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I Miss My Husband

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    I can avoid thinking about it most days

    because I do my best to stay distracted, but I miss him so badly. I miss the way he always made me laugh and the way he made me feel like everything would be okay. I felt at home by his side so now t he is gone I feel a little lost. The worst part about the whole thing is trying...
    IPleadthe5th IPleadthe5th 41-45 8 Responses Feb 13

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    It's been almost 3 months

    since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an even bigger heart and The patience of a saint. Always taking the time to try and help someone to better themselves . I'll...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    my husband passed away 14 months ago

    and i still cant bring myself to let go and not cry anymore. will my pain ever be lifted? i miss him too much and i think of him dearly...especially when im alone. this pass spring when the cotton tree bloomed and the cotton fell from it, the smell only brought back memories...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    Hello all, I came across this link looking

    for others that were about my late husband who was killed after leaving work and the killers still have not been found...that was 7/24/12. A lot like all of you, it's so very hard as although I have moved on with my life and re-married there isn't a day I don't talk to him, cry...
    MickiJackson MickiJackson 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2014

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    Open to my husband I miss you

    so damn much it hurts every day. Why did you have to love her more then us? What did she give you that we couldn't it would have been easier to understand had it been a women but no its a damn drug a chemical replaced your family in your heart. I gave you everything I have to...
    shaylademps shaylademps 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I Miss My Shorter Half

      Yes my husband was shorter than I, didn't really mind, but when we walked together and passed a store window and I saw our reflection    I did laugh a few times, I lost him two yrs. ago to cancer.... sorry lets go back and correct that, he died two...
    grams grams 56-60, F 8 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    My husband & i have been together 4years he

    recently got arrested for agg assault with a deadly weapon & sum more charges i know he's going to be gone for a few years due to his pass record i have 3 kids and im just fed up i dont want to leave him but enough is enough he made sure we were tooking care of wen he was out...
    Tisshh Tisshh 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I just lost my Husband on July 29th,

    2015. He was my world. We were together everyday for 25 years. We were not like other couples who had their own jobs and friends. We went to college and worked together. I don't know how to go on without him. I know that he is helping me get through this time, but I am running...
    StaceySyl StaceySyl 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I think at times that he is no longer in pain

    and is in a better place but then the guilt engulfs me that I should have done more to help. He passed in my arms while I was giving him a sip of water. Did I cause him to leave before his time? Was he going already? Why did he die? I don't know but I feel so guilty. He would...
    StaceySyl StaceySyl 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 13

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    We are still married

    and he is right beside me every night, but at the same time it is like he's not even there,
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    My husband's been in service

    for almost four years. We've been married for five years i feel our marriage is falling apart due to living apart in two different states i don't know what to do anymore.
    carmel2015 carmel2015 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I Miss My Husband!!!

    Seems like the new story of my life "I miss my husband." We were married in September and about 2 weeks later we found out we were expecting. In January he left for training in Fort Benning. I had basically just started to get used to my new life...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    Looking through old photos.

    I miss my husband very much! He's the cutest thing and makes me very happy. Happy for everything that he does and continues to do even though he's deployed.
    SunnyRaye SunnyRaye 18-21, F Jun 23

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    My Soul Mate Is Gone, My Life Has Been Destroyed.

    I met my husband the summer of 1999 while playing volley ball at the river.  I had recently came out of a relationship that was not so great and was not looking for a relationship.  We hit it off right away and became great friends.  By Oct 2000, we were married...
    GeneosLady GeneosLady 41-45, F 23 Responses Jun 5, 2007

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    Although he's alive, healthy

    and well, I miss him. I miss the closeness we once shared. I miss the times we would text and say "I love you" every time we talked. I miss the feeling of being the only one in his heart and on his mind. Sometimes I feel stupid for going back with him, knowing her name is...
    CandyCrushers CandyCrushers 36-40, F Jul 14

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    I miss the husband I never had.

    Our wedding day was a complete nightmare for me. He suffers from P.T.S.D. and he had a complete meltdown to the point of of cussing me out on our wedding night. He apologized relentlessly but no sooner than we returned home he met someone and cheated with her. Again he promises...
    KarenLong15 KarenLong15 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I lost my soulmate of over a decade years (but

    married for less than 2 years) when he got into an accident overseas. That was in July 2014. My biggest regret is being rude and irritable in our last messages, and opting not to call him the night before he passed, thinking that I would tell him all the nice stuff face to face...
    MrsC0314 MrsC0314 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    Missing Him

    missing his "hi wife" sms in the middle of work, missing him when he enters home with a huge smile saying "hiiii darling", missing his acts while we prepare dinner together, missing his kiss on the forehead while i work, missing his "hayyyyyyyooooooo" while i tease him, missing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    I Miss Him Some Times But Not Always

    You should be in my marriage....I'm not...lol...he is gone 3 to 5 days every week....and I just stay around with nothing to do but go to the beach or fishing....mostly fishing....! plant a new flower...play with the dog....if he is on a 5 day trip I some times go for...
    Leiza350 Leiza350 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2014

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    I lost my husband 6 months ago.

    Had a wonderful dinner the night before. He went to asleep and after him I went to sleep too. I didn't notice any wrong with him. Next day I woke up and realized that he had a heart attack. He passed on December 21 and I miss him a lot.God gave me the best man in the world, he...
    Bertha12 Bertha12 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 12

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    We just had the most intense phone sex ever .

