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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    My family reported my husband to the police

    and had his probation revoked claiming that he had broken a remote control ($10) and this constituted domestic violence and a serious threat to my well-being. My husband had petty drug priors and my family's motive was snobbery. The belief was that this arrest was going to...
    EmeraldCross EmeraldCross 31-35 1 Response Jun 11

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    I can honestly say that things do get easier

    as time goes along. I don't wake up crying or go to sleep crying as often as I did in the beginning. I am a stronger individual because of dealing with this. My boyfriend has also become stronger and realizes that this tough time is actually beneficial for him. He needs this...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Inbox me anyone who is willing to give me

    support my boyfriend will be spending 4 years in 3 more months
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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    My love is getting out this Friday.

    I've misses him so much. These last couple days I've had trouble sleeping and I just really wish he was there to hold me. But I know hell be here soon. Tonight we got in an arguement but we both said we're not going to let anything affect our weekend we have planned. I have to...
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F Jun 15

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    My boyfriends been in jail

    for 3 months now.. I have no family down where I live just his mom and stepdad that lovingly accepted my son and I into their lives with his absence.. Sometimes I'm okay and I Handle it but other nights like tonight I Just want to cry and scream.. This is the hardest thing I've...
    crlyhead89 crlyhead89 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    I get so tired of people telling me to leave my

    fiancé because he is in jail an when he gets out he's just gonna do something to end him back in there!! Don't worry about what goes on in my life if I want to be with this man I will. I love him he is my soul mate an if I had to wait a lifetime for him I would. I've told these...
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    This doesn't feel like it's getting any easier.

    I miss him so much then I have a dream that he's here an I wake up an he's not its making it so much harder. :(
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I haven't talked to my boyfriend

    since Saturday. The section he's in only had one out of three phones working. When I called to make a visit they said none of them are working. ughhhhh so frustrating. I need to hear his voice. It keeps me sane.
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    shoutout to all the ladies

    who sit by the phone every day waiting for that call. just got mine 5 minutes ago we talked about the bible and ramen noodles. it felt so normal :)
    brune191 brune191 22-25, F Jan 30

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    His court date is tomorrow morning.

    It's a plea deal and I'll probably see him in person (they put them on a TV sometimes) I'm worried about it not going as planned. And also how I'm going to work considering I'm at my nightshift now, have my makeup but not the right brush, and no clothes. Praying an hour gives me...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    My boyfriends been in jail

    for going on four months. We probably have anywhere from 3-5 years. We were talking on the phone once a week but it suddenly turned into everyday. I can't go visit him because he's 2,000 miles away in a different country. These phone calls are everything to me. I didn't realize...
    hayleypotter hayleypotter 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for almost 5 years now, he was accused of being involved in a robbery that he didn't do. His friend, well ex friend did it. His broke *** stole an iPhone and a north face backpack. My mother in law panicked and sent my boyfriend to DR , Dominican Republic, and he was fine there...
    lgerry lgerry 16-17, F Jun 3

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    my boyfriend just had his sentencing two days

    ago and I watched him get handcuffed and taken away. He is my best friend who I spend every day with who I am so attached too. Its so hard and it feels like I cant get through any day without him. I dont want to enjoy things when he isnt there. He will be gone for 2 months which...
    soothmysoul soothmysoul 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    I seem to miss my fiancée more at night,

    is anyone else like that?
    Talia1695 Talia1695 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    all I want is you ...

    .. funny how someone leaves and u realize u can't live with out them......
    reni888 reni888 26-30, F Jun 12

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    Today is my baby's birthday!

    !! Ugh my feelings are so messed up because I feel absolutely terrible about him being in such a bad place on his big day. I sent him tons of letters and cards from me and friends. I know getting them will make him happy but it's nothing compared to actually physically being...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    My husband had court

    and I found out last night that his release date is 2 months sooner than I thought it was. August 1, 2017 and if he gets "good time" he could get out as soon as April/May of that year. 25 months to go at worst. Now we're just worrying about the immigration detainer. His lawyer...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F Jun 18

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    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F Feb 19

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    I am in my bed, curled up listening to music.

    I'm ready for my man to be curled up next to me. We take life for granted. I took him for granted. I thought I'd always be able to reach out and touch him. But today I can't. Today has me wondering what this life is for. Come home baby. Love me like you do. And I got you. You...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F May 11

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 329 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Tomorrow I get to spend the day with my baby in

    prison from 8 am - 3 pm. I am so excited, I can't believe it. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight. I'm counting down the hours. I imagine you all feel the same way when you get to visit your man. I have never been able to visit him for so many hours at a time, it's the new...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 10 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25

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    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I miss my boyfriend so much ,

    he's been gone for two weeks and I know it may not seem like such a long time but for me it is , once you spend time together and build a deep connection , and you live together anything but just doesn't feel right , I know that he loves me , and I love him too , however there...
    aprildeanne aprildeanne 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend & I have been together

    for 3 years & he is literally my everything , When he first gratuated & went off to college he was hanging around the wrong people & made a horrible mistake & is now doing 3 years state probation .. He is not a bad person whats so ever , he treats me so good & he has the biggest...
    lizvaughn23 lizvaughn23 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My boyfriend has been in jail

    since March and he's not getting sentenced until late July. He's looking at getting 3-5 years. The worst part of it all is that he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, he's never done anything wrong in his life and now he's being punished so harshly. Another terrible...
    hayleypotter hayleypotter 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Exactly 12 more days

    until my boyfriend gets home. I am beyond excited and nervous. The phones finally got fixed so weve been talking more now.All the girls out there just keep praying and staying strong. Its hard but if you know your man is worth it then you can do anything for him.
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6

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