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I Miss My Husband

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    Waiting For Puzzle Piece

    It's been since the first of this month (May) that my husband is in jail. I know that there has been others who have been apart longer but this is really affecting me! My husband and I are always together, day and night, we're inseparable! So I miss him SOO much right now. It...
    FidjiMurphy FidjiMurphy 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    My Husband Is Afghanistan

    He left at 1.30am wednesday morning. He'll be gone for 6months, I'll miss him so much. It's hard being an army wife away from my friends and family but I know that I'll get through it and it's always worth the wait!!!
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 13, 2007

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    My Husband Is Soon to Leave..

    my husband and i met last september, and this year in march, we were married. he was supposed to be leaving in august, but they changed it to june (this month). then a little while ago, they changed it to september 11th.. isnt that ironic? im choosing to take that as a good omen...
    Cordelia Cordelia 19-21, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2007

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    I Feel Lost And Isolated

    My husband and I were married back in 1998 and we have twin daughters that were born in 2000. My husband was from Australia and I was born and raised in Georgia. When the girls were 6 years old we moved to Australia to be close to his family. We had a relatively normal and...
    kimmiejs kimmiejs 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    My love died from liver failure

    after being misdiagnosed for 7 years. Finally found it was hepatitis. He was holding my hand while we were driving in the car and kissed it when I thought I would give him a shot. For the next 17 years he held my hand when we walked, road in the car, snorkeled and even when we...
    Gykjaj Gykjaj 56-60, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I Know My Husband Is Cheating

    I know my husband has been cheating on me. I have found credit card bills and receipts for dinners, places, items that have nothing to do with me. I have confronted him on a couple of them, 2 years ago. He explained a Victoria Secret $90 charge as stolen credit card number. I...
    missybaby29 missybaby29 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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    My Love.. My Life....

    It all seems like being started just yesterday... but no it has started around 3yrs from now... Mine is a love marriage .. a typical of its kind.. I trusted this man blindly... He got thru wrong freinds... addiction... drugs... God knows what... where n how went wrong... he went...
    Lalitmona Lalitmona 22-25 2 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    Pregnant With First Child and Husband's Deploying

    Hi, My name is Andrea and I've been married to a marine for 6 months.  My husband is stationed in Oceanside and I don't really know anybody here.  I'm 4 months pregnant and I'm really stressed and was just looking for someone to talk to.  I don't really know what...
    deiawells deiawells 26-30 6 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    When They Have to Go Away

    when i met my future husband of course i didnt know that he was the future one and didnt know that i would soon be put through the worst thing in my life.  Love someone so much that you dont want to get up and go to work, and you cant wait to get home to them..and...
    kellyann970 kellyann970 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 24, 2006

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    Appreciate Your Soldier

    Instead of feeling mad at them for leaving you with everything kids, house and life remember they had a commitment to fulfill and are doing a wonderful job. Faith can get you thru anything. You don't have to see or touch your husband to know how much you care for one another. Our...
    luvmylt luvmylt 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Never See Him Anymore

    He is forever at the pub and out with mates, and when he comes home he is always tired. The only times i see him is in the morning, I get up early to make him brekkie and he wakes up, showers, eats, and leaves usually gives me a kiss on the forehead. Then i spend the day alone...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F Apr 15, 2013

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    On December 18, 2013,

    my husband and I were Christmas shopping all day and making purchases in preparation for a cruise, the week before our 18th anniversary in February. We had a great day together. We got home that evening, wasn't even 10 minutes, he passed out. I called 911 and they had him...
    ashirk ashirk 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    No Matter How Far Away I Will Always Love You!

    When my husband and I first started dating 4 years ago he used several songs all by 'The Cure' to tell me that he loved me before he got the courage up to actually say it.  Only weeks later we were discussing the possibilities of him being redeployed to Iraq which is where...
    ArmyWife526 ArmyWife526 21-25, F 5 Responses Mar 18, 2008

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    Hello all, this is the first time I have

    attempted contact with the outside world since my husbands incarceration in May 2013. We have been married for six years, together for ten. He is serving a twelve year sentence for federal drug conspiracy. We have four children three redheaded brown eyes beauties ages 5 ,3 & 1...
    FiveCoopers FiveCoopers 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    Harder Then I Thought

    I met my husband a year and a half ago. I was going through a divorce and so was he. His sister introduced us and we both decided we didnt want anything very serious and we just hang out when had time. I have no idea when it got serious but I knew after just a month or so I...
    nurse12803 nurse12803 21-25, F 6 Responses May 22, 2007

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    My Husband Was Wounded In Iraq Then Became Addicted to His Prescription Medication...

