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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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    My boyfriend went to jail a few days ago

    for CDV aggravated nature. He punched me in the mouth with his fist and then threw a 3 blade knife towards me. He got a 15 thousand dollar bond with no 10 percent. I know he didn't mean to do it because he drank a lot of vodka and didn't realise what he did. I know I know what u...
    mariepugh1961 mariepugh1961 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Help! I'm looking for a nice poem

    or saying to write in my bfs birthday card. I need to post it tomorrow so that he gets it on time (if the prison officers don't delay his mail) Anyone know any good ones? I'll be very grateful! Thanks
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Well today I seen my boyfriend.

    Those 2 hours went so so fast!!! I didn't want to leave him. 14 more sleeps until I see him again. He's made mistakes and so far he seems like he's learning from them. Let's hope he carries on in the right direction! Today has been really emotional so I'm going to head to bed...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Well it's been 5 months

    now that he's been away....today is just one of those days where I miss him a little more than normal :( I must say that this is the most difficult and confusing thing I've ever gone through.
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    He has been gone for two days short of one

    month. I miss him every moment. He will hopefully come back to me in about nine more months. I feel guilty sometimes because I get angry. I feel angry with him for having landed himself in jail. For such a stupid reason too, he drove drunk, crashed and injured his passenger. I...
    Kismet905 Kismet905 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    My boyfriend got arrested last night

    for fugitive of justice for a warrant in California so I already know its going to be awhile before he gets out and I feel like going crazy I miss him like crazy the worst part is the other day we lost our baby at 15 weeks pregnant and last night before he got arrested he was...
    proudmommii3 proudmommii3 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-18 278 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    I just want him to be here right now.

    .. This feels like a nightmare that I'll never wake up from... I just want to sleep next to him tonight. I feel so alone....
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    My boyfriend just recently got locked up

    after a argument we had about a week ago. Before this we lived together, was with each other 24/7. Now with him being gone, its hard to even keep myself together. There are times throughout the day where a tear will fall out of nowhere and then i will realize why it fell. I'm...
    saaaaarah saaaaarah 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Today my boyfriend of 2years was sentenced to

    90days in jail. I know people do way worse sentences but I have never spent more than just a couple of days without seeing him. And I live with him and his family and I have to walk around here, and I feel like I'm just being judged and I really don't know how to feel or what to...
    xoxowilson xoxowilson 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Tomorrow is valentines day

    and I wish that I could spend it with you...I want that more than anything. I'm dreading tomorrow. I just wish you were here. I wanna do what we love doing together even tho everyone else thinks it's lame....cuddling and watching twilight together lol. You are the only guy I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

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    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Well my biggest fear about

    when my boyfriend gets out is that things don't work out with him and I. Waiting all this time for things to fall apart... But without trying I guess I'll never know. Plus I'm sure if I don't try I'll regret it even more. He means so much to me I can't imagine being without...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Tuesday November 12, 2013

    Today my boyfriend was sentenced to 6 months in jail, and I can say I definitely wasn't prepared and I don't think you can prepare yourself for being separated from someone you've spent every single day with, eat with sleep with laugh with cry with everything. i can already feel...
    Blackwings122 Blackwings122 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    This just sucks....so me n my love love making

    dinner and eating as a family with the kids as we watch whatever on TV . so last night I tried a new recipe just to keep myself busy but when it was all down I got so depressed because he's always there to try what it us that u made n tell me how much he liked it. I couldn't...
    FmLiMissMyL0ve FmLiMissMyL0ve 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Today is his 21st birthday.

    ..I really wish that he was home to celebrate :( I've been thinking about him all day and I wish that he was here so that I could give him a big birthday hug and kiss. I just wanna talk to him. I miss him so much...happy birthday to my baby, I love you so much! <3
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I miss my man so much!

    I can't wait for him to come home. I have been trying to find a way for him to call me as many times as he wants but it's so expensive. Our jails goes thru IC solutions. I really want to pay a certain amount a month and get unlimited phone calls does anyone know a way for me to...
    Inkedcountryprincess Inkedcountryprincess 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Happy New Year

    Even though we can't be with our loved ones on New Years I thank God that he has kept us another year through it all he has kept us together and has told me to hold on. I'm believing in miracles and a year of blessings and our loved ones being set free out of bondage. I pray that...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    I am beginning to feel very frustrated towards

    my boyfriend. He hasn't talked to me in a week :( he is allowing his depression to stand in the way of our relationship. When he is depressed he shuts me out, and it's not fair because all I can do is sit by the phone and wait for him to call, or check the mail everyday when I...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So it's been 3 months

    and my dude was moved where I can finally have a contact visit ie not behind glass! I'm going on Sunday and I'm super nervous and excited
    rockettothemoon rockettothemoon 22-25 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I miss my boyfriend so much.

    He's been in jail for just 3 weeks, but he was in a halfway house right before and he was in trouble there so he wasn't able to make phone calls or go on passes anymore...so I haven't seen him in person since January 8th. Seeing him over a tv screen for 20 minutes, three times...
    JennMadrx JennMadrx 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Visit

    So today my son and I are going to visit daddy!!! I am so excited that I couldn't even sleep last night. Which sucks because I have to drive about an hour and a half to get there. But Im just so excited to hug and kiss him and tell him how much I love and miss him. I've been...
    liz8833 liz8833 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Well today I got a letter from my boyfriend.

    .. little things makes such a difference. His family wonder why I stick by him, I say you can't choose who you fall for, you may be able to choose if you stick by them or not but if your heart wants to love them you've got no choice! He's promised that when he gets out he won't...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 29

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    I am having a hard time staying positive.

