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I Miss Him So Much It Hurts

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    So now I know it wasn't me,

    thank you for helping me let you go. I am happy.
    MsBrightEyes MsBrightEyes 18-21, F May 4

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    Felt Like I Almost Died

    Last night i almost died from pain or so it felt like. Talking with my friend about her bf literally causes physical pain in my chest. I couldnt fall asleep because my mind started racing as she spoke about her issues/happiness etc. I drifted between flashbacks of me n him to the...
    Agnes8409 Agnes8409 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2012

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    me and my boyfriend broke up due to the fact that it wasn't working :L he was never there for me when i needed him and i couldn't handle it so i ended it .. twomonths on i try to move on but i just can't i couldn't understand because i thought i felt nothing for my ex anymore :L...
    crumpetaliens crumpetaliens 18-21, F Sep 16, 2011

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    Tears Upon Tears

    I never thought looking at my promise ring that my boyfriend had bought me two days before he got arrested would bring so many tears to my eyes. Every time I look at it, I think of all of our happy moments together, & just lose control & just start crying for hours. I miss my...
    amychrisinee amychrisinee 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    4 J. M.

    "I feel you feel me forever."  Those simple words spoken from you to me will be worn inside my heart until it makes its final beat. I really don't think that I will ever really comprehend the magnitude with which you took over my life nor the depth at which you were...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    I Miss Him..

    Me and my boyfriend were dating for a month, and I know it didn't seem alot but for me it was the BEST days of my life. I remember when I was walking with my friends and he hugged me from behind. It was the best feeling in the world. And I remember when he kissed me and etc...
    Hay6843 Hay6843 16-17, F Mar 9, 2013

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    pinsy77 pinsy77 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Is Hard Being Away From the One You Love....

    Its really hard being away from the one you Love, the one you want to spend your life with, the one you can't imagine living without. The one who makes you feel loved and safe. As of Late. I have been missing my Love, and it has been very hard on me. I never went a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    Ppl say you can't be in love at a young age

    but I don't believe that. I fell in love with my best friend. We had such good times together and one day he just died. Shot and killed. I can't help but think it's my fault. He asked me to the prom and I told him I didn't want to go. And that I wasn't really into that. He died...
    dr3am3r18 dr3am3r18 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Not Long Now :)

    It won't be too long now until my man comes home but at the moment it feels like it will be forever. When he first went to Afghanistan it wasn't so bad, we hadn't been getting along too well before hand so I didn't miss him so much. Then recently he came home for R&R and...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    Why do I still think about him he has a new

    girlfriend and tomorrow would have been your 8 mouths but it's not I miss him still and he my friend and all but should I tell him he still hurting me?
    spike05255 spike05255 13-15, F Mar 9

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    Tough Love

    Why is it so hard to live without the one you love? I can't imagine a life without him...My boyfriend broke up with me March 22nd after 4 months of dating. I screwed up so much, that I cannot forgive myself.I miss him so much that hurts and it puts tears in my eyes whenever I...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    How Could U Leave Me?!?!

    my boyfriend dumped me sunday march 7th. we had been dating over a year. i got an abortion on the 4th and it was his child. i regreted it and still do. the fact that he was not there for me when i was crying all thursday and friday and even went out to the movies with another...
    cheergirl226 cheergirl226 16-17, F Mar 16, 2010

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    I really do. Sometimes,

    i just cry at night for things i couldn't change. I wish we could go back to those times where...where ohmygod i can't even go on. I wish we could see each other just the two of us. I wish i could hug him right now. I wish i don't love him as much as i do.
    xandra1794 xandra1794 18-21, F Feb 28

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    He Got On His Knees For Me

    Its not because he needed to its because he had to My best friend had to leave the states because his mom got a job offer and took it. We had only been friends for a year but we were the best He was always there... I guess you could say were friends with benefits(without the...
    Areisal Areisal 18-21, F Jun 19, 2013

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    So Sad I Cant Breath

    My fiance' and i were together for 3 years, last tuesday he said he thought it would be best if i moved in with my brother. He doesnt want to drag me down with him. We had been "arguing" for a while because this manipulative woman has been hanging around him since last year...
    CaseCrewe CaseCrewe 26-30, F Jan 28, 2013

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    Broke down, i couldnt stand not hearing his

    voice or knowing how his days is going/went I text him, i hoped id get a we shouldnt keep talking, he could help my enforce doing the right thing We echanged text for a few minutes it was enough to satisfy my addiction of hearing from him... It would be easier to move on if he...
    MunecaTrizte MunecaTrizte 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Its Like...

    some one has really slowed cut into my chest, filling my lungs up with pain, and are now ripping my heart out through my throat. its a physical pain that feels like its spread to every part of my body.   i never realised how much i love him. i never thought of myself as...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    I Miss Him and He Says Its Over

    I miss him so so much.He texted me last night and said that he is done with me that it is all over.That i am the past never the future when i saw that my heart started to race tears started coming up confusin was all around.Now i dont know what to do he is my world my light...
    lovebug9874 lovebug9874 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2008

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    I Just Want To Be With Him

    It all started when I was still in school - he was a couple of years older than me and I always had a crush on him. I would never tell him back then - I thought he was way out of my league. Fast forward 30 odd years and we find one another again through FB. We just begin to...
    Aussieprincess10 Aussieprincess10 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Help :(

    I broke up with my boyfriend sometime in August because I thought he didnt love me anymore. He confused me by sending weird texts and then a week later said he needed time alone. I didnt understand because we barley talked that summer since he went to Europe. When I broke up with...
    ScreamMyDeath ScreamMyDeath 70+, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2009

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    I really do. Sometimes,

    i just cry at night for things i couldn't change. I wish we could go back to those times where...where ohmygod i can't even go on. I wish we could see each other just the two of us. I wish i could hug him right now. I wish i don't love him as much as i do.
    xandra1794 xandra1794 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    Most of these posts are about ex's.

    .. Mines about my grandad. For some reason I'm having trouble not crying right now. I know he's at peace but I didn't see him for three weeks I sat in the waiting rooms at the hospital and just cried. I was too hound to see him and I wish I was told earlier how ill he actually...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I miss someone. I miss him. I know I shouldn't because we haven't been contacting each other for weeks now. And I heard he's back with his ex. I really want to forget about him...
    zharra82 zharra82 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    August 25, 2014 Monday I miss him so bad it hurts after he broke up with me now he's texting me saying that he is stuck with our memories and we have the best past together that...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    When I say I miss him, I mean so much more than that. I miss his silly jokes and random knowledge, me thinking he's as thick as mince and making fun. I miss his arms around me and...
    Ladybuddha1 Ladybuddha1 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So the love of my life just left for home via the train. I miss him so much already…I cannot hold the emotion inside. It hurts not to have him here with me. Not having him here...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    We were talking about getting married . And I did out he was selling drugs behind my back . He was physically abusive the first time we go together and I gave him another chance...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F a week ago

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    I know it wasn't meant to be but I really miss him, and wish he'd given me an explanation.
    writerchic writerchic 36-40, F Aug 3

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    Him.... I met him January of this year. When I first met him, I really didn't "feel" anything for him nor was I attracted to him. But why, why did I miss him after ? Why did he...
    infinitexhope infinitexhope 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    He doesn't realize how much i miss him when he's not talking to me. It sucks because I think about him so much more than he thinks about me. If he was thinking about me he'd...
    allie661 allie661 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I miss him so much ..he's over running my thoughts and everything I think about. I find myself often in daze wondering what we would be doing if he were right here next to me...
    aliy14 aliy14 13-15, F Aug 15

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    Ugh I know I shouldn't because not being with him is the right decision, but I love him and I miss him so much! >~<
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Is hearing his voice say I love you to much to ask for right now? Seriously I miss him and can't stand him being away :( I seriously hate that his dad won't let me have contact...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I met him in primary school we were besties, now after 7 years we got together but I went to another country, we are still together but i miss him so much i have not seen him in...
    lanabananaa lanabananaa 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    Even though arguing with him was like playing Pictionary with the person who draws one weird little shape and just keeps circling it over and over and over. Ok I dont miss him that...
    PinkP0werRanger PinkP0werRanger 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I miss him so much I wish that we where together still #kiandrea
    GIRLYGIRL894 GIRLYGIRL894 26-30, F Aug 9

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    He was my real first. I thought of the many possibilities that we could have ended up with. But alas, he just told me he was just playing around. I still remembered the last time...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    hasn't texted me for only a day and I cried for like no reason I guess it's because I miss him a lot idk I haven't really talked all day not in the mood to talk to anyone but him...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Jul 27

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    Oh my... Why am I starting to miss him... How i wish he misses me too...
    msgrateful msgrateful 36-40, F Aug 16

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    Ok so I had this gay friend. We aren't friends anymore and I want to be. I miss him. He seems so happy without me and I lost all my friends because of this. I loved him at one...
    Morgy79 Morgy79 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I met him on a trip, we liked each other from the start flirting and eventually he kissed me. (On the day we were supposed to leave.) He gave me his facebook name and Instagram...
    SecretativeAly SecretativeAly 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    That moment when u want to cry outta the blue, and realize u just miss him
    dontcareChick dontcareChick 16-17, F Aug 5

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    I miss him! I hope we can chat again. 😭
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I miss him.. Why did he has to call me... Again in again then not calling anymore? But the I can feel that the feeling is mutual.. If ure confused as a reader so am i..
    msgrateful msgrateful 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I feel like such a horrible person for missing him. I have someone else now. We're happy. I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but I can't help but crave the attention of...
    feralady feralady 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    even though im not allowed near him and he hates me i listen to all the songs that bring back memory of him, just the way you are, ill be waiting, phir mohabbat, zulfa, perfect two...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I wasn't always this way. I didn't always push everyone away. With him I convinced my self after almost 2 months that I wasn't the one for him no matter how much I wanted to be...
    Meganrosee Meganrosee 16-17, F Aug 18

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    I wish this was what he meant when he replied to my late night drunk text. I wish he meant it when he said I was all he's ever wanted. I wish he hadn't told me all those lies...
    ForeverWinter21 ForeverWinter21 18-21, F Aug 6

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    It's been 3 years since my man was beside me. Hoping he gets to me soon. Miss his touch and kiss.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 days ago