    Because of his addiction he overdosed. I found him and he ended up in the hospital for days. After that they would not let him live at home because the military wanted to keep an eye on him.  They put him in the barracks at the hospital in DC. This was in December. We haven...
    wifeofawoundedmarine wifeofawoundedmarine 22-25 2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    It is 4 months now since my husband,

    my lifeline, died in my arms. Such an ultimate betrayal from every doctor!! I was told the Wednesday before he died he would be fine. He died in my arms Sunday morning!! I blame the lymphoma doctors at Hackensack Hospital. Sloppiest medical care ever! I hate them all. My...
    adero22 adero22 56-60, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I Miss My Shorter Half

      Yes my husband was shorter than I, didn't really mind, but when we walked together and passed a store window and I saw our reflection    I did laugh a few times, I lost him two yrs. ago to cancer.... sorry lets go back and correct that, he died two...
    grams grams 56-60, F 8 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    Yet I Stand By My Choice

    I've never felt as healthy as I did with him.  He was the first person I had a completely honest relationship with. Being apart is physically painful, and seems to set the teeth of the earth on edge. I left when it hurt more to stay than it did to miss him.  That's still true...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    I Miss My Husband , Military Life Isn't Easy

        My husband and I met last year in June and started dating in July. We got married in January.  We moved into housing in January. He left for Iraq in March. It was really hard at first. I'm not saying it is easy now, it's not. But it is easier then it was...
    Derekswife Derekswife 26-30, F 29 Responses Jun 3, 2007

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    Missing Him

    missing his "hi wife" sms in the middle of work, missing him when he enters home with a huge smile saying "hiiii darling", missing his acts while we prepare dinner together, missing his kiss on the forehead while i work, missing his "hayyyyyyyooooooo" while i tease him, missing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    I lost my fiancee on Feburary 5th of 2014.

      We had our wedding day planned for the day after Valentine's Day, Feburary 15th of 2014.  It is messed up and so unexpected.  The date today is March 9th of 2014 and it is so sereal.  We have a son who is 14 months old.  I have explored other internet...
    Emmelia1 Emmelia1 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I Miss My Bestfriend More Then Anything

    I miss the boy I started dating in high school....the one who gave me kissies when I get off the bus even though he was grumpy and not a morning person,or buy me the craziest things just because....would walk the trials behind his house for hours just holding hands talking, lay...
    whycheat whycheat 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Needing To Stay, Wanting To Go

    My husband of 31 years died in my arms on January 24, 2013. His was a short, terrible illness, with multiple surgeries, interventions, and the misery of my reserved husband having to give over his privacy and modesty to the wonderful staff who assisted in his care. The staff...
    Valita84 Valita84 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    My Husband Died

    My husband died suddenly of a massive heart attack on July 4th.  He was 55, and had no symptoms or warning signs.  I can't bear to live without him.  We've been together since I was 16 and I'm 46 now.  I've never lived on my own, and I don't know what it's...
    jbonestone jbonestone 46-50 124 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    My Heart Is Broken

    11 WEEKS AGO TONIGHT THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, THE FATHER OF MY TWO KIDS, THE MAN THAT MADE ME COMPLETE, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND THE MAN THAT ALWAIYS SPOILED ME LEFT ME. MY HEART IS BROKEN, OUR KIDS HEARTS ARE BROKEN. IKEEP THINKING HE WILL WALK IN THE DOOR ANYTIME NOW, OR I'LL...
    wolfssunrise wolfssunrise 51-55 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Hello all, I came across this link looking

    for others that were about my late husband who was killed after leaving work and the killers still have not been found...that was 7/24/12. A lot like all of you, it's so very hard as although I have moved on with my life and re-married there isn't a day I don't talk to him, cry...
    MickiJackson MickiJackson 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    My Husband Is Deployed

    I met my husband 13 years ago, I was 12 at the time, we started "going out" we had our good days and bad days like every young couple does.  We dated through our Jr. High years, and through high school, then we started to have a rocky relationship, we split up...
    armywife1 armywife1 21-25, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2007

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    Gone

    Two weeks of Hell, and its over. God, you should have seen the blood. He starts coughing. He doubles over and starts moaning. Took me seconds to move, I was at his side, crying, whispering words that I can't even remember. The rest was a blur of motion, helping him to the car...
    NeverRose NeverRose 22-25, F 3 Responses May 20, 2013

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    Codependent

    my husband isn't in the military. he isn't a truck driver. he's not a corporate guy who travels for business. he is home on the weekends (Friday through sunday). and he is home during the day. but when he goes to work in the afternoon, I start missing him terribly. I go to bed...
    shadowplayTH shadowplayTH 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Missing Him

    Every now and again my husband has to leave me and go away for more than a couple of weeks.  At first it is fun, no schedule to keep, no dinners to make unless I'm hungry, complete control over the TV .  Sleep as late as I like or get up as early as I want and not worry about...
    beach7 beach7 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    My Husband Died Thinking I Didnt Love Him...

    I became homeless when I was sixteen years old.I stayed that way until 1998 when I met the only family I would ever know, the best friend I would ever have, the only one who would help save me. I met my husband. We spent 11 years together wonderful happy years. We had 3 children...
    jennbell12 jennbell12 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    My Husband Gave Me My Space And Now I Miss Him!

