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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Might, I'm Worried -  I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    T Should I Do!!!! - I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    He Ia a Good Person But... - I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2) - Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault.. - 5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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