I Miss Having a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 497 People

    Me and my best friend have been together

    since kindergarten. It started when my friends family problems started getting serious. And then she just got mean and seemed frustrated. I thought she was just stressed but now I don't know. I was asking her if she felt okay because she wasn't acting her usual self and then she...
    ElectricDream ElectricDream
    16-17, F
    Sep 12, 2014

    Man Do I Ever

    It's been a very, very long time since I've been able to call someone my best friend. I miss that special bond that you only feel with your best friend. I wish I had a best friend to call my own. I always wonder if and when I will have a best friend again and what she will look...
    simpothing simpothing
    22-25, F
    Oct 15, 2011

    I Miss This Friend

    i had a best friend, once, a friend and it was great, we did things that friends do, i didn't even notice, i wasn't grateful, took it for granted, like you do and then she went, went, left and i don''t know what happened, may be we argued and I miss her and I hate her, she was...
    jamesdean4ever jamesdean4ever
    18-21, M
    Nov 14, 2011

    I Miss Having A Best Friend

    I miss the days of high school and elementary when I had a best friend and we would go everywhere, do everything together. It was so much fun. Then high school came and my best friend decided to go with a guy who took up all her time and energy and we drifted apart. I know I'm...
    lizzo lizzo
    18-21
    Apr 25, 2011

    my best friend and i were best friends

    since we were born. at the age of 10 she got blind (long story) and a couple of months later she moved to australia so we lost contact. if i miss her? hahahahaha........ yes! :(((( its been six years and still everytime my phone vibrates i hope its her... damn i really miss her...
    Differentisgood Differentisgood
    18-21, F
    May 1, 2014

    Im About To Lose My Bestfriend

    i have a very wonderful bestfriend and everyone's so envious of our bestfriend relationship..we've been friends since we were in kinder up until now that we are graduate in collage...but who would have thought that our perfect best friend relationship is falling apart because...
    merven merven
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 11, 2010

    Social Sites

    WHen i bowse people and see the "perfect" pics of girls..and their "besties" that's when it really sinks in that i don't have one..barely have anybody to pick up and call at times! I mean, its a indescribable feeling to see somebody call their "...
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Dec 26, 2009

    I Just Want Someone To Confide In

    I don't know why but everybody around me seems to be quite distant from me no matter how hard I try to get closer to them. I also find it hard to say what I'm actually feeling. I'm afraid of what others will think of me too much. I'm scared they'd laugh at me and dismiss my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 7, 2009

    Didn't Know What to Do Or Say

    I had a dream the other night. My old best friend just showed at my door and we hugged and chatted just like we had in the old days. I woke up from the dream feeling kind of strange then just forgot all about the dream til a few days later when I decided to go to church. I hadn't...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2008

    I Miss My Best Friend....

    My best friend and I always managed to find the humor in a situation, and I thought it was great. But he died long before he should have, and I miss him more than I miss being married to either of my wives.
    chillsdavis chillsdavis
    56-60, M
    Aug 22, 2011

    Loner

    i dont have much friends.. i would like to have a group of friends to hangout with but the problems is there no one want to hangout with me!! if you asking me, yeah i know what the reasons are.. my father is really conservatives minded man... he didnt allowed me to go out...
    izzah izzah
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 22, 2009

    It sucks not to have someone you can out with

    everyday, go places with every weekend, fool around with, talk to about anything. In times like these we need a best friend, but in times like these best friends hardly exist. :/
    DessyLove DessyLove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    Miss It Badly....

    I miss having a bestfriend so badly....I miss that constant texting, calling, fighting and discussing absolutely crap things !Well i did have a bestest friend till last year but now she is not in much contact with me as she has new friends now.....but I dont say to her but I do...
    Sia1992 Sia1992
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2012

    Alone

    I now know she was never a “friend” because real friends are never jealous or envious of you. Additionally, real friends do not harbor resentments or attempt to bring you pain and unhappiness when you possess something they want. Real friends want to see you succeed in...
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2013

    Some how I thought putting more energy into my

    relationship was better than finding time to nurture my friendships. I miss having inside jokes that only we understood the backstory. I miss having fun with no matter where we were. I miss watching juicy tv and calling each other on commercial breaks. The list goes on.
    Outmyshell Outmyshell
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2015

    Last school year, I keep getting close to

    people then they left and or was hurt. Starting to think that God is trying to tell me to focus on Him and school and not friends.
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2014

    My best friend ever was killed in a car

    accident in college. My next best friend, who I thought was the love of my life, left me for another. My best friends now are my team at work. For some reason, I don't feel intimidated about throwing my heart out there for the right woman or getting close with new friends.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 22, 2015

    :( 'sigh'

     yep i really do but there is nothing any body can do miss her so much it is unbelievable. not having somebody to tell my deepest secrets to, or to cry with. i feel so alone i have friends but not a best one any more and i am not anyone Else's best friend i always come last...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 21, 2009

