I Miss My Ex-girlfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 587 People

    It Feels Like I'll Never Get Over Her

    She was so perfect. The girl of my dreams, but even better because she was real. We dated for a good 7 months, but I'd known her longer than that. We were so happy together. The most amazing relationship I'd ever been in. She said she felt the same about it. The time we spent...
    Sieg Sieg
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    I love my current girlfriend with all my heart

    but everyone will always hold a little flame in their heart for their first love. Our relationship ended on horrible terms and she didn't even have the guts to dump me to my face after 3 years of dating. I never saw here again after that last time saying goodbye and see you next...
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 5, 2015
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh
    16-17, T
    Sep 22, 2015

    The old adage is, "The definition of of

    insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting a different result each time". Well, that's me in a nutshell (pun intended). I'm not always thinking of her but when I do, I overdo it. Lately, I've been scheming on a way to make her want me again. At least, get a...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts
    46-50, M
    13 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    It's been a year since me

    and my ex girlfriend broke up. Last time I spoke to her was through a texts she sent asking a question about a previous phone bill question which I replied with a pretty generic answer to cont no contact to help myself move on. We were together for 12years before the break up...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    I feel like there is one mistke we could have

    easily avoided that would have kept us together (or kept us from getting together in the first place... I knew her for 3 weeks before starting to date exclusively w/ her. a year and a half long relationship of mental anguish for us both because we moved out of the friendship...
    Yggdrasilian Yggdrasilian
    26-30, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    I really wish you can just delete memory from

    your brain. Dreaming about your ex sucks. It just makes you miss them or the opposite. Ugh
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    Jan 8

    They said "it will get easier.

    " When? They said "be strong man." How? Everyday it gets harder to bear. I keep telling myself to "let you go" but you live in my mind. My body aches for yours . My heart just can't seem to accept this void you left in it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 5, 2015

    I open my heart to you,

    I can feel your pain and anxieties and wonder if you can feel mine. How can I love you still after all these years apart? Why can my heart not let you go? Some days when I think of you I can hardly breath, my heart aches to think you lost that for me that special love I thought...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 8

    We only broke up because she was moving

    and I started dating her when my heart finally healed from my first gf cheating on me she was the perfect match for me
    smitlord smitlord
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 8

    YEP..either in the middle of my work

    or in those quiet moment before I fall asleep..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    May 5, 2015

    My ex and I were dating

    for 5 months and 9 days and I had already planned what I was going to do for our 6 month anniversary... See, we love "Nightmare Before Christmas"- that's 'our' movie. And "Miss You" by blink182 was also 'our song', mainly cause of the line "we can live like jack and Sally if we...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh
    16-17, T
    Sep 2, 2015

    I am actually a woman.

    Mother of two and I have a step son. Who lives in Overseas. His Half Father, who is.. my baby daddy's Business Partner in the usa ... he is a Hacker, and shared E-med supplying business with my ex-baby daddy Bikalpo. So.. where ever I go.. he , Miki always logged on to my PC...
    halfdentalhalfmental halfdentalhalfmental
    26-30, M
    May 31, 2015

    I miss her so much! I ****** it all

    up😞😞😞 i can't see or text her anymore forever, shes gone forever, just a memory...3 days ago we were doing just fine, till i screwed it all up, i love her forever i can't get over her! We have so many memories…washed away😞😞😞 i miss her so much, I love you...
    ColbyAkashiya ColbyAkashiya
    31-35, M
    Jan 7

    5 Years In A Dream

    It feels like that now, 9 months after our breakup, like it was just a dream that never even happened. The empty feeling i get when i think of her or after waking up from an actual dream in which my subconscious seems to have forgotten shes no longer in my life is the only thing...
    slapntickle slapntickle
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

    I can't watch "Nightmare Before Christmas"

    anymore... Or listen to "Miss You" by blink 182... Or even watch Dan & PHIL anymore... Cause those were our things to do. Our movie, our song. Cause it was a 13 year friendship aswell... Everything that was an inside joke, or that we did a lot hurts now... And being friends...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh
    16-17, T
    Sep 2, 2015

    "Deep down my mind obsesses over you

    when it comes to dreams. If there was a way to delete memory, I wouldn't delete you, surprisingly, because it'd be too painful to learn it again. My stomach feels like butterflies whenever I think I hear your name. Then they die instantly. I realize if I think of you during the...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 8

    My ex still messages me from time to time.

    She knows I'm trying to move on because I still love her despite I was the one that broke it off. I told her she can delete my number anytime he wants if she doesn't want contact yet she still messages me. I miss her again dang it
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 14

    Haha it sucks but I do.

