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I Miss My Husband So Much It Hurts

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    Miss My Husband

    My husband left for another woman 5 months ago. We were together 18 yrs, married 11, have 3 girls. Even though I'm probably better off without him in the long run, he had become a bit of a ****, its still very hard. I miss the person he really is. I miss his presence physically...
    Moonbeam72 Moonbeam72 36-40 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    Newly Wed.. and Already Alone.

    Hi. im new on here and i really dont get how this works lol. but anyway, i am 20 and i just got married. i know its a bit young but, we are in love and i dont want to be with anyone else nor does he. he is the perfect man for me... except he is in the navy. we got married in may...
    WednesdayKalei WednesdayKalei 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 10, 2009

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    My Forever Soulmate and Bestfriend

    I was only sixteen and i thought i would never find a man that i could love as much as i loved my dad until i met Danny i knew the minute he touched my hand that i was gonna marry him. we dated for two years and he waited for me and when i was 17 he asked me to marry him but i...
    misty2000 misty2000 41-45 3 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    My first husband was killed in a car accident

    in 1983. We were only married for 2 1/2 years. I was heart broken. I never thought I would ever find happiness again. Then in 1996, I married the most amazing guy that ever existed, He suffered a heart attack and died in 2009. I miss him so very much. It has been 4 1/2 years...
    Penelope1995 Penelope1995 56-60, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    I Still Miss Him...

    I met my dearest one when he picked me up hitchhiking...! I was going to my then boyfriend's for Thanksgiving, and he took me out there -- but made sure he had my phone number first! Yes, he called.. and as we talked, it became clear that his mind and mine worked in very similar...
    Momcat52 Momcat52 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    Adem And Nisuh

    My love my everyting adem...he live in usa and I"m liveing in kuwait I"m so loney and miss hem so much I"pery every singl day that to get hem always by my said ady
    nisuh nisuh 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    I Made A Mistake And I Have To Live With The Consequences

    So I finally ended my 7yr relationship with the man I intended to spend the rest of my life with. 4 yrs we fought to be together we made the unthinkable happen (we were just 2 random ppl who met online 1000s of miles apart) During those 4yrs we argued, split up but always seemed...
    anewme11 anewme11 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Cold As Ice

    Two weeks before comming home for my birthday celebration usual holiday hubby and i had a major arguement about our future, my life changed three days after I arrived home at my parents home several  hundred miles away. I recieved a devestating phone call from him he was calling...
    weepingheart1978uk weepingheart1978uk 31-35 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Missing My Husband Of 11yrs.

    I've been married with my husband for 11 years. He has been the only man I have ever been in my life. We have two awesome boys and I'm 19 wks pregnant with another boy. 3 months ago me and my boys caught him with another girl. It was horrible, very painful. I have dedicated 11...
    Liliana81 Liliana81 26-30 Apr 30, 2012

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    How Soon Is Soon?

    My husbandis a soldier, like many others. He went to Iraq last june. Well I went to USMC basic and so those first three months I was entirely occupied, though instead of learning my chain of command I daydreamed about him. Well basically it came down to the Corps or him. I...
    littlered1011 littlered1011 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Missing Jim

    Hi, my name is Kimberly. i lost my husband James in September of this year. We were married for 19 beautiful yrs. We have a 19 yr. old son who will be going into Airforce in 2 mos. My Jim unexpectedly went onto Cardiac Arrest, he wasnt found for 25 mins. He was on support for 5...
    missingmyhoney missingmyhoney 36-40 2 Responses Dec 3, 2008

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    Missing Husband Badlly

    I miss my husband so much it hurts ,he had left two days before Christmas ,because we had a spat  from him accussing me of having an affair,which I wasn't because I love him so much . I wouldn't do that to him even though he  kept accussing me. The children don't want...
    kittycatsthomas kittycatsthomas 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    Missing Him So Very Very Much

    My husband died in February this year, we met when we were very young, have two gorgeous girls and now my life is in ruins. He was such a good man, together for over 30 years. He fought and fought to stay alive for me and the girls, he went through so much horrible, painful...
    jlm1407 jlm1407 46-50 3 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    My Husband...my Hero

    My husband has been in the Army National Guard for 16 years.  The deployments overseas are so hard.  I want to show my support not only to my husband, but all the men and women who show courage and strength daily by doing what they do.   
    armyhasmyhusbandihavehisheart armyhasmyhusbandihavehisheart 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    hellokitti hellokitti 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Dear you, I hope you know I'm sorry. That hurting you was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made, because I didn't realize how much I had until I lost you and everything fell...
    allidoisread allidoisread 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    On Saturday, August 2nd 2014, my grandmother of 82 years passed away.It wasn't just an old age passing, or a passing in a hospital. No. It was a suffocateonyourownblood death.The...
    colormestupid colormestupid 22-25, F Aug 6

