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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    And watch Netflix with all night.

    Being single sucks sometimes =/.
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M a week ago

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F Feb 24, 2008

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 22-25, M Mar 23

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    It's the one thing i miss about being in a relationship :(
    kauaiboy76 kauaiboy76 36-40, M Jul 19

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    I miss someone in particular . I wanna cuddle with that person and watch scary movies with them. I wanna fall asleep on their chest and let all my worries , stress , fears and all...
    emoniemm emoniemm 13-15, F 21 hrs ago

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    I don't actually think I want a boyfriend. I'm pretty sure I just want some to cuddle with who will stroke my hair.
    MismatchedIdeas MismatchedIdeas 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    How often could you cuddle with your significant other? err day? once a week? once a month? every chance you get? whassup
    danondorf danondorf 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I wanna cuddle with my girl. But she is gone. Right now I sad :(
    smilebright21 smilebright21 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I love to cuddle with a girl and just hold her close because I love the feel of her laying against me.
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I want to cuddle with my female friend who I have a crush on.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Can't cuddle with a woman so why not my pillow?
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Single and missing hugs! Not missing the ex though so every cloud :-)
    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I feel really bad, and it's THAT time of the month and i just hate everything and everyone at the minute. I wish someone would just cuddle me and at least pretend that everything...
    avxragxwhorx avxragxwhorx 13-15, F Jun 30

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    I need a cuddle buddy preferably someone shorter than myself that I can hold
    TheSameOne TheSameOne 18-21, M Jul 14

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    Just finished cuddling with my guy ☺️I missed him so much while I was away. 💕
    emgg emgg 13-15, F Jul 18

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    My heart hurts so bad. I just wanna cuddle and not even think about him
    fajphummie1 fajphummie1 18-21, F Jun 30

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    I'm just laying here wishing for him to hurry up and get home so we can cuddle together :/
    kaylaes52 kaylaes52 18-21, F Jul 1

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    Honestly, I carry a pillow around my house just so I can be prepared for those cuddle cravings
    redpirate redpirate 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I love him and he loves me. It was supposed to be a fling. I would never be involved with a married man... I was turned off when I first met him then he became my boss and I had to...
    EssAyyRrr EssAyyRrr 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I think it might be time to end things. He isn't available for me (obviously) and I think maybe the thrill is fading. Our weekly trysts are almost like a chore. If I don't feel...
    Specificity Specificity 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    i feel like someone or something is with me or watching me all the time and giving me answers and advice. i feel it in my body and see it in the world around me.
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Ok, so we have only had sex once. I kind of feel betrayed because when we met he was insistent upon his ring being from a surf shop and meaningless. He wooed me and asked me on...
    amandapanda88 amandapanda88 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I was borrowing my friends camping equipment and I stopped by. My friend was gone with his mom for a week at a soccer tournament. We slept together the first night and I freaked...
    Barefootjamie Barefootjamie 18-21 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Well not life in general but just continual traumatic events. The latest being my husband's redundancy. He is late 40's and has never been made redundant before and it is after a...
    savedbygrace0 savedbygrace0 46-50, F Jul 18

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    Well I've broken up with my boyfriend of a year.. And I'm finding it really hard getting over him! Every time I see something he's posted on Facebook or a new girl he's added I...
    helloellie helloellie 16-17, F Jul 20

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    I met this guy at a Fashion show, we never really spoke much but exchanged business cards. he later added me on skype and we'd converse daily ever since. When we had our first date...
    mwichkins mwichkins 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago