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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I miss my man so much!

    Nights are the worst. I hate laying in bed not having him to hold me. Our dogs cuddle with me but it's just not the same as having his arms around me. :( I just want him to come home. This is not going by soon enough!
    Inkedcountryprincess Inkedcountryprincess 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 21

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    My boyfriend was sentenced to 10 years.

    He has to do somewhere between 4-6 years. My soul aches for him. It's so hard. Emotionally, physically, financially, but that's my boy. It won't be like this forever.
    D0miniques D0miniques 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    It's been 224 days that my baby has been gone

    now. We still don't know how long he will be gone :( I miss him so much and it seems crazy that even after all this time we still don't know anything. I hope we will find out soon...I hope all you ladies are doing well <3
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    juliead juliead 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I was on here before,

    but ended up coming off, other username "emjhx". my boyfriend may be coming home in 2 weeks time, but not knowing if hes going to get parole is killing me. Having a really tough time at the minute, constantly feel so lost and alone. 3 months hes been gone and it feels like years...
    emjhxo emjhxo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 17 Responses May 2

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    Days Get Harder

    Everyday gets harder for me. To know that someone I love and someone I'm having a baby with is behind bars again for the 4th time brings me down. People make mistakes but sometimes other people suffer from them. I ask my self everyday what did I do to deserve this pain? I'm not...
    Aligirl1 Aligirl1 18-21, F Oct 11, 2013

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    I got a letter yesterday from him

    and I nearly cried. I forgot how I felt when I would get letters from him. This life may be hard but I couldn't imagine it without him now. I love him so much.
    Txangel777 Txangel777 18-21, F 5 Responses May 2

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    My baby is HOME!!! I couldn't ask

    for anything more!!!! This is all over now, and I am in heaven!
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 4 Responses May 17

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    Well my biggest fear about

    when my boyfriend gets out is that things don't work out with him and I. Waiting all this time for things to fall apart... But without trying I guess I'll never know. Plus I'm sure if I don't try I'll regret it even more. He means so much to me I can't imagine being without...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Making them feel comfortable

    while they're locked up is crazy expensive. I dread the day when I can't put money in his commissary or on the phone. Right now I talk to him daily and give him money once a week and I can barely afford it. My love is free but his happiness isn't right now :/
    live4harmony live4harmony 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    So last weekend my man was home on a furlough.

    His great grandmother passed away so they let him out to go to the funeral. I got to spend 2 days with him and I'm so glad that I did! I'm glad he got to be with his family during that time. His grandparents and dad would have been crushed if they would have denied it. But now I...
    Inkedcountryprincess Inkedcountryprincess 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Hopefully next week is the week my Boo comes

    home!!! Fingers crossed!! Cant wait to see him! The Home Assessment went great!! Nothing bad all good! so hopefully the parole board let him out!! just waiting for them to sit on the matter now! Missing him so very much!!!
    LillyJean13 LillyJean13 16-17, F Jul 9

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    Today he snuck me a letter during our visit (so

    cute right?) then we ended up fighting...I still haven't read it... Theres a monthly limit on phone calls and we've used them all already on my cell this month. all I want is to talk to him and I'll have to wait until our next visit. I've cried so much over the past couple days...
    live4harmony live4harmony 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    My babydaddy who've I been on

    and off with for three years is serving a two year sentence. Its only been 6 months and im already going crazy. We weren't on the best terms wen he went in but now were better then ever and I feel as the distance has made our bond even stronger. He's always been like my best...
    exotikprincess exotikprincess 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Well, my boyfriend got arrested Thursday morning

    while I was still asleep in bed. The last time I was with him he gave me kiss and said "I'm leaving babe I love you". I took this for granted and didn't even open my eyes. Found out later that day that he got arrested for an outstanding warrant for theft. I'm still dumbfounded...
    DanceLaugh143 DanceLaugh143 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I just want him to be here right now.

    .. This feels like a nightmare that I'll never wake up from... I just want to sleep next to him tonight. I feel so alone....
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    I don't really know how to handle it.

    I feel very alone, its been 3 weeks. I have seen him once and we usually talk, but this week he only called me once. so I'm stressing out bad. I don't really have anyone to talk to, I have reached out to his family, but i feel like a bother to them. I have been depressed for a...
    maddiboo12 maddiboo12 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 19 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    It's been 10 days. And it's still hard.

