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I Married the Wrong Person

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    I loved my husband blindly

    for 3 years before marriage at the last year I start to feel like we can't live with each other we are totally different from each other. I told him that we have to broke up because we are not able to do it. I thought that it will be very happy news for him because I was...
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why Do I Keep Going Back To Him.

    I have been married for twenty-five years - off and on.  The first time we broke up six years into the marriage, but we had two kids together and so I went back.  The second time we broke up after the twenty year mark, but then went back after almost 18 months of being apart...
    mathina mathina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    I Got Married, But I Didn't Get A Wife.

    I got married just 7 months back....We stayed together for 2 weeks after marriage as we had 2 weeks leave for the marriage. During this 2 weeks, she stayed at my house only for 2 days. Rest of the days we were in a place that she liked. After those 2 weeks she left to her work...
    rahuldevtechie rahuldevtechie 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    Just Another Bad Choice I Made

    Me and my husband had a fall out again last nigt. Why? Because I got fed up when he came home and asked me 'whats for supper'.  Ok, you think it is no big deal, but here is the story. He refused to even attempt to make us a dinner, or make me a breakfast. He will get take...
    puggy puggy 36-40 17 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Wrong Person

    I often wonder how do so many people make same mistake of marrying wrong people? The only explanation I have is that we all gotta learn our life lessons and these wrong people are the best teachers for us. I don't want to be with my wrong person anymore, but I can't leave. We...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    Im Different Than When I Got Married

    i am not the same person and neither is he we have kids now and my likes/dislikes are not the same as when we met/married he is pretty much the same....   not what i want anymore
    cemlillian cemlillian 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    I Really Don't Know What To Do......

    When i was in high school i dated this guy for 3 years. we were in love. when i graduated, my mom (parents divorced)sent me to live up north with my aunt to seperate us and so we wouldn't "sneak of and get married." hindsight  he was so handsome, we had unbelievable sex...
    acharley49 acharley49 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Did I Marry The Right Guy For Me?

    Hi All, I really need some advice on my situation. I think I already know the answer but it helps reaffirm it when it comes from other ppl. Here goes: So I have been married for 3 years and have 2 beautiful kids. We have been together for 7...
    KCgirl80 KCgirl80 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Too Little Too Late

    I always thought that divorce would never be an issue for me because I waited long enough and got married at 28.  I have discovered that I was foolish to believe that.  "I'll try to make a long story short... I met a man that I thought I had so much in common...
    scared023 scared023 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Knew From the Start...iwa

     I had no peace about this relationship even though I went forward and married him anyway.  It has been four years.  I was not physically attracted to my husband and I am still not.  Don't get me wrong, he is attractive, but I am just not into him even he...
    actress123 actress123 31-35 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    I Married the Wrong Person.

    I KNOW I MARRIED THE WRONG  PERSON BECAUSE I DONT HAVE FEELING'S FOR HIM ANY MORE..I USED TO DATE THIS ONE GUY HE WAS MY FIRST TRUE LOVE EVEN THOUGH WE WERE LIKE 17..I LOVED HIM ALOT AND STILL DO.WE BROKE UP AND WENT OUR SEPARET WAYS NOW I REGRET LEAVING HIM AND MARRING THE...
    hoping4amiracle hoping4amiracle 18-21, F 6 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Mr Wrong?

    I am a 29 years old married woman, I have been married nearly ten years now my husband is Arabic Muslim and I am from UK with a Christian background. We have one daughter aged eight. At first he was very attentive and charming and kind and would do anything for me but a few years...
    helenoftroy80 helenoftroy80 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    The Only Choice Made By Me And A Wrong One Is My Man

    I gave up everything for him - Name, religion, parents, friends, career and lived under every rule he made for me under every circumstance thats good and bad. Had 3 children when he wanted though I was not ready, for the sake of his parents. And now he hits me calls words and...
    hebajanu hebajanu 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    Twice!

    That's not married the SAME wrong person twice; but made the mistake twice... My first wife and I swhouldnever have married full stop. Never. We are simply not compatible - three children as a result of it; wouldn't change a thing if time travel was possible and we are friends...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M Jul 18, 2010

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    I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. That's the same as wasting energy on something that's never going to work out. However, people in this society choose being with...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Yeah... talk about a waste of time or low self esteem after the break up with the wrong person... for me being single has taught me more about who I am and what I want in life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Being With The Wrong Person... Most people can relate to over-staying in a relationship with a partner who was not right for them, who displayed major red flags, or treated them...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 7

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    If you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you would love the right person.
    QueenAwesomePants QueenAwesomePants 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    Sometimes loving the wrong person can teach you how to appreciate the right person when they come along.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    My boyfriend and I were friends before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go...
    Taylorscolors Taylorscolors 16-17 1 hr ago

