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I Miss My Ex-best Friend

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    Want To Make Peace With My Ex Best Friend

    I met this girl in 1st grade and we had a lot in common and we had fun together so we were together ever since. We were the best of friends thru out elementary school but when 7th grade came that's when things started going wrong, we didnt have any classe's together and she...
    mego65 mego65 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2011

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    Should I Miss Her?

    i had the best childhood all the way up to freshman year of high school. i had the best of friends that i told everything and had the strongest relationships with. i transferred to another school my sophomore year for sports and a better academic opportunity. i was given a huge...
    flopflip1414 flopflip1414 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    This year, my best friend stopped talking to me.

    At first, it started slowly by not replying to a text here or there but now we haven't spoken in months. The real kicker is she stopped talking to me because my father came down with cancer. She didn't know how to handle it but instead of being the best friend that I needed, she...
    Untamablespark Untamablespark 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    He Left Me..

    ok soo this is my first time wrighting on here.Here goes i had a met this guy and we became bestfriends after like 3 months of seeing him around school.then we started to text any who thats not important .um we just went on summer vacation and he went to go visit his dad and his...
    belizeanblesyn belizeanblesyn 13-15, F Jul 29, 2013

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    You Were Not A Good Friend

    You were never a good friend. For 7 years I always knew I was the better invested friend. You would leave me all the time, eager for the newest fad, and then run back when things didn't pan out. That was my safety net in our relationship, "She'll be back, she always comes back...
    Artsymess Artsymess 18-21, F Aug 20, 2013

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    I Miss Her So Much

    Have you ever lost a close friend? If you have, you know it hurts. For the next few months, you'll get hit by pangs of loneliness and something that feels a lot like depression (but you know it's not). If you haven't, it hurts a lot. It doesn't quite seem real to you until you...
    feelinfinite feelinfinite 13-15, F Jan 7, 2013

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    My Bestfriend..?

    I use to be a nobody 3 years ago. No one knew who i was, everyone knew me as just a highschool nickname i had. It kind of sucked because everywhere i walked i just hoped i wouldnt hear that nickname. But i always did, but i knew i was beautiful i could see that, but no one...
    1337JS 1337JS 16-17 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    "i Always Thought I'd Look Back On Our Tears And Laugh, But I Never Thought I'd Look Back On Our Laughter And Cry."

    I had a best friend- a true, hard core, until-the-end kind of best friend. Or so I thought, anyway. Late into our friendship I found out she had stolen from me, lied to me, etc... Needless to say, the friendship depleted. She quit school and I never saw her anymore. For some...
    igotatedbyagiraffe igotatedbyagiraffe 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    Never Realizing What You Have Until It's Gone.. Forever.

    This is my first time posting anything on this website, though I have been reading other post for about a month now. So on with my story... it does seem a bit childish when I tell it this way.. Back in high school, grade 10 to be exact, I was at a house party, typical Saturday...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    I may not have ever been your best friend.

    I know I was second best a lot, but even so, as much as I hate to it admit- you were mine. I kept convincing myself that we were never really friends, but now that we aren't I can see that I don't think I'll ever find another person who knew me better. I try to avoid talking...
    wethekings wethekings 16-17, F Mar 17

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    I had a really great BFF

    for a couple of years, we had so much fun & I cared alot about him. I know he loved me too. We hung out every day & sometimes we would just sit in silence & just be together, it was the weirdest thing. Ive never met anyone like him before or since. I also had a huge crush on him...
    MrsDrZoidburg MrsDrZoidburg 26-30 Jan 3

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    Never Imagined We End Like This...

    "I never imagined why we end up like this ... Without explanations and goodbyes.. Do you know what it felts like to be left behind? It's like losing a person you ever love the most!" The one important person to me.. 'B-E-S-T-F-R-I-E-N-D'3 Flashback:At first,we never know each...
    Arang1707 Arang1707 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    6 Years Of Friendship Gone

    I can't get over how our friendship ended. How it just vanished before my eyes. I met her when I was in 5th grade and her in 7th. Right off the bat we became friends. We we're best friends for 6 years, did everything together, were basically inseparable. I was over her house...
    1 Response Feb 7, 2013

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    I'm just bad at keeping in contact.

