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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F Feb 24, 2008

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    I miss having someone to cuddle with at night.

    I tend to sleep better that way
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Wish I could have a cuddle buddy.

    Not someone to have sex with, just someone that misses the warmth of someone else in bed at night in front of TV, like I do...just that.
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    every night ; If you might be by my side ;

    even just for awhile I'll hold you close and shut my eyes; how I wish this night won't die as I linger in your sweet caress.. I always forget about the rest.. as the night goes deep; everyone's asleep.. except for me ; who waits for you if only I could be the one you like...
    Nylana Nylana 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Really do miss having a boy who I can tell anything too and being able to feel safe, do get kinda lonely some days
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I will cuddle with almost anyone as long as I am close to someone and I feel cozy
    TehRex TehRex 18-21, M Aug 31

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    its true. i feel so alone. i just want some to hang with after school and to cuddle and watch netflix with on week ends. i miss her. wen i say her i dont mean anyone specific. i...
    Matthew224 Matthew224 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Wishing I had a cuddle buddie cuddle buddie but I don't have one and that just sucks.
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i love to cuddle. i have big arms and i love it really.
    berealistic81 berealistic81 26-30, M Sep 1

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    i love to cuddle. i have big arms and i love it really.
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M Sep 2

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    I love cuddles. I feel crap.
    LostApothecary LostApothecary 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I remember what it's like. ....I can't explain how good it felt to have someone that could convince me that they gave a damn. Even if it was just to take advantage of me, a random...
    toehold toehold 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    My friend and I were really close in high school, but after high school she started to become inseparable with her boyfriend and everywhere we would go she would take him and they...
    daisyem daisyem 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    As an introvert, I love spending time by myself. But sometimes I just want a true and deep connection with someone else, to know them and feel comfortable merely being in the...
    crystalclear85 crystalclear85 26-30, F Aug 25

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    I'm in love and even when I hear her speak badly of him it's like I'm blinded by how I feel.. I love him flaws and all. Wouldn't want him to change. I miss you. I'm glad to hear...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I absolutely love the feeling of being wanted by someone you want just as much.
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M Aug 25

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    My Husband working in US since last 4-5 Yrs comes once in 3 Months & i m very passionate wild lady need sexual pleasure all the time. My cousin who is 28yrs old came to stay at my...
    sg001984 sg001984 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 6

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    Meaningful connections with people means that I'm meaningful, and if I have a big role in anyone's life, I feel so special. My friend at school; Juliana, is one of my best friends...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I am not special. I'm just a limited edition. :)
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just don't have as much fun as I did 2 years ago.
    ilovepie12345 ilovepie12345 13-15, M Sep 1

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    Last school year, I keep getting close to people then they left and or was hurt. Starting to think that God is trying to tell me to focus on Him and school and not friends.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Me and my best friend have been together since kindergarten. It started when my friends family problems started getting serious. And then she just got mean and seemed frustrated. I...
    ElectricDream ElectricDream 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    If I'm into him and he offers a fun time I don't care about his relationship status. I'm just out to have fun not looking for a serious relationship or commitment.
    justAnotherTeenSlut justAnotherTeenSlut 70+, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I miss having someone to watch scary movies with & to cuddle with under blankets on a couch! ):
    abbbbbby abbbbbby 13-15, F 10 Responses Sep 1

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    Tired of being alone and miss having someone to love yes im obese but damn i dont need to be lonely
    Sirchraboesc Sirchraboesc 36-40, M Aug 23

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    having my hair played with is amazing. just love sitting there and having someone mess with it. I could fall asleep. So many times I had my friends sit there while watching a movie...
    russianqueen russianqueen 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I cuddle with everyone, whether it be a little baby or my best friend. I love cuddling and it makes me happy and warm :3
    sempiternalFlood sempiternalFlood 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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