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I Miss My Boyfriend In The Military

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    Got to talk to him for 20 minutes!

    Best day in a long few weeks.
    jackiee0924 jackiee0924 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Its so hard..waiting

    for that next text...or call..just so you can hear their voice or read their words...and waiting...until you finally get to hold them again...it's all worth it in the end..;-)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 30, 2014

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    I can't find the cocoa Krispies

    and my boyfriend is across the country 😢😭😭😭😭😪😫😖
    smarchy17 smarchy17 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    61 more days until I get to see my Soldier.

    Words can't even explain how much I love and miss him.
    tianahull tianahull 18-21, F Jul 29, 2014

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    He's away at boot camp

    and a 30 second phone just wasn't enough. I miss him so much
    Bonneyshattuck Bonneyshattuck 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Woke up to an amazing email!

    It's our 11 month anniversary!!...he never forgets even while over there!....,one of the many reasons I love him!! :-))
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    The Prayer Of An Army Girlfriend

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can’t be here, Make it feel as though he’s...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    END of 2 WOT is this Monday.

    Hopefully i get a the first letter.
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    It's only been a few days

    so far since he left for marine recruit training, but I miss him so much. I think about him every day, and I don't want to keep talking to my friends about it because they don't understand and I don't want to annoy them.
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 18-21 2 Responses May 1

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    This has been the worst day.

    I called his phone just to hear his voicemail because I missed the sound of his voice. I am sure that sounds crazy, but it made me feel so much better.
    LAgirl215 LAgirl215 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I miss him so much. My babe is out on field OP

    this whole week and it's hard not talking to him. I know the week is almost over but I'd do anything to see his cute crooked smile. I'm not use to this lifestyle and I'm willing to adjust to it for him. Every girl I talk who has their guy at field gets random texts and I haven't...
    MonicaKesley MonicaKesley 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My boyfriends been gone

    for ten weeks and I think I'm officially losing it. Looking at shampoo now makes me burst into tears because he used to tease me about all the hair products I use.
    Mevid4lyfe Mevid4lyfe 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    17 more days and he'll be back!

    ! we're going to just hold each other for so long. I've been thinking about him everyday and just aching for him. I feel like I'm going to explode all over him when he gets here!!!
    LestyP LestyP 18-21, F Jul 12

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    So when my boyfriend comes home

    for leave he doesn't shave and his facial hair grows so quickly and when he is all stubbly and kisses me it destroys my chin so while he was here I had a small scab on my chin and it cleared up and he went back to California on Friday and I was just washing my face and I felt a...
    smarchy17 smarchy17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Every morning I wake up

    and check my countdown... 37 more days till I can see him... Hopefully next Sunday they get the phone call and I can hear his voice.
    TRandolph20 TRandolph20 18-21, F Jun 15

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    his family got a letter from him

    and i haven't. I'm so discouraged
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    The worst feeling ever is missing his call

    and not knowing when he will call next!!!:'(
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Mar 18

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    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 26, 2012

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    How do I tell him I'm

    so broken without him?... I just want him back I'm tired of being alone I'm tired of wondering if he's ever gunna come home to me tired of it all. It's not fair to finally get the love you've always wanted and it's gone... Just like that he's gone.
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 18-21, F Aug 3, 2014

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    I Gotta Vent :-/

    So I know my bf loves me and I know he writes as much as he can but the dumb mailman always takes forever to bring it to me!! I get so anxious when I know the mail is about to arrive and then...nothing. I googled it and they say processing takes forever at the bases. In my...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Are there any AF girlfriends,

    fiancées or wives on here?
    alyannj93 alyannj93 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I'm laying here tonight

    and I miss my man so much.. I just want him back but I've learned very quickly that the military doesn't cater to my wants lol but it's going to be okay. When he told me he wanted to go I said okay because I knew I couldn't hold him back and I knew that it was the best thing for...
    Katlinalyssa1 Katlinalyssa1 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Okay to the women out there

    who miss your boyfriends.......First a little bit on me .....My bf was in the area when IS blew up but was in reserves doing something completely different.....ISIS blew up in June 2014 ans he was due back home in August....Well in July 2014 because of his "skill set" he was...
    alipeach23 alipeach23 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Sex is not everything.

