I Miss My Ex-girlfriend

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    I open my heart to you,

    I can feel your pain and anxieties and wonder if you can feel mine. How can I love you still after all these years apart? Why can my heart not let you go? Some days when I think of you I can hardly breath, my heart aches to think you lost that for me that special love I thought...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2016

    Well miss then hate..

    . she decided to reopen contact with me which brought back so much pain, then closed it again after no time at all. We were engaged. Ugh. She told me how much she wanted to be. I buy her a ring and then she breaks my heart. She's on drugs just like I was after she reduced me to...
    LonelyWolf1 LonelyWolf1
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 7, 2016

    My ex still messages me from time to time.

    She knows I'm trying to move on because I still love her despite I was the one that broke it off. I told her she can delete my number anytime he wants if she doesn't want contact yet she still messages me. I miss her again dang it
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 14, 2016

    We only broke up because she was moving

    and I started dating her when my heart finally healed from my first gf cheating on me she was the perfect match for me
    smitlord smitlord
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 8, 2016

    "Deep down my mind obsesses over you

    when it comes to dreams. If there was a way to delete memory, I wouldn't delete you, surprisingly, because it'd be too painful to learn it again. My stomach feels like butterflies whenever I think I hear your name. Then they die instantly. I realize if I think of you during the...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 8, 2016

    I really wish you can just delete memory from

    your brain. Dreaming about your ex sucks. It just makes you miss them or the opposite. Ugh
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    Jan 8, 2016

    I miss her so much! I ****** it all

    up😞😞😞 i can't see or text her anymore forever, shes gone forever, just a memory...3 days ago we were doing just fine, till i screwed it all up, i love her forever i can't get over her! We have so many memories…washed away😞😞😞 i miss her so much, I love you...
    ColbyAkashiya ColbyAkashiya
    31-35, M
    Jan 7, 2016

    My ex-girlfriend and I are still friends.

    Today we hung out and had sex. Great sex. The only problem is I know this encounter will only make her want me back even more. We are not good together as a couple, though.
    CharryICT CharryICT
    36-40, F
    Jan 5, 2016

    Honestly, whenever I here my ringtone from a

    certain app on my phone, my hearts stops a quick second. I don't know when I'll get over my ex girlfriend really.. She's in love with someone else, yet she messages me happy birthday. I want to that same feeling of sparks but simultaneously, I want to move on, because I also...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2016

    I've had an odd experience recently

    and it led to me asking a question on this website. When I was 16 I was at a party and kissed a girl I'd known but never paid attention to. I only kissed her because all my friends had picked up girls at the party, and to be honest, I regretted it the next day. I lacked the...
    gelidor gelidor
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    whwn I was about 21..

    .was going out with a girl who was 17.We worked part time at the same place(she in grade 12) me at a college taking my last year in business administration.I was shy to talk to her...finally after 3 months I asked her out on a date for Valentine's Day.Was good...after a month she...
    Jameswhhos Jameswhhos
    61-65, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    honey, my love, E***,

    I can't get you out of my head.... Love you forever...
    sidnaughtyboy sidnaughtyboy
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015

    It's almost been 3 years

    since i last saw you. You're the only one still in my heart even after talking to other girls and partying trying to forget you, i still think about the good and hard times we had. I would have loved to spend the rest of my life with you, i didnt treat you right and i broke up...
    drizzle401 drizzle401
    26-30, M
    Oct 25, 2015
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh
    18-21, T
    Sep 22, 2015

    I can't watch "Nightmare Before Christmas"

    anymore... Or listen to "Miss You" by blink 182... Or even watch Dan & PHIL anymore... Cause those were our things to do. Our movie, our song. Cause it was a 13 year friendship aswell... Everything that was an inside joke, or that we did a lot hurts now... And being friends...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh
    18-21, T
    Sep 2, 2015

    My ex and I were dating

    for 5 months and 9 days and I had already planned what I was going to do for our 6 month anniversary... See, we love "Nightmare Before Christmas"- that's 'our' movie. And "Miss You" by blink182 was also 'our song', mainly cause of the line "we can live like jack and Sally if we...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh
    18-21, T
    Sep 2, 2015

    It's been a year since me

    and my ex girlfriend broke up. Last time I spoke to her was through a texts she sent asking a question about a previous phone bill question which I replied with a pretty generic answer to cont no contact to help myself move on. We were together for 12years before the break up...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    An open letter to my ex: Dear ----- I can't

    believe it's been a year since we last spoke. In the 12 years we were together I never though you would not be in my life. In some form I always thought we would always be best friends even if we were not together. We saw and experience so much together from young teens to...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29
    31-35, M
    Jul 21, 2015

    Me and my ex girlfriend act like we're still

    together but we do are own thing and I miss being able to claim her
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 20, 2015

    I feel like there is one mistke we could have

    easily avoided that would have kept us together (or kept us from getting together in the first place... I knew her for 3 weeks before starting to date exclusively w/ her. a year and a half long relationship of mental anguish for us both because we moved out of the friendship...
    Yggdrasilian Yggdrasilian
    26-30, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    I agree with you guys.