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    If I am alone, I don't have to worry about others, if I am with a person that isn't for me, I have to worry about when I won't have to worry about that person again
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M Mar 21

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    Whenever someone has a negative influence me I tend to slowly drift away. I don't like being around mean people that hurt me. I'm planning on moving out of my parents house when I...
    RainbowDalia RainbowDalia 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Everyone of us suffer sometimes. We can feel lost, we can feel alone. Life has to be lived in couple, but sometimes it is worst then being alone. Since I know I cannot discern...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Mar 24

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I don't get it why some people try to hide their real selves just to fit in, yeah fitting in because of that feels good but it won't last for a long time. But it will feel great...
    sleepingbloop sleepingbloop 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Easier said than done, for me (i'm also a member of the group I Want To Follow My Own Advice). Yes, I can laugh about it.
    justbeit justbeit 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    The best way to be happy with someone is to learn to be happy alone. That way the company will be a matter of choice.. Not necessity.
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    For THREE months now... I've been dealing with this dude. You got a old *** 38 year old that you claim you are using only for her money, car and you claim she take care of you. I'm...
    NeneTaurean NeneTaurean 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am at such a loss..confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I don't feel like I can wait any longer. It's not like relationships are hard for me to find, but I don't want to waste my time with someone I'm not meant to be with. Being a...
    ashalew ashalew 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I'm married but lonely. I have no friends, no one I can trust. There's something's I don't want to tell my husband but I have no one else to talk to. The next person I could talk...
    2O5E4 2O5E4 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Get a dictionary, look up "Anal Retentive" and you'll find my smiling picture there! Even as a kid, I was never a slob. In fact on my first day of school I was complimented by my...
    Beaver318 Beaver318 36-40, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    If I didn't get married my family would disown me, I would be put on the shelf if I am still a bachelor at the age of thirty. So in a nutshell I will be getting married.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    ***This is Long, Please be Warned!**** Well, I’m stumped. I have been trying to figure out what is going on inside my head and my heart for the last year now. I still can’t...
    MINWILD MINWILD 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    We fell in love during the summer, she was pregnant by the end of July. We both knew we had something special, even though I was 17 and she was 16. We married one week after my...
    SamanthaLei SamanthaLei 46-50, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I have been with both my girlfriend and my boyfriend for a little more than a year. They are currently engaged but will be getting married soon.. I know that they love me and I...
    MDP4EVER MDP4EVER 26-30, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    earlier a post was made that I am married but I am not
    courtneymonkey courtneymonkey 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My fiancé of 30yrs ago I never stopped loving. I'm leaving my husband because he is an alcoholic .. Married 25yrs. I am worried once I move out my affair with my lover will...
    Neelloc Neelloc 51-55 2 hrs ago

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    I know they say to forgive and forget, but, I find it really hard to forgive people who knowingly do things that are wrong, meanwhile, playing the innocent role. These people will...
    NeedMoreSunnyDays NeedMoreSunnyDays 41-45 Mar 31

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    It seems the harder i try with my husband the worse i get hurt. I don't have a clue what to do anymore. This is my second marriage and i have tried like hell to correct my obvious...
    xxImBrokenxx xxImBrokenxx 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I rather get married in court because just the thought of standing in front of people and saying the wrong thing or something goes wrong scares me so much, almost scares me so much...
    Silverfeather1993 Silverfeather1993 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I am 44 years old and I have never been married. I don't know if I have ever even been close. There have been relationships that I have been in that lasted a couple years but we...
    HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I wish women could propose to men for marriage. Because I know if I was the man in the relationship, I would've proposed already. Have you ever just hated yourself and wondered...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Married for 22 years....why? That is right, it is two primary reasons...1) Wonderful daughter and it is my responsibility to keep her world as healthy as possible. Her mother and...
    Therapy4therapist Therapy4therapist 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I have been married for 3 years and for the most part they have been wonderful and great. My husband is so amazing and sweet when I fell for him 6 years ago I knew he would be...
    anchoredwithher anchoredwithher 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm the worst kind of person. You just can't care about me. I'm the kind of person who is kind and sweet. So you wanna care. And then you start caring so you wanna learn more...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I met my first true love in my second year of university. We dated for two years. He was wonderful, kind and thoughtful. I broke up with him, breaking his heart and mine in the...
    garcia78 garcia78 31-35 Mar 20

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    my mom keeps on telling me that she wants a grandchild so she told me to get married.. my best friends who's married and have kids also keep on telling me to have my own family...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F Mar 31

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