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I Miss My Boyfriend In The Military

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    So I went to the orthopedic today

    for my foot I got bad news and I just wish my boyfriend was here so I could tell him and be with him. Really missing him today
    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I can't sleep when I think about wanting him

    back next to me....this queen size bed is just too big alone.
    itsjess13 itsjess13 22-25, F Nov 8

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    I'm The Worst Girlfriend In The World!!

    so my boyfriend Coby is suppose to go on underway for a month and I know yu guys might say that is not along time but he just got back from a 10 month deployment 3 weeks ago.. He comes back next month for just one month and leaves on another 8 month deployment.. It's killing me...
    HisAngel90 HisAngel90 18-21, F Sep 7, 2011

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    It's so hard some days.

    ..especially when you realize how much longer you have to wait....and they are so far away...:( We had a routine...texting the same time everyday....and then this morning he didn't...I know he's busy...but it's hard not to worry...
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Not only is he away in his schools right now

    but we have also been long distance since our first date. I miss him all the time. We still see each other once or twice a month right now. Before, it was every weekend. I just can't wait until we can actually be in the same city. Unfortunately, that will be at least a year. We...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    It was great to talk to him on messenger last

    night! We were supposed to skype but he was running late..:/ He is 7 hours ahead..so it's not too bad.. I'm getting used to the time difference actually. I really miss him...💙
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 25

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    4th year dating him! He just joined the military

    and I couldn't be more proud of him,
    treya15 treya15 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    Having a tough few days.

    .I know I need to not worry and stay positive all the time...I'm trying :)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I can't believe I missed

    that phone call :( I was so ready for it! How am I ever going to sleep now 💔
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 16-17, F Aug 10

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    Truth Is...

    I can say a lot of different things right now that make me sad. But the truth is. I just miss my boyfriend. Any of you girls who are on the same page as me, don't you just dream with maybe just five minutes with him. That's all I would need to be ok. But I know it can't be that...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    This Feelings Sucks.

    The feelings of wanting to tear up because you miss your soldier sucks. You tell yourself to be strong for him and your relationship, still, you just want to tear up. You close our eyes, imagining him right in front of you, smiling, laughing together, holding one another in each...
    stephanienee stephanienee 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    Crying my eyes out because I miss him

    so much. I won't see him until 2016 and my friends just say "it's not the end of the world" well no it may not be the end of the world. But it's painful and it sucks so having them disregard my feelings hurts so much. I just need someone to talk to who understands what I'm going...
    armygirl20 armygirl20 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Ranting Time!!!

    ok ladies excuse me while i rant!! so i have these two friends, both girls and they can be sooooo stupid sometime and i cant believe what they both said to me recently. Firstly, my friend KB was complaing that she hadnt seen her bc since that mornin when he dropped her off at...
    gamblesgirl21 gamblesgirl21 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Sex is not everything.

    But while my army man is away I do miss that special bond you get from sex. I just miss him like crazy and miss that feeling of being intimately connected. Is that normal? He was my first too
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Today I bought myself a corsage with three

    carnations on it. Each carnation was a different color, one was red, one was blue and yes the last was white. I asked for the ribbon to match my the color of my flowers and asked the florist to pin the corsage on me. She did and I wore proudly to church, while practicing my...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus 51-55, F May 10

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    I Gotta Vent :-/

    So I know my bf loves me and I know he writes as much as he can but the dumb mailman always takes forever to bring it to me!! I get so anxious when I know the mail is about to arrive and then...nothing. I googled it and they say processing takes forever at the bases. In my...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Phone Call I Almost Didn't Get

    i got a phone call from him today. only three minutes but the best three minutes to me. it was actually crazy because i was in church for vacational bible school as a helper and i showed my phone to the other adults I am with and they were like run outside and take it. i was like...
    bbwshorty94 bbwshorty94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Military Girlfriends Don't Matter?

