I Miss Having Someone to Hold Me

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    I miss being held by someone

    who genuinely cares about me. I can shake in their arms, and they can tell me how much it'll be alright. I love being reassured, it always gives me hope. :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 4, 2015

    sometimes there is no SCOP!

    ! But there is hope!! Some day you will get what you wanted!! it means you have to wait !! but You don't know how much you have to wait !!
    smaimran smaimran
    22-25, M
    Dec 18, 2015

    I lent you the power to shape me like

    play-doh And sent a lone flower grown from rich sorrow But it lays dead on the floor burnt, flatten, and torn Reminds me of my fragile wilting heart beatless, frayed and worn. But nothing about you matters to me, not anymore I'm just yearning for ladders to get out of your...
    MusicVibeLife MusicVibeLife
    18-21, M
    Dec 24, 2015

    I feel like it something wrong with me due to

    not having anyone holding me at night. yes I am short and curvey .. but I'm not sloppy.. and it doesn't make anything better that I feel like it will be happen again in life. #collegegirlproblems
    qveenshorty qveenshorty
    18-21, F
    Dec 3, 2015
    georginas georginas
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I wish I had someone to hold me

    and make everything better. I always have the same dream that a caring affectionate man that understands me and has patience took the time to get to know me and slowly fall in love with me and notice rite away when I'm sad or happy and able to look at me with happiness that he...
    marckengenie1 marckengenie1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 20
    stupid28 stupid28
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 3
    woodyemma2013 woodyemma2013
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    i would love to have someone to hold me

    and love me tell me evrything is going to be ok
    lillyross lillyross
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    I feel like he did not make any effort to make

    me happy like I did for him. But when it's late and you're having trouble sleeping, all that floods back are the happy moments when you felt like he'd never stop peppering your face with kisses. "Aren't you tired of kissing?" "I never get tired of kissing you, " he said. I...
    whatsit2y00 whatsit2y00
    18-21, F
    Jan 7

    Even though our relationship was toxic,

    I miss when my ex would hold me and even that was sparse. Now I have my boyfriend and I just sit and think how great it will feel to be in bed with his arms around me. Us snuggling and cozy...feeling loved. Feeling at peace while being held. Too many times I've been held and I...
    soulpool20 soulpool20
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015
    brickly brickly
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 17

    I still remember the one

    and only time my mom hugged me. That was the first and last time we hugged. I haven't seen her or hugged her since then and I really miss being held cause its not like my foster parents hug me...
    SilverStarrz SilverStarrz
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2015
    lillyross lillyross
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    I was in a relationship

    for 2 and a half years. Then one day I left my girl for a stupid reason. (I wanted to settle down early whereas she didn't) After two months I realised my mistake and went back to apologise. I begged and cried for her to take me back but she didn't. I guess I deserved that...
    lockdownfj lockdownfj
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Oct 9, 2015

    Is it so wrong and so much to ask just

    for someone to spoon me at night? I just want someone to want me. Physically and emotionally. I want to be touched in all the wrong places again. But I don't think I'm good enough for anyone. At least no one notices me. I wish someone would just find me, within fate like in the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 18

    I wish I had someone to run to

    so I could just cry and feel safe about my little to non existent friendships
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    I just wanna spend a day in bed with her,

    no sex, just holding one another. Looking into each other's eyes, gentle kisses on her lips. Just happiness. That's what that'd bring (:
    TheAmazinglyAwkwardSpiderJoe1 TheAmazinglyAwkwardSpiderJoe1
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2015
    Nylinam Nylinam
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    Yes because I'm warm

    and love to be hugged . Goodnight !
    Marsgoddess Marsgoddess
    18-21, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    I was playing clash of clans.

    My mother saw me and told your girlfriend will only be this your lifepartner.I thought deeply.This was the time which I felt I need someone in my life who will take me away from the world of games to the world of love.Someone.I need someone not a boy.A girl.I never go upon looks...
    Farhanpathan Farhanpathan
    13-15, M
    Jan 1

    I miss holding somebody,

    just wrapping my arms around them and sleeping, or just spooning. now my bed, the couch, and the park bench just feels too big
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 25, 2015

    I miss having someone to hold me

    and let me cry until I'm too tired to shed another tear.. not saying words to call me down, just let all of those feelings disappear into nothing..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 27

    I wished my mom loves me.