    I miss my Ex-girlfriend. Her name is Valkyrie Brianna Reed. I miss her a lot. We did everything together. We had a dream That we were going to marry and live a wonderful life but she battled depression and anxiety and PTSD. She had to break up with me because she couldn't be in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 1, 2015

    I am actually a woman.

    Mother of two and I have a step son. Who lives in Overseas. His Half Father, who is.. my baby daddy's Business Partner in the usa ... he is a Hacker, and shared E-med supplying business with my ex-baby daddy Bikalpo. So.. where ever I go.. he , Miki always logged on to my PC...
    halfdentalhalfmental halfdentalhalfmental
    26-30, M
    May 31, 2015

    I wouldn't consider her an ex-girlfriend,

    but more of a very good friend. A while back I lived in Florida, and my friend (let's call her Ashley) and I were both bi-curious and we basically did everything together like a couple. We kissed, held hands in public, and everything. She was very sweet and I could tell her...
    imasweetheart imasweetheart
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    I don't know if anyone would care to read,

    but I want to share. The memory of my ex girlfriend is continuously hunting me, we were together 5 years ago, and unfortunately in December she was found dead in her apartment. Police department revealed that she just slipped getting out of the shower, just like that in one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 31, 2015

    I don't know if anyone would care to read,

    but I want to share. The memory of my ex girlfriend is continuously hunting me, we were together 5 years ago, and unfortunately in December she was found dead in her apartment. Police department revealed that she just slipped getting out of the shower, just like that in one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 31, 2015

    i miss her so much i saw a book online

    that said it can help me get her back i don't even bother with that sort of stuff but i've been thinking about it a lot and i don't know if i should or should't i think at this point i'm willing to try anything, even if it messes with my morales
    IamTheReject IamTheReject
    22-25, M
    May 30, 2015

    I love my current girlfriend with all my heart

    but everyone will always hold a little flame in their heart for their first love. Our relationship ended on horrible terms and she didn't even have the guts to dump me to my face after 3 years of dating. I never saw here again after that last time saying goodbye and see you next...
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    YEP..either in the middle of my work

    or in those quiet moment before I fall asleep..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    May 5, 2015

    They said "it will get easier.

    " When? They said "be strong man." How? Everyday it gets harder to bear. I keep telling myself to "let you go" but you live in my mind. My body aches for yours . My heart just can't seem to accept this void you left in it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 5, 2015

    I do so much to keep my head busy

    but sometimes it's just not enough. I drown myself in work because I don't want to face myself. Because I'm afraid of the pain it brings like tonight. Everything just slipped between my fingers and I just couldn't hold on to you. The worst part is knowing I couldn't make you...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    May 5, 2015

    Oh and she decided to tell me the other day

    that she never loved me and was making it all up. I don't know why, but even though she showed almost no intimacy I still miss her so much.
    GundarKhan GundarKhan
    22-25, M
    Apr 17, 2015
    Nightowl2012 Nightowl2012
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    ****..I feel like nothing is every going to be

    the same...I miss her so much..this friend **** isn't working. I need her back
    MikeOkBurns MikeOkBurns
    18-21, M
    Apr 7, 2015

    How much time does it take to completely don't

    miss her? Because there have been almost three years now and there have not been a single day when i did not miss her It was a two year relationship, i gave her every thing i had, my heart, my soul. She initially also loved me like crazy, we both were very mature and understood...
    fawadaali fawadaali
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 24, 2015
    andytrans andytrans
    18-21, T
    Mar 24, 2015

    My ex girlfriend and I recently started going

    back to the same school and she started giving me letters. Friday the letter she gave me she told me she played me worse than any of her girlfriends and that she loved teasing me and the look I gave her and then told me I'm the only girl she would be a girl in bed for, THEN told...
    BeYourOwn BeYourOwn
    16-17, F
    Mar 22, 2015

    I figured out why my relationships fail.

    And it's cuz i literally miss my ex girlfriend to death. I have a tendency to date someone too soon after a break up but i really do start to love that person. So i'm up to like 4 exes i miss to death. It started with this girl Kayley, and then this girl Becky, and then Kristin...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx
    16-17, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    i miss my ex girl to death its been 8 months

    now she left me for someone else i haven't heard from her since then i can't find it in me to move on for some reason i cling on to her like she is priceless i tried dating,gym,socializing,trips everything nothing seems to work and being with several woman i didn't change a...
    gaby1030 gaby1030
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Lately I've been messaging my ex girlfriend a

    lot. I have mixed feelings about talking to her. One part of me knows its a bad idea for obvious reasons. But the other side really misses her and wants to talk, so i do. Even if it sometimes makes me uncomfortable , sad or jealous. Im usually decent at controlling my feelings...
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    I've decided that it is time to go on.

