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I Miss Him Already

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    Boyfriend Left To Training At Fort Benning!

    So it has been about 3 - 4 since he has left to basic training and i miss him so much. I don't know what to do. I broke down today im so depressed i cant even eat all i wanna do is sleep so the days would go by faster until i see him again. I shed a tear every night im not use to...
    LPWC LPWC 18-21, F Aug 6, 2011

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    Its Too Easy

    I haven't seen him in like 2 days and havent talked to him in like 30 minutes and im going insane! I miss him so much already. I cant wait for him to get home, I cant wait to see him on Friday.
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2009

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    Boot Camp Vs Deployment? Oh, Please.

    Not that i'm saying it's not alright for a woman to miss her man, but really now. Would you rather he be in boot camp or AIT for three to five months in some state several hundred miles away, or would you prefer he be across an ocean or two in a war zone for nine months to a year...
    CranberryCrue CranberryCrue 18-21, F Jan 26, 2013

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    ...

    He left this morning and will be back on Monday but I miss him already.   Good thing I have my friends and my dogs to keep me distracted or I would miss him even more. Everyone knows I love my SGT and I miss him even if he is gone from me for just a few hours so when the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 4, 2010

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    Im An Air Force Girlfriend

    hey,well i have a bf that left to the air force about two weeks and i hevent herd from him!! i wrote to him 5 letters already and he hasent replied back. His parents wrote to him too and he hasent replied back either im so nervous i miss him a lot and im trying to stay strong but...
    ireri ireri 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2009

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    I Miss My Soldier

    I miss him more and more each day.. He is my heart and soul.. When I lay down to sleep at night, I reach over to touch him but he isn't there. When I have a bad dream I go to wake him, but find my bed empty. The bed is still made on his side.. You can only snuggle his pillows...
    DogTagKindaGirl DogTagKindaGirl 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2009

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    He's gone for six months.

    And it hurts. 😞😔😣😥😢😩😫😖😞😣☔️⚡️🙍💔
    AnajhaeR AnajhaeR 16-17, F Jan 2

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    Little Army Guy

    I know you for only half a year, and dating seriously since only a week, the risks as a army girlfriend was something I know before I even met you, and still I just wasn't prepared to here you are leaving so soon, only one week to go and you're of to training, and 3 before going...
    beckygmdt beckygmdt 18-21 1 Response Nov 7, 2010

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    No Doubt In My Mind

    Ok so there might of been a small possibility that I wasn't in love with my bf... but there is no doubt in my mind now. I cried yesterday alot and I guess I just had a bad day. He called me yesterday morning from AIT training and it made me feel so...
    vdj0010 vdj0010 22-25, F Jun 27, 2009

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    Somewhere In The Night

    As I lie in the bed next to you I look over at you and realize this is our last night together for a while. You have your obligations and I have mine.... but in time we will be together again and I will be able to hold you in my arms. What I have learned from you over the years...
    winterlace winterlace 46-50 3 Responses Oct 17, 2010

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    Im Pathetic...

    So I havent seen him in a day... and yeah Im missing him.......        
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    I Miss Him So Much

    I Know he left for boot camp I know he need we haven't had contact but he suppose to leave around now because he did his MEPS 3 weeks ago and did PT. SO he left and it has finally hit i'm crying I miss him so much but I know the day he comes back I can see him again and we can...
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Missing Him

    He left for bootcamp and I already miss him like crazy. I always keep my phone charged and glued to my side in case I hear from him. Everytime my phone goes off I get excited but 99% of the time it's not him.
    foreversupporting foreversupporting 16-17, F Dec 30, 2012

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    Not Sure That I Ever Even Had Him

    I miss a guy, because I'm sure i could have spent the rest of my life with him, but I think I've already lost him..
    BouncingBall BouncingBall 18-21, F Apr 15, 2009

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    I Dont Really Miss Him..

    i miss what he did for me. right now i want a ride home from work cause i want to get out of here as fast as possible. i feel so pathetic for giving in so easily.
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Jan 28, 2012

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    Missing Him !!!!

    My husband and I  have been together since high school. We started talking when I was in the 10th grade and he in the 11th. He joined the army when he was in the 11th and we stayed together. When ever he had to leave and go to camp, ait, training courses, and the storm team...
    yungmilitarywifey yungmilitarywifey 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    :(

    It's only been one day without talking to him at all, and I feel so torn up.
    allyrs allyrs 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2010

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    I Think About You, Occasionally.

