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I Miss My Ex Boyfriend Who Doesn't Want Me Back

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    I Don't Know If I Miss Him Or What!

    I'm still so confused, I don't know if i'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend or what. We went out for 2 and half years and we broke up in June. I don't have any contact with him whatsoever..He jumped into a new relationship in August with some random girl and they've been going...
    casey12 casey12 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    God, this holiday season makes me miss my ex

    even more, I sent him the xmas gift and a long letter, wish he could think of our good time and believe we can be better. but he only tks me after I asked...He stopped update on fb, maybe blocked me on skype...He only wished me merry xmas and happy new year after I txt him, his...
    winniechoco winniechoco 26-30, F Jan 1

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    I feel like I have so much to say

    and yet so little. I am crushed to say the least. I am having a hard time realizing that someone can really emotionally be there so strong and then all of a sudden pull away to tell you they don't have feelings for you anymore. What did I do? What is wrong with me? What do you...
    Jenmissescolston Jenmissescolston 18-21, F Feb 26

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    Thank You Doctor

    After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my...
    Luismary Luismary 26-30 1 Response Oct 4, 2013

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    That One Special Girl

    Senior year, met this mysterious guy, I wanted to know more. I somehow got his number, and we just clicked. We spent everyday together. I gave him his first kiss. I was really his first real girlfriend. But the best thing was when people who knew him before would come up to me...
    Emoji Emoji 18-21 4 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    Miss My Ex.

      I don't know if i'm the only one like that. But when I have someone, I don't cherish them. And when they are sick of me and don't want me anymore, I need them. And I feel very miserable for making my ex feel unneeded and unloved. He was everything I could ever...
    TheLostPoet TheLostPoet 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    Distance Sucks.

    i know people may think what im about to say wasnt true love or its wierd but my ex boyfriend was my world he made me feel special i met him throught a friend on xbox we knew eachother ages! we begaane talking one time and it turned into talking all night then as soon as we woke...
    HannahBaabe HannahBaabe 16-17, F Sep 10, 2012

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    I Miss Him So Much

    I met this guy after i broke up with my ex of two years. I never thought i would find anyone else because i was so in love before and i never thought i would have that feeling ever again. I was so fed up with my ex of two years who cheated on me several times (love really is...
    tdot1990 tdot1990 18-21 5 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I Miss My Ex....

    Okay, I am thirteen and I've had one boyfriend, about 7 weeks ago. I was told by his best mate (who is also a great friend of mine, and who I like) that this boy really liked me, would I give him a chance? This lad is a bit like me, quiet surrounded by people, loud when in a...
    YhItsMeAgain YhItsMeAgain 31-35, F Dec 2, 2012

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    I Miss Him Everyday And Its All My Fault.

    I was 6 months out of a six year relationship. I wasn't expecting to meet what I believed to be the man of my dreams. I was still stuck in finding myself and was planning a trip to backpack out of the country for 3 months. I met a man who changed my world. I told him I was...
    Mistakeofmylife Mistakeofmylife 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I miss him so much. I thought

    that I would be okay because I'm the one that ended it but I'm not. It's not fair that he can be so happy after everything he did to me and I'm left broken.
    scar7136 scar7136 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My Love....

    So my story is like most on here....I miss my fiancee' and he says he doesn't want me back. We have broken up twice before but those times were different....he didn't have a girlfriend. He seems happy. He is talking to me again which is good. He says that he still wants to be...
    ladydrac2000 ladydrac2000 31-35 4 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    He Told Me We Were Meant To Be.....what Happened? :(

    Its been about 5 months now and Im still as in much pain as when I first heard those words. I don't what happened but I miss him so much. He and I did fight a lot but we always worked through it. He left for OK for five months from Oct to Feb. We didn't celebrate our 1yr...
    flamenart23 flamenart23 26-30 1 Response Sep 12, 2010

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    Relapses.

    I ended things with my ex about a month and a half ago and we dated for 9 months. Ever since then, even though I was the one who broke it off, he has tried to keep his distance. He gave in like three times and let me see him and one thing led to another and I got emotional all...
    cattysister12 cattysister12 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2013

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    How Do You Move On After Love Hurts You?

    I dated a man for 2 years. During that time, we prob broke up about 7 or 8 times. If I ever expressed that I was unhappy in the relationship, instead of talking about it he would just shut down and say that we were over. After a week, I would miss him terribly and apologize...
    katesparkle katesparkle 31-35 3 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    Devastated....

    I think I must still be in denial, I can't believe he doesn't want me.  We used to be so close, and I thought I'd finally found my partner for life, so to have him then say that he doesn't want me anymore was like someone had reached in and ripped out my heart.... ...
    leambirdv leambirdv 31-35, F 33 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    Party Nights Leave Loved Yet Hurting Memories

    I was going into the seventh grade, fresh with a "boyfriend" who used to always come to my house every Saturday. We sat at the park across from my house and nuzzled noses, gave soft pecks on the lips. We kissed little pecks constantly. A little bit longer the kiss each time. He...
    TheWordsWithin TheWordsWithin 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Every Reason NOT To Miss Him, But I Still Do...