    I'm saying goodbye to the old bae and moving forwards. She didn't want any so she ain't getting none. If she was able to move on that easy than so can I. Buh-Bye Bae✌️💔
    Jr2299 Jr2299
    18-21, M
    Feb 1, 2015

    Me and the bae just broke up,

    I guess she's the ex-bae now. I don't know why though? I guess she thought I cheated on her with some girl. She said she had caught me holding this girl multiple times. So I started thinking, and there were 3 occasions were my bae caught me "cheating" . 1st-I was with...
    Jr2299 Jr2299
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    She broke up with me today cause she said shes

    a lesbian she was bi when i was dating her but she broke up with me to be a lesbian i miss her so much theres no other girl i would rather but she doesn't want me i need help i need her back if i don't get her back then what is there to live for.
    CrazyGuy78797 CrazyGuy78797
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 12, 2015

    2015 marks a new year without her in my life.

    I never thought it would be like this. She was terrible to me. She lied, she used me, she even said on her own words "I was just using you to fill a void I knew I would fill myself when I went to college". I know I should hate her but we were together for five years. We were...
    ToshiLSB ToshiLSB
    22-25
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    I need my ex girlfriend back ,

    I miss everything about her soo much
    theusunghero3 theusunghero3
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

    I really do. Shes bi

    and with another girl but i would be upset if it was a guy she was with. We fought over the idea of her with another man and she started telling me that we were never official to begin with. I was just someone she had a "thing" with. Someone she went out with but never told...
    pyschobastard pyschobastard
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    hmmmm... its hard for me to confess

    but sometimes she just appeared in my mind like just now. I was asked to join one band to perform. they gonna play 'lost without your love by Bread' and I'm their temporary lead guitar . While I played all I did is thinking of her.Yes, I move on physically ..but I don't know...
    red4x red4x
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    Ever since she left, all I can do is think of

    her. She was everything and the reason to me. Met her in Alaska, took her home to Portland. She was a mix of BPD and NPD, paranoid of the unknown but her personality never really fit any one set type, she was always just her, wonderful and exciting. Contrary to a lot of men in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 6, 2014

    recently my ex messaged me saying how she's

    missed me in her life. I told myself if she ever tried to talk to me again I would either tell her the Fuhhck off or ignore her completely. I couldn't bring myself to do either... so now we're talking as friends. I'm such a p*ssy. I'm angry because I missed her too.
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2014

    Welp.. never thought I would really think of her

    as much as I have been, honestly.. I may have moved on physically but emotionally my heart will always be with her, shes kept it for so long, its something thats just there, she may not know it but its there and always will be. I have thought about her ever since I made the...
    EastCoastKush EastCoastKush
    13-15, M
    Dec 3, 2014

    well, its been over a year

    or so and yeah, i still think about her from time to time. i sometimes wonder if we could of made it as a couple and stuff. she had a lot of problems at home and at school, as well as emotionally. when we were dating, so we didn't last much. but it was a great experience for me...
    toboewolfboy toboewolfboy
    18-21, M
    Nov 25, 2014

    Working late,I come home well past midnight.

    my body aches, and I long for comfort and cuddling. I undress and shower, the warm water lulling what little mental strength I have left. Clean and dry, I walk into the bedroom. beneath the covers and sheets I see her figure.Satiny hair bussed across my pillow and soft soles...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 24, 2014

    I miss my ex when I talk to her

    but the moment I talk to my current girlfriend I completely forget about her. She's still my best friend though.
    OneMoreTurn OneMoreTurn
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    Am I stupid? My ex gf

    who cheated and stole from me has been married several years, now she's seeing someone else and it realllly is bothering me. We were still friends and had talked till the lady few months
    Chucklesh Chucklesh
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Oct 29, 2014

    I don't miss her anymore.

    Now, I have to explain this. Okay, umm, I'm no longer held in place by the idea that I need to be with her. I feel I'm in a place of moving on. I know this sounds cliched but its the truth. I'm not moving on to someone else. I'm moving on from the desire of texting her, that...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2014

    Nights like these make me miss her more

    than anything. I miss our late night phone calls and I just miss hearing her voice and her laugh. I wonder if she ever thinks about me and I hope she's doing ok. I should hate her, but I don't. I just miss being there for her. I miss being the reason she smiles everyday. Our...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2014

    You have to accept that things changed

    and they aren't coming back. It only gets better once you accept that. However I haven't
    bdawkins302 bdawkins302
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    I miss my ex but she lied

    and hide things from me why would I want that back
    jasonurias1 jasonurias1
    22-25, M
    Oct 8, 2014

    I am 48 years of age.

    I have been a happily married man for nearly 10 years. I had a girlfriend at the end of high school we will call her GR. She was a beautiful girl and wonderful person who truly loved me. It was bad timing she was looking for serious and marriage. I was not even close. I was an...
    frankred frankred
    51-55
    1 Response Sep 30, 2014

    4 months ago my ex of 4.

    5 years broke up with me and I still miss her... This sux
    fjr11 fjr11
    26-30, M
    Sep 25, 2014
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