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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    The love of my life was arrested 3 wks ago,

    an we just found out we are expecting, (my 2nd , an his 3rd) , he has a court date Jan 13, I'm going through it because I really miss him, an I'm not prepared to raise another kid by my self, I'm really crying as I write this, I miss him so much, how can I cope with this? he...
    TaliaMommy2614 TaliaMommy2614 22-25, F Dec 21, 2014

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-18 314 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F Jan 20

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F Dec 8, 2014

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2014

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    I am so sick. I am throwing up

    and achy and running fever. I didn't work today. But I got up and went to the jail tonight to see my baby at his visitation. He looked so sexy tonight. He is all my type. I am grateful that we get weekly visits and a couple of 15 minute phone calls a week. I know some ladies...
    Photographer85 Photographer85 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    So it's been like 2 weeks

    so far.. The last time I seen my boyfriend was only one of the best worst time of my life... So me and him hadn't talked for days and when I finally got ahold of him he was so excited about talking to me and he wanted to see me so I told him to meet me up at the park by house...
    rassenav rassenav 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    It crazy how much you can love somebody,

    and they can still feel like you don't love them nomore or you love them less bc there in jail. When I made a vowel that I would be here waiting for him I ment that and nothing in the world could make me change the way I feel about him, I love this man with all my heart, I...
    patientlywaiting017 patientlywaiting017 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I just want him to be here right now.

    .. This feels like a nightmare that I'll never wake up from... I just want to sleep next to him tonight. I feel so alone....
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Days Get Harder

    Everyday gets harder for me. To know that someone I love and someone I'm having a baby with is behind bars again for the 4th time brings me down. People make mistakes but sometimes other people suffer from them. I ask my self everyday what did I do to deserve this pain? I'm not...
    Aligirl1 Aligirl1 18-21, F Oct 11, 2013

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    My story... So I met my boyfriend

    after me and my family moved in my 11th grade year of high school. I was 17 and he was 15. We actually lived right beside each other. We soon started dating and as of now we have been together for almost 5 years. He is one of the best people I know. He's my absolute best friend...
    abernethye abernethye 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    You don't understand how much I miss him were

    in love with each other and having this baby . ☺️💓 guys if ur wondering on my questions who I was talking about this is him
    anonnn1233 anonnn1233 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am lost of things going?

    No letter or call for a while! I really misses him & I feel nothing to him for not keeping in touch with me! Every letter he claim that I am his girl! I just don't feel I am! I have been kept in touch with his patents & his best friend! They pretty much don't check on me! I'm...
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I need someone to talk to over the phone.

    ... I need to express a lot regarding my BF being locked up no one seems to understand or get it someone please .. Before I lose my mind
    Tookaysam Tookaysam 22-25, F Jan 3

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    I love and miss my boyfriend very much,

    it feels like he's been gone forever. Yesterday I bought a birthstone ring with both our birth stones and names engraved . I love it, now every time I look down at my finger it feels like he's with me
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19,

    he was living at a halfway house and at the halfway house you must have your contacts approved by the probation officer and he didn't do that so he was put in jail as of today a month ago. I'm constantly crying and I honestly have nobody to talk to. Just feels like nobody...
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    So I find myself here again same time

    as last year... My boyfriend of six years has left me again. Not for another women but for four walls and bars as a door. He was arrested this time last year for failing his drug test which at the time I knew he was in active addiction. There was no stopping him and after he...
    stepbystepxxx stepbystepxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2014

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Hello! My boyfriend is in jail.

    We've been together for over a year and he was locked up in October. I've been dealing with things since and honestly it's so difficult. When I write letters it's like I can't think of anything to say besides I love you. I constantly miss him and I pray for him to come home soon...
    Kikeyb616 Kikeyb616 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    I've been dating my boyfriend

    since February 2014. I found out I was pregnant in April. We are young and were pressured by my side of the family to give the baby for adoption. We decided to keep the child and he is the only one who supported my decision. During our relationship I lost basically all of my...
    xxdiscoveringme xxdiscoveringme 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Has any of your loved ones tell you

    that jail is like a vacation for them or that they want to party when they get out? If so how did you deal with it or what did you do?
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    First off I just wanted to say to all of you

    beautiful strong ladies, you are so incredible! I came across your stories as I was browsing the net today and I've been addicted to reading your stories all day... Thank you for helping me prepare my journey that is ahead of me. The love of my life and I would be celebrating...
    Greeneyedgoddess93 Greeneyedgoddess93 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I know everyone feels pain differently

    and people deal with situations different but I keep reading on here that your upset because your boyfriend has to do a few months my god ! My boyfriend is looking at 15 years!!! Come on people your so lucky you don't even realize it , a few months is nothing . You no he's...
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    I miss him so much what I wouldn't give

    for a sleepover tonight...
    msleesha07 msleesha07 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I literally just realized Ive been missing

    calls from him because I didnt recognize the number. The voicemail was an automated message and cut off the first half where it explains that the call is from an inmate when it left the message so i literally have been missing them for weeks. I finally looked up the number and...
    brune191 brune191 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Visit

    So today my son and I are going to visit daddy!!! I am so excited that I couldn't even sleep last night. Which sucks because I have to drive about an hour and a half to get there. But Im just so excited to hug and kiss him and tell him how much I love and miss him. I've been...
    liz8833 liz8833 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    On January 14, 2015 my boyfriend,

    Kenton was arrested. And That was the day my world was turned upside down and shattered. These last couple days have been absolute hell for me. I miss him so much, it hurts. I never realized how much I loved him until I lost him. We've been talking since he was taken from me. It...
    TaintedBlueberry TaintedBlueberry 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Idk if I'm the only one

    who feels like this but my boyfriend has been locked up for two Years so far and at times I Just feel like I can't get through my days When he first got locked up I cried every night but over time I've just become stronger and tell my self il get through this but it's so hard I...
    Tookaysam Tookaysam 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Man it's hard when no one can really comfort

    you like the one you love. It's painful having to deal with this alone and not being able to hug the person you love and just tell them “you won't have to go through this alone I'm right here.” I miss him so much it's like I'm empty inside no one or nothing can fill it...
    rassenav rassenav 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    okay where do I start.

    well my now boyfriend and best friend of thirteen years is in jail. we started while he was in jail. he's been in there for 3 years already and he has two out dates. April of 2015& August of 2016. he has to get his time calculated. we have always been close friends. I knew...
    britbell00 britbell00 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Please help? I'm 16. My boyfriend just went off

    to jail again last week. He's only been out for a month since the last time. & The last time he was in there for 3 months & I almost lost it. I cry every time I think about him or when I write him letters. Every other day I run to the mailbox hoping I get a letter from him. He's...
    AmbiBambi1 AmbiBambi1 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    Ughhhh! I missed our visit this morning!

    Now I have to wait till next week... His mom is the one who schedules us (herself and I) on the visits, then she comes to pick me up and we go together. Well, apparently her younger son is home sick and she can't go. But does she let me know? Of course not! Not until I text her...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2014

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014