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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    every night ; If you might be by my side ;

    even just for awhile I'll hold you close and shut my eyes; how I wish this night won't die as I linger in your sweet caress.. I always forget about the rest.. as the night goes deep; everyone's asleep.. except for me ; who waits for you if only I could be the one you like...
    Nylana Nylana 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F Feb 24, 2008

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    With this cold weather. Yup, i need someone to cuddle with
    ysobelley ysobelley 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    On nights like this where it is almost 2:30 in the morning on a work night and I can't sleep.....All I want is someone to cuddle with me.
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I love to cuddle with a girl and just hold her close because I love the feel of her laying against me.
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M Jul 28

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    I want to cuddle with my female friend who I have a crush on.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I am having trouble coping with life. I've reached the point where I cannot stand my own suffering anymore, nor the sufferings of people around me. I just wish it would end already...
    northguy northguy 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I miss love. I would love a cuddle.
    lishylou123 lishylou123 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I miss that. That is all.
    gatoonie gatoonie 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm so tired. This would be the perfect time for a cuddle buddy or someone to hold me as I fall asleep.
    submissiveamber submissiveamber 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I miss turning around from my sleep, and waking up into the arms of someone. Not just anyone... someone I LOVE someone I mean everything to. Someone who looks at me and I see the...
    aboutdone728 aboutdone728 41-45, F a week ago

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    my friend that I like is talking to me about someone he likes, and it kinda hurts.
    louistoblerone louistoblerone 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    We meet up every two or three days to cuddle and play fight and act like a couple for a few hours. It's the best 'relationship' I've ever had!
    eyeslikeacarcrash eyeslikeacarcrash 13-15, F Aug 14

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    I'm around people enough and I can always have a good time, but I miss being close to somebody special. Everybody these days seems to be closed in their own little box, only coming...
    MIH2 MIH2 22-25, M Aug 10

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    EP was a site that I visited almost daily. It has been taken over by inexperienced, immature, opionated members who seem to lack the ability to think on their own. When one seeks...
    SmrtGuyUT SmrtGuyUT 61-65, M Aug 15

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    As an introvert, I love spending time by myself. But sometimes I just want a true and deep connection with someone else, to know them and feel comfortable merely being in the...
    crystalclear85 crystalclear85 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I absolutely love the feeling of being wanted by someone you want just as much.
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Trying to find places to meet privately with my MM. Any suggestions?
    Asheera123 Asheera123 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Is there any older women that would like to text this young guy over here 😉. Don't worry your secret is safe with me
    Afroman22 Afroman22 22-25, M Aug 12

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    I am finding this hard as I can't really talk to anyone about my situation. About 4 weeks ago a guy at work gave me his number. I have liked this guy for nearly 2 years. I had been...
    Daisydukes79 Daisydukes79 31-35, F Aug 13

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    Meaningful connections with people means that I'm meaningful, and if I have a big role in anyone's life, I feel so special. My friend at school; Juliana, is one of my best friends...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to but I am alone :((((
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    We could just eat, sleep, and watch netflix all day(:
    zuhreeuh zuhreeuh 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Yesssss,, please....I love cuddling .
    Daisymay77 Daisymay77 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    the fav part of my day is seeing my dog baby girl sophie
    tgrakes tgrakes 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I know adult can be a relative term. I am surrounded by people at work who are technically adults. But do not think or behave like adults. At home, people are adults and...
    rollwithit rollwithit 31-35 Aug 4

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    I'm obviously messing up their marriage. He is obviously messing up mine .. So to me it seems clear we need to throw some water on this fire but neither of us seem motivated to do...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    If people are going to post comments that are hateful or sarcastic then you can go to hell. This is our choice. For centuries men have had multiple wives and even the bible says...
    Asheera123 Asheera123 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 10