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I Miss My Husband

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    We just had the most intense phone sex ever .

    WOW. Then one of the best discussions . Then laughed our ***** off . I hate being so far away from him . Hope I can make it to him , and surprise him .
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    Open to my husband I miss you

    so damn much it hurts every day. Why did you have to love her more then us? What did she give you that we couldn't it would have been easier to understand had it been a women but no its a damn drug a chemical replaced your family in your heart. I gave you everything I have to...
    shaylademps shaylademps 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    It's been almost 3 months

    since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an even bigger heart and The patience of a saint. Always taking the time to try and help someone to better themselves . I'll...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    He's not dead or anything.

    But he works A LOT and when he is home he just wants to b left alone. I miss talking to him.
    blugurl blugurl 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    Not Long Now :)

    My husband came home for R&R a few weeks ago, now he's hoping to be home March 10th, although this is likely to change I'm excited, if it does change ot will only be put back a week I think. I can't wait for him to come home. I miss him more than ever since he came home for R...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    Worse Today

    Today has been a little worse. I went christmas shopping so I have been thinking about how hard it will be without him.....I hate that he'll be away. Yesterday we talked about a lot of stuff. He knows I have alwasy wanted to foster but he has always said never, he won't do it...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    My husband and I are

    both in the U.S. Military as officers. We are in the Air Force and stationed at different military installations. My husband is overseas and I am stateside. We are currently separated by almost 3,000 miles the Pacific Ocean. He will be back home in 9 months. He will arrive...
    femaleinhomesaunaandpool femaleinhomesaunaandpool 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    We are getting a divorce

    and he moved in with his mother the day he got served with the papers. He still comes over like everyday. I miss him not being here when I wake up :(
    formermartin81 formermartin81 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    My husband is working the late shift tonight

    and I miss him terribly. It is like our bed doesn't feel right without him in it :-(
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2014

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    This Weekend

    My husband is going to be working long hours this weekend because he took on some extra work. It shouldn't matter as much. I never get to sleep in the same bed with him since he works the graveyard shift and he is arriving home when I am just barely waking up. Even on the days he...
    FortressV FortressV 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I really miss my husband.

    I lost him August 15, 2014. We were married for 12 1/2 years together for 14. We have two kids. Some days are ok, some are so unbearable that I feel like I will never feel happy again. He was my best friend. I am having a really hard time with his death.
    kwickham75 kwickham75 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    My Soul Mate Is Gone, My Life Has Been Destroyed.

    I met my husband the summer of 1999 while playing volley ball at the river.  I had recently came out of a relationship that was not so great and was not looking for a relationship.  We hit it off right away and became great friends.  By Oct 2000, we were married...
    GeneosLady GeneosLady 41-45, F 23 Responses Jun 5, 2007

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    Today marks the 5th month

    since you passed. The more times passes, the more I miss you. These holidays without you is hurting me deeply. The only thing keeping me going is our daughter. I can't have her see me down. It's not fair to her at all. Decorating your stone today was fun. Freezing outside...
    DeeplyLoves DeeplyLoves 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Hello all, I came across this link looking

    for others that were about my late husband who was killed after leaving work and the killers still have not been found...that was 7/24/12. A lot like all of you, it's so very hard as although I have moved on with my life and re-married there isn't a day I don't talk to him, cry...
    MickiJackson MickiJackson 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2014

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    Everything I Had Is Gone

    My husband of 13 years has left me and please don't anyone get on here and say he was an *** and I'm better off.  He was the best spouse ever and I just wore him down with my personal issues and verbal abuse.  I should have gotten counseling.  I offered that - or...
    MetalFatigue MetalFatigue 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    I Miss My Shorter Half

      Yes my husband was shorter than I, didn't really mind, but when we walked together and passed a store window and I saw our reflection    I did laugh a few times, I lost him two yrs. ago to cancer.... sorry lets go back and correct that, he died two...
    grams grams 56-60, F 8 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    I just lost my husband July 10th 2014 from a

    massive heart attack. We have been together for 12 years - married for 9. He had heart disease in his family - lost his dad when he was 45 and his uncle at 28. He had just been to the doctor the day before - routine for a cold - NO SIGNS - I dont understand. I cant stop...
    margob74 margob74 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    REMEMBERANCES

    IN MEMORIAL OF JOHN V. HOLT, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE   REMEMBRANCES September 2nd, 2005 Looking at the clock I noted the time to be 11:35 p.m. I held on to him tightly telling him how much I loved him and how happy he made me. His breathing was labored, it had been all...
    SUNNY1212 SUNNY1212 61-65 2 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    We are going to be apart a few days

    and I miss him already :(
    xoSincerelyYoursxo xoSincerelyYoursxo 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (New International

    Version) Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always...
    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F Nov 4, 2014

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    My Husband Was Wounded In Iraq Then Became Addicted to His Prescription Medication...

    Because of his addiction he overdosed. I found him and he ended up in the hospital for days. After that they would not let him live at home because the military wanted to keep an eye on him.  They put him in the barracks at the hospital in DC. This was in December. We haven...
    wifeofawoundedmarine wifeofawoundedmarine 22-25 2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Missing Him

    missing his "hi wife" sms in the middle of work, missing him when he enters home with a huge smile saying "hiiii darling", missing his acts while we prepare dinner together, missing his kiss on the forehead while i work, missing his "hayyyyyyyooooooo" while i tease him, missing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    It's been one week. My alarm went off,

    I pressed the snooze, I listened like I did every morning for my husbands snore to keep me from falling back to sleep. I hit snooze, he breathed a few times and stopped. I stopped breathing listening for his next breath. I reached over in the dark and pushed his chest. Within...
    PinkFrenchie PinkFrenchie 31-35, F 4 Responses May 27, 2014

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    My first year without you my love.