    I Miss You

    I feel like I've let everyone just kind of drift away in the past couple years... and I really wish I could get them back. I miss the good old days...
    EmptyInside EmptyInside
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2007

    I'm a Forced Loner

    I was walking in the park the other day for my daily exercise when I noticed all the pairs of other people walking. There were groups of two everywhere. Mostly two women walking together and talking and having a good old time. I watched them and really realized how much i missed...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2008

    A Prayer to Be Answered

    I so wish there were someone here with me that I gould get with and just talk. Talk about anything and everything. Pour my heart out and have an friendly ear and a hug all the times life gets to be too much. Had such a person for a short time years ago and she pased away. It is...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2008

    Everyone I know lives 2 hours away from me,

    and I miss them. I never get to see them anymore. I wish I had a damn car so I could see them.
    munkiegal munkiegal
    36-40, F
    Mar 5, 2015

    My friend and I were really close in high

    school, but after high school she started to become inseparable with her boyfriend and everywhere we would go she would take him and they would rub there PDA in my face and it was gross.... so I started to hang less and less with her because there was no more girl time like we...
    daisyem daisyem
    18-21, F
    Sep 12, 2014

    Alone and Empty

    I'm sitting here alone in my office, with heavy, deep thoughts of David, my best friend who just passed away. Twice today, I picked up the phone, thinking I could send him a text. I sat down, wanting to email him. I have so much to share with him from the last few days, and yet...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

    Where Are You?

    The past few weeks have been like hell. I couldn't sleep, couldn't focus, just had a tough time all together. A few friend and I made plans to go do something one evening, just to get away and forget everything. Just as I got all excited about it, everyone cancelled on me all at...
    petronellamyla petronellamyla
    18-21, F
    Apr 28, 2012

    It's Always Been Like This..

    I've never had a best friend. Everyone I've ever known, they'd just manipulate my mind, use me, and leave me alone all by myself when they find something/ someone better. I've gotten used to this now. Some things are meant to be. And some things are not. I'm so jealous of all you...
    debmalya debmalya
    26-30, M
    Aug 11, 2011

    Cause I Have No One To Really Talk To

    In a time when I have so many inner thoughts and battles with myself, and no one to turn to. "I'm never alone, I'm alone all the time" could not be any truer.
    iLLzSkye iLLzSkye
    22-25
    Aug 11, 2011

    What Happened?

    You used to be the coolest guy that I knew. A total nerd who would be there if I ever needed you. But now you have changed. Not only that but you have changed for the worst. You say that you are happy but that is a ******* lie! All you ever do now is get high and drink. I wish...
    bayleezan bayleezan
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

    My best friend was my highschool sweetheart whom

    after years apart I reunited with in 2007 ..he was so good to me.He loved me for me and stood up for me always even if I was wrong. He never judged me and was there for me thru good and bad. My friendship with him meant more than anything else between us. He was my partner in...
    tennmelann tennmelann
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    There's no such thing like bestfriend,

    i already lose them with no apparent reason, it hurts me a lot and so bad...
    birgithajoice birgithajoice
    16-17, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2014

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    Apr 17
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    Apr 15
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    avgniceguy avgniceguy
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    13-15, F
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    After forgetting she existed, I saw her for the first time in months. I didn't care one bit, because she's now a stranger to me. Ever since she's been gone, I've bettered myself in...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 13
    I don't know if I hate you or love you. actually you make me feel rare... I just want you to know that I miss you a lot
    JoseFerrera16 JoseFerrera16
    18-21, M
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    4 Responses Apr 12
    Everyone is gone to school and work at my house, having a chat with my best friend:)
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    41-45, F
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    16-17, M
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    gwen12345678 gwen12345678
    13-15, F
    Apr 11
    In 2015 I was diagnosed with Cushing's disease which was caused by a brain tumor. I had brain surgery on 20 July 2015. My best friend took leave the day of surgery and visited...
    Sanetvh Sanetvh
    41-45, F
    Apr 11
    My health hasn't been great since 2012. I had a few surgeries. Nothing serious. Last year I was diagnosed with a benign brain tumor that causes Cushings disease. I had brain...
    Sanetvh Sanetvh
    41-45, F
    Apr 11
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    Sourabh789 Sourabh789
    16-17, M
    Apr 10
    This happen on 8 April when my best friend Amith is going forever leaving us by train and train is on 8:40 pm I decided to meet him for the last time but no transport and station...
    Sourabh789 Sourabh789
    16-17, M
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    Your best friend is right here!!! Don't worry everyone, I'm finally here. :)
    natalie243 natalie243
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9
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    18-21, M
    Apr 9
    I can be a best friend. ;) just ask my best friend... he'll confirm it! lol. wait, don't tell him I said this. He doesn't want to share me so... 0_0 ssshhh... hihi
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
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