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I Miss My Ex

Support and Personal Stories for People who miss their ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfrend, ex-husband, or ex-wife 1,513 People

    It's been almost a month

    since we called it off.. we agreed it would be mutual because I've known for awhile now that it hasn't been the same. It doesn't make it hurt any less.. the last time we spoke he thanked me for always being there through his darkest times to which I told him that no matter where...
    SaraBear87 SaraBear87 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    HELPP ! So guys like ive said

    before i lost my virginty to my bf of almost two years and after 1 month of having had sex with me he left me. People keep telling me to move on and not contact him and i want to but its soo hard . He was my first and i feel like im never going to find anyone better who loved me...
    anaisxp anaisxp 16-17, F Sep 26

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    Truth is you are a good person.

    We were together for 8 years, and I know most of that time you were no longer in love with me. You still cared enough to stay, because you knew I would fall apart by myself. I left because I couldn't pretend anymore. You accepted it gratefully for the same reason. I'm alone now...
    justbelieve justbelieve 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I could never imagine how much I could love

    somebody... And looking back at it, the love I had for you was absolutely ******* beautiful. I ******* lost my mind. I went to the ******* nut house numerous times. I got to know myself more than I ever planned to. I lost my ******* pride in life, my status, and health(I gained...
    northexit182 northexit182 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I Want To Toss Out The Trash

    You broke my heart and took me for granted. You showed me the most amazing joy and the most crippling pain. You raised me up and you knocked me down... again, and again, and again. And I let you. Heck, I *made* you. I presented my heart, no matter what you did, time and time...
    LovesLaborsLost LovesLaborsLost 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    I don't miss us being together

    as a couple because every time we were together I wasn't feeling happy. It was a fake happiness that i swept under the rug for a long time. I had this underlying doubt about us and that doubt grew more and more as we were dating. What I do miss is how we'd laugh and joke like...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    When I was twenty, I worked at a small

    but busy restaurant waiting tables. That is where I met him. He came in every day. He was fashionably nerdy if that makes any sense with a gorgeous smile. He was sarcastic, funny and eight years older than me. He gave me his number. I realized that his number was long distance...
    screaminginside81 screaminginside81 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I moved to australia recently

    and met the love of my life. I have considered myself bisexual for a long time now but i have never had a gay relationship before. Hes kind, funny, caring, motivated; hes everythign that i ever wanted in a partner. But he was from Brazil and had to move back. We tried to do the...
    justian321 justian321 22-25 Oct 25

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    I was just thinking about my first ever

    boyfriend and started listening to 'Headlines by Drake' which was his favourite song. Now I think about it... "I may be might be too strong out on compliments, over dosed on confidence, starting not to give a **** and stop fearing the consequence." ... He was one cocky...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Hell no i do not.That w*ore lied cheated ad

    stole from meShe slept with any guy with a pulse, whether she was i a relationship or not.I wish i had one of these when i was with her hahah
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Oct 19

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    today i was hurting in school

    when i saw the ex in the hallway.....I've been hurting for the past 7 months I've kept my emotions bottled up inside for a very long time it has been tearing me apart... I fake a smile everyday pretending that im over her but truly i am no where near over her For seven months...
    CESARR7 CESARR7 18-21, M 2 Responses May 27

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    Just realized today it'll be 2 months

    since we physically saw each other on 1st June. Makes me feel sad. The absence and longing for someone, who seems to mutually miss you. It's really tough. I am stuck in another city with no set date for moving back to where he is aka no chance of trying again in the foreseeable...
    Ariadni8 Ariadni8 26-30, F May 25

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    So we might be hanging out this weekend :) I

    miss him so much but then again I have a feeling this is gonna go bad...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Nov 19

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    It's very hard to accept she can stop loving me

    so easily I know I need to quit reading through old text, FB messages, and emails wondering how all those things she said and felt can mean nothing now... I want to fix it but really the more I try the further away I push her letting go is so hard because that hope she'll find...
    DeLos1985 DeLos1985 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm aching all the way down to my bones.

    I don't understand how love can just vanish like this for him.
    Keritastic Keritastic 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I was moving on but today I thought about my ex

    because I was on fb and her ex from long ago who had a history with said he liked a girl who had a "e" in her first name and "a" at the beginning of her first name. Which is my ex I assume because my ex has a "e" in her first name and a "a" I'm her last name. Anyways I creeped...
    kem99 kem99 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    I hate when relationships end

    because your too far away from each other... I miss him. So now I'm single 😭😔
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F Oct 12

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    It's been about 3-4 months

    since he unexpectedly walked out of my life and now I feel sad.
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    Yah. He said he isn't sure anymore

    if he still loves me that's why he left... Idk why though.. I never did anything wrong.. :(
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    I met my bf in a conference

    and we fell deeply in love.. After 4 months of a deep and intense relationship, he confessed that he is unhappily married with 2 kids. I was shocked, but it was already too late. I was madly in love. 2 months later, he just told me that he can't go on. He didn't say much...
    Soseeta Soseeta 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Familiar Tracks

    I miss the simplicity of a past relationship.. when all the kinks have been worked out and the comfort of a warm sweater has taken over.. I miss him... I miss his voice.. and the way he'd laugh at road runner cartoons.. i miss the way he'd lay into me and say "baby girl...
    RocknRose RocknRose 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    Honestly, I'm like crying

    because I miss my ex so much. (I live in Arizona, he lives in Florida.) I never thought I would say that. Aha. Even though he was an *******, he was such a sweetheart the first few months we were dating. He was so clingy, which I didnt mind at all. I loved every conversation we...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    You

    I thought of you today.It has been over 2 years since we were last together.I'm with some one else now.I'm happy, happier than I have ever been...But I thought of you today.I looked you up on facebook, looks like you deleted your profile.I can't help but wonder what your up to...
    Dannyyak Dannyyak 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    I feel so stupid and pathetic

    whenever I think about you. You should have been forgotten months (year(s)) ago...but you have not left my mind long enough to be forgotten.
    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    My mom doesn't understand

    that I honestly need to talk to him. Yeah I know we broke up and I can't handle being friends with him but honestly I need him to know how much he actually hurt me. I'm still in love with him, but it wasn't meant to be I guess. He doesn't understand what pain he put me through...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Oct 18

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    It's funny, I've often wondered

    why I hold onto you so fiercely. So tenderly, so dearly. objectively, it could be something of misplaced affection. Technically speaking, you were never mine. You never wanted to submit to calling yourself my boyfriend. And still, even in the ambiguity of misguided loving...
    Ariadni8 Ariadni8 26-30, F Oct 5

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    The Neverending Story

    We starting dating nearly six years ago. Both of us were young and lived a crazy, have fun party lifestyle. We always had one of those super passionate relationships, but with every overly amazing portion, we had even worse dark periods of fighting. It was never physical, but the...
    themanicmind themanicmind 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2009

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    I dated a girl through school.

    We started in the 6th grade and made it to high school. She turned my world and she had my heart. We 6 years. We had plans for the rest of our life, but some things happened and I had move schools. We lived 5 miles from each other and schools were only 15 miles from each other...
    MTW9983 MTW9983 18-21, M Nov 19

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    So heres my story guys.

    I need some feedback .I lost my virginty to my boyfriend of 1 year and 7 months. After 1 month of having had sex with me he left me. He said he was tried of all the fighting and how i would hit him sometimes. I know hitting in a relationship is wrong but i never bruised him or...
    anaisxp anaisxp 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    We were best friends

    before things got serious. We were incredibly close, to the point where we'd speak everyday for most of the day. We broke up a couple of months ago, and I just feel so lonely. It's not really the fact that I'm not in the relationship, but it's more towards the fact that I don't...
    IrritatedSloth IrritatedSloth 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 17

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    Talking to him makes me miss him more :( I

    would do anything to have him back even though my parents don't like him.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Happy Is The Day

    green are the trees,bright is the sun and deep are the memories of me and you, quick on my feet I run away from the pain,only to have it follow just as quickly, handsome is my knife,sharp is its blade, I don't know how long I shall last from this fate, happy are my friends, sad...
    theburningstar theburningstar 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    Long story short: we went out in 8th grade,

    broke up after 6 months (we knew each other for 2 years). We broke up on really really bad terms. Now we are seniors. He's not always on my mind, but I'll think about him from time to time. But I don't know why tonight I had the urge to see his profile(s). I seem like such a...
    nekafo nekafo 16-17, F Oct 1

