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I Miss My Boyfriend In The Military

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    Please tell me if im been too sensitive but my grandma died 6 days ago and iv been in pieces. Luckily for me my boyfriend was allowed home this weekend and was able to comfort me...
    ellie91 ellie91 22-25 Feb 16

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    I miss him so much. I’m trying to study for finals but all I can think about is not being with him anymore. I just want to read everyone’s story and cuddle up in bed and cry...
    DistantSailor DistantSailor 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Not Myself - Lately I've been feeling numb to everything, I don't really have any patience, and I feel like my heart is sore or maybe just numb. I hate not feeling like myself...
    alibear03 alibear03 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Just found out last night my grandma is dying, she has been poorly for over a year. She had cancer then had the treatment then it went. Few weeks later she went in the hospital the...
    ellie91 ellie91 22-25 Feb 8

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    Hi, I'm new here so not sure how this all works. My bf has been in afghan for 4 months now. He's on a 9 month tour. He's home for RnR in 4 weeks but it's starting to become really...
    milliecookie milliecookie 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Miss Your Man? Join Us Girls On Facebook - There is this great facebook page that has so many other girls going through the same things as you!! Feel like you want to connect to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 10, 2012

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    This Feelings Sucks. - The feelings of wanting to tear up because you miss your soldier sucks. You tell yourself to be strong for him and your relationship, still, you just want to...
    stephanienee stephanienee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    I really just don't know what to do. My family (parents, two sisters) doesn't want me dating my boyfriend. Don't get me wrong, they like my boyfriend a lot, but when it comes to me...
    taylorgwatkins taylorgwatkins 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I know this sounds a little bit mental with my boyfriend already been in the navy and i miss him every day, but i want to join the army. The thing is i have had wanted to for a...
    ellie91 ellie91 22-25 1 Response Jan 21

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    Spoke to Trevor for 4 hours yesterday!! He gets liberty Saturday also and Sunday this weekend! I'm sending his package today ! <3
    alexlavina alexlavina 16-17, F Jan 13

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    I will see you soon i feel do bad without you Dreebear :/ i keep having these weird dreams and i miss being in your arms and feeling safe and to tell my parents about us and to...
    xLittleRed xLittleRed 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    The Prayer Of An Army Girlfriend - As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    Our Rules For Deployment - People deal with deployment in a million different ways. There is no textbook for surviving deployments. It is all about making it work for you. The...
    livingwithasmile livingwithasmile 22-25 Dec 21, 2011

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    For A Military Girlfriend / Author Unknown - Everyone hears of the military wife, Her trials, sacrifices, and devoted life. She is strong, she is brave, and she is loving indeed...
    SupportMilitary SupportMilitary 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2011

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    Anyone else ever wake up in the middle of the night, roll over, look for him in your bed and then go "Oh, wait.. " Or is that just me?
    FortysGirl FortysGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Tags And Titles - He calls me his precious, his love, his darling, his most valued treasure and all his. He's humble, sincere, understanding, goofy and completely devoted to us...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2011

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    Two weeks until he's home now but all I can think is that he's got to go back to afghan until July. I'm not coping well at the moment at all. The fact I can't tell him I'm not...
    milliecookie milliecookie 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 20

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    He Called Me - Today and yesterday my boyfriend called me.
    jakeismyhero jakeismyhero 16-17, F Nov 12, 2013

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    I Miss Him So Much! - I have been dating my military boyfriend for a while through the Internet. Last week we had our first vacation in seoul. He lives in korea and I'm in Malaysia...
    Estherthien Estherthien 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2013

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    I Gotta Vent :-/ - So I know my bf loves me and I know he writes as much as he can but the dumb mailman always takes forever to bring it to me!! I get so anxious when I know the...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    That two hour phone call this morning, made my day. <3
    katiee613 katiee613 16-17 Feb 2

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    It's been 3 months, and I have 9 more. I hate being without him. I can say, completely confidently, he is the only person who makes me feel worth anything. I go through everyday...
    katiee613 katiee613 16-17 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    Missing Him! - AHHHH! I talked to my boyfriend for an hour on the phone earlier and we are texting right now and...I just miss him SOOO much. I love being able to talk to him and...
    gundy gundy 16-17 2 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    Military Girlfriends Don't Matter? - Sometimes people look down on us because were only girlfriends. Wait what?...I'm only a girlfriend? Oh, okay that's right cause all girlfriends...
    JessesGirl16 JessesGirl16 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    My US Military Relationship Being A Canadian Gal. (Confused and depressed) - So I met my military boyfriend online. I just happened to bump into him online. Neither of us were...
    tamalepepper tamalepepper 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Sooo much. :((( -----------------
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Feb 26

