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I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (2)

    Yes, i married him to help him stay in the country !!! I believe everyone should have a chance to a better life. He is a hard working person and a really good one too. When I did it, i took the time to explain that I didn't want anything serious and that I was doing it only...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    He Ia a Good Person But...

    I married someone hoping that the love would grow. But it never did. It's been 16 years now and I am ready to get a divorce. All I can say is NEVER EVER marry someone unless you are truly "in love" with them. I have been feeling so alone for the past 6 of these years...
    Suzette Suzette 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I Might, I'm Worried

     I might... I love my fiance to death! Right now. But I'm so worried we might not hold out in the future. We don't seem to have a "common thread" It's not that there is anything I DON'T like about him, and it isn't that we've ever fought over anything. I'm just...
    CinderellaDreamer CinderellaDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    T Should I Do!!!!

    I married someone who i'm not attracted to physically and intimately!!! I married him to help him but i don't love him. The problem is that he his deeply in love with. He is a very good person, kind,generous and i know he'll always be there for  me. I just don't feel a thing...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I Know It's My Fault..

    5 years ago I married someone I knew I didn't love. I "liked" him and I needed to be married (the reason is too long to explain) at the time so I did it and I thought liking him would be enough. Well, we didn't even have sex on our honeymoon and as time has gone by...
    PJ6599 PJ6599 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I got married at 26, living in my parents house,

    and my mom and I didn't get along. I felt she was controlling and woo ride too damn much. She still does, but I only have to deal with her and my dad once a year when they come on "vacation" and my dad does a project for my house. Anyway, my hubby's a good guy, but is kinda...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I'm sorry for my bad grammar but here I go. Ok so I am in love with this amazing guy who is so sweet and gentle and the most beautiful blue eyes and basically loved him since I was...
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    Is there anyone who's friend recently committed suicide, because my friend killed herself and now I'm all alone without any IRL friends. I'm so alone and depressed about everything...
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    He was just too immature and I'm just realizing it now. He won't move on because he has to blame someone and so he'll harbor hate for me. I'm not saying I didn't do anything wrong...
    captivating23 captivating23 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    There's no need to talk, I just want to feel close to someone and not be alone when I'm stuck down in that bad place in my mind.
    BriarRose96 BriarRose96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really, really, really like him. I'd always have this uncomfortable, fluttery feeling in my chest whenever I see him and hear his voice and laugh and damn I'm so whipped. Here's...
    socialcasualty101 socialcasualty101 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i am a "chubby" "husky" (or any variety of fat euphemisms) girl. boys never paid any attention to me as a teen and I had many one date experiences where they didn't return my texts...
    gentle89 gentle89 22-25 2 days ago

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    Do you want to speak to the manager or someone who know's what's going on?
    seniordingdong seniordingdong 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    You haven't experienced awkward until you try to tickle someone who isn't ticklish.
    seniordingdong seniordingdong 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I really didn't mean to post that yet not sure what I did to do it. Dang my purpose in writing it was because I am in a bad marriage and I'm not the person I was before I started...
    raven1221 raven1221 46-50, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am really not sure if I can do this or not but I've got to release some of the overwhelming feelings I'm feeling right now. I'm 50 years old and got married 5 years ago. I was...
    raven1221 raven1221 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    I have gone through a lot of changes lately. I am getting married and I am beginning to fall for someone else. I know that my person will always win. If I had to choose I would...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    When things get extremely difficult or beyond great, I really wish i have her by my side.. I remember she didnt need much words to understand me.. There were times, I felt that she...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    It's like being on a long plane ride and I panic. I need someone to distract me. Not have an in depth conversation or someone to tell me things I already know and will never feel...
    rick4545 rick4545 36-40, M Aug 23

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    they always refuse to see to the other side of someone suffering from both internal and external conflict and then they wind up judging them. I find that most of them like the...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Last night I spent the evening with a friend at a nice martini bar. He was promoting his business and I was lending a hand. After he was finished we hung out with his wife and her...
    Emergingsoul Emergingsoul 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I want a boyfriend that's 14 I'm not skinny but not fat, long distance talking is fine just someone who well love me in life I'm interested in cars and video games message me if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Now it's just constant lying.... why?? Because no one gives a fck you just spend this time trying to get someone to listen but they don't care.... I've tried so many times to talk...
    GrandmamaTemptationCx GrandmamaTemptationCx 70+, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    I never found the class clown to ever be funny. Even as a little girl, I could see right through them. Like if you're trying to be funny, it's not funny. So l even had a problem...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I really want to kill myself. My life is going on horribly. My mother has psychotic depression, she has been on an affair for 9 years & has just recently stopped after being...
    mangoseed mangoseed 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    well I'm not exactly a mentor but in order for my dad to let me keep this account I have to have an online mentor. My dad spanks me and would allow you to discipline and set...
    andyjam561998 andyjam561998 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I might be young, and many people say that at my age it's best to just stay away from relationships, but despite all that, I still want someone to like me for who I am. I see so...
    lilipad826 lilipad826 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm a dad of two boys and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too...
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking 36-40, M Aug 21

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    Everyday is a constant struggle because my life for now feels empty with meaning. For the longest time I didn't have direction on who I was going to be. I was lost. Then I found my...
    Stormeyes Stormeyes 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I'm an almost aggressively opinionated person. As a staunch atheist, far left feminist, and a very outspoken out homosexual I think rights of the minorities is the equality most...
    SolarusXD SolarusXD 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 20

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    Some times you may stop and think, "maybe this isn't who I'm meant to be" and that's perfectly okay. Finding yourself and exactly what you're meant to do doesn't happen over night...
    lightseekingsoul lightseekingsoul 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Confessions of a Habitual Apologizer: I’m sorry. I say it when I bump into someone at the store, when my card doesn’t swipe the first time, and when my phone cuts out. In...
    MissMimiMusic MissMimiMusic 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    I loved my first love and even after10 yrs I m not able to forget her worst that if she happens to be seen the before night I get wet can anyone explain that
    Girish1289 Girish1289 31-35, M Aug 18

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    This is gonna be long but this is my experience - my story. I come from a complicated family background. You can say I don't know much about my parent's stories since they never...
    Abcak937 Abcak937 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I need someone who will always be there for me and care about me and my child. If you are genuine and nice message me!! Mostly girls but guys your welcome to message too just don't...
    Baileymauto19 Baileymauto19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Were we friends? Were we lovers? Did we ever become more than just instances of thought sharing? Did you ever feel that thoughts and feelings were reciprocated across the miles...
    LastGirlScout LastGirlScout 31-35, F Aug 17

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    And I'm loving every single second of it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Honestly I'm so sad. I'm always sad. If you ask me if I'm ok I'll get mad. Because no.. I'm not ok. I'm never ok. I can't remember the last time I was ok... It seems like such a...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm never good enough! Can't wait to fall for someone who cares and is not just after one thing!! :/
    chantellexox chantellexox 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm gay. she's my best friend and straight. I love her so much, but she will never love me the same way.
    Kandtheconstellations Kandtheconstellations 18-21, F Aug 14

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    A few months ago, after watching some documentaries and reading some books, and spending weeks lost in thought, I went through a quick, chaotic phase in my life. It was almost like...
    wanderingmind86 wanderingmind86 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 13

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