I Miss My Ex-girlfriend

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    I do so much to keep my head busy

    but sometimes it's just not enough. I drown myself in work because I don't want to face myself. Because I'm afraid of the pain it brings like tonight. Everything just slipped between my fingers and I just couldn't hold on to you. The worst part is knowing I couldn't make you...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    May 5, 2015

    Oh and she decided to tell me the other day

    that she never loved me and was making it all up. I don't know why, but even though she showed almost no intimacy I still miss her so much.
    GundarKhan GundarKhan
    22-25, M
    Apr 17, 2015
    Nightowl2012 Nightowl2012
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    ****..I feel like nothing is every going to be

    the same...I miss her so much..this friend **** isn't working. I need her back
    MikeOkBurns MikeOkBurns
    18-21, M
    Apr 7, 2015

    How much time does it take to completely don't

    miss her? Because there have been almost three years now and there have not been a single day when i did not miss her It was a two year relationship, i gave her every thing i had, my heart, my soul. She initially also loved me like crazy, we both were very mature and understood...
    fawadaali fawadaali
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 24, 2015
    andytrans andytrans
    18-21, T
    Mar 24, 2015

    My ex girlfriend and I recently started going

    back to the same school and she started giving me letters. Friday the letter she gave me she told me she played me worse than any of her girlfriends and that she loved teasing me and the look I gave her and then told me I'm the only girl she would be a girl in bed for, THEN told...
    BeYourOwn BeYourOwn
    16-17, F
    Mar 22, 2015

    I figured out why my relationships fail.

    And it's cuz i literally miss my ex girlfriend to death. I have a tendency to date someone too soon after a break up but i really do start to love that person. So i'm up to like 4 exes i miss to death. It started with this girl Kayley, and then this girl Becky, and then Kristin...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx
    16-17, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    i miss my ex girl to death its been 8 months

    now she left me for someone else i haven't heard from her since then i can't find it in me to move on for some reason i cling on to her like she is priceless i tried dating,gym,socializing,trips everything nothing seems to work and being with several woman i didn't change a...
    gaby1030 gaby1030
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Lately I've been messaging my ex girlfriend a

    lot. I have mixed feelings about talking to her. One part of me knows its a bad idea for obvious reasons. But the other side really misses her and wants to talk, so i do. Even if it sometimes makes me uncomfortable , sad or jealous. Im usually decent at controlling my feelings...
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    I've decided that it is time to go on.

    I'm saying goodbye to the old bae and moving forwards. She didn't want any so she ain't getting none. If she was able to move on that easy than so can I. Buh-Bye BaeβœŒοΈπŸ’”
    Jr2299 Jr2299
    18-21, M
    Feb 1, 2015

    Me and the bae just broke up,

    I guess she's the ex-bae now. I don't know why though? I guess she thought I cheated on her with some girl. She said she had caught me holding this girl multiple times. So I started thinking, and there were 3 occasions were my bae caught me "cheating" . 1st-I was with...
    Jr2299 Jr2299
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    She broke up with me today cause she said shes

    a lesbian she was bi when i was dating her but she broke up with me to be a lesbian i miss her so much theres no other girl i would rather but she doesn't want me i need help i need her back if i don't get her back then what is there to live for.
    CrazyGuy78797 CrazyGuy78797
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 12, 2015

    2015 marks a new year without her in my life.

    I never thought it would be like this. She was terrible to me. She lied, she used me, she even said on her own words "I was just using you to fill a void I knew I would fill myself when I went to college". I know I should hate her but we were together for five years. We were...
    ToshiLSB ToshiLSB
    22-25
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    I need my ex girlfriend back ,

    I miss everything about her soo much
    theusunghero3 theusunghero3
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    I really do. Shes bi

    and with another girl but i would be upset if it was a guy she was with. We fought over the idea of her with another man and she started telling me that we were never official to begin with. I was just someone she had a "thing" with. Someone she went out with but never told...
    pyschobastard pyschobastard
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    hmmmm... its hard for me to confess

    but sometimes she just appeared in my mind like just now. I was asked to join one band to perform. they gonna play 'lost without your love by Bread' and I'm their temporary lead guitar . While I played all I did is thinking of her.Yes, I move on physically ..but I don't know...
    red4x red4x
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    Ever since she left, all I can do is think of

    her. She was everything and the reason to me. Met her in Alaska, took her home to Portland. She was a mix of BPD and NPD, paranoid of the unknown but her personality never really fit any one set type, she was always just her, wonderful and exciting. Contrary to a lot of men in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 6, 2014

    recently my ex messaged me saying how she's

    missed me in her life. I told myself if she ever tried to talk to me again I would either tell her the Fuhhck off or ignore her completely. I couldn't bring myself to do either... so now we're talking as friends. I'm such a p*ssy. I'm angry because I missed her too.
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2014

    Welp.. never thought I would really think of her

    as much as I have been, honestly.. I may have moved on physically but emotionally my heart will always be with her, shes kept it for so long, its something thats just there, she may not know it but its there and always will be. I have thought about her ever since I made the...
    EastCoastKush EastCoastKush
    13-15, M
    Dec 3, 2014

    well, its been over a year

    or so and yeah, i still think about her from time to time. i sometimes wonder if we could of made it as a couple and stuff. she had a lot of problems at home and at school, as well as emotionally. when we were dating, so we didn't last much. but it was a great experience for me...
    toboewolfboy toboewolfboy
    18-21, M
    Nov 25, 2014

    Working late,I come home well past midnight.

    my body aches, and I long for comfort and cuddling. I undress and shower, the warm water lulling what little mental strength I have left. Clean and dry, I walk into the bedroom. beneath the covers and sheets I see her figure.Satiny hair bussed across my pillow and soft soles...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 24, 2014

    I miss my ex when I talk to her

    but the moment I talk to my current girlfriend I completely forget about her. She's still my best friend though.
    OneMoreTurn OneMoreTurn
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    Am I stupid? My ex gf

    who cheated and stole from me has been married several years, now she's seeing someone else and it realllly is bothering me. We were still friends and had talked till the lady few months
    Chucklesh Chucklesh
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Oct 29, 2014

    I don't miss her anymore.

    Now, I have to explain this. Okay, umm, I'm no longer held in place by the idea that I need to be with her. I feel I'm in a place of moving on. I know this sounds cliched but its the truth. I'm not moving on to someone else. I'm moving on from the desire of texting her, that...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2014

    Nights like these make me miss her more

    than anything. I miss our late night phone calls and I just miss hearing her voice and her laugh. I wonder if she ever thinks about me and I hope she's doing ok. I should hate her, but I don't. I just miss being there for her. I miss being the reason she smiles everyday. Our...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2014

    You have to accept that things changed

    and they aren't coming back. It only gets better once you accept that. However I haven't
    bdawkins302 bdawkins302
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    I miss my ex but she lied

    and hide things from me why would I want that back
    jasonurias1 jasonurias1
    22-25, M
    Oct 8, 2014

    I am 48 years of age.

    I have been a happily married man for nearly 10 years. I had a girlfriend at the end of high school we will call her GR. She was a beautiful girl and wonderful person who truly loved me. It was bad timing she was looking for serious and marriage. I was not even close. I was an...
    frankred frankred
    51-55
    1 Response Sep 30, 2014

    4 months ago my ex of 4.

