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I Miss My Boyfriend In The Military

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    I can't believe I missed

    that phone call :( I was so ready for it! How am I ever going to sleep now 💔
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    TiffLC TiffLC 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    You know. If our men didn't have us the world

    would be chaos. We would have military men that had no feelings and had nothing to look forward to so then in war they wouldn't fight so hard to be able to return home. Us women need to keep strong for our men so that they have something worth fighting for and someone to look...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Mar 16

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    katiee613 katiee613 18-21 Feb 2, 2014

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    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 26, 2012

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    How do I tell him I'm

    so broken without him?... I just want him back I'm tired of being alone I'm tired of wondering if he's ever gunna come home to me tired of it all. It's not fair to finally get the love you've always wanted and it's gone... Just like that he's gone.
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 16-17, F Aug 3, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for about 9 months and I just found out last weekend that he will be getting deployed to Japan and Australia for 7 months. He will be leaving in October or November. The distance between us has never bothered me because we have been apart for about 6 months of our relationship...
    bjmrjr2014 bjmrjr2014 18-21, F Feb 19

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    I hate not being with him

    or hearing from him and it especially hurts because it's the holidays. Tomorrow is christmas and my birthday and I can't help but be upset I won't get to be with him. I just want to call him or text him or talk to him somehow and I know I can't.
    LC1516 LC1516 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    Military Girlfriends Don't Matter?

    Sometimes people look down on us because were only girlfriends. Wait what?...I'm only a girlfriend? Oh, okay that's right cause all girlfriends do is flirt with other guys, complaint about how much they miss him, but still go to parties drink and maybe sleep around? Or maybe I...
    JessesGirl16 JessesGirl16 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    4th year dating him! He just joined the military

    and I couldn't be more proud of him,
    treya15 treya15 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    Woke up to an amazing email!

    It's our 11 month anniversary!!...he never forgets even while over there!....,one of the many reasons I love him!! :-))
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2014

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    Worrying some today..

    .hate when I feel like this. I don't want him to think I'm worrying..but sometimes it's hard not to admit it.. Sigh..feeling sad...and lonely without him
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    It's almost been a year with my soldier

    and I miss him terribly when he's away , if anyone wants to talk feel free to message me!
    xoxoaly xoxoaly 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I guess I bitched about my 11 hour shift enough

    today because I came home to these. Love my man so much. <33333
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F Dec 24, 2014

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    Are there any AF girlfriends,

    fiancées or wives on here?
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I really miss my AF boyfriend.

    ..he's been gone a month now..to Quatar..we dated 10 months before he left..and I am trying to stay busy, positive, and not worry.. It's not easy.. 😢
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2014

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    Having a tough few days.

    .I know I need to not worry and stay positive all the time...I'm trying :)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    Unknown615178 Unknown615178 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2014

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    He just left on Monday

    for Basic. Our 11 Month anniversary and 1 Year is sneaking up. I can't even imagine being without him on these days. Today has been horrible. I slept in all my classes at school because I miss him so much. Just to hear him say I love you baby girl once a day would be amazing but...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 3 Responses Mar 11

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    Sex is not everything.

    But while my army man is away I do miss that special bond you get from sex. I just miss him like crazy and miss that feeling of being intimately connected. Is that normal? He was my first too
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6, 2014

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    Hey guys! I recently talked to my counselor

    about how to cope with missing my boyfriend and she had some really great things to say. She said when I miss him to use that energy to make him a care package and send it or to write him a letter. That way you actually do something instead of thinking about how sad you are all...
    caitc33 caitc33 22-25, F Mar 29

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    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    "Distance never seperates two hearts

    that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss." ❤️
    Rache91 Rache91 22-25, F Sep 3, 2014

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    It was great to talk to him on messenger last

    night! We were supposed to skype but he was running late..:/ He is 7 hours ahead..so it's not too bad.. I'm getting used to the time difference actually. I really miss him...💙
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 25, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    zoecc11 zoecc11 26-30, F Dec 24, 2014

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    I know lots of us are missing our partners

    who are in the armed forces and on tour over seas right now. I thought we could share tips on things that have helped us stay happy and in love while they are away. For me planning our future together (when we can talk) and throwing myself into my hobbies has really helped. I...
    milliecookie milliecookie 31-35, F Feb 12, 2014

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    Got to talk to him for 20 minutes!