    Sometimes people look down on us because were only girlfriends. Wait what?...I'm only a girlfriend? Oh, okay that's right cause all girlfriends do is flirt with other guys, complaint about how much they miss him, but still go to parties drink and maybe sleep around? Or maybe I...
    JessesGirl16 JessesGirl16 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    He is leaving. He is really leaving,

    I don't know what I'm going and I'm proud so proud but I'm also so sad. My boyfriend is joining the Navy Seals he ships out in 7 days. I have cried for hours for days, but 7 days. I have 7 days left with him, 7 days until he is gone for months on end. I love him so much, he is...
    carsonlyle carsonlyle 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    AbbieBaby AbbieBaby 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Its so hard..waiting

    for that next text...or call..just so you can hear their voice or read their words...and waiting...until you finally get to hold them again...it's all worth it in the end..;-)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 30

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    Just got his first phone call only 35 seconds):

    but it was so satisfying just to hear his voice. He said everything is okay he's fine but started off with "I love you I love you I love you" made my heart melt lol I miss him so much already
    NoemiG NoemiG 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I miss him so much. I’m trying to study

    for finals but all I can think about is not being with him anymore. I just want to read everyone’s story and cuddle up in bed and cry. It helps to know that there are other people who feel the same way. It’s like you don’t want your man to think you are needy or that you...
    DistantSailor DistantSailor 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Woke up to an amazing email!

    It's our 11 month anniversary!!...he never forgets even while over there!....,one of the many reasons I love him!! :-))
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    So we have been dating

    for 5 months. We have been friends for about 3 years now. He came to visit last week and I really wanted the perfect time to tell him I love him for the first time. I never said it. I'm still wanting to say it but I feel weird saying it for the first time over text or the phone...
    itsjess13 itsjess13 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Unknown615178 Unknown615178 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I really miss my AF boyfriend.

    ..he's been gone a month now..to Quatar..we dated 10 months before he left..and I am trying to stay busy, positive, and not worry.. It's not easy.. 😢
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    61 more days until I get to see my Soldier.

    Words can't even explain how much I love and miss him.
    tianahull tianahull 16-17, F Jul 29

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    I know lots of us are missing our partners

    who are in the armed forces and on tour over seas right now. I thought we could share tips on things that have helped us stay happy and in love while they are away. For me planning our future together (when we can talk) and throwing myself into my hobbies has really helped. I...
    milliecookie milliecookie 31-35, F Feb 12

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    The Prayer Of An Army Girlfriend

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can’t be here, Make it feel as though he’s...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    How do I tell him I'm

    so broken without him?... I just want him back I'm tired of being alone I'm tired of wondering if he's ever gunna come home to me tired of it all. It's not fair to finally get the love you've always wanted and it's gone... Just like that he's gone.
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 16-17, F Aug 3

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    gabbylynn95 gabbylynn95 18-21, F Sep 24

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    8/12/2012 4:30 His Time 6:30 For 13:20

    He called and the first thing he said was baby with excitement then cryed it didn't even sound like him hes getting sick I told him I love him about a million times I wanted to make sure he knew it we talked we cryed we laughed and said I miss you and love you as if we just...
    Heartgrowingfonder Heartgrowingfonder 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    "Distance never seperates two hearts

    that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss." ❤️
    Rache91 Rache91 22-25, F Sep 3

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    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Worrying some today..

    .hate when I feel like this. I don't want him to think I'm worrying..but sometimes it's hard not to admit it.. Sigh..feeling sad...and lonely without him
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    It's been 11 days since I last heard from my

    marine I miss him!!! :( I'm not use to this right now I just hope he's just working a lot. Good morning to everyone though
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F Jul 25

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    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 26, 2012

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    katiee613 katiee613 18-21 Feb 2

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    Missed his skype message last night.

    .I fell asleep :( But as soon as he got to work...he emailed me and we were able to chat for a little bit..I miss him so much...it's lonely without him..it's hard not to cry at night....
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 26

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    Are there any AF girlfriends,

    fiancées or wives on here?
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 23

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    Good day...talked to him by text.

    ..and email...still worry a lot..and it's hard not to panic when I don't hear from him...day at a time...
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Sep 1

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    TiffLC TiffLC 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    Missed my morning email from him.

    ...I know he's busy though..so I will just stay positive...:)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    I miss him so much. There's not one day that goes by that I don't miss him. I can usually cope rather well, but lately I've just been missing him like crazy :/
    MonsterRrR MonsterRrR 16-17, F Nov 27

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    My boyfriend will be home this Saturdayyy
    1stLady2yu 1stLady2yu 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My brother is coming home on saturdayyyyyyyy!!! And my ex will be home on Friday. Let's see how this goes....
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    I won't get to see him on Thursday as planned... In fact, I don't know when I'll see him again...
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    Watching Hollywood Christmas with the kids they see all the military people and say that their dad wears one of them uniforms we miss him and wish he could be home with us.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 5 hrs ago