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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    He came home on Friday!

    !! We found out his release date literally 3 days before. He is finally out. 23 months on a 3 year sentence. Chin up ladies. I promise...it's all worth it!! As soon as you see him on the other side of those gates, it all falls into to place!!
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Today is the one year he was taken away from me

    to be put in that hole. It makes me so sad. Today I just feel like crying I miss him so much. In this year I finished my AA, I got a good job, I got my license, a car. This were all things I had been trying to accomplish. I have and now I am missing the heart of it all, him. He...
    ale15 ale15 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12

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    It's the first night,

    since he's been locked up, that he didn't call me to say goodnight.....
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    shoutout to all the ladies

    who sit by the phone every day waiting for that call. just got mine 5 minutes ago we talked about the bible and ramen noodles. it felt so normal :)
    brune191 brune191 22-25, F Jan 30

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I am new to all of the jail stuff ,

    and I hate all of it. He has been in and out of jail most of his adult life, and doesn't understand why it's so hard for me. I wish I had a safe or healthy way of getting my feelings out
    Lana3278 Lana3278 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Meagbabe27 Meagbabe27 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 333 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 10 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    I don't know where to begin.

    He's been in jail now 2 weeks. I know it isn't very long but his bail was set to high to even dream of getting him out and his court date isn't until December. I miss him with everything I have. I've been with the boy for 5 years now and we have had our ups and downs but we were...
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    Hey guys I am trying the best I can do he wants

    more money for commissary and don't get paid until next week and my mom and dad won't help me out I don't know what I can do I feel horrible as a girl friend
    Meagbabe27 Meagbabe27 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Just the thought of the perfect times we used

    to share brings emptiness in my heart because I don't have him by my side like I always had but this situation is making us stronger. Were much wiser and he needed this time to get his self together. 2 years down and one more to go!!!!!!!!! I will never leave his side no matter...
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I could not be more satisfied with the man God

    has given to me. Except, he's about to come home. Which will only make us more in sync. He went in as this guy I may have loved. He's coming out as the man I want to make a life with. He's used this time to educate himself. He's grown spiritually. He's gotten to know me. He...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I hate collect calling,

    i hate not being able to visit, i just hate it All... Ughhhh!! This month seems to be going by the slowest :( 😭
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I hope my boy friend is not mad at me I am

    trying my best I don't get paid until next wed I don't know what to tell him it is so expensive in jail it is killing me how expensive everything Is in jail
    Meagbabe27 Meagbabe27 26-30 2 days ago

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    I can't wait to hear my boyfriends release

    date.. but I have to wait till December to see for up to how long they can give him which can be one to three years the most.
    cloverxx cloverxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    So I am writing this

    because I really miss my partner who is in prison. It will be a month tomorrow and everything feels not right. My bed is empty, My sofa is cold, but there will always be a space for him here with me. I feel so lonely and empty without him and the next time I will see him is in 2...
    leavana0215 leavana0215 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I miss him dearly. No other man will ever

    compare to him and I love him soooo much can't imagine my life without him
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    I feel completely lost tonight,

    I have just had my third visit with my partner and I have come away feeling empty, not just because I sexually desire his company but because, no matter what I do I cannot fill this emptiness inside me that I feel I love him so much and I am so thankful that I get two visits...
    leavana0215 leavana0215 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    I talked to my boyfriend earlier today.

    I got some good news from him.. He'll be home soon. Thank God. Now everything will fall into place slowly but surely... I never smiled so much the way i do now, these past months really opened his eyes & even mine! I guess its the fact that i never had a real relationship before...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 1 Response Aug 12

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    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F Jul 28

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    Tomorrow I get to spend the day with my baby in

    prison from 8 am - 3 pm. I am so excited, I can't believe it. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight. I'm counting down the hours. I imagine you all feel the same way when you get to visit your man. I have never been able to visit him for so many hours at a time, it's the new...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    My boyfriend in jail

    and he is in different state so i can see him when some one bring me to see him so I talk to him on the cell I will be so happy when this stuff is done with
    Meagbabe27 Meagbabe27 26-30 6 days ago

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    This really sucks the phones are off

    so my boyfriend can't call me this is killing me I just wish that the phones will be turn back on sometime tonight I just wish he will be able to say good to night me tonight
    Meagbabe27 Meagbabe27 26-30 12 hrs ago

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    This doesn't feel like it's getting any easier.

    I miss him so much then I have a dream that he's here an I wake up an he's not its making it so much harder. :(
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    MY FAMILY WILL NEVER EVER BE HAPPY FOR BE

    LOVING MY MAN! IM SO ANGRY AND UPSET I HATE THIS I HATE IT
    leavana0215 leavana0215 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    I miss him a lot more

    than anyone can think but one thing got to me he called a girl that he himself said was a hoe now I don't know why he would but it worries me cause I think I'm in love with him and well in a couple of days I'm going to see him and I think I'm just going to be straight up with...
    cloverxx cloverxx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My family doesn't understand

    why I'm sticking beside my boyfriend, why I'm willing to wait till he gets out, and why I would even think about saving money for a lawyer. They think he's a fling, something I will get over with time. They say he's not my husband he's just some boyfriend but what they don't...
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I guess nobody posts here anymore.

    But it's nice to have a place with no hate and no bias and no judgement even if nobody's really here. I miss him extra tonight. Of course I miss him so bad all the time, but when I hear his voice and can only see his face through old pictures in my phone, it rips through my...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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