Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,753 People

    I Am Behind Bars Too

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a about a year and some change now. We started out as best friends and then decided to get serious..... It wasn't that easy though! He went to Jail on me the first time over some real crazy stuff. His ex girl put a warrant out for him. She made...
    london21 london21 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Long Awaited Day

    I am still in this for the long haul, my heart is still incarcerated, it is going on 10 months now, the longest I believe of my life. We have been face to face, and have never stopped writing letters, I have a shoe box full of the words that comes from my love's hand. To leave...
    elementaryeternity elementaryeternity 31-35, F Mar 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel like I'm nothing without him,

    I miss him too much and I can't handle it. From today, he's spent 1 year in Jail and he also needs to stay longer. I'll be patient and wait as long as I'll have to though, because I love him more than anything else.
    Jasmine4Ever Jasmine4Ever 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    10 Months Down 11 To Go

    Well, its been a while since i have written, I am doing great, i have only seen my boyfriend twice since he has been gone, since he is in another country serving his time. but i am honestly happy as ever, We have kept our relationship stronger then ever. I am supporting my son as...
    Nataliee250 Nataliee250 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    UGH! My boyfriend called me 3 times this

    afternoon and for some dumb *** reason none of my calls would go thru! My mom tried calling me and she said it says "this number has been disabled". I have no idea why it was doing that however I fixed the problem. But i obviously wasn't able to call my boyfriend and tell him...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Today is the day! He has his court revocation

    at 9:30 and then hopefully few hours later he will be out<3 good luck to all you ladies, and stay strong! That's all you can do is stay strong for yourself and guy. :) bless you all.
    tiffanygetchell tiffanygetchell 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I miss my love so much I can't wait to hear his

    voice I feel like I'm going crazy this is so tough I can't wait till he comes home already
    Ilovemyinmate101214 Ilovemyinmate101214 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Only one week left until he comes home !

    I'm so excited. Also stressing a little bit because I have to go get him at the court house, because that's where they're dropping him off, which I think is stupid. So I have to take a cab there and I'm 95% sure I'm going to have our daughter with me, she's only 14 months and...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I can't wait to see my man I pray I get to this

    weekend I will know by tomorrow I pray I miss this kid so effing much its crazy !!!
    Ilovemyinmate101214 Ilovemyinmate101214 22-25, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Waiting for him is easy, being without him...is the hard part =' [

    My Baby has been in the system since 2007. It has been 2 1/2 long years soon to be 3. Its been along road for us both but it has only made our relationship even stronger. I loved him than and I love him even more now I chose to stand by his side through thick and thin. It was...
    MiSSiNgMyBABy07 MiSSiNgMyBABy07 22-25, F 22 Responses Sep 13, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Another emotional call tonight.

    I just miss him and I'm stressed about getting moved and us having no money. But at least hes home soon. He said he would do anything for me, kill for me, die for me, go to jail for 10 years for me. I've never loved someone the way I love him. Can't wait for him to be home.
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hearing his voice has been the best 15 minutes

    of my day today...just wish I could sleep in his arms tonight :(
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    We are strong enough

     I’m Struggling Too!Today is a bad day. I wish I could say that I've never had one before, but bad days consume my life. I have no escape from them. Today is a day when I wonder… Where is the support for mein-this-struggle?" When a man asks a woman to wait for him while he...
    kristy11000 kristy11000 22-25, F 32 Responses Jan 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I can't wait till my babe calls miss him

    so much feel like I'm going crazyyy already
    Ilovemyinmate101214 Ilovemyinmate101214 22-25, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel so bad. My boyfriend just called me

    and for some reason my phone just froze up and wouldn't let me answer it! I wanted to talk to him so bad and I don't want him to think I was too busy to pick up or that I didn't want to talk. I REALLY hope he is able to call again before the end of the night :(
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Boyfriend In Jail

    My boyfriend has been in jail for three weeks already it may not seem like a long time compared to a year and I would thought I would have got used to the fact he's gonna be in there for a while and I'll be strong enough to keep on with my life without him. However, things turned...
    MiszOreo MiszOreo 16-17 319 Responses Jan 24, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You Have To Remain Positive.

    This is my third Christmas without my Hubby. And it is hard to be away from someone you love however we must hold on too our faith and be strong. This will not last and our loved ones will be free. We must stay positive. God willing my Hubby will be home in a couple of weeks he...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F Dec 26, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Idk what else to do but post on here right now.

    I'm going crazy not being able to talk to him. It's making my anxiety so high and I'm just so used to talking to him everyday. I hate this so much. Ugh. I just want him to be able to tell me he's ok. Going to be the longest week of my life.
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My (now fiancé) and I have been together

    for 9 months. I've known him since high school (9-10 years) and loved him since the first day I laid eyes on him. The timing was just never right back then. I have never met a more thoughtful, loving person in my life. He would be that guy bringing me flowers at work just...
    Jessceekah Jessceekah 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Only 9 more days until hes home !

    I'm so excited I cant even believe it ! I'm moving this Saturday and I'll have our new apartment all ready for when he comes home (: It will be wonderful. It'll be OUR apartment. We were already living together before he got locked up but he had moved into my place so he always...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just really need to vent.

    My boyfriend and I have only been dating 6 months but have known each other about a year. I knew he was on probation for some non violent drug and weapons charges from the previous year. Well in February he was walking home with a friend and got into a drunken altercation with a...
    Kcrowley1117 Kcrowley1117 22-25, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've Never Felt So Alone

    People make bad decisions and always have consequences to pay, in one way or another. You look at people who do bad things as stupid and quite often find yourself asking 'why would someone do that' ... but when it's someone who you love and care about, you hope they don't have...
    moeemoee moeemoee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So upset. Just got a message sent to me saying

    that my boyfriend got 5 days in the hole. I'm so fucken angry, wont be able to talk to him until like Wednesday or Thursday. Ugh. Hate this. Been having such a rough few days and just need to talk to him.
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    21 More Days

    It feels like its been a year but in reality is only been 4 and a half months. This is the longest I've ever been away from my babe. I'm just missing him a lot at the moment because he hasn't called me in a couple of days.. But it's only because I can't afford to put money on for...
    hayyboo1994 hayyboo1994 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel absolutely terrible.

