I Miss My Ex-best Friend

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    I dont know if i should call him my ex

    bestfriend. We had an argument. We stopped talking. I dont know if its the end..Or if theres ever going to be an end. We always cuss and fight but always find our way back to each other. I want to leave because I dont like certain things about him and doubt he'll change. But at...
    legzydawly legzydawly
    Jan 23, 2015

    My Best Friends Forever, No Matter What. Isnt That What You Said?

    So my best friend. We met around this time last year, maybe a little earlier. I remember the first time we hung out. I was hanging out with my friend and she told me her other friend was coming over so i was like ok whatever. Turns out she'd be the greatest thing that happened to...
    nhprichboy nhprichboy
    18-21, M
    Apr 24, 2013

    You Were Not A Good Friend

    You were never a good friend. For 7 years I always knew I was the better invested friend. You would leave me all the time, eager for the newest fad, and then run back when things didn't pan out. That was my safety net in our relationship, "She'll be back, she always comes back...
    Artsymess Artsymess
    22-25, F
    Aug 20, 2013

    She really hurt me bad like it's unforgivable .

    You know those people you just like spiritually connect with, she was one of those and now she's gone. Feels like a break up *sighh ..
    muffinpowers muffinpowers
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2014

    I miss my ex-bff. We ended our friendship in

    October and at that time it felt right! I'm not sure if I want our friendship back, but I do miss being around her sometimes, and deep conversations. We were best friends for 10 years and now all we have left are memories. it's sad, but I guess things like this always happen...
    noncomm noncomm
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    I was very close to one of my friends.

    She and I used to do everything together and I thought we had a good friendship. But another girl came into the picture. Suddenly, she didn't like me as much and wanted to spend less time with me. At first I thought nothing of it because I didn't want to be controlling. But I...
    Soccerkickin Soccerkickin
    26-30, F
    Jan 7, 2015

    We were best friends through most of high

    school; I liked being with her more than anyone else, even my boyfriend. We had classes together, and I would go over to her house after school and we'd play The Sims and DDR and cook and play in the park. My mom was really sick at the time, and being with her took my mind off...
    undercoversister undercoversister
    Aug 15, 2015

    Four years has passes by

    since losing 3 best friends from my own betrayal. It's been a long journey to recovery and I can almost say I am doing a lot better than I used to be. I know deep down in my heart would like to speak or see them again but I know in the long run they will hate me forever. In...
    dailydreamer70 dailydreamer70
    26-30, M
    Jul 21, 2015

    Should I Miss Her?

    i had the best childhood all the way up to freshman year of high school. i had the best of friends that i told everything and had the strongest relationships with. i transferred to another school my sophomore year for sports and a better academic opportunity. i was given a huge...
    flopflip1414 flopflip1414
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    I Feel Like I Shouldn't, Though

    Her name was Elle, and she was a year younger than me, but I still loved her. When we first met, it was at lunch, when I was in 8th grade and she was in 7th. I liked her right away cause there was something about her that set her immediately apart from most of the other 7th...
    Shopaholikk77 Shopaholikk77
    18-21, F
    Jun 15, 2010

    I may not have ever been your best friend.

    I know I was second best a lot, but even so, as much as I hate to it admit- you were mine. I kept convincing myself that we were never really friends, but now that we aren't I can see that I don't think I'll ever find another person who knew me better. I try to avoid talking...
    wethekings wethekings
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2014

    The Last Laugh.

    It's been months now, since we last spoke, last laughed, last joked. I never would of thought, that's how we'd say goodbye, fighting, screaming, making eachother cry. ''Friends until the end!'' that's what we always said, we were so close, now our friendship is dead. I know now...
    AbbieEva AbbieEva
    18-21, F
    Jan 22, 2013

    I know. I have had this bestest friend ever,

    we have known each other for ten years and have been like soul sisters! But somehow she had all of a sudden moved on from me, to much "cooler" friends! It's like she has just erased me from her life, I keep trying to contact her through every way possible, but she just ignores...
    shefox123 shefox123
    16-17, F
    May 25, 2014

    I think I may have been in love with my best

    friend turned friends with benefits...he moved awash and stopped talking to me all together ...I find myself comparing other guys to him and thinking about him often...he's been gone for six months and I still miss him like crazy
    Mls1954 Mls1954
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2014

    Maybe someone will read this

    and maybe not but I felt like I need to say something to someone. I am in love with my ex best friend. We met in girls choir in high school and instantly became friends, we've been there for each other between ******* boyfriends and our first pregnancy was at the same time but...
    soyeahh soyeahh
    22-25, F
    Nov 11, 2015

    It's been two years..

