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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    Its been years since last cuddled I truly do

    miss the closeness and intimacy and passion of it. Maybe one day again who knows?
    Michelle41011 Michelle41011 41-45, T 1 Response Aug 8, 2015

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    Wish I could have a cuddle buddy.

    Not someone to have sex with, just someone that misses the warmth of someone else in bed at night in front of TV, like I do...just that.
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    That was the best part of having whatever it

    was I had with him. We had great cuddle time. I miss cuddling with candles and music. Oh well. I'll survive.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2015

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    I so could use a cuddle today.

    I want to be held and have my hair stroked while I just cry a little. made to feel safe and cherished. to feel loved and not told to suck it up and get over it. I want to feel cared for not made to feel guilty because I am taking a moment to cry.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2015

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22, 2014

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    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 7, 2012

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    Cloudy and a bit drizzly here right now

    so this is the perfect weather to cuddle and watch a movie or just enjoy the company of a special someone...I do miss it a lot...but started talking to someone from here that maybe will be that person sometime...so maybe I won't have to miss it too much longer ^_^
    701TaintedLove 701TaintedLove 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2015

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    Whether it is my dog

    or someone else, but I miss having someone to cuddle with. I keep dreaming of the day that I am able to get a dog, since let's face it the guy department for me is lacking, so I am hoping to get a dog very, very soon. I just miss having someone to come home to every day...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F 1 Response May 2, 2015

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 26-30, M Mar 23, 2014

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    just having a boring night with someone.

    tomorrow is another one and again and again. whattalife. i want a life size to cuddle with. not short ones.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 22, 2015

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    every night ; If you might be by my side ;

    even just for awhile I'll hold you close and shut my eyes; how I wish this night won't die as I linger in your sweet caress.. I always forget about the rest.. as the night goes deep; everyone's asleep.. except for me ; who waits for you if only I could be the one you like...
    Nylana Nylana 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2014

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 36-40, F Feb 24, 2008

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    Not heard from him for 8 days. We were texting and had a nice 'virtual' day. Then later that evening i had a text saying who is this. Which I thought was him joking so I used our...
    Longtermotherwoman Longtermotherwoman 46-50, F 2 hrs ago

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    I wanna cuddle with someone naked :3 :3 :3 ^_^ I'm 18
    TheIntellectualAesthetic TheIntellectualAesthetic 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    Ever since I broke up with my ex I started to feel this way. It just doesn't feel right not having anyone to text good morning to every morning, or have anyone that's always...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Dudeee this makes me melt oh my gosh. I love having someone play with my hair! I'll be yours forever if you do!
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i just want to embrace someone. i wish there were more gays in my area
    ilovepie12345 ilovepie12345 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I really need someone to just cuddle with and talk to and I want to feel loved again. I'm so depressed every night
    Alphazoey Alphazoey 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really do feel like this
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want someone to cuddle with
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I remember the passion, I member the lust. I remember Exploring very inch of her body when her husband could care less about her. I remember her being invisible to him and me...
    Russian29 Russian29 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I really miss getting to cuddle and kiss when i was with my gf. We were so weird though lol. She snuck into my room one night and it was awesome. She kept trying to kiss my armpit...
    CookeyV CookeyV 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Oh God my life is boring. I have everything except a lover. So many guys crave for me. But i want one to be calld lover. To roam around with him, holding hands, dancing, drinking...
    Sweetsana6969 Sweetsana6969 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I havnt hugged anyone since he left :(
    jessixoxo4 jessixoxo4 18-21, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    I wish I had someone to cuddle with
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400