    I know who I am and what I want but she's always somewhere in my heart. But I guess that's just life, I'm moving forward with my life but I know I'll never forget her. Here's to a good night!
    ayoino ayoino
    22-25, M
    Jan 30, 2014

    I've had an odd experience recently

    and it led to me asking a question on this website. When I was 16 I was at a party and kissed a girl I'd known but never paid attention to. I only kissed her because all my friends had picked up girls at the party, and to be honest, I regretted it the next day. I lacked the...
    gelidor gelidor
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    Dear Ex

    I love you.. you were my everything losing you is like losing everything I could ever want and ever had. you were the joy in my day the sun in the sky I miss you.. You became so special to me so important to me I wish I could lose all my feelings for you but it's so hard. It...
    Quicksilr Quicksilr
    13-15
    Oct 21, 2012

    Sometimes the Nights Are So Lonely

    even though my g/f and i broke up almost 6 months ago...and...im with another girl....i miss my ex so much. everything reminds me of her. i cant go anywhere or do anything without thinking about her...   does ANYONE have a suggestion of what to do!?
    Kalboy Kalboy
    16-17, F
    9 Responses Nov 6, 2006

    honey, my love, E***,

    I can't get you out of my head.... Love you forever...
    sidnaughtyboy sidnaughtyboy
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    I wouldn't consider her an ex-girlfriend,

    but more of a very good friend. A while back I lived in Florida, and my friend (let's call her Ashley) and I were both bi-curious and we basically did everything together like a couple. We kissed, held hands in public, and everything. She was very sweet and I could tell her...
    imasweetheart imasweetheart
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    You have to accept that things changed

    and they aren't coming back. It only gets better once you accept that. However I haven't
    bdawkins302 bdawkins302
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    Slowly Peeling The layers Away

    Ever feel like you're glancing through a window where something is about to happen but you are powerless to do anything about it? The moment of impact, the start of an altercation, or the inevitable end when a person you loved so brilliantly for a short amount of time walks out...
    siamexPMT siamexPMT
    31-35, M
    Feb 26, 2013

    Someone Being Able To Make Laugh Like This

    I remember one time at school, my ex and I were playing a silly game with a large group of friends, we were together at the time but not many people knew about us, it was a secret for more than a year until the people started to find out one by one. The question of my eyes colour...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    I don't know if anyone would care to read,

    but I want to share. The memory of my ex girlfriend is continuously hunting me, we were together 5 years ago, and unfortunately in December she was found dead in her apartment. Police department revealed that she just slipped getting out of the shower, just like that in one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 31, 2015

    whwn I was about 21..

    .was going out with a girl who was 17.We worked part time at the same place(she in grade 12) me at a college taking my last year in business administration.I was shy to talk to her...finally after 3 months I asked her out on a date for Valentine's Day.Was good...after a month she...
    Jameswhhos Jameswhhos
    56-60, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015

    My ex-girlfriend and I are still friends.

    Today we hung out and had sex. Great sex. The only problem is I know this encounter will only make her want me back even more. We are not good together as a couple, though.
    CharryICT CharryICT
    31-35, F
    Jan 5

    Someone Like You

    When I wake up I miss her. When I look at my phone and see that she still hasn't texted me back, I miss her. When I tell her how much I love and miss her she tells me she feels the same. I don't think she understands how deeply she has affected my life. I thought my heart had...
    Lonelygirl7967 Lonelygirl7967
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2013

    I am 48 years of age.

    I have been a happily married man for nearly 10 years. I had a girlfriend at the end of high school we will call her GR. She was a beautiful girl and wonderful person who truly loved me. It was bad timing she was looking for serious and marriage. I was not even close. I was an...
    frankred frankred
    46-50
    1 Response Sep 30, 2014

    Off Into The Night Without Me

    I miss her most when the sun goes down. When the night slides over the clouds, her memory slides over me. I used to hold her in my arms while we slept. She used to whisper how much she loved me in my ear within the darkness. Her breathe on my cheek was like a small gust of...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2012

    Honestly, whenever I here my ringtone from a

    certain app on my phone, my hearts stops a quick second. I don't know when I'll get over my ex girlfriend really.. She's in love with someone else, yet she messages me happy birthday. I want to that same feeling of sparks but simultaneously, I want to move on, because I also...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 4

    Lately nothing has been feeling the same.

    Days keep going by slowly. I wonder how she is doing. I really miss her. She has no idea how hard things have been since she left. I regret all the times I wasn't the best boyfriend. I wanna tell her I'm sorry. I wanna talk to her. Who knows were we will end up. Maybe we...
    experiencedguy75 experiencedguy75
    31-35, M
    Feb 1, 2014

    I do so much to keep my head busy

    but sometimes it's just not enough. I drown myself in work because I don't want to face myself. Because I'm afraid of the pain it brings like tonight. Everything just slipped between my fingers and I just couldn't hold on to you. The worst part is knowing I couldn't make you...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    May 5, 2015

    After 5 years my girl friend broke up with me,

    because she needed "space" our lives revolved around each other's and we had so many plans, I mean 5 years wasted I put all my time and love into her and she told me she couldn't do the same. I honestly don't have any friends and neither dose she, we had each other, she's not...
    SnowingWindsong SnowingWindsong
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    It's Time To Let Go... My Love.