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    I have been with my husband since 9th grade. Friends often ask me what's or secret for a long happy relationship. All I can tell them is that my husband is my best friend, we have...
    Blondeblueyegirl Blondeblueyegirl 41-45, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Imagine waking up one day and not having somebody to call mommy, nobody to tell you they love you , nobody to give you a welcome back from school , no one to hold you and hug you...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 2

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    I met my boyfriend at his sentencing believe it or not. I was working in the court system. Nobody should know this but we both have accepted it. He was given a two-year sentence...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I miss you. And I'm ashamed of how much I do. Makes no sense. Just hurts. Maybe it was a replacement thing. I thinks it's because now I'm back to grieving my husband. Which may...
    NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys NotmyCircusNotmymonkeys 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met this guy John February of 2013. We gotten really close, feelings started to develop, then finally he told me he loved me around May. I know it only took us 4 months to fall...
    Nroses77 Nroses77 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I miss my grandma so so much. I have my moments when I need her the most but she's not here. I'm cleaning my room and I find her jacket she always wore and I just start crying. If...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F Jul 31

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    Here's to all the people that lost or miss someone whether it's family or a loved one, someone they truly cared about. And bros, if you have a girl that truly loves you don't go...
    LoneWolfNation LoneWolfNation 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

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    I miss him so much! I've been trying so hard to be strong, but I could not hold back the tears anymore.
    soniaaveti soniaaveti 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    God, I am sooooo tired of hearing him whine about how his ex wife cheated on him and left him for another man. Let's see, he is 6'4", gorgeous, built like a god, sexy as hell...
    mrstonie mrstonie 46-50, F 2 hrs ago

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    I hide my tears from the world I hide my body I don't let anyone know how I feel inside! I miss my ex!! I miss talking to him about everything we had real love I can't express!! He...
    Ashawnte Ashawnte 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hello Everyone, I have been a widow now,since November, 2013,and I still miss my husband as much as I did,the day he died. I can't listen to live songs,watch love scenes on TV or...
    missyr1970 missyr1970 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I've been with my now ex-boyfriend for about 10 years ( on and off ). We broke up about 3 1/2 months ago. You would think that I would get use to breaking up since we've done it so...
    According2Me According2Me 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I miss being young, in several ways. Part if me wants to be at the age of playing with cars was magical. But that brings back bad memories due to many stressors in my family life...
    UPSsux UPSsux 31-35, M Aug 12

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    My mum died on June 23rd 2014 I saw her die. I miss her so much it hurts, I have only just realised she is gone the past few days. I cry every night and have to try and force...
    cjs1996 cjs1996 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    It's been just over a year since my husband of 34 years passed away. I still miss my friend. It wasn't a perfect marriage but I still loved him so. We were so much alike. We were...
    hedda105 hedda105 51-55 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    its only been a few hours but i miss you so much. I came home from work tonight and followed my usual procedure of logging on to talk to you.....then i realized that today i said...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I miss him so much it literally hurts. It's so crazy, never knew that was possible. I just want that connection we had. I swear it was like something out of a movie, Never knew...
    freeebird freeebird 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Song-time! Nothing cheers up like a spontaneous musical act! (Well, I can think of quite a few things actually, but that's besides the point!) When the day is long and the...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    It's been a month and 2 weeks now😢 I miss my boyfriend so much. He was locked up on July 3 and released but then the next day we had planned to go see fireworks. Worst 4th of...
    sharizzle sharizzle 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I wanna write "I miss you" on a rock and throw it at your face so you know how much it hurts to miss you.
    acidblue02 acidblue02 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Robin Williams was one of my favorite comedians as a kid. Patch Adams means a lot to me, and shaped what I thought I wanted to be like when I was all grown up. Losing him feels...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    He was my best friend from the time I was 8-17 and then **** happened...we fell in love during the last summer we were actually friends or at least that's the closest I've ever...
    hannahgraceaa hannahgraceaa 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    My auntie was my best friend. She committed suicide at 18yrs. The sudden death still hurts. I miss her soo much 20yrs on and I think of her every day. I dreamt of her and my granny...
    daisybell7 daisybell7 36-40, F Jul 27

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    even though im not allowed near him and he hates me i listen to all the songs that bring back memory of him, just the way you are, ill be waiting, phir mohabbat, zulfa, perfect two...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    My dad is deployed right now and I miss him so much it hurts. I have no idea when he's coming back either and I haven't heard from him in a while. I want him to come home so the...
    SuperMoose28 SuperMoose28 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    So the love of my life just left for home via the train. I miss him so much already…I cannot hold the emotion inside. It hurts not to have him here with me. Not having him here...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I see my aunt once a year, she's the only person in my life who understands me and gives me advice and really cares, I get two weeks with her each year and I've just come back from...
    mills2104 mills2104 13-15, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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