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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I married someone who is 32 years older

    than me. Everything happened so fast between us. ... we were both clinging to each other out of fear and other issues. We met in detox ... we're recovering addicts. From the moment we met we spent everyday together for the first 6 months. .. then we found out we were pregnant so...
    mom2dotnjr mom2dotnjr 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2015

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I find that's what I should do really.that my religion is right I should wait until I'm married to do it because then I know I'm with someone who loves me and we will be together...
    LovingMusicForever LovingMusicForever 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Most of the time I'm a fail simple kind of man. But sometimes I can be extremely complicated also. My emotions are what complicates things because I'm highly emotional with certain...
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    This is exactly what i want,been wanting.I find it really hard to believe that this person is real though.Id like to but,why would they?I wouldn't,if I'm honest irregardless of how...
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    Nmetb Nmetb 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Fluxus Fluxus 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Antcraft101 Antcraft101 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am with the love of my life. In 2002 we were good friends, then dated each other for a while, fell in love, only for us to get into a huge argument, part and go our separate...
    MartiniMagic MartiniMagic 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Ohhhhhhh damn I'm in a worst situation someone could ever be!!!!! Nope I don't fall in love with someone.... Someone else fall in love with me!!!! Ok I was chatting with one of...
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    I wish I had someone to share all my worries and complaints with, who wouldn't see me as a weakling after hearing all my problems. It's so hard to bottle everything in and pretend...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 1 Response Jan 28

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    I had never really met a person who had made me question everything about myself-my job, the way I view my relationships with my family, the way I view myself, my anxiety, my...
    sweetsexxylexy sweetsexxylexy 22-25, F Jan 28

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    Before we even for together, Ik she was crazy but I still wanted get, I was very attractive too her. I'm in love with her, and basically she runins out relationship
    Legend1boyy Legend1boyy 18-21 Jan 27

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    I still feel like I'm dating them seeing as they turn to me every time they fancy going a bit crazy. It's exhausting.
    Serena6669 Serena6669 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm not going to pretend to be someone I'm not... just to make others happy. I'm going to be myself...that should be enough. If that isn't good enough for you...that's too bad...
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