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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault..

    5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time so I did it and I thought liking him would be enough. Well, we didn't even have sex on our honeymoon and as time has gone by...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    We've been over for 7 months now, I ended it, and I don't regret doing so. I miss being a part of something, I miss having someone so close that it feels comfortable being intimate...
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    To the guy who called me beautiful and told me I had the prettiest eyes and smile at work today thank you! I'll pay for your lunch next time :) Your amazing!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    i know youre out there somewhere! ( o w o)/
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    Message me if youre not busy im just here taking my time :-)
    fitty22 fitty22 22-25, F Jul 9

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    I want to find a guy I really connect with. Some one I want to text all the time. Someone who I get along well with. I'm just not sure they exist.
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    I found out after 1 month of being involved with someone that I'm the other woman. We work together. We've known of each other for over a year but he recently asked for my #. We...
    Sidechic79 Sidechic79 31-35 1 Response Jul 22

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    Every time I meet someone new...whether it be someone I'm interested in or just a guy meet, they think I'm married. Even when I tell them I'm not they don't believe me. I don't...
    Beautysedge420 Beautysedge420 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am extremely attracted to this wonderful girl I met on EP only to find she lives on the other side of the planet. I finally found someone to spend time with, to share my feelings...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi, I'm a teenager, 17 years old. Since I'm on this page you're probably thinking I'm going to complain about how life is unfair since I can't get another Ipad or something. No...
    faithful1997 faithful1997 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I am not married, however I view my partnership with as much weight as a typical marriage and resources on the topic are limited, so here I am. While I at least have the benefit...
    opheliasodyssey opheliasodyssey 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Hi guys ,I'm juelz from Egypt, every upcoming October I get older one year,yes I'm Libra sign "the funny ones" I feel so alone and I just found this amazing site and I really need...
    FlawlessGuy FlawlessGuy 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I'm at a very strange point in my life. At one point I had everything sorted I was married and settled with my wife and we were planning on starting a family together. But then we...
    hopelessdreamer83 hopelessdreamer83 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    This past week has been a roller coaster of emotions. From happy to scared to excited to nervous. He's back and I don't know how to feel about it. Have you ever met someone who...
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Over the last three months I have been seeing a married man. Initially, I was unaware he was married as he created an alias to talk with other women, including me. After...
    birdie84 birdie84 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't mind at all that i'm getting fatter, but i do want to set limits for myself. While i love fat and having a chubby belly i don't want to become unhealthy, fat, or obese. I'm...
    ilovefatforsomereason ilovefatforsomereason 22-25, M a week ago

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    Ok here it is I met my wife at jobcorp, while we were there we dated for the 3-4 months we were there she went home first, when I got back home she contacted me (keep in mind I was...
    tdavis82 tdavis82 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    I don't really plan on having kids just yet, but I would like to get married if I ever find that special someone. If I have kids once I'm a grown up, it will be one girl and one...
    ImaWeirdie ImaWeirdie 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Anyone ever had someone who really made you happy, someone who brightened your day and you know you brightened theirs, until they met a friend? And now that friend is the source of...
    rikuskey rikuskey 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm new and I keep seeing posts like this, by both men and women. I'll click on the post, and often it will be someone that I do think is attractive, sometimes it's someone that I...
    Varof Varof 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I want to point out that I'm not saying or posting this for attention. I genuinely feel ugly. I am very fat, I have short hair and honestly people just don't find that attractive...
    JudeLeDude JudeLeDude 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    For someone like me in my situation I'm beginning to think it's impossible. I always have to hide part of who I am or pretend there is a entire part of my personality that doesn't...
    Yeci Yeci 22-25 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Bored wanna talk to some new people who could give me interesting conversation...keep in mind I'm an intelligent deep person :)
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Who am I? I wish i knew that. For the past few months I've begun to take a look at the persons who make me, me. I have the side of me my friends see, and that side of me is divided...
    avf1215 avf1215 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    What makes a family? I think a family is someone who cared and loves you you know even without the same DNA well my "mother" I love her very much of course but i do not feel like...
    lesliexx3 lesliexx3 18-21, F Jul 4

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    I had children fairly young (my first at 22) and and married at 23. I've found myself deeply unhappy as my marriage has progressed. I tried to leave my husband a few years ago, but...
    tlhwk tlhwk 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I'm 16 and bored, I play football, basketball, and track so if there is a girl who plays any of those hmu or if you just wanna talk I'm also pretty nerdy and sweet at times
    KingLindorrr KingLindorrr 16-17, M Jul 14

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    I'm lost. I'm almost 20 now. I read a degree, but not anymore. It was not my cup of tea. I didn't have close friends. All are fake. I don't have anyone to share my feelings. All...
    BRG8 BRG8 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I want someone who loves me for me and not my "cuteness" and someone I can see physically
    YanoZ YanoZ 13-15, M Jul 17

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    I love someone who no longer is IN love with me. I believe he loves me cause we have been together to long for him not to but I know hes not in love with me any more because he has...
    devilseye1996 devilseye1996 36-40, F Jul 22

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    I've been down with my vision loss lately and I came on line to eventually discover someone who was recently my very special male friend (nothing sexual, but special and I was...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 a week ago

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    I've been down with my vision loss lately and I came on line to eventually discover someone who was recently my very special male friend (nothing sexual, but special and I was...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 a week ago

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    I've been to a couple counselor/psychologists lately and I guess there was a part of me that was hoping for some kind of clinical diagnosis. Sounds crappy but it's true. There was...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Like relationship wise. But nobody cares for me at all. I'm just a waste of everybody's space..
    Imdestroyed Imdestroyed 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My brother. I think this is his 5th time to. When he was 13 he slit his wrists and then developped a nerve condition. When he was 15 he locked himself in his room with a gun but...
    QuinnStew QuinnStew 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I almost forgot about this website so I went to go read up on my experiences and in all honesty I can't even recognize who I used to be. It's difficult to experience a past feeling...
    wiinterhorchatas wiinterhorchatas 16-17, F Jul 4

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    7/9/2014 I guess I'm just going to start by saying I want happiness in life and I feel like I might never get it… I don’t know why I feel this way but it's kind of bumming me...
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    A boy at my school started choking me for no reason ( I'm a girl ) Now because of him I starve myself.
    SarahTheAngel SarahTheAngel 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    For the past 8 years of my 'life' I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. They say it's meant to get better, but every day just gets harder. I'm almost starting to feel...
    36chambers86 36chambers86 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I'm almost 16 years old, and I've been pretending to be several people for over 5/6 years. I don't do it for fun, I don't do it to hurt others, I don't like that I do it. I've had...
    everydayregret everydayregret 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I am 19 years old. And I've been pretending to be other people online off and on since I was 14. I honestly feel like I can't stop. I'm so ashamed of doing it and ashamed of myself...
    Knope77 Knope77 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    It’s always about love. People fall in love. You fall in love. I fall in love. I have not found the real description of something that makes people fall. Something that makes...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 6 days ago

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