    5 years broke up with me and I still miss her... This sux
    fjr11 fjr11
    26-30, M
    Sep 25, 2014

    She loved me and I don't know

    why she broke up, she sayed she loved me and I am the best! But... I just miss her :(
    rofo16 rofo16
    18-21, M
    Sep 15, 2014

    My ex is the one girl

    that has truly cared for me, yet I convince myself she's not the one for me. I've been with about 7 different girls since we dated and none of it feels the same. What should I do? We now go to college over three hours away from each other.
    KMassam KMassam
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 2, 2014

    I loved her so much I loved her

    since I was 8 years old I dated her for a fue weeks this year and I dot even remember what happed all I know if I ******* miss her and she has a boy friend now and it's killing me even with me having a girl friend it just feels like something is missing I MISS YOU DEVY...
    drew725 drew725
    16-17, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2014

    I want to hold someone

    or for someone to tell me she loves me. I just want anyone really but I WILL NOT get back together with her just for that reason. I WILL NOT do it because of all the reasons I broke up with her. I must never settle. I must always remember that every time I have settled in the...
    sociableTim sociableTim
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2014

    My ex was my world n I have no idea how I'm

    going to get thur this !!!Yes ik all about heart breaks n pain but this time I don't think I can handle it alone..I wish I could go back to day we first met .i would do it all over knowing what I know now ...such a lost πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜’
    crissyred33 crissyred33
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2014

    She was the better part of me,

    she made me feel alive so alive. So took my breath away just by the way she looked in to my eyes. I miss putting my arms around her while she is doing something like washing up. I miss her soft lips, her kisses sent shivers down my spine made me tingle all over. I was too busy...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014

    My ex is with another guy

    but she still calls me telling me that she is having a nice time but that she misses me and that she's upset with the fact that me - who she really adored - didnt want to move to a more serious relationship. Anyone knows Wtf is wrong with her?
    fmatitos fmatitos
    26-30, M
    Jul 1, 2014

    Me and My Ex broke up last year,

    to begin with it didn't seem right like she was hiding something from me, we continued talking but only rarely, in the end she got with my best mate and it caused a lot of depression on my side. I later found out she was pregnant and didn't want to ruin my life, I tried to...
    JamesMcgregor JamesMcgregor
    18-21, M
    Jun 29, 2014

    My Irish Love I spy on you

    when you sleep The truth I can’t deny You’re beautiful even when you slumber Always catching my eye Those lovely green eyes Now peacefully closed And the blushing expressions Vacant as sleep does impose You look so tranquil and calm Now snuggled warm in my bed I am...
    darkreality68 darkreality68
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    I dated a girl for 3 years.

    I experienced a deeper a love for her than for anyone I have ever loved before. She was absolutely beautiful to me, inside and out. Our relationship was very mature. Communication was key. We shared in our faith life together and pushed each other to become better people. She...
    panther867r panther867r
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    Okay so it's been around 6-8months

    now since me and my ex last spoke she was "the one" for me. She was perfect in every way i really don't know what to do 😭 I want to speak to her but we would develop feelings for each other again.. Only problem is i live in England and she moved to Ireland which is why we...
    Adam352 Adam352
    18-21, M
    May 6, 2014

    A day doesn't pass by

    that I don't catch myself thinking of her. Her beauty, voice, personality, eyes, everything about her.. It drives me crazy how after 3 years I can't get over her. I haven't talked to her in 2 years. I've had a couple relationships after but none of them made me feel the way she...
    txblank91 txblank91
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 3, 2014

    She broke my heart and I guess I broke hers.

    ..We were together for almost 3 years and she breaks up with me because "I can't do this anymore" she says...I cry over her every night but she doesn't seem to care. She says she doesn't love me but all I can think about is her. She's my everything but I'm her nothing. It's only...
    OctoberMS OctoberMS
    22-25
    3 Responses May 1, 2014

    My ex-girlfriend and me grew fond of each other

    when we were just kids. Circumstances brought us closer and closer till we fell in love in our teens. There are many experiences we had, which cannot merely be described by writing a few words. If I am to give a gist of it, she was always there for me when I needed someone, and...
    VaibhavMinocha VaibhavMinocha
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014

    Really missing my ex

    and I want to reach out to her more than anything but I don't want to push her away....#crossroads
    ZDayisToday ZDayisToday
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 14, 2014
    weskeralbert weskeralbert
    26-30, M
    Mar 25, 2014

