I Miss My Ex-girlfriend

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    I Miss Her

    I have never been too good about saying that I'm wrong, but I was wrong. When Jamie left me, I was the man at fault. It kills me every day that I lost her, and I have been waiting two years to try to win her back.I've known Jamie since I was in Junior High. She was a couple years...
    mattandnetta mattandnetta
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2012

    I dated a girl for 3 years.

    I experienced a deeper a love for her than for anyone I have ever loved before. She was absolutely beautiful to me, inside and out. Our relationship was very mature. Communication was key. We shared in our faith life together and pushed each other to become better people. She...
    panther867r panther867r
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    Sometimes the Nights Are So Lonely

    even though my g/f and i broke up almost 6 months ago...and...im with another girl....i miss my ex so much. everything reminds me of her. i cant go anywhere or do anything without thinking about her...   does ANYONE have a suggestion of what to do!?
    Kalboy Kalboy
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Nov 6, 2006
    Nightowl2012 Nightowl2012
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    The old adage is, "The definition of of

    insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting a different result each time". Well, that's me in a nutshell (pun intended). I'm not always thinking of her but when I do, I overdo it. Lately, I've been scheming on a way to make her want me again. At least, get a...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts
    46-50, M
    13 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    The Last One Cheated... ...

    The last one cheated... Can't say I miss her at all.
    Fezwick Fezwick
    31-35, M
    6 Responses Dec 19, 2006

    Haha it sucks but I do.

    I know who I am and what I want but she's always somewhere in my heart. But I guess that's just life, I'm moving forward with my life but I know I'll never forget her. Here's to a good night!
    ayoino ayoino
    22-25, M
    Jan 30, 2014

    They said "it will get easier.

    " When? They said "be strong man." How? Everyday it gets harder to bear. I keep telling myself to "let you go" but you live in my mind. My body aches for yours . My heart just can't seem to accept this void you left in it.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 5, 2015

    Lately nothing has been feeling the same.

    Days keep going by slowly. I wonder how she is doing. I really miss her. She has no idea how hard things have been since she left. I regret all the times I wasn't the best boyfriend. I wanna tell her I'm sorry. I wanna talk to her. Who knows were we will end up. Maybe we...
    experiencedguy75 experiencedguy75
    36-40, M
    Feb 1, 2014

    YEP..either in the middle of my work

    or in those quiet moment before I fall asleep..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    May 5, 2015

    Part Of Me Will Always Hate Her, But

    I really miss her. She was perfect for me. She will always be the one that got away. I don't think I will ever find anyone that I love as much again. She didn't do anything bad to me, besides breaking up with me for being a good guy. She got bored of me and I hate her for it. I...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper
    26-30, M
    14 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    Dear Ex

    I love you.. you were my everything losing you is like losing everything I could ever want and ever had. you were the joy in my day the sun in the sky I miss you.. You became so special to me so important to me I wish I could lose all my feelings for you but it's so hard. It...
    Quicksilr Quicksilr
    Oct 21, 2012

    Someone Like You

    When I wake up I miss her. When I look at my phone and see that she still hasn't texted me back, I miss her. When I tell her how much I love and miss her she tells me she feels the same. I don't think she understands how deeply she has affected my life. I thought my heart had...
    Lonelygirl7967 Lonelygirl7967
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2013

    I am 48 years of age.

    I have been a happily married man for nearly 10 years. I had a girlfriend at the end of high school we will call her GR. She was a beautiful girl and wonderful person who truly loved me. It was bad timing she was looking for serious and marriage. I was not even close. I was an...
    frankred frankred
    1 Response Sep 30, 2014

    My ex-girlfriend and me grew fond of each other

    when we were just kids. Circumstances brought us closer and closer till we fell in love in our teens. There are many experiences we had, which cannot merely be described by writing a few words. If I am to give a gist of it, she was always there for me when I needed someone, and...
    VaibhavMinocha VaibhavMinocha
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014

    A day doesn't pass by

    that I don't catch myself thinking of her. Her beauty, voice, personality, eyes, everything about her.. It drives me crazy how after 3 years I can't get over her. I haven't talked to her in 2 years. I've had a couple relationships after but none of them made me feel the way she...
    txblank91 txblank91
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 3, 2014

    You have to accept that things changed

    and they aren't coming back. It only gets better once you accept that. However I haven't
    bdawkins302 bdawkins302
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    I do so much to keep my head busy

    but sometimes it's just not enough. I drown myself in work because I don't want to face myself. Because I'm afraid of the pain it brings like tonight. Everything just slipped between my fingers and I just couldn't hold on to you. The worst part is knowing I couldn't make you...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    May 5, 2015

    I wouldn't consider her an ex-girlfriend,

    but more of a very good friend. A while back I lived in Florida, and my friend (let's call her Ashley) and I were both bi-curious and we basically did everything together like a couple. We kissed, held hands in public, and everything. She was very sweet and I could tell her...
    imasweetheart imasweetheart
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    Oh and she decided to tell me the other day

    that she never loved me and was making it all up. I don't know why, but even though she showed almost no intimacy I still miss her so much.
    GundarKhan GundarKhan
    22-25, M
    Apr 17, 2015

    Me and my ex girlfriend act like we're still

    together but we do are own thing and I miss being able to claim her
    deleted deleted
    Jun 20, 2015

    It Feels Like I'll Never Get Over Her

    She was so perfect. The girl of my dreams, but even better because she was real. We dated for a good 7 months, but I'd known her longer than that. We were so happy together. The most amazing relationship I'd ever been in. She said she felt the same about it. The time we spent...
    Sieg Sieg
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    It's Time To Let Go... My Love.

    I haven't been an active user of EP until I broke up with my ex, and that was almost 7 months ago (my first love). And I've gone through lots of emotional high and low... I've kept a blog of how I felt about the break up and I've logged my progress of how I coped with the losses...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 11, 2011

    Shes Happier Now

    I loved her... I love her still... and ill never stop...but shes happy now... I understand that in the end i knew what she wanted but i didnt give it to her.. and shes found someone new who will... it gonna kill me to watch but i will...to see her happy... shes my bestfriend...
    HERChikken HERChikken
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Nov 1, 2010

    Damn.. I Just Started Falling Apart Again! I Miss My Ex Girlfriend So Much!

    So yea me and my ex girlfriend broke up about a month ago now.. I sit here and can just totally look her up on google.. She's just there. From instagram and so on. And I didn't even care it just happened. Had now it's driving me stir crazy. And she told my brothers girlfriend...
    D862 D862
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    Someone Being Able To Make Laugh Like This

    I remember one time at school, my ex and I were playing a silly game with a large group of friends, we were together at the time but not many people knew about us, it was a secret for more than a year until the people started to find out one by one. The question of my eyes colour...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    Off Into The Night Without Me

    I miss her most when the sun goes down. When the night slides over the clouds, her memory slides over me. I used to hold her in my arms while we slept. She used to whisper how much she loved me in my ear within the darkness. Her breathe on my cheek was like a small gust of...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2012

    5 Years In A Dream

    It feels like that now, 9 months after our breakup, like it was just a dream that never even happened. The empty feeling i get when i think of her or after waking up from an actual dream in which my subconscious seems to have forgotten shes no longer in my life is the only thing...
    slapntickle slapntickle
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

    Slowly Peeling The layers Away

    Ever feel like you're glancing through a window where something is about to happen but you are powerless to do anything about it? The moment of impact, the start of an altercation, or the inevitable end when a person you loved so brilliantly for a short amount of time walks out...
    siamexPMT siamexPMT
    31-35, M
    Feb 26, 2013

    After 5 years my girl friend broke up with me,

    because she needed "space" our lives revolved around each other's and we had so many plans, I mean 5 years wasted I put all my time and love into her and she told me she couldn't do the same. I honestly don't have any friends and neither dose she, we had each other, she's not...
    SnowingWindsong SnowingWindsong
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    Nights like these make me miss her more

    than anything. I miss our late night phone calls and I just miss hearing her voice and her laugh. I wonder if she ever thinks about me and I hope she's doing ok. I should hate her, but I don't. I just miss being there for her. I miss being the reason she smiles everyday. Our...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2014

    I want to hold someone

    or for someone to tell me she loves me. I just want anyone really but I WILL NOT get back together with her just for that reason. I WILL NOT do it because of all the reasons I broke up with her. I must never settle. I must always remember that every time I have settled in the...
    sociableTim sociableTim
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2014

    2015 marks a new year without her in my life.

