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I Married the Wrong Person

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    .....and twice !!! Imagine

    that what an blockhead i am ughhhh being me !!!! 😣
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I Really Don't Know What To Do......

    When i was in high school i dated this guy for 3 years. we were in love. when i graduated, my mom (parents divorced)sent me to live up north with my aunt to seperate us and so we wouldn't "sneak of and get married." hindsight  he was so handsome, we had unbelievable sex...
    acharley49 acharley49 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I married the wrong person

    and I learned from that mistake. There wasn't anything wrong with her, it's just we weren't a good fit. It took years to realize this and even more years to actually do something about it. Anyways, I'm divorced now and I'm quite happy. I'm not sure how my ex-Wife feels about...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    Did I Marry The Right Guy For Me?

    Hi All, I really need some advice on my situation. I think I already know the answer but it helps reaffirm it when it comes from other ppl. Here goes: So I have been married for 3 years and have 2 beautiful kids. We have been together for 7...
    KCgirl80 KCgirl80 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Why Do I Keep Going Back To Him.

    I have been married for twenty-five years - off and on.  The first time we broke up six years into the marriage, but we had two kids together and so I went back.  The second time we broke up after the twenty year mark, but then went back after almost 18 months of being apart...
    mathina mathina 46-50 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Just Another Bad Choice I Made

    Me and my husband had a fall out again last nigt. Why? Because I got fed up when he came home and asked me 'whats for supper'.  Ok, you think it is no big deal, but here is the story. He refused to even attempt to make us a dinner, or make me a breakfast. He will get take...
    puggy puggy 36-40 17 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Too Little Too Late

    I always thought that divorce would never be an issue for me because I waited long enough and got married at 28.  I have discovered that I was foolish to believe that.  "I'll try to make a long story short... I met a man that I thought I had so much in common...
    scared023 scared023 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Wrong Person

    I often wonder how do so many people make same mistake of marrying wrong people? The only explanation I have is that we all gotta learn our life lessons and these wrong people are the best teachers for us. I don't want to be with my wrong person anymore, but I can't leave. We...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    Twice!

    That's not married the SAME wrong person twice; but made the mistake twice... My first wife and I swhouldnever have married full stop. Never. We are simply not compatible - three children as a result of it; wouldn't change a thing if time travel was possible and we are friends...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M Jul 18, 2010

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    Im Different Than When I Got Married

    i am not the same person and neither is he we have kids now and my likes/dislikes are not the same as when we met/married he is pretty much the same....   not what i want anymore
    cemlillian cemlillian 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    I Married the Wrong Person.

    I KNOW I MARRIED THE WRONG  PERSON BECAUSE I DONT HAVE FEELING'S FOR HIM ANY MORE..I USED TO DATE THIS ONE GUY HE WAS MY FIRST TRUE LOVE EVEN THOUGH WE WERE LIKE 17..I LOVED HIM ALOT AND STILL DO.WE BROKE UP AND WENT OUR SEPARET WAYS NOW I REGRET LEAVING HIM AND MARRING THE...
    hoping4amiracle hoping4amiracle 18-21, F 6 Responses May 7, 2009

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    It's just too hard to live without love at home.

    .. It drains you, it beats you down, even I've got my children's love, though no spousal love. How do we do it? How do we go on with it?!
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    I Got Married, But I Didn't Get A Wife.

    I got married just 7 months back....We stayed together for 2 weeks after marriage as we had 2 weeks leave for the marriage. During this 2 weeks, she stayed at my house only for 2 days. Rest of the days we were in a place that she liked. After those 2 weeks she left to her work...
    rahuldevtechie rahuldevtechie 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    The Only Choice Made By Me And A Wrong One Is My Man

    I gave up everything for him - Name, religion, parents, friends, career and lived under every rule he made for me under every circumstance thats good and bad. Had 3 children when he wanted though I was not ready, for the sake of his parents. And now he hits me calls words and...
    hebajanu hebajanu 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2012

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    There once was a man;

    who went by the name “Smitty,” he didn’t have much, but what he did have he held great value for. Smitty had a classic car that he bought brand new, back in a younger and happier time in his life. He loved that car but made a decision one day that he would like to find its...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I loved my husband blindly

    for 3 years before marriage at the last year I start to feel like we can't live with each other we are totally different from each other. I told him that we have to broke up because we are not able to do it. I thought that it will be very happy news for him because I was...
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    Mr Wrong?