    I just visited my boyfriend and we argued. We ended the visit early. He's super insecure about me cheating on him. And I haven't done anything!! I've been hanging out with people I haven't seen in awhile simply because win so bored and alone without him around. I'm just trying...
    Kcrowley1117 Kcrowley1117 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So I wont be able to see my baby this weekend

    😢 but I pray I get to see him in May !! Its been to to to long.
    Ilovemyinmate101214 Ilovemyinmate101214 22-25, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Stay Strong Girlies

    To the girls who race our to the mailbox every day just hoping for a letter; don't give up!
    jazzR jazzR 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Woke up still feeling supper sad.

    Makes it worse when my daughter looks at me and goes "dada?" Because I know she misses him. Usually when he calls he talks to her on the phone but he wont be calling til Wednesday or Thursday. I hate this so much
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it

    or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence and has about 14 months to go. I miss him every day and wish I could do more for him. I know that he is hungry in prison and that he is also bored...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So Today I went to see my boyfriend whose in

    jail I was waiting a hour and 45 minutes to see him and they only let me see him for 15 minutes like what type of bullshit is that, I was extremely pissed
    lovedae122 lovedae122 18-21, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's times like these

    when I wish he was with me the most. I miss his hugs and kisses and most of all I miss getting my goodnight I love you kiss. I know I need to be strong but it's really hard. He knows how much I love him and I know he loves me just as much back. He's my everything and without him...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Those butterflies you get in your yummy

    when you check the mail and see his name on the return label... <3 <3 <3 :)))) Or when it's been a minute since y'all were able to chat on the phone and then you FINALLLY get phone time and it's like magic :))) <3 My boo and I call them elephants in your tummy lmao...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Very emotional phone call last night.

    My boyfriend likes me to talk dirty to him on the phone sometimes, I'm not really into it but i do it anyway because he loves it. So we were having a "dirty" conversation last night and all of a sudden he stops and says he misses me too much right now for that. I love him so...
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tonight is just one of those nights.

    ..if he was here we would be cuddling together watching movies. I miss him so much. I just want to hug him and never ever let go. I need him right now and I can't have him just yet :( 217 more days
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Boyfriend Is In Jail Upstate And I Miss Him!!

    This is so hard!! He's only doing 3 more months, and it feels like forever. I'm not getting any of the letters that he's written me, we cant talk over the phone bc they're not allowed to call cell phones, and I dont have a house phone...It's terrilbe. I'm so used to talking to...
    ChemMarie ChemMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Finally got a call from my boyfriend!

    , hearing him say that he is ok and that he loves me makes it all worth it. He's getting out at the end on October, I miss him soo much. I can't wait to hug him and give him a lot of kisses, goodnight calls are my favorite!! *01/09/14* 💕
    Lgdalita Lgdalita 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A lot of people may think I'm crazy

    and they might not understand however you don't just up and leave someone when they are going through . My fiance is doing time for a gun charge . A crime he didn't commit . First of all we stayed together and be never had a gun,he lost his sister by a gun so he vowed...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hello everyone how are you?

    Decided to share my story with you . My Fiance has been fighting a prison sentence for about 3 1/2 years now for a crime he didn't even commitment. It's crazy how cruel and unfair the justice system is smh. I miss him so freaking much the pain is unbearable at...
    SabrinaMoise SabrinaMoise 31-35, F Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I met my boyfriend at work.

    He was a cook, and I was a waitress. We had a summer romance and fell in love with each other. However, in the fall life just got in the way and we ended up breaking up. We remained very close friends since the break-up. We were each other's best friends, it was almost like we...
    ehbf20 ehbf20 18-21, F Jan 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ilovemyinmate101214 Ilovemyinmate101214 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Another 24 hour lock up.

    This time it wasn't just him though, his whole unit is on a 24 for being too loud. So frustrating. Less then 2 weeks until he comes home though. I cant wait. I've been so all over the place with my emotions lately and I just need him here
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ugh, missing him to much today.

    Last night we were talking and he just stopped in mid conversation and told me how much he missed me. For all the issues we've had, all the mistakes we've both made, all the BS, I still love him so much. Only 10 more days until he comes home !
    hillaryalexis hillaryalexis 18-21, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Feel So Alone.

    It started well over a year ago. When I accepted a waitressing position at the Tavern, I never expected it to lead to this. Hell, I was supposed to get married to the abusive man I'd been with since I was 17. He was all I knew. But then I saw you. I knew you were the bad-boy...
    lovelydrea90 lovelydrea90 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He's only been gone for four days

    but it feels like a lifetime already. It hurts to go from seeing him everyday 24/7 to having 30 minute visits with glass in between us. It just so much. No knowing when he's going to call. Not being able to text him or sleep in his arms. Not being able to hug him or kiss him and...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate that my dad can be

    so ignorant. He doesn't even know my boyfriend that well and all he does is judge and tries to make me feel bad. I'm tired of people belittling me like I have no feelings, just because of some stupid mistakes my boyfriend made. They don't understand how much I love him, and how...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl 18-21, F 16 Responses May 2, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Finally into the double didgets!

    99 more days to go!! :) Can't wait till my babies here again. Before he left we were planning on moving in together but when he got locked up that obviously changed things. He still is telling me that he wants me to go get the apartment without him so it's all ready when he...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel