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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    I am in my bed, curled up listening to music.

    I'm ready for my man to be curled up next to me. We take life for granted. I took him for granted. I thought I'd always be able to reach out and touch him. But today I can't. Today has me wondering what this life is for. Come home baby. Love me like you do. And I got you. You...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F May 11

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    shoutout to all the ladies

    who sit by the phone every day waiting for that call. just got mine 5 minutes ago we talked about the bible and ramen noodles. it felt so normal :)
    brune191 brune191 22-25, F Jan 30

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    I love and miss my boyfriend very much,

    it feels like he's been gone forever. Yesterday I bought a birthstone ring with both our birth stones and names engraved . I love it, now every time I look down at my finger it feels like he's with me
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I have a few questions!

    Anybody have advice for my husband and I who has to deal with immigration after all of this? He has a pretty long record with mostly small crimes and some worse ones, the most recent one being Feb 2013, which violated his probation for a crime that occurred Dec 2009. He has a...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Inbox me anyone who is willing to give me

    support my boyfriend will be spending 4 years in 3 more months
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    2 an 1/2 more weeks til my mans court date.

    This is gonna be the longest two weeks of my life
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F May 7

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    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F Feb 19

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    tomorrow is my loves court the worst it can go

    is two years prison although hes been away a month i cant stand this time aprt. im so infactuated with him. i cant stand bei .seperated like this.
    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa 18-21, F May 6

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    I'm so excited I can visit my baby tomorrow

    from 2:30-8, Sat and Sun from 8am-3pm!!! I haven't seen him in FOUR years!!! I am crying tears of joy
    hippieheddy hippieheddy 31-35, F May 7

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    Oh, I mean this man has given me a true gift.

    I am so in love. It won't be long now and I'll be in his arms again. Sometimes I can't believe I've made it. But I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. He is coming home. I'm a nervous wreck and happy all at once. When I kiss those lips, y'all... Mmmm! I cannot wait...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 5 Responses May 8

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    I really am missing my bug.

    he's my EVERYTHING and I hate being alone... :( he made me really sad earlier on the phone because in the middle of the convo he stopped to tell me how much he misses me. Hearing that he's sad literally brakes my heart. we have 71 days left and I know this will be over soon now...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F May 14

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    I'm so stressed out about literally EVERYTHING.

    Stressed to the point I'm sitting here crying. I am doing everything on my own and I don't know how I'm going to keep doing this. I need my man here by my side helping me through this. It sucks that I can't call him right now and tell him how I'm feeling. I hate this situation...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 325 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    It's hard to look forward to his "release date".

    .28 months and 14 days away..when he will just get transferred to immigration jail. I just found out via his immigration lawyer that it will take at least 6 months. So really, he's not doing 29 months but 35. At least. But I still hold on to that date, because every day still...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F 1 Response May 15

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    missing him so so much.

    I cannot wait until he's back home with me and the family! 77 more days though. I know it's almost here but I'm so anxious! I love my bug so so much!
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    33 more days until my love comes home.

    I wish I could speed time up. We've been apart since December but honestly we've gotten closer through this. Can't wait to have him back.
    blueskys26 blueskys26 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    80 more days! I can't wait I'm seriously

    so excited to be back with my love. I told him I'm planning a surprise for us when he's home. I'm gunna take him and a bunch of our friends on a cruise to the Bahamas ?? we're going to be celebrating his bday, my bday, and our anniversary so I figured it's worth it. Now I'm just...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    tomorrow is my loves court the worst it can go

    is two years prison although hes been away a month i cant stand this time aprt. im so infactuated with him. i cant stand bei .seperated like this.
    amariebonitaa amariebonitaa 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    He just hung up on me.

    I'm so mad right now. We get into a stupid *** little argument and then he wants to act like a lil boy and hang up? Shows me that he doesn't appreciate all the money I've put on the phone and on his books. He knows that talking is expensive and he wants me to pay so that we can...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 3 Responses May 22

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    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    I hate the feeling of being completely lost

    without him. I just don't feel like the real me without him here. I miss my baby like crazy.. eventually this will all be over
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 10 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    Today is just one of those days .

    . I'm sad he has to be away from me, he is my everything. I went and saw him yesterday, I was so happy to finally see him. I was able to look at him in his eyes and see him talk to me. It seemed like it was perfect but it wasn't, I couldn't even touch him. Surprisingly I didn't...
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

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    I miss him so much. I saw him today

    and I just wanted to freeze the world and bring him home,.. he inocent,,its time to end this ??
    reni888 reni888 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Today is just too hard

    for me. All I want to do is cry... I'm just feeling really down, he goes to court tomorrow and it's just ******* with me mentally. I want so bad for this **** to be over
    allishasweet allishasweet 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    We're finally into the 50s!

    ! omg I'm so happy we got 59 more days apart and then this whole thing is OVER. Can't wait to have my man back home with me I'm missing him so so much. I just need to remember that we are so close now. Still counting down the days but I'm getting very anxious! I'm going to be...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So if he is sentenced to a year in prison how

    much time will he really serve in the state of Tennessee?
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 21

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    Been arguing with my boyfriend

    for the past 2 days. We've both started to question our relationship, there's a lot of love. But sometimes love is not enough... 4 months & 13 days left...
    Lgtali Lgtali 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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