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I Might Be Shy But Wait Until You Get To Know Me

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    No one can ever truly walk in your shoes but you shouldn't judge me until you know me... I'm a different person from what I may be perceived as
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F a week ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, F 1 Response 6 mins ago

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    no matter what i will wait here until the day u decide to love me back and i will wait until the day u truely want me and i will wait until the day u can make me happy again and i...
    CallmeShaneyney CallmeShaneyney 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    This might be me. I don't know yet...
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage, but I did wait until I was in a committed relationship and felt comfortable enough to give someone else that part of me... And we're still going...
    shadowkat13 shadowkat13 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    What guy does want to wait until marriage? At about the age of 12 or 13 all those raging hormones take over and the only thing to satisfy them would be to get the dam thing inside...
    dyaneleigh dyaneleigh 51-55, T 5 hrs ago

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    I will write this as I feel it, so if some parts seem crude or redundant, please, bear with me. We met, in the unlikeliest of places. Two people caught in the tangle of life...
    Akumakun Akumakun 22-25, M Jul 11

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    I'm 16 and I have a daughter. I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    We totally in love. How can anyone wait until they married. He was so hot and i crazy about him. He is a good kisser. I love to kiss him and i was very eager if he touche my b...
    bellablurr bellablurr 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage. But I found someone who still loves and accepts me. ❤️❤️
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I am so shy but I always love to meet new people. I have always been shy. I don't even really message anyone on here just becuase I'm scared of what they will think.
    Tjw241 Tjw241 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    "Turn Your Face" In my memory, all the small things, like daggers in my mind In my memory, while my head bleeds, the words I'll never find That I always meant to say to you I can...
    xenia29 xenia29 26-30, F Jun 24

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    Dear mom i wanted to let you know that i don't hate you because i don't even think its possible, i probably don't know how to love you cause the only way i know how to love is the...
    poetessofblood poetessofblood 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    You know it's been a while since I've met more than a few people who know what I mean with this post. Everyone casts me as the emo girl looking for attention. Being goth and having...
    dyingalittleinside97 dyingalittleinside97 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I found this awesome amazing girl she so far had the same qualities as me to the T wow she is amazing I'd show you all what she looks like but I don't know if she would be ok with...
    heyheyhe heyheyhe 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Today I wished that I waited. I wished that someone had told me to make up my mind in time. God has forgiven me and Im happy and dont have scars. I did not wait because I did not...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I had sex with my boyfriend after almost two years together I knew it was right because it just happened out of no where and that's the best when things happen and are unexpected I...
    Personaljournal14 Personaljournal14 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There's this one part of a book I'm rereading where the girl tells her boyfriend she's a virgin and he told her he'd wait as long as she needed. My first time guy pressured and...
    naturalnobody naturalnobody 18-21, F Jul 1

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    I actually wated until I was 22, and I just decided I wanted sex. I figured I wouldnt find a virgin and I didnt want to be one any longer. Looking back it was wrong to only date...
    Husker97 Husker97 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    we had been together for two years, he was my partner in crime, as well as the love of my life. not only we didnt wait till marriage but we didnt wait to be legal. the first time...
    eviemay6 eviemay6 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I didn't intend to wait and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I honestly think that waiting for marriage would be a huge mistake. Sex is a big part of a relationship; Likes, dislikes, etc. There is no better way to show you care about another...
    briehasthephevor briehasthephevor 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I planned on waiting. And then they came out with these new malt liquor drinks called Four Lokos, and you could drink two or three before the caffeine started wearing off.
    lovelyss lovelyss 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I didn't wait I was young and I will never forget it it was awkward being naked in front of someone foe the first time but it was was wonderfull. and I was super head over heels...
    sweetlanie sweetlanie 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    I didn't wait for marriage like I wanted to. I'm old fashioned romantic but my gf and I couldn't keep our hands off each other. I lost my virginity at 20 and I felt really guilty...
    WhyDoesLifeSuck WhyDoesLifeSuck 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I wish I waited.. I am currently watching a movie and it got me thinking. Of my past and what my life used to be. The reckless behavior and carelessness of being young and naïve...
    EvalynnWoods EvalynnWoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait. But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Things I have been waiting.. I want to write a lot of things. I can't. Even if I write, it befalls in his " Who is gonna Believing in You"? So, Here I am.. writing what everyone...
    mynameismisshena mynameismisshena 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I remained a virgin until I was 25 years old when I had my first real boyfriend. We were in his bedroom, he asked me for a kiss but since I really like him I licked his lips then...
    luvkittycat luvkittycat 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    I am shy so I probably won't reach out and message you first but please feel free to message me.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Or until I was in a relationship. And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15. I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I waited a year and 2 months I was 16 at the time. I thought I was ready but I realized I wasn't as I lay next to him. I didn't wanna back out cause I promised him this many times...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 30 Responses Jul 13

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm shy and have a hard time messaging someone at first because normally they pretend to be my friend the whole time
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Don't all guys believe that because your plus size and you didn't wait till marriage you have low standards and will give it away to anyone or just openly freely share your sexual...
    jodi199423 jodi199423 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nope. I was 14 years old when I started having sex. I regret it. Wish I waited.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Well as you can tell I'm 16 turning 17. And I did not wait till marriage because I honestly feel like I love him. People are probably going to say I'm to young to be in love but I...
    jennasteele15 jennasteele15 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Didn't wait til marriage but it was all love and I have no regrets. Wouldn't change it for the world.
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I regret who it was now but whatever. I just wanted it over with tbh. All my friends were loosing theirs and I was like whatever. His name was Dan and now I know how much of an a...
    QuinnStew QuinnStew 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    My first time was with my boyfriend when i was 17, we did it in a rest room of a known resort in our place. It was just the two of us in that area so I think thats what made us do...
    heyitsme07 heyitsme07 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store, he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 26 Responses Jul 3

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    I am now almost 20 and I lost my virginity at 13. It's crazy when I think about it now because it seems so young but I was completely comfortable and felt ready. I trusted my...
    kimsaprincess kimsaprincess 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    The girl I like went to her home country for a whole month and I missed her so much ,I didn't realize how much I really liked her until we were apart ,she's coming home next week I...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I never understood why losing your virginity had to be a big thing. I did it with a friend and then I kicked him out like why do people always wanna talk? I only consider sex a big...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend and I really loved each other and my parents really hate him. They do their best to keep me away from him. I don't know what to do????
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 13-15, F