I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2009

    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Sep 18, 2009

    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2009

    I married someone who is 32 years older

    than me. Everything happened so fast between us. ... we were both clinging to each other out of fear and other issues. We met in detox ... we're recovering addicts. From the moment we met we spent everyday together for the first 6 months. .. then we found out we were pregnant so...
    mom2dotnjr mom2dotnjr
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 1, 2015

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