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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 22-25, M Mar 23

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F Feb 24, 2008

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Honestly I think I'd have more chance of winning the lottery than finding a good person to cuddle with.
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I adore having others shampoo my hair. It's my favorite part of getting my hair cut. I enjoy having someone else massage my scalp. It's great when they take there time rinsing...
    lucyyinthesky lucyyinthesky 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Laying down, thinking of someone, makes me wanna cuddle so bad.. But I'm alone. 😒 oh well.
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    www.cuddlecomfort.com might help you find a local cuddle buddy.
    cuddle1 cuddle1 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    3:41am nd I can't sleep...I need cuddles
    Sillylilwolf Sillylilwolf 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Yes! Someone good at hugs. Likes walks on pretty days and curling up in blanket fort with me on the rainy days.
    sincitysaint sincitysaint 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I wish I had someone to lay in bed with me and spoon with me. I'd feel so safe and adored.
    mayvalentine mayvalentine 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Grrrr I need someone to be my personal teddy bear -_-
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 22 Responses a week ago

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    Cuddling is the best! It's like hugging, but you're laying down and sharing a cute moment with the person you care about, friend or lover. It's a comfort to me :)
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F Apr 6

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    Best feeling ever :) especially when it's done with the right person. ;D
    kayk26 kayk26 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I miss mine. It was the cutest relationship ever until the end. But I sure do miss the first couple months.
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I have been without any kind of warm, intimate affection from a man in over 3 years. It is hell and I don't know what to do anymore, i'm starving for affection. Meeting guys...
    agatha69 agatha69 51-55, F Apr 2

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    I haven't been intimate with anyone for a year perhaps more. I can't so this single ****. I should've been smarter when I was young. What does an atheist scream when they ******?
    AnonymousPet AnonymousPet 31-35, M Mar 25

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    Multiple things have led to me living mostly alone with my young son. I turned 26 in March and my son will be 4 in May. I haven't been invited to a family gathering since my mom...
    Mynewleafsparkles Mynewleafsparkles 26-30, F Apr 5

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    I am married too. After years of feeling neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    and EP wanted me to complete the title to: "and feel bad". Not that I didn't... for the first few months.. or in face to this day but honestly, he is Latin with a cute accent and a...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My relationship with The Lord has tremendously gotten closer. He has totally transformed me by the renewing of my mind. Sensing his spirit around me constantly like a rush of...
    HeavenlyWarrior HeavenlyWarrior 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    He is pushing me towards fulfilling his goal for me which I want to fulfill but I am torn between his plan for me and being myself and taking life for what it is and enjoying...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I feel better to share my feelings with a stranger, they should not be racist about me and being a prejudice.......World is a beautiful place, lets show compassion and love to each...
    FiercyTiger FiercyTiger 26-30, M Apr 7

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    He said he loved me... I got extremely sick for two weeks with the stomach flu, fever, and really bad head cold and I told him that before this hellacious virus went on. We didn't...
    HappyHuffy HappyHuffy 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    cuddling is the best thing in the world
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F Apr 12

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    I have one person in mind but he lives too far away :(
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    the worst part of being single is nighttime ...and there is no one to hold you ...
    braveenoughto braveenoughto 31-35, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    M just sick n tired being alone!:(
    jerry1993 jerry1993 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Although I think I need to redefine the word for myself first. Last time did not go well. I don't even know if I have the courage to open up to a man again. Not completely.
    meghanmonroe meghanmonroe 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I want another one, badly. The last one was great at first but it went downhill. The breakup was mutual.
    Pancake17 Pancake17 13-15, M Mar 28

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    He is soo tall and warm and holds me tight like i'm the only only one that he will ever want!
    DreamerGirl4 DreamerGirl4 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Kinda glad we are over. Xx
    GaleJake GaleJake 13-15, M Mar 22

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    like a ******* 15 year old.
    grungehippy grungehippy 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I don't have cancer myself, but I know there are several types of cancer, and also many people fighting cancer. However, there is a large number of people who are unsuccessful in...
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15, F Apr 12

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    How about. Me I am 66 can we date. Let me no baby.... Xx
    tom1912 tom1912 66-70, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I miss the excitement. The electricity. How every boring detail and mundane routine becomes extraordinary. I miss having a companion by my side. Someone to talk to. Someone who...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago