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I Married the Wrong Person

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    I Got Married, But I Didn't Get A Wife.

    I got married just 7 months back....We stayed together for 2 weeks after marriage as we had 2 weeks leave for the marriage. During this 2 weeks, she stayed at my house only for 2 days. Rest of the days we were in a place that she liked. After those 2 weeks she left to her work...
    rahuldevtechie rahuldevtechie 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    Mr Wrong?

    I am a 29 years old married woman, I have been married nearly ten years now my husband is Arabic Muslim and I am from UK with a Christian background. We have one daughter aged eight. At first he was very attentive and charming and kind and would do anything for me but a few years...
    helenoftroy80 helenoftroy80 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    I Really Don't Know What To Do......

    When i was in high school i dated this guy for 3 years. we were in love. when i graduated, my mom (parents divorced)sent me to live up north with my aunt to seperate us and so we wouldn't "sneak of and get married." hindsight  he was so handsome, we had unbelievable sex...
    acharley49 acharley49 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    It's just too hard to live without love at home.

    .. It drains you, it beats you down, even I've got my children's love, though no spousal love. How do we do it? How do we go on with it?!
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    The Only Choice Made By Me And A Wrong One Is My Man

    I gave up everything for him - Name, religion, parents, friends, career and lived under every rule he made for me under every circumstance thats good and bad. Had 3 children when he wanted though I was not ready, for the sake of his parents. And now he hits me calls words and...
    hebajanu hebajanu 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    Wrong Person

    I often wonder how do so many people make same mistake of marrying wrong people? The only explanation I have is that we all gotta learn our life lessons and these wrong people are the best teachers for us. I don't want to be with my wrong person anymore, but I can't leave. We...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    There once was a man;

    who went by the name “Smitty,” he didn’t have much, but what he did have he held great value for. Smitty had a classic car that he bought brand new, back in a younger and happier time in his life. He loved that car but made a decision one day that he would like to find its...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Im Different Than When I Got Married

    i am not the same person and neither is he we have kids now and my likes/dislikes are not the same as when we met/married he is pretty much the same....   not what i want anymore
    cemlillian cemlillian 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    We married after knowing each other

    for a few months. Big mistake. I don't know the person I thought I knew and now we have a family. My thoughts are unclear and this is hunting me. I don't know what to do or where to start.
    Beyondthelines Beyondthelines 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Why Do I Keep Going Back To Him.

    I have been married for twenty-five years - off and on.  The first time we broke up six years into the marriage, but we had two kids together and so I went back.  The second time we broke up after the twenty year mark, but then went back after almost 18 months of being apart...
    mathina mathina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Knew From the Start...iwa

     I had no peace about this relationship even though I went forward and married him anyway.  It has been four years.  I was not physically attracted to my husband and I am still not.  Don't get me wrong, he is attractive, but I am just not into him even he...
    actress123 actress123 31-35 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Too Little Too Late

    I always thought that divorce would never be an issue for me because I waited long enough and got married at 28.  I have discovered that I was foolish to believe that.  "I'll try to make a long story short... I met a man that I thought I had so much in common...
    scared023 scared023 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Twice!

    That's not married the SAME wrong person twice; but made the mistake twice... My first wife and I swhouldnever have married full stop. Never. We are simply not compatible - three children as a result of it; wouldn't change a thing if time travel was possible and we are friends...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M Jul 18, 2010

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    I married the wrong person

    and I learned from that mistake. There wasn't anything wrong with her, it's just we weren't a good fit. It took years to realize this and even more years to actually do something about it. Anyways, I'm divorced now and I'm quite happy. I'm not sure how my ex-Wife feels about...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    Nothing in common at all.

    .. Never assumes responsibility for any thing he has ever done.. He places blame on any one or any thing other than him self and therefore never learns any life lessons.. So frustrating to live with someone so clueless.. WTH!
    melissa4eva melissa4eva 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Just Another Bad Choice I Made

    Me and my husband had a fall out again last nigt. Why? Because I got fed up when he came home and asked me 'whats for supper'.  Ok, you think it is no big deal, but here is the story. He refused to even attempt to make us a dinner, or make me a breakfast. He will get take...
    puggy puggy 36-40 17 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I Married the Wrong Person.

    I KNOW I MARRIED THE WRONG  PERSON BECAUSE I DONT HAVE FEELING'S FOR HIM ANY MORE..I USED TO DATE THIS ONE GUY HE WAS MY FIRST TRUE LOVE EVEN THOUGH WE WERE LIKE 17..I LOVED HIM ALOT AND STILL DO.WE BROKE UP AND WENT OUR SEPARET WAYS NOW I REGRET LEAVING HIM AND MARRING THE...
    hoping4amiracle hoping4amiracle 18-21, F 6 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Did I Marry The Right Guy For Me?

    Hi All, I really need some advice on my situation. I think I already know the answer but it helps reaffirm it when it comes from other ppl. Here goes: So I have been married for 3 years and have 2 beautiful kids. We have been together for 7...
    KCgirl80 KCgirl80 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    I loved my husband blindly

    for 3 years before marriage at the last year I start to feel like we can't live with each other we are totally different from each other. I told him that we have to broke up because we are not able to do it. I thought that it will be very happy news for him because I was...
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    .....and twice !!! Imagine

    that what an blockhead i am ughhhh being me !!!! 😣
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I realize that after 14 years of marriage the romance and the excitement fades a bit but that doesn't mean everyday has to be a dull routine or a pair of old socks. For a while...
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    Hell of a day yesterday..so much conflict..Fam issues among others.I'm not use to speaking my mind and saying what i really wanna say to people for fear of backlash i guess and it...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    just contemplating and realise that maybe i was wrong indeed...
    hope88full hope88full 36-40, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I'm married is i I'm married and old is it wrong to chat with teenagers ???
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    I am nineteen, married to someone who is 31 years older than me. I got married 3 years ago and have 2 children with him and pregnant with the third. His children from his first...
    Mira97 Mira97 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I didn't think like that until I got married. Lol
    unappreciatedloney unappreciatedloney 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    She was different back in college. Very friendly and full of fun. After our marriage she still is friendly and fun. But with everyone else! She just doesnt have any time for me...
    fantomy fantomy 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    For the whole world, I have a perfect marriage. She is very caring and friendly with everyone and tends to thier needs. Everyone loves her and she truly is a great person and a...
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    I have been dating the same woman on and off for 9 years. We have always had the same exact problems (not really meant for each other, way too many differences, basically we differ...
    trustinchange trustinchange 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Over the last 7 months I hav started a new job and met a bunch of new people including one particular person. This person is not only a lot older than me but also married, he and I...
    lebagal lebagal 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I was blindsided one day when my husband called me out of the blue crying and told me that he had messed around and got another woman pregnant. He was away from me training in...
    forty6and2 forty6and2 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    kariz1234 kariz1234 22-25 5 days ago

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    ...and I'm totally fine with it. I was raised by a single father who was never married so I grew up knowing that there's more to life than saying "I do." Plus, there are so many...
    SunshineMel SunshineMel 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm almost 30 now and still not married. Really proud of it too because I have so many personal problems that I can barely take care of myself you know. If I bring another person...
    spark16 spark16 26-30, M a week ago

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