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I Miss Having Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 57 People

    My Sex Life, Then And Now.

    Before I became involved with my wife, I had a very fun, active sex life. I use to have sex at least 4 times a day. At times, I would stay up all night and have sex. It was never boring because there was always something different, like using various toys on the women, using...
    Chubbybellyluvr Chubbybellyluvr
    41-45, M
    Jul 2, 2013

    Less Is Not Better!

    My wife and I used to have sex maybe 2-3 times a week. Then it dewindled down to 2-3 time a month to once every couple of months and now it 1-2 a year! She had a hysterectomy(sp?) and has ZERO sex drive. She could probably go the rest of her life and not have sex any more and be...
    TC49R TC49R
    66-70, M
    Sep 13, 2013

    When my husband and I were still dating,

    when we had first moved in together we had sex all of the time. We had sex every day sometimes multiple times a day. We went for it too. We spent hours on eachother. Really went for gold. That lasted for about 6 months. And then it started dwindling down. Every 9 there day...
    SyndraSinclair SyndraSinclair
    26-30, F
    Sep 8, 2014

    Morning Thougts

    I feel this way every morning when I wake up alone in a huge bed. Maybe the day will come,when I will finally have someone to share my bed with who loves me unconditonally that he won't ever close his mind, heart, body and soul to me.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 8, 2010

    I am obviously married

    and have been for over 6 years. My wife and I had a vibrant fulfilling sex life before marriage but once her needs were meet she stopped taking care of me. I have taken care of her needs from buying several houses, cars, newest electronics, vacations, college (not that I'm...
    Franknstn123 Franknstn123
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    My wife thinks sex is a game.

    In her game she is always in control and she rarely wants sex so if I am very lucky I might have sex once every seven years and when I am very lucky I might get it once every two or three years. I am old enough I do not want to leave and find some other women that thinks its OK...
    Steven555 Steven555
    56-60, M
    Jun 12, 2015


    For me it's always strange I feel as though I don't need anyone but most of the time I hate it. When with a woman at first before I'm actually with them I always come off as strange that's the only way I can put it maybe because of my lack of confidence or me always trying to be...
    Vipes Vipes
    26-30, M
    Jul 17, 2012

    Does This Need Explanation??

    Unfortunately I know all too well that it does.  My marriage ended from not having it... Now that I'm free I feel a little lost... as I don't really just want sex... though I really want it bad!! lol  I also want a relationship with a sane rational person too...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2009

    This Sucks!

    I was married before and my husband wasn't interested in me. He made attempts to pick up prostitutes which resulted in an arrest and me finding out...and an eventual divorce. So now I'm remarried and my new husband has a mild case of MS. He makes up every excuse imaginable to not...
    AlinaS AlinaS
    31-35, F
    Feb 1, 2010

    No Sex In My Life!!!

    Haven't had sex in almost a year single and I miss the sex life never knew sex was going to be so important in my life
    alfonsodiaz628 alfonsodiaz628
    26-30, M
    Oct 15, 2013

    Too Long...

    So...Im young, pretty, looove having sex and feel desperate right now. I have a 9yr relationship and I love him but sometimes I think there's nothing there anymore... no sex...I'm even thinking about hitting on my boss Lol I miss the passion, the proximity of another person...all...
    2theedge 2theedge
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 13, 2009

    Oh Dear...

    so uh, ya we all get horny. some more than others right? so i broke up with my boyfriend cause he is the most twisted, sick liar on the planet... and so now i can't have sex as often as i did. which freaking sucks. i didnt think id miss that of all things...i thought i would be...
    snuffandstuff009 snuffandstuff009
    Jun 11, 2009

    Mixed Emotions

    I love sex. I love every inch of my girlfriends body. However for the past two months I haven't even hugged her. I want to so bad I want to feel her legs wraped around my body. And then at the same time I just can't bring myself to actually be...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 15, 2009
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