone.
    acidblue02 acidblue02 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm not completely sure why I even signed up on this site, yet alone posting a story. At the end of the day, I know that this will not improve nor will it change anything about my...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F Aug 13

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    My mom abused me all my life . She beat me to the pulp and almost killed me 3 times . She abused me physically , mentally and verbally . The years I had endured with her have effed...
    Selma40 Selma40 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Answerable for offering academic, vocational and private counselling services to intending and enrolled college students within the Institute and educational...The ensuing...
    Benitakey Benitakey 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    "I love you" is so over used nowadays. I will not say it unless I mean it. It gives false hope. I know I have been told it multiple times and it's just been thrown around. People...
    kittenasylum kittenasylum 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    But I do.. I don't know why but when someone says "I love you "to me I just say it back.I can't keep quiet or tell them I don't love them..it seems cruel. But then again lying is...
    flyyhigh21 flyyhigh21 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 14

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    It really hurt if you love someone that don't love you back but what hurt most is that I thought he loves me because he was so sweet to me but suddenly he doesn't. I really hate...
    Lureen77 Lureen77 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year, yes a year. I have tried but all I feel is annoyed most of the time. He is a really nice guy, and I think part of the...
    normil normil 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    We now have many a long time of working experience to find huge bargains on all sorts of cruises and you will far too. Our aim is to surrender-to-date our audience information and...
    Darrickexp Darrickexp 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm in the middle all the time. Its a terrible feeling. I've been in a relationship for years now and I still love him like the day I met him. Don't ask me why...
    LStacey LStacey 36-40, F Jul 30

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    I lost my love of life to my best frnd my frndship olways tries to put me down they try to change me I m fedup of this y d hell they can't accept me for who I m they comment on my...
    Kazi313 Kazi313 16-17, M 5 hrs ago

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    Dearest My Lawyer, I've always admired many things about you. That remains. But we must stop anything between us so you can focus on the things that you intend to do. You don't...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I am engaged and going to get married in December. My fiancé is working in abroad. It’s our arranged marriage. Everything is going well but the problem is that he has a very...
    swatidec30 swatidec30 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 7

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    So I am 26 and have been with my man for 2 years. We live together but he is still married. I love him with all my heart we are honestly the perfect fit. We work in the same...
    water4elephants water4elephants 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Hi all... I just wanted to share my experience and hope to get some feedback. I have been seeing a married man for almost 6 months now. Now he's just not anyone. He and I used...
    AvaLennon AvaLennon 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am finding this hard as I can't really talk to anyone about my situation. About 4 weeks ago a guy at work gave me his number. I have liked this guy for nearly 2 years. I had been...
    Daisydukes79 Daisydukes79 31-35, F Aug 13

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    I never ever thought I would be in this situation. I never thought I'd be the other woman. I initially went into this very selfishly. I went looking for a married man so that it...
    whoareyou208 whoareyou208 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was wondering if anyone can give me advice for the situation I am in. I have been with my husband for 12 years, married 8 with 2 sons. 4 years ago my husband had a mental...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I am a 14 year old that has relationship problems with my mother. I recall constantly getting bullied in my elementary years because of my social awkwardness. I remember my mom...
    anushkapatel44 anushkapatel44 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I think I'm mentally ill. Apparently I told a friend I kinda love him(I'm confused if I really do love), and that friend sounded like he's rejecting me since he told me he had a...
    Yumire Yumire 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    At some point I would like more real, genuine relationships with other women. But I have some problems that prevent me from understanding what other women do with their lives. I'm...
    britannagis britannagis 31-35, F Jul 31

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    I don't understand how some single men/women get into relationships with married men/women, and then get sooo upset when they chose their spouse in the end over them. Like, 1- did...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm in love with him...my mm is younger and seems to have more experience than I do....I saw a picture of him and his wife today....stared at it so long I started to get nauseated...
    luvhimtoo luvhimtoo 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I asked her calmly and politely if she could please not leave a bunch of clutter on the kitchen counters. Usually I just ignore it and end up cleaning it all up myself, but I'm...
    noodleloaf noodleloaf 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well, the title may be misleading, I do understand. There are a ton of fake profiles on here, and guys just trying to take advantage, not only on here, but in real life too. Guys...
    blankman208 blankman208 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'm not even sure if I really really like him, but he's on my mind so much. But I don't want to make a move, because I don't want to give in to this temptation; I know the outcome...
    averagecomplicatedhuman averagecomplicatedhuman 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    It's been a rough few weeks, I've missed him more so this last while. I find myself wondering what exactly I am missing.. I miss how beautiful he made me feel, I miss how sexy...
    Scorpionchild Scorpionchild 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    I read about all these, "I am the other woman/man" and about how much it sucks that they aren't there when u need them... I don't get it, is there some sort of thrill being the...
    Besidmyself Besidmyself 31-35, F Aug 18

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    I Sont Get along With My Dad At All . He Causes My Mom Too Much Pain . I Don't Like Him Nor Do I Want To Love Him . **** Him . I Hate To Have To Look Aht Him Everyday . It Makes My...
    DeeplyLoved43 DeeplyLoved43 13-15, F Aug 20

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    all of you that are in love with a married man are just the other woman and think of how the guy is if he's dating other woman he's just there for a few hit 'n' runs or a lot if u...
    xlovelybutterflyx xlovelybutterflyx 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Him and I met last year in August , we began to talk here and there. But, then every time I would talk to him via twitter ot text he would always reply, if it was about how his day...
    ALEHTHEKID ALEHTHEKID 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So I see a lot of questions about getting along with your mom or how to deal with her. Well, coming from a person who used to argue with her mom on a daily basis, I can tell you...
    LanaJoy LanaJoy 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    When I was younger I was besotted with everything todo with babies! I wanted them so bad... When I grew up it was the first thing I tried to do, get pregnant when I got married...
    off2heavenIgo off2heavenIgo 13-15 Aug 2

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    I want to have sex with a married man (well, possibly genderqueer person). He helped me through a tough situation with legal advice and emotional support. I rented a room in his...
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T Aug 18

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    It's soo hard to find a married man on here:(
    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    So here's my sad little story. I've never met my father, nor have I ever had any kind of father to speak of (aka, my mom never got married). Not really a huge deal - I'm a pretty...
    Coffeelover90 Coffeelover90 22-25, F 6 days ago