    I'm sorry if you think that I've forgotten about you or that I don't care anymore because even thought it's been four years I still love you like I used to! I miss us and the beautiful friendship we had. I miss the talks, the time spent together, the embarrassing things we...
    lailase lailase 16-17, F 1 Response May 22

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    She had been my best friend

    since middle school. 5 years of being best friends went down the drain when her boyfriend broke up with her which left her really insecure... which led to her being really clingy towards me. Even 6 months after the breakup she would explode into tears and accuse me of trying to...
    Mirizzle Mirizzle 18-21, F Jan 16

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    Not Much I Could Do

    I shared this story in another group. But, it fits here as well. I fell in love with my best friend, she was everything to me. I had known her since I was 8/9. We grew up together, experiencing everything together.. as we got older we would experience newer more "adult"...
    Aleighsha Aleighsha 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2, 2010

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    Erased

    I feel like I have just been erased from his life. It started slow, then picked up speed and me freaking out when I realised it was happening probably made it worse. I still miss being able to talk.. hell even more than a few times a year.
    KindaSilly KindaSilly 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    We used to do everything together.

    -. But she found a new best friend and now I'm just kinda depressed about all of this. I couldn't stand it anymore so I told her that I needed to stay away from her. But every time I leave her, I regret it... A lot
    mikki19 mikki19 13-15, F 1 Response May 25

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    Been great/ best of friends with her

    for 3.5 years. She started to see and hang out with the wrong guy and the wrong people since 6-7 months. People detrimental to her being and absolutely unlike anything anyone would expect from her. I mean the getting drunk, wild house parties, no cares or worries in life type...
    brocasaphasia brocasaphasia 22-25, F Jun 18

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    I know. I have had this bestest friend ever,

    we have known each other for ten years and have been like soul sisters! But somehow she had all of a sudden moved on from me, to much "cooler" friends! It's like she has just erased me from her life, I keep trying to contact her through every way possible, but she just ignores...
    shefox123 shefox123 13-15, F May 25

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    My ex-best friend, I thought she was a nice

    person... I thought she was amazing, but now, looking back. I see all the signs. She was obsessed with acceptance and belonging with her peers to the point she didn't want to be around me any more because I value one-on-one time and making an unbreakable bond with a few special...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Still Trying To Forget After 2 Years

    Well, this is my first time writing in here..would thank whoever gave the opportunity to us! I had a best friend too close to eachother that whoever sees us would thing we're sisters..shes older than me in couple of months & we were friends for 10 years..a friendship that we...
    Jan 10, 2013

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    I had a bestfriend who i was really close to.

    I met her back when I was in year 9, and she was in year 8. Now i'm in year 11, and she's in year 1O. I started talking to her via BBM first, and we soon became very close. It hurts. Anyway, at the time, I didn't really tell her everything, but i knew if i was ever down, i could...
    StayTrueToWhoYoure StayTrueToWhoYoure 16-17, F Jan 5

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    My Best Friend. My Sister. My Cousin. My Life. My Enemy.

    Where to begin? My cousin and I grew up together. I am 5 years older than her so that makes her right now 16 years old. We played everyday barbies, paper dolls and everything in between. We were best friends forever. My boyfriend had a coworker. They were buddies. He brought...
    mznativeprincess mznativeprincess 18-21, F Oct 9, 2011

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    I Don'T Know Why I Keep Staring At Her.Maybe I Do Really Miss Her. :'(

    Im a highschool student,when i met someone who brought me the sweetest memory ever!! And it's my bestfriend :) 'till now were only ex-bestfriend because of a misunderstanding situation.Flashback:Her name was Joy,i met her at my first year highschool.At the second year highschool...
    JosephineCoronel JosephineCoronel 70+ Apr 4, 2013

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    High School Tore Us Apart.

    Me and my friend met in the beginning of 7th grade. We did everything with each other and became really close, really fast. She was always there for me and I did everything I could to return the favor. By the time high school came around, she went to the local public school...
    BrokenLullaby BrokenLullaby 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    I Feel Like I Shouldn't, Though

    Her name was Elle, and she was a year younger than me, but I still loved her. When we first met, it was at lunch, when I was in 8th grade and she was in 7th. I liked her right away cause there was something about her that set her immediately apart from most of the other 7th...
    Shopaholikk77 Shopaholikk77 16-17, F Jun 15, 2010

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    My Best Friends Forever, No Matter What. Isnt That What You Said?

