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I Masturbate In Bed While My Spouse Is Sleeping Beside Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 242 People

    I wait until I hear my wife snoring then I

    reach my hand under the covers. I lift the blanket off half of me to expose myself. I start stroking slowly. The bed never moves until I unload all over myself and fall asleep
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    I will admit I have done this.

    .. It had to be done, and she was sleeping so good, it would have been rude to wake her up. Lol
    deleted deleted
    Jun 9, 2015

    Not so much anymore,

    but still do if I wake in the AM feeling randy. I make no effort to reduce the heavy breathing or the shaking of the bed. Wife often wakens and observes but her sexual interest is NIL. I used to keep a *** rag under the pillow which was washed as needed, but I do not bother...
    johninoz johninoz
    70+, M
    2 Responses Jan 2


    I have to admit I have done this a few times, ok more than a few. Usually after sex when I just wasn't quite satisfied. My husband is a sleep and I quietly get myself off. Just last week my husband has been working tons of hours at new job. I did it. I just let my magical fingers...
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    15 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    I ********** To My Sleeping Wife

    I ********** to my naked sleeping wife. When we first got together we had sex almost every day but after about 5 years she only wanted to have sex about once a month. She has always slept in the nude. It had been a few weeks that we had sex I was in bed next to her and had to go...
    cplnohio cplnohio
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    I do this very quietly now

    so as not to disturb her as she will think I am a pervert wanking at my age (she is not wrong). I used to be able to do this while she was getting satisfied by some or other man next to me.
    grampsd grampsd
    70+, M
    Apr 14

    Why Wake Her?

    There has been many occasions where I will just lay there beside her and listen to her breathing. I know that when she falls asleep, all hope of any kind of sex is "out the window". I'll lay there and slowly start stroking my ****, working my fingers up and down the shaft. She...
    lou50 lou50
    56-60, M
    2 Responses May 29, 2012

    Every night and every morning.

    His sex drive is nowhere near as high as mine, and I'd lose my mind if I had to wait until he was ready again before having another ******. I sleep with a body pillow, and most nights I end up lying on my side, stroking my **** on it until I fall asleep. Other nights I'll...
    ubelsgirl ubelsgirl
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    Easy One Out Of The Way

    A few times, I have woke up at 0400 or thereabouts, ready for some action, and couldn't wake the wife. I would start stroking my ****, and if she doesn't wake up, I just go for it. I make myself come, stroking my ****. Get up, have a clean off and right back to bed. When we...
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    1 Response Mar 8, 2012

    I did not think this happened

    as much as it does. Wow. Thanks for the honesty.
    emarig emarig
    41-45, M
    Sep 27, 2015

    Slowly And Quietly

    My wife and I both work hard and to make it worse she recently hurt her back. I know that when she comes into the bedroom in her nightgown all hopes of sex are gone for the night. Waking her just irritates her. So when I lay awake in the middle of the night with my **** hard...
    PaHusband PaHusband
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2012

    Why? If my wife is in bed with me

    and I get horny she is always ready to be ******!
    CindyGurl6969 CindyGurl6969
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Mar 9
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