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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Today my boyfriend got sentenced to 3 months in

    out of town jail. I know it doesn't sound very long but I've never had to deal with this before and this has become the hardest thing I've ever gone through and I don't know how to make it get better. I don't get to see or talk to him just letters and they help for a little and...
    ashleigh8 ashleigh8 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    I really thought we'd make it through it all

    if you've seen all my previous experiences you'd think wow but i don't know what's going on through his head. I wouldn't be with him if I didn't like the way he is..well he called me not sounding the best but down he told me that he was breaking up with me because he wanted to...
    cloverxx cloverxx 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2015

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    He came home on Friday!

    !! We found out his release date literally 3 days before. He is finally out. 23 months on a 3 year sentence. Chin up ladies. I promise...it's all worth it!! As soon as you see him on the other side of those gates, it all falls into to place!!
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2015

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    This doesn't feel like it's getting any easier.

    I miss him so much then I have a dream that he's here an I wake up an he's not its making it so much harder. :(
    Rhinosgirl Rhinosgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2015

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    Had a really good day today.

    First day I didn't cry out of the 12 he's been gone. Got my first letter from my baby and he got to call me twice. I miss him so much. I know that this is gonna make our relationship closer in the end.
    Jimthegem Jimthegem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    tammyccaa tammyccaa 26-30, F Dec 17, 2015

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F Feb 19, 2015

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    It's so annoying when you send something in

    and a week later it's missing even though it's all signed for. That's a complaint coming up however, it still means it needs to be replaced until it's sorted. Hate the prison service!
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2015

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    My boyfriend has been in jail

    for a week now. He just got sentenced to 4 and a half months today. I feel so lonely without him. He's my everything, I wanna wait for him but I know it's gonna be so hard. I know he wasn't thinking of me when be "committed the crime" but he brought light to my life in my...
    Jimthegem Jimthegem 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I miss him so much, it's been 6 1/2 months

    since he's been gone and we're talking 1 year 9 months and 1 day more. Of course I'm counting down the days no matter how far away. All hope for early release was immediately smashed when his lawyer said its not possible, plea deal. I wish his sentence was as concise as his...
    UnconditionalLove27 UnconditionalLove27 18-21, F Oct 30, 2015

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    Well got some bad news today.

    My boy can't get 2 for 1 so he's gonna have to do his full sentence of 9 months. I was thinking that he could work for the jail get 2 for 1 and get his time cut in half. But nope things never go as planned. Maybe eventually he can get 2 for 1 on good behavior but I'm not to sure...
    Jimthegem Jimthegem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I miss my boyfriend who is jail he's in

    for armed robbery i dont know what to do we've been together for a yr and i wanna wait on him im 17 i wont stop my life but i dont want to date or see anyone but HIM i just need someone to talk to
    Brimike1213 Brimike1213 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    People will never understand the love you have

    for each other and don't expect them too. They will not understand what you go through, they will not see things like you see them. They will only see what you don't have and only the situation. Please don't expect sympathy from them you won't get it they will only ridicule you...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    So my boyfriend (due to a great record

    and not so great circumstances) has been let out by a judge for now. So long as he does 8 community service hours and pays his fines, the charges will be dropped and erased from his record. Thank you to those who gave me kindness and supportive words. I have been waiting for him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 16, 2015

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    I'm looking for someone to be with my friend.

    He's the nicest guy I've ever met. He's smart, funny, and mature for his age. He is 18 years old, and readily available to anyone who is interested in being his one true girlfriend. The only reason I don't date him myself is because I only view him as a friend. Also, I am...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6 18-21, F Dec 17, 2015

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    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2015

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    This month will mark 14 years of being with my

    husband and 4 years of our marriage. Another tough year has gone by. Many arguments and after that we've always made up. The distance between us does take its toll on our relationship. Many times I've cried over things that he has said. But I've always bitten his hard words...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2015

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 349 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Hi, I'm new to this app.

    My name is Rachel, my boyfriends name is Bradley. He went to jail on 11-9-15 and will be there for around 120 days. I'm having a very hard time with it. I'm always here to message everyone if you need a friend.
    raetho raetho 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2015

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    Ok so my boyfriend went to jail on the 14th of

    October, He has since proposed to me. This has been a road that not too many women could handle....We never, ever fought before he went in! now it seems like that is all we have done. He is my life and I don't always know how to handle it. I have bent over backwards to do...
    lee3853 lee3853 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25, 2015

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F Nov 12, 2014

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    So it's been 2 months without seeing my love

    one, I would think time would heal pain like this but it's a endless stream of hurt. He's miss important dates like My birthday and in 3 exact days he would of miss his own birthday.. His court date to define if he get's let's let out is on the Jan 20th. I can't go and visit him...
    Ashelyy1 Ashelyy1 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 2

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I'm sitting here, visiting my family,

    and my boyfriend was recently arrested. He was beaten, close to beyond recognition, and they want to sweep it under the rug. But watching a college football game, a player gets injured, and they are all in a panic. This is wrong to me. Looks like I will be fading them from my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 7, 2015

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 36-40, M 11 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Tonight is the first night without him by my

    side. It feels so lonely. He isn't only my boyfriend, but my best friend too. Saying goodbye this morning felt like the same pain of getting your heart broken (AKA the worst feeling ever). All day at work I couldn't wait to get home so I could write him a letter so it felt like...
    bluecottoncloudz bluecottoncloudz 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

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    Well in a couple of days he makes six months

    locked up and **** I miss him a ton I usually visit him once a month but wasn't able to go October so I'm dying to go see him already.. we are actually going to make a year in a couple of months and I highly doubt he'll be out by that time but hoping he does cause I really want...
    cloverxx cloverxx 18-21, F Nov 1, 2015

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    I got visitation!! After two long,

    painful weeks!! I'm going to see my baby!! And talk to him!! First time since it all went down. Little victories, yall!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 12, 2015

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    well today got to hear from my bby I'm happy

    he's voice sooths me I'm si in love w this man.....I hope everyone had a good day and stayed save and remember we all make mistakes don't give up on the ones that really need us the most during these hard times and on this journey in our lives....don't give up if u know it's...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife 31-35, F Jan 8

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    I could not be more satisfied with the man God

    has given to me. Except, he's about to come home. Which will only make us more in sync. He went in as this guy I may have loved. He's coming out as the man I want to make a life with. He's used this time to educate himself. He's grown spiritually. He's gotten to know me. He...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 28, 2015

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    Tomorrow I get to spend the day with my baby in

    prison from 8 am - 3 pm. I am so excited, I can't believe it. I don't know how I'll sleep tonight. I'm counting down the hours. I imagine you all feel the same way when you get to visit your man. I have never been able to visit him for so many hours at a time, it's the new...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    elinccaa elinccaa 26-30, F Jan 7

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