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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    I'm having a terrible day.

    I live in a fairy tale. That's where he wants me. I'm so damn tired of sitting here alone waiting for his calls. It's not right. I did no crime. He is a smart man. He know better and knows the law. But that bullshit was more important than his freedom or the people who love him...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    12 days. 12 more days

    until his sentencing. I could be seeing him before two weeks is up or I could be waiting 3-5 years. I can't wait until I know. I hope he will just be back home but if it's longer at least I'll finally have a number to put on it. Our $10 phone calls everyday add up. I just can't...
    hayleypotter hayleypotter 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 330 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    At a time like this I wish I was laying next to

    him. I need comfort, my head hurts
    illacruz illacruz 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I am so ready for my baby to come home.

    But yesterday's visit made me appreciate the hard days too. It's so strange to me that I can have a better time sitting in a prison than I have in the free world in months. We had an hour to visit. We could have talked so many more. He looked tired and his clothes weren't neat...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Jul 11

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    illacruz illacruz 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I saw him last night .

    . faced my fear of interstates because well, he's worth it , anyways it was a very nice visit , I couldn't stop smiling, he got sentenced 6 months and he's to be transferred . I don't know when or where , all I know is he'll possibly be farther and that will make visits harder...
    aprildeanne aprildeanne 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm so upset because I haven't talked to my

    husband in 3 days. 3 days ago I changed my phone number in order to make our phone calls cheaper. It costs us like $3 for every 15 minute phone call, and this could make it a lot cheaper. Also, my old phone number was a strange out of state one (never lived anywhere but VA) our...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    IF ANYONE HAS A LOVED PARTNER IN JAIL LISTEN TO

    *** BACK HOME BY GYM CLASS HEROES
    aprildeanne aprildeanne 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    For over a week me and hubby have been arguing

    about simple things. He says that I don't understand what he's going through and that I am free to do things as I wish. I take a lot of the pain as often as I can. But I'm sorry, I refuse to take too much that it causes me pain. My response was, when you was out on licence...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F Jul 18

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    Tomorrow I get to spend the day with my baby in

    prison from 8 am - 3 pm. I am so excited, I can't believe it. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight. I'm counting down the hours. I imagine you all feel the same way when you get to visit your man. I have never been able to visit him for so many hours at a time, it's the new...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 Jul 18

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    My boyfriend's case has been adjourned 16 times

    over the last year and a half but his lawyer says tomorrow is the day. I've had months to prepare myself but tonight I'm really feeling it! He could be away anywhere from 40 days to 3 years.. My emotions are all over the place as I rely on him so much for my emotional and mental...
    olivialauren olivialauren 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    shoutout to all the ladies

    who sit by the phone every day waiting for that call. just got mine 5 minutes ago we talked about the bible and ramen noodles. it felt so normal :)
    brune191 brune191 22-25, F Jan 30

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    This doesn't feel like it's getting any easier.

    I miss him so much then I have a dream that he's here an I wake up an he's not its making it so much harder. :(
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    My boyfriend of 3 years has been locked up

    for 6 days now. He got 30 days for VOP. We were on and off for a little while and I wasn't there for him when he was going through a rough time. I blame myself for not being there and I know he wouldn't be in this mess in the first place if I had been there for his original...
    AudreyHepburn24 AudreyHepburn24 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I hate collect calling,

    i hate not being able to visit, i just hate it All... Ughhhh!! This month seems to be going by the slowest :( 😭
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I can't wait to hear my boyfriends release

    date.. but I have to wait till December to see for up to how long they can give him which can be one to three years the most.
    cloverxx cloverxx 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    Inbox me anyone who is willing to give me

    support my boyfriend will be spending 4 years in 3 more months
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    It's been about 3-4 weeks

    since my man has been locked up and I miss him more than ever. I didn't think it would be easy but I also didn't think it would be this hard. The first two weeks he was locked up I never received a letter and just a couple of days ago I got one and I was overwhelmed with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 9

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    To all my prison wife ladies out there: I'm

    getting super nervous about my man's approaching release date. Why am I so nervous? What helps this feeling?
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I could not be more satisfied with the man God

    has given to me. Except, he's about to come home. Which will only make us more in sync. He went in as this guy I may have loved. He's coming out as the man I want to make a life with. He's used this time to educate himself. He's grown spiritually. He's gotten to know me. He...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I love and miss my boyfriend very much,

    it feels like he's been gone forever. Yesterday I bought a birthstone ring with both our birth stones and names engraved . I love it, now every time I look down at my finger it feels like he's with me
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    So upset right now. I pressed 1 too early

    when accepting his call and the automated system said "we don't understand your response, now hanging up"... Like ****! My baby's in Segregation for the week so he only gets one call. I really hope the guards don't act like dicks and allow him to call back :(
    illacruz illacruz 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Bae had me call his lawyer

    and ask a question today. He told me to tell the lawyer I was his wife. The lawyer called me Mrs. Lane. I had to catch my breath. I'm going to marry him someday.
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I miss my boyfriend who is in jail

    but I just found out recently that he has another girlfriend and his step sister and and brother they are really close and they told my friend that he has another girlfriend like I asked the sister and she says she doesn't know what I'm talking about and my friend wasn't...
    Fallenangel421 Fallenangel421 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm going to visit my boyfriend next weekend

    and I'm so nervous... It'll be my first time visiting some one in prison just wanna make sure I'm dressed right and there on time but spending time with him will be so worth it... any tips ladies about the does/don't on visitation????
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    This song is for you guys.

    Should have known better - Monica. I don't have a bf in jail however.
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 Jul 22

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