    She really despise me and I know that... She said artists like me will never be successful, she thinks I paint for nothing and that I am only wasting my life. She probably hates me, hates the fact that she had given birth to a useless thing like me who can't make her proud, at...
    Mavisjade Mavisjade
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 19

    I used to have a lot of friends around

    but now they either live faraway or oversea and I can't hug or get hug by them :(
    Flouffy Flouffy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 7

    I have been single for a long time

    because i gave up on guys but i just miss having a sweet and simple relationship
    Pippa1969 Pippa1969
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Apr 2

    Me too I miss it too.

    I want that feeling back so bad. It's 7 months since I broke up from a long term relationship ...
    CuriousZombiePanda CuriousZombiePanda
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2015

    I even donĀ“t know how it feels like

    because there was never anybody in my life who would have done that with me. No father, no boyfriend, no husband...- nobody.
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I havnt hugged anyone

    since he left :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Feb 2

    I love to be held close!

    I miss this so much! I could just lay and cuddle someone for hours and not let them go all night.
    Centalcoastlady Centalcoastlady
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    Staying up to all hours .

    . remembering what it was like to have you in bed beside me. snuggling up close to you with my head on your chest and the feeling when you smiled and kissed me and said good morning beautiful . IT IS LIKE THAT WAS JUST A DISTANT DREAM NOW :(
    laxmeg9 laxmeg9
    18-21, F
    Jun 15, 2015

    You used to hold me. I miss that,

    although I miss little else. Laying my head in the crook of your arm and drawing my knees up aside you, your arms always drew me in and held me there. The warmth of your skin. The scent of you. The way your chest hair would tickle my nose, and the way it felt to run my...
    Eclecticelle Eclecticelle
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    I had once an online relationship with a boy.

    He usually was nice... but sometimes he really got rude, despite me telling him to stop. He had his bad and good days, and these affected me whenever I was talking to him. I finally decided to break up with him. Even though it was only an online relationship between some...
    iSatan iSatan
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 8

    I miss my partner :'( I just want him home

    already I can't stand this :'(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 8

    I broke up with a girlfriend over a year ago.

    Still in my thoughts and memories she resides. And every time this happens I have to hold back the unstoppable urge to call or text. Ever since then, I've tried time after time to find someone else. In layman's terms, it's not easy.
    aeddonmck aeddonmck
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 5

    while i was travelling in a train i met a girl.

    she was so sweet .we travelled for 12 hrs journey that too night hours ... Finally it ended up. i didnt ask any of her details.. she too didnt mentioned ... i am nt getting it out from my mind.. xpressing in this site makes me better
    pyeswanthsai pyeswanthsai
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 18

    I really want to text this guy I met

    so I can be held and feel wanted, but he's not someone I want to be with as a girlfriend. How do I tell him that I don't want a serious relationship? I'm worried I'll hurt his feelings. Has anyone had a relationship that was strictly to make each other feel wanted?
    Megmo2016 Megmo2016
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 23

    Just wondering.... Will I be missed

    if I were to leave EP?
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 21, 2014

    I actually miss him..

    . He was the one friend I could really rely on... Then I fell in love with him. He found out, and never spoke to me again. He just pushed me away. I miss those late night talks, those sneack outs late at night... And most important... I miss his hugs and his words... I miss those...
    LiamSupernatural LiamSupernatural
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    I wonder if you ever think about me with

    fondness?? Do you ever miss me?? Do you ever cry?? I miss you so much my heart hurts.
    lionessstrong lionessstrong
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    I have been single for 35 years I wish I could

    find someone to hold me and love me and be life and have a relationship with me and be in my cot with me oh I've got is my mum and my Hello Kitty and pet cat I live in the UK Kent area
    kittybaby1968age3 kittybaby1968age3
    46-50, M
    Jan 24

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    julieccaa11 julieccaa11
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    It's funny how I clearly see things changed

    but I'm still out of the circle. I guess I don't see things the same way. Having someone to hold is not really what I'm expected to do but anxiously I'm still waiting for someone that doesn't even exist. Bloody sunday.
    ousityc26 ousityc26
    18-21, F
    Oct 4, 2015

    I fall asleep alone now.

    I hug the pillows but its not the same. I miss her warm skin. her heartbeat. her touch. I'm drowning in tears
    Jessesalo Jessesalo
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 8
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