    I just talked to him on the phone, and he talks so quiet so the others' won't overhear, so it's hard to hear him. And when he does talk, it's about nothing at all. He tells me about whatever beading project he's working on, and how many books he's read. We have quickly run out...
    Kismet905 Kismet905 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

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    I Miss You

    Sometimes I just don't know where to begin or even hoe to start. Well here it goes, hopefully someone/anyone can understand me & give me the advice my friends just were not giving. Well I met this boy in june. We were friends at 1st or flirting buddies. We started falling for...
    Princesslexyx3 Princesslexyx3 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I feel really alone, it's like he is shutting

    me out...he hardly calls me anymore, I haven't seen him in a month, and I miss him so much that it hurts that he hasn't called me in 2 weeks. He says it makes him upset when he calls me and his family because that makes him miss us, and it kills him that he can't be with us...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    I miss my guy so much,

    he was meant to get out for the day today and the governor wouldn't let him out, now I have to wait til Wednesday to see him and to hold him in my arms for a short few hours. I know I should be greatful there are so many women out there who have to travel hundreds of miles to...
    sophieteresa sophieteresa 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I've known my bf for around two years now,

    we had a rough beginning to our relationship (this was around May 2013), but in December he asked me to officially be his girlfriend. We have been happy ever since and he's proven to be a great guy for me and we've grown so close since then. Due to his past, he had charges for...
    juliead juliead 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    2months..

    Hey Girles! so today it has been 2months from my gorgeous huni was taken away from me it has been hard but im doing well & keeping strong:) (readin all ur stories and chatin 2 some of us' sweetheart have helped me so thank u :) it doesn't get easier but you learn 2 accept it...
    Summah Summah 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Missing my man like crazy!

    So ready for him to be home
    Inkedcountryprincess Inkedcountryprincess 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I already know today is going to be the hardest

    day I have to go through. Every time I think about him I cry. And I won't eat, all I can do is sleep bc that's the only time he's "here" with me, in my dreams. Other than that I don't know what to do with my life. I keep waiting on this to be a sick cruel joke. But he's gone, my...
    xoxowilson xoxowilson 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hey ladies How often do you's write to your

    man? I write to mine usually 3 or 4 times a week. And how often do you's see them? I visit every second Wednesday however when I get a car I'll hopefully be able to visit every week
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    Just Want To Show My Appreciation Ladies...

    I don't belong here because I don't have a boyfriend that is in jail.lol. I am a man. A straight man. I was looking up some information on the Internet and happened to come across these stories and couldn't help but to read what you ladies had to say. Now I just came home not...
    Veedollarz Veedollarz 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 25 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Hey ladies... Just me AGAIN lol How you all

    doing today? I'm having a good day :-) got a job for the summer so I can start as soon as I finish college :-D can't wait hehe. Can finally save up for a car so can go see my bf every week rather than every second week since it's good money! 8 more sleeps to go now until I see...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    So my boyfriend of four Yeats just got locked

    up this morning he got violated on his probation for some dumdass ****. We have 2 kids together our son will be 2 april24 and our daughter turns 1 next Wednesday !! I'm so upset at him for messing up but also at the people who locked him up. they have him in a very extensive...
    FmLiMissMyL0ve FmLiMissMyL0ve 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    N its only day 1 - Nights

    and mornings are the worst for me even though I'm a night owl and he's an early bird it so hard sleep in alone n not having him to nag me to get up in the mornng... This is the fourth time I am going threw this now the first time was six months after we met for 6 months than...
    FmLiMissMyL0ve FmLiMissMyL0ve 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    9 sleeps to go until I see him again!

    A long awaited cuddle and kiss as well! (It's been 5days since I last seen him) I've written to him a good few times in those 5 days and just waiting on a reply from him. Tomorrow I've got an interview working 48 hours a week, 4 days on 4 days off. I'm hoping to get it so I can...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    My Man Is Innocent And He Will Be Set Free.

    An innocent man locked away taken for a crime he didn't commit. How can they lock him up I say when you already paid for your past ways. Lonely nights aren't the greatest, visit days are the best. All I want is your freedom I know that it will come we just got to hold on a little...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    James and I did what we did to land him in jail

    because I was going through severe depression. I had suicidal tendencies. All because of where I lived, now he's gone for 90days and I do not know what to do with my time. He is my heart, I will marry him one day. I will. I am waiting on him. Once he gets out I will marry him. I...
    xoxowilson xoxowilson 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Am I Alone Here? Feels Like It.

    Am I the only one who gets excited when I see the jail number showup on my phone? I run to my room and I'm in my own little world... Just me and him<333 I get the butterflies that got the first day we started talking
    HislilMeatball HislilMeatball 18-21 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    My boyfriend of two years was recently

    incarcerated. He violated his probation when the police were called after the neighbors called saying they heard a violent argument and saw him hit me n the parking lot. We argued over a woman calling him who I felt was a threat to our relationship. He drove off after the...
    psmunoz psmunoz 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Three more sleeps until visiting day!

    I can't wait! He's been attempting to write me a letter every day, sometimes they come in pairs and I try to resist the urge to open one of them, to save it for the next day, but I just can't. I've been writing him letters at least every other day; he says I'm making the other...
    Kismet905 Kismet905 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I just found out that my bf isn't getting

    parole. He is doing 20 to life for manslaughter. I missed the last four conjugal visits in a row because they keep putting him in solitary. I wish I could see him and make love just one more time. I feel terrible but I've been seeing a bunch of other guys. None of them do...
    EducatedGoddess EducatedGoddess 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    My Boyfriend Just Went To Jail And I Don'T Know How To Deal With It

    My boyfriend just got arrested a little over a week ago. His court date is tomorrow and I am sooo nervous...they told him he could be in prison for up to 7 years. We have been together for a year and a half, and I love him more than I have ever loved anyone...i just have no idea...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2013