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I Miss My Ex-girlfriend

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    Sometimes the Nights Are So Lonely

    even though my g/f and i broke up almost 6 months ago...and...im with another girl....i miss my ex so much. everything reminds me of her. i cant go anywhere or do anything without thinking about her...   does ANYONE have a suggestion of what to do!?
    Kalboy Kalboy 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 6, 2006

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    The old adage is, "The definition of of

    insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting a different result each time". Well, that's me in a nutshell (pun intended). I'm not always thinking of her but when I do, I overdo it. Lately, I've been scheming on a way to make her want me again. At least, get a...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts 46-50, M 13 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    They said "it will get easier.

    " When? They said "be strong man." How? Everyday it gets harder to bear. I keep telling myself to "let you go" but you live in my mind. My body aches for yours . My heart just can't seem to accept this void you left in it.
    the1true the1true 26-30, M 2 Responses May 5

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    YEP..either in the middle of my work

    or in those quiet moment before I fall asleep..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 1 Response May 5

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    hmmmm... its hard for me to confess

    but sometimes she just appeared in my mind like just now. I was asked to join one band to perform. they gonna play 'lost without your love by Bread' and I'm their temporary lead guitar . While I played all I did is thinking of her.Yes, I move on physically ..but I don't know...
    red4x red4x 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Off Into The Night Without Me

    I miss her most when the sun goes down. When the night slides over the clouds, her memory slides over me. I used to hold her in my arms while we slept. She used to whisper how much she loved me in my ear within the darkness. Her breathe on my cheek was like a small gust of...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    I miss my ex when I talk to her

    but the moment I talk to my current girlfriend I completely forget about her. She's still my best friend though.
    OneMoreTurn OneMoreTurn 18-21, F Nov 8, 2014

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    I need my ex girlfriend back ,

    I miss everything about her soo much
    theusunghero3 theusunghero3 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    andytrans andytrans 16-17, T Mar 24

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    Dear Ex

    I love you.. you were my everything losing you is like losing everything I could ever want and ever had. you were the joy in my day the sun in the sky I miss you.. You became so special to me so important to me I wish I could lose all my feelings for you but it's so hard. It...
    Quicksilr Quicksilr 13-15 Oct 21, 2012

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    i miss my ex girl to death its been 8 months

    now she left me for someone else i haven't heard from her since then i can't find it in me to move on for some reason i cling on to her like she is priceless i tried dating,gym,socializing,trips everything nothing seems to work and being with several woman i didn't change a...
    gaby1030 gaby1030 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Someone Being Able To Make Laugh Like This

    I remember one time at school, my ex and I were playing a silly game with a large group of friends, we were together at the time but not many people knew about us, it was a secret for more than a year until the people started to find out one by one. The question of my eyes colour...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Haha it sucks but I do.

    I know who I am and what I want but she's always somewhere in my heart. But I guess that's just life, I'm moving forward with my life but I know I'll never forget her. Here's to a good night!
    ayoino ayoino 18-21, M Jan 30, 2014

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    Working late,I come home well past midnight.

    my body aches, and I long for comfort and cuddling. I undress and shower, the warm water lulling what little mental strength I have left. Clean and dry, I walk into the bedroom. beneath the covers and sheets I see her figure.Satiny hair bussed across my pillow and soft soles...
    YohKomori YohKomori 22-25, M Nov 24, 2014

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    Someone Like You

    When I wake up I miss her. When I look at my phone and see that she still hasn't texted me back, I miss her. When I tell her how much I love and miss her she tells me she feels the same. I don't think she understands how deeply she has affected my life. I thought my heart had...
    Lonelygirl7967 Lonelygirl7967 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    Damn.. I Just Started Falling Apart Again! I Miss My Ex Girlfriend So Much!

