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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault..

    5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time so I did it and I thought liking him would be enough. Well, we didn't even have sex on our honeymoon and as time has gone by...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    Hey there I'm sick of being called fake on here and I'm sick of being called name's on here and I'm sick of being judged on hwee please stop judging me here you people don't know...
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    well i have mention about my ex urooj my first love who broke me apart and left me all alone . after urooj i met a girl on ep her name is maimoona. she is the most wonderfull...
    hasank hasank 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I really really really really like this guy on here and he's cute af!!!! I'm just really scared to ask him to b my bf...I brought it up yesterday and I told him " I like a guy on...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I really like this guy on EP and we've only talked like once and wasn't even a real conversation he only replied once then I asked a question then just said bye :P but idk if he'll...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M Aug 21

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    Please forgive me if this post is extraordinarily long. I'm well aware that anyone out there shouldn't be asked to sit through this, but I would really appreciate it if someone did...
    jojo2450 jojo2450 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    My coworker Tim and I became very close in the past month. When he first started working at my store, the security guard and I had a lot of fun at his expense because we thought he...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I dated someone who I now realize probably drugged me the whole time I was with him. I remember one time for sure, but when I think back on it, it had to have happened several time...
    layladay layladay 36-40, F Aug 28

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    whenever i try to please my parents by striving for my best in many ways, i would always end up in an argument with them, said being too immature. i don't think i am immature, why...
    yunisaurus yunisaurus 13-15, F Aug 22

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    I am 30 and still single and it's SO painful! :( I feel like I'm at a very low point in my life and I need friends, someone to listen to me and actually care and someone genuine...
    Singlegirl30 Singlegirl30 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    I don't know who I'm anymore or why I'm here, and I'm scared of becoming the monster I was running from.
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F Sep 9

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    Hey everyone. I just want to say I'm sorry for the whole "I'm not a nudist!" rant. When I was typing out my experience for "I Didnt Join Ep To Meet Perverts" I added the nudist...
    SkinnyDipperGirl SkinnyDipperGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm not gonna judge anyone of you, you have your reasons. I talked for a girl (or he/she/it) for a whole year before I found out that this person was fake. Found her on a gay site...
    Revelations90 Revelations90 22-25, F 17 hrs ago

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    I am a widow and my life is very lonely.I lost my husband 5 yrs ago and life has not been good since.He was my soulmate,best friend and he was a wonderful man.I now sit in front of...
    pat533 pat533 51-55, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    New I don't want anyone to get offended by me using this term to describe a gay girls tendecy to gravitate towards me, but everyone around me is ok with it, so Ep shouldn't be too...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm not one of these girls who needs a man. I'm someone who is aware they have someone out there who loves them and I currently still believe in that. I'm fading fast though. I'm...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 day ago

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    I'm 55 years old and I've always lived the Straight life. I was married for 17 years, was in another LTR for 10 years, but I never stopped thinking about other men. My first sexual...
    HawkeyeBear HawkeyeBear 51-55, M Aug 20

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    I wrote a story a few years ago about being jealous of my best friend who was pregnant with her second child and about my fear that I may never have children. Here we are 3 years...
    thinkingmythoughts thinkingmythoughts 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I think the universe thinks I like crazies . I ended my shortest relationship within Two Weeks, or maybe longer because he wouldn't let me leave. He showed up in my town searching...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Well. He isn't super famous. He plays for the Green Bay Packers. Second string I think. And we didn't date. He wanted to, but I just wasn't attracted to him for some reason...He...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F Sep 8

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    What kind of mental disorder is this? I pretend that I am a celebrity re-acting their movie lines as them. I've been doing this since I was eight years old. It first started...
    Heaven360 Heaven360 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I started working at a bar a few months ago. It was around the same time I moved in with my girlfriend of four years. Around the same time another girl started frequenting the bar...
    Mherman87 Mherman87 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I started working at a bar a few months ago. It was around the same time I moved in with my girlfriend of four years. Around the same time another girl started frequenting the bar...
    Mherman87 Mherman87 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    Within the first week of our relationship my ex-boyfriend said to me "if you're going to be with me you aren't going to have time for anyone but me." This was a red flag to me, but...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I know I'm crazy lol! People who think they're normal though are the real psychos...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm always alone and nothing knowing what I'm doing i sometimes feel I'm going crazy at some point because my baby muffin girl left me :( she was the only person can bring sun...
    BomerMan BomerMan 16-17, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I don't think I would ever find that. I always have to act like somebody else to impress him. When I'm myself it's all weird So I act like somebody else and dress like somebody...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm 15 years young and understanding how many fake people there is out there . who can you trust truely? That is a question you shouldn't ask to someone real
    VictoriaKeepItReal VictoriaKeepItReal 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I constantly pretend that I am a movie star or celebrity, acting out their movie lines. You would think that I am acting as myself but I am not. I act out their scenes as if I am...
    Heaven360 Heaven360 18-21, F Sep 7

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    So my 'boyfriend', emphasis on the boy just broke up with me. I'm really glad actually. I'm so glad because when we were physically together I realized how irritable and intolerant...
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always say I feel like I'm married to someone I hate because I don't particularly like myself and I can't escape myself. It's really hard to be in this position and I hate the...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 21

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    Im a 16 year old girl who pretends to be someone else in my mind. I started doing this when I was like 12 or 13. I pretend to be this really beautiful girl named Lily who has...
    ABB98 ABB98 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    Nobody knows the real me.. My family doesn't know the pain that's inside. I hide it behind a smile; It's funny how so much pain Can be hidden behind one fake smile. They think I'm...
    ravenzewolf ravenzewolf 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I'm awake and open to chatting , if interested feel free to shoot me a message
    graywolf558 graywolf558 26-30, M Aug 22

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    So I'm a 17 year old guy who was pretending to be a girl that I know in real life. I really don't know why I did it, I guess I wanted attention, because she's really cute looking...
    GuyHOLLER GuyHOLLER 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I'm friends with a lot of a guys none of them like me more than that.
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    All I want is to talk to someone who understands what I'm going through or can help me. I hate feeling alone like nobody actually cares about what I'm feeling
    yourbeautiful123 yourbeautiful123 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    PLEASE!!!! I'm so alone at times
    kittyluv78 kittyluv78 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm wide awake :) if you wanna talk message me!!
    JoseHernandez17 JoseHernandez17 16-17, M Sep 2

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    I'm 29 and haven't had a friend (or group of friends) in years. It's crazy how time has gone by and I still haven't been able to overcome this obstacle that others don't think...
    jab321 jab321 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 6

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    How hard is it to find someone who loves you for you and not just sex? Ugh, people are just.. Bleh right now.
    Abbyy99 Abbyy99 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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