    Wish you stayed home the night you left and ignored me. I learned this one life we get, we can't leave family friends or loved ones angry. There's no reason to just turn away and walk out.At my age, I learned being widow isn't prejudice with age. Nothing in life is worth just...
    DeeplyLoves DeeplyLoves 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    I Miss Him Some Times But Not Always

    You should be in my marriage....I'm not...lol...he is gone 3 to 5 days every week....and I just stay around with nothing to do but go to the beach or fishing....mostly fishing....! plant a new flower...play with the dog....if he is on a 5 day trip I some times go for...
    Leiza350 Leiza350 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Because we are going on vacation he has been

    working way more than usual and tonight he doesn't get off until way late. So now I'm stuck missing him :-(
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    My husband is at sea,

    a professional officer in the navy, home infrequent, does not bother with love and sex, very frustrating.
    Roberto6699 Roberto6699 36-40, F Oct 29, 2014

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    I wish I could turn back time.

    The argument over something so small wouldn't lead you to leaving. Ignoring me was the most hurtful remembrance I have. You ignored my calls and my text, when I only wanted to say I love you.When the dust clears up, and the damage has been done I always feel so bad for doing us...
    DeeplyLoves DeeplyLoves 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Appreciate Your Soldier

    Instead of feeling mad at them for leaving you with everything kids, house and life remember they had a commitment to fulfill and are doing a wonderful job. Faith can get you thru anything. You don't have to see or touch your husband to know how much you care for one another. Our...
    luvmylt luvmylt 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    My Husband Is Soon to Leave..

    my husband and i met last september, and this year in march, we were married. he was supposed to be leaving in august, but they changed it to june (this month). then a little while ago, they changed it to september 11th.. isnt that ironic? im choosing to take that as a good omen...
    Cordelia Cordelia 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2007

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    I Miss My Husband!!!

    Seems like the new story of my life "I miss my husband." We were married in September and about 2 weeks later we found out we were expecting. In January he left for training in Fort Benning. I had basically just started to get used to my new life...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    My heart breaks reading stories from women

    who have lost their husbands. Mine passed away two months ago after a year and half battle. I always thought he would get better. We have two children and one grandchild. I hurt for them but also for myself. We were married 28 years but I wish I had another 28 with him. I...
    magnoliahill magnoliahill 46-50, F May 31, 2014

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    We live together, we work in the same hospital,

    we work the same days, we drive to work together....... But we still in love with each other
    hzel1323 hzel1323 26-30, F Jul 23, 2014

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    My fiancé died 3 weeks ago.

    .. We met when we were 16. Since then we were trying to be together but couldn't... In my birthday we met again, without the problems of the past. We were still in love, and decided to move together and engage. 6 beautiful months after that, 3 weeks ago, and 1 month before our...
    Christiana2 Christiana2 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    he just isnt the man I married.

    this addiction has changed him so much and I am so alone and left with lies and secrets.
    taram1411 taram1411 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    my husband passed away 14 months ago

    and i still cant bring myself to let go and not cry anymore. will my pain ever be lifted? i miss him too much and i think of him dearly...especially when im alone. this pass spring when the cotton tree bloomed and the cotton fell from it, the smell only brought back memories...
    goodwitch011070 goodwitch011070 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    We are still married

    and he is right beside me every night, but at the same time it is like he's not even there,
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Exactly one week ago my husband decided

    after 13 years of being together, married for seven, he is unhappy and moved out. We have 2 very young children. When asked why his response was: 1. We had a bad 3 years after my 1st and 2nd child were born. 2. He feels I checked out of our marriage. 3. He feels unwanted by...
    isthismylifereally isthismylifereally 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    I think he may enjoy men

    rather than me
    Roberto6699 Roberto6699 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    My husband has been incarcerated

    for 7 months. He has to serve 2 yrs, but unfortunately he is still in the county jail due to overcrowding of the prisons. He is my best friend, my rock, my praying buddy, my lover and my soulmate. He was a good provider and he loves and respects me unconditionally. When he first...
    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Pregnant With First Child and Husband's Deploying

    Hi, My name is Andrea and I've been married to a marine for 6 months.  My husband is stationed in Oceanside and I don't really know anybody here.  I'm 4 months pregnant and I'm really stressed and was just looking for someone to talk to.  I don't really know what...
    deiawells deiawells 26-30 7 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    There must be a hundred reasons

    why I left. The biggest one was him wanting to know why I didn't trust him enough to obey him. That was the reason that got me shoving stuff in bin bags. But some of the others are. He never ever touched me. He would hug me. Peck me. But that's all. He had given up...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 9

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    I lost my husband if fourth five years last

    week. Freddie I miss you. He told he before he passed away to try and become a social butterfly. And I'm tryin my best.
    Jenniferheart Jenniferheart 70+, F 8 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    I do not live in the past: all the time !

    ! I miss my husband, I lived every minute of my life for a lot of years just to make him happy. He never left my mind, even in the worst of the worst fights we had, even if I cried for 3 days before he put an end to the fight. It didn't matter, I loved him and it was always him...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F Jun 3, 2014

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    My husband has been gone

    for nearly 4 years. He is not allowed near me as he could be arrested and is not altogether a nice man. In four years I haven't let myself miss him or think about him much accept in therapy. Today I missed him for the first time. I miss how he would text me every day to see how...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    I can avoid thinking about it most days

    because I do my best to stay distracted, but I miss him so badly. I miss the way he always made me laugh and the way he made me feel like everything would be okay. I felt at home by his side so now t he is gone I feel a little lost. The worst part about the whole thing is trying...
    IamnothereIjustappeartobe IamnothereIjustappeartobe 41-45, F 8 Responses