    But while my army man is away I do miss that special bond you get from sex. I just miss him like crazy and miss that feeling of being intimately connected. Is that normal? He was my first too
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6, 2014

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    Just got his first phone call only 35 seconds):

    but it was so satisfying just to hear his voice. He said everything is okay he's fine but started off with "I love you I love you I love you" made my heart melt lol I miss him so much already
    NoemiG NoemiG 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    maggs51 maggs51 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm so jealous of all the girls getting their

    first letter from their man in basic. :( I just want to hear from my baby. . haven't talked to him since June 29th
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I stay up late almost every night.

    I used to with him, but then he went to basic and I been staying up late alone. I get lonely every night just laying in bed knowing I won't get any messages from him, but I stay up cause that's what we used to do. I can't break that habit . Its hard to sleep at night not being...
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Today's been the worst day

    so far. Feel so down and I miss him, he's my best friend.
    elliewoodlandx elliewoodlandx 18-21, F Jun 11

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    Hi, my boyfriend of 3 years just left

    for boot camp.. He signed for 6 years and will be stationed directly after boot camp 😔 I feel like a complete mess.. He really didn't have much of a choice b/c he had to financially support his father..so he felt like the military would be best .. Now I'm at home heartbroken...
    Harleybaby Harleybaby 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    Today I bought myself a corsage with three

    carnations on it. Each carnation was a different color, one was red, one was blue and yes the last was white. I asked for the ribbon to match my the color of my flowers and asked the florist to pin the corsage on me. She did and I wore proudly to church, while practicing my...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus 51-55, F May 10, 2014

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    Today it's been hard.

    I miss him so much.
    Katlinalyssa1 Katlinalyssa1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    My boyfriend graduated from BCT mid December

    and was able to come home for Christmas exodus for two weeks and it was amazing. It reminded me why I wait for him and why I love him and chose him to be with. And now he's at AIT and he's only been gone for 15 days, but it feels like his leave never even happened. He's able to...
    cjanderson14 cjanderson14 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    leneccaa leneccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F Aug 3

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    Care package trouble.

    He asked for something sweet and a gatorade but people are telling me not to send it. However, I was told as long as they ask, I can send it. He told me that if they get sweets, they have 10 minutes to eat it all and I'm sure he can down one small gatorade and a cookie in less...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 1

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    Military Girlfriends Don't Matter?

    Sometimes people look down on us because were only girlfriends. Wait what?...I'm only a girlfriend? Oh, okay that's right cause all girlfriends do is flirt with other guys, complaint about how much they miss him, but still go to parties drink and maybe sleep around? Or maybe I...
    JessesGirl16 JessesGirl16 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    I miss him so much. I’m trying to study

    for finals but all I can think about is not being with him anymore. I just want to read everyone’s story and cuddle up in bed and cry. It helps to know that there are other people who feel the same way. It’s like you don’t want your man to think you are needy or that you...
    DistantSailor DistantSailor 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    susancc12 susancc12 26-30, F Jul 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I heard a song come on the radio on my way home

    tonight and I started crying. 😭 God I miss him so much! The nights are the worst!
    brittany710 brittany710 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    TiffLC TiffLC 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    You know. If our men didn't have us the world

    would be chaos. We would have military men that had no feelings and had nothing to look forward to so then in war they wouldn't fight so hard to be able to return home. Us women need to keep strong for our men so that they have something worth fighting for and someone to look...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 1 Response Mar 16

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    Hey girls I just wanted to let you in in a song

    that's getting me through waiting for him to come home it's called a heart like yours by willamette stone! Check it out (:
    Jordaiin Jordaiin 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hey guys! I recently talked to my counselor

    about how to cope with missing my boyfriend and she had some really great things to say. She said when I miss him to use that energy to make him a care package and send it or to write him a letter. That way you actually do something instead of thinking about how sad you are all...
    caitc33 caitc33 22-25, F Mar 29

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    lvycc11 lvycc11 26-30, F Jul 13