    WOW. Then one of the best discussions . Then laughed our ***** off . I hate being so far away from him . Hope I can make it to him , and surprise him .
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Pregnant With First Child and Husband's Deploying

    Hi, My name is Andrea and I've been married to a marine for 6 months.  My husband is stationed in Oceanside and I don't really know anybody here.  I'm 4 months pregnant and I'm really stressed and was just looking for someone to talk to.  I don't really know what...
    deiawells deiawells 26-30 7 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    I really miss my husband.

    I lost him August 15, 2014. We were married for 12 1/2 years together for 14. We have two kids. Some days are ok, some are so unbearable that I feel like I will never feel happy again. He was my best friend. I am having a really hard time with his death.
    kwickham75 kwickham75 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (New International

    Version) Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always...
    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F Nov 4, 2014

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    I lost my husband if fourth five years last

    week. Freddie I miss you. He told he before he passed away to try and become a social butterfly. And I'm tryin my best.
    Jenniferheart Jenniferheart 70+, F 7 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    Husband is deployed for almost 2 months now,

    5 to go. I miss waking up to him every day, but he keeps in contact. I hear from him almost every day and so far he has sent me flowers each month! He makes sure I know that I'm loved and missed. I wouldn't want any other man in my life other than him. Very thankful and...
    SunnyRaye SunnyRaye 18-21, F Jun 21

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    he just isnt the man I married.

    this addiction has changed him so much and I am so alone and left with lies and secrets.
    taram1411 taram1411 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I'm still scared about going out into public

    because I'm not very convincing women I still look very much like a man well at least I think so. I think that's all I have to say. ok I wish that I still had a girlfriend I don't like being alone it really sucks she won't have me back I've been trying for three months over. the...
    watcher369 watcher369 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I miss my husband, I haven't seen him

    since the beginning of the month. He comes home in two days! I'm so excited! It will be a good night! <3
    foreveraaprincess foreveraaprincess 22-25, F Jun 28

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    I think he may enjoy men

    rather than me
    Roberto6699 Roberto6699 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    As I've written before my husband is a truck

    driver and is gone for long stretches sometimes. Almost three weeks now. I love and miss him so much when he's not home. Hopefully in a few days I will have him in my arms again.
    mztruble mztruble 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    We are going to be apart a few days

    and I miss him already :(
    xoSincerelyYoursxo xoSincerelyYoursxo 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    When They Have to Go Away

    when i met my future husband of course i didnt know that he was the future one and didnt know that i would soon be put through the worst thing in my life.  Love someone so much that you dont want to get up and go to work, and you cant wait to get home to them..and...
    kellyann970 kellyann970 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 24, 2006

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    My Husband Is Soon to Leave..

    my husband and i met last september, and this year in march, we were married. he was supposed to be leaving in august, but they changed it to june (this month). then a little while ago, they changed it to september 11th.. isnt that ironic? im choosing to take that as a good omen...
    Cordelia Cordelia 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2007

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    Everything I Had Is Gone

    My husband of 13 years has left me and please don't anyone get on here and say he was an *** and I'm better off.  He was the best spouse ever and I just wore him down with my personal issues and verbal abuse.  I should have gotten counseling.  I offered that - or...
    MetalFatigue MetalFatigue 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    my husband went to jail

    because my stepson lied about abuse. My husband had to take a plea to get out of jail and is now on probation. I had to leave the state with our kids or they were going to be taken away from us. My husband cant move where we are until he gets off probation and is now talking...
    shivasgirl shivasgirl 46-50, F May 20

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    I just lost my husband July 10th 2014 from a

    massive heart attack. We have been together for 12 years - married for 9. He had heart disease in his family - lost his dad when he was 45 and his uncle at 28. He had just been to the doctor the day before - routine for a cold - NO SIGNS - I dont understand. I cant stop...
    margob74 margob74 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    He's not dead or anything.

    But he works A LOT and when he is home he just wants to b left alone. I miss talking to him.
    blugurl blugurl 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    My husband has been incarcerated

    for 7 months. He has to serve 2 yrs, but unfortunately he is still in the county jail due to overcrowding of the prisons. He is my best friend, my rock, my praying buddy, my lover and my soulmate. He was a good provider and he loves and respects me unconditionally. When he first...
    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    This Weekend

    My husband is going to be working long hours this weekend because he took on some extra work. It shouldn't matter as much. I never get to sleep in the same bed with him since he works the graveyard shift and he is arriving home when I am just barely waking up. Even on the days he...
    FortressV FortressV 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    We live together, we work in the same hospital,

    we work the same days, we drive to work together....... But we still in love with each other
    hzel1323 hzel1323 26-30, F Jul 23, 2014

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    My husband and I are

    both in the U.S. Military as officers. We are in the Air Force and stationed at different military installations. My husband is overseas and I am stateside. We are currently separated by almost 3,000 miles the Pacific Ocean. He will be back home in 9 months. He will arrive...
    femaleinhomesaunaandpool femaleinhomesaunaandpool 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    My husband has been gone

    for nearly 4 years. He is not allowed near me as he could be arrested and is not altogether a nice man. In four years I haven't let myself miss him or think about him much accept in therapy. Today I missed him for the first time. I miss how he would text me every day to see how...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    My husband is at sea,

    a professional officer in the navy, home infrequent, does not bother with love and sex, very frustrating.
    Roberto6699 Roberto6699 36-40, F Oct 29, 2014