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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    What are some fun things to send my boyfriend

    for Thanksgiving? He is not happy about spending time away from his family and friends for the holidays. I want to make it as pleasurable for him as possible.
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F Nov 3

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    hello my boyfriend is in jail

    and he was meant to have court yestreday but they said he dont have a court date or a release date and i call the court house and said they dont no nothing there was nothing on there computers only stuff from back in 2013 ...he went to jail in july 2014 he only had 3 months...
    amylovesyou amylovesyou 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    My man has 35 days left.

    I can't wait to see him!! I just joined to make some friends who are going through the same thing. I also wanted time to move a lil faster thought this would help. We met when I was 12 and he was 14 but just reconnected on FB in July and got together in August. He lives in New...
    missingyou23 missingyou23 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    My bf went to jail Oct 19 th its been the

    HARDEST 2 WEEKS EVER. I'm also 2 months pregnant with his first baby. I feel so lost. Hopefully, tomorrow will be a better day. I'll put money on his books and on the phone. I just love him. We're engaged and All.
    Tlovesjosh Tlovesjosh 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    Visit

    So today my son and I are going to visit daddy!!! I am so excited that I couldn't even sleep last night. Which sucks because I have to drive about an hour and a half to get there. But Im just so excited to hug and kiss him and tell him how much I love and miss him. I've been...
    liz8833 liz8833 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Well, I know my boyfriend

    since we were kids, I moved out from another country but he stayed, years later he did the same but different state, we tried to be together but we couldn't, I had school and two jobs, same with him but I promised him that I'll see him again in the middle of the summer so we can...
    ejulie ejulie 18-21, F Nov 9

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    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 17 Responses May 2

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    I miss my baby so much.

    He gets out on November 21st, and I cant wait. I feel like time is going by so slow, because that's all I think about. And I'm so scared because back in April 2011, my brother was murdered, and the trial for his killer is coming up November 17th, and I wish he was here to help...
    lanaz2 lanaz2 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for almost 5 months. Before we started dating he was charged with a felony and blah blah blah. He had a drug and alcohol problem. I literally changed him...when we started dating he got a really good job and went to rehab, ect. Last night he got arrested, I'm not sure for what...
    limenumber limenumber 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-18 306 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I just want him to be here right now.

    .. This feels like a nightmare that I'll never wake up from... I just want to sleep next to him tonight. I feel so alone....
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    Well today I got a letter from my boyfriend.

    .. little things makes such a difference. His family wonder why I stick by him, I say you can't choose who you fall for, you may be able to choose if you stick by them or not but if your heart wants to love them you've got no choice! He's promised that when he gets out he won't...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    Ughhhh! I missed our visit this morning!

    Now I have to wait till next week... His mom is the one who schedules us (herself and I) on the visits, then she comes to pick me up and we go together. Well, apparently her younger son is home sick and she can't go. But does she let me know? Of course not! Not until I text her...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Sorry a bit of a long one,

    , Myself and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 12 we went out with each other for a few months then decided to just be friends and have been really close ever since he went into jail in 2012 to serve 2 and a half years and june this year we decided to become a...
    jadeashleigh jadeashleigh 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I met a guy about a month ago.

    We hung out a few times and everything was going great. We were at the point of making it official. One night after he left my house he ended up being pulled over. Well he had warrants in another state so they took him in. He is in county waiting to transfer to the other state...
    Jesyrae86 Jesyrae86 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Honestly look at the relationship now.

    I didn't EVERYTHING for that boy. He gets out and about a moth later leaves me for his ex because she's buying him all this stuff. I should have left him when he was in jail. I shouldn't have done all the shut I did for him because he ended up just breaking my ******* heart
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    This is driving me insane

    and i don't know what to do, i need some advice before i do something i regret. My man has moved to a minimum security prison now, so he is a lot more free. but its been like a month now that every time we talk its so different like there's no emotion in his voice. i haven't...
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I just got done seeing my boyfriend.

    We had a really good visit. We laughed and talked about when he comes home. I also read him these two poems and he got teary eyed. They were about how I was going to stay dedicated to him. I think he really loves hearing me say that. 8 months to go...
    Jesyrae86 Jesyrae86 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 21 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    Everyday I hear about someone somewhere getting

    sent down for something or another. But those that do many of these things intentionally don't even think about there loved ones when they'll be locked up. When a person goes down, the mother, father, brothers, sisters, grandparents, uncles, aunts, girl friend, wife, children...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F Nov 4

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    My boyfriend asked me

    for books and magazines. I want to get them for him anything that will help him while he is in hell. have any of you sent books before? It say to get them from publisher but publishers sent me to online stores. Amazon being a distributor, has anyone bought them from amazon...
    ale15 ale15 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    My bae and I have talked on the phone 5 times

    in the last 2 days. He makes my heart melt. Today we laughed so much because he was trying to have bad grammar to impress me. He said he needs to improve his grammar. I told him he talks cute. He said he wants to talk bad now so I'll think he's cute. Then we laughed because he...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    Days Get Harder

    Everyday gets harder for me. To know that someone I love and someone I'm having a baby with is behind bars again for the 4th time brings me down. People make mistakes but sometimes other people suffer from them. I ask my self everyday what did I do to deserve this pain? I'm not...
    Aligirl1 Aligirl1 18-21, F Oct 11, 2013

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 28 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    My boy has exactly 4 weeks left tomorrow I

    can't wait but now it is closer I'm missing him even more it'll have been 2 and a half years since he's been out and I know even though he's excited to be with me and his family he's getting really nervous and anxious about being out any suggestions on how to keep him calm he's...
    jadeashleigh jadeashleigh 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 4 Responses May 17

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    Anyone else ever think about how you are giving

    your significant other in jail your 100 and then not sure if you'll get 100 back once they are out? sometimes it's so hard to stay one hundred percent loyal and to continue to go through this not knowing if everything they say is actually true ): I am so excited for him to come...
    kayycole kayycole 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 23

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    Today He has officially been gone

    for a month. Some days are harder then others. I have gotten to see him two times so far which has been really nice but really hard leaving him. I am travelling down to see him this saturday but it will be the last time I'm going to get to see him before he gets out in January...
    Fkinnon Fkinnon 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    And I haven't talked to him

    or know what really happend . I don't know what to do .
    hernameisb hernameisb 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    My Bestfriend, Fiance,

    soul mate and love of my life is currently in jail, hes been away for a few months now, its not the first time since we have been together, and no doubt it wont be the last. hes doing 2 and a half years, for something he should never have done. helping someone out who just cant...
    loulou16xox loulou16xox 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    My boyfriend and I have been together less

    than a year. He's been at the juvenile detention center for almost two 3 weeks now. The first few days were the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with because I went from talking to him 24/7 to not talking to him at all. The only time I talked to him was when his dad would...
    mataaaza mataaaza 18-21, F Nov 17

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    I'm just having such a hard time lately!

    !! I can't see him and its definitely starting to get to us..
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    So, I have a boyfriend who's in jail.

    We haven't been together for that long, but we've known each other for six years. He has always meant so much to me. We were on and off without getting into a relationship for all 6 years. Yesterday he finally got one day out of prison so we could meet up. We had not seen each...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    He wen in jail on the 22nd

    if October the same day I got told I was dying...he's been in there for 14 days. I write to him everyday, answer all of his phone calls, and see him every visitation day. God I miss him so much...
    savatay savatay 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    Today marks 13 years me

    and my baby have been together and since he told me he loves me. I never knew the meaning of love till he told me he loved me. Everything fell into place. All those sweet little kisses on the cheek, the hugs, the smiling when he seen me and the twinkle in his eye smiling at me...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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