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I Might Be Shy But Wait Until You Get To Know Me

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    No one can ever truly walk in your shoes but you shouldn't judge me until you know me... I'm a different person from what I may be perceived as
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F Jul 16

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    no matter what i will wait here until the day u decide to love me back and i will wait until the day u truely want me and i will wait until the day u can make me happy again and i...
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    This might be me. I don't know yet...
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    What guy does want to wait until marriage? At about the age of 12 or 13 all those raging hormones take over and the only thing to satisfy them would be to get the dam thing inside...
    dyaneleigh dyaneleigh 51-55, T 5 days ago

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    I will write this as I feel it, so if some parts seem crude or redundant, please, bear with me. We met, in the unlikeliest of places. Two people caught in the tangle of life...
    Akumakun Akumakun 22-25, M Jul 11

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, T 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 16 and I have a daughter. I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    We totally in love. How can anyone wait until they married. He was so hot and i crazy about him. He is a good kisser. I love to kiss him and i was very eager if he touche my b...
    bellablurr bellablurr 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I didn't wait until marriage. But I found someone who still loves and accepts me. ❤️❤️
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am so shy but I always love to meet new people. I have always been shy. I don't even really message anyone on here just becuase I'm scared of what they will think.
    Tjw241 Tjw241 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    True love waits - until the parents are at church, then it's on!
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    No obviously I did not wait until I get married to get pregnant. I was 8 1/2 months pregnant when I married my husband in a huge church ceremony. I looked so beautiful and was...
    pregnantbride pregnantbride 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and we started having sex about 4 months in. We both know we love each other but he's really religious. I knew he worked at his church...
    Smileynat Smileynat 18-21, F 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    At the dark of the night love allures so many words it utters, mind hums in shades of your love. Sitting on the window bay I wait for you dear if only you would come just for once...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 3 days ago

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    Dear mom i wanted to let you know that i don't hate you because i don't even think its possible, i probably don't know how to love you cause the only way i know how to love is the...
    poetessofblood poetessofblood 18-21, F a week ago

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    You know it's been a while since I've met more than a few people who know what I mean with this post. Everyone casts me as the emo girl looking for attention. Being goth and having...
    dyingalittleinside97 dyingalittleinside97 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I found this awesome amazing girl she so far had the same qualities as me to the T wow she is amazing I'd show you all what she looks like but I don't know if she would be ok with...
    heyheyhe heyheyhe 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm sure my parents would have preferred I waited. Hell, I bet they would've preferred not to find out about my first time, but oh well. They still love me, and I don't ever feel...
    redinkblue redinkblue 22-25, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity to my now fiancé about a year ago, he was so patient in not wanting us to rush to that part of the relationship we didn't take it that far until about 4 months...
    OPbeachgirl OPbeachgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have no idea why, but I love just meeting and learning about new people, despite the fact I'm socially awkward and it's difficult for me to interact with strangers. I'm really...
    JustAOddGirl JustAOddGirl 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity to my first love. He last it to me as well. We were very young, 14.
    unspokenwords14 unspokenwords14 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm waiting catch my interest
    JessaRayLynn JessaRayLynn 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Today I wished that I waited. I wished that someone had told me to make up my mind in time. God has forgiven me and Im happy and dont have scars. I did not wait because I did not...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I had sex with my boyfriend after almost two years together I knew it was right because it just happened out of no where and that's the best when things happen and are unexpected I...
    Personaljournal14 Personaljournal14 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Every since I was a little girl, I was super shy. If I met new people, I would be super quiet around them. But when I feel more comfortable around people and feel I can trust them...
    Littlewallflowerx Littlewallflowerx 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Thank you so much for those who will read this entire experience. I lost my virginity about a year ago. It was fun, as i expected. I didn't regret it then, and I haven't regretted...
    imallhers imallhers 13-15, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    And I also didn't wait nearly long enough into the relationship. Of course, in my head, I pulled the whole "it doesn't matter that we've only been dating a couple weeks because we...
    jonicole jonicole 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's this one part of a book I'm rereading where the girl tells her boyfriend she's a virgin and he told her he'd wait as long as she needed. My first time guy pressured and...
    naturalnobody naturalnobody 18-21, F Jul 1

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    I actually wated until I was 22, and I just decided I wanted sex. I figured I wouldnt find a virgin and I didnt want to be one any longer. Looking back it was wrong to only date...
    Husker97 Husker97 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I did not wait. I had sex with a boy I've known for 8 months . I'm 14 . Although, we had sex a couple days after our 4 month anniversary . I feel really bad about it , considering...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I didn't intend to wait and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    So me and my " BOYFRIEND " had been together for about 2 years before I lost my v card ! He was very patient and he didn't force or rush me into anything I didn't want to do. As...
    Lovelyx2 Lovelyx2 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't wait I was young and I will never forget it it was awkward being naked in front of someone foe the first time but it was was wonderfull. and I was super head over heels...
    sweetlanie sweetlanie 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    I didn't wait for marriage like I wanted to. I'm old fashioned romantic but my gf and I couldn't keep our hands off each other. I lost my virginity at 20 and I felt really guilty...
    WhyDoesLifeSuck WhyDoesLifeSuck 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I wish I waited.. I am currently watching a movie and it got me thinking. Of my past and what my life used to be. The reckless behavior and carelessness of being young and naïve...
    EvalynnWoods EvalynnWoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait. But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Things I have been waiting.. I want to write a lot of things. I can't. Even if I write, it befalls in his " Who is gonna Believing in You"? So, Here I am.. writing what everyone...
    mynameismisshena mynameismisshena 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I remained a virgin until I was 25 years old when I had my first real boyfriend. We were in his bedroom, he asked me for a kiss but since I really like him I licked his lips then...
    luvkittycat luvkittycat 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    I am shy so I probably won't reach out and message you first but please feel free to message me.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Or until I was in a relationship. And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15. I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I waited a year and 2 months I was 16 at the time. I thought I was ready but I realized I wasn't as I lay next to him. I didn't wanna back out cause I promised him this many times...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm shy and have a hard time messaging someone at first because normally they pretend to be my friend the whole time
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Don't all guys believe that because your plus size and you didn't wait till marriage you have low standards and will give it away to anyone or just openly freely share your sexual...
    jodi199423 jodi199423 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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