    . It still hurts.
    Pandemonem Pandemonem
    18-21, T
    1 Response Sep 7, 2014

    Want To Make Peace With My Ex Best Friend

    I met this girl in 1st grade and we had a lot in common and we had fun together so we were together ever since. We were the best of friends thru out elementary school but when 7th grade came that's when things started going wrong, we didnt have any classe's together and she...
    mego65 mego65
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2011

    High School Tore Us Apart.

    Me and my friend met in the beginning of 7th grade. We did everything with each other and became really close, really fast. She was always there for me and I did everything I could to return the favor. By the time high school came around, she went to the local public school...
    BrokenLullaby BrokenLullaby
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

    Me & him were really close

    for like 2 years. He had a crush on me & I had one on him as well, but it was awkward for me when we tried to become more than friends. I told him I wasn't comfortable with us being like that & we should stay friends, even though I did have feelings for him. He then started to...
    adventuretimer adventuretimer
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    Our Friendship That She Let Go

    For 4 years we were friends. Actually best friends... No, we were soul sisters. You promised me that you were my best friend. And I promised you the same thing. Unfortunately, what you wanted I achieved. You wanted head prefect but I got it. You wanted the sportswoman award but I...
    maisalisa maisalisa
    1 Response Nov 20, 2012

    I'm just bad at keeping in contact.

    I'm sorry if you think that I've forgotten about you or that I don't care anymore because even thought it's been four years I still love you like I used to! I miss us and the beautiful friendship we had. I miss the talks, the time spent together, the embarrassing things we...
    lailase lailase
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 22, 2014

    i miss my old best friend sooo much!

    !! she gave me this binder thing and evertime i look at i t i cry and i just wish she was back in my life/:
    MadyLawrence16 MadyLawrence16
    18-21, F
    Oct 13, 2014

    A couple years ago, I took up the sport of

    hockey once more after dropping it for about a year previously. I was still relatively young, and I was joining a team with different genders and ages, the youngest being a boy that was about 8 year old. The only two girls were me and another girl who I won't name. We...
    cwanderson cwanderson
    26-30, F
    Aug 20, 2014

    I am male and single---I had the same best

    friend for over 30 yrs---We knew everything about each other always travelled together every summer--It was not sexual--but it was a very deep friendship---Last fall on the advice of his therapist he discontinued our frriendship it was the worst shock of my life---Months later...
    1000highland 1000highland
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    I Miss Her

    What do you do when someone you really care about who doesn't care about you as much wants to take her own life? I had a best friend for three years in middle school. We were always together, I practically lived in her house, and we were able to tell each other everything...
    yakimochiyaki yakimochiyaki
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2012

    My Best Friend Hates Me

    alright, so last year we had a bunch of fights about me getting really close to another girl and her feeling left out. and than her getting close to this girl named sarah and her ignoring me for 3 weeks completely and leaving me out. so i finally said i cannot take this, i am...
    candicemiller15 candicemiller15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2011

    Idk why.. Is about to be 8months

    or more ..I still can't let go of my BFF...I it really hard to move on... BUT WHY.. She's the only person who I can 100% trust . And yet she never give me a chance to ..or let's say I don't even desirve one ...chance to be close to her again....
    fish090912 fish090912
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2014

    My ex-best friend is my crush.

    I loved him more than anything else, willing to die for him. He's the funniest, most caring, best person in the world. One day, he started ignoring me. I said sorry a million times- he never listened. He ignores me to this day. He has Aspergers syndrome, but I don't care. It...
    MysteryGirl450 MysteryGirl450
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    There are two. nothing bad happened.

    just life. i have briefly (more recently) spoken to them but we are at different places in our life. i fear our close friendship is pretty much done. these are now memories that i yearn to experience again. Miss you L and S!! <3 <3 <3
    deleted deleted
    Nov 16, 2015

    We used to do everything together.

    -. But she found a new best friend and now I'm just kinda depressed about all of this. I couldn't stand it anymore so I told her that I needed to stay away from her. But every time I leave her, I regret it... A lot
    mikki19 mikki19
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 25, 2014


    I feel like I have just been erased from his life. It started slow, then picked up speed and me freaking out when I realised it was happening probably made it worse. I still miss being able to talk.. hell even more than a few times a year.
    KindaSilly KindaSilly
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    ... Is September 8 now .

