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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    I'm going insane without you,

    I'm losing my brains without you and I just can't help myself, don't want nobody else, I'm so crazy about you I'll do anything to see ya, and I slang myself to feed ya I just can't help myself, don't want nobody else, I'm so crazy about you
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    hello my boyfriend is in jail

    and he was meant to have court yestreday but they said he dont have a court date or a release date and i call the court house and said they dont no nothing there was nothing on there computers only stuff from back in 2013 ...he went to jail in july 2014 he only had 3 months...
    amylovesyou amylovesyou 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    I haven't been on here a while.

    i hope all you ladies are well. its been a good 7 months now and i am more in love with him than i was before. we have such a good honest relationship. he is so patient with me and the fact that im always so emotional. there is 18 months left till home leave and 2.5 years left...
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    9 more days left till his court date

    and that's only if the judge lets him go. If not his probably stuck in jail. What's worse is he has to go to another county, to maybe even make time. Hopefully it won't be another month. It sucks having someone you spend every moment with suddenly gone. Every night, I'm waiting...
    Chaejoorhi Chaejoorhi 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Tonight I'm lonely. I miss my baby

    so much. This is unfair. I need him to hold me tight. If I wasn't such a night owl I could go to sleep and forget for a while. But I can't sleep.
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    ny boyfriend and i have been together

    for A year and a half and hes been in jail for 5 months. he got out but now hes back in again for common law robbery. :/ i feel lonely, i feel like he will never change and he will just keep going back to jail. i dont know how much longer i can keep going because all hes doing...
    madisontullis madisontullis 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 24

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    Me am my man have been together

    for 3 yrs. We both spent summer of 2013 incarcerated, same case an all, we ride for eacjother! All tje way but hes in there now after finishing community service from the last case he has more serious charges now , i right him everyday keeoin his head above water its drivin me...
    sarahjogarrett sarahjogarrett 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 21 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Well today I got a letter from my boyfriend.

    .. little things makes such a difference. His family wonder why I stick by him, I say you can't choose who you fall for, you may be able to choose if you stick by them or not but if your heart wants to love them you've got no choice! He's promised that when he gets out he won't...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    Ughhhh! I missed our visit this morning!

    Now I have to wait till next week... His mom is the one who schedules us (herself and I) on the visits, then she comes to pick me up and we go together. Well, apparently her younger son is home sick and she can't go. But does she let me know? Of course not! Not until I text her...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I just want him to be here right now.

    .. This feels like a nightmare that I'll never wake up from... I just want to sleep next to him tonight. I feel so alone....
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    He isn't even my boyfriend,

    but he used to be. I honestly don't even know why we broke up in the first place, but we did. It never mattered to him who I was with after that, he continued to call me and tell me that he wanted to get back together. I always gave him the typical response of "we can talk about...
    Lexie1516 Lexie1516 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 1

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Well its been 2 weeks

    since my fiance got arrested for assualt. He was defending himself against someone. The day it happened the detectives told him it was clearly self defense and now the guy decided to press charges so now hes in jail. I get it. He has the right to do that but now my family is...
    punkmom13 punkmom13 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    My man has 35 days left.

    I can't wait to see him!! I just joined to make some friends who are going through the same thing. I also wanted time to move a lil faster thought this would help. We met when I was 12 and he was 14 but just reconnected on FB in July and got together in August. He lives in New...
    missingyou23 missingyou23 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    boyfriend was arrested today

    which was also his birthday and our 2 years. this has happened once before and hes nothing but guilty for the crimes hes done. he was desperate for money to keep his siblings at school and to help his parents pay rent and other bills. i dont know how long he is gone for and all...
    kateyqueen kateyqueen 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20

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    Tonight will be 3 weeks

    since my boyfriend was taken away from me. That day i had finally had seen him after 3 weeks of not seeing him because of our jobs and difficult schedule. He has no bail and I have no information about his case. I just feel crushed. My friends that know want me to stay positive...
    ale15 ale15 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 20

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    Well, it's a long story.

    Him and I had a huge falling out. Our relationship was going downhill fast. We knew that we weren't going to last if we kept it up. The only issue is, neither of us wanted to see the other with another person. Jealousy kept us together. We fought nearly every day.. We lived...
    chrissyp7 chrissyp7 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    I'm just having such a hard time lately!

    !! I can't see him and its definitely starting to get to us..
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey, Im 16, my boyfriend is 17.