    I never thought it would be like this. She was terrible to me. She lied, she used me, she even said on her own words "I was just using you to fill a void I knew I would fill myself when I went to college". I know I should hate her but we were together for five years. We were...
    ToshiLSB ToshiLSB
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    i miss my ex girl to death its been 8 months

    now she left me for someone else i haven't heard from her since then i can't find it in me to move on for some reason i cling on to her like she is priceless i tried dating,gym,socializing,trips everything nothing seems to work and being with several woman i didn't change a...
    gaby1030 gaby1030
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    hmmmm... its hard for me to confess

    but sometimes she just appeared in my mind like just now. I was asked to join one band to perform. they gonna play 'lost without your love by Bread' and I'm their temporary lead guitar . While I played all I did is thinking of her.Yes, I move on physically ..but I don't know...
    red4x red4x
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    My Irish Love I spy on you

    when you sleep The truth I can’t deny You’re beautiful even when you slumber Always catching my eye Those lovely green eyes Now peacefully closed And the blushing expressions Vacant as sleep does impose You look so tranquil and calm Now snuggled warm in my bed I am...
    darkreality68 darkreality68
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    Working late,I come home well past midnight.

    my body aches, and I long for comfort and cuddling. I undress and shower, the warm water lulling what little mental strength I have left. Clean and dry, I walk into the bedroom. beneath the covers and sheets I see her figure.Satiny hair bussed across my pillow and soft soles...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 24, 2014

    Ever since she left, all I can do is think of

    her. She was everything and the reason to me. Met her in Alaska, took her home to Portland. She was a mix of BPD and NPD, paranoid of the unknown but her personality never really fit any one set type, she was always just her, wonderful and exciting. Contrary to a lot of men in...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 6, 2014

    I figured out why my relationships fail.

    And it's cuz i literally miss my ex girlfriend to death. I have a tendency to date someone too soon after a break up but i really do start to love that person. So i'm up to like 4 exes i miss to death. It started with this girl Kayley, and then this girl Becky, and then Kristin...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx
    16-17, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    I love my current girlfriend with all my heart

    but everyone will always hold a little flame in their heart for their first love. Our relationship ended on horrible terms and she didn't even have the guts to dump me to my face after 3 years of dating. I never saw here again after that last time saying goodbye and see you next...
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    recently my ex messaged me saying how she's

    missed me in her life. I told myself if she ever tried to talk to me again I would either tell her the Fuhhck off or ignore her completely. I couldn't bring myself to do either... so now we're talking as friends. I'm such a p*ssy. I'm angry because I missed her too.
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2014
    weskeralbert weskeralbert
    26-30, M
    Mar 25, 2014

    I've decided that it is time to go on.

    I'm saying goodbye to the old bae and moving forwards. She didn't want any so she ain't getting none. If she was able to move on that easy than so can I. Buh-Bye Bae✌️💔
    Jr2299 Jr2299
    18-21, M
    Feb 1, 2015

    I miss my ex but she lied

    and hide things from me why would I want that back
    jasonurias1 jasonurias1
    22-25, M
    Oct 8, 2014

    I've had an odd experience recently

    and it led to me asking a question on this website. When I was 16 I was at a party and kissed a girl I'd known but never paid attention to. I only kissed her because all my friends had picked up girls at the party, and to be honest, I regretted it the next day. I lacked the...
    gelidor gelidor
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    Still Miss Her After 40 Years

    I have been married 35 years to a great wife with whom I have raised 2 great kids, so the feelings I am experiencing have left me more than confused. Before I met my wife, I had dated a girl while in high school for about 2 years before she ended the relationship...
    damons50 damons50
    41 Responses Jul 8, 2009

    It's Been About A Year...

