I Miss My Boyfriend In The Military

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    Sex is not everything.

    But while my army man is away I do miss that special bond you get from sex. I just miss him like crazy and miss that feeling of being intimately connected. Is that normal? He was my first too
    heydotwhat heydotwhat
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2014

    I miss my man so much I haven't gotten one

    letter from him and it's been three weeks since he left I'm getting so depressed and none of my friends understand me right now I'm so alone right now.
    SierraDouglas SierraDouglas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    Today We Were Fighting And I Got This In The

    Mail From My Fiance.<3 Made Me Just STFU & Love Him. Even Tho Im Still Pist. /:<
    Slopez15 Slopez15
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    Every morning I wake up

    and check my countdown... 37 more days till I can see him... Hopefully next Sunday they get the phone call and I can hear his voice.
    TRandolph20 TRandolph20
    18-21, F
    Jun 15, 2015

    Crying my eyes out because I miss him

    so much. I won't see him until 2016 and my friends just say "it's not the end of the world" well no it may not be the end of the world. But it's painful and it sucks so having them disregard my feelings hurts so much. I just need someone to talk to who understands what I'm going...
    SailorsGirlAirForceGirl SailorsGirlAirForceGirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

    He's away at boot camp

    and a 30 second phone just wasn't enough. I miss him so much
    Bonneyshattuck Bonneyshattuck
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    I miss him so much. I’m trying to study

    for finals but all I can think about is not being with him anymore. I just want to read everyone’s story and cuddle up in bed and cry. It helps to know that there are other people who feel the same way. It’s like you don’t want your man to think you are needy or that you...
    DistantSailor DistantSailor
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2014

    I had such a long and awful day today.

    I non stop thought about my boyfriend.. And I had this feeling that I was going to get a call. Sure enough a few hours later I had a random number all and I said hello? He goes "babe! It's me!!" It made me cry it was so great to finally hear his voice. But now I can't stop...
    kayla022 kayla022
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 10, 2015

    I received my first letter today from my

    boyfriend! I can't stop smiling ear to ear. I keep reading it over and over again.
    Klynn22 Klynn22
    22-25, F
    Nov 30, 2015

    END of 2 WOT is this Monday.

    Hopefully i get a the first letter.
    shakursqueen shakursqueen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    Today it's been hard.

    I miss him so much.
    Katlinalyssa1 Katlinalyssa1
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 21

    So when my boyfriend comes home

    for leave he doesn't shave and his facial hair grows so quickly and when he is all stubbly and kisses me it destroys my chin so while he was here I had a small scab on my chin and it cleared up and he went back to California on Friday and I was just washing my face and I felt a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    Hey Ladies! I'm putting together something

    for Brandon's Christmas present, but I could use some help. Would anyone be able to take a picture with a sign that says "Ashley loves you from (Your State)!" Then send it to me:) It could be a selfie, or with a landmark, friends, family, whatever. It doesn't have to be fancy. I...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2015

    his family got a letter from him

    and i haven't. I'm so discouraged
    shakursqueen shakursqueen
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    Hey girls I just wanted to let you in in a song

    that's getting me through waiting for him to come home it's called a heart like yours by willamette stone! Check it out (:
    Jordaiin Jordaiin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015

    I have officially survived my first week of my

    boyfriend being at bootcamp and not being able to talk to him. And oh man am I missing him like crazy. I sill text his phone everyday just to tell him little things even though I know he can't see it. I also have a journal that I write in every night that I use to write to him...
    Klynn22 Klynn22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    The Prayer Of An Army Girlfriend

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can’t be here, Make it feel as though he’s...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    I really need some support right

    now :/ I'm having such a hard night tonight. I miss my boyfriend so much 😓
    Megannr21 Megannr21
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    Military Prayer

    Give me the greatness of heart to see, The difference between duty & his love for me, Give me understanding so that I may know when duty calls he must go, Give me a task to do each day, To feel the time while he's away, When is in a foreign land, Keep him safe in your loving...
    ILoveMyMarine12 ILoveMyMarine12
    18-21, F
    Jan 26, 2012

    I Gotta Vent :-/

    So I know my bf loves me and I know he writes as much as he can but the dumb mailman always takes forever to bring it to me!! I get so anxious when I know the mail is about to arrive and then...nothing. I googled it and they say processing takes forever at the bases. In my...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jul 5, 2012

    Ranting Time!!!

    ok ladies excuse me while i rant!! so i have these two friends, both girls and they can be sooooo stupid sometime and i cant believe what they both said to me recently. Firstly, my friend KB was complaing that she hadnt seen her bc since that mornin when he dropped her off at...
    gamblesgirl21 gamblesgirl21
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 29, 2011

    61 more days until I get to see my Soldier.

