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I Masturbate In Bed While My Spouse Is Sleeping Beside Me

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    Slowly And Quietly

    My wife and I both work hard and to make it worse she recently hurt her back. I know that when she comes into the bedroom in her nightgown all hopes of sex are gone for the night. Waking her just irritates her. So when I lay awake in the middle of the night with my **** hard...
    PaHusband PaHusband 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    I Like To Wake Her Up While Doing It...

    I've done this many times. Sometimes she is ok with it, sometimes not. I find it fun and makes me want her all the more. I like it when she wakes up to find me doing it, pulls back the covers and watches... I've asked her to join in too...
    samiddleisbest69 samiddleisbest69 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Easy One Out Of The Way

    A few times, I have woke up at 0400 or thereabouts, ready for some action, and couldn't wake the wife. I would start stroking my ****, and if she doesn't wake up, I just go for it. I make myself come, stroking my ****. Get up, have a clean off and right back to bed. When we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 8, 2012

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    Why Wake Her?

    There has been many occasions where I will just lay there beside her and listen to her breathing. I know that when she falls asleep, all hope of any kind of sex is "out the window". I'll lay there and slowly start stroking my ****, working my fingers up and down the shaft. She...
    lou50 lou50 56-60, M 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    Sometimes

    I have to admit I have done this a few times, ok more than a few. Usually after sex when I just wasn't quite satisfied. My husband is a sleep and I quietly get myself off. Just last week my husband has been working tons of hours at new job. I did it. I just let my magical fingers...
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Careful Not To Wake Her

    Intimacy with my wife is nowhere near as frequent as I would like. Many times, after being denied, I will still be so horny I cannot sleep, though she has drifted off. I learned early on that waking her or touching her to try to get her in the mood only makes her mad. I often...
    WyrdsOnPepper WyrdsOnPepper 41-45, M 9 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    I ********** To My Sleeping Wife

    I ********** to my naked sleeping wife. When we first got together we had sex almost every day but after about 5 years she only wanted to have sex about once a month. She has always slept in the nude. It had been a few weeks that we had sex I was in bed next to her and had to go...
    cplnohio cplnohio 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    it relaxes me so much I usually just pass out with the book on me - more of a sleeping aid really
    Li1981 Li1981 31-35, F Jul 11

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