I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89
    26-30, M
    Mar 23, 2014

    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon
    18-21, F
    Jul 4, 2012

    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 7, 2012

    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 21, 2012

    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy
    46-50
    1 Response Oct 10, 2010

    That was the best part of having whatever it

    was I had with him. We had great cuddle time. I miss cuddling with candles and music. Oh well. I'll survive.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 25, 2009
    haileyhb haileyhb
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2014

    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic
    36-40, F
    Feb 24, 2008

    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234
    46-50, F
    Apr 29, 2012

    Whether it is my dog

    or someone else, but I miss having someone to cuddle with. I keep dreaming of the day that I am able to get a dog, since let's face it the guy department for me is lacking, so I am hoping to get a dog very, very soon. I just miss having someone to come home to every day...
    Haywee123 Haywee123
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 2, 2015

    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2008

    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2007

    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

    I so could use a cuddle today.

    I want to be held and have my hair stroked while I just cry a little. made to feel safe and cherished. to feel loved and not told to suck it up and get over it. I want to feel cared for not made to feel guilty because I am taking a moment to cry.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 24, 2015

    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

    Its been years since last cuddled I truly do

    miss the closeness and intimacy and passion of it. Maybe one day again who knows?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

    Wish I could have a cuddle buddy.

    Not someone to have sex with, just someone that misses the warmth of someone else in bed at night in front of TV, like I do...just that.
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    every night ; If you might be by my side ;

    even just for awhile I'll hold you close and shut my eyes; how I wish this night won't die as I linger in your sweet caress.. I always forget about the rest.. as the night goes deep; everyone's asleep.. except for me ; who waits for you if only I could be the one you like...
    Nylana Nylana
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 24, 2014

    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2013

    Cloudy and a bit drizzly here right now

    so this is the perfect weather to cuddle and watch a movie or just enjoy the company of a special someone...I do miss it a lot...but started talking to someone from here that maybe will be that person sometime...so maybe I won't have to miss it too much longer ^_^
    701TaintedLove 701TaintedLove
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    just having a boring night with someone.

    tomorrow is another one and again and again. whattalife. i want a life size to cuddle with. not short ones.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2015

    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist
    22-25, M
    Apr 8, 2012

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