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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    the last two days have been really good

    and positive.. until tonight.. he called five times but the calls would not go through when I accepted them.. and I know there's money on the phone because I added it this morning. I just don't want him to think I was ignoring him, now I can't stop crying. uuuugghhh I hate this...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    my boyfriend went to prison today

    for 22 months. he is 12 hours away from me. I'm so in love with him. how do I stay strong when I feel I feel heart broken and weak
    dereksgirl22 dereksgirl22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    im 16, and my boyfriend of 7 months has been in

    juvenile hall for about a month now, he is being heild there until he gets sent to a youth camp which he will be heild at for the min. of 6 months. i am trying to remain strong and be there for him with a positive outlook but he is just so negative about the whole situation and...
    hugtreesfeelcosmos hugtreesfeelcosmos 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

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    some one please give me advice.

    anyone please message me.
    dereksgirl22 dereksgirl22 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Do things get better?

    Its been two months so far and it's so hard now that my boyfriend isnt here. I hope it gets easier, cause i still cry at night. Im trying to be supportive, i send him letters, pics, visit, and answer his calls. I wish i could do more from the outside. How are you ladies getting...
    steephaniee steephaniee 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    So he's been to court two times

    since I updated y'all. Yesterday he went to court for a bail reduction and further pretrial. Unfortunately his bail didn't get reduced, which doesn't mean he still can't be bailed out but he will need three co signers to make bail.. The other part that broke my heart was that...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I really miss my boyfriend

    who is in jail for roughly 11 months now . The thing is he rings me every day but only stays on for about 5 minutes i don't know whether he wants me or not and its really messing with my head. I go to see him every 2 weeks but his parents come up all the time so I never get...
    leahmccaul leahmccaul 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2014

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Today is my 3 year anniversary with my

    boyfriend. Next week it's going to be 7months away from him. My birthday christmass any day that went by sucked but I was ok. Last night and today have just been miserable. I just wish I could hug him and kiss him and know everything will be ok. I know soon I will know how long...
    ale15 ale15 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    My Boyfriend Got Sent Into A detention center

    and is going to be in placement for a year 😒! I miss him so much and it hasn't even been a week. I don't know what to do and I need advice.
    wreckedl0ve wreckedl0ve 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 10 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I miss my boyfriend so much.

    .. he's been locked up for almost a year and don't get out until jan 2017. I really love him and believe he's worth the wait and he loves me unconditionally. I'm going celibate and waiting for him. he's that important to me. Nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes! I truly...
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F Mar 14

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I don't know what else to do except to post on

    here. My boyfriend has court tomorrow , but for the last 2 days they've been shuffling him around. He was in the mental hospital for evaluation, then got send to jail, then today his buddy who is in jail told me he got shipped off to another jail. They haven't given him an...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    So I've lived with my boyfriend (up

    until this point) for just about a year. We have the kind of bond that some people have to look for forever. Some never even find it. So I feel lucky. But two weeks ago, my whole world was turned upside down when he got arrested. He already had drug charges but he caught them...
    Graftyyy Graftyyy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    26 more days until my boyfriend comes home.

    I miss him like crazy, and can't wait for him to be home, but at the same time I'm nervous about what's gonna happen when he gets out. In January, he got locked up for a month, was home for 10 days on house arrest but ended up breaching. Hes already been gone 42 days. I'm scared...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Days like today are the worst.

    When you are so sad you can't even bear to move let alone function in society. Damn I miss you so much. I just have to make it through the next two weeks. That's nothing. I got this...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25

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    This is the second time my boyfriend has been

    locked up since we've been together. The first time it was for old charges and he actually turned himself in, hoping to put it all behind him and have a good life with me and my daughter. He did 30 days and got 6 months house arrest. He was only home for 10 days before he...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F Mar 16

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    My boyfriend is leaving on Tuesday.

    I'm sad and upset but the reality of not being able to see him hasn't yet hit me. Today has been really hard for me I try to keep myself busy but he is always on my mind. We have been spending every moment posible together and we have been making the most beautiful and...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    During this time away from my love I decided

    that I'm going to do a few things; 1. Better myself- start working out, picking up hours at work, and do my best to get my degree before he's out 2. Do what I know he would want me to do- My baby doesn't want me to sit around crying all day. He tells me all the time to go out...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I cannot fathom why I'm still here.

    But I can't let go. This pain is becoming too much to bare. When will we experience this life?
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    I love and miss my boyfriend very much,

    it feels like he's been gone forever. Yesterday I bought a birthstone ring with both our birth stones and names engraved . I love it, now every time I look down at my finger it feels like he's with me
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Things have been fairly well ,

    (actually things have been great compared to how it was in the beginning) so my boyfriend got bailed out last month. But before he was bailed out he was in jail for two months. Those were the hardest two months of my life, being without him made feel so lost, it was like I was...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    sadeccaa sadeccaa 26-30, F Mar 12

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    So my boyfriend got arrested last Thursday on

    some pretty serious charges. I knew he had a troubled past due to his upbringing but I never thought he would have gotten hisself caught up in some crazy **** like this. Are relationship is beautiful, we are always openly honest with one another so it made are relationship a lot...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Today was really hard.

    My boyfriend had sentencing today. He got 39 days. It was so hard seeing him there in cuffs, not being able to talk to him. Last time he had court i couldn't go because it was in a different city. I hate this. Hes already been gone for a month waiting for trial, so it'll be 69...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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