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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    he goes to court on Thursday

    and Friday.. the DA is trying to add another charge for something completely irrelevant and super old. I'm trying not to stress out but this is hard
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Hi everyone, I’m so glad

    that I’m not alone though I do feel very sorry for what you’re all going through. My boyfriend of 5 months just got sentenced to 8 years for crimes I’m very sure he didn’t commit. A lot of people think I’m crazy to wait for a man I haven’t even known for a year...
    hisrussianprincess hisrussianprincess 22-25, F May 30

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    My family reported my husband to the police

    and had his probation revoked claiming that he had broken a remote control ($10) and this constituted domestic violence and a serious threat to my well-being. My husband had petty drug priors and my family's motive was snobbery. The belief was that this arrest was going to...
    EmeraldCross EmeraldCross 31-35 1 Response Jun 11

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    I am in my bed, curled up listening to music.

    I'm ready for my man to be curled up next to me. We take life for granted. I took him for granted. I thought I'd always be able to reach out and touch him. But today I can't. Today has me wondering what this life is for. Come home baby. Love me like you do. And I got you. You...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F May 11

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    So hard to not know if you should let go

    or put your life on hold for him
    sarahfuller38 sarahfuller38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Today is just one of those days .

    . I'm sad he has to be away from me, he is my everything. I went and saw him yesterday, I was so happy to finally see him. I was able to look at him in his eyes and see him talk to me. It seemed like it was perfect but it wasn't, I couldn't even touch him. Surprisingly I didn't...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    Exactly 12 more days

    until my boyfriend gets home. I am beyond excited and nervous. The phones finally got fixed so weve been talking more now.All the girls out there just keep praying and staying strong. Its hard but if you know your man is worth it then you can do anything for him.
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 10 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for almost 5 years now, he was accused of being involved in a robbery that he didn't do. His friend, well ex friend did it. His broke *** stole an iPhone and a north face backpack. My mother in law panicked and sent my boyfriend to DR , Dominican Republic, and he was fine there...
    lgerry lgerry 16-17, F Jun 3

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    19-25 months to go. We can do this.

    I can't wait until we get HOUR LONG visits with a hug and kiss at the beginning and end and HAND HOLDING the whole time. It will feel like making love compared to this 30 minute video visitation bull.
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F a week ago

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    Sorry I needed to vent somewhere.

    I haven't been able to visit my boyfriend since January. My friend asked for the day of and was taking me tomorrow. My id on file expired even though I have a different one it doesn't allow me to change it(the system) I called but its all info lines no human being. I was so...
    ale15 ale15 22-25, F Jun 6

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    I haven't talked to my boyfriend

    since Saturday. The section he's in only had one out of three phones working. When I called to make a visit they said none of them are working. ughhhhh so frustrating. I need to hear his voice. It keeps me sane.
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F Feb 19

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    shoutout to all the ladies

    who sit by the phone every day waiting for that call. just got mine 5 minutes ago we talked about the bible and ramen noodles. it felt so normal :)
    brune191 brune191 22-25, F Jan 30

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    my boyfriend just had his sentencing two days

    ago and I watched him get handcuffed and taken away. He is my best friend who I spend every day with who I am so attached too. Its so hard and it feels like I cant get through any day without him. I dont want to enjoy things when he isnt there. He will be gone for 2 months which...
    soothmysoul soothmysoul 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    His court date is tomorrow morning.

    It's a plea deal and I'll probably see him in person (they put them on a TV sometimes) I'm worried about it not going as planned. And also how I'm going to work considering I'm at my nightshift now, have my makeup but not the right brush, and no clothes. Praying an hour gives me...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I am 6 months pregnant

    and my boyfriend was recently arrested I don't know when he will be sentenced or for how long im so scared and I haven't talked to him
    ericajanay ericajanay 18-21, F Jun 7

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25

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    My love is getting out this Friday.

    I've misses him so much. These last couple days I've had trouble sleeping and I just really wish he was there to hold me. But I know hell be here soon. Tonight we got in an arguement but we both said we're not going to let anything affect our weekend we have planned. I have to...
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F Jun 15

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Inbox me anyone who is willing to give me

    support my boyfriend will be spending 4 years in 3 more months
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    I love and miss my boyfriend very much,

    it feels like he's been gone forever. Yesterday I bought a birthstone ring with both our birth stones and names engraved . I love it, now every time I look down at my finger it feels like he's with me
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    does anybody know what disp/ setting conference

    means? my boyfriend has court next week and thats what he's scheduled for. I googled it but it doesn't say much about it and it's not very clear
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F Jun 9

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    We're finally into the 50s!

    ! omg I'm so happy we got 59 more days apart and then this whole thing is OVER. Can't wait to have my man back home with me I'm missing him so so much. I just need to remember that we are so close now. Still counting down the days but I'm getting very anxious! I'm going to be...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response May 27

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    My boyfriend has been in jail

    since March and he's not getting sentenced until late July. He's looking at getting 3-5 years. The worst part of it all is that he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, he's never done anything wrong in his life and now he's being punished so harshly. Another terrible...
    hayleypotter hayleypotter 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    all I want is you ...

    .. funny how someone leaves and u realize u can't live with out them......
    reni888 reni888 26-30, F Jun 12

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    I miss him so much today.

    He's in my mind. Always. I wonder how things will change when he comes home. What will be different? What will be the same?
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Jun 10

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    My boyfriends been in jail

    for going on four months. We probably have anywhere from 3-5 years. We were talking on the phone once a week but it suddenly turned into everyday. I can't go visit him because he's 2,000 miles away in a different country. These phone calls are everything to me. I didn't realize...
    hayleypotter hayleypotter 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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