    I love him, we where raised completely different and he is in jail. I feel stupid but I love him so much, I gave him part of me and with out him I dont know if I'd feel complete. My parents just found out he is in jail and are trying to cut all communication with him to 0. They...
    mysteryatlgirl mysteryatlgirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Wrong place at the wrong time the guy

    who commited the crime won't speak at all he has nothing to do with lord Jesus Christ :(
    jdsev jdsev 18-21, F Aug 27

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 17 Responses May 2

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    Honestly look at the relationship now.

    I didn't EVERYTHING for that boy. He gets out and about a moth later leaves me for his ex because she's buying him all this stuff. I should have left him when he was in jail. I shouldn't have done all the shut I did for him because he ended up just breaking my ******* heart
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I got my first letter from him today.

    It is so super sweet. I don't know what I was expecting, but it wasn't what I expected. I read too many blogs about prison love. Most of them are bad experiences. My baby's letter wasn't all about sex. He didn't ask for money. He didn't ask for anything. He expressed his...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Man, my baby is all I can think about.

    His sexy smile, his bad boy persona, his teddy bear heart, his piercing eyes, the way he nibbles and purrs when he wants to sex me... He has to come home to me before I lose my mind. Song of the day: Underneath Your Clothes, There's an endless story. There's the man I chose...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    What I'm going through at this moment I nobody

    understand, me and my boyfriend is going through a hard time now, he was force to resign from work and was told that he took some cash from his working place, they ask him to pay the money that he took and if not he will need to face the problem in jail.. My boyfriend has...
    cielotasha cielotasha 31-35, F Sep 1

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    My baby is locked up.

    Right now I'm missing him so much. And wondering - what are some good ideas of things we can do the first weekend he's out? Of course we'll have lots of sex. But I want to make it memorable. Fantastic. Amazing. Ladies? And suggestions? Guys, you too.
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    So, I have a boyfriend who's in jail.

    We haven't been together for that long, but we've known each other for six years. He has always meant so much to me. We were on and off without getting into a relationship for all 6 years. Yesterday he finally got one day out of prison so we could meet up. We had not seen each...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Well my biggest fear about

    when my boyfriend gets out is that things don't work out with him and I. Waiting all this time for things to fall apart... But without trying I guess I'll never know. Plus I'm sure if I don't try I'll regret it even more. He means so much to me I can't imagine being without...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    90 days, 12 weeks, 6 paydays

    or 3 months.. which every way chose to say it, its all the same. 3 months without the man you love sleeping next to you at night. 3 months without waking up to the man you love next to you. The crazy thing about alcohol, you shouldn't drive. A mistake a lot of people do make...
    m3rR m3rR 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Today I told one of my best friends

    that the guy I have been on and off with for so long, is in jail. They literally laughed and told me that maybe the guy shouldn't be so stupid then. What they didn't understand was that I wasn't telling them that for their opinion, or to make fun of the guy, I was telling them...
    Lexie1516 Lexie1516 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 1

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Sorry a bit of a long one,

    , Myself and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 12 we went out with each other for a few months then decided to just be friends and have been really close ever since he went into jail in 2012 to serve 2 and a half years and june this year we decided to become a...
    jadeashleigh jadeashleigh 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 27 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    The past 50 days have been hell with him away.

    But he was sentenced Wednesday and Finally moved Friday! He got the facility which means in a few short months he's going to be out and with me. And he can get passes out! I got to drop off some stuff for him and have him the biggest hug and like a million kisses! It was hard...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F Aug 31

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    I really miss my boyfriend he's been in jail

    56days now after breaking his parole this whole time with telephone calls and letters I never once had told him what I have been doing day to day! It's nothing bad I just its just like going for drinks with friends or something normal I feel like it is rubbing it in his face so...
    emmajones124 emmajones124 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 26

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    Boyfriend gets out of jail in the 15th of this

    month. Cant be anymore happier!😃❤️💋
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 3

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-18 301 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Visit

    So today my son and I are going to visit daddy!!! I am so excited that I couldn't even sleep last night. Which sucks because I have to drive about an hour and a half to get there. But Im just so excited to hug and kiss him and tell him how much I love and miss him. I've been...
    liz8833 liz8833 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Days Get Harder

    Everyday gets harder for me. To know that someone I love and someone I'm having a baby with is behind bars again for the 4th time brings me down. People make mistakes but sometimes other people suffer from them. I ask my self everyday what did I do to deserve this pain? I'm not...
    Aligirl1 Aligirl1 18-21, F Oct 11, 2013

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