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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault..

    5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time so I did it and I thought liking him would be enough. Well, we didn't even have sex on our honeymoon and as time has gone by...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Yeah, as the title says, I love someone, but I am not allowed to do this, thus I am confused and painful, what should I do?
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    About 10 years ago I was living in London. I was at a night club with a girl and this guy came up to us, touched me on the bum and whispered to me "if you weren't here with a girl...
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    Well, I suppose it really just depends on how you see it. Yesterday, I told my boyfriend I loved him--I told him, but I had a feeling he wouldn't say it back, and I was right...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Finally made a drink night with my only girl after all these tough months I've experienced and still been going through. It’s been like forever I’ve talked this much. So the...
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    Apparently God has a very interesting sense of humor. Why do I say that? Because every time I turn around, I see couples. Happy couples. Where's my chance? I know they say the good...
    Elkins91 Elkins91 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    more dominant than possessive, though I can get clingy if I'm scared of losing someone who I care about, guess its from the mental and emotional abuse over the years
    Azureal Azureal 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    No, I hate when people says 'I'd like to find someone who loves me, who treats me like I deserve, someone who loves me for who I am not because how I look'. No, I'm sure you don't...
    JustAnotherGirlOnEP JustAnotherGirlOnEP 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really just wanna fall in love with someone who isn't exactly like me, but gets and loves exactly who I'm made to be. Why is that so hard?
    jfear3 jfear3 18-21, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've come to the conclusion that I can't be a real person. It's like someone tried to make a person and made some mistakes, so here i am. Everyone I knows wants something, whether...
    geminixleo geminixleo 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Even when we're sitting in the same room we're so distant. He sits on his phone on reddit, reading and laughing at things he reads like I'm not even there. It used to bug me. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm looking for Raven since I realised he was with me all this time. Raven is my totem, my spirit guide, my fallen guardian angel and much more..And after all these years I still...
    Aibell Aibell 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I'm here to listen or share if you would like. I have lots of life experience to share even though I'm only 28. So message me if you're interested!
    BigBoss8753 BigBoss8753 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I'm married, 12 years now, and my wife is great but we are different in some ways. I think I wear her out because I like to talk a lot about my (extremely) technical and obsessive...
    ExtrovertedAspie ExtrovertedAspie 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hi , not sure what to say but I'm lonely as hell. I'm 35 yrs old and have been married to my wife for 5 years and of those 5 we have been truly happy for maybe 2 of them. She was...
    invisibletomywife invisibletomywife 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm writing this really upset. Maybe because it's raining and I stood in the rain, upset. Please don't judge me. Hear me out. I posed as this random woman on tinder. I guess I...
    jenniferking123 jenniferking123 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I haven't many friends. just two male friends that I care about. but we really see each other. I don't have any female friends because it's always been hard for me. (feel free to...
    Hteag Hteag 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm a twenty two year old slightly single overweight lesbian woman who is mainly looking for friends of older age. I battle borderline personality disorder, which makes...
    rainbowsmangos2015 rainbowsmangos2015 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I guess I'm weird....I pick a random title and write a story to match it. So I'm depressed now...I don't like that. Nope, not one bit. It makes me sad. Like the time the MP's...
    rick4545 rick4545 36-40, M Jul 24

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    I hate how much I love my ex. But in the end, i want them to be happy, and for them to be with someone who truly makes them happy(even if it's not me). I won't try to get them back...
    Tommokia Tommokia 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I would like to help anyone who feels to need to be suicidal because of being bullied, misunderstood , lonely , depress or is just a giving up on life in general or just need...
    desire2367 desire2367 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Personally once someone breaks my heart whether it's cheating or not and if i'm still with that person, feelings are gone, trust is gone completely. it's just lust now.
    badluck3imi badluck3imi 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Every relationship I've ever been in has been super toxic. I've been cheated on so many times I'm not sure what it would feel like not to be. I know I'm not perfect but I always...
    ccarama ccarama 18-21, M Jul 21

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    Meg Myers is getting me through this. (currently 'Poison') It's weird to be happy and upset at the same time. When you have an inner battle raging inside it's like having...
    cherryxblossom cherryxblossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Well actually I am attracted to Blondes as well but Brunettes are hotter....
    Hard4u34 Hard4u34 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I love this guy I went to k-4th grade together.. I moved away when we were 13 and have seen him about 8 times since I moved.. 5 being since February. We're 27 now. I like him a lot...
    surioregon surioregon 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm a noob on this site (just joined to type this) so I'm not sure how this works or what an appropriate length for a post should be so I'll try to keep this short and sweet. I'm...
    internalpuppetshow internalpuppetshow 18-21, M Jul 19

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    I'm not married yet but I am engaged. There's nothing more I love more than having another man inside me.
    rose669 rose669 46-50, F 14 Responses Jul 17

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    It's so hard going through life knowing that you don't have anyone to talk to about how you feel. Every time I walk in a public place, I just feel like I am the only one who feel...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Have you ever been cheated on? That is the feeling that will never leave my chest, no matter how much I try and fill my heart with happiness, there will always be a dull pain there...
    RNgirl23 RNgirl23 22-25, F Jul 16

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    I want out. My husband is mentally, emotionally, and financially abusive to me. We have been married for 2 years. We rent a house and my car is in his name. He sold my car that I...
    Niceandcold Niceandcold 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Someone say I'm not fatter
    ChrisHartung ChrisHartung 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    You bring in happiness When I am feeling blue You heal my broken soul When covered with gloom Cheer and joy in my life I hope that you can see Your friendship means to me A...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    His voice - deep, intense, gentle, and kind. His voice was the soundtrack of my summer. His caresses were the summer breezes while lounging on the grass in Trocadero. His soft...
    EshaVellu EshaVellu 31-35, F Jul 13

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