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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 17 Responses May 2

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 4 Responses May 17

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    My boyfriend was in jail

    and we met after he got released 6weeks ago. He has just breached one of his parole conditions I'm completely new to this and don't know if anyone can help with some insight but he was in a pre-trial unit for 7 days and he's just rang and said they are moving him further away I...
    emmajones124 emmajones124 26-30, F Aug 9

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    My boyfriend has been in jail

    for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time. I would of thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned out different. I can't even go to visit him...
    Xxyy18 Xxyy18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Wrong place at the wrong time the guy

    who commited the crime won't speak at all he has nothing to do with lord Jesus Christ :(
    jdsev jdsev 18-21, F Aug 27

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    90 days, 12 weeks, 6 paydays

    or 3 months.. which every way chose to say it, its all the same. 3 months without the man you love sleeping next to you at night. 3 months without waking up to the man you love next to you. The crazy thing about alcohol, you shouldn't drive. A mistake a lot of people do make...
    m3rR m3rR 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    What I'm going through at this moment I nobody

    understand, me and my boyfriend is going through a hard time now, he was force to resign from work and was told that he took some cash from his working place, they ask him to pay the money that he took and if not he will need to face the problem in jail.. My boyfriend has...
    cielotasha cielotasha 31-35, F Sep 1

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Well its been 2 weeks

    since my fiance got arrested for assualt. He was defending himself against someone. The day it happened the detectives told him it was clearly self defense and now the guy decided to press charges so now hes in jail. I get it. He has the right to do that but now my family is...
    punkmom13 punkmom13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    ny boyfriend and i have been together

    for A year and a half and hes been in jail for 5 months. he got out but now hes back in again for common law robbery. :/ i feel lonely, i feel like he will never change and he will just keep going back to jail. i dont know how much longer i can keep going because all hes doing...
    madisontullis madisontullis 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 24

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    My boyfriend and I were together

    for about a year and some before he was sentenced to a 2 year sentence in prison. The year we had been together was great although we went through our problems just like any other couple. Before he went to prison we werent on the best of terms but as soon as i heard he had got...
    builtfordtough builtfordtough 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    So I'm sitting here rocking my two month old

    and figured I'd write everything out. My boyfriend is in jail. He's been there since May 8, an exact month before my baby was due. It's been over three months now, and despite attempts to hang out with other people (particularly guys) I feel lonelier than I've ever been. John...
    catatonically catatonically 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Days Get Harder

    Everyday gets harder for me. To know that someone I love and someone I'm having a baby with is behind bars again for the 4th time brings me down. People make mistakes but sometimes other people suffer from them. I ask my self everyday what did I do to deserve this pain? I'm not...
    Aligirl1 Aligirl1 18-21, F Oct 11, 2013

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    I got my first letter from him today.

    It is so super sweet. I don't know what I was expecting, but it wasn't what I expected. I read too many blogs about prison love. Most of them are bad experiences. My baby's letter wasn't all about sex. He didn't ask for money. He didn't ask for anything. He expressed his...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I just want him to be here right now.

    .. This feels like a nightmare that I'll never wake up from... I just want to sleep next to him tonight. I feel so alone....
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Visit

    So today my son and I are going to visit daddy!!! I am so excited that I couldn't even sleep last night. Which sucks because I have to drive about an hour and a half to get there. But Im just so excited to hug and kiss him and tell him how much I love and miss him. I've been...
    liz8833 liz8833 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Well my biggest fear about

    when my boyfriend gets out is that things don't work out with him and I. Waiting all this time for things to fall apart... But without trying I guess I'll never know. Plus I'm sure if I don't try I'll regret it even more. He means so much to me I can't imagine being without...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    So, I have a boyfriend who's in jail.

    We haven't been together for that long, but we've known each other for six years. He has always meant so much to me. We were on and off without getting into a relationship for all 6 years. Yesterday he finally got one day out of prison so we could meet up. We had not seen each...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    I'm going insane without you,

    I'm losing my brains without you and I just can't help myself, don't want nobody else, I'm so crazy about you I'll do anything to see ya, and I slang myself to feed ya I just can't help myself, don't want nobody else, I'm so crazy about you
    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    The past 50 days have been hell with him away.