    My husband and I have been having problems for quite some time. He has been unemployed and depressed for a while which means I have been the breadwinner, housemaid, and errand runner for the past year. The talking didn't help so I told him I wanted to seperate until he got his...
    Kaiteci Kaiteci 22-25 Mar 11, 2013

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    I have the most amazing husband,

    I met him while I was abroad, we were together for 7 months and married for 4 months before I left. I left when I became pregnant because I thought I would have access to better healthcare back home. My family were never supportive of my marriage so when I got back I was...
    mily24 mily24 18-21, F Mar 12

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    Olive Theory

    In the span of three months, I had my second child, and lost my mother and my husband suddenly. And my husband is the only one who can get me through all this. To say I miss him doesn't seem to even come close to describing the loss, pain, and gut-wrenching nightmare I am in...
    justme0909 justme0909 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I lost my husband if fourth five years last

    week. Freddie I miss you. He told he before he passed away to try and become a social butterfly. And I'm tryin my best.
    Jenniferheart Jenniferheart 70+, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    Not Long Now :)

    My husband came home for R&R a few weeks ago, now he's hoping to be home March 10th, although this is likely to change I'm excited, if it does change ot will only be put back a week I think. I can't wait for him to come home. I miss him more than ever since he came home for R...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    I Miss Him Some Times But Not Always

    You should be in my marriage....I'm not...lol...he is gone 3 to 5 days every week....and I just stay around with nothing to do but go to the beach or fishing....mostly fishing....! plant a new flower...play with the dog....if he is on a 5 day trip I some times go for...
    Leiza350 Leiza350 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    It's been almost 3 months

    since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an even bigger heart and The patience of a saint. Always taking the time to try and help someone to better themselves . I'll...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Miss My Husband!!!

    Seems like the new story of my life "I miss my husband." We were married in September and about 2 weeks later we found out we were expecting. In January he left for training in Fort Benning. I had basically just started to get used to my new life...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    My Sailor.my Hero

    Hey all you Navy girlfriends, fiances, wives, boyfriends, husbands, etc!!!!!! Come on over to My Sailor.My Hero on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/MySailor.MyHero We are a group for any and all Navy s/os and family members! We love sharing stories and pictures, answering...
    caitc91 caitc91 18-21, F Dec 9, 2012

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    My Soul Mate Is Gone, My Life Has Been Destroyed.

    I met my husband the summer of 1999 while playing volley ball at the river.  I had recently came out of a relationship that was not so great and was not looking for a relationship.  We hit it off right away and became great friends.  By Oct 2000, we were married...
    GeneosLady GeneosLady 41-45, F 21 Responses Jun 5, 2007

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    Navy Stole Half My Heart

    So...there's this guy...well, my husband, actually, and he has been ripped away from me.  I want him back.  Unlike some other posters, we have not been married too long.  We actually only got married in February, but we go way back.  He pretty much was my...
    navywifey021909 navywifey021909 26-30, F 2 Responses May 19, 2009

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    I miss my husband horribly!

    !!! He's been gone only two days and I can't stand it anymore. Less than 24hrs to go.
    sexywhw sexywhw 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This Weekend

    My husband is going to be working long hours this weekend because he took on some extra work. It shouldn't matter as much. I never get to sleep in the same bed with him since he works the graveyard shift and he is arriving home when I am just barely waking up. Even on the days he...
    FortressV FortressV 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Greatful

    I miss him very much he is away at work most of the time, I know the kids miss him too. Sometimes it is hard watching me son because I know he really misses his dad. I am sure my daughter does to but she is now at that age when she really doesn't care to much about anything...
    Rai77 Rai77 31-35, F Aug 25, 2013

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    Worse Today

    Today has been a little worse. I went christmas shopping so I have been thinking about how hard it will be without him.....I hate that he'll be away. Yesterday we talked about a lot of stuff. He knows I have alwasy wanted to foster but he has always said never, he won't do it...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Navy Life

     My husband and I will be married for one year in November and he wont be here for that. I know he is in the Navy I married into this lifestyle and i understand it happens I am not complaining about that i am just wishing he didnt have to go lol I miss him so much...
    jwifey jwifey 22-25 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    REMEMBERANCES

    IN MEMORIAL OF JOHN V. HOLT, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE   REMEMBRANCES September 2nd, 2005 Looking at the clock I noted the time to be 11:35 p.m. I held on to him tightly telling him how much I loved him and how happy he made me. His breathing was labored, it had been all...
    SUNNY1212 SUNNY1212 61-65 2 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    My husband and I have been married

    for 12 years. We have four children now and two more, on the way, in the spring of 2014. My husband is in the military and is currently stationed overseas in England for another 18 months. I miss him very much and I know he feels the same way about missing me. We do get a...
    blackinterracialfemale blackinterracialfemale 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    My hubby has been gone

    for two weeks with the Army! I miss him so much and can't not wait until he comes home! Only 7 more days! Sometimes I break down and cry, I feel like I can't do this much longer it is so hard to go from having someone to help me with our 1 yr old daughter to pretty much being a...
    tearformybaby tearformybaby 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    My best friend and husband,

    Gary, died Nov 28, 2012. We were marred for 35 years, have 4 children and 5 grandchildren. He was 60 years old. I thought we would grow really old together. I didn't expect him to come home one day and tell me he had liver cancer. He died four weeks later. I cry every day, I cry...
    gypsytinker gypsytinker 61-65, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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