    . 4months that pass after I knew my own sickness I even want you back more .. I don't know but I really miss u.. Like a lot . But is also my flut .. I still remember every moment we spend together .. I just really have so many things to type but I don't know what is it , many...
    fish090912 fish090912
    18-21, F
    Sep 7, 2014

    She had been my best friend

    since middle school. 5 years of being best friends went down the drain when her boyfriend broke up with her which left her really insecure... which led to her being really clingy towards me. Even 6 months after the breakup she would explode into tears and accuse me of trying to...
    Mirizzle Mirizzle
    22-25, F
    Jan 16, 2014

    Been great/ best of friends with her

    for 3.5 years. She started to see and hang out with the wrong guy and the wrong people since 6-7 months. People detrimental to her being and absolutely unlike anything anyone would expect from her. I mean the getting drunk, wild house parties, no cares or worries in life type...
    brocasaphasia brocasaphasia
    26-30, F
    Jun 18, 2014

    My ex-best friend, I thought she was a nice

    person... I thought she was amazing, but now, looking back. I see all the signs. She was obsessed with acceptance and belonging with her peers to the point she didn't want to be around me any more because I value one-on-one time and making an unbreakable bond with a few special...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2014

    I had a best friend a few years ago,

    we were inseperateble we were each other's Rock, no matter what happened to us we knew we could count on each other to be there and if any guy dare tried to hurt us we'd **** them up! We had no secrets we use to have this thing called "truth time" and we'd tell each other things...
    LayBishhh LayBishhh
    22-25, F
    Nov 22, 2014

    We were friends for three years this month

    and dated about six months. I miss her a lot. She was my first true "lesbian" relationship. I miss our old friendship and i miss holding her. We broke up a week ago and stop taking yesterday. I'm feeling empty at times then hopeful that everything will be ok then back to empty...
    TrippTripp TrippTripp
    26-30, F
    Oct 8, 2015

    My "Best Friend" Hates Me

    I don't know where to begin, so I'll start July 2012, when I met her. Many people would say we're not real friends, because we met over the Internet, but we knew better. Over the first few months of our friendship, we already knew everything about each other, met each others...
    DoctorsCompanionx DoctorsCompanionx
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2013

    To my "Used to be Bestfriend" I know your

    happy now. I know, the way you smile, the way you talk, that what your eyes wanted me to know. I know you wont care anymore. I know that, Im still in the stage of Letting go and Moving on. Accepting the fact that your happy and Im not. Accepting the fact that were not friends...
    Abbiechan Abbiechan
    Mar 5, 2016

    I Wish We Could Be Best Friends Again...

    Lately, I've been missing her a lot. She's regularly in my dreams and sometimes I wake up having a panic attack just because I saw her in my dream. I want to email her or something but it might be too much for her. You see, I was the one who ended it. And by ended it, I mean I...
    bamboorootbear bamboorootbear
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

    The story is pretty simple,

    let's say her name is 'J'. so J and I have been friends for the past 5-6 years, we were basically sisters by bond, but 2014 Sept I found that she has been distancing herself from me, when I asked her what's wrong she told me what has been bothering her. It was my fault really, I...
    Pabochan Pabochan
    Sep 6, 2015

    After All That...

    Susan Martin was a good friend when I first met her in the fall of 1968. She was a gregarious only child, and sophomore to my timid freshman. I gravitated to her when she offered me friendship, but, now in a new school, I had other friends of all levels, from fellow freshmen...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    Sep 30, 2013

    I met her at the beginning of middle school.

    She was my first friend there. She introduced me to her friends and we were this little inseparable group that slowly dissolved throughout the three years. But her and I, we were always linked in every way. I messed up and we both were depressed, we both missed each other, and...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 9, 2015

    I Don'T Know Why I Keep Staring At Her.Maybe I Do Really Miss Her. :'(

    Im a highschool student,when i met someone who brought me the sweetest memory ever!! And it's my bestfriend :) 'till now were only ex-bestfriend because of a misunderstanding situation.Flashback:Her name was Joy,i met her at my first year highschool.At the second year highschool...
    JosephineCoronel JosephineCoronel
    Apr 4, 2013

    Losing My Best Friend):

    Okayyy I recently lost my bests friend ever I miss her soo much.... It all started out 7 th grade summer since then we would always hang out and i cant remeber a day where we didn't and always be togather in school we would always be ther for each other and tell each other...
    Frenchfry69 Frenchfry69
    Sep 5, 2012

    This year, my best friend stopped talking to me.

    At first, it started slowly by not replying to a text here or there but now we haven't spoken in months. The real kicker is she stopped talking to me because my father came down with cancer. She didn't know how to handle it but instead of being the best friend that I needed, she...
    Untamablespark Untamablespark
    26-30, F
    Jun 25, 2014

    Today was her birthday.

    I can't even handle myself because I'm still mad at her.
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2014
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