    So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good friends and hung out in the same circles. When we were 18 years old, we started dating. He struggled with addiction problems in the...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    I Love My Ex Boyfriend Who Doesnt Love Me

    he asked me out in France about 1 year ago, we had a good relationship that lasted about 2 months, but he started going off with other girls so i broke up with him, about 1 month later i asked for another chance and he gave me that chance and that relationship lasted about 3...
    cherrysparkle cherrysparkle 26-30, F Nov 25, 2013

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    I Miss Him

    i am sixteen and my ex cheated on me when i was out of town then broke up with me the day after. he doesnt understand how much that hurts we broke up on 2-13-12 we were together for 4 months well i really miss him. i dont understand what i did so wrong. now i moved to a new...
    pandalover96 pandalover96 16-17 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    yeah it sucks still loving someone

    that doesn't love you back .. his name was zach i loved him. we were best friends forever. i loved him he loved me until one day i had a fake Facebook account saying things to other people like it was me i '' cheated '' i didn't it was my fake Facebook. he never would let me...
    hannahlovesu hannahlovesu 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    You Had Me At Hello

    I was laying on the sand watching Ryan throw rocks into the ocean. He walked over to me and he bent over and gave me a kiss. This was out first kiss and this was the moment I fell for him. The next two months were the greatest of my life. We snuck out, told eachother are darkest...
    Pointlessvoyage Pointlessvoyage 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10, 2013

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    I Created A Monster.

    I met this guy when he was such an insecure person. He has no confidence at all, he was shy and introverted. He even told one friend in common ''She'll never look at me like this, she's too much''. That what he said about me, before we fell in love. We shared a year, it was...
    PatriceJane PatriceJane 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    I Can't Forget Him

    It was love at 1st sight for me and my ex. But we didn't get together straight away until he came back from travelling, I was finishing up another another dead end relationship. We started dating and at the same time I was starting my own business. It was a super exciting time...
    Lovelygirlie Lovelygirlie 26-30 2 Responses Jun 6, 2012

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    When Does The End Become The Beginning?!

    I miss him so much and my heart is so broken that I wonder if I will ever be normal again. It especially stings that, as much as my friends are trying to help and be supportive, they are all in serious loving relationships. I have become the "single friend" in a sea of couples...
    eatenpie eatenpie 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    Never Been Loved

    i've never been loved, no man ever loved me, something is wrong with me with my personality something i'm sure need to change but i don't know what can someone help me
    fifi2008 fifi2008 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I Hurt So Much...

    We were together less than 6 months. but I fell for him-hard. We spent so much time together. We got along beautifully. we never had an argument or disagreement. For the first time in my life, I felt so loved and wanted. He spoke of his love for me as much as I did for him. I was...
    jshirlnita jshirlnita 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    Im In Love With My Ex And Want Him Back

    heres a lil description of me: i'm one of those i dont care about anything, i just want to live and have fun type of girls. i never had a real relationship (idk if my last one was). i had never trusted a guy nor let them hurt me because i didnt have real feeling for them it was...
    weezywifey91 weezywifey91 18-21 3 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Between Two Hearts.

    Hey guys.. So I'm new to this whole thing and I find myself just wanting to talk to someone, anyone. But anyways back to the main purpose, I've been thinking about my ex-boyfriend for a while now. We dated in the 6th grade and he broke up with me because my "bestfriend" who was...
    xxdesyxx xxdesyxx 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    My Love Was Lost After 2 Years .

    Well I met this kid brad we met through a really close friend at a party, Well we started talking for a couple months just to make sure it was real . Because we both have been hurt from our last relationships, So we talked just to make sure it was gonna be the real deal. Well one...
    TreysGirl2012 TreysGirl2012 13-15 2 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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    After A Year , I Still Feel Like Me And Him Were Meant To Be.

    Me and my ex had been dating for about a year or so. we had so many first expiriences together . we had good times and we had bad times. sometimes i think we met at the wrong point in life which is why we didnt work out we were so young , i loved him as much as i could for being...
    kayXmarieX kayXmarieX 16-17, F Dec 1, 2010

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    Is there any antidote

    for a broken heart:(
    isis410 isis410 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    WONDERS NEVER END!!WONDERS NEVER END My Name is

    Allan Peek.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum because i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my...
    Belaluv22 Belaluv22 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I dated this guy for 2 years.

