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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault..

    5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time so I did it and I thought liking him would be enough. Well, we didn't even have sex on our honeymoon and as time has gone by...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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