I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail Forum & Chat Board | miss your boyfriend in jail :(

thank you i got a hold of his mother and she gave me his information so i can finally send them! but tomarow is his birthday and our anniversary is coming up this is just going to be a very tough thing for me to go through i feel so helpless

 

i feel for you girl but just remember be strong you have to for him if you love him deep down things will be ok i know as my man has just got 8yrs for robbery i have 2 sons so i feel the pain stay strong and never give up my thoughts are with you

 

helllo everyone.. 

im really new to this blog and this hole situation. my boyfriend got locked up a few days ago... i havn't seen or talked him for 4 days. i been crying all the time and i cannot eat. nobody really seems to feel my pain except for random women blogging on the internet . i feel like my man is in their and alone and i want better things in life that are better. he actually choose to go to jail instead of finishing his probation. sometimes i wish i cuda been a better influence . but now their is nothing i can do and sit and wait for him to come home.. i  visited once and been writting i sent him a letter and working on more letters and drawings to send him. i jsut relaly dont kno how to go through the days while im missing him so much.. he is my everything. and it hurts me all the time.

 

Hey can u give insights on my issue please ? I need answers ! :/

 

Hey can u give insights on my issue please ? I need answers ! :/ 

 

Ohmygosh,

the same thing happeneded to me, except for he went to court and i didnt see him after that.   like bellababy123 said, i talk to his mom every single day, and i make sure that we keep good communication. I write him you could say every 3 weeks, and i get  a phone call from him every 2 weeks.

you just got to have faith and be very supportive, just remember that this iisnt forever, and that no matter what, when he comes out, your gonna have somebody that really wants to be with you, and that really loves you, just remember if anything, him being away for so long, its gonna make your realtionship with him even stronger when he comes back. i promise.

xoxo,

kathee (:

 

Hi just saw your blog and I can see it was posted a while back, just curious as to ehat happened with your boyfriend etc wish u all the best hun x

 

My fiance has been in 2 weeks so far. He is awaiting sentencing nd is possibly facing a year. I miss him so f'ing much. He is my true love, my soulmate. I talk to him on the phone almost every day, and I write him at least a letter a day as well. I also send him things to read like stories cut out of magazines, or stuff I print out from the comp, nd I mailed him pics...I want him to get thru his time nd I'm working as much as I can keeping busy nd writing him nd hearing his voice helps me get through the day, but I'm so sad. I miss him so much he is never off my mind. I can't wait until the day I get to smell him touch him kiss him nd just be with him. He knows how much I love him nd that I'm here waiting...

 

EXACTLY what im going thru. down to the key. with all the talking we do im just now about to be able to see him at a visit thru the glass. and im scared of letting him down by not entertaining him well enough when i see him. do anyone have any advice for me.

 

I am experiencing the same thing. My fiance was remanded on Wednesday 7th Sept 2011 and i am in so much emotional distress. We live together and its very hard at night and early morning when he's not there. I try to remember the good times and personal jokes to get me through the day. His family is a great support to me as they constantly checking to see how I am but its still hard. I am wondering when it will get better.

 

I am experiencing the same thing. My fiance was remanded on Wednesday 7th Sept 2011 and i am in so much emotional distress. We live together and its very hard at night and early morning when he's not there. I try to remember the good times and personal jokes to get me through the day. His family is a great support to me as they constantly checking to see how I am but its still hard. I am wondering when it will get better.

 

Thats good that you have supprt from his family. I dpnt really have anybody but him. I deff. feel the distress everyday. I can't hold and kiss him, all I do is work, and school....I dont feel like doing anything else.

 

Hello everyone..nice to know there are people out there that understand. Mine was arrested last wednesday for what i think was felony theft im not too sure but im a freakin wreck. Its like one minute we are in my room watching tv having a good time being with each other then two seconds later i have to see him in cuffs crying to me....it broke my heart and im missing him to death. some days im able to distract myself but other times im just a crying mess because all I can do is think about him. He has court tomorrow so im really hoping something semi good comes out of it...I just have no real words to express the things ive been feeling...its a lot at once. ive lost some best friends to this too but all im worried about is HIM. ever since he has been gone nothing feels real it all feels like a nightmare...literally. my heart constantly hurts and the thing is..im not able to afford his collect calls and since i dont have a car i probably wont be able to visit him as i please so im having to rely on letters..i sent him one on friday and i havent gotten one back yet but im hopin i do. a part of me is like...we havent been together that long maybe i can move on...but another part of me is like..no...becuz im in love with him..more than anyone ive ever known...all i want in the world is to be in his arms...forever...ugh idk im just in a jumble of emotions right now and besides the one friend i have to confide in im really glad i found this site...hopefully it eases me...:(

 

i feel so sorry for you not being able to afford his calls. my boyfriend is in jail and we talk every other day. idk what i'd do if i didn't have that contact with him. i also get to see him at least a couple times a month. if it were just letters it would be so hard. but sometimes it takes the mail a long time to get out of the jail so be patient. try to visit him though cuz it means so much to them to get to hug their loved ones. i would crumble if i couldn't see him from time to time.

 

OK so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for years but we decided that this time we would get married since we love eachother and we wanna raise our 10 month old son together. He got pulled over with me in the car and they just told him he was going to jail. He has been tryin to call but my cell doesnt take inmate calls so I have to ask his mother. I really miss him and want him home with me and my son. Noone seems to understand.

 

Have you tried to call the jail in the state he isin?Just a thought!

 

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