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I Miss My Best Friend Growing Up He Was Transgender

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    Soon it seemed like we were being woke up to get up and start the day not sure what happened to the night except, I bet we played in it a lot. As Roberta’s mother came in the change us think she was surprised we no longer had diapers on and back in training pants. Told her I...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 22, 2011

    The Mall 1

    THE MALL Back then the mall was a different type of place then they are now. And in our area the Sears mall was one of the first. She then took Roberta in to his room and dressed him in a cute red and white summer dress and put a wig on him so he had very long hair as she comb it...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 15, 2010

    Friday Night And Angiles

    We get to work about 12:30 after we drop Billie and her boyfriend the other gas station. And it was already busy Lora’s dad was the only one working at the time Roberta ask people to wait just a second so she could read the meter which we did fast the I went to pump the gas...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 10, 2011

    Fri Morning Long Weekend

    We get to work about 12:30 after we drop Billie and her boyfriend off at the other gas station. Almost as soon as we got there we started to work we did the meter reading first then Robert when to do the inside count while I took over the front island as Lora’s dad went back to...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 10, 2011

    Sunday Church Then Shopping

    Saturday night It had been a long hard day, after we got home with everyone wanting to drive the new car, me and Roberta talked about going to the movies tonight, but we decide against it this weekend till I get more night driving time. As we all ate an easy dinner and sat there...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 6, 2011

    87

    87 After Steve and his mother leave we head in to get our baths as we check on little big eyes, to make sure she is till dry and we kiss her good night. as we walk into the bath room and I help her put the cream on her face. I am filling the tub for us we hold hand and start to...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 22, 2011

    Ramblings And Time Lines.

    Ramblings and time lines. Not sure where this is all going right now, I am trying to keep I tin a time line near how it all happened as a child, not even sure why I am writing it, but I just know I have too. Strange as it may sound may time it is like Roberta is sitting here...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 20, 2010

    The Pain

    The pain of living after abuse Someone send me a message that the stories are onside, well that maybe true as I am writing them man years after the fact. But I do know they were there always for me when the pain was bad and I know it had to have scared them really bad the first...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 1, 2011

    83

    83 Things were pretty sad for a few weeks, even our boss felt sorry for them the paid her just like she was training and his wife gave her 100.00 she could use in the store for clothing. Roberta’s mother helped her write up the paper work so she had control over Janice, but...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 20, 2011

    Paula And Dewitt The Plan

    oon we are a sleep in each other’s arms and being woke up by her mother, as her mother says stinky kids as we laugh. I get up and go run her a bath then undress her n the bed and lift her into the air and carry her into the bath room and set her in the tub of hot water, as I...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 13, 2011

    Paula And Dewiil Join Our Group

    We left the house and locked it up as we got on the bike and headed to work, when we got there Roberta changed clothing and started to do a count of items as Lora’s dad ask me who my tail was as I looked it was Dewitt and Paula told him friends from school. I went out to see...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 12, 2011

    Saturday Sunday School

    Saturday, Sunday ,school We woke up in each others arms and listened for others but the house seemed quite. As I took her but the hand and told her it was time to go potty and took her in to the bathroom and pulled her training pants off and set her on the potty as she giggled, I...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 17, 2010

    Sunday Long 7/4/ Weekend

    As we get baths and dressed for breakfast and the day that is to follow. At the table we talked about plans for the day. i said as long as it seems quite here we may just go up and see if we can get few extra hours work into day Robert said but we take bike, ok We ask Billie if...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 12, 2011

    Sunday

    sat night, We both were taken to the outhouse and told to try and use it before getting ready for bed and a while alter we were taken back to the cabin and gotten ready for bed his grandparents were very interested in the scars on my stomach, and I explained I had cancer a few...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 15, 2010

    Babyshopping 1

    The day is over as we get our bag from the locker and from the nurse office and head for the bike to go home and give Roberta a hot bath and care for her shoulder. As we pull into the drive way I walk up and unlock the door, then we both walk inside as I close the door. I reach...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 10, 2011

    Thursday

    Thursday thisand all the storys are true names are hard after 50 some years to remeber other then the dirct people We woke up and kissed each other and we could smell breakfast being cook so we decide to surprise his mother and grandmother and jumped out of bed and went...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 16, 2010

    The Confrontation

    The confrontation As we pull into Paula’s drive way a male person walks out of the door, and ask if he can help us, as Paula gets out of the van and tells then she would like her belongs, and the guys say over your dead body, I ask him if he is a biker and he tells me yes he...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 13, 2011

    84

    84 As we head up to the station to talk with Lora’s father, as we talk he said Steve had an idea he wanted to run by me, told him sure, Steve had 2 ideas the first idea was we need to get 4 extra wheels that fit the police care, and always have them ready to go sitting here...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 20, 2011

    86

    I could feel her body start to relax and over the time her body relaxed so I could move as Roberta started to come around all we heard was well Roberta you did make ricki into a man as she stated to cry the adults came over and sat beside her telling her it was ok. Roberta ask...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 21, 2011

    79

    79 Lunch was nice and quiet but Roberta was still getting teased and she looked at me and said, well you said you would tell no one that we went all the way, and that started it we all started laughing. Roberta asks how they knew, and the told her it was the first time she looked...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 17, 2011

    78

    78 Work went slow which was really nice for the first day back after 2 weeks Roberta went up and talked with Paula for a little while on her break and came back with a big smile on face and a bag she said for later. But still after 6 hours my shoulder was telling me about the...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 17, 2011

    91

    91 As I knew what had happened I told her to just relax as I got up and ran her a hot bath and l cleaned her up on the bed then lifted her into the bathroom to give her a hot bath and wash her allover to get her nice and clean. As I took the dirty stuff out and put it in the...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 26, 2011

    Summer Shool Week 1

    Summer school week one After the first day it was pretty quite not a lot going just going to class and studying at night. Work as been quite too, Billie and her boyfriend have been doing a great job there. After work part of the time Billie’s mother is taking them to make the...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 6, 2011

    Best Friend Growing Up 2

    Over the next months and years he became like a real young lady to me I never saw him as a boy unless we were in school then his name was Robert and after school or weekends his name was Roberta, Think it was about age 14 or 15 when his mother informed us she was going to get...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 15, 2010

    Friday

    friday We sat down in front of the TV and drank a coke as we held each other tight and just cuddled and explored each other’s bodies , she was wiggling a lot and i ask her if it itched and she turn red in t he face and said yes, told her it would go away soon till you get hot...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 20, 2010

    80

    80 As we laid snuggled up to each other, we were awake by a noise but we could see it was just little big eye using her potty chair but we could see she was still asleep when she got up to use and forgot to pull her pants down. As I got up to help her and to help get dry pants...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 18, 2011

    The Bowling Alley

    Bowling Alley Roberta’s mother dropped us off that the bowling alley as she head out to the other side of the small shopping center. We walk inside in side like many other couples holding hands with each. And we found a table near the eating area. Ii ask her what shoe size...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 17, 2010

    81

    81 I ask her how old she was she said 17.5 I told him you need to talk with your mother and see about here living with you if you want if your mother needs to talk have her call hear and maybe we can provide some information as we gave them the number and ask if they needed a...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 19, 2011

    Fri Night

    Friday night It had been along had last few days for all, with the long trip to the lake all the time there the car racing on Sunday, just dealing with the feeling that was where a bunch of bad things happened to me and others. Seemed like my mind was just floating as we made the...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 16, 2010

    The Confrontation Day After

    The confrontation day after As we snuggle up to each other we can hear the house getting quite as I get up to check little big eyes and her friend to make sure they are both dry, as I curl back up with Roberta and we kiss ech other and fall back asleep in each other’s arms...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 13, 2011

    Anita

    Anita i have always wonder how much pain the person had to bear during there life and what pushed her over the edge, but i do know when a person want to take they own life for real no one is ging to stop them, She is one other person I knew years ago she was also transgender, she...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 15, 2010

    76

    As we locked up the station and headed back to the house and once again said good night and returned to bed and kissing each other, and soon to making love once more before sleep as she whispered it is o nice to have you back. As we both fell asleep. Later I woke to feel her...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 15, 2011

    Tuesday Construction

    Tuesday construction We talked for awhile with her mother and Jane, they ask how the day went, we told them we got the garage cleared out. And the new wood up top for the flooring to set stuff on. Both adults wanted to know how it went with Billie and her boyfriend; we told them...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 28, 2010

    The Rest Of The Week

    The rest of the week So we were tucked in to bed again and given good night kisses as his grandparents came in and said good night and kissed us good night too, as they left and turn out the lights as we snuggled up near each other and she kissed me good night and turned her back...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 16, 2010

