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I Miss My Husband

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    REMEMBERANCES

    IN MEMORIAL OF JOHN V. HOLT, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE   REMEMBRANCES September 2nd, 2005 Looking at the clock I noted the time to be 11:35 p.m. I held on to him tightly telling him how much I loved him and how happy he made me. His breathing was labored, it had been all...
    SUNNY1212 SUNNY1212 61-65 2 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    It's been one week. My alarm went off,

    I pressed the snooze, I listened like I did every morning for my husbands snore to keep me from falling back to sleep. I hit snooze, he breathed a few times and stopped. I stopped breathing listening for his next breath. I reached over in the dark and pushed his chest. Within...
    PinkFrenchie PinkFrenchie 31-35, F 4 Responses May 27

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    My Husband Was Wounded In Iraq Then Became Addicted to His Prescription Medication...

    Because of his addiction he overdosed. I found him and he ended up in the hospital for days. After that they would not let him live at home because the military wanted to keep an eye on him.  They put him in the barracks at the hospital in DC. This was in December. We haven...
    wifeofawoundedmarine wifeofawoundedmarine 22-25 2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    My Husband Died Thinking I Didnt Love Him...

    I became homeless when I was sixteen years old.I stayed that way until 1998 when I met the only family I would ever know, the best friend I would ever have, the only one who would help save me. I met my husband. We spent 11 years together wonderful happy years. We had 3 children...
    jennbell12 jennbell12 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    No Matter How Far Away I Will Always Love You!

    When my husband and I first started dating 4 years ago he used several songs all by 'The Cure' to tell me that he loved me before he got the courage up to actually say it.  Only weeks later we were discussing the possibilities of him being redeployed to Iraq which is where...
    ArmyWife526 ArmyWife526 21-25, F 5 Responses Mar 18, 2008

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    My fiancé died 3 weeks ago.

    .. We met when we were 16. Since then we were trying to be together but couldn't... In my birthday we met again, without the problems of the past. We were still in love, and decided to move together and engage. 6 beautiful months after that, 3 weeks ago, and 1 month before our...
    Christiana2 Christiana2 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My Husband Is Soon to Leave..

    my husband and i met last september, and this year in march, we were married. he was supposed to be leaving in august, but they changed it to june (this month). then a little while ago, they changed it to september 11th.. isnt that ironic? im choosing to take that as a good omen...
    Cordelia Cordelia 19-21, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2007

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    It's been almost 3 months

    since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an even bigger heart and The patience of a saint. Always taking the time to try and help someone to better themselves . I'll...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    On December 18, 2013,

    my husband and I were Christmas shopping all day and making purchases in preparation for a cruise, the week before our 18th anniversary in February. We had a great day together. We got home that evening, wasn't even 10 minutes, he passed out. I called 911 and they had him...
    ashirk ashirk 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Appreciate Your Soldier

    Instead of feeling mad at them for leaving you with everything kids, house and life remember they had a commitment to fulfill and are doing a wonderful job. Faith can get you thru anything. You don't have to see or touch your husband to know how much you care for one another. Our...
    luvmylt luvmylt 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    When They Have to Go Away

    when i met my future husband of course i didnt know that he was the future one and didnt know that i would soon be put through the worst thing in my life.  Love someone so much that you dont want to get up and go to work, and you cant wait to get home to them..and...
    kellyann970 kellyann970 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 24, 2006

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    I lost my husband if fourth five years last

    week. Freddie I miss you. He told he before he passed away to try and become a social butterfly. And I'm tryin my best.
    Jenniferheart Jenniferheart 70+, F 8 Responses Mar 18

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    Yet I Stand By My Choice

    I've never felt as healthy as I did with him.  He was the first person I had a completely honest relationship with. Being apart is physically painful, and seems to set the teeth of the earth on edge. I left when it hurt more to stay than it did to miss him.  That's still true...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    Greatful

    I miss him very much he is away at work most of the time, I know the kids miss him too. Sometimes it is hard watching me son because I know he really misses his dad. I am sure my daughter does to but she is now at that age when she really doesn't care to much about anything...
    Rai77 Rai77 31-35, F Aug 25, 2013

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    My Soul Mate Is Gone, My Life Has Been Destroyed.