    It'll be a year since she broke up with me on April 21. I haven't talked to her in about 3 months. I said some aweful things to her in my frustration and anger. Tried to apoligize multiple times but never got a response. To be honest I don't know why I miss her so much. Looking...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 24, 2012

    Can The Love Be Fixed Or Forever Destroyed

    Alright well I I met my baby mama in HS where we end up becoming best friends.We got together had a child when I was 21 and she was 20.She was already living with me at my parents house before getting pregnant.Before getting with her I knew he smoked weed.But after being with...
    potejr87 potejr87
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 24, 2011

    Even Though......

    Even though we were together for 2.1/2 years, but for the last 1.1/2 she treated me like crap at times, I still can't get the sweet memories out of my head. Even though she would run away from me at times, and  I would give up on her, she would always come back to me...
    JorgeV JorgeV
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2010

    Missing You

    i dont know where to start. ill try my best. well i dont know if im in love with my ex or not but i miss her every single day. we broke up for about a year now. but still have somethign for her. we dont even talk. i saw her last month, my heart skiped a beat. we made eye contact...
    livinginthedreams livinginthedreams
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2008

    So Sorry...still Waiting....

    I always loved you...since we kissed at the beach when we were 12...since we kissed in the rain when we were 13.....since we kissed at the dance when we were 14....since we kissed in your living room at 15....since we kissed under the lights in vegas at 16....since we kissed for...
    siccmind siccmind
    18-21, M
    Aug 10, 2011

    I Wonder If You Miss Me Like I Miss You...

    It hasn't been long... I wish these feelings would pass. I wonder if you miss me, like I miss you? Do you wish that I'd call? Do you want to go back to how we were before? Did you really want to push me away? I can't understand why you treated me this way? I miss the way you used...
    dailycell dailycell
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 26, 2013


    For anyone who read my story about my ex Jamie and I... I ended up showing Jamie all I had written after a health scare where she was in the hospital. I knew she was on this website and hoped she would see my posts someday but I decided to man up and just show them to her. And...
    mattandnetta mattandnetta
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jan 16, 2013

    Missing Her

    I messed up a relationship a year-two years ago. I was dating a girl called Emily. She was pretty awesome. A massive nerd but also quite pretty. I was really clingy and hormonal at the time. She dumped me, and I cried and all that ****. But when I look back on it all, I would...
    Adraid Adraid
    18-21, M
    Jul 17, 2013

    I miss having someone

    who understands my problems and knows EXACTLY how I feel inside...I heard this song today played in the supermarket, reminded me of my ex, she dedictaed it to me near the end, when I was starting to turn into the person I am today.. A person completely different.
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2013

    Broken Heart.

    I Don't Know Why I Continue To Put Myself Through This Bull. She's Moved On. She's Happy. But Why Am I So Depressed? I Remember Telling Her If We Ever Did Split That I'd Never Hate Her && Etc. Etc. But Why Am I Feeling This Way? I'm Mad She Found Somebody Else. I Can't Stand The...
    KyDee KyDee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2012

    I Miss Her

    two years ago i met my ex, she was 18 and i was 22. we were in the same english speaking class, however we were 2 of the 4 dutch speakers. so we had something in common during class and we would sit next to eachother anyway. we hit it off pretty good right away, she was a bit...
    phollon2 phollon2
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2012

    A Month Ago...

    One month seems rather small in the eyes of most. It isn’t half a year or a year or even 9 months—the gestation duration. But, to me, it has been akin to a lifetime of sorts. I haven’t been able to sleep, eat, think, or exist without some reminder of the pain I am in...
    siamexPMT siamexPMT
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 14, 2013

    I don't even know where to start it's been a

    year since we've been apart I miss her so much it drives me crazy every day every night I think about her. She's with someone else now I tried so hard to get her to comeback to me. She won't do it she even told me I need to forget about her. I deserve it though I lied to her so...
    caremissingyou caremissingyou
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    She was the better part of me,

    she made me feel alive so alive. So took my breath away just by the way she looked in to my eyes. I miss putting my arms around her while she is doing something like washing up. I miss her soft lips, her kisses sent shivers down my spine made me tingle all over. I was too busy...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014
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