I Married But Lonely

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 129 People

    My Life Up 'Til Now!

    I've been married 23yrs,been been pretty unhappy most of them,have'nt slept tigether for over 10yrs!,i do love my wife,but it's more like you would love a sister/brother,the thing is she dies'nt keep well,and i feel obligated to stay with her,i dint know what to do next,i've...
    johnh59 johnh59
    56-60, M
    Jul 26, 2013

    Alone Together

    I have been married to the wrong person for 30 years. I recognized a problem soon after our wedding. We ****** like bunnies while we dated. I had been involved in swinging before we met. She promised we would become involved again after the marriage. Never happened. Our sex life...
    bobolink1 bobolink1
    66-70, M
    10 Responses May 27, 2013

    Feeling Left Out At 50

    you know ep readers i have read some of the stories and i feel real bad.  some of the experiences (sexual) i have never had.(smh).  for one,  i have never had my g-spot stimulated.  another i have never had an ****** during sex.  i know this sound bad.  it sounds horrible...
    ihavehadenough ihavehadenough
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Mar 3, 2012

    Everyone should just get a divorce

    or talk to their other half and stop being so stubborn because neither side will be happy!
    cali0ne cali0ne
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2014

    My husband use to love me!

    We use to love each other. We took time to ensure that we were both satisfied and happy in every aspect of our relationship. That was five years ago and things have definitely taken a turn for the worse! He works so much that we rarely spend anytime together as a couple or...
    Yearnin4More Yearnin4More
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2013

      I am married but

    so lonely and feeling so empty. I am so scared of myself bsc I feel I need someone. I am still in my 30s and have 2 young kids. I don't have courage to leave bsc of my kids and my image. but I am so empty and lonely.
    Nezzzz Nezzzz
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    I Have Given Up!!!!!!!!!!!!

    as i stated earlier i am curious about spanking. so i have shared this with my husband," thinking this my help cuz if i don't get some soon someone is going to get his brains ****** out". so when i go home i showered while my husband was in the bedroom. i went in to the room...
    ihavehadenough ihavehadenough
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Jul 7, 2012

    Lonely And Let Down

    My marriage started with some promise 12 years ago, but after our first child it started to go down hill big time, everything got ******** away and I could never fix it, gone went love and affection, common interest, respect everything has gone and I should leave but Im tied into...
    jahm594 jahm594
    51-55, M
    Jul 20, 2013

    Married But Lonely

    i know what you mean i am a married man for 4 years, and my wife don't touch me or when i go to touch her it start a noise sometimes i just feel like going out and get an out side woman that will touch me i don't know what to do so much that i have stop doing things around the...
    lonelyheart52 lonelyheart52
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 21, 2013

    Depressed

    I cannot believe that I have wasted half my life on a relationship that for the most part has made me miserable. Sure in the beginning it was all good as it always is but before too long I should have ended things. I'm 30 now and there have been good times but I'm just miserable...
    Crazy135 Crazy135
    26-30, F
    Jul 5, 2012

    My wife is not physically able to have sex any

    more and for the last three years I have gone without that form of intimacy and I miss it. We seem to go separate ways. I am an introvert and she is an extrovert.
    kansasfarmer kansasfarmer
    66-70, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    It Can Be At Times

    He works Night shift and does side work during the day. He is home on Friday and Saturday and we spend sometime together then.. Sometimes it gets lonely I miss the days when things where more simple.. Even though I Lonely I would never imagine Stepping out of my marriage I love...
    CountryBaby22 CountryBaby22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 21, 2013

    Feeling Like A Married Single Partent

    im married with 2 young children and work part time in school kitchens. my husband is a chef and although he is wonderful in many ways lately i feel more like a single parent. i feel guilty for feeling so low when i know he is working so hard but im finding things tough. he...
    kay1985 kay1985
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 3, 2012

    Existing Only

    I have been married for 24 years with 2 beautiful children. I have a beautiful home, great job I love, involved in my community. I have spent the last 22 years raising great kids and my husband and I have devoted our lives to our children.. NOW... the kids are gone, my husband...
    dashie05 dashie05
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2013
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