    I met my husband the summer of 1999 while playing volley ball at the river.  I had recently came out of a relationship that was not so great and was not looking for a relationship.  We hit it off right away and became great friends.  By Oct 2000, we were married...
    GeneosLady GeneosLady 41-45, F 21 Responses Jun 5, 2007

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    My love died from liver failure

    after being misdiagnosed for 7 years. Finally found it was hepatitis. He was holding my hand while we were driving in the car and kissed it when I thought I would give him a shot. For the next 17 years he held my hand when we walked, road in the car, snorkeled and even when we...
    Gykjaj Gykjaj 56-60, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I Miss My Husband!!!

    Seems like the new story of my life "I miss my husband." We were married in September and about 2 weeks later we found out we were expecting. In January he left for training in Fort Benning. I had basically just started to get used to my new life...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    Justted Justted 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I just lost my husband July 10th 2014 from a

    massive heart attack. We have been together for 12 years - married for 9. He had heart disease in his family - lost his dad when he was 45 and his uncle at 28. He had just been to the doctor the day before - routine for a cold - NO SIGNS - I dont understand. I cant stop...
    margob74 margob74 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Because we are going on vacation he has been

    working way more than usual and tonight he doesn't get off until way late. So now I'm stuck missing him :-(
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I really miss my husband.

    I lost him August 15, 2014. We were married for 12 1/2 years together for 14. We have two kids. Some days are ok, some are so unbearable that I feel like I will never feel happy again. He was my best friend. I am having a really hard time with his death.
    kwickham75 kwickham75 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Not Long Now :)

    My husband came home for R&R a few weeks ago, now he's hoping to be home March 10th, although this is likely to change I'm excited, if it does change ot will only be put back a week I think. I can't wait for him to come home. I miss him more than ever since he came home for R...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2008

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    I Miss Him Some Times But Not Always

    You should be in my marriage....I'm not...lol...he is gone 3 to 5 days every week....and I just stay around with nothing to do but go to the beach or fishing....mostly fishing....! plant a new flower...play with the dog....if he is on a 5 day trip I some times go for...
    Leiza350 Leiza350 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    I Feel Lost And Isolated

    My husband and I were married back in 1998 and we have twin daughters that were born in 2000. My husband was from Australia and I was born and raised in Georgia. When the girls were 6 years old we moved to Australia to be close to his family. We had a relatively normal and...
    kimmiejs kimmiejs 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Hello all, this is the first time I have

    attempted contact with the outside world since my husbands incarceration in May 2013. We have been married for six years, together for ten. He is serving a twelve year sentence for federal drug conspiracy. We have four children three redheaded brown eyes beauties ages 5 ,3 & 1...
    FiveCoopers FiveCoopers 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    Pregnant With First Child and Husband's Deploying

    Hi, My name is Andrea and I've been married to a marine for 6 months.  My husband is stationed in Oceanside and I don't really know anybody here.  I'm 4 months pregnant and I'm really stressed and was just looking for someone to talk to.  I don't really know what...
    deiawells deiawells 26-30 7 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    This Weekend

    My husband is going to be working long hours this weekend because he took on some extra work. It shouldn't matter as much. I never get to sleep in the same bed with him since he works the graveyard shift and he is arriving home when I am just barely waking up. Even on the days he...
    FortressV FortressV 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I do not live in the past: all the time !

    ! I miss my husband, I lived every minute of my life for a lot of years just to make him happy. He never left my mind, even in the worst of the worst fights we had, even if I cried for 3 days before he put an end to the fight. It didn't matter, I loved him and it was always him...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F Jun 3

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    I miss my husband horribly!

    !!! He's been gone only two days and I can't stand it anymore. Less than 24hrs to go.
    sexywhw sexywhw 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    My husband has been gone

    for nearly 4 years. He is not allowed near me as he could be arrested and is not altogether a nice man. In four years I haven't let myself miss him or think about him much accept in therapy. Today I missed him for the first time. I miss how he would text me every day to see how...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    My hubby has been gone

    for two weeks with the Army! I miss him so much and can't not wait until he comes home! Only 7 more days! Sometimes I break down and cry, I feel like I can't do this much longer it is so hard to go from having someone to help me with our 1 yr old daughter to pretty much being a...
    tearformybaby tearformybaby 18-21, F Apr 4

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    We live together, we work in the same hospital,

    we work the same days, we drive to work together....... But we still in love with each other
    hzel1323 hzel1323 26-30, F Jul 23

