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I Married and Having An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 88 People


    Where do I start?Been married 10 years & I'm 47.My 21 year old step son has about 6 female friends. It's quite a tight knit group. One of the girls IS 22. She started flirting with me about 6 months ago. I wasn't really awake to it until it became quite apparent. We emailed each...
    nzbjfan nzbjfan
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Jan 10, 2010

    My Affair

    I have been married almost 10 years.  My husband and I get along, though most of the time I feel like we are business partners.  We have one child (8), and I long for another one.  We have not had sex in about three years. I have been spending time with this...
    suez68 suez68
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Sep 30, 2008

    My Affair.....

    ok, so I have seen this boy toy 4 times now and I do not like him. . It is all about him. He got real forceful today and I jsut had this revelation, that he didn't care if I had fun or not. I am purely a sex object and he was to me.....but I dont like him. So today I went...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 30, 2011

    Thought I'd Never Do It....

    But I have.... Married 14 years to a "really nice guy" who took both my kids in as his own and has done his best to support us.... Soon into the marriage he wanted little to do with sex.  Literally, it's been a bone of contention ever since.  We've been to 4...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2010

    He's Not Mine :(

    Hi, I've been married for 7 years, and having an affair with a very wonderful man, and he's been married for 6 years to his wife.. We live in a diffrent country, we text everyday and talk to eachother often on the phone..and we managed to see eachother somewhere in my hometown or...
    JaiHo03 JaiHo03
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

    And So Here I Am...

    So refreshing to find this group.  I've been married almost 8 years to a wonderful guy!  Only one problem, aside from 2 kids, no sex. I guess I knew early on that he was not a sexual being.  I married him anyway because he felt "safe", I knew he would...
    myhappyplace myhappyplace
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Sep 1, 2008

    I Am Having An Affair And Cannot Stop

    I have been married for 18 years and my wife and I have 3 teenage children.  I was unfaithful once early on.  I felt horrible, so horrible because I could not undo it, and I wanted to leave my wife so I could establish a clean slate with somebody else(not the other woman...
    cbear2723 cbear2723
    3 Responses May 19, 2011

    How The Hell Did I End Up Here.....?

    I can say with total honesty that I never thought I would end up in this situation.  I know how much having someone "cheat on you" can be, and yet here I am doing it to someone else.I've been married for almost 6 years now to a good man who I'm sure loves me in his own way, but...
    livininhope livininhope
    31-35, F
    14 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    Having An Affair With An Ex Boyfriend

    I married for 6 years and do love my husband. However our sex life is almost non existent. My ex continuously comes back into my life and I have been having an affair with him for 3 months now. My ex is divorced with 2 small children and has custody of them. He told me he...
    lauriegirl70 lauriegirl70
    1 Response Apr 19, 2012

    Dream Becoming Reality...

    First off let me say that I'm a lesbian (you have no idea how freeing it is to say that) married to a man (you have no idea how crushing it is to say that).  If you have issues with the first sentence may I politely suggest you click elsewhere as you will find you have issues...
    somegurl somegurl
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2011

    Married, Having an Affair, And My Husband Is Ok With It.

    I started seeing someone about seven years ago.  I adore him and always want to see more of him.  We probably only see each other 2 to 3 times a year because he lives on the East Coast.  He was divorced about five years ago (seperated prior to us meeting). ...
    jewels2 jewels2
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Apr 27, 2010

    First Time In An Affair

    So, I did it. After 14 years, I hooked up with a guy 11 years younger then me and we screwed around. He is so freakin hot, it blows my mind. Today was the second time we met. I let him in through the back door of my work and we went in the back room. Tonight I told him how...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 26, 2011

    It's Much Easier With Husband's Permission.

    When a husband is frequently limp, it seems a fuckbuddy is a necessary sideline. Our problem was that we didn't wish to break up the marriage because there's so much more than sex. I've had several "friends," a coworker, a guy we met in a lounge and a few others I...
    sarawks sarawks
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 14, 2008

    The Milf & The Babysitter

    The MILF & the Babysitter, or Pandora & Her Box After Lo’s phone-sex encounter with Bill, she was all riled up to do that some more. (In fact, as I may have mentioned elsewhere, Lo has been toying with the idea of starting up her own phone-sex company as a little part-time...
    d011y2005 d011y2005
    Jan 27, 2012

    How Hurt Would You Be?

    I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being hurt by an affair.   Check out the survey........ “What Would You Do With The Pictures Left Over From Your Affair...
    51-55, M
    Mar 29, 2010
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