    More than I would care to admit, actually. You've always been a creeper. Irritating in your way that you could walk up behind anyone and they would never hear you if you didn't want them to. You snuck into my consciousness with the same kind of tactful bravado. You artfully...
    FewWords FewWords 22-25, F Mar 12, 2013

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    My Way Of Not Missing You

    I'm back in my hometown for one month. Still have 20 more days to go. I am married and before I left my husband made it sound like I was getting too emotional about leaving him behind. That really hurt my feelings..he told me to forget what he said and that he would miss me. I...
    heartshapedcandy heartshapedcandy 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2013

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    My Marine

    My boyfriend is joining the marines. He is 19, and I don't think that he should go because I think that he is going in close minded. I love the fact that he wants to do something big for the country, but I don't think he knows what hes getting into. He leaves July 13th for Boot...
    iloveyoubaby iloveyoubaby 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Alot Harder Than I Thought...

     My boyfriend left a week ago for basic but he has been in processing the whole week so i was still able to talk to him on the phone..but tonight was the last night i would talk to him on the phone cause he starts basic tommorow..im so proud of him and i have known he was...
    meggers616 meggers616 18-21, F 8 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Left Me Behind

    My boyfriend left on Monday for Meps and arrived at Fort Jackson sometime on Tuesday. Boy do i miss him its crazy how much people can take the ones they love for granted i cant wait to hear from him my heart stops everytime my phone goes off even though i know its too early to...
    Lillady0825 Lillady0825 22-25, F Nov 14, 2012

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    :(

    We've been broken up for like 6 hours and I already miss him like crazy. I feel so bad for the way things ended. All I want to do is text him or call him and just apologize and beg for him to come back but I cant bring myself to do it. I cant put myself in a potion where i could...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2009

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    First Night Without Him..

    Soo i survived my 1st night without my soldier, only 26 days and ill have him in my arms for 3 weeks until he will have to go back to training, the time couldnt go fast enough... i recieved a message from him lastnight saying they are drilling him already that he misses me and...
    mysoldiermylife mysoldiermylife 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    He's So Far Yet So Near

    i miss him a lot. we're oceans away.SAD part? he doesnt have a signal..No chance of talking neither texting and even email..I hope he is safe and okay.. =(
    sehrge sehrge 22-25, F Sep 5, 2009

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    So Far

    My boyfriend just went for training down in Kentucky. Its only been almost a week. I miss him so much it hurts :(
    addicted16 addicted16 16-17, F Jul 8, 2011

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    Not Even Been Here Yet Or Outof The States

    I am missing Jack aleady. he hasn't even been home yet. To see me and spend time with me. I don't know what is wrong with me. I guess that it could be that I am falling in love with him. Jack also hasn't even left the states yet. I am missing him so bad. I just can't wait until I...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Feb 9, 2011

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    MyCAA offers Military Spouses a grant for $4,000 to attend schooling online. That's right; FREE on-line; All from the Comfort zone of your home at your own pace. E5 and below W1 to W2 or O1 to O2- if you Spouse is in this rank zone than this GRANT is FOR YOU. We have tons of...
    azgal2011 azgal2011 18-21, F Apr 1, 2012

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    I Miss Him Online

    I miss my online boyfriend even if i didn't see him in person yet... what more when we meet? I'm too excited to see him soon ... miss him badly!  --- it's been 2 years being online friends and more ... now i love him so much.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2008

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    I Don't Know If My Dream Comes True

    for how many time i dream that man a man with dignity. a man that loves me in my dream.in this kind of technology i used ,i found him on line. a month we chat we we talked a lots and we shared what is be done.from now he wants to see me in real, in real life but i don't know if...
    mamayancheta mamayancheta 36-40 Jun 5, 2010

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    It's One of Those Night's!

    I spent an amazing weekend with my hunny last week. It was the last time we'd be together for the next 12 months. Deployment good bye's are seriously the hardest. I have been doing all right all week. Monday and tuesday(the 1st 2 days i was back)were the hardest. I have...
    ashleysvr ashleysvr 18-21, F May 2, 2009

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    Until Next Time ....

    The emptiness I feel now permiates through me. It's just been a few hours since I dropped you off at the airport, sipping a Starbucks, while I watched your eyes tear up as you told me how much you love me, how much you need me in your life and how when you go home, your life is...
    winterlace winterlace 46-50 Jan 15, 2011

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    Is It Ok To Miss Him?

    I don't normally miss guys. When I've been with people I have got texts saying "I miss you" but all I could think was "but I saw you the other day." Let's just say I'm not one to get attached. But now.... I met someone recently and only had a few chances to see him (he lived in...
    filistata filistata 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2011

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    Help!!! I'm Tired Of It Being Hard Most Of The Time And I Want It To Change!!!