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    I know lots of us are missing our partners who are in the armed forces and on tour over seas right now. I thought we could share tips on things that have helped us stay happy and...
    milliecookie milliecookie 26-30, F Feb 12

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    I'm The Worst Girlfriend In The World!! - so my boyfriend Coby is suppose to go on underway for a month and I know yu guys might say that is not along time but he just got back...
    HisAngel90 HisAngel90 18-21, F Sep 7, 2011

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    Ranger School - My boyfriend has been away in ranger training for the past 40 days with 21 days to go. Two months may not seem like a long time but we cannot have any communication...
    MissRN2012 MissRN2012 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    Truth Is... - I can say a lot of different things right now that make me sad. But the truth is. I just miss my boyfriend. Any of you girls who are on the same page as me, don't you...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I Just Want Him To Try. - I've missed my boyfriend who is 2000 miles away all damn day long and he and I have barely talked. It makes me really sad. I am always the one trying to...
    TooManyMilesApart TooManyMilesApart 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 1, 2012

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    2 weeks left til I'm in his arms. <3
    Unknown615178 Unknown615178 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    All I Want To Do Is Cry - It's been 4 months since Ben left for training. He only has 6 weeks left but there is one problem. He told me that they won't start him until February...
    canoyci4 canoyci4 18-21 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    Heyy everyone I'm wanting to join the army reserves,I'm just wondering if you or anyone you know are in the army reserves and if you know how often you have to work and be deployed...
    ellie91 ellie91 22-25 1 Response Jan 30

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    4th Day Without Him - My boyfriend is in the army, and he just left to bootcamp last monday. I never thought it would be this miserable when he leaves. Few days before he left, i...
    LaikaG6 LaikaG6 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I GET TO SEE HIM THE SECOND WEEKEND OF MARCH!!!!<3 so excited!
    TiffLC TiffLC 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    It's Always Complicated Isn't It?. - My man and I have been together for almost 8 months now. We have never officially been boyfriend and girlfriend because while he is in the Navy...
    vballgirl5 vballgirl5 18-21 2 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    Sex is not everything. But while my army man is away I do miss that special bond you get from sex. I just miss him like crazy and miss that feeling of being intimately connected...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    It Never Gets Easier... - YOU JUST GET BETTER! I know how frustrating this life can be. My fiancé has been in the Navy for two years now and when he first joined I had no clue...
    hheidilee hheidilee 22-25, F May 8, 2013

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    Is This Usual For The Lackland AFB? - I still haven't gotten a letter from my Airman. It's been a week. I got a phone call Thursday so he could give me the address but that's the...
    Jstimac Jstimac 16-17, F Jul 23, 2013

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    8/12/2012 4:30 His Time 6:30 For 13:20 - He called and the first thing he said was baby with excitement then cryed it didn't even sound like him hes getting sick I told him I love...
    Heartgrowingfonder Heartgrowingfonder 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    I'm having a hard time. Not hearing his voice is killing me & not knowing what's going through his head everyday.. That's where faith comes in right?
    dnichholee7 dnichholee7 18-21, F Mar 16

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    It'S Been 1 Month Since He Left - It's been a month and I miss him more then ever. Sometimes I look a couples on tv or at the store I wish that was us. I cry sometimes without...
    jbkoen jbkoen 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Ranting Time!!! - ok ladies excuse me while i rant!! so i have these two friends, both girls and they can be sooooo stupid sometime and i cant believe what they both said to me...
    gamblesgirl21 gamblesgirl21 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Missing Him.. - Some days are worse then others with my boyfriend in Afghanistan but today is definitely one of the harder days.. I miss him so much. I'd give anything just to be...
    ArmyGirl6911 ArmyGirl6911 18-21 4 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    Waiting For The Address - This is my first post. My Benjamin just left for the Marines basic training 5 days ago. All I can say is that I don't know how I'll get through the 3...
    canoyci4 canoyci4 18-21 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    Phone Call I Almost Didn't Get - i got a phone call from him today. only three minutes but the best three minutes to me. it was actually crazy because i was in church for...
    bbwshorty94 bbwshorty94 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2011

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    Military Prayer - Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12 18-21, F Jan 26, 2012

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    Im Not Ready For This - My boyfriend and I have been goin out for about 2 years but have known nd loved each other way before that. About a year and a half ago he started...
    Dec19 Dec19 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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