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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault..

    5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time so I did it and I thought liking him would be enough. Well, we didn't even have sex on our honeymoon and as time has gone by...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I really like this guy. I haven't liked someone this much since my last boyfriend. He is smart, kind, compassionate, funny, and has so much warmth. He can also be a sarcastic...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F Feb 12

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    No one wants me. Everyone has hated me lately. Everyone has someone special. I'm a good person, don't I derserve someone's love? Someone that I want? :(
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    I became involved with someone who is in a 10 year relationship with the mother of his child. I know a lot of people frown upon "the other woman" and I take full responsibility for...
    plusisamust plusisamust 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    hey I'm bored someone text me
    tytiana1010 tytiana1010 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    After almost 4 yrs of lies, lack of affection, communication, and attention, and an almost nonexistant sex life I am ready to divorce. I have talked to my husband about spending...
    txhouswife42 txhouswife42 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    I have such an incredible life at first glance; I'm educated, recently lost 30 kilos, stay healthy, I have a roof over my head, travel the world and have some extraordinary...
    hnmad hnmad 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    I'm a 24 year old female. My story started a long time ago. I was a sophmore in high school, I think I was 15. I was in chemistry and my teacher made me partner up with a boy. I...
    Fantasybird Fantasybird 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    This year will be our tenth wedding anniversary, fourteenth year together. My husband recently told me that he wants to see other people, that he's unhappy with his life, and that...
    Baralinel Baralinel 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    You have to reverse it. If you're unable to meet others in person, go online. Don't get too involved or expect too much. It's baby steps. Human beings are naturally social, so your...
    DG2008 DG2008 31-35 2 Responses Feb 5

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    My first big social outing after: My wife's death in November 2014,yes she has the class and style and color and flair to leave this planet on Thanksgiving day. So other than the...
    severalanimals severalanimals 56-60, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Seriously, be good to everyone. Sometimes people who love you as who you are aren't those that you expect to love you back. And sometimes you just never know, there is someone who...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F Feb 17

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    Yes I been blocked. Someone blocked me because of my opinion. The post was about cousins or family members who likes f-ucking their own family member. That's nasty. I'm going to...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Feb 7

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    Idk what I want in life I know I'm not straight so that's one thing but idk what my style is or if I want to be a vet or a lawyer I want it all yet get so little im so lost and...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I feel like I give so much and try to make everyone okay and content. I am the one that sits down and tries to make people laugh and has long chats with them about every single...
    sorayageorgina sorayageorgina 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    So this would be my first time posting something on here I've never really been good at writing so I hope know one really judges haha (as if it's the internet).. Anyways as I sit...
    nevergiveup2501 nevergiveup2501 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    I'm bored and I'd like to talk with someone on EP or Skype. Please message me :)
    TinkiBinki TinkiBinki 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    I'm not good enough for anybody, I never am. There's always someone better to be with instead of me. I don't deserve anyone. I'm not good enough for my friends, the guy I love, my...
    greyxskies greyxskies 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'd like to think that I'm a nice person. Whenever my friends need help or someone to talk to, I'm always there to listen and give some encouraging words and advice. But people...
    iomanip iomanip 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm looking for a long term sugar baby to look after financially and to spoil, I want a sugar baby that is genuine and friendly and can keep me company, preferably someone who isn...
    wealthyman wealthyman 41-45, M Feb 11

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    I'm in love with a girl that likes my best friend. She doesn't know I like her but my friend knows that she like him. Idk what to do 😭
    Fitzs35 Fitzs35 16-17, M Feb 12

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    Do u ever feel like you are doing everything wrong, and you are hurt never good enough for anybody? And then comes a point when you don't know what to do anymore. It's like...
    thelastfallenangel thelastfallenangel 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    can someone please txt me I'm a bisexual guy who likes to have clean chats but not afraid to have fun
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M Feb 18

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    I'm falling apart and I have genuine issues and I feel like no one is going to listen to me or they are going to "listen" but they don't really care what I'm dealing with. I have...
    saddleupjep saddleupjep 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I want somene who understands that my knowledge is just a mask for my emotions. I want someone to respect that and listen to my useless facts about random mental disorders, not...
    Mewl Mewl 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Every time I write a song for a girl, she either hates me before I can finish the song and she never hears it, or doesn't reciprocate the feelings. Maybe making songs for the girl...
    alexisrhodeslover alexisrhodeslover 18-21 Feb 8

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    I was married to a pretty woman for 20 years and she left me for another man....I think she still loves me however....in fact I'm sure of it....but time is not on my side anymore...
    slickboots slickboots 66-70, M Feb 9

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    I was married to a pretty woman for 20 years and she left me for another man....I think she still loves me however....in fact I'm sure of it....but time is not on my side anymore...
    slickboots slickboots 66-70, M Feb 9

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    There are times like these where I'm just waiting for the storm to pass and I don't feel like trying. I don't want to do anything but cry. This emptiness in my heart is getting...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F Feb 10

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    Don't judge someone, is all I'm saying. We're here under assumed names because people have judged us far too harshly without knowing what brought us to this point in time and so we...
    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    I met a guy. And the scary thing is, I liked him. I liked him way more that I ever did any girl. I've always had feelings for guys but I never acted upon it. So I told him. He...
    AlexTheAverage AlexTheAverage 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    Weird,strange feelings,I don't like him like that i dont think i ever did,but still it's hard to forget him.I'm starting to kinda hate him lately.and im just sad too because I put...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    This topic always goes through my mind. Who am I really? I've changed so much for someone who wasn't worth my heartaches and tears, for a reason so stupid. Now I lay here confused...
    MoshItUpPOTATOES MoshItUpPOTATOES 16-17, M Feb 17

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    I am shorter than even the average woman. I'm only 145 cm (4'9"). But I kinda like it.
    smalljuha smalljuha 18-21, M Feb 19

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    I don't have an amazing figure or flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but I'm me. I eat food. I have curves. I have more fat than i should. I have scars because i...
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 22

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    Darling I'm falling in love with you, but your eyes don't see me yet. I look up and see dull, grey, steel clouds filling every centimetre of the sky. The sky is hoarding so much...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Yep and now he's taken. I'm not angry or anything but it's my fault. Still if he's happy then it's ok, life moves one but I always get the short end of the stick. I dont know...
    Brogann Brogann 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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