    After 5 years my girl friend broke up with me,

    because she needed "space" our lives revolved around each other's and we had so many plans, I mean 5 years wasted I put all my time and love into her and she told me she couldn't do the same. I honestly don't have any friends and neither dose she, we had each other, she's not...
    SnowingWindsong SnowingWindsong
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    I will say the only thing about my ex was

    that she was the very first person I had ever sleep with. Maybe I was young 26 and she was forty and we were friends ant way. But I was inexperienced and she didn't lead to well.
    mlcockrell mlcockrell
    41-45, M
    Mar 16, 2014

    The old adage is, "The definition of of

    insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting a different result each time". Well, that's me in a nutshell (pun intended). I'm not always thinking of her but when I do, I overdo it. Lately, I've been scheming on a way to make her want me again. At least, get a...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts
    46-50, M
    13 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    I don't miss her to the point

    that I'm crying over her or anything, but I miss having that someone to tell absolutely everything to. Basically I fantasize about girls a lot and I use to tell her what I was thinking and most of the time my stories would turn her on lol. I love it when she gets turned on by it...
    iamj iamj
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2014
    HunkOfTheEra HunkOfTheEra
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2014

    When i listen to loch lomond it reminds me

    so much of her. She loves Scotland and shes got the red hair to show her celtic side (nobody knows if she is celtic)
    randomkjabcaijbiaj randomkjabcaijbiaj
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 20, 2014

    We were good friends

    even though she had a boyfriend up until a few days ago... She told me that we couldn't talk anymore because her boyfriend of 2 years didn't like it. We had such a good relationship, it was like two best friends were in love and it was amazing and lasted a year and a couple of...
    canadianchris canadianchris
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2014

    I don't even know where to start it's been a

    year since we've been apart I miss her so much it drives me crazy every day every night I think about her. She's with someone else now I tried so hard to get her to comeback to me. She won't do it she even told me I need to forget about her. I deserve it though I lied to her so...
    caremissingyou caremissingyou
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    Lately nothing has been feeling the same.

    Days keep going by slowly. I wonder how she is doing. I really miss her. She has no idea how hard things have been since she left. I regret all the times I wasn't the best boyfriend. I wanna tell her I'm sorry. I wanna talk to her. Who knows were we will end up. Maybe we...
    experiencedguy75 experiencedguy75
    36-40, M
    Feb 1, 2014

    Haha it sucks but I do.

    I know who I am and what I want but she's always somewhere in my heart. But I guess that's just life, I'm moving forward with my life but I know I'll never forget her. Here's to a good night!
    ayoino ayoino
    22-25, M
    Jan 30, 2014

    I miss having someone

    who understands my problems and knows EXACTLY how I feel inside...I heard this song today played in the supermarket, reminded me of my ex, she dedictaed it to me near the end, when I was starting to turn into the person I am today.. A person completely different.
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2013

    Damn.. I Just Started Falling Apart Again! I Miss My Ex Girlfriend So Much!

    So yea me and my ex girlfriend broke up about a month ago now.. I sit here and can just totally look her up on google.. She's just there. From instagram and so on. And I didn't even care it just happened. Had now it's driving me stir crazy. And she told my brothers girlfriend...
    D862 D862
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    Someone Being Able To Make Laugh Like This

    I remember one time at school, my ex and I were playing a silly game with a large group of friends, we were together at the time but not many people knew about us, it was a secret for more than a year until the people started to find out one by one. The question of my eyes colour...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    Broke Up 6 Weeks Ago And I Can'T Handle It!!!!

    So first post. Might as well start where I am now. I'm 24, she was 23, she lived in New Jersey, I live in Virginia. She's a nurse, I do HVAC. Basically the story, everything was great, atleast I thought. We were together for 8 months, before that I hadn't been in a...
    D862 D862
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2013
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