    So my best friend. We met around this time last year, maybe a little earlier. I remember the first time we hung out. I was hanging out with my friend and she told me her other friend was coming over so i was like ok whatever. Turns out she'd be the greatest thing that happened to...
    nhprichboy nhprichboy 16-17, M Apr 24, 2013

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    I Miss You :'(

    I miss my ex-best friend so much. I try to forget her but I can't. It's been 7 months without her. Why couldn't she have fought for us. Why didn't she try to save our friendship? :-'( She said that I changed but I don't think I changed at all. If anything, she's the one who...
    flan19 flan19 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Our Friendship That She Let Go

    For 4 years we were friends. Actually best friends... No, we were soul sisters. You promised me that you were my best friend. And I promised you the same thing. Unfortunately, what you wanted I achieved. You wanted head prefect but I got it. You wanted the sportswoman award but I...
    maisalisa maisalisa 13-15 1 Response Nov 20, 2012

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    My Best Friend Hates Me

    alright, so last year we had a bunch of fights about me getting really close to another girl and her feeling left out. and than her getting close to this girl named sarah and her ignoring me for 3 weeks completely and leaving me out. so i finally said i cannot take this, i am...
    candicemiller15 candicemiller15 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2011

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    I Wish We Could Be Best Friends Again...

    Lately, I've been missing her a lot. She's regularly in my dreams and sometimes I wake up having a panic attack just because I saw her in my dream. I want to email her or something but it might be too much for her. You see, I was the one who ended it. And by ended it, I mean I...
    bamboorootbear bamboorootbear 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    My Ex Best Friend

    My best friend and I met on the first day of kindergarden and became instant friends, we were best friends for about 6 years and she was like a sister to me. She was one of the most important people in my life. one day she just stopped talking to me and i dont know why. For a...
    sabri0792 sabri0792 18-21 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    My "Best Friend" Hates Me

    I don't know where to begin, so I'll start July 2012, when I met her. Many people would say we're not real friends, because we met over the Internet, but we knew better. Over the first few months of our friendship, we already knew everything about each other, met each others...
    DoctorsCompanionx DoctorsCompanionx 18-21, F Sep 29, 2013

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    Brothers For 5 Years.

    In 4th grade, I met Lane. He was that fun loving, talkative guy, who always knew how to cheer someone up. We both liked video games, outdoors, and we had one special thing in common: both our families are kind of messed up. His parents were divorced and his dad drank a lot. My...
    SquirrelBoy1997 SquirrelBoy1997 16-17, M Nov 4, 2013

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    Losing My Best Friend):

    Okayyy I recently lost my bests friend ever I miss her soo much.... It all started out 7 th grade summer since then we would always hang out and i cant remeber a day where we didn't and always be togather in school we would always be ther for each other and tell each other...
    Frenchfry69 Frenchfry69 13-15 Sep 5, 2012

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    Well Life Goes On.

    Well no one will probably read this but whatever. So im a freshman in high school. And I have the two best friends I could ask for. Well one. Cause the other one i can't even explain my hate towards her, but ill try. So i Dated this guy for 8 months he was my first kiss the first...
    LifeGoesOn123 LifeGoesOn123 13-15 Dec 21, 2012

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    After All That...

    Susan Martin was a good friend when I first met her in the fall of 1968. She was a gregarious only child, and sophomore to my timid freshman. I gravitated to her when she offered me friendship, but, now in a new school, I had other friends of all levels, from fellow freshmen...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I Messed Up

     My ex-best friend and i met during high school basketball. we didn't get along at first but after my grandmother died and i had a complete breakdown she emerged as the only person in the world i could trust and who i cared about. we became inseperable, we admitted our...
    so12cc21er so12cc21er 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    She really hurt me bad like it's unforgivable .

    You know those people you just like spiritually connect with, she was one of those and now she's gone. Feels like a break up *sighh ..
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I Miss Her

    What do you do when someone you really care about who doesn't care about you as much wants to take her own life? I had a best friend for three years in middle school. We were always together, I practically lived in her house, and we were able to tell each other everything...
    yakimochiyaki yakimochiyaki 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2012

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    The Last Laugh.

    It's been months now, since we last spoke, last laughed, last joked. I never would of thought, that's how we'd say goodbye, fighting, screaming, making eachother cry. ''Friends until the end!'' that's what we always said, we were so close, now our friendship is dead. I know now...
    AbbieEva AbbieEva 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22, 2013

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    Today was her birthday.

    I can't even handle myself because I'm still mad at her.
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    Me and my boyfriend recently moved in together. Now he is so mean to me. He's never happy to see me. We don't joke around or laugh or even talk anymore. We still have a lot to do...
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    My best friend of 10 years (who is also my aunt) moved to Kentucky about 2 weeks ago and I have hardly heard from her since. But I missed her before she left. It's hard because I...
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    The one in the middle was my best friend but her ex boyfriend tried to talk to me and now she's distant herself from me. Idk why and I know she thinks wrongly of me but I literally...
    alexiaaaxx alexiaaaxx 18-21, F Jun 26

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    erls09 erls09 16-17, F Jun 30

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