    I haven't been an active user of EP until I broke up with my ex, and that was almost 7 months ago (my first love). And I've gone through lots of emotional high and low... I've kept a blog of how I felt about the break up and I've logged my progress of how I coped with the losses...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 11, 2011

    Part Of Me Will Always Hate Her, But

    I really miss her. She was perfect for me. She will always be the one that got away. I don't think I will ever find anyone that I love as much again. She didn't do anything bad to me, besides breaking up with me for being a good guy. She got bored of me and I hate her for it. I...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper
    26-30, M
    14 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    A day doesn't pass by

    that I don't catch myself thinking of her. Her beauty, voice, personality, eyes, everything about her.. It drives me crazy how after 3 years I can't get over her. I haven't talked to her in 2 years. I've had a couple relationships after but none of them made me feel the way she...
    txblank91 txblank91
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 3, 2014

    Damn.. I Just Started Falling Apart Again! I Miss My Ex Girlfriend So Much!

    So yea me and my ex girlfriend broke up about a month ago now.. I sit here and can just totally look her up on google.. She's just there. From instagram and so on. And I didn't even care it just happened. Had now it's driving me stir crazy. And she told my brothers girlfriend...
    D862 D862
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    Me and my ex girlfriend act like we're still

    together but we do are own thing and I miss being able to claim her
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 20, 2015

    I Miss Her

    I have never been too good about saying that I'm wrong, but I was wrong. When Jamie left me, I was the man at fault. It kills me every day that I lost her, and I have been waiting two years to try to win her back.I've known Jamie since I was in Junior High. She was a couple years...
    mattandnetta mattandnetta
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2012

    My ex-girlfriend and me grew fond of each other

    when we were just kids. Circumstances brought us closer and closer till we fell in love in our teens. There are many experiences we had, which cannot merely be described by writing a few words. If I am to give a gist of it, she was always there for me when I needed someone, and...
    VaibhavMinocha VaibhavMinocha
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    I agree with you guys.

    I miss my Ex-girlfriend. Her name is Valkyrie Brianna Reed. I miss her a lot. We did everything together. We had a dream That we were going to marry and live a wonderful life but she battled depression and anxiety and PTSD. She had to break up with me because she couldn't be in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 1, 2015

    I don't know if anyone would care to read,

    but I want to share. The memory of my ex girlfriend is continuously hunting me, we were together 5 years ago, and unfortunately in December she was found dead in her apartment. Police department revealed that she just slipped getting out of the shower, just like that in one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 31, 2015

    The Last One Cheated... ...

    The last one cheated... Can't say I miss her at all.
    Fezwick Fezwick
    31-35, M
    6 Responses Dec 19, 2006

    It's almost been 3 years

    since i last saw you. You're the only one still in my heart even after talking to other girls and partying trying to forget you, i still think about the good and hard times we had. I would have loved to spend the rest of my life with you, i didnt treat you right and i broke up...
    drizzle401 drizzle401
    22-25, M
    Oct 25, 2015

    An open letter to my ex: Dear ----- I can't

    believe it's been a year since we last spoke. In the 12 years we were together I never though you would not be in my life. In some form I always thought we would always be best friends even if we were not together. We saw and experience so much together from young teens to...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29
    26-30, M
    Jul 21, 2015

    Shes Happier Now

    I loved her... I love her still... and ill never stop...but shes happy now... I understand that in the end i knew what she wanted but i didnt give it to her.. and shes found someone new who will... it gonna kill me to watch but i will...to see her happy... shes my bestfriend...
    HERChikken HERChikken
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Nov 1, 2010

    Oh and she decided to tell me the other day

    that she never loved me and was making it all up. I don't know why, but even though she showed almost no intimacy I still miss her so much.
    GundarKhan GundarKhan
    18-21, M
    Apr 17, 2015

    I dated a girl for 3 years.

    I experienced a deeper a love for her than for anyone I have ever loved before. She was absolutely beautiful to me, inside and out. Our relationship was very mature. Communication was key. We shared in our faith life together and pushed each other to become better people. She...
    panther867r panther867r
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    i miss her so much i saw a book online

    that said it can help me get her back i don't even bother with that sort of stuff but i've been thinking about it a lot and i don't know if i should or should't i think at this point i'm willing to try anything, even if it messes with my morales
    IamTheReject IamTheReject
    18-21, M
    May 30, 2015

    Well miss then hate..

    . she decided to reopen contact with me which brought back so much pain, then closed it again after no time at all. We were engaged. Ugh. She told me how much she wanted to be. I buy her a ring and then she breaks my heart. She's on drugs just like I was after she reduced me to...
    LonelyWolf1 LonelyWolf1
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 7
    Nightowl2012 Nightowl2012
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2015
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