    I miss him everyday but the daily calls from him help. Visiting him basically twice a week. I just feel lost as sad with out my babe. I miss him. And I love him so much. I just want him here with me. He missed my 18th birthday yesterday and he felt horrible about it. And he...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F Jul 19

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    My boyfriend of over 3 years is currently

    serving a 5 month prison sentence. I'm not able to visit him much because they moved him 3 and half hours away from where we live. I miss everything about him even the little things that I used to find annoying. Not being able to visit as much kills all I want is to be able to...
    Becky853 Becky853 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    My boyfriend has been in jail

    for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time. I would of thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned out different. I can't even go to visit him...
    Xxyy18 Xxyy18 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So this week has been much of a struggle

    for me and one of the hardest times I've been through in a long time. Haven't spoken directly 1 on 1 with my boyfriend since Saturday during our visit. It seems like such a long time ago from now. I know we can relate to the times we couldn't afford to put money on the phone. He...
    janelleasdzaan janelleasdzaan 18-21, F Jun 11

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I have my man whose in prison

    now three (3) years going on (4) I have been writing him like 4 letters per week, he use to call me on the phone, he use to sound so happy, positive, faithful and sure but now it's beginning to ware him down caz his appeals keep getting denied. He never cried before but now he...
    sweetladywilcox5 sweetladywilcox5 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    He isn't really my boyfriend,

    we would be together if it wasn't for my parents, or my age... were extremely close, and he was my only happiness... He got sentenced to 6 years and I wont be able to write him, visit him, and rarely talk on the phone with him (im not really sure if I can yet). He violated his...
    Lovesucks78 Lovesucks78 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    ciaobelllaxo ciaobelllaxo 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It will be three weeks on Thrusday that's he's

    been locked up, and we still don't know his sentencing, hopefully we find out Thursday at his hearing. But some days I'm fine, I miss him like crazy, but I'm able to do what I have to do, others, I just want to lay in bed, cry and talk to him. I miss sleeping with him, his arms...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I have never felt so many emotions at the same

    time in my life. We literally spent every single day together and he was my best friend. Just going through my daily activities is hard because when something bad or good happens all I want to do is text him or call him and tell him what happened but in the middle of the text or...
    KSMP KSMP 18-21 3 Responses Jun 21

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 25 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    My boyfriend isn't in jail,

    but he's on probation for 3 years and can't leave the state :( I'm deeply in love with him and he feels the same about me. We met online and I've been trying to visit him but my mom is too overprotective and basically wants a full background check on him. She doesn't approve...
    tadpole92 tadpole92 22-25, F Jun 25

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    So, I have a boyfriend who's in jail.

    We haven't been together for that long, but we've known each other for six years. He has always meant so much to me. We were on and off without getting into a relationship for all 6 years. Yesterday he finally got one day out of prison so we could meet up. We had not seen each...
    prisonboyfriend prisonboyfriend 18-21, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Ughhhh! I missed our visit this morning!

    Now I have to wait till next week... His mom is the one who schedules us (herself and I) on the visits, then she comes to pick me up and we go together. Well, apparently her younger son is home sick and she can't go. But does she let me know? Of course not! Not until I text her...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    So my man is coming home in 10 days its nearly

    over. I cant wait for the day when you ladies get your men home too. Stay strong!! X
    emjhxo emjhxo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-18 290 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I got to see my man today!

    !!! It sucks that it's thru a computer screen but I'm just glad I got to be able to see him! I miss him so much! While I was getting ready to leave this morning I was thinking about how I miss him wrapping his arms around my waist and kissing my cheek and laying his head on my...
    Inkedcountryprincess Inkedcountryprincess 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I really hate when my man calls me

    and he is depressed. It hurts knowing I can't do anything to help make him feel better :(
    Inkedcountryprincess Inkedcountryprincess 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Blahh it's times like this

    where I just really miss him & want him by my side.. its only one more week till we find out what is going to happen!! but still its going so slow...!! I move back into our home on Wednesday with my older sister.. Cant wait to be home... all I need is my Boo back home with me...
    LillyJean13 LillyJean13 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

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