    Words can't even explain how much I love and miss him.
    tianahull tianahull
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2014

    We started dating about 2

    and a half years ago but it seems like a lifetime. He enlisted this past summer and is now in his advanced training. Basic was a little bumpy because neither of us had any idea what was in store for our relationship, but as soon as he came home it felt as though he had never...
    jesshewitt jesshewitt
    18-21, F
    Jan 5

    Just got his first phone call only 35 seconds):

    but it was so satisfying just to hear his voice. He said everything is okay he's fine but started off with "I love you I love you I love you" made my heart melt lol I miss him so much already
    NoemiG NoemiG
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    My boyfriend graduated from BCT mid December

    and was able to come home for Christmas exodus for two weeks and it was amazing. It reminded me why I wait for him and why I love him and chose him to be with. And now he's at AIT and he's only been gone for 15 days, but it feels like his leave never even happened. He's able to...
    cjanderson14 cjanderson14
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    I don't know what to do anymore!

    My boyfriend is in Marine bootcamp an he's been sick with mono for about 3 weeks! An with that being said he can't train in that time cause mono is contagious and he wrote the other day and said that he's getting unmotivated an that he didn't feel like I was supporting him an he...
    luv2read8977 luv2read8977
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21

    I have to letters for him in the mail

    as I type this I'm so thankful to his mom for keeping me updated on him.
    SierraDouglas SierraDouglas
    22-25, F
    Dec 1, 2015

    How do I tell him I'm

    so broken without him?... I just want him back I'm tired of being alone I'm tired of wondering if he's ever gunna come home to me tired of it all. It's not fair to finally get the love you've always wanted and it's gone... Just like that he's gone.
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2014
    TiffLC TiffLC
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    Are there any AF girlfriends,

    fiancées or wives on here?
    alyannj93 alyannj93
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    Military Girlfriends Don't Matter?

    Sometimes people look down on us because were only girlfriends. Wait what?...I'm only a girlfriend? Oh, okay that's right cause all girlfriends do is flirt with other guys, complaint about how much they miss him, but still go to parties drink and maybe sleep around? Or maybe I...
    JessesGirl16 JessesGirl16
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Aug 3, 2012

    I miss him so much. My babe is out on field OP

    this whole week and it's hard not talking to him. I know the week is almost over but I'd do anything to see his cute crooked smile. I'm not use to this lifestyle and I'm willing to adjust to it for him. Every girl I talk who has their guy at field gets random texts and I haven't...
    MonicaKesley MonicaKesley
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    This has been the worst day.

    I called his phone just to hear his voicemail because I missed the sound of his voice. I am sure that sounds crazy, but it made me feel so much better.
    LAgirl215 LAgirl215
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2015

    I know lots of us are missing our partners

    who are in the armed forces and on tour over seas right now. I thought we could share tips on things that have helped us stay happy and in love while they are away. For me planning our future together (when we can talk) and throwing myself into my hobbies has really helped. I...
    milliecookie milliecookie
    31-35, F
    Feb 12, 2014

    My boyfriends been gone

    for ten weeks and I think I'm officially losing it. Looking at shampoo now makes me burst into tears because he used to tease me about all the hair products I use.
    Mevid4lyfe Mevid4lyfe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    I'm laying here tonight

    and I miss my man so much.. I just want him back but I've learned very quickly that the military doesn't cater to my wants lol but it's going to be okay. When he told me he wanted to go I said okay because I knew I couldn't hold him back and I knew that it was the best thing for...
    Katlinalyssa1 Katlinalyssa1
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    susancc12 susancc12
    26-30, F
    Jul 13, 2015

    I can't find the cocoa Krispies

    and my boyfriend is across the country 😢😭😭😭😭😪😫😖
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    Missing my Coastie! It's just

    so overwhelming that he had to leave during the holidays but I can't wait to see him in a few months.
    michellegm05 michellegm05
    18-21, F
    Nov 22, 2015

    You know. If our men didn't have us the world

    would be chaos. We would have military men that had no feelings and had nothing to look forward to so then in war they wouldn't fight so hard to be able to return home. Us women need to keep strong for our men so that they have something worth fighting for and someone to look...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425
    16-17
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    Okay to the women out there

    who miss your boyfriends.......First a little bit on me .....My bf was in the area when IS blew up but was in reserves doing something completely different.....ISIS blew up in June 2014 ans he was due back home in August....Well in July 2014 because of his "skill set" he was...
    alipeach23 alipeach23
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jul 17, 2015
    Megannr21 Megannr21
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    I'm so glad that I found this site.

    I've been feeling like a mad woman for all of the feelings that I've been having while my boyfriend is deployed in South Korea. We've always talked multiple times a day and about everything. Lately I feel like I don't know what's going on in his life and vise versa. I tried...
    Danipasc Danipasc
    18-21, F
    Dec 3, 2015

    Its so hard..waiting

    for that next text...or call..just so you can hear their voice or read their words...and waiting...until you finally get to hold them again...it's all worth it in the end..;-)
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456
    46-50, F
    Aug 30, 2014

    I'm the girl who waits months

    for a single kiss. a kiss that makes the months apart worth every second. I wear your hoodie because it brings me comfort. I stay up late at night because I don't want to miss the chance talking to you. I wait by the phone just in case you call. the girl who prays every night...
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Okay everyone so I'm

    so EXCITED!! Tomorrow I am going to be driving to my boyfriends barracks and staying over for the night! Can't wait to see him!! I loved sleeping at his last posting barracks and now I'm going to his new one!! Wooooohooooo!!!
    lauren2997 lauren2997
    18-21, F
    Oct 29, 2015
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