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I Married the Wrong Person

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    The Only Choice Made By Me And A Wrong One Is My Man

    I gave up everything for him - Name, religion, parents, friends, career and lived under every rule he made for me under every circumstance thats good and bad. Had 3 children when he wanted though I was not ready, for the sake of his parents. And now he hits me calls words and...
    hebajanu hebajanu 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    Mr Wrong?

    I am a 29 years old married woman, I have been married nearly ten years now my husband is Arabic Muslim and I am from UK with a Christian background. We have one daughter aged eight. At first he was very attentive and charming and kind and would do anything for me but a few years...
    helenoftroy80 helenoftroy80 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    I Married the Wrong Person.

    I KNOW I MARRIED THE WRONG  PERSON BECAUSE I DONT HAVE FEELING'S FOR HIM ANY MORE..I USED TO DATE THIS ONE GUY HE WAS MY FIRST TRUE LOVE EVEN THOUGH WE WERE LIKE 17..I LOVED HIM ALOT AND STILL DO.WE BROKE UP AND WENT OUR SEPARET WAYS NOW I REGRET LEAVING HIM AND MARRING THE...
    hoping4amiracle hoping4amiracle 18-21, F 6 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Too Little Too Late

    I always thought that divorce would never be an issue for me because I waited long enough and got married at 28.  I have discovered that I was foolish to believe that.  "I'll try to make a long story short... I met a man that I thought I had so much in common...
    scared023 scared023 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Twice!

    That's not married the SAME wrong person twice; but made the mistake twice... My first wife and I swhouldnever have married full stop. Never. We are simply not compatible - three children as a result of it; wouldn't change a thing if time travel was possible and we are friends...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M Jul 18, 2010

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    I Really Don't Know What To Do......

    When i was in high school i dated this guy for 3 years. we were in love. when i graduated, my mom (parents divorced)sent me to live up north with my aunt to seperate us and so we wouldn't "sneak of and get married." hindsight  he was so handsome, we had unbelievable sex...
    acharley49 acharley49 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I loved my husband blindly

    for 3 years before marriage at the last year I start to feel like we can't live with each other we are totally different from each other. I told him that we have to broke up because we are not able to do it. I thought that it will be very happy news for him because I was...
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Why Do I Keep Going Back To Him.

    I have been married for twenty-five years - off and on.  The first time we broke up six years into the marriage, but we had two kids together and so I went back.  The second time we broke up after the twenty year mark, but then went back after almost 18 months of being apart...
    mathina mathina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Did I Marry The Right Guy For Me?

    Hi All, I really need some advice on my situation. I think I already know the answer but it helps reaffirm it when it comes from other ppl. Here goes: So I have been married for 3 years and have 2 beautiful kids. We have been together for 7...
    KCgirl80 KCgirl80 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Just Another Bad Choice I Made

    Me and my husband had a fall out again last nigt. Why? Because I got fed up when he came home and asked me 'whats for supper'.  Ok, you think it is no big deal, but here is the story. He refused to even attempt to make us a dinner, or make me a breakfast. He will get take...
    puggy puggy 36-40 17 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Wrong Person

    I often wonder how do so many people make same mistake of marrying wrong people? The only explanation I have is that we all gotta learn our life lessons and these wrong people are the best teachers for us. I don't want to be with my wrong person anymore, but I can't leave. We...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    Knew From the Start...iwa

     I had no peace about this relationship even though I went forward and married him anyway.  It has been four years.  I was not physically attracted to my husband and I am still not.  Don't get me wrong, he is attractive, but I am just not into him even he...
    actress123 actress123 31-35 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    I married the wrong person

    and I learned from that mistake. There wasn't anything wrong with her, it's just we weren't a good fit. It took years to realize this and even more years to actually do something about it. Anyways, I'm divorced now and I'm quite happy. I'm not sure how my ex-Wife feels about...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    Im Different Than When I Got Married

    i am not the same person and neither is he we have kids now and my likes/dislikes are not the same as when we met/married he is pretty much the same....   not what i want anymore
    cemlillian cemlillian 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    I Got Married, But I Didn't Get A Wife.

    I got married just 7 months back....We stayed together for 2 weeks after marriage as we had 2 weeks leave for the marriage. During this 2 weeks, she stayed at my house only for 2 days. Rest of the days we were in a place that she liked. After those 2 weeks she left to her work...
    rahuldevtechie rahuldevtechie 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    My ex boyfriend lied to me for four years about being married. I can't believe I was so stupid as to believe he was single. He won't stop calling me or trying to contact me now...
    Mimimanxcat Mimimanxcat 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    Last year I got so hung up on this person I liked! The more they talked to me the more I fell for them! They had an amazing personality ! I can't even describe it! They did amazing...
    deetb deetb 18-21, F Sep 11

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    This wasn't always the case, but unfortunately after being cheated on by every woman I was in a serious relationship with, I have discovered that I would rather be alone than in a...
    CL4234 CL4234 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    yeah my ex cheated on me so its better to be alone :)
    berealistic81 berealistic81 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    yeah my ex cheated on me so its better to be alone :)
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 5 Responses Sep 2