    So yea me and my ex girlfriend broke up about a month ago now.. I sit here and can just totally look her up on google.. She's just there. From instagram and so on. And I didn't even care it just happened. Had now it's driving me stir crazy. And she told my brothers girlfriend...
    D862 D862 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Me and the bae just broke up,

    I guess she's the ex-bae now. I don't know why though? I guess she thought I cheated on her with some girl. She said she had caught me holding this girl multiple times. So I started thinking, and there were 3 occasions were my bae caught me "cheating" . 1st-I was with...
    Jr2299 Jr2299 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    weskeralbert weskeralbert 22-25, M Mar 25, 2014

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    Part Of Me Will Always Hate Her, But

    I really miss her. She was perfect for me. She will always be the one that got away. I don't think I will ever find anyone that I love as much again. She didn't do anything bad to me, besides breaking up with me for being a good guy. She got bored of me and I hate her for it. I...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 14 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    My ex-girlfriend and me grew fond of each other

    when we were just kids. Circumstances brought us closer and closer till we fell in love in our teens. There are many experiences we had, which cannot merely be described by writing a few words. If I am to give a gist of it, she was always there for me when I needed someone, and...
    VaibhavMinocha VaibhavMinocha 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 15, 2014

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    The Last One Cheated... ...

    The last one cheated... Can't say I miss her at all.
    Fezwick Fezwick 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 19, 2006

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    Lately nothing has been feeling the same.

    Days keep going by slowly. I wonder how she is doing. I really miss her. She has no idea how hard things have been since she left. I regret all the times I wasn't the best boyfriend. I wanna tell her I'm sorry. I wanna talk to her. Who knows were we will end up. Maybe we...
    experiencedguy75 experiencedguy75 31-35, M Feb 1, 2014

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    Nights like these make me miss her more

    than anything. I miss our late night phone calls and I just miss hearing her voice and her laugh. I wonder if she ever thinks about me and I hope she's doing ok. I should hate her, but I don't. I just miss being there for her. I miss being the reason she smiles everyday. Our...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    I respect and adore my ex's.

    No, im not in love with them, but it's stupid to be angry at them. We were all so young and were so stupid. How could we possibly have done better? My recent ex is a beautiful girl. It's a shame it turned out the way it did, but it was wonderful at the time. It's been tough...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2014

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    I really do. Shes bi

    and with another girl but i would be upset if it was a guy she was with. We fought over the idea of her with another man and she started telling me that we were never official to begin with. I was just someone she had a "thing" with. Someone she went out with but never told...
    pyschobastard pyschobastard 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    Slowly Peeling The layers Away

    Ever feel like you're glancing through a window where something is about to happen but you are powerless to do anything about it? The moment of impact, the start of an altercation, or the inevitable end when a person you loved so brilliantly for a short amount of time walks out...
    siamexPMT siamexPMT 31-35, M Feb 26, 2013

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    I don't miss her anymore.

    Now, I have to explain this. Okay, umm, I'm no longer held in place by the idea that I need to be with her. I feel I'm in a place of moving on. I know this sounds cliched but its the truth. I'm not moving on to someone else. I'm moving on from the desire of texting her, that...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 21, 2014

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    5 Years In A Dream

    It feels like that now, 9 months after our breakup, like it was just a dream that never even happened. The empty feeling i get when i think of her or after waking up from an actual dream in which my subconscious seems to have forgotten shes no longer in my life is the only thing...
    slapntickle slapntickle 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    Am I stupid? My ex gf

    who cheated and stole from me has been married several years, now she's seeing someone else and it realllly is bothering me. We were still friends and had talked till the lady few months
    Chucklesh Chucklesh 56-60, M 5 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    How much time does it take to completely don't

    miss her? Because there have been almost three years now and there have not been a single day when i did not miss her It was a two year relationship, i gave her every thing i had, my heart, my soul. She initially also loved me like crazy, we both were very mature and understood...
    fawadaali fawadaali 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    ****..I feel like nothing is every going to be

    the same...I miss her so much..this friend **** isn't working. I need her back
    MikeOkBurns MikeOkBurns 16-17, M Apr 7

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    I do so much to keep my head busy

    but sometimes it's just not enough. I drown myself in work because I don't want to face myself. Because I'm afraid of the pain it brings like tonight. Everything just slipped between my fingers and I just couldn't hold on to you. The worst part is knowing I couldn't make you...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138 18-21, M May 5

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    My ex girlfriend and I recently started going

    back to the same school and she started giving me letters. Friday the letter she gave me she told me she played me worse than any of her girlfriends and that she loved teasing me and the look I gave her and then told me I'm the only girl she would be a girl in bed for, THEN told...
    BeYourOwn BeYourOwn 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    It's Time To Let Go... My Love.

