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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    I am new to all of the jail stuff ,

    and I hate all of it. He has been in and out of jail most of his adult life, and doesn't understand why it's so hard for me. I wish I had a safe or healthy way of getting my feelings out
    Lana3278 Lana3278 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 10 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I miss him dearly. No other man will ever

    compare to him and I love him soooo much can't imagine my life without him
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    He came home on Friday!

    !! We found out his release date literally 3 days before. He is finally out. 23 months on a 3 year sentence. Chin up ladies. I promise...it's all worth it!! As soon as you see him on the other side of those gates, it all falls into to place!!
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    So I've seen a lot of experiences of I miss my

    boyfriend who's in jail and well I've been feeling alone cause he's literally the only man in my life I have left that I came to love... I might still be young but I came to care for this guy a lot more than I could think of. We met way back when I was barely a freshman in high...
    cloverxx cloverxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    I don't know where to begin.

    He's been in jail now 2 weeks. I know it isn't very long but his bail was set to high to even dream of getting him out and his court date isn't until December. I miss him with everything I have. I've been with the boy for 5 years now and we have had our ups and downs but we were...
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I hate collect calling,

    i hate not being able to visit, i just hate it All... Ughhhh!! This month seems to be going by the slowest :( 😭
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I miss my boyfriend who is in jail

    but I just found out recently that he has another girlfriend and his step sister and and brother they are really close and they told my friend that he has another girlfriend like I asked the sister and she says she doesn't know what I'm talking about and my friend wasn't...
    Fallenangel421 Fallenangel421 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 333 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Tomorrow I get to spend the day with my baby in

    prison from 8 am - 3 pm. I am so excited, I can't believe it. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight. I'm counting down the hours. I imagine you all feel the same way when you get to visit your man. I have never been able to visit him for so many hours at a time, it's the new...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    My boyfriend got ten months five

    and a half passed already and it was very hard to deal with. I got in the routine of seeing him every Saturday because I can't go during the week. No calls . Just got a notice from the jail that my visits was cancelled. He had a job getting out everyday and feeling free for...
    Whattodo1213 Whattodo1213 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    My family doesn't understand

    why I'm sticking beside my boyfriend, why I'm willing to wait till he gets out, and why I would even think about saving money for a lawyer. They think he's a fling, something I will get over with time. They say he's not my husband he's just some boyfriend but what they don't...
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    It's the first night,

    since he's been locked up, that he didn't call me to say goodnight.....
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F Jul 28

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F Feb 19

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    I could not be more satisfied with the man God

    has given to me. Except, he's about to come home. Which will only make us more in sync. He went in as this guy I may have loved. He's coming out as the man I want to make a life with. He's used this time to educate himself. He's grown spiritually. He's gotten to know me. He...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I guess nobody posts here anymore.

    But it's nice to have a place with no hate and no bias and no judgement even if nobody's really here. I miss him extra tonight. Of course I miss him so bad all the time, but when I hear his voice and can only see his face through old pictures in my phone, it rips through my...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    This doesn't feel like it's getting any easier.

    I miss him so much then I have a dream that he's here an I wake up an he's not its making it so much harder. :(
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    I love waking up to his calls.

    He definitely help set my mood for the day. I can't wait until my babe is back home with me!
    illacruz illacruz 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend been together almost a year

    now and hes been in jail for a few months... somedays i feel like its so hard to cope with, other days i stay positive. Thats my best advice with this situation. Everything happens for a reason. I do have my days where i break down, its so hard for me because i miss him so much...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I miss him a lot more

    than anyone can think but one thing got to me he called a girl that he himself said was a hoe now I don't know why he would but it worries me cause I think I'm in love with him and well in a couple of days I'm going to see him and I think I'm just going to be straight up with...
    cloverxx cloverxx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Its early in the morning

    and the first thing that pops in my head is my loving boyfriend of 4years. I've never been so attached to someone who has loved me for me. UNCONDITIONALLY!!!! Yes he's away from me at the moment but he still makes me feel like the luckiest woman in the world and makes me feel...
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    shoutout to all the ladies

    who sit by the phone every day waiting for that call. just got mine 5 minutes ago we talked about the bible and ramen noodles. it felt so normal :)
    brune191 brune191 22-25, F Jan 30

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Today I got to go visit him in jail

    and seeing him in an orange jumpsuit really hit me but I'm glad I went....I hadn't realized how much I actually missed seeing him. The visit was through a computer monitor, it was only 20 minutes long, and I had to share him and those 20 minutes between his sister, brother, and...
    evelazquez evelazquez 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I am in my bed, curled up listening to music.

    I'm ready for my man to be curled up next to me. We take life for granted. I took him for granted. I thought I'd always be able to reach out and touch him. But today I can't. Today has me wondering what this life is for. Come home baby. Love me like you do. And I got you. You...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 1 Response May 11

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    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12

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    Just the thought of the perfect times we used

    to share brings emptiness in my heart because I don't have him by my side like I always had but this situation is making us stronger. Were much wiser and he needed this time to get his self together. 2 years down and one more to go!!!!!!!!! I will never leave his side no matter...
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I talked to my boyfriend earlier today.

    I got some good news from him.. He'll be home soon. Thank God. Now everything will fall into place slowly but surely... I never smiled so much the way i do now, these past months really opened his eyes & even mine! I guess its the fact that i never had a real relationship before...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 Aug 12

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    I can't wait to hear my boyfriends release

    date.. but I have to wait till December to see for up to how long they can give him which can be one to three years the most.
    cloverxx cloverxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    MY FAMILY WILL NEVER EVER BE HAPPY FOR BE

    LOVING MY MAN! IM SO ANGRY AND UPSET I HATE THIS I HATE IT
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