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    I have had a mixed experience of life. People who are true are important to me. I have two really good friends, Claire and Pierre. I hope for their advice when I make new...
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I want and need some female feet in my face :]
    Bbailey84 Bbailey84 26-30 Sep 11

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    My coworker Tim and I became very close in the past month. When he first started working at my store, the security guard and I had a lot of fun at his expense because we thought he...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Dark grey with red purple and pale Everyone i loved i would always fail The cold made me scared, the heat made me angry Make me, make me, make me, make me I shouted at the sky, i...
    ericramone ericramone 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I trusted a guy who said he loved me and would be there forever. He knew without a doubt I was the one. He met my family and close friends and i introduced him to my children...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I don't understand what is wrong with people wanting to share their girls with others to get 'turned on', to have countless affairs (I.e. Cheating), lying,... etc. I don't know why...
    StupidM StupidM 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm Married for almost 7 years, my wife suffers from CP (Cerebral Palsy), I remember falling in love and planing our wedding together and I would noticed that she would stress out...
    joepepe25 joepepe25 31-35, M Sep 2

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    I AM AN ENFJThe GiverYou strive to maintain harmony in relationships, and you usually succeed.Articulate and enthusiastic, you are good at making personal connections.Sometimes you...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Addiction runs in my family, in one form or another – typically many forms at once. On my bio mother's side, every person is addicted to many somethings. It was such a natural...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I'm Married for almost 7 years, my wife suffers from CP (Cerebral Palsy), I remember falling in love and planing our wedding together, I would noticed she would stress out over...
    joepepe25 joepepe25 31-35, M Sep 2

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    I led a rather sheltered early life. I am one of those rare people who had both parents and a rather .,normal childhood. As a result I was somewhat backward even as an adult. One...
    ringstar ringstar 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 5

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    It's weird being married and living with someone but to look at them and think to yourself I really don't know this person. I know what I want to think is real. I know what I need...
    NotSoPerfect777 NotSoPerfect777 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 6

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    I have been involved with a married guy since the last 6 months. I have always managed to stay away from taken men. But failed this time. Innocent friendship of two workmates just...
    Lovelast Lovelast 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    Should I stay or should I go? Couple of years ago I thought I was dying. I couldn't fall asleep, sometimes for a whole night, and when eventually I was so exhausted that I would...
    benharmon benharmon 41-45, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have done this all wrong the exspiriences are all wrong I didn't mean do any if then I am not married
    chloe4evwr22 chloe4evwr22 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    Hi everyone - I am 32, he is 51. We've been involved in an affair for 4 years now, and that's what brings me here. My birthday - which is also his wedding anniversary - is next...
    kd0910 kd0910 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm 24 years old, married, and have 3 kids. My children are my life, there all I have left in this world. I'm married to a guy that drinks every other day. He suffers from anxiety...
    Precious2009 Precious2009 22-25, F Sep 9

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    After being married for 17 years with 2 beautiful children, my husband left. Mid life crisis I suppose. I suffered on an emotional roller coaster for a few years trying to figure...
    lrj519 lrj519 46-50, F 27 Responses Aug 27

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    I was married for 20 years .. This last Feb my wife texts me the famous " I love you but I don't know if I'm in love with you line" I spend the next two week groveling and asking...
    legokenny1972 legokenny1972 41-45, M 9 Responses Sep 1

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    I love my wife so much, she is the one person in my life that can unknowingly force me to the straight and narrow. It's a conviction, she makes me want to be a better man, even...
    JohnathanR JohnathanR 41-45, M 5 Responses Sep 7

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    My life is not perfect but then what is a perfect life. It would be perfect enough for me if i just lived the life i wanted, I am married, i have children, but it took me this long...
    womenneeded womenneeded 41-45, F Sep 11

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    If you get married to be happy, you're getting married for the wrong reason. Marriage is a beautiful experience but a source of endless happiness it is not.
    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I have a peaceful phlegmatic temperament, I found this description after taking an online personality test. It is me almost to the letter. It explains why I'm so forgiving and able...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    I love my wife, but there are things that she can't or won't do for me. I've take to her and nothing changes. The married woman I talk to always compliments me and makes me feel...
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M Aug 21

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    I have only been married a mere 4 months and already I am feeling out of my comfort zone. I'm 33 and have one child from a previous relationship but this is my first marriage. My...
    Piperlou Piperlou 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Married 25 years. So I am trying to recognize that what he really wants is for me to "go away" and all I really want is to connect. Our ongoing battle has really been about my...
    Sueg323 Sueg323 51-55, F Sep 11

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    I have been married for 10 years, together for 14. My husband and I have two children together. Almost our entire relationship he has worked two jobs, almost never home and even...
    dragonflydreams dragonflydreams 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I'm trying to end it. I just can't. He's just the best I think its because it kinda turns me on us sneeking around. But I kno its wrong. I need to settle down and get a man myself...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Gone were the days when I just love doing things all by myself. At 26, I discovered that I wanted to share my life with my better half. How beautiful it is to have a family of...
    Blehzyl26 Blehzyl26 26-30, F