    My marine is stationed far away and I haven't seen him in over a month. I was told it gets easier and easier the longer he is away but then I was told it gets harder and harder. Well, I have come to the conclusion that most of the time it is hard. I'm new to the site so I haven't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2010

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    Ladies Who Cheat On Their Husbands Are Pathetic. I Miss My Husband Also But I Would Never Cheat Because I Actually Love Him.

    My husband has been gone since 2 weeks after we got married (october 24th, 2011) i miss him and feel like half of me is missing. i jump every time i hear his ringtone and stop whatever im doing to talk to him. this is the love of my life, my bestfriend who i can always depend on...
    asgutierrez asgutierrez 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Fiance In the Mental Ward

    My poor guy is in a crisis state right now. When I visit him at the hospital and when he has a moment of lucidity the first words that come into my head are I Miss Him Already. He's lucid for maybe 30 seconds upto 5 minutes, and I get one visit a day. And it is so sad.
    MarieStu MarieStu 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    He lives thousands and thousands of miles away

    but still we share this strong connection.We have never met but still we are crazy about each other.I miss him everday and everynight.I know its weird i havent even met him but it feels like i have known him since a very long time.I feel like he is no stranger.He feels like an...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I Miss My Soldier

    I miss him so much i have to wait until november or december to see him again. Sometimes at work (lifeguard) i just want to start cry on post and I know i cant because thats a distraction and I don't want anyone hurt. So the past few weeks it's been really hard keeping...
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Wanting Him Near

    So its only been a week since i seen him but i still have 7 months to go till ican be with him... my husband is my life my world my joy and when we're not togehter it seems my life light is just a lil to dim for my liking. I try to stay cheerful but it doesnt work all that well...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    He Called!

    He called me tonight and it was amazing to get to hear his voice. I love the way he wants to share everything about his days with me. (Even though I know there are some things he isn't able to tell me)  He always knows how to make me laugh. As I told him, text messages are...
    misstexas4ever misstexas4ever 22-25 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    .i Miss Him..

    S0 MY BABY [DEViN] HAS BEEN G0NE SINCE [4.12.10] A T0TAL 0F LIKE 6 GOING ON 7 WEEKz WiTH 0NLY 3 WEEKz TO GO 0F BASIC. THEN AWHOLE 19 M0RE WEEKz AWAY FOR AIT SK00L.. I REALLY ENJ0Y THE LETTERz [WRITING & RECIEVING] BUT ITS STARTING 2 GET 0LD ALREADY & THEIR N0T C0MING FAST EN0UGH...
    jaejae216 jaejae216 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30, 2010

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    Please Come Home

    I don't like your work. Nope nope nope. Not if they can rip you away from me at a moments notice and send you off to another state. I want you back. I want a long hug with my good bye. I want to have a chance to say goodbye!!! It's not fair that you're leaving now and I can't...
    Mello Mello 26-30, F 15 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I miss my boyfriend so much that it hurts. Some days im fine & really happy & then some days it hits me out of nowhere. My boyfriend is in prison & I miss him so much. I try...
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    I wish he would miss me too. He could contact me if he wanted, it wouldn't be difficult! I'm pretty sure he liked me a lot. Couldn't read him that well - but liked him soo much...
    Sextingpartnerwanted69 Sextingpartnerwanted69 46-50, F Apr 5

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    Spring break is almost over, and I haven't seen or heard from him in a week. It's the saddest thing when you finally find someone that is mutually attracted to you, but you can't...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I miss him because he was the first person I saw everyday for the past six years. My go to person when I was having a bad day. He was the one person who showed me what true love...
    Millymom Millymom 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    We were together for three months. We started dating on the 9th of December 2013. We got along perfectly and I instantly fell in love. He was everything to me. His name was jack...
    kaitlyndyebrinkman kaitlyndyebrinkman 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Today's a day were Dakotahs on my mind a lot I know that he's watching over me and sees the pain I am going thru with out him but I miss him so much that sometimes I was to scream...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I miss him, probably more than I should, but it's not a switch I can turn on and off, it's just as natural as breathing, missing a person. I do worry about it sometimes, but...
    girl3255 girl3255 16-17, F Apr 14

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    Even though we broke up almost 2 months ago, I still think about him like crazy and actually, it's been more than usual for the past few days. I can't stand knowing that he could...
    amandavynes amandavynes 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I hate that I miss him more than he misses me...
    arenales arenales 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I miss the way he caressed me the way he made me feel so specia the way he grabbed me and kissed me i miss him.... but he's busy I guess...
    Rosesanddiamonds Rosesanddiamonds 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 4

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