I Married and Want to Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 222 People

    I would love to meet a woman from the Seaforth

    or Stratford area for an ongoing relationship.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 14, 2015

    I'm not married, but have been the other woman.

    Advice: Do not treat the affair as if it is a marriage. It is an agreement. To not get caught, keep it 2 hours minimum away from home and make sure it's not a woman looking for love; but she has to need something, just as you do, for the affair to work. One good thing about an...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 16, 2016

    Before I begin, let me first say there's no

    confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I always knew I would be very selective when the time came to decide who this affair would be with. Now, I'm 14 yrs. into my marriage and the...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    I'm well past the stage of feeling any kind of

    guilt for having an affair. I've had affairs in the past and I'll continue to have them in the future. They have improved my relationship with my wife because I'm no longer perpetually frustrated. If you look at my profile you will be able to see where I am. If you want some...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 24, 2014

    I live in a sexless marriage in St.

    Louis. My wife lost all desire for sex as a result of treatment for severe depression. I care for her very much and never want to live without her but after several years I've decided that don't want to go without sex for the rest of my life,
    johnstlouis johnstlouis
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

    Attended my neighbor's 2014 NYE party with my

    spouse. We are friends, not close but friends nonetheless. The wife is an attractive 36 year old with a voluptuous figure and beautiful large breasts. Anyhow that evening we danced together very closely and when ever out of view of her husband I would press her breasts...
    Hombre4407 Hombre4407
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    I am married to a great man,

    whom I have no intention of leaving. He got into an accident and broke his back, shoulder and hip. He will be out of commission and away from home while he heals for a few weeks. In the meantime, I have experienced such a dramatic increase in my sex drive, and I can't stop...
    JennNotJenny7 JennNotJenny7
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2015

    Looking in Delaware USA.

    38 mwm fit and fairly well endowed. Let's talk.
    Countryguy13 Countryguy13
    36-40, M
    Dec 13, 2015

    I Think I Sold Myself Short...

    I met my husband when I was very young. I had minimal dating experience, even less sexual experience. I stayed in a long term relationship with a man that I knew was not right for me, and now, 5 years into that marriage, I am bored and restless. I amĀ  young but feel old...I feel...
    ClosetScholar ClosetScholar
    26-30, F
    10 Responses May 13, 2012

    I am out of shape. I think a woman could

    promise to have an affair with me, only IF i get in shape.... Someone to motivate me to get into physical shape, and to "hone" my skills for them in the bed. Tell me to try things with my wife, my wife not knowing I am under instruction.........
    JPasco2013 JPasco2013
    26-30, M
    Sep 15, 2015
    patto077 patto077
    56-60, M
    Apr 19, 2015

    I love my wife dearly.

    I am a very sexual being and she is simply not. Now she has a medical condition that makes sex impossible. I can't face ending an otherwise happy marriage nor spending the rest of life without physical intimacy.
    rg3001 rg3001
    1 Response Feb 21, 2015

    I do but I don't. I want to,

    because I feel so rejected at home I just want to reach out to someone who could make me feel like a man again. But even with as much pain as my wife's lack of interest has caused, I don't want to hurt her. And I don't really have time for it anyway, given my schedule. But I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    I want to have an affair with a mature

    responsible man. One that understands I'm married and don't want to divorce for my own personal reasons. One that won't smother me or try to own me. Just good conversation and hanging out. I'm very picky yes because I have to be. I don't want his money or his first born, just...
    Unsupervised777 Unsupervised777
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    I am married and have no desire to change that,

    but my wife doesn't seem to want to put much effort into our sex life. so figured I would look for someone who would
    deleted deleted
    Jul 7, 2015

    Ok, so I posted about a month ago about moving

    out from my husband. Although we are not 'seperated', I, at the moment, have no intention of going back. So for the last month I have been doing alot of social activities to fill in my time and keep my mind off things. So I met this guy. I don't even know how old he is, I assume...
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 10, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Mar 20, 2016

    This is probably a more common problem

    than I think.. I want to have an affair, I'm newly married but we have had problems for awhile, my husband is an alcoholic .. I feel resentment for what he puts me threw, he still wants to have sex, it's me who doesn't want to with him.. I know another married man who flirts...
    danitykane13 danitykane13
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    tomtango77 tomtango77
    51-55, M
    Feb 19, 2012
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