    85

    85 We drove up to that station and took little big eyes in to her desk in the office while we made our counts and did the paper work I saw the 4 new rims sitting on the floor I ask if those were for the police car mounts and was told yes I thanked them. As I went to do the meter...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 21, 2011

    Friday

    Friday as we finished getting dressed we went to the kitchen , and they ask what time we had to be to work today we told work was noon but we had agreed to me another couple at 11::00 as they wanted to talk They said ok the gives us almost 2 hours, as a plate was placed in...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 26, 2010

    Start Of Long Weekend & Guests

    As we get home and go in the house for the night we all talk about school and things, her mother’s ask how the shoulder is Robert tells her it hurts but is getting better as she had her remover her dress so she could see it, ouch is all she said but looks like ricki is treating...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 10, 2011

    The Other Side

    The other side These part deals basic with me. If you have read the stories, on going you see a lot of love and expectance from others. in all the years we never had a fight we never really even got mad at each other, no one ask us to do anything as it was already done, we knew...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 7, 2011

    Monday And New Group Memeber

    We headed for the small coffee shop for some hot cakes and coffee after taking our pills, then to school to see what ne adventure will find us today. As we pull into the parking lot and park the bike then walk inside and look around. We look at each other as I saw a table where...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 12, 2011

    Monday Constrution Day 1

    Roberta’s mother asked time we got off work today we told them 9:00 pm they assured us they would be there and to enjoy this week as next week was summer school :P . Roberta mother, told us breakfast was ready, and she wanted to know how Roberta was doing on her makeup for...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 28, 2010

    82

    82 We left the house then drove to the hot dog, stand I walked up with Steve and order the food for all of us, well I order for me and Roberta and he order for him and Janice, as I paid for the food. We went back to the car to eat lunch, they ask if they could stop at his...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 19, 2011

    90

    90 Soon we are being waked up by Roberta’s mothers, ok sleepy heads, and time to get up. We look at her and say good morning, as she kisses us then whisper, so what happened in the tree house and we both turn bright red. Long story we tell her she say ok but they want to hear...
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    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 25, 2011

    New Family Car

    New family Car As we leave the mall area and head up to mission blvd to make the turn to go to Chevrolet dealer we got our car from. As we drove into the parking lot to go look around, we parked and little big eyes wanted up so I lifted her and placed her on my shoulders as the...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 15, 2011

    89

    89 Roberta head down on my chest, I can reach her training pants and pull them up where they belong as I slide my up too and we curl up and fall sound asleep with each other till we are woke up in the morning. As Roberta’s mother was waking us up, to get ready for school, she...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 24, 2011

    After The Attack Legal Stuff

    After the attack legal stuff I know there tried to change us during the night but gave up, when they could not untangle us from each other. So they just remove our wet training pants and left us on the bed pads saying we can deal with it in the morning as they kissed us good...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 15, 2011

    After The Attack

    A lot of the last 2 weeks seems like it has been a dream of coming in and out the fever is gone the pain is pretty much gone now my mind is clearing from the tea. they are back to just using the smelly stuff on my shoulder. I am thank full for Roberta and her mother and Jane too...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 14, 2011

    Long Weekend Sat

    I like to see if she could get an appointment told her yes give use a few hours ok will do does she know I told her no, she just smiled and told me she loved me and that was nice. As we got dressed to go shopping I told them we have to make one stop at the station on the way out...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 11, 2011

    The Attack

    About that time someone behind me hit me with something as Roberta reacted as did the others, the next think I knew was I was in the hospital with a few extra tubes hooked up to me as Roberta’s mother and Jane walk in to talk with the doctor the boy that the dean had turned...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 14, 2011

    Sears

    SEAR She came out of the house crying saying no one had ever given her such pretty flowers, and I returned no one ever tucked me into bed and kissed me, or treated me like I was loved about the time another car pulled up and we all got into the van. With the 2 adults in the front...
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    61-65, M
    Dec 19, 2010

    77

    77 Funny thing we do not even remember being changed during the night last night, but we both had different training pants on when they came in to wake us, as I help Roberta change she kissed me and thanked me for last night that was the best one yet making love, with just...
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    61-65, M
    Jan 16, 2011

    My Best Friend Growning Up As A Young Lady Traped In A Male Body

    But growing up I had a friend that always believed he was in the wrong body. It was a shock the first time he told me and his mother confirmed it. Growing up I had other issues to deal with like always being in diapers or wet pants, it never really was a problem after I got a...
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    61-65, M
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2010
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