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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    Wish I could have a cuddle buddy.

    Not someone to have sex with, just someone that misses the warmth of someone else in bed at night in front of TV, like I do...just that.
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    every night ; If you might be by my side ;

    even just for awhile I'll hold you close and shut my eyes; how I wish this night won't die as I linger in your sweet caress.. I always forget about the rest.. as the night goes deep; everyone's asleep.. except for me ; who waits for you if only I could be the one you like...
    Nylana Nylana 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F Feb 24, 2008

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    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Haha even though I've never had anyone who would... :/
    Caleb54 Caleb54 13-15, M 7 hrs ago

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    I dont know...I mean I have never been in a relationship ...and my problem is when I have a crush I don't have the guts to tell...what should I do friends..????
    tiarasidmax tiarasidmax 18-21, F Nov 28

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    During this cold season having a cuddle partner would be amazing!
    Latin8709 Latin8709 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I wish I could cuddle with a significant other. It'd be comforting to cuddle with someone. Knowing that they love you and you love them. Knowing that there's no pressure to be...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I really miss cuddling someone. Especially while we sleep... :(
    tinmahn tinmahn 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 26

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    Every night, when I enter my bed until I fall asleep I hug my pillow and imagine that I have someone I love, someone who loves me next to me and I can just cuddle with her.. This...
    TheFatGuy TheFatGuy 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 29

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    I have never cuddled with someone, but it sounds to me like a nice, long, warm hug. I could really use one
    maureensky3 maureensky3 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I'm lonely but I'm way too shy to get out there and find someone to cuddle with. How do I get over this?
    theenigma17 theenigma17 18-21, M Nov 26

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    I love to cuddle with bae... JUST KIDDING I HAVE NO BAE!!!😂😭
    JordanElese JordanElese 16-17, F Nov 29

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    would love to have a women or man to cuddle with right now!
    ruthrylee ruthrylee 18-21, F 17 Responses Nov 30

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    I'm in an open and sexless marriage and having an affair with a married man who's spouse doesn't know. After a few months he asked me for exclusivity which he basically had...
    arlington112 arlington112 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am having an affair with man. He's married, twice my age and worse, he's my Pastor. was so shocked when I got the first flirtatious message from him. admittedly I always had a...
    Strang3r Strang3r 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    Nothing like having a big hug by someone that's really especial to you... Sadly not hapenning to me ,just in movies I guess...
    katty1508 katty1508 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    A long time ago, an ex loved to cuddle and snuggle and I absolutely hated it. Sometimes was ok but he was all about the extra extra affection. I miss it these days, along with...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I like cuddles they make me happy And they are just so importing cause I like cuddling when I'm happy when I'm sad when I'm excited cuddles are just good :)
    kiearraryan kiearraryan 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    it sucks when you have someone but he won't cuddle or kiss. well here's to "for better or for worse". lol
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    someone chat me. look at how comfy I am right now. I could use a cuddle
    emgal emgal 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Never really been cuddled before..but I want to. It would be so nice just to be held by someone. To feel their warmth and heartbeat against my back. Their breath against the back...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    So cold and wanna cuddle right now :-/
    Usernamewaaat Usernamewaaat 18-21, M Dec 1

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    Cuddle before and after sex is the best.. :)
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M Dec 3

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    I wanna cuddle and touch right now
    ruthrylee ruthrylee 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 3

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    A blanket under the stars, where we can talk about the future and laugh about the past. Cuddled up warm to stop the shivers, a simple kiss melting away the cold. Sweet whispers of...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 6

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