    I haven't been an active user of EP until I broke up with my ex, and that was almost 7 months ago (my first love). And I've gone through lots of emotional high and low... I've kept a blog of how I felt about the break up and I've logged my progress of how I coped with the losses...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 11, 2011

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    Shes Happier Now

    I loved her... I love her still... and ill never stop...but shes happy now... I understand that in the end i knew what she wanted but i didnt give it to her.. and shes found someone new who will... it gonna kill me to watch but i will...to see her happy... shes my bestfriend...
    HERChikken HERChikken 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Welp.. never thought I would really think of her

    as much as I have been, honestly.. I may have moved on physically but emotionally my heart will always be with her, shes kept it for so long, its something thats just there, she may not know it but its there and always will be. I have thought about her ever since I made the...
    EastCoastKush EastCoastKush 13-15, M Dec 3, 2014

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    A day doesn't pass by

    that I don't catch myself thinking of her. Her beauty, voice, personality, eyes, everything about her.. It drives me crazy how after 3 years I can't get over her. I haven't talked to her in 2 years. I've had a couple relationships after but none of them made me feel the way she...
    txblank91 txblank91 22-25, F 1 Response May 3, 2014

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    Ever since she left, all I can do is think of

    her. She was everything and the reason to me. Met her in Alaska, took her home to Portland. She was a mix of BPD and NPD, paranoid of the unknown but her personality never really fit any one set type, she was always just her, wonderful and exciting. Contrary to a lot of men in...
    unstopedpiano unstopedpiano 26-30, M Dec 6, 2014

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    I am 48 years of age.

    I have been a happily married man for nearly 10 years. I had a girlfriend at the end of high school we will call her GR. She was a beautiful girl and wonderful person who truly loved me. It was bad timing she was looking for serious and marriage. I was not even close. I was an...
    frankred frankred 46-50 1 Response Sep 30, 2014

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    Nightowl2012 Nightowl2012 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I dated a girl for 3 years.

    I experienced a deeper a love for her than for anyone I have ever loved before. She was absolutely beautiful to me, inside and out. Our relationship was very mature. Communication was key. We shared in our faith life together and pushed each other to become better people. She...
    panther867r panther867r 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I figured out why my relationships fail.

    And it's cuz i literally miss my ex girlfriend to death. I have a tendency to date someone too soon after a break up but i really do start to love that person. So i'm up to like 4 exes i miss to death. It started with this girl Kayley, and then this girl Becky, and then Kristin...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    After 5 years my girl friend broke up with me,

    because she needed "space" our lives revolved around each other's and we had so many plans, I mean 5 years wasted I put all my time and love into her and she told me she couldn't do the same. I honestly don't have any friends and neither dose she, we had each other, she's not...
    SnowingWindsong SnowingWindsong 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    Today Is Your Birthday And....

    Today is your birthday, and exactly one year since you abandoned me for the firt pair of eyes to look upon you when you moved into college. We had 6 long years in love yet it only took one day to undo every minute. I guess that is what you wanted, to go from my horse riding...
    SynysterGates510 SynysterGates510 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    I want to hold someone

    or for someone to tell me she loves me. I just want anyone really but I WILL NOT get back together with her just for that reason. I WILL NOT do it because of all the reasons I broke up with her. I must never settle. I must always remember that every time I have settled in the...
    sociableTim sociableTim 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2014

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    She broke up with me today cause she said shes

    a lesbian she was bi when i was dating her but she broke up with me to be a lesbian i miss her so much theres no other girl i would rather but she doesn't want me i need help i need her back if i don't get her back then what is there to live for.
    CrazyGuy78797 CrazyGuy78797 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 12

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