    But he was sentenced Wednesday and Finally moved Friday! He got the facility which means in a few short months he's going to be out and with me. And he can get passes out! I got to drop off some stuff for him and have him the biggest hug and like a million kisses! It was hard...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F Aug 31

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    It's been 10 days. And it's still hard.

    I miss him everyday but the daily calls from him help. Visiting him basically twice a week. I just feel lost as sad with out my babe. I miss him. And I love him so much. I just want him here with me. He missed my 18th birthday yesterday and he felt horrible about it. And he...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F Jul 19

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    Man, my baby is all I can think about.

    His sexy smile, his bad boy persona, his teddy bear heart, his piercing eyes, the way he nibbles and purrs when he wants to sex me... He has to come home to me before I lose my mind. Song of the day: Underneath Your Clothes, There's an endless story. There's the man I chose...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 21 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    I went on a Caribbean cruise

    for Labor Day weekend. My baby and I went the longest we've gone since we started hanging out without talking. We didn't talk for 5 days. If you've ever been with a man or woman in jail, you know this is a hard situation. Sometimes I want to give up on this relationship. Today...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    In august of 2012 I started dating my boyfriend,

    and in October of the same year (just 3 months into our relationship) he was arrested and served 3 months in jail, it was one of the most horrible feelings I have ever felt, I had no one to talk to that could relate to me about the things I was going through. We have had a long...
    ambv ambv 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    My boyfriend of over a year has been in jail

    for 2 weeks. He was arrested while on probation so I have no idea when he will be out or when I will talk to him again. I miss him so much, he was basically my only friend as well as being my lover and confidant. I don't know what to do with myself right now and would love to...
    cassidyb57 cassidyb57 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    It's been a month and 2 weeks now😢 I miss my

    boyfriend so much. He was locked up on July 3 and released but then the next day we had planned to go see fireworks. Worst 4th of July ever I went to his house to find that he wasn't there he was taken and locked up again and this time they kept him, I miss him with all my heart...
    sharizzle sharizzle 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    Tomorrow I get to spend the day with my baby in

    prison from 8 am - 3 pm. I am so excited, I can't believe it. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight. I'm counting down the hours. I imagine you all feel the same way when you get to visit your man. I have never been able to visit him for so many hours at a time, it's the new...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    9 more days left till his court date

    and that's only if the judge lets him go. If not his probably stuck in jail. What's worse is he has to go to another county, to maybe even make time. Hopefully it won't be another month. It sucks having someone you spend every moment with suddenly gone. Every night, I'm waiting...
    Chaejoorhi Chaejoorhi 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Ughhhh! I missed our visit this morning!

    Now I have to wait till next week... His mom is the one who schedules us (herself and I) on the visits, then she comes to pick me up and we go together. Well, apparently her younger son is home sick and she can't go. But does she let me know? Of course not! Not until I text her...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Really miss my baby, hate

    that we have no leads on his case or any information, I just pray god pulls us through 🙏
    rkterrell rkterrell 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-18 294 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 26 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    Tonight I'm lonely. I miss my baby

    so much. This is unfair. I need him to hold me tight. If I wasn't such a night owl I could go to sleep and forget for a while. But I can't sleep.
    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    brookedawn1234 brookedawn1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    My baby has been locked up

    for 17 days and I feel like I'm going insane. How do you ladies do it? How am I gonna do this? We aren't sure how long he'll get because he hasn't been sentenced yet. But I'm hoping for less than a year. He is everything to me. He gives me more smiles than anyone I've ever met...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Well today I got a letter from my boyfriend.

    .. little things makes such a difference. His family wonder why I stick by him, I say you can't choose who you fall for, you may be able to choose if you stick by them or not but if your heart wants to love them you've got no choice! He's promised that when he gets out he won't...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    I got a letter yesterday from him

    and I nearly cried. I forgot how I felt when I would get letters from him. This life may be hard but I couldn't imagine it without him now. I love him so much.
    Txangel777 Txangel777 22-25, F 5 Responses May 2

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