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    I was 11 when I met my ex

    while ice scating. It was love at first sight. We only started seeing each other when I was 14 and he was 18. He used to come visit me on his motorbike after school. I was so smitten. He was my first love and I gave my all, no holding back, at that age I innocently believed it...
    HisOnlyForever HisOnlyForever 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    My ex broke up with me

    and I thought I would be fine but really I'm not.we were dating for nine months and then he broke up with me.i just sometimes think what could I have done to make us stay together.all I think about is him and we broke up like 8 months ago.now he has a new girlfriend and i was so...
    enwood2002 enwood2002 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I miss my best friend

    so much. He'll never understand how much I need him. Not only did I lost my boyfriend but I also lost my best friend.
    kaceeeytl kaceeeytl 16-17, F Nov 17

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    It's close to 2 months

    that I have no communication with him ... I think it finally hit me ... There is no turning back ... I asked God for a good man an sure enough he came ... But he has baggage that I could not accept . He gave me great memories an there for it hurts to let him go 😔
    ev23 ev23 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I should've listened to your needs.

    You were the best relationship I ever had. You told me you wanted to actually know me... Why didn't I let you? Every time we were together, it was never short of fun and loving. The only person I know who will travel an hours way in the middle of the night just to give me a...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F Aug 13

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    Sigh...

    I haven't talked to him (except through text) since we broke up. The other day I was checking my voicemail, and the voicemail always (annoyingly) goes through old messages before you hear the new one. Anyway, there were two old messages from him, and listening to them hit like a...
    livingalie1 livingalie1 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    I still love him so much,

    and i wish he was mine. It's not fair how I lost him.
    BusyInMyFantasy BusyInMyFantasy 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I miss my ex soo much he was really messed up

    with me towards the end he would make me feel bad and turn me down for sex even :( and tell me mean things and then 1 month after taking my virginty he left me and then i found out he cheated on me i swear it hurt so much my chest felt physical pain and i cried for days and...
    anaisxp anaisxp 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    He was the only person

    that understood me and now he hates me ..
    Hypnoticc Hypnoticc 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    There are times when he is forgotten,

    almost like he never happened. I go along with my day and with my boyfriend and I am happy. And then, all it takes is one song, or one movie, or one place, and I am suddenly remembering that, yes, I AM happy. But not as happy as I was with him. I have written him letters...
    reppindetroit reppindetroit 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 13

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    I'm not one to talk down about anyone

    or anything.. But when I choose to please note it's not to be rude. The other night I peacefully rested and was dreaming about my ex. I guess you could say wondering about her lead to the nasty. And I mean the real nasty.. It was a nightmare! I was terrified, her scent was no...
    XnOXnO XnOXnO 22-25, M Nov 6

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    A couple months ago, I broke it off with my Ex.

    I hadn't seen him in months. For the past couple months, we only text and the relationship was becoming more and more distant. I knew it was inevitable. So, I text him a long message about how I was unhappy. He said, "I can't get through this without crying." I replied, "Then...
    DeMarcusKinkle DeMarcusKinkle 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    So I'm back here yet again!

    A call out of the blue last night. My ex asking how I was feeling after serious depression and attempted suicides. I ended up going to his house and we spent the night happy and talking. With a few tears from both of us. And him hugging me this morning and cuddling me to stop me...
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 22-25, F Sep 28

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    Well, it was hard to admit to myself.

    . It's been more than a year! Sometimes I pray to God to make me forget you. But I can't. Why? :( Why do you only make me feel this way...  v u l n e r a b l eEven after all the wrong things you've done to me. If I would make a list of pros and cons, I'm sure there would be...
    AmyL0ve AmyL0ve 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    What I Would Do

    I would sell my soul to the devil for an eternity in hell just to spend a life time of happiness with you
    OceansofEmotions OceansofEmotions 26-30, M 8 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    I don't even know if I can ca him that

    because we never had an exclusive title though we slept exclusively with one another. We saw each other every single day. Honestly. I miss him so much and it hurts that I can no longer see him as often because we now live in different countries. But I know he misses me too. I...
    SpiritualBunny SpiritualBunny 22-25, F Oct 6

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    Some I miss and some I don't.

    I miss the Jersey accent. I also miss the Tennessee accent, and the Texas accent. I miss the guys who had those accents, sometimes. Mainly I miss them for their accents.
    ladybug76 ladybug76 36-40, F Oct 23

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    I shouldn't have told him to get out of my life

    because he got a new girlfriend. I seriously miss him even though I'm happy without him. I looked through our photos today and seeing how happy I was with him, yeah I just want him back. You live and learn I guess. Anyhow I'm not going to stop that from making me happy
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 31

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