    He was my first at everything...still misses the guy, it had been hard but he had completely cut me out of his life and when we do talk...he act like a total ******* toward me. I want him back but idk if it worth it...am I gonna get over this break up? And how?
    chrissiebabe chrissiebabe 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Heart Broken And Losing Hope

    My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me 4 months ago.  I was devastated and couldn't believe that there was nothing i could say or do to fix things.  He was adamant that we 'weren't right for each other' and 'wanted different things'.  I feel that if he had come...
    feedee150 feedee150 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Why? Why Cant I Let Go?

    So I met him in high school and we tried to date. he was a christian, I didnt know that and when i tried to kiss him he told me he couldnt do that. I felt rejected so i stopped talking to him. I fould out later he had epilepsy and he had a seizure when i chose to no longer speak...
    mirsepulveda mirsepulveda 22-25 2 Responses Jun 13, 2011

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    I still love him but haven't forgiven him

    for breaking my heart. Yesterday I was suppose to go on a date. Instead of getting ready for new date, I was browsing his twitter and decided I couldn't be bothered to go on this new date. It's been almost 2 years since we have seperated. I've been with 2 other guys since but...
    ShineBrightLikeADiamond112 ShineBrightLikeADiamond112 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Work With My Ex-boyfriend...

    I don't see him often, but the few times I have, it mades me regret the last thing I said to him; he asked if we could still be friends while he was leaving me to go back to his ex- girlfriend (baby mama)  I told him that I never wanted to see him again~ I was angry and hurt...
    treeguysgirl treeguysgirl 31-35, F 3 Responses May 20, 2011

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    I Cnt Live Without Him

    Well, I met this guy on this site called POF, I had been so tired of playing games with guys, I just tried It out...So we met, and started talking ALL THE TIME, every morning, and textin while he was at work, and talking all night...we fell in love after like a week...I felt it...
    kels0509 kels0509 22-25 1 Response Sep 4, 2013

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    Can´t Let Go

    I guess I don´t know why it´s always so hard for me to let go of people, but it is.  It´s like a part of that person is always with you, haunting your everystep and whispering the past into your ear.  I know it´s not forever, I´m just...
    justspeechless justspeechless 18-21, F 18 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    Lostandlonely

    I miss my ex boyfriend so much, I have terrible anxiety. And what's worse is he doesn't even care :( Oh what to do...
    Arzud2 Arzud2 26-30 6 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Heartbroken After 1 And Half Years

    Where do I start, well me and my ex was together for almost 5 years, live together for a little over 2 years, and throughout the relationship there been a lot of less communication, trust issues, emotional and verbal abuse. However I was the one still wanting to make things work...
    marie193 marie193 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 5, 2013

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    Making Me Jealous

    Im black, my ex was white. It didnt matter about the race, because he was the best thing that ever happened to me. We were introduced through mutual friends and instantly started seeing each other. He was amazing, he'd give me money, take me out places nd do whatever to make me...
    ladi94 ladi94 18-21, F Jun 19, 2011

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    I dated my ex for two years on

    and off. I though that he was the one for me for sure. We were so in love at the beginning. 6 months into the relationship we even moved away together. Unfortunately, the living arrangements did not work out so we had to move back to my home town. Shortly after that, he had...
    londonqueen londonqueen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Someone Help Me Understand

    I really need help to workout what went wrong! I have been with the same man since i was 15 we shared an amazing relashonship, at 20 i had our first child and soon after this he confessed to having had oral sex with someone we once knew two years before we had our son. I was...
    grapevine1 grapevine1 26-30 4 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    I am having such a hard time getting over my

    last relationship. I met him online, on Facebook out of nowhere. We started hanging out, and things started to get more intense. He told me at first that he wasn't ready for a relationship, but I just didn't want to hear it because I was falling so hard, so fast. Then, over the...
    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    He Wasn't Ready

    I met my ex at a night sports club. He was alone observing the crowd. We caught eyes a couple of times and I let him come to me as a girl should. In my previous relationship I did the perusing and I never stopped. My friends and i were going to leave. He paid for my friends...
    Wildpurple Wildpurple 26-30, F 4 Responses May 11, 2011

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    I Miss My Ex

    So i dated someone for a year & 7 months hurts for it to be over . I miss him dearly everyday. About 4 1/2 months ago we got in a fight and he went away to his country i didnt believe him when he said he was going away for the summer , thought he was lying and just wanted my...
    imissem225 imissem225 18-21 1 Response Sep 30, 2010

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    When The Man That You Loved, Doesent Care.

    5 months ago I had broken things off with my longtime ex boyfriend because of his growing distance in the relationship. And I was completely failed on our Christmas holiday time together and it is a pain that never ends. I've kept lying to myself saying "oh he's just confused...
    IncurablePain IncurablePain 18-21 May 4, 2013

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    It's Been 5 Years Since We Parted...

    In short, they say time heals every wound. For me, it just helps me get through life with an incomplete smile. We were together for 8 years...17 to 25. And he was my everything. I didn't appreciate him, played games like a child, and always thought he'd be around. Not the case...
    Simplyase Simplyase 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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