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I Miss Having Someone to Cuddle With

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    His Body Is There, But His Will Is Not

    You know the saying, better alone... it's starting to sound so true to me. Cuddling is for me one of the best ways to make me feel loved and looked after... now he wouldn't approach to me and rejects my touch, it makes me feel cold inside and lonely in an unpleasant way...
    Lenx Lenx 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    Missing Being Loved

    I am a 49 year old male from toronto and I recently seperated from the one true love of my life. I made the worst mistake a man could ever make, I took my mate and relationship for granted and stopped doing the little things that are oh so important. I remain friends with my ex...
    poorolddaddy poorolddaddy 46-50 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Someone Furry to Snuggle With

    I really miss having my cat around--- he's so soft and sweet and furry and purry. No, he has not passed, but since I'm off at college, I don't see him till Christmas. Waaah! This is my first year at college, and although I've tried volunteering at the animal shelter, I still...
    smgraver smgraver 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2008

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    Especially when feeling a poorly

    and low... Just a nice pair of arms to make you feel better and it's going to be ok :o(
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2014

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    Wish I could have a cuddle buddy.

    Not someone to have sex with, just someone that misses the warmth of someone else in bed at night in front of TV, like I do...just that.
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    Lonely

    I was in a relationship for 18 years, and I really miss there being someone there to share everything with, the good & the bad, someone to cuddle and hold,
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    haileyhb haileyhb 18-21, F Feb 22, 2014

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    I'm a Cuddler!

    I just miss having someone to curl up with on the couch.   The feel of someone's arms around me... feeling their breath on my neck... I guess that's the one thing I miss  most about not having someone special in my life.*sigh*
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    I Miss Having Someone To Cuddle With

    It's been a while since I ended with my ex GF, about 8 months. And yes I've been thinking about her every now and then, but then I just realized that it was all about a habit and not love. So I made up my mind, and haven't call her or anything.But it wasn't until yesterday that I...
    Epist Epist 22-25, M Apr 8, 2012

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    Haven't Been Touched In Months

    this is the first time in six years i don't have the touch of someone i love... what an addiction.. i feel like i'm having physical withdraw symptoms...
    HumboldtCounty HumboldtCounty 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    My friends here don't cuddle,

    but it's all I want to do. I just want to feel trusted and loved. I feel isolated and I wonder why others choose to live without affection in life. Why fear when you can simply love?
    karzon89 karzon89 22-25, M Mar 23, 2014

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    Lonliness

    Lonliness is not only in the mind and heart.  I think that it can be in the body too.  I'm divorced, and I deeply miss holding her in my arms.  I miss the warmth of another body against mine.  I miss the touch.  I miss the closeness.  Sometimes the...
    IndyNudist IndyNudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2008

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    It's weird. I don't miss him,

    I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling used to help me sleep and now I don't really have that. Blehhh.
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Anyone To Cuddle With

    Haven't had a bf since 8th grade, but it's not even that (although yes, relationships are nice)- I just want some cuddles! At college I'll cuddle with friends, anyone who's willing and available. Summer breaks are the loneliest, I live the farthest away from everyone, so no...
    mjeleon mjeleon 18-21, F Jul 4, 2012

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    It Was Fun, Wasn't It.

    Now it's just cool pillows and maybe a big book...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    When She Left...

    When my most recent serious relationship ended, I was left alone. I remember I could still smell her on my sheets, and smell her on my pillows. I spent many nights on the verge of tears just holding "her" pillow, smelling her scent, and pretending the pillow was her. After some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 21, 2012

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    every night ; If you might be by my side ;

    even just for awhile I'll hold you close and shut my eyes; how I wish this night won't die as I linger in your sweet caress.. I always forget about the rest.. as the night goes deep; everyone's asleep.. except for me ; who waits for you if only I could be the one you like...
    Nylana Nylana 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2014

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    No Such Thing As Too Much

    For me, there's just no such thing as too much affection. I give it freely without thinking twice often enough and it would be wonderful to have it repaid in full. Somehow the stars have never aligned and when I have gotten the luxury of cuddling, it has always been: wrong place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    just having a boring night with someone.

    tomorrow is another one and again and again. whattalife. i want a life size to cuddle with. not short ones.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    I Miss Curling Up On the Couch Watching Movies

    That is my favorite thing to do, to curl up on the couch with someone I love and watch a movie.  I often got to comfortable and would fall asleep though even if I wasn't all that tired the pure comfort that cuddling gives kinda just lulls you to sleep.  I think that is...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F Feb 24, 2008

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    Feeling Arms Around Me

    I miss just losing myself in someone when we are laying together and feeling like we are the only two in the world. I love looking deep into their eyes and then kissing them tenderly. I love feeling their breath on my skin because we are so close. I miss all of that.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    What's In A Cuddle?

    Here what - In a cudddle A fond farewell, A happy greeting, A healing solace, A tear that’s fleeting, A hungered passion, A longed for kiss, A life affirming Touch that’s missed. A place of safety, A place of peace, A place of happy Times not least. A source of comfort, A...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    Ironic

    It sounds silly, but when I was a kid all I ever wanted to be was in my, in terms of getting married to the love of my lfe and having children, ironic that now I don't really care at all about those goals/wants/dreams, it has been years since I have been in any semblence of a...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    Poo. :(

    I really miss having someone to sleep next to and cuddle with...i miss the warmth, and the way you can feel so safe and happy just laying there in someones arms...even just looking at them...i really want someone to hold me again and make me feel safe and protected and like no...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2007

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    As I sit here on Christmas Eve,

    I am on EP reveling private thoughts and telling how I feel. I sit and think about this should be a time to remember. A time made for family and friends or perhaps a time to spend with the one you love, so very much. I am here writing which makes me feel calm. I remember a time...
    Confucius125 Confucius125 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Miss It Greatly

    I miss feeling the warm of a woman feeling so secured in your arms :)
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    It's just the feeling you have memories of someone that you spent your time with and think about those days...I really do miss having affection from a man who cares..
    Brightandbeautiful Brightandbeautiful 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    There are a lot of things I miss about being in a relationship, but this is the one I miss the most. Whether it's a deep conversation about something that happened, or something...
    CAgrlnGA CAgrlnGA 31-35, F Feb 24

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    here are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Thank God Valentine's Day is almost over. Maybe next year.
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    My best friend was my highschool sweetheart whom after years apart I reunited with in 2007 ..he was so good to me.He loved me for me and stood up for me always even if I was wrong...
    tennmelann tennmelann 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Yes and no. I don't just want SOMEONE to cuddle with, I want my girlfriend to cuddle with, on Valentine's Day. But alas, she isn't here, or in any adjacent state....... D:
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    My spouse is away on a training trip for the week, and has been voluntarily calling home to say hi and recap the day. I guess she felt homesick. Today, her sister was going to...
    IStallion IStallion 51-55 Feb 25

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    Some how I thought putting more energy into my relationship was better than finding time to nurture my friendships. I miss having inside jokes that only we understood the backstory...
    Outmyshell Outmyshell 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    there are two people that come to my mind when I read the title to this group. one of them is a girl that I loved in college who became my best friend. her and I were so close...
    Boomer2133 Boomer2133 22-25, M Feb 15

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    I want to cuddle. Why is platonic cuddling not a thing? It would be nice to find a nice girl and cuddle, I would even be the little spoon. I heard there used to be an...
    Joshua1325 Joshua1325 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I wanna cuddle so bad :( I'm lovey person
    dreamer1030 dreamer1030 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I don't know why but I'm so addicted to the idea of just finding the a guy to cuddle my worries away with... :(
    tmcgrady tmcgrady 16-17, F Feb 6

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    im a man, but that doesn't mean i dont enjoy a tender cuddle. (NO IM NOT GAY)
    Wolf1776 Wolf1776 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    I've been talking too a married man for months and sleeping with him for a few weeks. I like him a lot and he is very caring and kind, he cuddles me and I love every minute that I...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 14

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    Call me a wuss and girlish if you want but I'm very lonely right now as I sit on my bed, watching TV with the whole house to myself. I want nothing more than to, while standing up...
    PorkythePig PorkythePig 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Growing up we always made time for friends. Sadly, there's a shift in society where we find that facebook, text messages, and the like are acceptable to keep in touch. A post on...
    Hugmybear Hugmybear 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 24

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    Everyone I know lives 2 hours away from me, and I miss them. I never get to see them anymore. I wish I had a damn car so I could see them.
    munkiegal munkiegal 36-40, F 19 hrs ago

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    Okay okay. Im not sure what having good sex means . But to me making love is a term I can relate to. Because making love is about both of you showing your affection for each other...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 16

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