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    Exactly one week ago my husband decided

    after 13 years of being together, married for seven, he is unhappy and moved out. We have 2 very young children. When asked why his response was: 1. We had a bad 3 years after my 1st and 2nd child were born. 2. He feels I checked out of our marriage. 3. He feels unwanted by...
    isthismylifereally isthismylifereally 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    My husband died unexpectedly in his garage

    that he was in the process of building ,hypertensive heart disease was said to be the cause of death .This was on Feb 4 of this year and i walked in the garage to check on him and he was on the floor. Rescue was called but it was too late. Not sure how i will ever get over this...
    D6819 D6819 66-70, F 6 Responses Apr 28

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    Missing Him

    missing his "hi wife" sms in the middle of work, missing him when he enters home with a huge smile saying "hiiii darling", missing his acts while we prepare dinner together, missing his kiss on the forehead while i work, missing his "hayyyyyyyooooooo" while i tease him, missing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    I Miss My Shorter Half

      Yes my husband was shorter than I, didn't really mind, but when we walked together and passed a store window and I saw our reflection    I did laugh a few times, I lost him two yrs. ago to cancer.... sorry lets go back and correct that, he died two...
    grams grams 56-60, F 8 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    Worse Today

    Today has been a little worse. I went christmas shopping so I have been thinking about how hard it will be without him.....I hate that he'll be away. Yesterday we talked about a lot of stuff. He knows I have alwasy wanted to foster but he has always said never, he won't do it...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    My husband and I have been married

    for 12 years. We have four children now and two more, on the way, in the spring of 2014. My husband is in the military and is currently stationed overseas in England for another 18 months. I miss him very much and I know he feels the same way about missing me. We do get a...
    blackinterracialfemale blackinterracialfemale 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    Everything I Had Is Gone

    My husband of 13 years has left me and please don't anyone get on here and say he was an *** and I'm better off.  He was the best spouse ever and I just wore him down with my personal issues and verbal abuse.  I should have gotten counseling.  I offered that - or...
    MetalFatigue MetalFatigue 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    It is 4 months now since my husband,

    my lifeline, died in my arms. Such an ultimate betrayal from every doctor!! I was told the Wednesday before he died he would be fine. He died in my arms Sunday morning!! I blame the lymphoma doctors at Hackensack Hospital. Sloppiest medical care ever! I hate them all. My...
    adero22 adero22 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    Hello all, I came across this link looking

    for others that were about my late husband who was killed after leaving work and the killers still have not been found...that was 7/24/12. A lot like all of you, it's so very hard as although I have moved on with my life and re-married there isn't a day I don't talk to him, cry...
    MickiJackson MickiJackson 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    My husband is working the late shift tonight

    and I miss him terribly. It is like our bed doesn't feel right without him in it :-(
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    We are getting a divorce

    and he moved in with his mother the day he got served with the papers. He still comes over like everyday. I miss him not being here when I wake up :(
    formermartin81 formermartin81 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    After having a baby,my husband is distant to

    our relationship.I love my son so much,his 4 months now.My husbands think that iam having a relaxing life being a fulltime mom.Im on my maternity leave.He never hug me anymore,his never showing affection.I feel like iam alone,unhappy.His been too nice,when he wants to have sex...
    isiah25 isiah25 31-35, F May 22

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    My Husband Died

    My husband died suddenly of a massive heart attack on July 4th.  He was 55, and had no symptoms or warning signs.  I can't bear to live without him.  We've been together since I was 16 and I'm 46 now.  I've never lived on my own, and I don't know what it's...
    jbonestone jbonestone 46-50 132 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    My best friend and husband,

    Gary, died Nov 28, 2012. We were marred for 35 years, have 4 children and 5 grandchildren. He was 60 years old. I thought we would grow really old together. I didn't expect him to come home one day and tell me he had liver cancer. He died four weeks later. I cry every day, I cry...
    gypsytinker gypsytinker 61-65, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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    I lost my fiancee on Feburary 5th of 2014.

      We had our wedding day planned for the day after Valentine's Day, Feburary 15th of 2014.  It is messed up and so unexpected.  The date today is March 9th of 2014 and it is so sereal.  We have a son who is 14 months old.  I have explored other internet...
    Emmelia1 Emmelia1 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    We are still married

    and he is right beside me every night, but at the same time it is like he's not even there,
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    My heart breaks reading stories from women

    who have lost their husbands. Mine passed away two months ago after a year and half battle. I always thought he would get better. We have two children and one grandchild. I hurt for them but also for myself. We were married 28 years but I wish I had another 28 with him. I...
    magnoliahill magnoliahill 46-50, F 1 Response May 31

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