    Best day in a long few weeks.
    jackiee0924 jackiee0924 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Its so hard..waiting

    for that next text...or call..just so you can hear their voice or read their words...and waiting...until you finally get to hold them again...it's all worth it in the end..;-)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 30, 2014

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    I Gotta Vent :-/

    So I know my bf loves me and I know he writes as much as he can but the dumb mailman always takes forever to bring it to me!! I get so anxious when I know the mail is about to arrive and then...nothing. I googled it and they say processing takes forever at the bases. In my...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Missed his skype message last night.

    .I fell asleep :( But as soon as he got to work...he emailed me and we were able to chat for a little bit..I miss him so much...it's lonely without him..it's hard not to cry at night....
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Aug 26, 2014

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    So I went to the orthopedic today

    for my foot I got bad news and I just wish my boyfriend was here so I could tell him and be with him. Really missing him today
    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    Missed my morning email from him.

    ...I know he's busy though..so I will just stay positive...:)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    Crying my eyes out because I miss him

    so much. I won't see him until 2016 and my friends just say "it's not the end of the world" well no it may not be the end of the world. But it's painful and it sucks so having them disregard my feelings hurts so much. I just need someone to talk to who understands what I'm going...
    SailorsGirlAirForceGirl SailorsGirlAirForceGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    It's so hard some days.

    ..especially when you realize how much longer you have to wait....and they are so far away...:( We had a routine...texting the same time everyday....and then this morning he didn't...I know he's busy...but it's hard not to worry...
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    The Prayer Of An Army Girlfriend

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can’t be here, Make it feel as though he’s...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    My boyfriend graduated from BCT mid December

    and was able to come home for Christmas exodus for two weeks and it was amazing. It reminded me why I wait for him and why I love him and chose him to be with. And now he's at AIT and he's only been gone for 15 days, but it feels like his leave never even happened. He's able to...
    cmehler14 cmehler14 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    gabbylynn95 gabbylynn95 18-21, F Sep 24, 2014

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    I miss him so much. I’m trying to study

    for finals but all I can think about is not being with him anymore. I just want to read everyone’s story and cuddle up in bed and cry. It helps to know that there are other people who feel the same way. It’s like you don’t want your man to think you are needy or that you...
    DistantSailor DistantSailor 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    I heard a song come on the radio on my way home

    tonight and I started crying. 😭 God I miss him so much! The nights are the worst!
    brittany710 brittany710 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    61 more days until I get to see my Soldier.

    Words can't even explain how much I love and miss him.
    tianahull tianahull 16-17, F Jul 29, 2014

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    The worst feeling ever is missing his call

    and not knowing when he will call next!!!:'(
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 Mar 18

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    Good day...talked to him by text.

    ..and email...still worry a lot..and it's hard not to panic when I don't hear from him...day at a time...
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F Sep 1, 2014

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    Today I bought myself a corsage with three

    carnations on it. Each carnation was a different color, one was red, one was blue and yes the last was white. I asked for the ribbon to match my the color of my flowers and asked the florist to pin the corsage on me. She did and I wore proudly to church, while practicing my...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus 51-55, F May 10, 2014

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    Just got his first phone call only 35 seconds):

    but it was so satisfying just to hear his voice. He said everything is okay he's fine but started off with "I love you I love you I love you" made my heart melt lol I miss him so much already
    NoemiG NoemiG 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    Ranting Time!!!

    ok ladies excuse me while i rant!! so i have these two friends, both girls and they can be sooooo stupid sometime and i cant believe what they both said to me recently. Firstly, my friend KB was complaing that she hadnt seen her bc since that mornin when he dropped her off at...
    gamblesgirl21 gamblesgirl21 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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