    I am a 29 years old married woman, I have been married nearly ten years now my husband is Arabic Muslim and I am from UK with a Christian background. We have one daughter aged eight. At first he was very attentive and charming and kind and would do anything for me but a few years...
    helenoftroy80 helenoftroy80 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    We married after knowing each other

    for a few months. Big mistake. I don't know the person I thought I knew and now we have a family. My thoughts are unclear and this is hunting me. I don't know what to do or where to start.
    Beyondthelines Beyondthelines 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Knew From the Start...iwa

     I had no peace about this relationship even though I went forward and married him anyway.  It has been four years.  I was not physically attracted to my husband and I am still not.  Don't get me wrong, he is attractive, but I am just not into him even he...
    actress123 actress123 31-35 3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Nothing in common at all.

    .. Never assumes responsibility for any thing he has ever done.. He places blame on any one or any thing other than him self and therefore never learns any life lessons.. So frustrating to live with someone so clueless.. WTH!
    melissa4eva melissa4eva 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I'm tired of being alone though
    space4rent space4rent 36-40, F 4 Responses May 13

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    Never again will I allow myself to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't love or respect me. I would rather be alone than to be with someone that is cold and distant with...
    Infiniteblue Infiniteblue 36-40, F 2 Responses May 23

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    yes, because I will always feel like, I missing out on something true
    meliena meliena 18-21, F May 23

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    This one guy has a great personality. He always wants to help and I don't remember ever hearing him say anything bad to anyone. Wen I'm walking with him he always has to help a...
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    I don't hate my husband I just hate being married. We have a son we both adore and life is pretty good on paper but I feel trapped, uninspired and not fully understood by my...
    Feliciabut Feliciabut 46-50, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I need someone to talk to on personal message..
    Scatereddreams Scatereddreams 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    If I've shown you that I'm interested and you have the same feelings towards me, just tell me you're interested in me and that you want to date me. Don't keep me guessing. I'm not...
    LookingForYou89 LookingForYou89 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I HAVE DONE A LOT OF BAD THINGS TO PEOPLE...... SOME DESERVED IT...SOME DID NOT......JUDGE ME IF YOU WILL...... My whole life has been one disaster after another. I was...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I'm not even sure where this all began, or how I even got in this space... It was just a friendship. I was in a long term relationship when we met...but I was drawn to him. I knew...
    detailsinthefabric detailsinthefabric 22-25, F 3 Responses May 17

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    Hello there, I need assistance please. Every month when I PMS. I have negative thoughts. However, there is one consistent thought that feels true, when my period ends, I am happy...
    orchidss orchidss 31-35, F May 22

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    Make no mistake. I am still married and I still feel isolated in my marriage. But things have gotten better. Not because my husband has matured as a person or become compassionate...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 1 Response May 13

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    Sonya9 Sonya9 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    BeautifulxDelusions BeautifulxDelusions 18-21, F 4 Responses May 6

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    From the time I was around 10 until shortly after my 15th birthday I was molested almost every friday night by my mother's now husband. He would come into my room, or the bathroom...
    mar0436 mar0436 22-25, F 1 Response May 24

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    He's a man I work with. Almost 22 years older than me. He's gorgeous, but that's not what I love about him. I worked with him for 8 years, prior to falling in love with him, and he...
    SaraIsBroken SaraIsBroken 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well my first experience makes me wonder if I'll try this again. Don't say you'd like to meet in person if you intend to flake out. I suppose the true character of a person shows...
    dragonsteel dragonsteel 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm new here. I need a place to vent. I have been married for 16 years. I love him very much and I know many women would feel lucky to have him. But here is/are the problem/s. I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses May 10

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